1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:00,920 Speaker 1: Cole, what's up? 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,400 Speaker 2: Hey? So I was in calling to tell you about 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:08,239 Speaker 2: a story about how I caught my friend cheating while 4 00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 2: we were out of the bar. I can tell you, explained, So. 5 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, let's hear it. 6 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:17,119 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So we're going for a night out chill, 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: and so she is not old enough yet, so she 8 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:22,959 Speaker 2: wasn't twenty one, so we're all twenty one. She's not 9 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 2: twenty one, and this is back to college, so I 10 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:29,120 Speaker 2: rereading back to college. And so we go out, We're 11 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: having fun, and then this girl is trying to kind 12 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 2: of get with me, which I wasn't really interested, but 13 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 2: she was kind of trying to dance with me and 14 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:43,400 Speaker 2: get with me a little bit, but I was like, no, 15 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: I'm not really interested. So I kind of like was 16 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 2: like no, thank you. And then my friend comes in 17 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:53,479 Speaker 2: and he and I turned around and they're just making out, 18 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 2: and I'm like what. So I had to like do 19 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 2: a double take, and I was super confused. I was 20 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: like what is going on? Because he had a girlfriend, 21 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 2: and I was like this is weird. And so I'm like, dude, 22 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: what what the hell? Me and my roommate look at 23 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 2: each other. Other roommate look at each other, were like, 24 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 2: what's happening right now? Like he has a girlfriend, they've 25 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 2: been dating for like over a year. So yeah, that happened, 26 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: and we just didn't know what was going on, and 27 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 2: it was like very shocking. 28 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 3: So did you stop him in that moment? Did you 29 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 3: walk up to him and say, dude, like what's ought about? 30 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 3: Or did you kind of just let him do thing? 31 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 2: We were like, all, it's just kind of shocked, so 32 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 2: we let it happen. But it didn't go on for like, 33 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: it wasn't like a crazy makeout like you didn't go 34 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: on for a super long time. We I think we 35 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 2: were just kind of in shock, like what is going on? 36 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 2: And we didn't stop him. But then after we were like, dude, 37 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: did you just do that? Like what? So that happened? 38 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 1: And yet yeah, and then after the. 39 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 2: Fact, we were like me and my roommate up together 40 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 2: and we're like other roommate, not the one that cheated obviously, 41 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 2: We're like, what if, what's going on? What we tell her? Yeah? Yeah, 42 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 2: did you tell me? So here's the issue? 43 00:02:03,320 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 3: So what we did. 44 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 2: We confronted him and we're like, dude, this is your issue. 45 00:02:06,560 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 2: You cheated on your girlfriend. We need you to tell her, 46 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 2: and so we were like, you need to tell her. 47 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 2: And the thing is, he never told her, but we 48 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 2: were like, is this our place, do we tell her 49 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 2: or not. It was the weirdestuation because we were also 50 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 2: kind of friends with her, and so we didn't actually 51 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 2: end up telling her, which I know is not good 52 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 2: in the moment, but we didn't have telling her. And 53 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 2: the thing is they've been together now for three over 54 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:36,840 Speaker 2: three years and they're living together now. 55 00:02:37,320 --> 00:02:40,480 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it was just a little college thing. 56 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 1: You I mean before your story about making out at 57 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:46,920 Speaker 1: a bar, that's like, that's like college shut up in 58 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: one sentence doing it. 59 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you're cheating and you have a girlfriend though, 60 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Yeah, but it is. 61 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 3: It is. 62 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:58,840 Speaker 2: But I guess he thought it was just a college 63 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:03,839 Speaker 2: like one night, but I saw a girl. 64 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: There was a buddy of mine in college. We were 65 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 1: at a bar and I saw his girlfriend make out 66 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:10,359 Speaker 1: with another dude, and then I saw her make out 67 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 1: with another dude and I thought I should probably let 68 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: him know. So I let him know, and it's ruined 69 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: our friendship. And then the girl ends up moving down 70 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: the street from me. As an adult now she lives 71 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: down the street. She's married to some guy. I see 72 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: her all the time, and it's so uncomfortable. I mean, 73 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 1: you're talking about college tump. All right, brother, I have 74 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: a great day, thanks Cole. So don't say anything is 75 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: a lesson. Yeah, don't saynything. They're happy now, they're together, 76 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 1: they worked it out. 77 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 3: That's kind of wild that you say that, John j. 78 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 1: My meme. 79 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 3: She texted our group chat, like our my friend book 80 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,240 Speaker 3: club group chat and randomly texted us and told us 81 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,280 Speaker 3: like gave us advice. And the advice was that if 82 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 3: you ever like like cheated or stepped out on your partner, 83 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 3: like take it to the grave, don't tell you any one. 84 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 3: I love to tell you that out of nowhere. And 85 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 3: I was like, we were like, thank you, okay, curus, 86 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 3: thank you for the advice. 87 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 2: Actually have anything to do with the book or. 88 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: No, I had nothing to do that. She was like, 89 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: just some advice for you, beautiful girls. 90 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 1: You know I've seen doctor Phil. 91 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 3: Don't tell anyone. She's like, it's not worth it. 92 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, doctor Phil's like, you're telling for you, not the 93 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: other person, what you need to get to the body 94 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: reflection that it's John Jay and Rich