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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Minnesota Goodbye. I will preface this by saying,

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Speaker 1: there's several emails today about the order of the podcast

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Speaker 1: and back and forth about this and this and the

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Speaker 1: order and the change and blah blah blah, and I

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Speaker 1: will say thank you. I read every single one of them,

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Speaker 1: but it's kind of boring content to read on the radio.

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Speaker 1: So as I appreciate. Somebody said, Bailey, you're doing a

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Speaker 1: great job of uploading the podcast, and so that's really

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Speaker 1: I don't want to spend a lot of time on

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Speaker 1: the podcast order and that type of thing because I'd

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Speaker 1: rather have Jananita do a rant. Yes, so let's have

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Speaker 1: one need to do a rant? You ready, all right?

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Speaker 1: Here is Juanita's weekly rant.

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Speaker 2: Hey, y'all. Hey, So, first of all, I just wanted

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Speaker 2: to give my little two cents.

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Speaker 3: On the bad Body performance during the Some Bowl halftime,

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Speaker 3: and I just want to say that I loved it.

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Speaker 2: It was such a vibe and I'm no lesbian.

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Speaker 3: But them girls that he had gyrating out there on

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Speaker 3: the field, oh my lord.

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Speaker 2: I think I was looking at him more than my

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Speaker 2: husband was.

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Speaker 3: But I didn't understand a fucking word that he bad

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Speaker 3: Bunny said, but he made me proud to be named Janita.

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Speaker 2: So onto the ramts.

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Speaker 3: So this week's rant is about what you guys were

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Speaker 3: talking about, how your body tells you when something's wrong,

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Speaker 3: and that just reminded me.

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Speaker 2: This happened to me about five years ago.

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Speaker 3: So I kept having these bad pains in my side,

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Speaker 3: and I kept thinking it was gas. So I just

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Speaker 3: kept popping gas peel gas ex peels, and my husband's.

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Speaker 2: Like, why don't you just go far? I'm like, excuse me,

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Speaker 2: idiot MD. If it was that easy, I would have

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Speaker 2: did that a fucking long time ago.

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Speaker 3: But I just kept getting worse and worse and worse,

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Speaker 3: and I kept trying to lay down. I kept trying

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Speaker 3: to fall asleep. Something wouldn't let me go to sleep.

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Speaker 3: I kept jumping up, and every time I'd get up,

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Speaker 3: I'd get dizzy and I couldn't hear. So then finally

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Speaker 3: he took me to the emergency room. So they took

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Speaker 3: me to the emergency room. They couldn't figure out what

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Speaker 3: was going going on. So they did a cat scan

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Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, what the fuck is going on? And

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Speaker 2: they said that my spleen erupted boom and I was

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Speaker 1: Oh shit.

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Speaker 2: And I think that was like.

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Speaker 3: The scariest moment of my life because the doctor told

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Speaker 3: me if I actually had a fell asleep, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So people, do you need to pay attention when your body?

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Speaker 3: Your body does naturally give you clues when something ain't right,

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Speaker 3: the next morning.

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Speaker 2: Well that's my rent for this week. I love you guys, bye.

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Speaker 1: We love you back. That's some good advice. I think

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Speaker 1: that I can only say my frustration with doctors is

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Speaker 1: I've had this belly problem for years and it hurts.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it hurts all the time. Sometimes it hurts for

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Speaker 1: no reason. The only thing that I can do that

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Speaker 1: tired of doctors because they're doctors. But the last doctor

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Speaker 1: tired of going to the doctor about this. Yeah, and

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Speaker 4: He'll do an autopsy on you and it turns out

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Speaker 4: like you ate a balloon once. Yeah, and it's just

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Speaker 5: Haven't you done X rays of your stomach?

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Speaker 1: I've done everything, Yeah, and they just they just they

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Speaker 1: just can't find it. So thank you, Bailey. Doctor Bailey

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Speaker 1: wanted to thank you, thank you for it. For the rant.

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Speaker 1: Next one, this is from Rebecca. I was thinking about

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Speaker 1: things that bring me a little joy in my daily life.

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Speaker 1: Here are a few. I like this already. This could

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Speaker 1: be kind of fun. Taking a big old drink of

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Speaker 1: times doing wordle or connections. Same. I do it every

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Speaker 1: morning when I load my dishwasher and everything fits perfectly

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Speaker 1: that one. Taking off my bra when I get home.

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Speaker 1: Do you still not wear a bra, Bailey? I do

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Speaker 1: not know, never, like, not right now.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not right now.

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Speaker 4: But if I'm wearing like a dress or something that

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Speaker 1: Okay, can I ask a question as an ignorant guy.

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Speaker 1: I grew up thinking that if you don't wear a bra,

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Speaker 4: I feel like that's a myth, But I don't know

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Speaker 4: because I don't have boobs, so that kind of information

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Speaker 5: But that's according to her, what's helped her interesting.

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Speaker 1: Another thing that brings Rebecca joy I like this when

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Speaker 1: It always makes me smile thinking about how that dog

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Speaker 5: Or when you drive up and you look at the

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Speaker 6: And you're like.

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Speaker 1: Using a towel fresh out of the dryer recommendation towel warmer, Rebecca,

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Speaker 1: I use it every morning. It is like a little

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Speaker 1: get out, there's nothing like the feel. I cannot I

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Speaker 1: But God, does that feel good?

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Speaker 5: Does it feel good in the summer?

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Speaker 1: Even?

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Speaker 1: And now, do you guys have anything that brings you

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Speaker 1: small amounts of joy throughout your day? Yes? Every afternoon

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Speaker 6: Currently, I know it's only temporary, but I have two

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Speaker 6: And then and I also started implementing a little walking

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Speaker 5: But that's it.

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Speaker 5: Each other like I love. He holds you back. He

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Speaker 1: Patty's probably close to my age. He says, I grew

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Speaker 1: me know that she was probably a nervous wreck. This

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Speaker 1: But that was all we knew back then. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: all you do, love, Patty, Thank you, Patty. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: Their grandparents lived in Jordan, Montana. Now that is a

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Speaker 1: They were fifteen and thirteen years old.

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Speaker 5: Get published ins.

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Speaker 1: Oh, they got all over the newspaper. Yes, I think

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Speaker 1: Well, they came through South Dakota, Okay, so then they

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Speaker 1: That's when I'm getting married. We've had it planned since

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Speaker 1: I'm still very much disgusted, engrossed out by their relationship.

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Speaker 1: She texted me last week inviting me to the gender

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Speaker 1: It's more of a moral dilemma than anything. But I'd

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Speaker 1: you're getting married, do you know what, Well, that's around

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Speaker 1: my date. But if that makes you happy, Oh you're

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Speaker 1: It sounds to me like you don't this is just me.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you don't like her very much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because like even her saying well, I'm gonna get

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Speaker 4: it just seems like it's both ways too, that you

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Speaker 5: I don't know I would be mad.

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Speaker 1: If it was, I think so I would be mad too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like you're you're valid in being upset.

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Speaker 5: I agree.

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Speaker 6: I also try to think of how I would feel

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Speaker 1: the time we have for today. On the Minnesota Goodbye,

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Speaker 1: and we'll do that tomorrow. Send your stories about I

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Speaker 1: don't know what your parents used to let there's a

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Speaker 1: When you were a kid. I remember when I was

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