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Speaker 1: Second date update on internshown in Your Morning. Shall you

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Speaker 1: meet somebody you think breaks the mold? Maybe they could

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Speaker 1: be the one or at least the one right now?

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Speaker 1: And then they stopped talking. We tracked figure out exactly

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Speaker 1: what's going on. Rebecca, good morning, Good morning. So walk

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Speaker 1: us through this. You and Doug met where?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well through hint.

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Speaker 3: Through hints. And how long ago was that?

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Speaker 4: Well, it was like a month and a half ago,

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Speaker 4: month and.

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Speaker 3: A half ago. Okay.

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Speaker 1: How long did it take you guys to meet in

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Speaker 1: person after matching on the app?

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Speaker 2: Well, it was about two weeks. We first had coffee

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Speaker 2: and it was great, like I.

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Speaker 5: Think we clicked immediately, like it was everything.

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Speaker 4: It was fine. We went dinner as well.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but yeah, I didn't.

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Speaker 2: Know what happened.

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Speaker 4: Like two weeks ago. I went to her house, like

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Speaker 4: we had dinner.

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Speaker 3: Everything was fine.

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Speaker 4: I didn't say over, but everything.

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Speaker 3: Was like you went to his house? Yes, gotcha? Did

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Speaker 3: he did he make you dinner? Or did you guys

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Speaker 3: order in he make? Look at that what he made?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Like everything, like he's so romantic, Like it was perfect.

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Speaker 3: Everything was perfect.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but we didn't stay over.

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Speaker 3: So when you left there, how did you guys leave.

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Speaker 4: It like everything was good?

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Speaker 5: Like we like I thought we were in the same page, okay.

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Speaker 2: And then I texted him, I called him and he

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Speaker 2: didn't answer it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, and so and that was two weeks ago. And

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Speaker 1: so he's given you no indication of why, no response

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Speaker 1: like why okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, and no idea okay.

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Speaker 1: And there's nothing you can think of. There's no like

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Speaker 3: Again. He may it seem like we're gonna see each

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Speaker 3: other again soon we are? Yeah, No, I have no clue. Okay.

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Speaker 1: And then the final question is how long have you

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Speaker 1: been single? How long has he been single?

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Speaker 3: If if you know, mmm, I've been single for a year.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm not sure about him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me just let's call him, because making somebody

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Speaker 1: food it's a pretty big big yeah, that's like, it's

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Speaker 1: odd that he would put that much investment in then

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Speaker 1: just kind of pop out. So let me call him

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Speaker 1: and track him on real quick. No, No, it'd be fine,

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Speaker 1: it'll be fine. It'll be fine either way. All right, Hi,

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Speaker 1: calling for Doug please, Hey, man, it's interns you down.

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Speaker 1: I got Sauce and Rose here as well. Can I

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Speaker 1: talk to on the air real quick about something nothing bad,

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Speaker 1: I just need like thirty seconds of your time.

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Speaker 3: Sure, all right, So we're doing a second date update.

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Speaker 1: I have somebody on the other line here, Rebecca, if

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Speaker 1: you want to say hello, Hi.

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Speaker 3: So are you nailed it? And so? Uh Doug.

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Speaker 1: The reason Rebecca reached out to us she had told

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Speaker 1: us you guys mashed on Hinge by a month and

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Speaker 1: a half ago, that you guys have been on three

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Speaker 1: dates at the last day, you made her a lovely meal,

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Speaker 1: and that she hasn't heard from you in two weeks.

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Speaker 3: So we're here trying to see where you're at.

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Speaker 1: I think that's uh, it sounds like you're a stand

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Speaker 1: up fella making somebody meal very nice, and we just

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Speaker 2: Yeah, uh yeah, everything went pretty good. Yeah, we had

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Speaker 2: a couple of dates and and you know, we went

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Speaker 3: Yeah we know all that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I guess we're just trying to see where

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Speaker 3: Yet I was really you know, kind of teared me off.

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Speaker 4: She she still seems.

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Speaker 2: Ex boyfriends, like she's still sleeping with an ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Oh, did not even come up. Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 3: How did you find how that we're.

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Speaker 4: Just well, we were we were just talking about you know, last.

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Speaker 2: Relationships and and uh, you know, previous relationships, and she

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Speaker 3: Okay, Rebecca, is that what?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 5: But but I'm like, we're not dating anymore, like he's

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Is this?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Is this just for Meana? We judge? Is this the

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It's just like ut our needs Matt?

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Speaker 3: Or is it? Do we still have feelings?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't have scenings for him anymore.

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so in theory, like if it worked out

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Speaker 1: with Doug, you would cut that off.

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Speaker 3: Is that we're saying?

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Speaker 2: Of course?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: But Doug You're You're thought is it's just odd the

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Speaker 1: acts is still yeah, okay, let me just I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: put you guys in hold. Are you a team Rebecca

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Speaker 1: or team Doug? So it gets you on hold shelby

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Speaker 1: saucy thoughts, please.

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Speaker 6: I am team Doug here, because I don't know how

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Speaker 6: that comes up, Like, how do you even want that

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Speaker 6: a guy had let that slip, I wouldn't want to

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Speaker 6: see them either, because it shows that you're not ready

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Speaker 6: to move on from your last relationship. I think that's

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Speaker 6: why are we on a date? Why are we here?

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Speaker 6: Why are you calling into a radio station to see why?

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Speaker 6: I don't want to see you?

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Speaker 3: Guys? Like, what are we doing? Kayad to that too.

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Speaker 1: If I was the dude, I'd be like, why am

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Speaker 1: I taking you out? If he's exactly he's getting the fun.

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Speaker 6: Stuff, but okay, I don't think of it like that.

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Speaker 1: But but yeah, why am I doing like the romantic stuff?

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Speaker 6: I don't disagree because it I just I don't think

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Speaker 3: And also the fact that you're bringing up on a

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Speaker 1: I would say negative exes tend to float around because

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Speaker 1: I'm here still.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it just seems like if you still have that

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Speaker 3: Why are you?

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Speaker 2: Guys?

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Speaker 3: Will hang out rose your thoughts.

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Speaker 5: I think it shows her intentions in whatever it is

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Speaker 5: that they're doing. Like, she obviously hasn't let go from

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Speaker 5: the past, and she's not moving forward to take this

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Speaker 5: relationship seriously. So if his expectations are I am dating

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Speaker 5: to date you to eventually have something serious, that immediately

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Speaker 5: shuts it down.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: I think that's fair. The phones are blown up too.

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Speaker 1: Let me go in Germantown. It's the best, Like good morning.

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Speaker 3: Hi, good morning, what'd you want to say? Girl?

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Speaker 2: So I am a team Doug like the others pretty

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Speaker 2: girls that I'm sure everything.

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Speaker 4: You know, why seek.

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Speaker 2: Another relationship or even get onto an app to meet

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Speaker 2: she's not ready to let go. I mean, you know,

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Speaker 2: and you know, it could be a personal reason. She's

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Speaker 2: could just be that that's something that she really likes.

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Speaker 2: But you know, if that's going to be the case,

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Speaker 2: don't go out, you know, don't be on a dating app,

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Speaker 2: don't call on a radio show like it's it doesn't

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Speaker 4: It's not something that you're like, oops, it just accidentally,

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Speaker 2: I think that she intentionally had to say it because

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Speaker 4: Felt a little bit guilty and.

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Speaker 2: Was like, hey, maybe I should just you the full truth.

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Speaker 2: But again, why seek something, you know, if you're not

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Speaker 1: Like go the past. Yes, I don't disagree with Isabella,

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Speaker 1: thank you for listening, to have a great day.

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Right to her point two, I think if you're not

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Speaker 1: ready to go to the past, that's fine. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: your progue, if certainly, but don't drag somebody else.

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Speaker 3: That's why are we here? Why are you upset? Like

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Speaker 3: you already have are having fun. Yeah, I'll be going

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Speaker 3: Laurel brend Doug and morning, good morning, doing well. Thank you.

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Speaker 3: What do you want to say?

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Speaker 4: I was just gonna say kind of stimilar to everybody else,

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Speaker 4: like I'm paying Doug, I think, Yeah, I mean for

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Speaker 4: the guy to go out his way and cook you,

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Speaker 4: cook you a meal, And I don't know. I just

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Speaker 4: think some guys are willing to make it work. And

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Speaker 4: if you're still sleeping with your ex, it's just I

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Speaker 4: don't know, that's that's kind of crud and you're like

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Speaker 4: wasting everybody's time. Yeah, I still think she was in

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Speaker 4: the right for that.

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Speaker 1: I don't disagree, Brenda. Thank you for listening to have

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Speaker 1: a great day. Thank you by somebody texting too. She's

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Speaker 1: been hook up with the X a year. You've been

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Speaker 1: single for you, I guess I should have asked.

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Speaker 3: How long they've been lingering feelings there, let's.

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Speaker 1: Go in Gaithersburg, Nadia, good morning, Hi, good morning. What

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Speaker 1: do you want to say with second day up date friend?

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Speaker 3: She definitely sabotage herself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean she didn't have to say that, even

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Speaker 2: though she wanted to be honest.

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Speaker 3: I'm all for honesty.

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Speaker 4: But if she really liked the guy and she saw

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Speaker 4: a future with him.

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Speaker 2: And if she really wanted to like stop sleeping with

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Speaker 2: her ex, she.

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Speaker 4: Could just not say anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah, I'm gonna take a stab in

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Speaker 1: dark here. I think that you're the friend that people

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Speaker 1: only go to you if they want the real truth,

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Speaker 1: because you're gonna say it might hurt somebody's feelings.

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Speaker 3: Is that fair? Yeah, yeah, okay, that's that's a good

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Speaker 3: friend to have though. Absolutely. Now you thank you for listening,

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Speaker 3: Have a great day.

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Speaker 4: Of course you

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Speaker 6: Too, Intern John in your morning Showart Radio