1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. Y'all know what time it is. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: We're back with second date update everybody. So I had 3 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: a Sam what's up? 4 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 2: Sam? 5 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 3: Hey? How you guys doing? Hey? 6 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: Man, I want to talk about your date. I mean, 7 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: everybody knows how this goes. So I understand that she's ghosted. 8 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: We're gonna call her and try to figure some things out, 9 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 1: maybe get you a second date. 10 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:18,959 Speaker 2: But tell us about Erica. What did you guys do 11 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 2: on your date? 12 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 3: I greatly appreciate your efforts. Yes, Erica and I met 13 00:00:25,560 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 3: for drinks in San Jose after meeting on the apps. 14 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 3: I'm very surprised she vanished. She's extremely attractive, she's very confident, 15 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 3: she's funny, she's direct. I thought we had a good rapport. 16 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 2: Okay, would you guys talk about what was your conversation? 17 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 3: We talked about dating expectations, we talked about pet Peeves, 18 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 3: and I honestly thought that it was very refreshing that 19 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 3: we could talk openly about such things. And I feel 20 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 3: like I again, I'm just confused and wondering what happened. 21 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: Okay, that's why we're here. Literally, as explained, I'm gonna 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,120 Speaker 1: call her. We'll have you muted so you can and 23 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: listen in. Just keep it tight some see if I 24 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 1: can salvage this for you. 25 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 3: Okay, very much, appreciate it that I'll do that. 26 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 1: You gott dude. Let me play a song and we'll 27 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: get to it. We'll call Erica. It is Second Date Update, 28 00:01:10,360 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: Star one on one three. It's Marcus in the morning. 29 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: In the middle of Second Date Update, We've got Sam 30 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 1: holding Sam. Are you standing by? Okay, We're gonna call 31 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:20,680 Speaker 1: Erica and try to figure out why she ghosted on you. 32 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: I'd love to get you a second date. But let's 33 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 1: see what she thought of your first date. 34 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 3: Hello. 35 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: Hello, is this Erica Erica. My name is Marcus. I. 36 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: I do the morning show on Star one on one three. 37 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 1: Good morning, Hi, Hey, do you listen. 38 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:44,560 Speaker 2: To the show? 39 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 4: I don't am I going to be in trouble, No, not. 40 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: At all, in fact perfect. 41 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: So we do a segment on the show that it's 42 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 1: our most popular segment because it's kind of a love segment. 43 00:01:59,080 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 2: It's called second Date up Date. 44 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: And I got sent your email from a gentleman that 45 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,240 Speaker 1: took you out on a first date and he's feeling 46 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 1: like maybe you're ghosting him and I'm just here to 47 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: try to figure out if he did something dumb, or 48 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 1: if you've just been busy, or do you have a 49 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: second to talk about your date? The guy's name is 50 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: is Sam? 51 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, sure, sure can we talk about it? 52 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,920 Speaker 4: Like, yeah, no problem? 53 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 2: Okay, So that aided you ghost and b did something 54 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 2: go sideways? 55 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 4: I yeah, I think I guess you could say that. 56 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 4: I just I mean, look, Sam. 57 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 5: Was really is really good looking, and I was just 58 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 5: so relieved when he came into the bar that not 59 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 5: only was he good looking, but that he matched the 60 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 5: pictures that I saw, which was a huge relief. And 61 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:02,079 Speaker 5: uh so we got drinks and he said he likes 62 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 5: his whiskey meat, and so of course I made the 63 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:07,800 Speaker 5: hosier joke about whether or not he he only drinks 64 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 5: black coffee and goes to bed at three am. 65 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 4: But then he just kind. 66 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 5: Of gave me this blank stare and said, no, I'm 67 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 5: not that guy. And so then he went on to 68 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:24,720 Speaker 5: tell me that he doesn't even believe in weekends and 69 00:03:24,800 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 5: actually keeps the same schedule seven days a week. 70 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 4: And so I'm that just kind of threw me for 71 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 4: a loop, because what kind of sociopath doesn't sleep in 72 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 4: on the weekends. 73 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: Like he doesn't sleep So, first of all, your joke 74 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: doesn't land obviously, no, okay, it low key triggered him. 75 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 2: Second of all, uh huh. 76 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 4: And then yeah, and now he doesn't he doesn't believe 77 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 4: in weekends. But I'm still not done. 78 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 5: I'm still not Oh god, Okay. He told me that 79 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 5: he doesn't own a couch because sitting or lounging around 80 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 5: like encourages stagnation, and I think is what he says, 81 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 5: and that he only has standing furniture, so like a 82 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 5: stand up desk, a high top dining table, leaning rail 83 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:10,400 Speaker 5: for when he wants to stand up right. 84 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 4: I don't know. It was. 85 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, just like a ballet situation. 86 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 4: I don't I don't know. I don't think I ever 87 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 4: want to see it. 88 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 5: And I just am so confused how I was such 89 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 5: a good looking guy could be so strange. 90 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 2: Makes me wonder what he's got in the basement. No elaboration, 91 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 2: Oh no, okay. Interesting. Well, the other half of this 92 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 2: is that I've got. 93 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: Actually Sam listening right now because he we're just trying 94 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: to figure this out. Sorry, okay, Sam, are you there? 95 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 3: I am here? Yes? 96 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 2: Do you really not have a couch. 97 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 3: No, No, I did not have a couch as I 98 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:59,280 Speaker 3: As I said it heard encourages detagnation. And I'm I'm 99 00:04:59,320 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 3: a pretty discipl in person and I just I'd like 100 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 3: to keep things efficient and balanced, and so yeah, I 101 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 3: think that a couch is kind of meaningless. 102 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: And yeah, to your point, you're obviously a very disciplined guy. 103 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 1: So just to reiterate, like, you get up at the 104 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: same time every single day, no matter what, full stop. 105 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 2: Yes, for balance, for balance, yes, okay. 106 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, studies have shown that like going to sleep and 107 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 3: maintaining the same strict sleeping patterns promotes so well being. 108 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 2: Erica, what are your thoughts on bed rotting? 109 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 5: I love it. 110 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 4: I can't think of a better way I want to 111 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 4: spend my Saturday. And I just feel bad that this 112 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 4: guy has never experienced it. 113 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: Literally, laying in bed doing nothing or scrolling on your 114 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: phone or reading a. 115 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 5: Book or the joys of bed rotting is so good 116 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 5: after a long week. 117 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm usually not stymied like this, but I'm 118 00:05:55,760 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 3: absolutely floored because honestly, that sounds really lame and I 119 00:06:01,400 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 3: I had no idea you were so lazy. Wow, dude, 120 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 3: I'm thinking this whole decision. 121 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 5: So no, that's that's that's fine. I had already decided 122 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 5: to stop dating this second. 123 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 4: The first day was. 124 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: Over, so all right, you two hang on, please hang 125 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: on please. Yeah this suck, but what do we call that? 126 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 1: A personality conflict? 127 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,919 Speaker 2: Sure? Second, and update back tomorrow morning. 128 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: It's after seven, after nine, And then you've got the 129 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: podcast on the iHeartRadio app. As always, you can download 130 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: and set a pre set. It's Marcus in the Morning.