1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: It's the day Brian in the Morning Show, and we're 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: playing a little game called is okay what's Tony? 3 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 2: Yeah? 4 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: So the way it works is, if you have a story, 5 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: you can call us six five, one nine eight nine 6 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: Katie w b. You can tell us something that happened 7 00:00:12,440 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: that you're kind. 8 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:14,520 Speaker 3: Of questioning, like, what's this gay? 9 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 2: I don't know? 10 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 3: So Bailey as a story that involves me. 11 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 4: Yeah, So Jenny and I went to go see a 12 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 4: play on Friday. And at this play, we're sitting quietly, 13 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 4: you know, waiting for it to begin, and I see 14 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,640 Speaker 4: Jenny's hand as sitting on her leg, and I take 15 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 4: my hand and I solely in it towards Jenny's hand, 16 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 4: and then I take her hand. 17 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 3: It's holding Jenny's hand. 18 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 5: Game. 19 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:39,640 Speaker 2: No, that's cute. 20 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 6: You guys are sitting there and you're watching this musical 21 00:00:44,080 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 6: and you just feel the moment you grab your friend's 22 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:47,959 Speaker 6: hand and you're just. 23 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 3: Like, oh sweet. 24 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 2: Now if me and Vot did that, Yeah, he's a 25 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 2: home all last time I saw you. 26 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I did walk in this morning everybody, 27 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 6: and I gave him the kiss on the cheek. 28 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 4: I was like, he definitely did kiss me and I 29 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 4: was like, hellow up question? After this whole handholding. When 30 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 4: we parted ways, I said, okay bye, Jenny gave her 31 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,760 Speaker 4: a hug, and as we're hugging, I went down and 32 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 4: I pinched her biscuits. 33 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 3: Is that gay? 34 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 2: Okay? 35 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 6: That's now we're entering a little pink zone. Bit, she's 36 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 6: a little she's Lesbiana. 37 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 3: No, it was just right there. 38 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:25,560 Speaker 4: It was right there. And not check her biscuits. It's 39 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 4: for her safety, okay. 40 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:28,959 Speaker 3: So what if she. 41 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 4: Grows Yeah, what if she grows an extra one or 42 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,840 Speaker 4: loses one? I have to check and make sure there's 43 00:01:32,880 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 4: still two. I'm growing them every day. 44 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 5: Is that gay? God? 45 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 3: Yes, you're lucky. 46 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 4: Okay, I'll text my boyfriend. 47 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 7: Backtrack first second to what I said because so many 48 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 7: people I slid by you when I said that. Me 49 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 7: and my cousin used to run around the house naked. 50 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 7: So he's literally just a year older than me. But 51 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 7: just the typical, the typical, in my opinion, a nine 52 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 7: year old thing that boy do. And they just try 53 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 7: to mess with each other, like what is this called 54 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 7: knuckle sandwich each other? Yeah, or smell each other's farts. 55 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 7: I think that's normal. I thought it was normal. 56 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 2: Is it gay? Though? 57 00:02:12,680 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 3: I sp each other's farts? 58 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 2: Boys are so gross? 59 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 3: Yes we did. 60 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:19,400 Speaker 2: That is not gay right now? 61 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 6: Because no, gay men are smelling each other's farts. But 62 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:23,919 Speaker 6: we'll run around naked, That's what I'm saying, Like, what 63 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 6: is going on here? 64 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 2: We definitely run around naked in our apartment. 65 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 66 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 6: See, so that's that's I'm just leaning in a not 67 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 6: gay because you're smelling the main purposes you're run around 68 00:02:33,400 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 6: house naked, farting, smell each other fart? 69 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 2: Whose smell worse? Like, no, your smells worse? 70 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 5: No? 71 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: No, that wasn't me. Bend over, let me smell it. God, 72 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 2: boys are so why do we know now? And gay men? 73 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 2: Why do we date men? I don't know. Yeah, that's 74 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: what is happening here. 75 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: Okay, I've got a scenario myself. 76 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 2: If you have one, you can call six to find 77 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 2: out if it's gay. 78 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 8: Yeah. 79 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:56,160 Speaker 2: Please. 80 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 3: So I believe I. 81 00:02:57,000 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: Was probably in like fourth or fifth raid and I 82 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: was having a sleepover at my friend Erica's house, Erica, Kylie, 83 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: and Cassandra. It was the four of us, and they 84 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: are like, they were all very very skinny girls. 85 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,919 Speaker 3: I was not as skinny as them and. 86 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: One day or at the sleepover, they're like, we're gonna 87 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: do like a runway show and I was like, okay, 88 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 1: like we're gonna do it naked. So my insecure ass 89 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 1: because I was not a tiny teeny little girl like 90 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 1: they were, was. 91 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 3: Like, I don't want to do this. This is so uncomfortable. 92 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: So in my friend Erica's bathroom, it had like a 93 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: little pathway and we. 94 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 3: All stripped out, walked past each other and like. 95 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 1: Strutted as if we were on America's next Top Model 96 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: walking down a rest. One of the I think it 97 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 1: was either Erica or Kylie's ideas. 98 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 6: Kylie sounds like a lesbian Kyta right now. 99 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: She's very married with a beautiful little child, and she 100 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: has a beautiful husband. 101 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: Nothing. Kylie is a gay woman's name. She is a lesbian. 102 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 6: Yes, so that was a little gay because Kylie is 103 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 6: a lesbian. 104 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: So that is why I'm gonna have to reach out 105 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 1: to her and be like, like, is your husband like that? 106 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 3: What do they call it? A beard? 107 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 5: Beer? 108 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 3: Reach out to her and ask her that. See how 109 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 3: she reacts that. 110 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 2: But I'm let's go another direction here. 111 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 3: These stories. 112 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,000 Speaker 2: Yes, we can declare. 113 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 6: Because somebody's sexuality, Kylie, you know she wanted to see 114 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:34,679 Speaker 6: her girlfriend's naked. 115 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,799 Speaker 2: She's lesbian. Things can also be gay or straight. 116 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 6: Things can things can ask a condo is gay and 117 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:43,839 Speaker 6: house is straight? 118 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:46,160 Speaker 3: Where? Where? 119 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 2: Where is the line? 120 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 3: Good? 121 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: Funny you say that because I feel like a lot 122 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 1: of gay men I know that own property. 123 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: They own condo. 124 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 6: I don't live in an apartment, and I know the difference. 125 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,040 Speaker 6: There is a difference in between a condo and a 126 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 6: part right, but I don't care a condo. 127 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:05,000 Speaker 2: I live in a condo. 128 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 9: Gay. 129 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: That is so gay to live in a condo. 130 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 4: We have a text message saying, growing up, I used 131 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 4: to have sleepovers with my friend and her little sister 132 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 4: and one time her dad set up the camping tent 133 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 4: in the backyard and they wanted to play strip club, 134 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 4: but they wanted to be the customers and wanted me 135 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 4: to be the stripper. 136 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 3: Is that gay? 137 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 6: I don't think so because of the sense of like 138 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 6: we used to play you guys, Remember, I don't think 139 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 6: it's the thing anymore. Do kids even play strip poker? 140 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 6: Remember when we were little? 141 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 10: Yeah? 142 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you know, we would like you when. 143 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: You started liking boys, and people would like mess around 144 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 1: and be like like you actually knew how to play poker, 145 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: but you're like, oh, take my socks. 146 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:45,839 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, that kind of stuff. 147 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:48,080 Speaker 6: I think that's a no because we used to play 148 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 6: that growing up as well, Like yeah, we're talking like yeah, 149 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 6: right when you hit puberty and then what, oh my god, you. 150 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 3: Kissed the by for the first time, you know why. 151 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,919 Speaker 4: So I don't think that's oh my goodness, that's none 152 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 4: of this happened anything else. 153 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 3: You are like, this is gay, this is not. 154 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:04,839 Speaker 2: Let's go through the list. 155 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 6: Okay, here here a male's point of view Vaughan and 156 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 6: then the younger one. 157 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 2: Snap still a thing, right, No? Snapchat? 158 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:17,200 Speaker 7: No, yeah, I use Snapchat for its memories, like because 159 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 7: there's storage, but even then they're about to charge you. 160 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 1: So no, I think snap is very territorial. It's it's 161 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: a thing for a lot of people. My my older 162 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 1: sister who's approaching forty, still use a Snapchat all the time. 163 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 2: Okay. 164 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 6: So then in the sense of okay, so maybe the 165 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 6: older people are still using snap I think if you 166 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 6: own Snapchat, plus you're gay, that's gotta be gay. Straight 167 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 6: guys are not things. What if you can like re 168 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 6: goo back and look at things. You can save extra things. Oh, 169 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 6: if you're playing for Snapchat plus, you're definitely gay. 170 00:06:47,200 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 2: You're gay. You need because first of all, look at 171 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: lunch like snap what the hacker is that? Blah blah. 172 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 6: So yes, the girlies are still using snap and then 173 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 6: the gays are still using Snap. And on top of that, 174 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 6: if you're doing Snapchat plus, you're gay. An almond croissant 175 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:04,800 Speaker 6: is gay? What an almond croissant? Because it's got like 176 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:08,840 Speaker 6: the extra little things on top, you know, croissant exactly, 177 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 6: but it's extra, So it's gay. 178 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 3: Normalstant as a girl eating it or only as. 179 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 6: A guy, no, just anybody, Like the croissant itself is 180 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 6: just exactly, but it's gay. 181 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 2: It is gay, a normal in the mirror there. 182 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 6: Yeah, but extra you want extra stuff on top of 183 00:07:26,360 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 6: the croissant? 184 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, about one of those chocolate croissants that has the 185 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 4: chocolate on the inside. 186 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 6: The like maybe that's in the middle. I just think, 187 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 6: like I just can envision the crys. I would say 188 00:07:36,920 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 6: that's bisexual. It's a bisexual thing. 189 00:07:38,560 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a gay to like your own pictures on Instagram, 190 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 2: We're gonna go down this rabbit hole. 191 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 6: Maybe because you're a little conceited. I like my own 192 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 6: and I'm gay, So you are you liking your own stuff. 193 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: All the time. 194 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 2: I just think you you look at yourself in the mirror. 195 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 2: You give yourself. 196 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 7: Affirmations like I'm a savage, Like you do that in 197 00:07:59,880 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 7: the or what's the difference in like in your own 198 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 7: Instagram pictures. 199 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, you would look in the mirror at yourself. That's gay. 200 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 2: This is a mirror right here in front of me, 201 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 2: looking at yourself. 202 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: I have a couple of texts I want to ask 203 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: you real quick. We're going to power through these. When 204 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: my friend and I were teenagers, we went to this 205 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: park and eaton Prairie. 206 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 3: It had a huge. 207 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: Slide that went down a big hill and we went 208 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: down at topless. Is that game? 209 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 2: No, that's just fun. 210 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 3: That's fun, topless fun with the playground. Right, Yeah, we're free. 211 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: One says my best girlfriend growing up asked me, also 212 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: a girl, if we could give each other butt massages 213 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: in bed. 214 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 3: Oh okay, she is so lesbian, So. 215 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 2: That's lesbian. 216 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 1: I love those texts that said I'm starting to think 217 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: my husband is gay. 218 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 2: Tell me more, what's his phone number? 219 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: Let's see my ex boyfriend would play chicken with kissing 220 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:59,600 Speaker 1: his friends. I watched him kiss two of his male 221 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:00,520 Speaker 1: friends friends. 222 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: Is was her ex boyfriend? 223 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:06,559 Speaker 2: Is he gay? I need a little more context, but what. 224 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 3: I feel like that's very off theous, you know, so 225 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 3: like in. 226 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 6: College, I used to kiss Jeremy, my straight roommate on 227 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 6: like New Year's on the lips. This is on the 228 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:18,959 Speaker 6: lips like New Year's. Like we're not making out, We're 229 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 6: just like kissing. You know, he calling Jeremy out, He's 230 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:22,280 Speaker 6: gonna text me later. 231 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 3: But like, you know, it was New Year's. The contest. 232 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 2: We were drunk, we were at Sneaky Pete's. It was 233 00:09:26,960 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 2: twelve oh one, give me a kiss, Jeremy. 234 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 6: So I don't think that's gay, but there needs to 235 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 6: be more if this, if they were sober, how long. 236 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 2: Was the kiss? 237 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, was tongue involved? I need more contest. 238 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 6: So it's hard to say. 239 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 3: It's hard to say I'm leaning into maybe no. 240 00:09:41,920 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 2: Just because boys are stupid. 241 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yoys are so stupid. Thank you for all the 242 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 3: texts that came in for this. We always love playing 243 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 3: is It Gay? 244 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 11: Which something a little bit different, little bit fun on 245 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 11: people's court. Usually it's one person on the show, like 246 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:00,040 Speaker 11: Bailey will take me to court for always wearing you, 247 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 11: like I don't know my musky hunk cologne into work 248 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:06,040 Speaker 11: or whatever, or somebody. Genny will take Bailey to go 249 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 11: to court for making loud smacking noises while she eats. 250 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 11: So but this one is a lot different. This is 251 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 11: Gina and her boyfriend John. They both listen to the show. 252 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 11: They've heard us do People's Court before, they're gonna let 253 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 11: you decide. 254 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: Who's right and who's wrong. 255 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 11: Good morning, Gina, Hi, good morning, Good morning John, Good 256 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 11: morning John. Did not really want to be on People's Court. 257 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 11: I get the idea. But John, you've listened to the show, 258 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 11: you know all about People's Court, and you have decided 259 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 11: that you're gonna let the listeners dictate what you guys 260 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 11: do in this situation. 261 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, Okay, whatever feedback we get, that's where we're 262 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 12: gonna go with. 263 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 3: Okay, let's see what happens. 264 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 11: Gina, as the plaintiff, bring your case to the People's Court. 265 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,280 Speaker 11: Tell us why you've got your boyfriend John in the 266 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 11: court today. 267 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 13: Well, he wants to get a dumb tattoo. 268 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 11: Okay, dumb tattoo already, I'm on your side. What is 269 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 11: the dumb tattoo? 270 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 14: Well? 271 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 9: Do you? 272 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,319 Speaker 13: I think maybe he should explain it, because I'm just going. 273 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 11: To be like super okay, all right, go ahead, John, 274 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 11: explain this cool tattoo that you want to get. 275 00:11:15,960 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. I want to get a tattoo 276 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,679 Speaker 12: on my back of my last name Gordon. 277 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 2: Why why? Why that's already dumb? Why describe? Describe the tattoo? 278 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,079 Speaker 12: Yeah, I mean I played football in high school, I 279 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 12: played football in college, and it would be like my 280 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,719 Speaker 12: jersey last name tattooed on my back. You know, it 281 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 12: was fun. It was proud time in my life. And uh, yeah, 282 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 12: I want to get Gordon tattooed across my back and shoulders. 283 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 12: I've seen other people with their last name tattoos on 284 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:49,760 Speaker 12: their back. 285 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 2: I have not that. 286 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 4: For what it's worth, I have not seen that before 287 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 4: because I think of what it would look like on 288 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 4: your jersey. Yeah, and that's pretty big. 289 00:11:57,240 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 11: It's big if you go from me, like from your 290 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 11: shoulder to your should Yeah. 291 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:04,520 Speaker 13: And so we don't have to argue this because the 292 00:12:04,559 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 13: fact is it's douchey. 293 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 3: Oh, it's so douchey. 294 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 13: It was just like, oh my gosh, you might as 295 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 13: well just get Douche tattooed. 296 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:18,199 Speaker 11: Across Okay, all right, we're not gonna get douche. Okay, 297 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 11: why not let me ask you a question. What jersey number? 298 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 11: What what jersey number were you? Okay, why not get 299 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 11: Gordon and twelve tattooed underneath it? 300 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 2: Now you get the whole. 301 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 12: Look yeah, well, I mean okay, even I can I 302 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 12: can say getting the number there too would be ridiculous. 303 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 12: That's that's a little too much. 304 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:43,439 Speaker 13: But my name is fine, Okay. I just don't want 305 00:12:43,440 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 13: to be embarrassed walking around with him, like at the 306 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 13: beach or something. It's it's so dumb. 307 00:12:48,440 --> 00:12:49,959 Speaker 12: It's not like going to be on my hands or 308 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 12: my face, Like yeah, it would be yet the beach or. 309 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 9: You know, around the house, but it means you're at 310 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 9: the minimum. 311 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,440 Speaker 13: It's like at least on my face. 312 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:01,200 Speaker 9: It's like like, at least I use the bathroo. 313 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 11: I think I think it's kind of fun, honestly, because John, 314 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 11: I honestly, I think it's like a kind of a 315 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 11: fun conversation starter. You got Gordon is a Gordon tattooed 316 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 11: across your back? People will see you at all, I 317 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 11: don't know at bedem Coska or Wisconsin Dell's and be like, 318 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 11: oh what did did you play football? 319 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 2: And then you got a conversation Why do you Why 320 00:13:28,480 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 2: do you need one? 321 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 13: Do you need a conversation starter all the time with 322 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 13: your name? That's like getting a vanity Well, you get a. 323 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:34,320 Speaker 9: Sanity plate for your car. 324 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:35,319 Speaker 13: Just put it on there. 325 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 3: There you go. 326 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 11: So let's do your final arguments here as the plaintiff, 327 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 11: give me your reasoning why he should not get Gordon 328 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 11: tattooed across his back. 329 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 13: I don't want to be dating a douchebag. 330 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 11: Okay, all right to the point, Okay, John, give me 331 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 11: your defense. 332 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 2: I think it's a. 333 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 12: Cool tattoo, and I honestly don't think it's a big deal, 334 00:13:57,640 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 12: like it's going to be something embarrassing. 335 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:02,240 Speaker 11: I mean sure, when he's wearing a shirt or a 336 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,199 Speaker 11: tie or whatever for a wedding or a job interview, 337 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:06,479 Speaker 11: he's gonna look fine. 338 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 12: Shirt overall. 339 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, we don't make the decisions. 340 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 11: We do not know, So we need three jurors on 341 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 11: the phone right now. I need you to call me 342 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 11: and be a jur on this one six five, one, nine, 343 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 11: eight nine, Katie w B And let us know, should 344 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 11: Gina be able to say no, you don't get the tattoo, 345 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 11: or should John be able to get the Gordon tattoo 346 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 11: across his back. I'm sure the text messages are rolling 347 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 11: in already. 348 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 349 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 4: Some some say like the last name on your back 350 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 4: is pretty big on the West Coast, or at least 351 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 4: it was ten years ago. This one says that tattoo 352 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 4: idea of screams. I peaked in high school in college. 353 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 11: John, you didn't peak in high school in college, did you? 354 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 11: He didn't answer right away. He did not answer right away. 355 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 11: All right, stay there, you guys. We'll get some jurors 356 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 11: on the phone and we'll have your answer for you. 357 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 11: Your verdict coming up next on People's Court, Court once 358 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 11: again is in session. Please rise for the the Honorable 359 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 11: Judge Dave Ryan. 360 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:06,360 Speaker 2: Thank you. Nobody's rising. Stand the hell up? Get up? 361 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 11: Yeah, no respect at all. Our plant at this morning 362 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 11: is Gina who has brought her partner John to the 363 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 11: People's Court over a tattoo idea that she doesn't like. Gina, 364 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 11: please present your case once again for the jurors. And 365 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 11: by the way, before we get to them, let's meet 366 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 11: our jurors, shall we Juror number one is Nathan. Good morning, Nathan, 367 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 11: good morning. It's good to have you here on the jury. 368 00:15:33,240 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 11: Where are you calling from? 369 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 2: Nathan, Minnesota? Okay, I'm gonna know what. I know. He's 370 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 2: going to vote for the Jersey because he's in Blaine's didn't. 371 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,520 Speaker 4: Need a tax message saying somebody said that John must 372 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 4: be from a Noka or Iceanti County and county is Blaine. 373 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 2: Good job, Nathan, Please hold Let's go to Lisa. Good morning. 374 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:54,880 Speaker 2: Dur number two, Lisa, Hello, Hello, where are you calling from? 375 00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 2: Juror number two. 376 00:15:56,120 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 15: From Lovely warm St. 377 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:04,200 Speaker 11: Paul, Please hold on. Let's go to our third jur 378 00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 11: jur Number three is Hannah. Hi, Hannah, Hi, Where are 379 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 11: you going from? 380 00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 2: Hannah? Okay, let's county. Yeah, here we go. 381 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 11: So I'm saying the jury is kind of a little 382 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 11: bit biased stored bad tattoos, But we. 383 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 4: Haven't heard from the We're just guessing. 384 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 11: Gina present your case one more time as the plaintiff. 385 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 13: So the shortest thing is he wants to get the 386 00:16:28,320 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 13: Domins tattoo. Ever, and I don't want to walk around 387 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 13: with someone who looks like an ahole. 388 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 2: Okay, tell me to do it, but what describe this 389 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: tattoo please? 390 00:16:36,800 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 13: And he wants his name on his back because, you know, 391 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 13: like a jersey, like a football jersey or a hockey jersey. 392 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:47,080 Speaker 11: Played football in school and so he wants to commemorate 393 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 11: those those glory days by having his name tattooed across 394 00:16:50,200 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 11: the back. Now, Gina says it's a bad idea, John, 395 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 11: go ahead and come to your own defense. 396 00:16:54,320 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 2: Please. 397 00:16:56,000 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 12: Look, I'm not saying that, Mike. It's you know, the 398 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 12: most again tattoo in the world here, but I mean 399 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 12: it's a tattoo. I think it's cool. I want it. 400 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 12: I think I should be able to get it, you know, 401 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 12: like my body, my choice. 402 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:12,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, okay, then. 403 00:17:12,520 --> 00:17:15,080 Speaker 11: Okay, let's go to the juror here, jurors here and 404 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:17,199 Speaker 11: get a vote. Now there's three, so it will be 405 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 11: a majority. Rules Jurior dur number one, Nathan, what do 406 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:25,240 Speaker 11: you think about this case? And then give me your verdict. 407 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 16: Well, considering that I have many tattoos, I regret every 408 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 16: single one of them, and I vote that the back 409 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 16: tattoo is the male version of a female trans stand 410 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 16: So I think you in favor of the tattoo. 411 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:48,040 Speaker 11: Okay, all right, so there's one in favor of Gina, Yeah, 412 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 11: favor the plane of the juror. Number two is Lisa, 413 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 11: all the way over in Saint Paul. Lisa, your thoughts 414 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 11: on the case and your verdict. 415 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 2: Please, all right. 416 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 9: So to me, I don't see what the big deal is. 417 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 9: It seems like a little bit of fun. It doesn't 418 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 9: sound horrible, it doesn't give me a whole vibe. 419 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 17: It doesn't seem that bad at all. 420 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,960 Speaker 9: And also it's on his body, not hers. So I 421 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 9: say go for it. Done. 422 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:15,640 Speaker 11: Okay, we are now tied, and Hannah, you're number three 423 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 11: from andover. Your thoughts on the case and your deciding verdict. 424 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:21,960 Speaker 15: Okay, I'm gonna keep you in suspense. 425 00:18:22,119 --> 00:18:24,200 Speaker 18: Let me just give you a backstory. I dated a 426 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 18: guy in. 427 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 15: College who had his last names had to giantly on 428 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:29,440 Speaker 15: the back of his back. 429 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 14: Last name was King. 430 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:34,000 Speaker 15: Everybody called him King, and let me just tell you 431 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 15: that he was the biggest douchebag ever. No, it's a 432 00:18:39,520 --> 00:18:42,879 Speaker 15: Bill Sprat boy douchebag. So if that's the vibe that 433 00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 15: you want to go for, I'm always on my body 434 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 15: my choice. 435 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:46,960 Speaker 18: But in this. 436 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:50,280 Speaker 15: Case, I'm a big fat no. Like you you think 437 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:54,119 Speaker 15: you something to your body that's gonna make the person 438 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 15: who's regularly hooking up with you not want to hook 439 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 15: up with you anymore? 440 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 19: Am I right? 441 00:18:58,160 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 8: Like? 442 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 4: Come on, yes, ballad, because Gina is the one seeing it, 443 00:19:01,520 --> 00:19:02,000 Speaker 4: you're right. 444 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 5: Yeah. 445 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 11: But if they're doing the beast with two backs, the 446 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 11: backs are facing the other way, she never has to 447 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 11: look at what if he. 448 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,399 Speaker 4: Does a little spin? 449 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 11: Don't say it, jitty. I know you're thinking it. I 450 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 11: know you're thinking it. I know you're thinking of a 451 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 11: three letter word starting with P. 452 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 3: I'm restraining myself. 453 00:19:21,280 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 11: You're thinking of that word though. Okay, jurors, thanks for 454 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,720 Speaker 11: your service. You are now dismissed. Thank you, jurors. Okay, 455 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 11: the vertices in GENA. You are victorious. 456 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:34,280 Speaker 2: Yay, no tattoo for. 457 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 4: You, John, But will you say the text messages John 458 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 4: are really supportive of you. 459 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 2: What you got? 460 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 5: So? 461 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 4: Someone says, I think individuality and expressing yourself in a harmless, 462 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 4: easy to hide way when necessary is awesome and if 463 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 4: it makes you happy, you should be able to do it. 464 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 4: Someone else says, let him have the tattoo. 465 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:55,280 Speaker 3: It's his body. We live in Minnesota. Is he actually 466 00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,159 Speaker 3: going to have his shirt off in public. 467 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,280 Speaker 2: That often just in June. 468 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,360 Speaker 4: But then we do have people who say, like, out 469 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 4: of all tattoos, that's what he wants. 470 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 3: Let the dream go. 471 00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 7: Bro This Texas funny, he says, I dated a guy 472 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 7: who had death proof tattooed across his back, so honestly, 473 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 7: it could be much worse than just his last name. 474 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, death proof. I don't know what that means. You 475 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:15,080 Speaker 2: knows death proof. 476 00:20:15,119 --> 00:20:19,120 Speaker 11: Okay, all right, thank you Gina, thank you John, and 477 00:20:19,800 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 11: this case is closed. 478 00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 2: Thank you very much. 479 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 14: We have one. 480 00:20:22,000 --> 00:20:25,800 Speaker 3: Texas says, bye, guys, what Texas. 481 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,480 Speaker 4: I know the guy she's talking about with King Tattoosha, 482 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,000 Speaker 4: and I agree he was the biggest d bag. 483 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 2: Oh no, I feel bad for the guy listening. He's 484 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:34,960 Speaker 2: probably just misunderstood. 485 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:38,199 Speaker 3: He probably is misunderstood and all that. 486 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:41,840 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh that is people's court. 487 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:47,199 Speaker 11: Playing think fast to day Daily Jay has and the 488 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:51,359 Speaker 11: Jenny no middle name, Jenny Lyn Luttenberger. 489 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 3: Here you go. 490 00:20:51,840 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 11: I was like, I think you know my middle name. 491 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:56,239 Speaker 11: Maybe you don't jump in with your answers. First one 492 00:20:56,280 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 11: to seven is the winner. Here we go. Units of measurement. 493 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 11: Units of measurement is your first category. Unit of measurements 494 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 11: started with an ometer. 495 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 2: No, that is a devisive measurement. 496 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 3: A lot of space. 497 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 11: Nood you were too slow. Next one unit of measurements, 498 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 11: starting with an M mile taken mile, also to have 499 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 11: taken mill anything or a meter. Unit of the measurements 500 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 11: starting with a k kilometer. Very good, Bailey, Bailey has two. 501 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 3: I took a science class ones hey, good. 502 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: Unit of measures starting with. 503 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 11: A pint good, yes, I'll take pint. Also pound, unit 504 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:56,440 Speaker 11: of measurements starting with F sorry to ladies. No, come on, everybody, Bailey, 505 00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 11: here's your category. Synonym for an idiot, dummy starting with 506 00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 11: a D dummy. 507 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 2: You got the yes, very good. 508 00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 3: Hold on a second, can you let me play? You 509 00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 3: literally said barely. This is your category. You letter a 510 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 3: guess without even having a letter. Are there letters with 511 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 3: all of these? 512 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,080 Speaker 11: There are letters with all of Let say the letter. 513 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,840 Speaker 11: First synonym for an idiot started with M. 514 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 2: Very good. Who got that one first? Jenny? 515 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 11: Okay, this one's a little bit tougher. Synonym for an idiot, 516 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 11: starting with. 517 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 20: An F part face. I will not take fart face 518 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 20: F face. No, I'm sorry, just half alone. No, come on, no, no, fool, fool. Okay, 519 00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:49,680 Speaker 20: we're shifting away from that category. A gemstone starting with emerald, Oh, Bailey. 520 00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:55,639 Speaker 2: Got Jenny, got that one, just barely. A type of 521 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:56,639 Speaker 2: a boat starting. 522 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:00,960 Speaker 3: With C catamaran. What the heck beause I can start 523 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 3: with the K, I think, I promise. 524 00:23:04,359 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 2: I will give that one to you, also canoe. Here 525 00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:09,119 Speaker 2: we go. 526 00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,560 Speaker 11: This is the reverse category. I read you several items. 527 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:20,160 Speaker 11: You tell me what category they would all fit into. 528 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 20: Eagle dog, Oh, I see you giving us most dog, 529 00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,640 Speaker 20: whimer riner, dog breeds. 530 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:30,399 Speaker 2: Yes, dog breeds. 531 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:32,120 Speaker 3: Yes, you wouldn't take dog. 532 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:43,720 Speaker 2: Reverse category triangle symbol, high hat. 533 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 4: On a drum set, things on a drum set, percussion, percussion, Yes, 534 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 4: very good. 535 00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:50,840 Speaker 2: I like this backwards on. 536 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,080 Speaker 3: I feel like once you guess once, you don't get 537 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 3: to guess again. You just at fart face. Well, I 538 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 3: wasn't trying to get the pointers seen. If you'd take 539 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 3: any of those exactly, I will see who would take 540 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 3: any of these? 541 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 11: Next one reverse category ladle utensils, spoon, yes, utensils, kitchen, utensil. 542 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:27,560 Speaker 11: I'm on game point, okay, Twain, authors, Yeah, Rowling, Christi, Dickens, Fitzgerald, Hemingway, Twain. 543 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 4: I've tried to read hevingway. Those are impossible to read. 544 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 4: He uses zero punctuation. It's impossible. I put it down 545 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:35,399 Speaker 4: after one page. Couldn't do it. 546 00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 11: Yeah, I've never tried. So good for adventuring that one. Yeah, 547 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 11: venturing to that one. Bailey wins one. 548 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 3: The reverse one's way more fun. 549 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 2: I'll give you one for fun. You're ready for fun. 550 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 2: It's a fun one. Here we go. 551 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 11: Don't say the word, don't say the answer, map, flashlight, 552 00:24:55,320 --> 00:25:02,200 Speaker 11: first aid kit, tire gauge, registration. 553 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:05,760 Speaker 2: Pen, anyone. 554 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,520 Speaker 3: Things in your car, road trip items, boy scout stuff 555 00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:11,600 Speaker 3: in correct items. 556 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 2: I need to be more specific, Bailey. 557 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 3: Oh uh, not okay? Things in your car. It's not 558 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:19,840 Speaker 3: things in your trunk. 559 00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 7: Things in your car, in your in your what did 560 00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 7: you say, things in your car, toolbox, glove box. 561 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:29,760 Speaker 11: Glovebox, glove compartment, or as Jenny says, glove department. 562 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 3: A one. 563 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:34,680 Speaker 4: Down. 564 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,959 Speaker 11: Here we go with a just because I wrote them 565 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 11: and I'm not going to waste them. So here we 566 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 11: go for you to play at home. Household appliance brand 567 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:44,080 Speaker 11: is starting with doub. 568 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,760 Speaker 2: Vought. I don't know, Jenny. 569 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 3: All I can think of is Warner Stallion. I don't know. 570 00:25:53,960 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 11: The Whirlpool clothing brand starting with h oh Bailey, Hollister. Yes, 571 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,639 Speaker 11: coffee brand starting with f. 572 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. 573 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 7: But the best part of waking up it's bull just 574 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 7: in yo. 575 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:28,919 Speaker 2: Cup correct Mundo. A shoe brand starting with A Jenny. 576 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 3: That would be adds very good. 577 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 11: Last one. A shampoo brand starting with tea. This could 578 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 11: be the toughest one of the day. A shampoo brand 579 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 11: starting with tea Jenny very good. Care ooh la la 580 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 11: is that the theme song? All right, thank you very much, 581 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 11: Bailey Paul, Thanks for waiting. I knew we were going 582 00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 11: to talk to you. I think it's really interesting. Tell 583 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 11: tell me what you are facing down with your high 584 00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 11: school daughter. 585 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:03,879 Speaker 2: What's going on? 586 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,080 Speaker 19: So my daughter is a senior in high school and 587 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 19: she really wants to go on this spring break trip 588 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 19: with all of her friends. The problem is I don't 589 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:18,040 Speaker 19: want to pay for her to go on a spring 590 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 19: break trip. I mean, am I wrong for that? I 591 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 19: just everyone is going to Florida for spring break, all 592 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 19: of her friends, and she really wants me to help 593 00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:36,200 Speaker 19: her go on this trip. And you know, I graduated 594 00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 19: in high school or I'm sorry, I graduated in two 595 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 19: thousand and three from high school. 596 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,119 Speaker 11: So, like I just it wasn't a thing back then. 597 00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:45,840 Speaker 11: I was going to say. When I first heard from you, 598 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 11: I was like, yeah, spring break when I was high school. 599 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,119 Speaker 11: There was a long time ago. It's like, oh, you 600 00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,760 Speaker 11: mean you got sleep late and watch prices right right? 601 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 2: And you know you didn't. 602 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 11: We didn't go anywhere. It wasn't It wasn't a tradition now. 603 00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 11: But kids go on spring break in high school I think, so. Yeah, 604 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 11: as a matter of fact, I know they do. 605 00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,640 Speaker 7: Yeah that movie spring Breakers, aren't they in high school 606 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:06,399 Speaker 7: with Selena Gomez? 607 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:07,879 Speaker 2: Well that's a movie I know. 608 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:09,800 Speaker 7: But I'm not real because I think in the past 609 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,919 Speaker 7: ten fifteen years it became much more of a thing. 610 00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 2: Interesting, I didn't go on a trip in high school. 611 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 3: That wasn't a thing when I was in high school. Neither. No, 612 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,280 Speaker 3: So she wants to go on this trip with all 613 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 3: of her friends. 614 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,479 Speaker 2: And what's the holdup? 615 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 11: Is it the money or the fact that she's going 616 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 11: to be like a thousand miles away drinking tequila on 617 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 11: the beach with a bunch of eighteen year olds. 618 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,480 Speaker 19: I mean, obviously it's both, but it's more so that 619 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:35,080 Speaker 19: she wants me to cover the cost. And it's a lot. 620 00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 19: I mean the airfare, the hotel, all the activity she's 621 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:42,400 Speaker 19: going to do. It's at least a thousand dollars, at 622 00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:43,840 Speaker 19: least a thousand dollars. 623 00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 11: Does she have one thousand dollars of her own? 624 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 19: No, she works a Jersey mice. 625 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,680 Speaker 11: Okay, don't I don't know. I mean everybody in this 626 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 11: room except me, be vaunt. Did your friends go on 627 00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:03,320 Speaker 11: spring break? 628 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:03,480 Speaker 8: No? 629 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 7: No, we did, like I didn't, but my friends didn't either. 630 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 7: We maybe after prom went on a trip when spring break? 631 00:29:09,680 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 2: No, it was never. No, never after prom you went 632 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 2: on a trip. I didn't even do that. 633 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,200 Speaker 7: But after Prom some people went to like the Shore, 634 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 7: which is like an hour drive, but not a trip 635 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:18,720 Speaker 7: across to Florida. 636 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 11: I think Carson and his buddies might have driven to 637 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 11: Colorado and stayed at our house in Colorado, but I 638 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 11: don't remember for sure if that was spring break. But 639 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,760 Speaker 11: it's a thing now, It absolutely is a thing, and 640 00:29:28,840 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 11: I don't know why it started. It's not a bad thing, 641 00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:32,640 Speaker 11: but it's a matter of like, Okay, now they're eighteen 642 00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,080 Speaker 11: years old. They're old enough legally to travel somewhere and 643 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:40,080 Speaker 11: have a good time and probably rent an airbnb, but 644 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 11: you don't want to spend the money and you're not 645 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 11: really so is this a thing? And what do you 646 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 11: think she should do? 647 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 7: I think it's gonna definitely cost more than well, she 648 00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,960 Speaker 7: said at least a thousand dollars. Flights are expensive and 649 00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 7: airbnb depending on how many people. Maybe you could split 650 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 7: it up certain ways, but it's definitely gonna be pricey. 651 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 11: Kayla is a communion on this one, Kayla, what do 652 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 11: you think should she pay for her daughter eighteen years 653 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 11: old to go off to Florida and get drunk on 654 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 11: the beach with a bunch of strangers drinking tequila? 655 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 2: Sound bad? 656 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 17: You are leaving to that absolute worst. 657 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:12,040 Speaker 9: Case scenario, because I do. 658 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 4: I do. 659 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 17: My advice is don't be that mom. 660 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 9: You know, if you can afford it, let her go 661 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 9: on that trip. But do you want her to resent you? 662 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 17: Because if you think about it, it's. 663 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 9: Going to be walking around your house for that week. 664 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 9: You can have a cranky seventeen eighteen year old pouting 665 00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 9: the entire week. 666 00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 2: That's good point. 667 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 21: Yeah, all of her friends are like sending their posting 668 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,600 Speaker 21: on social media about how they're you know, they're drinking. 669 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 17: Tequila on the beach, exactly all of us talking about 670 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 17: this wasn't the way when we were in high school, Like, well, 671 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:43,040 Speaker 17: we didn't have social media telling everyone exactly how much 672 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 17: of a loser we are because we didn't get to 673 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 17: go on the trip. But I think it's higher stakes now. 674 00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:50,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, but she has to learn a lesson that she 675 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 3: doesn't get everything she want. 676 00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,440 Speaker 2: To come on. 677 00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 9: It's you know, she said that, you know, she said 678 00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 9: she had a Jersey Mikes. So say like, hey, I'll 679 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:05,080 Speaker 9: thank will you this trip, but you're gonna have to 680 00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:05,400 Speaker 9: pay me. 681 00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 14: Back for it. 682 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,800 Speaker 17: So then she gets a life experience and she has 683 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 17: a lesson and responsibility. 684 00:31:11,880 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I say, let her go. Let let her go. 685 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,760 Speaker 11: I ever get that two hundred dollars out of her 686 00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 11: bank account or whatever she's got from Jersey Mikes. You 687 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 11: pay the rest of it, or you'd be like, Okay, 688 00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 11: you go. But you get to check in every day 689 00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,720 Speaker 11: every night, once an hour every night, and send and 690 00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:29,400 Speaker 11: FaceTime me once an hour every night. 691 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 3: Fa FaceTime me every single hour on the top of 692 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:32,320 Speaker 3: the hep what a. 693 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 2: Text message to say anything? Anything? 694 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 4: I mean, one person says it's for the experience, pay 695 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,920 Speaker 4: for it. Who else would. But then a lot of 696 00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:40,800 Speaker 4: people are saying, make her pay for it, make her 697 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,200 Speaker 4: pay for half of it. She should have to pay 698 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 4: for it if she wants to go. This one says, 699 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:48,360 Speaker 4: graduated in twenty ten. Senior spring break trip was a 700 00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:49,960 Speaker 4: big deal. We went to Cankon. 701 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like, did you go? 702 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 3: I want to know? Did you go to Cankon with 703 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,440 Speaker 3: a chaperone or did you just go on your own? 704 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 2: Sometimes they do, Mom and dad do go along better? Y, 705 00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 2: it's all the time. 706 00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 4: Because I would be nervous if I had a kid, 707 00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,479 Speaker 4: even if they're eighteen, like sending an eighteen year old 708 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,360 Speaker 4: with a bunch of other eighteen year olds to like 709 00:32:10,480 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 4: can Kun without an adult person to. 710 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 11: Drink down there everything, and it wouldn't be legal to 711 00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 11: drink if they weren't responsible. 712 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:19,160 Speaker 2: But they're kids to me the. 713 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,600 Speaker 11: Adults. Okay, so hey really quick because I want to 714 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 11: make sure I get this in if you're waiting for it. 715 00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 11: The keyword for the ultimate concert ticket is Charlie, as 716 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 11: in Charlie Pooh. So use the talk back feature and 717 00:32:32,040 --> 00:32:34,080 Speaker 11: say the keyword is Charlie, and you are good to 718 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 11: go for the concert. You're all set up ready to. 719 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:38,760 Speaker 11: We're doing that every thirty minutes on KWB. So let 720 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 11: me just go go with this again. So, Paula, you 721 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,160 Speaker 11: say your eighteen year old wants to go to Florida? 722 00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:45,959 Speaker 2: Have you told her no? Or if you told her, 723 00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 2: we'll think about it. 724 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 19: I told her we would think about it, but that 725 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:53,800 Speaker 19: it was probably going to be a no. Okay, just 726 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 19: I really I didn't really think about having her pay 727 00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 19: me back for it and maybe teaching her that responsibility 728 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:03,640 Speaker 19: through that experience. 729 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 8: So I like that. 730 00:33:04,560 --> 00:33:06,600 Speaker 9: So I'm glad I didn't completely close the door so 731 00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 9: I can think about that. 732 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,720 Speaker 11: But okay, and then Kayla says that you're going to 733 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 11: ruin her life. Cayla, what was your stance on this thing? 734 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:19,320 Speaker 9: I okay, I'm saying that social media plays a bigger 735 00:33:19,400 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 9: role in their lives than it did in our lives. 736 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:22,840 Speaker 14: I've missed this, like. 737 00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 9: Last life opportunity could be. It's not going to ruin 738 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 9: her life, but it is going to make things difficult 739 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 9: for a while. 740 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 11: So let me go think we can make it work, 741 00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 11: spring for it, let her payback, right, Yeah, Okay, let 742 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 11: me talk to some other people. You're stay on the 743 00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 11: phone if you can Vanessa, would you let your eighteen 744 00:33:42,040 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 11: year old daughter son go down to give about Florida 745 00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 11: or can coon on spring break? 746 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 2: Vanessa, Hello Flinny. 747 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,880 Speaker 9: There is absolutely no darmn way I would be letting 748 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 9: my child go to. 749 00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 18: A different state to go party for a week. You 750 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 18: want to hang on around here, but you go do 751 00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 18: your thing with your friends, but in a different state 752 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 18: to go. 753 00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 8: You know what? 754 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 2: There is way, what do you think they're going to 755 00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 2: do down there? 756 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 18: No, it's crazy. It's been a while since I've been 757 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 18: in high school, but I can't imagine they're doing things 758 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 18: they would do in front of their parents if they 759 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,040 Speaker 18: have to go do it in another state. 760 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:20,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know what I was doing two years ago. 761 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 2: I wish you were your. 762 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 9: Child lived, like, let them live, keep them at home and. 763 00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 18: Keep them alive. 764 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 2: Wow, Va, I have a son. 765 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 18: Okay, So my oldest is fourteen and my youngest is one. 766 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:38,040 Speaker 17: So I've got a few and that's so. 767 00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 18: It's I've had experience, and I have experience with my children, 768 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,760 Speaker 18: so I just there's no way I would feel. 769 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 9: Comfortable letting my child go. Even with life three sixty 770 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:49,760 Speaker 9: in my back pocket, I would. 771 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 13: Not do it. 772 00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 2: That one year old is pissing background. 773 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,800 Speaker 3: Let me go on spring break. 774 00:34:59,320 --> 00:34:59,680 Speaker 2: Steeve. 775 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,000 Speaker 11: When you grew when did you graduate? Steve two thousand 776 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 11: and one, Tell me about your spring break senior trip. 777 00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,320 Speaker 5: So me and my buddies got into the car that 778 00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,759 Speaker 5: my mom forced me to buy, which was a few 779 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 5: wick century yeah, down the road with whatever little party 780 00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 5: supplies we could scrounge up, and we went around and 781 00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:20,879 Speaker 5: just traveled around Minnesota. I mean we went to hack 782 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 5: and Sack and played hacky Sack on. 783 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:22,800 Speaker 3: The side of it. 784 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,360 Speaker 2: You had to, you had to, yes, So did you 785 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 2: just drove around? Did you get up to no good? 786 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:29,760 Speaker 2: Did you get in any trouble? 787 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 14: Of course? 788 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,120 Speaker 3: Oh, I remember Steve. Steve called in for something recently. 789 00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,320 Speaker 9: Really, Yes, he's in for a bunch of stuff. 790 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:39,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a you were You probably cause a lot 791 00:35:39,280 --> 00:35:41,200 Speaker 1: of gray hairs for your parents growing up. 792 00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,879 Speaker 5: Well, I went to Catholic school, and I swear to God, 793 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 5: private school kids where a thousand times where it's of 794 00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:47,239 Speaker 5: public school kids. 795 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 11: There's a story about the local school that if I 796 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 11: tell the story again, I'll get in trouble. I'll get 797 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 11: a phone call from the principle. But there is a 798 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,279 Speaker 11: legendary story about a bunch of high school kids from 799 00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,480 Speaker 11: a local Catholic school. They're supposed to be all holy 800 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,359 Speaker 11: in religion. Just let me tell you the biggest bunch 801 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 11: of troublemakers. And then the kids got in trouble and 802 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:06,239 Speaker 11: the parents stepped in and stood up for them. 803 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,240 Speaker 2: No, it's a true story. I can't say which school, 804 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 2: but maybe. 805 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:12,280 Speaker 5: You know which school. 806 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:15,240 Speaker 3: It was day text messages. 807 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 2: We got another call. 808 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, so Kelly, your kids just ask you if they 809 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 11: can go on the big drunken spring break trip. 810 00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,840 Speaker 14: Yeah, they did when they were in high school. 811 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 10: And my daughter was adamant. She's like, Mom, but everybody's going. 812 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,480 Speaker 10: And I'm like, yeah, but I don't have the money, 813 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:33,320 Speaker 10: you know. 814 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 2: So what happened? 815 00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 14: No, I just told my kids. I had three kids, 816 00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,879 Speaker 14: they were all very close and the age at that time. 817 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,879 Speaker 14: I just told them, hey, listen, you're staying home. Well, 818 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 14: you can have fun. You don't have to do any 819 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 14: charts this week, but you do have to tell me 820 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 14: where you're going. And I agree with the caller, Steve, Yeah, 821 00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 14: those kids, you leave them home again just as much trouble. 822 00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 2: So yeah, that's true. 823 00:36:56,120 --> 00:37:00,600 Speaker 11: Okay, thank you. Nicole Last one Nicole. Should the kids 824 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 11: get to go? Should Paul's kid get to go to 825 00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:04,240 Speaker 11: spring break in Florida? 826 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:09,720 Speaker 8: So I say yes, because if she's already like making 827 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,400 Speaker 8: her way out of the home, she's going to do 828 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 8: this stuff in a year anyway. So in my opinion, 829 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 8: I would rather have some supervisions or a way to 830 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,920 Speaker 8: supervise to teach that skill because she's just gonna like 831 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 8: go on vacation next year. 832 00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:26,920 Speaker 11: Well, I mean, you're right, you got a good point. 833 00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 11: Think about it next year when they go to I 834 00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 11: don't know, Arizona State University. 835 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 3: CEB, if they go to pcbech for spring break Panama 836 00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:35,759 Speaker 3: City Beach, right, But. 837 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,759 Speaker 11: I'm talking about when they go to college. They're going 838 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 11: to have the same freedom opportunity anyway, it's just six 839 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:40,960 Speaker 11: months down the road. 840 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:44,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't for some reason though, like going off 841 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 3: to college is. 842 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 4: It's different to me though, because you'll end up going 843 00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:50,719 Speaker 4: like the full school year, being like on your own 844 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,160 Speaker 4: without your parents, and like learning those skills before spring 845 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 4: break happens. It's not like you go to college and 846 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,320 Speaker 4: you're instantly like well, I guess maybe it depends on 847 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 4: the person, like you're instant party party, party, But I 848 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 4: it does depend on the person, I think, right, and 849 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,759 Speaker 4: it just I think now it's because you're going on 850 00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:08,799 Speaker 4: spring break. You're going to be partying for a week 851 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 4: after being a high schooler the day before, and then 852 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 4: you have to go back to being a high schooler 853 00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 4: versus being like an independent college student. 854 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,719 Speaker 11: Paula, listen, thanks for calling in. We're going to take 855 00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,320 Speaker 11: a break. We'll have some more text messages for you 856 00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 11: in a second to help you decide what to do. 857 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,000 Speaker 11: And Kyla, thanks very much for your strong opinion. We 858 00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:32,240 Speaker 11: appreciate you. Okay, bye, let me get Paula on the phone. Hi, Paula, 859 00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 11: paul thanks for waiting. I knew we were going to 860 00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 11: talk to you. I think it's really interesting. Tell me 861 00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:42,279 Speaker 11: what you are facing down with your high school daughter. 862 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:42,960 Speaker 11: What's going on? 863 00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:45,320 Speaker 4: So? 864 00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 19: My daughter is a senior in high school and she 865 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,520 Speaker 19: really wants to go on the spring break trip with 866 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:55,600 Speaker 19: all of her friends. The problem is I don't want 867 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:57,920 Speaker 19: to pay for her to go on a spring break trip. 868 00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 19: I mean, and my wrong for that. I just everyone 869 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 19: is going to Florida for spring break, all of her friends, 870 00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:12,320 Speaker 19: and she really wants me to help her go on 871 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:16,120 Speaker 19: this trip, and you know, I graduated in high school 872 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,960 Speaker 19: or I'm sorry, I graduated in two thousand and three 873 00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 19: from high school. 874 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 2: So, like, I just it wasn't a thing back then. 875 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:23,879 Speaker 2: I was going to say. 876 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,200 Speaker 11: When I first heard from you, I was like, yeah, 877 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:27,880 Speaker 11: spring break when I was high school. There was a 878 00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,640 Speaker 11: long time ago. It's like, oh, you mean you got 879 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:31,839 Speaker 11: sleep late and watch prices right right? 880 00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:33,359 Speaker 2: And you know you didn't. 881 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 11: We didn't go anywhere. It wasn't It wasn't a tradition now. 882 00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,760 Speaker 11: But kids go on spring break in how school? 883 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 2: I think so. Yeah, as a matter of fact, I 884 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:42,080 Speaker 2: know they do. 885 00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,680 Speaker 7: Yeah that movie spring Breakers, aren't they in high school 886 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 7: with Selina Gomez. Well that's a movie, I know, But 887 00:39:47,120 --> 00:39:48,839 Speaker 7: I'm not real life because I think in the past 888 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:51,000 Speaker 7: ten fifteen years it became much more of a thing. 889 00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,360 Speaker 2: Interesting, I didn't go on a trip in high school. 890 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:55,600 Speaker 3: That wasn't a thing when I was in high school. Neither. No, 891 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:58,359 Speaker 3: So she wants to go on this trip with all 892 00:39:58,400 --> 00:39:59,279 Speaker 3: of her friends. 893 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 2: And what's the what the hold up? 894 00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:02,120 Speaker 11: Is it the money or the fact that she's going 895 00:40:02,160 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 11: to be like a thousand miles away drinking tequila on 896 00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,399 Speaker 11: the beach with a bunch of eighteen year olds. 897 00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,520 Speaker 19: I mean, obviously it's both, but it's more so that 898 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 19: she wants me to cover the costs. 899 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:14,120 Speaker 14: And it's a lot. 900 00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 19: I mean, the airfare, the hotel, all the activity she's 901 00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 19: going to do. It's at least a thousand dollars. 902 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 17: At least a thousand dollars. 903 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,879 Speaker 11: Does she have one thousand dollars of her own? 904 00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:31,399 Speaker 15: No, she works at Jersey Mice. 905 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 2: Okay, don't. I don't know. 906 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:41,040 Speaker 11: I mean everybody in this room except mab vaunt. Did 907 00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:42,359 Speaker 11: your friends go on spring break? 908 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 8: No? 909 00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,439 Speaker 7: No, we did, like I didn't, but my friends didn't either. 910 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 7: We maybe after prom went on a trip let spring break? 911 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:50,839 Speaker 2: No, it was never. No, never after prom you went 912 00:40:50,880 --> 00:40:52,200 Speaker 2: on a trip. I didn't even do that. 913 00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 7: But after Prom some people went to like the Shore, 914 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:56,439 Speaker 7: which is like an hour drive, but not a trip 915 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,760 Speaker 7: across to Florida. 916 00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:01,040 Speaker 11: I think Carson and his buddy might have driven to 917 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 11: Colorado and stayed at our house in Colorado, but I 918 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,239 Speaker 11: don't remember for sure if that was spring break. But 919 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 11: it's it's a thing now. It absolutely is a thing, 920 00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 11: and I don't know why it started. It's not a 921 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:11,200 Speaker 11: bad thing, but it's a matter of like, Okay, now 922 00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:14,520 Speaker 11: they're eighteen years old, they're old enough legally to travel 923 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:17,400 Speaker 11: somewhere and have a good time and probably rent an airbnb. 924 00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,440 Speaker 11: But you don't want to spend the money and you're 925 00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,560 Speaker 11: not really so is this a thing? And what do 926 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:25,560 Speaker 11: you think she should do? 927 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 7: I think it's gonna definitely cost more than well, she 928 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,000 Speaker 7: said at least one thousand dollars. Flights are expensive and 929 00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 7: airbnb depending on how many people. Maybe you could split 930 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,040 Speaker 7: it up certain ways, but it's definitely gonna be pricey. 931 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,279 Speaker 11: Kayla is communion on this one? Kayla, what do you 932 00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,399 Speaker 11: think should she pay for her daughter eighteen years old 933 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 11: to go off to Florida and get drunk on the 934 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,840 Speaker 11: beach with a bunch of strangers drinking tequila. 935 00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 2: Don't make it sound bad. 936 00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:48,719 Speaker 9: Well, it is going to be funny, you know, absolute 937 00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,640 Speaker 9: worst case scenario, because I do, I do. 938 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 17: My advice is don't be that mom. 939 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:55,759 Speaker 9: You know, if you can afford it, let her go 940 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 9: on that trip. But do you want her to resent you? 941 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,799 Speaker 17: Because if you think about it, it's gonna. 942 00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,799 Speaker 9: Be walking around your house for that week. You can 943 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 9: have a cranky seventeen eighteen year old pouting the entire week. 944 00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:09,319 Speaker 2: That's good point. 945 00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 21: Yeah, all of her friends are like sending their posting 946 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,399 Speaker 21: on social media about how they're you know, they're drinking 947 00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:15,239 Speaker 21: tequila on the beach. 948 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,719 Speaker 17: Exactly all of us talking about this. Wasn't the way 949 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 17: when we were in high. 950 00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,240 Speaker 9: School, Like, well, we didn't have social media telling everyone 951 00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,440 Speaker 9: exactly how much of a loser we are because we 952 00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 9: didn't get to go on the trip. 953 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:25,920 Speaker 3: But she needs to. 954 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,440 Speaker 9: I think it's higher stakes now. 955 00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, but she has to learn a lesson that she 956 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,120 Speaker 3: doesn't get everything she wants. 957 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 2: Come on, it's. 958 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 9: You know she said that, you know, she said she 959 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,399 Speaker 9: had a job at Jersey Mike's. So say like, hey, 960 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,960 Speaker 9: I'll bank will you this trip, but you're gonna have 961 00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,239 Speaker 9: to pay me back for it. So then she gets 962 00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 9: a life experience and she has a lesson and responsibility. 963 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I say let her go. Let let her go. 964 00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:56,759 Speaker 11: I ever get that two hundred dollars out of her 965 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 11: bank account or whatever she's got from Jersey Mikes, you 966 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,400 Speaker 11: pay the rest of it, or like okay, you go, 967 00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:04,480 Speaker 11: but you get to check in every day every night, 968 00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,400 Speaker 11: once an hour every night, and send and FaceTime me 969 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:08,600 Speaker 11: once an hour every night. 970 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,759 Speaker 3: FA face time me every single hour on the top 971 00:43:10,800 --> 00:43:11,280 Speaker 3: of the hep. 972 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:12,799 Speaker 2: What a text message to say anything anything? 973 00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,799 Speaker 4: I mean, one person says it's for the experience, pay 974 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,920 Speaker 4: for it? Who else would? But then a lot of 975 00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:19,839 Speaker 4: people are saying, make her pay for it, make her 976 00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:22,200 Speaker 4: pay for half of it. She should have to pay 977 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:23,239 Speaker 4: for it if she wants to go. 978 00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 19: Uh. 979 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:26,879 Speaker 4: This one says, graduated in twenty ten senior spring break 980 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,919 Speaker 4: trip was a big deal. 981 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 3: We went to can Coon? 982 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like did you go? 983 00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:33,160 Speaker 3: I want to know, did you go to can Coon 984 00:43:33,719 --> 00:43:36,439 Speaker 3: with a chaperone or did you just go on your own? 985 00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:39,960 Speaker 2: I think sometimes they do. Mom and dad do go along, 986 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,480 Speaker 2: but all the time. 987 00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:44,080 Speaker 4: Because I would be nervous if I had a kid, 988 00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 4: even if they're eighteen, Like sending an eighteen year old 989 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,360 Speaker 4: with a bunch of other eighteen year olds to like 990 00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:52,200 Speaker 4: can Coon without an adult person. 991 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:55,120 Speaker 11: Drink down there everything, and it wouldn't be legal to 992 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 11: drink if they weren't responsible. 993 00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,759 Speaker 3: But they're kids. To me, they're still kids. 994 00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,319 Speaker 11: They don't know how to do stuff adults. So let 995 00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:03,600 Speaker 11: me just go go with this again. So, Paula, you 996 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:05,680 Speaker 11: say your eighteen year old wants to go to Florida. 997 00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 11: Have you told her no, or have you told her 998 00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:09,520 Speaker 11: we'll think about it. 999 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,719 Speaker 19: I told her we would think about it, but that 1000 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:14,839 Speaker 19: it was probably. 1001 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 9: Going to be a no, okay, because it just I 1002 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,920 Speaker 9: really I didn't really think about having her pay me 1003 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 9: back for it and maybe teaching her. 1004 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:26,160 Speaker 19: That responsibility through that experience. 1005 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:26,840 Speaker 8: So I like that. 1006 00:44:27,080 --> 00:44:29,120 Speaker 9: So I'm glad I didn't completely close the door so 1007 00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:30,120 Speaker 9: I can think about that. 1008 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,239 Speaker 11: But okay, and then Kayla says that you're going to 1009 00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:35,319 Speaker 11: ruin her life. Cayla, what was your stance on this thing? 1010 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:41,840 Speaker 9: I okay, I'm saying that social media plays a bigger 1011 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,960 Speaker 9: role in their lives than it did in our lives. 1012 00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:45,360 Speaker 10: I to miss this, like. 1013 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,160 Speaker 9: Last life opportunity could be. 1014 00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:50,239 Speaker 17: It's not going to ruin her life, but. 1015 00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,919 Speaker 9: It is going to make things difficult for a while. 1016 00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,960 Speaker 11: So let her go think we can make it work, 1017 00:44:55,120 --> 00:44:59,040 Speaker 11: spring for it, let her pay you back? Right, Yeah, Okay, 1018 00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:00,719 Speaker 11: let me talk to some other people here. Stay on 1019 00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:04,160 Speaker 11: the phone if you can. Vanessa, would you let your 1020 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 11: eighteen year old daughter son go down to give about 1021 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,319 Speaker 11: Florida or CanCon on spring break? 1022 00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:11,040 Speaker 2: Vanessa, Hello morning. 1023 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:14,399 Speaker 9: There is absolutely no darn way I would be letting 1024 00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 9: my child go to a different state to go party. 1025 00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 3: For a week. 1026 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:20,960 Speaker 18: You want to hang on around here, fine, you go 1027 00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:22,880 Speaker 18: do your thing with your friends, but in a different 1028 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:23,520 Speaker 18: state to. 1029 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:27,600 Speaker 9: Go you know what there is way, what do you 1030 00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,040 Speaker 9: think they're going to do down there? 1031 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,840 Speaker 18: No, it's crazy. It's been a while since I've been 1032 00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,279 Speaker 18: in high school. But I can't imagine they're doing things 1033 00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:38,120 Speaker 18: they would do in front of their parents if they 1034 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:39,600 Speaker 18: have to go do it in another state. 1035 00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:42,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know what I was doing two years ago. 1036 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:46,200 Speaker 9: I wish you were your child live like, let them live, 1037 00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,200 Speaker 9: keep them at. 1038 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 18: Home, and keep them alive. 1039 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 2: Wow, Vanessa, I have a son. 1040 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:56,799 Speaker 18: Okay, So my oldest is fourteen and my youngest is one. 1041 00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,560 Speaker 18: So I've got a few and that's the and so 1042 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 18: it's I've had experience, and I have experience with my children. 1043 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,280 Speaker 18: So I just I there's no way I would feel. 1044 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 9: Comfortable letting my child go. Even with life three sixty 1045 00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:12,480 Speaker 9: in my back pocket, I would not do it. 1046 00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:16,640 Speaker 2: That one year old is pissed you on the background. 1047 00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:20,359 Speaker 3: Let me go on spring break, when. 1048 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:25,200 Speaker 11: Steve, when you grew When did you graduate? Steve two 1049 00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,600 Speaker 11: thousand and one, Tell me about your spring break senior trip. 1050 00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,840 Speaker 5: So me and my buddies got into the car that 1051 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,319 Speaker 5: my mom forced me to buy, which was a few 1052 00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:37,719 Speaker 5: weikh century. Yeah, on the road with whatever little party 1053 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 5: supplies we could scrounge up, and we went around and 1054 00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,439 Speaker 5: just traveled around Minnesota. I mean we went to hack 1055 00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:44,880 Speaker 5: and Sack and played hacky Sack on. 1056 00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 2: The side of the road. You had to, you had to, yes, 1057 00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,440 Speaker 2: So did you you just drove around? Did you get 1058 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:52,320 Speaker 2: up to no good? Did you get in any trouble? 1059 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:52,719 Speaker 14: Of course? 1060 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:52,960 Speaker 10: Oh? 1061 00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,680 Speaker 3: I remember Steve. Steve called in for something recently. 1062 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,880 Speaker 9: Really, Yes, I'm in for a bunch of stuff. 1063 00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:01,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a you are you probably cause a lot 1064 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:03,719 Speaker 1: of gray hairs for your parents growing up. 1065 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,439 Speaker 5: Well, I went to Catholic school, and I swear to God, 1066 00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 5: private school kids were a thousand times worse the public 1067 00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:09,759 Speaker 5: school kids. 1068 00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:11,800 Speaker 11: There's a story about a local school that if I 1069 00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:13,479 Speaker 11: tell the story again, I'll get in trouble. 1070 00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,160 Speaker 2: I'll get a phone call from the principal. 1071 00:47:15,239 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 11: But there is a legendary story about a bunch of 1072 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:21,360 Speaker 11: high school kids from a local Catholic school. They're supposed 1073 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,160 Speaker 11: to be all holy and religious. Let me tell you 1074 00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:25,799 Speaker 11: the biggest bunch of troublemakers, and then the kids got 1075 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,319 Speaker 11: in trouble and the parents stepped in and stood up 1076 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,200 Speaker 11: for them. No, it's a true story. I can't say 1077 00:47:31,239 --> 00:47:34,880 Speaker 11: which school, but maybe you know which schools. 1078 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 3: It was the day I got text messages if we want, 1079 00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:39,080 Speaker 3: we have another call the way. 1080 00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1081 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,520 Speaker 11: So, Kelly, your kids just to ask you if they 1082 00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,520 Speaker 11: can go on the big drunken spring break trip. 1083 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 14: Yeah. They did when they were in high school. 1084 00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 9: And my daughter was adamant. She's like, Mom, but everybody's going. 1085 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,040 Speaker 10: And I'm like, yeah, but I don't have the money, 1086 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:56,840 Speaker 10: you know, So what happened? 1087 00:47:57,480 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 14: No, I just told my kids. I had three kids. 1088 00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:01,399 Speaker 14: They were all very close than you did that time. 1089 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 14: I just told them, hey, listen, you're staying home. Well, 1090 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 14: you can have fun. You don't have to do any 1091 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:08,640 Speaker 14: charts this week, but you do have to tell me 1092 00:48:08,680 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 14: where you're going. And I agree with the caller, Steve. Yeah, 1093 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 14: those kids, you leave them home again, just as much trouble. 1094 00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 2: That's true. 1095 00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 11: Okay, thank you, Nicole. Last one, Nicole, Should the kids 1096 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,640 Speaker 11: get to go? Should Paul's kids get to go to 1097 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:26,800 Speaker 11: spring break in Florida? 1098 00:48:27,600 --> 00:48:32,280 Speaker 8: So I say yes, because if she's already like making 1099 00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 8: her way out of the home, she's going to do 1100 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,680 Speaker 8: this stuff in a year anyway. So in my opinion, 1101 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:41,960 Speaker 8: I would rather have some supervisions or a way to 1102 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,480 Speaker 8: supervise to teach that skill because she's just gonna like 1103 00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:47,560 Speaker 8: go on vacation next year. 1104 00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,480 Speaker 11: Boy, I mean, you're right, you got a good point. 1105 00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,120 Speaker 11: Think about it next year when they go to I 1106 00:48:51,160 --> 00:48:53,719 Speaker 11: don't know, Arizona State University. 1107 00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:58,319 Speaker 3: They got a PCB. What's that spring break Panama City Beach, right, But. 1108 00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,359 Speaker 11: I'm talking about when they go to college. They're going 1109 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,640 Speaker 11: to have the same freedom opportunity anyway, it's just six 1110 00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 11: months down the road. 1111 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:06,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't for some reason though, like going off 1112 00:49:06,719 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 4: to college is it's different to me though, because you'll 1113 00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:12,440 Speaker 4: end up going like the full school year, being like 1114 00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:15,359 Speaker 4: on your own without your parents, and like learning those 1115 00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 4: skills before spring break happens. It's not like you go 1116 00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,399 Speaker 4: to college and you're instantly like well, I guess maybe 1117 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:23,360 Speaker 4: it depends on the person, like your instant party. 1118 00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:25,759 Speaker 2: Party, party, But I it does depend on. 1119 00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:27,640 Speaker 4: The person, I think, right, And it just I think 1120 00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,239 Speaker 4: now it's because you're going on spring break, you're going 1121 00:49:30,280 --> 00:49:32,719 Speaker 4: to be partying for a week after being a high 1122 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:34,920 Speaker 4: schooler the day before, and then you have to go 1123 00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,160 Speaker 4: back to being a high schooler versus being like an 1124 00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:38,320 Speaker 4: independent college student. 1125 00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,239 Speaker 11: Somebody said, well, have your daughter borrow the money. She 1126 00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 11: can pay you back with the installment plan. 1127 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:45,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, a lot of people are saying that you could, 1128 00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:47,560 Speaker 4: that she'll have to pay for it, that you could 1129 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:50,200 Speaker 4: pay for half of it and make her pay for 1130 00:49:50,280 --> 00:49:52,920 Speaker 4: the other half. Someone did say that, like, hey, if 1131 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:54,759 Speaker 4: I'm paying for this, you're not getting a grad party, 1132 00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:55,600 Speaker 4: Like it's one or the other. 1133 00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:59,759 Speaker 11: Oh yeah, right, Brad, parties are probably at least that expensive. Yeah, 1134 00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:02,040 Speaker 11: you think no, but it's. 1135 00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:04,880 Speaker 4: Like all over the board here, So this Texas, she 1136 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:07,279 Speaker 4: should definitely pay for her She'll remember the senior trip 1137 00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,000 Speaker 4: for the rest of her life. I graduated in two 1138 00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,880 Speaker 4: thousand and three, and spring break was very much a 1139 00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:12,960 Speaker 4: thing when I was in high school. But then we 1140 00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:14,800 Speaker 4: get people on the other side that says, are we 1141 00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:17,600 Speaker 4: parenting by if our kids will give us attitude or not? 1142 00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,439 Speaker 2: That Oh that's a good one. 1143 00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,920 Speaker 11: Yeah, Are we parenting by whether our kids will give 1144 00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:27,959 Speaker 11: us attitude or no? That's a really whether they're three 1145 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:31,560 Speaker 11: or eight or eighteen. Yeah, because Kayla, the girl that 1146 00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,440 Speaker 11: called Paula, she was like, let her go. Do you 1147 00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,120 Speaker 11: know how bad that week's going to be? So what 1148 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:36,560 Speaker 11: I'm the parent, though, suck it up? 1149 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. But then this Texas. 1150 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,719 Speaker 4: I'm thirty now and I never forgot when my parents 1151 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 4: wouldn't let me go to the Buckhill Field. 1152 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:45,320 Speaker 2: Trip. Let her go, But that's the buck Hill Field. 1153 00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,400 Speaker 2: There's no reason not to let you go. 1154 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:48,000 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1155 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 11: I think sometimes you forget or you remember forever what 1156 00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 11: your parents wouldn't let you do. I was probably five. 1157 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 11: We were at a rodeo and the snow cone guy 1158 00:50:56,320 --> 00:50:59,759 Speaker 11: came by. No, not snow cone, cotton candy. Ooh, I 1159 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:02,120 Speaker 11: think I'd seen cotton candy. I knew what it was, 1160 00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,799 Speaker 11: but I'd never had it. And I said, Daddy, can 1161 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:05,520 Speaker 11: I have one? 1162 00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:06,239 Speaker 17: No? 1163 00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:11,520 Speaker 11: And I never forgot that for a quarter that's probably 1164 00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:13,120 Speaker 11: what it was back then. He could have gotten me 1165 00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,640 Speaker 11: a cotton candy. Let your kid go to buck Hill well. 1166 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:18,720 Speaker 3: Candy? 1167 00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:20,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, Mexico, Florida. 1168 00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:22,800 Speaker 7: Maybe this is just I feel the same way because 1169 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,040 Speaker 7: my mom wouldn't let me after prom, Like I said, 1170 00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:26,919 Speaker 7: I wanted to go to like Jersey Shore, Atlantic City, 1171 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 7: which was forty five minutes away from where I lived 1172 00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:30,320 Speaker 7: for the nights with friends. 1173 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:31,719 Speaker 2: My mom was like nope. 1174 00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:32,880 Speaker 7: And I was like, well, can we go to like 1175 00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,520 Speaker 7: Applebee's and get apps or something after it, like after 1176 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:36,479 Speaker 7: a prom or something. 1177 00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 2: Nope, nope. 1178 00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 7: So because my mom was more strict than we also 1179 00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:40,680 Speaker 7: just didn't grow with the most money. Maybe I think 1180 00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:43,200 Speaker 7: that's why I'm probably gonna raise my kids that way too. 1181 00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,200 Speaker 4: And someone else does say, like, our seventeen year old 1182 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 4: leaves on Sunday for Mexico and we paid twenty five 1183 00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:49,000 Speaker 4: hundred dollars. 1184 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:50,880 Speaker 10: Or so. 1185 00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 4: And then there, I mean, there are folks out here 1186 00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 4: saying like, well, the adults would like go with them. 1187 00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:57,160 Speaker 3: To these trips. 1188 00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:58,960 Speaker 2: A lot of time the adults go with me. 1189 00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:02,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's an even bigger expense. 1190 00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:04,760 Speaker 4: Kind of This one says, like graduating in twenty twelve, 1191 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 4: kN Kun was the big one where like thirty to 1192 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:08,720 Speaker 4: forty of the cool kids went, and maybe like twenty 1193 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,280 Speaker 4: of the parents would go, And I can just imagine 1194 00:52:11,320 --> 00:52:12,160 Speaker 4: that's expensive too. 1195 00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 3: But then, okay, here this one says, heck, no recipe 1196 00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:15,760 Speaker 3: for a disaster. 1197 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,080 Speaker 4: Teen's over eighteen in today's world are not mature or 1198 00:52:19,160 --> 00:52:22,239 Speaker 4: responsible enough to send off across the country or in 1199 00:52:22,320 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 4: another country. 1200 00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:25,560 Speaker 11: Now, that's an interesting question. I don't know a lot 1201 00:52:25,600 --> 00:52:29,160 Speaker 11: of eighteen year olds anymore. Carson's twenty four. I don't 1202 00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:29,520 Speaker 11: know what. 1203 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,480 Speaker 3: It really depends on the teenager. 1204 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know more eighteen year olds than most of us. 1205 00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:35,400 Speaker 4: I do know a lot of eighteen year olds, and 1206 00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,479 Speaker 4: like it. I would say some of them I would 1207 00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:41,040 Speaker 4: one hundred percent trust. But then like, for example, if 1208 00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 4: we're all on a bus and we get off the bus, 1209 00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:45,360 Speaker 4: and I have eighteen year olds who don't know what 1210 00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:46,919 Speaker 4: to do once you get off the bus. 1211 00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:50,879 Speaker 3: Now you walk into the school, where's the bathroom? Where 1212 00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:52,560 Speaker 3: what time is the first round? 1213 00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:54,279 Speaker 2: I'll be like, you have got to be kidding me. 1214 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:56,760 Speaker 3: You're eighteen, how do you how can you function? 1215 00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,920 Speaker 4: But then there are some that are totally like self sustaining, 1216 00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:03,280 Speaker 4: So like, it depends definitely on your teenager. 1217 00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:07,320 Speaker 3: But I mean I don't have teenagers. I don't have kids. 1218 00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:10,200 Speaker 4: I personally wouldn't let my kid go because I'd be 1219 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:11,920 Speaker 4: nervous for their safety. 1220 00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:15,319 Speaker 11: Well, sometimes you're right, it's not just them, but it's 1221 00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:18,040 Speaker 11: also the people that they might run into. 1222 00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:22,200 Speaker 1: Exactly like people that you're a kid, but the other 1223 00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,440 Speaker 1: people I don't know. I was a party girl, like 1224 00:53:24,640 --> 00:53:27,319 Speaker 1: in high school, in college, all that stuff. My parents 1225 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 1: would not have let me do this, And looking back, 1226 00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,759 Speaker 1: had they had the money to afford it, I still 1227 00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 1: they wouldn't have let me do it because they knew 1228 00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,520 Speaker 1: me and I and I would have agreed with it. 1229 00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 3: At this point in my life, I would have been mad. 1230 00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,279 Speaker 2: Back then, I am pregnant with the guy. 1231 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 4: I don't know. 1232 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:44,920 Speaker 1: I think that there's a little bit of a difference 1233 00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,480 Speaker 1: between sending your kid on spring break in high school 1234 00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,479 Speaker 1: versus them going off to college in like a few months, 1235 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 1: because college is a little bit more of a controlled environment, 1236 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:57,400 Speaker 1: whereas a random city in Florida, you have no idea 1237 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:58,640 Speaker 1: what you're getting yourself into. 1238 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:01,160 Speaker 4: Can I read this one text message but has like 1239 00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,279 Speaker 4: a specific story like what you're saying, Jenny Sex says. 1240 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:06,919 Speaker 4: I let my daughter go to cancuon on spring break 1241 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,879 Speaker 4: with friends and a couple moms went along. I made 1242 00:54:09,920 --> 00:54:12,920 Speaker 4: her watch the movie Taken before they left, So when 1243 00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,480 Speaker 4: the other girls wanted to sneak out one night, my 1244 00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:18,279 Speaker 4: daughter stayed behind the girls on the way back to 1245 00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,719 Speaker 4: the resort. Had to hand over all their money and 1246 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:23,040 Speaker 4: jewelry to the cab driver, or he said he would 1247 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:24,319 Speaker 4: leave them on the side of the road. 1248 00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,919 Speaker 3: So like, that's why I wouldn't. 1249 00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:28,640 Speaker 4: Want my kid to go, because I'd be scared of 1250 00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,319 Speaker 4: other people, not necessarily my kid. 1251 00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 3: Granted, like what you said, Jenny, your parents knew you. 1252 00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 2: That's horrible, straight all right, that thanks for all that. 1253 00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:41,200 Speaker 2: We appreciate that