WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Matt is Being Ghosted by Bella

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update on Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's find out what's going on here. So we

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<v Speaker 2>were having troubles this morning trying to get Matt's date

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<v Speaker 2>on with us, the girl that he had been talking to.

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd you guys meet on hinge or something like that,

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<v Speaker 2>or what'd you meet on? We met on Tinder? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you guys met on Tinder. You guys went out,

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<v Speaker 2>and you guys didn't do anything after you went out

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<v Speaker 2>to dinner and drinks and stuff like that. You didn't

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<v Speaker 2>go back and full round or anything like that. No,

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<v Speaker 2>and you after you guys, you know, went down to

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<v Speaker 2>this date, you had talked about the possibility of getting

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<v Speaker 2>together again, and she's just not even responding to text messages.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, didn't respond just yeah, kind of disappeared on me.

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<v Speaker 2>So she kind of disappeared on us for a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit and got cold feet wanting to come on the

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<v Speaker 2>air with us. And thank God for the persistence of

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<v Speaker 2>Bianca to be able to get her on.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt. Will you say hello to Tara?

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, Hey, Hi Tara, Hi, Hi Tera. It sounded like

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<v Speaker 2>you guys just kind of had like a very normal date.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys went out and get some drinks, got some food.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing happened after that. What was the reasoning why you

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<v Speaker 2>have been kind of not wanting to do anything past

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<v Speaker 2>this point? I just.

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<v Speaker 4>I just didn't think it was a good idea. What, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>you're holding back on us? I just didn't feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I could tell just he wasn't the guy for me

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<v Speaker 4>and I just were there specific things, something kind of

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<v Speaker 4>like a little sus going on with him?

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<v Speaker 1>What was sus?

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<v Speaker 4>Just like the way that he represented himself and then

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<v Speaker 4>the way that he was was very different. Okay, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>what do you mean, Well, he showed up with a

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<v Speaker 4>hickey on his neck, just in plain sight? I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>who does that on a first date?

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<v Speaker 1>How old that? Well? Yeah, maybe it was a birthmark.

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<v Speaker 1>How old are you?

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<v Speaker 3>Matt twenty?

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<v Speaker 1>You are not. You're twenty five years old and yet

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<v Speaker 1>to think about that?

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<v Speaker 3>For me?

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<v Speaker 1>Yours?

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<v Speaker 2>You are older than twenty five. You sound older than

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five. No, you're twenty five. You're twenty five, and

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<v Speaker 2>you get hickey?

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<v Speaker 3>Still exactly, I don't think a hickey?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean what you don't think? Do you look in

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<v Speaker 4>the mirror before you go on a date.

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<v Speaker 3>I like, if I did like, we're not exclusive, Like

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<v Speaker 3>what is the dot understand what they do would be?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that is true, that's fair. Yeah, that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean these days, I'm sure you have a friend

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<v Speaker 5>or a relative that's a girl that could tell you,

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<v Speaker 5>or even a guy friend. Hey, this is how you

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<v Speaker 5>cover up a hickey. But you didn't even try. That's

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<v Speaker 5>what made it so gross. Like I don't know where

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<v Speaker 5>your mouth has been. That's why I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 5>kiss you.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like you, why are we well?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know where my date's mouth has been.

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<v Speaker 2>But I can, I can? I can? I throw out

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<v Speaker 2>a couple of things real quick. We always talk about

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<v Speaker 2>slut shaming, and I think by you talking about his

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<v Speaker 2>his hickey and stuff like that, some people may look

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<v Speaker 2>at it as schlut's Jamie, I say that you're hickey

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<v Speaker 2>shaming the poor guy, and he should be because any

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<v Speaker 2>guy that allows anybody to give him a hickey, and

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<v Speaker 2>you're over the age of being seventeen, I think there's

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<v Speaker 2>something wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not mad you're like you like it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not asking for it. When's the last time you

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<v Speaker 6>got a hickey? You give you a very very very

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<v Speaker 6>long time.

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<v Speaker 1>I was seeing a guy recently who liked it, Like

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<v Speaker 1>he requested that I give him hickey? How old of

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<v Speaker 1>a guy was that? In his thirties?

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, there's a guy in his thirties asked you

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<v Speaker 2>to give him a hicc What in the.

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<v Speaker 1>F is going on? And get sucked and a rob?

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<v Speaker 1>You get good hickey in a rub? No?

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<v Speaker 4>I never, I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Never heard of that way. Don't you give good hickey?

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that one of the like, I think the

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<v Speaker 2>last time I ever had a hickey ever in my

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<v Speaker 2>life was again, like I think maybe after high school,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you know, Columbia College freshman year or something like that.

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<v Speaker 2>But and that was honestly, probably more embarrassing then than

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<v Speaker 2>it would have been, uh, you know, to to anybody

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<v Speaker 2>that would be thirty years old getting a hickey or

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<v Speaker 2>given a hickey. April for Mojoe Live Apri. Four six,

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<v Speaker 2>six five six five four eight. Tara doesn't like the

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<v Speaker 2>idea of dating him because she said that he has hickeys,

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<v Speaker 2>and she thinks that it was something that she just

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to explore past.

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<v Speaker 1>Kenny, what are your thoughts on this? One here.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm not trying to be a dick or nothing,

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<v Speaker 3>but I feel like the lights on but nobody is

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<v Speaker 3>home with this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>I truly, I think he's laying in bed and talking

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<v Speaker 4>on the phone, is what it sounds to except the

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<v Speaker 4>blood out of his brain.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Man? Another day, another day, a two days. We can't.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't notice hickey's that much. It looks like a bruise. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to Hey, we got the hairs trainer.

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<v Speaker 3>O.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna actually ask that question because I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Can black dudes, black girls get hickey? Absolutely, it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>look like.

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<v Speaker 6>It, but it looks like a like we got a bruise, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, like a birthmark.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not as clear as it as it is with

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<v Speaker 6>a more fair skinned individual, but you can definitely see

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<v Speaker 6>a hickey.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you get mode?

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<v Speaker 2>You get jealous of white guys like Matt who can

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<v Speaker 2>get hickeys because of that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, man, I'm thirty dog and when I was like fifteen,

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen hickeys the cool iow all my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying right.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, like now I'm too old for that.

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<v Speaker 1>After I hit twenty one, see get off my neck.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. Wait, if it's on a

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<v Speaker 1>different body part, yeah, as long as you can get

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<v Speaker 1>a hickey on my thigh. Yeah, that's a hickey.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where you should have hickeys past a certain age

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<v Speaker 2>so nobody can see them.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Savannah? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Du How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>We're doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're doing second date update? You wanted to comment.

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<v Speaker 4>I get that they're not exclusive, but who wants to

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<v Speaker 4>like hang out with someone who clearly just was like

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<v Speaker 4>hanging out with somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Like exactly was that part of it Tara that you

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<v Speaker 2>you don't you're looking at him and you're seeing that

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<v Speaker 2>he's got obviously marks on him that were made by another.

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, like.

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<v Speaker 5>They're claiming their territory. I mean, if he wanted me to.

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<v Speaker 1>See it, I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean chat GPT Hello, ask chat GPT how to

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<v Speaker 5>hide it?

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<v Speaker 2>If you can be more embarrassed asking GPT how to

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<v Speaker 2>hide a hickey than getting it?

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<v Speaker 3>My brain?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Toya? What's going on? Toya?

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<v Speaker 3>Woman?

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<v Speaker 6>He's telling me you don't letting that boy say property like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, you don't do that. That's horrible, period. But have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever had one, Toya, No, I haven't.

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<v Speaker 6>That's Cardinal saying to me, have you ever have you.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever marked someone?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Toya, thank you? You're a lady okay and have needs

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<v Speaker 2>to meet more?

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<v Speaker 1>Toyas. What's going on, Tiffany, how you doing? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 3>I agree with Tara. She said that he didn't represent

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<v Speaker 3>him the way he was doing it on the date,

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<v Speaker 3>like your twiny side and you have any What was

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<v Speaker 3>the context? Was he like dating for long term?

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<v Speaker 1>Was yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk to him. Ask him that question. Ask him

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<v Speaker 2>about the girl that gave him the hickey?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>What was that a casal thing?

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<v Speaker 3>Or what is your folk out on Tinder? Are you

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<v Speaker 3>looking for long term? Like I'm it's a first date?

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<v Speaker 3>Like I'm just I'm looking for what everybody else is

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<v Speaker 3>looking for, you know what I mean? That's not clear.

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<v Speaker 2>But Matt tell us about the girl that gave you

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<v Speaker 2>the hickey? Was that a one timer? Or was that

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that you've gone out with it before?

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<v Speaker 3>So first of all, I said, I don't even know

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<v Speaker 3>if I have one, Like, I don't know what you've

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<v Speaker 3>been talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you know who it was that marked up your

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<v Speaker 1>your neck?

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<v Speaker 3>I guess, Oh my God.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, terrible, go go go go yeah. Good Abby.

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<v Speaker 2>On the other hand, you actually kind of like the

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<v Speaker 2>idea of getting Come on, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Abby?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I mean you can get a hickey while

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<v Speaker 3>doing other things, is all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Abby, talk abould of you? Abby?

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<v Speaker 3>True, I'm thirty nine.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you're thirty nine years old? Whoa and wait? Thirty

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<v Speaker 2>nine years old? And you like do you like marking

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<v Speaker 2>or getting marked?

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<v Speaker 3>Getting marked? But it's not so much about the mark,

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<v Speaker 3>It's just I really.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that part of me being sitting or sucked.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>So you like your making? You like your neck played

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<v Speaker 1>with while you're you're having sex?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I do?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, she sounds like fun. What do you do for

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<v Speaker 3>to get her number?

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<v Speaker 1>Abby? What do you do for a living?

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<v Speaker 3>I work in healthcare?

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<v Speaker 2>So you go to work with marks on your neck?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you okay with that? Or does that bother?

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<v Speaker 1>Like? What do you do to?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>You cover that up with makeup.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a monkey?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right? Have you did you by the way

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<v Speaker 1>chat gpt it? Did you? Did you look it up?

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<v Speaker 1>How to cover up? Cookie?

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<v Speaker 5>Ma Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean I'm I've been doing this quite a

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<v Speaker 1>while like I don't.

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<v Speaker 6>To do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Abby, thank you for the call. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 2>Take care of yourself. One last one from Angela. Angela

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<v Speaker 2>second date update. Doesn't look like we're going to have

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<v Speaker 2>a follow up date for Matt. What's going on.

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<v Speaker 5>Morning?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying of shame anybody's cake, but also.

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<v Speaker 3>Know how old is Matt?

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<v Speaker 2>He said he was twenty five. I don't believe he's

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five, because Tara, you're twenty five?

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<v Speaker 3>Quick?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what year were you born? MATC? Go ahead, throw

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<v Speaker 1>it out there.

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<v Speaker 3>I told you I'm twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>What the question would be very easy, man. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for the call. Angela. Take care of yourself. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the home of the Dirty on the thirty go back, Frown,

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<v Speaker 1>second Date update and war were the roses. This is

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<v Speaker 1>Mojo in the Morning.