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Speaker 1: Second date update on internshown in your morning show. You

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Speaker 1: meet somebody, whether it's on the apps or in person,

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Speaker 1: you think they're different, you think they could be the one,

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Speaker 1: but then they stop talking to you. We try to

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Speaker 1: see exactly what is going on. Jessica, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: So walk us through this. You and Ben first matched where.

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Speaker 2: So we matched on Hinge?

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Speaker 1: Okay, and that was about how long ago and a

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Speaker 1: half weeks ago? Okay? And what about Ben made him

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Speaker 1: pop on Hinge in the Sea of Fish.

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Speaker 3: Well, I obviously thought he was attractive, and we chatted

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Speaker 3: a little bit, you know, it's your messaging back and

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Speaker 3: forth and just good conversation. So he asked for us

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Speaker 3: to go out on a first date and we went

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Speaker 3: to the top golf just kind of fun, you know,

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Speaker 3: chill kind of date, had a great time, and so

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Speaker 3: then I think it was that was the first week,

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Speaker 3: and then last week we went on a second date,

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Speaker 3: went out to dinner, and he's just like the whole time,

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Speaker 3: he's taken initiative, he's he's been proactive and you know,

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Speaker 3: asked me on that first day and then followed up

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Speaker 3: asked me on a second date, and the whole time

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Speaker 3: during dinner, asking a lot of great questions of just

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Speaker 3: kind of appreciated the way he kind of took that

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what I want to bring out because you

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Speaker 1: it's kind of like, oh, I know what I'm here.

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Speaker 1: But you made it seem like he was making an

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Speaker 1: effort to like date you or at least take you out,

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Speaker 1: and like, you know, the effort was there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, Yeah, I just wanted to really get to

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Speaker 3: know me how he made me feel.

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Speaker 1: So we do top golf, We do dinner. How do

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Speaker 1: we leave at dinner? Do we have a little key?

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Speaker 1: Do we talk about seeing each other again? What happens?

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Speaker 3: Well, we he drove me home and then we He

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Speaker 4: A kiss on the cheek.

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Speaker 3: I was I'm thinking it was going to be a

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Speaker 3: first kiss, but just a kiss on the cheek, and then.

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Speaker 4: We save it. We didn't really say he.

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Speaker 3: Didn't say anything in particular about falling up.

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Speaker 4: He just said.

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Speaker 3: Have a good night, piculator or whatever, like nothing.

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Speaker 1: And this was last week, correct, right? Since then you wait,

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Speaker 1: a couple of days, no text, no calls. You've actually

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Speaker 1: reached out to him, no response? Correct?

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Speaker 3: Yes, And I hate I hate doing that. Like I

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Speaker 4: I text her or not?

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm tired of waiting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah I did.

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Speaker 1: Well, let me catch you out. The one thing I

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Speaker 1: want to bring up is you mentioned on your hinge

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Speaker 1: appear's that he blocked you or moved he as a match.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's I think because he like, I know he's

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Speaker 3: still on that because my friend who's on it saw

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Speaker 1: Okay, and that's weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I know he's still on there. But when

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Speaker 3: I try and look him up on there now and

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Speaker 3: go back to our messages, I can't. He's he's got

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Speaker 3: it looks as though he has bought me, which I

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Speaker 3: don't know.

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Speaker 4: So it's yeah, it's weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So let's do this then, Jessica. Let's call Ben

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Speaker 1: try get his side of the story, because I'm confused

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Speaker 1: to especially because that's such a dramatic move.

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Speaker 4: To like what could have possibly happened.

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Speaker 1: I don't disagree. I call him for Ben, please, this

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Speaker 1: has been man it's interns. John. I got Sauce and

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Speaker 1: Rose here as well. Can we talk to you on

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Speaker 1: the show real quick about something nothing bad, Just a

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Speaker 1: couple of seconds your time, if you'd be so kind.

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Speaker 2: Sir.

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Speaker 1: People, we're doing something called second Date Update. I got

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Speaker 1: somebody on the line here esk if you want to

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Speaker 1: say hello. Nailed that, and so man, Jessica reached out,

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Speaker 1: told us you guys matched on Hinge, did a little

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Speaker 1: top golf action, did some dinner action, but that you've

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Speaker 1: trying to see where your head's that, what you're thinking,

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Speaker 1: how you feeling.

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm really okay. I guess okay, yeah, but

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Speaker 2: then why well why why have you pulled back?

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Speaker 1: Why the unmatching and not talking.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was just something that happened on our date, like, okay,

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Speaker 2: we're hanging out and throughout our date, like all these

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Speaker 1: Like the guys were just like random dudes hitting on her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, like guys she knew.

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Speaker 4: Okay, they're saying hi.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, they were just like kind of over overly friendly.

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Speaker 2: Maybe like I don't know, I wasn't really trying to judge,

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Speaker 4: Near her neighborhood?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, Jessica, did you see a lot of

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Speaker 3: I did, but I didn't. I mean, I didn't think

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Speaker 3: that was a problem. Yeah, friends would come up and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I guess I'm not if she's had been

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Speaker 1: I guess I'm not seeing what'd be a flag.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It just seems like weird, Like when

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Speaker 2: Like it seems like something's you know, up or something

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Speaker 5: I don't know, just they could have had girlfriends or

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Speaker 1: Okay, So because it appears that Jessica has a bunch

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, Like I just don't want to be competing

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Speaker 2: with you know, a bunch of you know, other guys

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Speaker 2: for her attention, like if you know we were to move.

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Speaker 1: Along, Okay, let me let me just this, I'm goa paut

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Speaker 1: Second date update on intern John in your Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: We have talked to Jessica and Ben. They matched on

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Speaker 1: hinge about three weeks ago, had a couple of dates.

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Speaker 1: She stopped hearing back from after dinner and his words,

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Speaker 1: they went to dinner a bunch of guys I guess

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Speaker 1: walked up and appeared to know her. He said, essentially,

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Speaker 1: he does not want to be with somebody who has

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Speaker 1: a lot of male friends. To him, that is a

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Speaker 1: red flag. Your thoughts eight seven seven nine ninety five

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Speaker 5: I understand where he's coming from, sure, because you always

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Speaker 5: hear like like some I know some women that I

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Speaker 4: And that's fine to each throne.

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Speaker 5: But I mean, a lot of my guy friends are

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Speaker 5: in relationships and they have say to and others that

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Speaker 5: I'm also friends with, So that's okay that we all

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Speaker 5: hang out and they'll tag along and they don't. But

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Speaker 5: I feel like if everyone respects respects each other and

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Speaker 5: it's not like I'm overstepping when they're with people, then

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Speaker 5: I can have a lot of guy friends.

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Speaker 4: So I don't think it's weird.

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Speaker 1: Almost gotta be a trauma response, right, maybe in the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 5: I understand where he's coming from. I just think it's

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Speaker 5: a little soon. Maybe get to understand the situation, not

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Speaker 5: just judge based off of that. Especially because if I

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Speaker 5: no matter what I really every single day. So if

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Speaker 5: I only that day happened to run into three guys

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Speaker 5: I know at different times, that's not sorry.

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Speaker 1: I like, you know, if they sat down next door,

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Speaker 1: I say, and they walked by and said Hey, disagree,

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Speaker 1: let me go on Perry Hall Tea, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Good morning.

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Speaker 6: I think she totally dodged a bullet, Like, if he's

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Speaker 6: like this on a second date, can you imagine what

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Speaker 6: he'd be like in a relationship. Yeah, if she has

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Speaker 6: a guy called from work or I mean, it's that's insane.

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Speaker 1: Or son, could you imagine? Oh my gosh, have a

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Speaker 1: great day. Thanks you too, Bye your thoughts with us.

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Speaker 7: He sounds very insecure, like he's been before. And if

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Speaker 7: at least have the conversation about it.

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Speaker 4: Act like, hey, this.

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Speaker 7: Makes me uncomfortable because X like this has happened in

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Speaker 7: my past that I could understand.

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Speaker 1: But just straight up like.

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Speaker 4: She was too many go friends and dipping is very

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Speaker 1: She probably kissed other guys before too. In the district Maggie,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hey guys.

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Speaker 2: I totally agree with you. Guys.

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Speaker 6: He sounds super insecure and it's just one thing I

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Speaker 2: You have to listen to what people are saying. He

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Speaker 2: says he doesn't think that she was right for him.

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Speaker 6: He's looking for someone that's going to tolerate that insecurity.

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Speaker 2: She dodged the bullet.

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Speaker 1: He has to you know, he said he doesn't want

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Speaker 2: He doesn't even know.

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Speaker 4: These guys I know.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she's on a day with you though.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, like that's uh, he's been a competition in his head.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just great, Maggie. Thank you for listening. Have

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Speaker 1: a great day, Have a good day, guys. Bye, we

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Speaker 1: go in nova Stacy, good morning, good morning. What do

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Speaker 1: you want to say of this girl?

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Speaker 8: Hey, Ben, don't go away mad, just go away like

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Speaker 8: absolute childhood trauma unmitigated. Yeah, yeah, he needs to go

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Speaker 8: speak to somebody and work through those issues. Definite insecurity

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Speaker 8: issues that he's projecting onto her, and she definitely dodged

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Speaker 1: Like goodbye, Amen, Stacey, thank you for listening. Have a

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Speaker 1: great day, you too. Bye. You can't get you ever.

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Speaker 1: Dms are up and at WYMUS Radio, Sauce has her

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