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Speaker 2: It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 3: If you do not get a call back after you
Speaker 3: went on a date, then I want you to do this.
Speaker 3: I want you to text date to nine five five
Speaker 3: zero zero and we will find out what exactly is
Speaker 3: going on. Why you're not getting a call back, Try
Speaker 3: to get you an answer. Ava went out on a
Speaker 3: date and she is not getting a callback.
Speaker 2: Ava, how you doing?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 2: I'm okay. Ava.
Speaker 3: I want you to say hi to Ryan. Hi, Ryan,
Speaker 3: are you there or did you ghost us too?
Speaker 2: No? No, I'm okay.
Speaker 3: All right, all right, So Ava, you went out with Ryan.
Speaker 3: He's not calling you back. We ended up reaching out
Speaker 3: to him to ask him to come on the radio
Speaker 3: with us. You want to say hello or see what's
Speaker 3: going on?
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm glad he's answering your goals.
Speaker 5: I don't know which you want me to say to that, honestly, Like,
Speaker 5: what's it's just kind of weird.
Speaker 2: What did you guys do on your date? What did
Speaker 2: you do ava. We went to a bar.
Speaker 3: Okay, and then just had drinks and hung out with
Speaker 3: each other for a while.
Speaker 2: How long was your date for? How long were you
Speaker 2: guys together?
Speaker 1: A few hours?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 3: And at the end of the date, what did you
Speaker 3: guys do? Did you kiss goodbye? Say goodbye?
Speaker 2: What did you do there? Was kissing? Okay, that's it.
Speaker 3: And did you say anything like, hey, we'll talk soon
Speaker 3: or did he say that, I mean, things progressed and.
Speaker 6: It's more than just kissing, but say kind of implied
Speaker 6: that we would see each other again.
Speaker 2: Did you guys end up having sex with each other? No?
Speaker 3: Okay, so it's just more than kissing. Ryan, Are you
Speaker 3: not interested or are you just you know, kind of
Speaker 3: non committed right now?
Speaker 5: So, like the whole thing is, she was just really
Speaker 5: up in my business and I was not. I was
Speaker 5: not really comfortable with that.
Speaker 2: Was it questions that she was asking you? Is that
Speaker 2: what you mean?
Speaker 5: I mean, that's yeah, she was. She was asking me
Speaker 5: one question, just over and over again and just and.
Speaker 6: You weren't answering it.
Speaker 2: What question?
Speaker 5: Because it's weird. You kept asking me what my body
Speaker 5: count was? Like he asked me over and over and
Speaker 5: over again, what's my body count? Like we're kissing, she stops,
Speaker 5: what's my body count? And she said, you know, I.
Speaker 6: Just I feel like I deserve to know that if
Speaker 6: I'm going to be sleeping with you, So I don't
Speaker 6: think that's weird.
Speaker 5: You literally like just kept stopping like or kissinga that
Speaker 5: you asked him what BodyCount is? And then we, you know,
Speaker 5: get a little past that. You asked him what BodyCount
Speaker 5: is and you know, it's our first date, like you
Speaker 5: were thatspectful.
Speaker 3: You were not wanting to share that, and she felt
Speaker 3: like you were holding back on her, so she kept
Speaker 3: asking you, and you thought that she needed to let
Speaker 3: it go.
Speaker 5: Look, yes, that's exactly what I was okay saying, And look,
Speaker 5: I'm clean, I'm responsible. I'm not like some how am
Speaker 5: I supposed.
Speaker 6: To know that if you're not going to give me information, But.
Speaker 7: Him telling you his number isn't going to tell you
Speaker 7: if he is clean.
Speaker 6: I think you deserve to know if he's like sleeping around.
Speaker 5: He was like, hold women, you know, it's our first date.
Speaker 5: I'm not like trying to you know, commit to you
Speaker 5: right away. And on top of that, like I told
Speaker 5: you on the date I'm not like you know, so
Speaker 5: what I'm not.
Speaker 2: I'm not that kind of guy.
Speaker 3: So that's that is actually interesting that you say that
Speaker 3: you're not as slept, because I would think that a
Speaker 3: guy being asked by his body count that doesn't want
Speaker 3: to admit to it is not admitting to it because
Speaker 3: he slept with a bunch of women. It might be
Speaker 3: that the body count wasn't that high, and maybe that's
Speaker 3: why you didn't say it, or what was the reasoning
Speaker 3: of why you wouldn't answer it?
Speaker 1: Yeah, why wouldn't you answer it?
Speaker 2: Thank you gosh?
Speaker 5: Because it's personal.
Speaker 2: I understand.
Speaker 3: Listen, I don't care what your body count is, and
Speaker 3: I don't think that it matters anyway. But what was
Speaker 3: the thing that was so turned off about the like
Speaker 3: when she first asked you in the beginning, Because typically
Speaker 3: if you just asked some people that question, some people
Speaker 3: are either, hey, i'll tell you twenty five, whatever the
Speaker 3: deal is, And then there are some people that are
Speaker 3: like that is just so personal to me and I
Speaker 3: don't want to talk about that. And I always wonder
Speaker 3: what is their issue with the question. Is their issue
Speaker 3: because numbers way high and they're shame by that, or
Speaker 3: is the issue that their number is way low and
Speaker 3: they feel like they're embarrassed by that, you know what
Speaker 3: I mean?
Speaker 2: Who keeping count like that? Well, no, don't keep that, No, no, no.
Speaker 4: Brought don't forgot like it ain't like five to where
Speaker 4: I can just immediately be like aout, how about this
Speaker 4: year or this.
Speaker 2: Let's talk to them?
Speaker 4: Are the same kind of guy you say, I don't
Speaker 4: have a notes page in my phone where I'm jotting
Speaker 4: down everybody name, like, I just don't operate like that.
Speaker 2: To my chart is clean, that's what mattered the most. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but what happens if something came up and then you
Speaker 2: had to like notify.
Speaker 4: Then I guess I would do all of that. But
Speaker 4: right now, to my chart clean, and I'm worried about
Speaker 4: tomorrow now yesterday, you can.
Speaker 3: Kind of put a guestimate to something like that and
Speaker 3: just throw out whatever. He obviously was not going to
Speaker 3: do it, and it's his reasoning, you know, is that
Speaker 3: he just doesn't want to be asked that question. I
Speaker 3: would have probably dropped it ava at that moment.
Speaker 6: And now, just like if we're fooling around, like it's
Speaker 6: kind of implied that that's where things are headed next,
Speaker 6: and I think that I observed can of that answer
Speaker 6: before I decide to be number two hundred and seventeen,
Speaker 6: like I don't know, but if that.
Speaker 8: Is so so important until seventeen and look like my
Speaker 8: numbers not but look, I'll give you like a rough estimate.
Speaker 5: Like I'm not I'm not like that high. I'm not
Speaker 5: like little.
Speaker 2: Chamberlain over here.
Speaker 5: Just what any girl I could get, you know, I'm
Speaker 5: I'm I'm I'm in the double digits, but I'm not
Speaker 5: like high double digits. And again I would have had
Speaker 5: that conversation if we had kept dating.
Speaker 2: But you know, I just said that, now, why would
Speaker 2: you not just say that then? Though? Thank? You know,
Speaker 2: like what but no, I'm not trying.
Speaker 3: I'm just asking, like what, like if you said it
Speaker 3: just now I'm in double digits, but not like like what.
Speaker 5: Made because she was very insistent, like what's your number?
Speaker 2: What's your number? Not like oh, I think probably got
Speaker 2: the higher number to do.
Speaker 3: I think the tone that you guys have with each
Speaker 3: other make me think that there's nothing different. But I
Speaker 3: don't know if they I don't know what your tone
Speaker 3: was when you guys were talking.
Speaker 7: To it because I understand there was a point in
Speaker 7: my life where that I was concerned with that, Like
Speaker 7: I didn't want to date somebody that had, you know,
Speaker 7: been with two hundred other women like that. Definitely was
Speaker 7: like a reputation that I kind of wanted to avoid.
Speaker 7: But at the same time, like, you are already in
Speaker 7: a situation where you're about to have sex with this
Speaker 7: guy and this this is like very much a priority
Speaker 7: to you. Yeah, So I just think that the timing
Speaker 7: was interesting, Kayla, what's up?
Speaker 5: Hey?
Speaker 9: So I think body count does not matter at all,
Speaker 9: especially when it comes to trying to decide like if
Speaker 9: someone's clean or not, because I have upwards of fifty
Speaker 9: bodies and I've never caught anything, but my partner only
Speaker 9: has like eight bodies and he's.
Speaker 2: Caught something before.
Speaker 9: The number doesn't matter, it's who you're harving with.
Speaker 2: It only takes one song.
Speaker 7: Also, stop saying body count, I really do. It's so
Speaker 7: like gross.
Speaker 2: What do we say? Do we say? How many people
Speaker 2: have you had sex with?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 7: Just refer to that body count just sounds so like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on? How you doing? Holly?
Speaker 8: I I was basically saying the same thing the.
Speaker 9: Last collar just said but also I feel like.
Speaker 8: That was bad timing, like really bad timing. And you
Speaker 8: don't know when you're going to catch something. If that's
Speaker 8: what she's worried about, it can be number one or
Speaker 8: number three hundred.
Speaker 3: When is the right timing if you're I don't want
Speaker 3: to have sex with somebody.
Speaker 8: If she was that concerned about it, maybe she should
Speaker 8: have said something that's the bar.
Speaker 3: Well, I think that's where she was saying it. So
Speaker 3: I think I think the whole night that they were
Speaker 3: together for three hours, she asked a question of a
Speaker 3: few times. According to what they were saying, maybe you
Speaker 3: don't do it and don't ask that question until a
Speaker 3: couple of dates in and then you decide whether or
Speaker 3: not you guys want to take it to that level.
Speaker 5: What's up, Wendy, Hi, If she's thinking about sleeping with
Speaker 5: him on the first date, she should probably assume that
Speaker 5: he has a fairly high body count and she probably
Speaker 5: does too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, let me ask you, Ava, what is the Did
Speaker 3: you give him your body count when he wouldn't give
Speaker 3: yours or his I.
Speaker 6: Wasn't going to disclose first.
Speaker 2: Oh so you want, all right?
Speaker 3: What if you guys both did it at the same time,
Speaker 3: Ready one two.
Speaker 2: AA?
Speaker 7: What was a magical number to you?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 7: What was the line where he if he said, you
Speaker 7: know this is the number you needed it to below
Speaker 7: to be below or yeah, what do you hope is no?
Speaker 9: I mean I would hope that we are.
Speaker 2: In the same ballpark. But how old the EV in
Speaker 2: twenty six?
Speaker 3: So what would be a ballpark for a twenty six
Speaker 3: year old?
Speaker 6: I'm not going to answer that until he answers that.
Speaker 2: Jennifer wants to comment.
Speaker 1: What's up, Jennifer, Good morning guys, all the time, long time,
Speaker 1: but I.
Speaker 4: Never get a shout out en tell us our BodyCount
Speaker 4: first say on Jennifer hon fault Yay, thanks guys.
Speaker 1: So I don't view this as a body count issue.
Speaker 1: What I'm hearing is it's a boundaries issue. He has
Speaker 1: boundaries that he has not doesn't sound like was able
Speaker 1: to communicate clearly at the time, And she's not picking
Speaker 1: up boundaries. But she doesn't either, he doesn't understand how
Speaker 1: to go about finding them out. So this is a
Speaker 1: boundaries issue. He has a boundary with what she's asking
Speaker 1: and she's not picking up on that, and she just
Speaker 1: keeps at it. And if this is an issue with boundaries.
Speaker 1: It will continue to be an issue with boundaries. What
Speaker 1: about say goodbye and go your different ways?
Speaker 2: There you go?
Speaker 3: I can I also say, I wonder what her tone
Speaker 3: was when she was doing it, and if her tone
Speaker 3: was how she is now, then it came across hard
Speaker 3: or if her tone was joking, because sometimes you joke
Speaker 3: a little bit and go, come on, tell me, I
Speaker 3: really want to know. And if that's the case and
Speaker 3: you get really upset by that, then you're probably taking
Speaker 3: it way too far. But Eric, comment from you, let's
Speaker 3: get a guy's perspective on.
Speaker 6: This, Eric, Oh absolutely so yeah, No, Modoe, you kind
Speaker 6: of hit.
Speaker 5: The nail on the head with something that you already said,
Speaker 5: something that I'm about to say.
Speaker 2: And I'm just wondering, like why.
Speaker 5: She was so persistent on like the first date, understanding
Speaker 5: that why is she.
Speaker 2: So eager to bake the cookies or fake the cookies?
Speaker 5: And understand how many people that he's been with, why
Speaker 5: can't that be a third, fourth.
Speaker 1: Or fifth day, saying why do you have to why
Speaker 1: do you have to be so eager to get with him?
Speaker 3: Part of me wonders, if Eva you were just doing
Speaker 3: it and at first not realizing that you were upsetting
Speaker 3: him or did you notice that he became irritated.
Speaker 6: I mean I didn't realize that it was as big
Speaker 6: as a skill to him as it was.
Speaker 5: I made it clear obviously I might not have.
Speaker 2: I mean, after the third time, didn't you kind of
Speaker 2: pick up a hand, right?
Speaker 5: I mean, like three strikes and you're out like baseball?
Speaker 2: How about the sixth time?
Speaker 3: Okay, listen, I got a feeling that there's no chemistry
Speaker 3: between the two of you, and if you guys did
Speaker 3: have sex, who probably wouldn't be good.
Speaker 2: So, hey, they got that far.
Speaker 3: We we we've probably got an answer for Ava. But unfortunately,
Speaker 3: I don't think that there's going to be any more
Speaker 3: relationship issues or that you guys can work out with
Speaker 3: each other. So go your separate ways and go enjoy yourself.
Speaker 3: Thank you Ryan for picking up the phone call.
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and best to look, but just don't ask
Speaker 5: the next guy this
Speaker 2: Right second.