1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Ninety three three f l Z, this is the Joe Show. 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,720 Speaker 1: And did you ask her? Did she ask you? Ashley? 3 00:00:06,720 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: Your girlfriend and you had a conversation about red flags? 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I asked her. I want you to know about 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,200 Speaker 2: red flags because I don't think I have any. But 6 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:16,599 Speaker 2: I mean when you date someone, they obviously Why are 7 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:18,119 Speaker 2: you laughing, jan I got a red flag? 8 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? 9 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 3: I know. I'm not going to say anything. I'll let 10 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 3: you speak. 11 00:00:21,640 --> 00:00:23,240 Speaker 4: Oh what's her red flag? 12 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: Ja? 13 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 5: I think that And I used to give Joe a 14 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 5: lot of craft for this, but I think you go 15 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 5: way way too quick. 16 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,159 Speaker 3: You're going like, I think that's I think it is 17 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:33,440 Speaker 3: kind of. 18 00:00:33,440 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 6: A red said the guy who's gonna make this girl 19 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 6: his girlfriend after a month. 20 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 5: I never said I was going to pull the table partner. 21 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 4: So you say that he moves way too quick. 22 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 6: No, I don't think Jed moves quick because he just said, 23 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 6: you know, I can't believe he thinks I move quick. 24 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:54,720 Speaker 6: Do We've been talking for four months, Ashley. 25 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 5: You've never met the girl, and you already met her 26 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 5: made her your girlfriend. You don't think that's a lot. 27 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 6: For two and a half on, we had conversations. 28 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 3: Okay, and. 29 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 6: Physical and it was amazing. 30 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 4: Hey, when you know, you know? 31 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 6: Is that right, Joe? When you know you know? 32 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 4: Look at your getting married fairly fast, very fast. 33 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 5: But I think Joe's pace was even better than your pace, 34 00:01:19,920 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 5: A medium pace. 35 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was immediate. 36 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 6: After two weeks two. 37 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 4: It was quick. I move quick, but it worked out 38 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 4: for me. So it can't be a red fri. 39 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 6: I see why people think you got are sleeping together. 40 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 6: I mean, this guy goes so hard for. 41 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:36,679 Speaker 3: You, he does. 42 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 4: Is that his red flag? That loyalty? We got loyalty. 43 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 4: I got loyalty. 44 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 3: That's a good red flight to have. 45 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 4: That's a green flag his girlfriend. 46 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: I can't believe it that you two. I mean he 47 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: said that you got to get him back. You got 48 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: to get him back, move fast. What's his red flag? 49 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 6: Red flag for Jed? 50 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 3: Is he's gonna say that I'm emotional, which is true, Like, hold, 51 00:01:58,520 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 3: don't put red flag? 52 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, you get come on. What's his red flag? 53 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 6: I think the red flag is your poor at communicating. 54 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 4: Oh, I thought you're gonna stop it poor. I was 55 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 4: going I can't afford it. 56 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 6: I was gonna the dump button on me for a second. Yeah, yeah, 57 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 6: you're terrible at communicating. 58 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,679 Speaker 3: Oh, I don't disagree. It is a red flag of mine. 59 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 4: Thank you, say over emotional for. 60 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: Wait, hold on, I don't like his response to that. 61 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: Give him another red flag one that will bother him. 62 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 4: I don't think come and think about it. 63 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,359 Speaker 6: I'm not and I genuinely liked it as a person. 64 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 5: I'm not meaning in a disrespectful way. I'm just being 65 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,519 Speaker 5: honest you. I'm your friend, Ashley. Do you want me 66 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 5: to tell you. 67 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: That I move faster than Joe in this particular situation 68 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 2: you moved. 69 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 6: I moved a lot faster with my previous hookups. Then 70 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:51,239 Speaker 6: I'd moved fast with her. This is okay, you're right 71 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 6: this girlship. 72 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 4: Yes, I'm slow. 73 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 2: And then I knew it was I knew she was 74 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 2: the one because you guys said on the air, it 75 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 2: takes me a very long time to get intimate with 76 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 2: the person. It took me a very long time to 77 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 2: kiss other girls. This one, she fluid, had a good time, 78 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 2: but she said, back to red flag. So I want 79 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 2: to know what she thinks your red flags are. So 80 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 2: she said, my red flag is I'm controlling, but not 81 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 2: in the sense of regulating. I just have to have 82 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 2: certain control over things, like certain things I have to 83 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 2: codn't have to control over. And then she said my 84 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,360 Speaker 2: other red flag, but it's kind of a yellow flag. 85 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 6: She said that. 86 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 2: I'm a good liar and I'm good at manipulating things, 87 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: but she says it's probably due to working with people 88 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: who I have to I don't know, be animated. 89 00:03:39,880 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: With eight hundred four on the ninety three ninety three? 90 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:47,000 Speaker 1: What is your red flag? What would be that thing 91 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 1: that you do that you know you should be if 92 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: you were a product and you had a warning label, 93 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: what would that warning label say eight hundred four on 94 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,839 Speaker 1: the ninety three ninety three. Because she's at work, let 95 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: me text her and see I don't want to call 96 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 1: her a bunch of times, and then next service