1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,680 Speaker 1: Dustin. Good morning, Hey John Jay. 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 2: How's it going, longtime listener? 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:06,320 Speaker 1: Oh? Thanks, Dustin? How are you? 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:10,800 Speaker 2: I'm awesome, man, I mean mostly, you know, I just 5 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:16,079 Speaker 2: really need some advice because I'm genuinely confused and it's 6 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 2: at the point now where it's just starting to hurt 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 2: my feelings. Okay, it's about my boyfriend and I've been 8 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,279 Speaker 2: with him for a little over a year now. I 9 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 2: think it's a significant amount of time. And I'm saying 10 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 2: this because he's the first guy I'm fully openly dated, 11 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 2: committed to, and I just really want this to work. 12 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 1: Okay, So how can I help you? 13 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 2: So it's just that lately I'm realizing because I don't 14 00:00:46,640 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 2: want this to come off like a small thing, but 15 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 2: it's just I'm realizing, and it's been going on for 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: a bit, that he just doesn't remember things about me, 17 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: and it's things I feel like your partner should know 18 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 2: about you or recognize or remember. Like let me just say, 19 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 2: like I brought him a gift back from Europe and 20 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 2: when his friend asked where he got it, he said 21 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: someone else gave it to him. 22 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:17,119 Speaker 3: That's bad. Hurt by that for sure? 23 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:18,479 Speaker 1: What else? 24 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know, normally you know, I can just 25 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 2: let that stuff slide, you know, because we're in a 26 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 2: serious relationship. But then the other day I found out 27 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: he doesn't even know my middle name. 28 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 4: After over a year of dating. 29 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: A little over a year, he still does not know 30 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 2: my middle name. Again, that's just a I mean, that's 31 00:01:37,600 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 2: an obvious word flagged. But to top it off, we 32 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 2: had a dinner reservation and he seld my last name wrong. 33 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 5: We got a text here that was funny because I 34 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 5: was just perfect timing. This text says, Hey, my son 35 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 5: is two years old next week, and I had to 36 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 5: check how I spelled his name correctly for another kid's 37 00:01:58,320 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 5: birthday party. 38 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: Card her own. Yes, this spell check. He thought he's 39 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 1: spelled his sons the name wrong. That's that happened. 40 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 3: Some people are details. I mean, he might love you 41 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 3: just kind of like have one of those brains that 42 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 3: doesn't operate that. 43 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 4: That's kind of what I was thinking. I was going 44 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 4: to ask you, is he like a big picture guy, Like, 45 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 4: is he like thinking ten years down the road and 46 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 4: he's not really normally into the details anyways, Because that 47 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 4: what kind of makes sense. 48 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 2: I mean somewhat, But it's just like when you put 49 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 2: these pieces together, and there's there's been more like smaller signs, 50 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 2: and these aren't like isolated incidents that are fure far between. 51 00:02:37,560 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 2: It's just it's just starting to make me after a year, 52 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: I mean a year, and I've tried bringing it up, 53 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 2: inching at it. But if she takes me feel like 54 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 2: I'm not important or member. 55 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 5: Oh, Darren, I think you're just being emotional Dustin. 56 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 3: Oh, maybe you don't even remember Justin's name. 57 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:57,720 Speaker 1: Maybe it's just you. 58 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 3: Maybe it's you. 59 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: I think it's you, Dustin. I think it's your whole person. 60 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 2: So is he going to call me Darren now. 61 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: Just a little joke? 62 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 4: I think you got to talk to him about it 63 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 4: and just be like, are you doing this on purpose? 64 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 4: Or do you not realize you're doing this? 65 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 3: Because these details kind of. 66 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,800 Speaker 4: Matter to me. Maybe he doesn't realize what he's doing. 67 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 2: I don't want to be too sensitive about it, but 68 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 2: but I think. 69 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,919 Speaker 4: You I mean, it's not one thing, it's a it's 70 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 4: several things at this point, and I don't think you 71 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 4: have to be confrontational about it. 72 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 3: Just be like, hey, do you do you know what's. 73 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 5: Kind of happening here? 74 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 4: It's kind of like it's it's it's something that I'm 75 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 4: concerned about. 76 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: You're like, out of my three names, you only kind 77 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 3: of have my first name. I don't. 78 00:03:40,480 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: I don't think it's that big of a deal just yet. 79 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: That's just my opinion for sure. In fact, we could just. 80 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 5: Put this out real quick eight seven seven ninety three 81 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 5: seven one o four seven. 82 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: Let's make Dustin feel better. 83 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 5: Call up and tell us about how your boyfriend, girlfriend 84 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 5: cergtificant other. I mean, even me as a dad, I 85 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 5: get all my kids names, wrongs, wrongs, wrongs, I'll say 86 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 5: three or four names. You have parents do that all 87 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 5: the time, right, So I could see him not getting 88 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 5: things right, and he probably mispelled your name by mistake, rushing, 89 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 5: but I mean, you still bring it up to him. 90 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 5: But we'll just do a quick round. Tell us about 91 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 5: how you're sitting to the other completely messed up something 92 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 5: that was Like every time my wife tells me about 93 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 5: her birthday, it takes a second for me. 94 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: I can't it's just not I mean, she knows my 95 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 1: social Security number. Yeah, like I don't know, you forget. 96 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 3: Some people are like that. Some people remember everything. Other 97 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 3: people big picture, they don't think about it. So I'm 98 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 3: going to give him a pass. Yeah, so that's what 99 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 3: I'm saying. Yeah, but still we'll do a round. So 100 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 3: Darren Dustin will hang up. You turn up the radio, 101 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 3: and you listen to what everyone says to make you 102 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 3: feel better. 103 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 2: Okay, Hey, I appreciate that. Thank you for all your health. 104 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: You got a hold on a second. Oh sorry, what 105 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: what are you saying? You just want to what? Sorry? 106 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 2: Just wanted to get this off my chest. I'm happy 107 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:49,200 Speaker 2: I did. 108 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 5: Okay, good hold on eight seven, seven, nine, three, seven 109 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 5: one or four seven. Let's make him feel better. We'll 110 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 5: talk to you next. John Jay and Rich. 111 00:04:55,480 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 3: Squabble lot, squabble lop, squabble up, squabble up. Jessica, good morning, 112 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 3: Good morning. 113 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 6: John Jay. 114 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: What's up? 115 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 7: Hey? 116 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 6: So I was just calling because I wanted to let 117 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 6: you guys know that I was one of the first 118 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 6: people who lost the thousand dollars and then I asked 119 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,320 Speaker 6: for party in the park tickets and I said that 120 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 6: we would dress up in bald caps for this weekend 121 00:05:19,520 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 6: and we did and everybody loved it. So I send pictures, Yeah, 122 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:29,640 Speaker 6: I it. I send pictures to you guys' instagram of 123 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 6: our bald caps. 124 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 8: But we went all that we liked. 125 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 6: Spent all the day gluing them down and actually looked bald, 126 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 6: and people were taking pictures of us. It was so fun. 127 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 3: That was what a great show. 128 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 4: That was one of my favorite parts about being there, 129 00:05:41,320 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 4: just seeing everyone with the bald caps on. 130 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 5: I was like, yes, Piple, what was your favorite part, Jessica, 131 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 5: would you like about the concert? 132 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 6: It was really fun. I liked everything, but my favorite 133 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 6: part was honestly being dressed up with one of my 134 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 6: best friends that are just having. 135 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 2: The best time. 136 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 6: Like she was so down with me to be bald, 137 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:01,760 Speaker 6: and just like we went out to eat at Philibertos 138 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 6: in our bald caps and just it was just fun 139 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 6: to have that experience. So I really appreciate you guys 140 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 6: giving us the tickets and letting us have that time together. 141 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 5: My sister was with me, and she was walking around 142 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 5: and she goes, she was texting with her daughter, and 143 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 5: her daughter she goes, I'm a Pivot concert and the 144 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 5: daughter goes, are you wearing a bald cap? And my 145 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 5: sister goes, lol, right, she didn't know, and then she goes, 146 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,239 Speaker 5: she goes, Elle just asked me if I was wearing 147 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 5: a bald cap, and I see all these people that 148 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 5: are wearing bald caps. Is that a thing? And I'm like, yeah, 149 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 5: what do Why would you say? Is that a thing? 150 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 5: And it's a thousand people here bald cap It's a thing, 151 00:06:33,160 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 5: a thing, all right, Jessica, thanks for listening and glad 152 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 5: you had a good. 153 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: Time playing the park. 154 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 6: Thank you so much. Thanks. 155 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,359 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a great event, fantastic event. 156 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 5: Okay, So a little side note again, another behind the 157 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 5: scenes with our radio show. Dylan who answers our Phones, 158 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,599 Speaker 5: was in New York over the weekend, and much like 159 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,600 Speaker 5: ten thousand flights that got canceled last night, hers did too. 160 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 5: So I believe she's on a plane coming home now. 161 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,360 Speaker 5: So we ask for your patients as we answer phones 162 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 5: because we're short some people. So what is everybody here 163 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 5: calling about? I don't know, So let's just see Hi, Taylor, Hi. 164 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:15,400 Speaker 8: I was calling because I really Dustin's story. I did 165 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 8: not know how to pronounce my husband's last name until 166 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 8: probably about a year and a half until we were dating. 167 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 8: I just kept pronouncing it wrong. He never corrected me, 168 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 8: and I didn't know that the way it was pronounced 169 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 8: until he stated his full name. 170 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 9: At a group party and I was like, what are 171 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 9: you talking about? 172 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 3: And I was like, uh, he had it, So how 173 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 3: do you what is your last name? 174 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: How did you say it? And what's the right way 175 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 1: of saying it? 176 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, so he's Chinese. 177 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: It's spout Zhou. 178 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 8: So most people just called him Zao and so I 179 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 8: was like, yeah, j just out No, it's Joe. I 180 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 8: was like, I have to commit now. Yes. I was 181 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 8: like I thought this whole time, like we're gonna get married, 182 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 8: my last name's gonna be Zou and then come to 183 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 8: find out I'm gonna be Taylor. J I was like, 184 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 8: oh my god, I have to reconcile about Taylor. 185 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:07,600 Speaker 3: Joe is very southern. 186 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 8: Yeah, exactly. It doesn't sound Chinese at all, does not. 187 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 4: How did he not correct? 188 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:12,400 Speaker 1: You know? 189 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 8: I don't know. I guess he just because he's in 190 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 8: the military, they go by last names. That's what everybody 191 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 8: else was calling him too. I'm like, why do you 192 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 8: never correct anyone? 193 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: That's great, Taylor. Thanks for calling you. So you are 194 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: married now. 195 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 3: And you are Taylor show Yes, I am, yep. 196 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: Thanks for calling in, thanks for listening. 197 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, of course today, Hi, Annah, what's going on? 198 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 1: Hi? 199 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 10: I was calling about my husband always calls my daughter's 200 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 10: birthday the dogs. He mixes it up with the dog's birthday. 201 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 11: Her birthday June twenty fourth. 202 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 10: Every time he does his benefits and everything, he's like, 203 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 10: June twenty fifth. I'm like, that's the dog's birthday twenty one. 204 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,959 Speaker 9: At this point he still does it. 205 00:08:59,240 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 1: That's awesome. 206 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 4: Doesn't mean he doesn't love him, so you definitely don't 207 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:03,559 Speaker 4: want to mess it up on Bill Fitz. 208 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 1: I think that's good that he knows the dog's birthday. 209 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: I don't know any of my dog's birthdays. 210 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 3: My wife, you got too many dogs that remember. 211 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:11,080 Speaker 1: Thanks and I have a great day. 212 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 8: Thank you. 213 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 1: Bye, Kendall, good morning. 214 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 9: Good morning. 215 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 4: How are you guys? 216 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: What's going on? What do you call him for? 217 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 9: I was forgetting my wedding anniversary. I was on a 218 00:09:23,600 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 9: video call with an adoption and social worker for my 219 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 9: daughter for my current husband to adopt her legally, and 220 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 9: I messed up my wedding anniversary. 221 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 3: Like how many years you were married, but the date 222 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 3: that you were married, No. 223 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 9: The date we were married. I said the twenty seventh, 224 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 9: and my husband just looked at me funny, and he 225 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 9: was like, we got married. 226 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 7: On the twenty night. 227 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 4: There's a lot of pressure. That was a stressful day. 228 00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 9: Would you care about the church There's a lot happening. 229 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks Kendall, have a great day. Thanks for listening 230 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 1: you too. By the way, we still have the grand 231 00:09:56,600 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: prize give away to Disneyland. We'll be doing that in 232 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 1: a second. Hi, Lucy, Hi, don't do it. 233 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 7: Good morning everyone. So I want to share something funny 234 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 7: about me and my husband. I met him like about 235 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 7: twenty years ago, and I didn't like the nickname he 236 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 7: had at the time, so I was like, you know what, 237 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 7: I'm gonna nickname you differently. So I name him Choco. 238 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:19,079 Speaker 11: Right. 239 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 7: We even married, you know, we know the family. Everybody 240 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 7: knows him for like, you know, fifteen years or so. Anyways, 241 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,640 Speaker 7: just up until a couple of years ago, my uncle 242 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 7: calls me from Mexico. Everybody calls him Choco, right, because 243 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,080 Speaker 7: that's the nickname I take for him. Anyway, So my 244 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 7: uncle calls me and he's like, Hey, what is Choco's name? 245 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,839 Speaker 7: By the way, because you know, he's been in the 246 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 7: family forever and we have no clue what his actual 247 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 7: name is. I just wanted to say to Dusting, like 248 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,960 Speaker 7: it is important for him to talk to his partner 249 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 7: and let him know what bothers him. But it's okay. 250 00:10:57,480 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 7: I have a little fun with it, you know, like 251 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 7: it's it's you know good. 252 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:02,719 Speaker 1: That's so funny. 253 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 5: Because like my mom's Mexican, and all my aunts and 254 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 5: uncles they all have nicknames. 255 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: And I have an uncle, uncle Chemale Chemalie. 256 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 5: His name Chimeli, right, and then I took the longest 257 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,080 Speaker 5: time for I said, my mom, I go, eventually go Chimily. 258 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:14,959 Speaker 1: What does that mean? She was? 259 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 5: His first name is Jesus. His last name is Maria 260 00:11:18,040 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 5: he Ma, Hemma, Hamily, Emily Shemily. That's w oh yeah. 261 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 7: Sometimes like we have people that we know and we 262 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 7: only know them by the nickname, so we just like, uh, 263 00:11:33,440 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 7: become fancy and just throw the last name bright and 264 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 7: like it just grows like that forever. So that's that's 265 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 7: part of being Mexican, right. 266 00:11:40,840 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 1: Down, Jay, Yes, Lucy, Okay, thanks for calling in, Lucy. 267 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 3: Have a great day, Have a great day. 268 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: Justice. What's up? Dog? 269 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 6: Hi? 270 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 11: So I failed her? Desson my husband, we've been together 271 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 11: for nine years and even to this day, he will 272 00:11:59,240 --> 00:12:04,040 Speaker 11: forget our anniversaries. He forgets my birthday, even if he 273 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 11: knows them, he still forgets or he'll get them wrong 274 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 11: and have to ask me and correct it. But I 275 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 11: kind of think it's like a guy thing. Sometimes they 276 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 11: just don't always remember. 277 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 3: It's not that we don't love, it's not that we 278 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 3: don't care. It's just that, probably our whole life, somebody's 279 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 3: been remembering that for us, so we don't have to. Yeah, 280 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:23,800 Speaker 3: it just doesn't stick. 281 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 4: It sounds like, yeah, like I know, because like my husband, 282 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:28,680 Speaker 4: he remembers more than. 283 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,840 Speaker 1: I do, Like maybe. 284 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 2: Calendar, Yeah, fifty fifty. 285 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: I have a little bit. 286 00:12:37,480 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 5: Problem my boy's birthday because one of them was born 287 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 5: on the fourth. One of them is born on the fifth, 288 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 5: you know, so I get those two screwed up. Then 289 00:12:44,320 --> 00:12:47,319 Speaker 5: the youngest one was born and I now know it's July. 290 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 5: But for the longest time, I didn't know if it 291 00:12:48,800 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 5: was June or July seventeen or eighteen. But I got 292 00:12:51,559 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 5: it now it's July eighteen. 293 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,480 Speaker 7: That's I'm July too. 294 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 11: July twentieth, is that a. 295 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: What is that? Cancer? No? 296 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,839 Speaker 11: I don't know, yes, cancer yet. 297 00:13:03,160 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: All right, Justice, thanks for driving and listening. 298 00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 7: Thank you, you have a good day. 299 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 1: All right. 300 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:13,920 Speaker 5: So Dylan, the person who answers. Our phone is not 301 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:16,959 Speaker 5: here because of the government shutdown, which apparently is not 302 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 5: a shutdown anymore. 303 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 4: Well almost, there's the light at the end of the 304 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 4: tunnel because the Senate actually passed a bipartisan thing that's like, Okay, 305 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 4: we're all going to be done, but then the House 306 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:28,560 Speaker 4: still needs to approve it, and then the President still 307 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,599 Speaker 4: needs to sign it. So they did basically want to 308 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 4: get like all the snap benefits back immediately, but according 309 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 4: to like the FAA, flights are still going to continue 310 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 4: to be affected for the next like coming days or 311 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 4: even weeks until they can get everything. 312 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 3: Guys, like ten thousand flights got cat It's a lot 313 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 3: more than I thought we're gonna get canceled, that's for sure. 314 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 5: And that's where Dylan, our phone screener, is on a 315 00:13:49,800 --> 00:13:55,520 Speaker 5: plane somewhere. So Alyssa, good morning, Good morning. 316 00:13:56,840 --> 00:13:59,880 Speaker 12: I was calling with the topic with this and I 317 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 12: get it. I mean, if I've been with my husband 318 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 12: for twenty four years, and I think it is the 319 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 12: guy thing. You know, my husband does this often even 320 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:15,319 Speaker 12: after twenty four years, Like he'll ask me something and 321 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:18,000 Speaker 12: he even knows to himself because I bring it up 322 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 12: to him often He's like, I know I already asked 323 00:14:20,720 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 12: you this, but and then he'll repeat the question, very 324 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 12: common thing, very common things. 325 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 4: You know. 326 00:14:26,800 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 12: They just love the door. And then maybe an hour later, 327 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 12: I know I asked you this, did you lock the door? 328 00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 12: And then it will happen another time a lot of times, 329 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 12: I'll just tell him again, I know you you're gonna 330 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 12: ask me this, so I just repeat it, Yes, thanks, 331 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 12: thank you,