WEBVTT - Do You Approve?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it's Mojo in the Morning, show your Home

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<v Speaker 1>of War of the Roses, Second Date Update, The Five Lives,

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<v Speaker 1>Tell Your Mom, Phone Scams, and of course Shannon's thirty

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<v Speaker 1>on the Thirty. So this past weekend, one of Chelsea

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<v Speaker 1>and my closest friends wanted me to meet her new boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically her wanting this was to see if I

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<v Speaker 1>liked him as she was dating him, to give her

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<v Speaker 1>advice on whether or not I thought that he was

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<v Speaker 1>a good guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Or values your opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>She values it and values Chelsea's opinion too, And since

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<v Speaker 1>since I was in town and Chelsea wasn't in town,

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<v Speaker 1>this was kind of her way of being able to

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<v Speaker 1>figure this out. So we went to dinner and I

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<v Speaker 1>hate this. I want to tell you why I hate this.

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<v Speaker 3>You're I hate him, and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Hate it when it's set up that way, like I'd

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<v Speaker 1>rather just meet somebody and then give me my opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to do it, because then I feel like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>what am I doing job interviewing a guy? And I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if this happens If you guys ever had

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<v Speaker 1>this happen to you where a friend of yours wants

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<v Speaker 1>you to meet somebody that they're dating, and they say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to meet him so that you can

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<v Speaker 1>tell me what you think or her, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>ask you for your advice afterwards, and you have to

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<v Speaker 1>like remember what you really felt about the situation or things,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stuff that was going on. And it has

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<v Speaker 1>anybody ever been honest and said I don't like the person.

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<v Speaker 1>So we get to the restaurant and it's me at

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, my son, and then her son with her

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend that she's been been dating. And we sit down

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<v Speaker 1>at the table and she makes him sit right next

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Okay, so he sits right next to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and he shakes my hand and all this stuff, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of like got a big smile.

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<v Speaker 2>On his face. They're my age fifty, so like fifty

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<v Speaker 2>years old. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So the here's the thing. She's divorced, and she divorced

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<v Speaker 1>one of my best buddies.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, as with her, yeah, because she's one of our

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<v Speaker 2>she's our best buddy. The couple, we were a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of friends. And how is the question?

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<v Speaker 1>But that's a that's another topic and another time. So

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't take sides with anything at all. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I love mal and I love their kids. So he

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<v Speaker 1>sits down next to me, and when he sits down

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<v Speaker 1>next to me, he is a chatter man. He's talking.

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<v Speaker 1>You can tell that he's he's nervous. Oh yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 1>on point. So I figure I got to actually get too,

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<v Speaker 1>So I start talking and we started asking question and

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<v Speaker 1>he starts kind of like you know how guys, when

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<v Speaker 1>guys sit next to each other and they want to

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<v Speaker 1>try to I guess be liked by them, they'll try

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<v Speaker 1>to find a commonality. So we started talking sports, so

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<v Speaker 1>it was obvious, like, bro, we're gonna like talk about

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<v Speaker 1>our favorite teams and we're gonna talk about our favorite players.

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<v Speaker 1>So it kind of got to that kind of conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>And as I'm talking to him, I look over at

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<v Speaker 1>her and she's got this look on her face like

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<v Speaker 1>she's petrified. She looks like she looked like she was

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<v Speaker 1>either scared of him or scared of me, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it was, like she was scared of

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<v Speaker 1>one of us saying something or doing something that we

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't do. And so we're having our dinner and doing

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<v Speaker 1>our thing and going through and I'm noticing how he

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<v Speaker 1>is with her son, because her son's and older is

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<v Speaker 1>like Joe's age or a little younger than Joe, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I saw kind of a good vibe between them.

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<v Speaker 1>But Joe my son was like really loving on this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>which I thought was actually pretty good, because Joe doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like anybody that's not the original. Like Joe is one

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<v Speaker 1>of those people where if his mom and dad got divorced,

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<v Speaker 1>he would never let either of us do exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>she's doing, Like we would never be able to move on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd have to like forever, you know, be single, living

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<v Speaker 1>in a basement or something like that, because he is

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<v Speaker 1>like he cannot his head cannot move past his parents.

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<v Speaker 1>He's very loyal, and he's very much about his childhood

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<v Speaker 1>and what his childhood look like, and this is a

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<v Speaker 1>screw up to his childhood. So he's kind of getting

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<v Speaker 1>into it with this guy's name was James, getting into

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<v Speaker 1>it with him and talking with him, and they're having

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<v Speaker 1>this thing, and then I'm kind of getting a little

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<v Speaker 1>jealous that the conversation is going away from me and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing and I'm asking them questions, you know, to

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<v Speaker 1>tell me, you know, so, what do you do for

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<v Speaker 1>a living and you know, all this stuff, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of going through the whole thing. Actually I should

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<v Speaker 1>have done it, Chris, if we did this at somebody's house,

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<v Speaker 1>would have said, so.

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<v Speaker 2>Sit right down here. Did you bring contracts? You know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>So we're talking and then we're having, you know, our conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>and I find out that these guys have been dating

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, like, which was wild. They didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>how long they had been dating. They'd been dating for

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. And he told me about, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the complications. His wife died, so he actually lost his wife,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it's like her being a divorce a and

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<v Speaker 1>he being a widow. So it's kind of an interesting

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<v Speaker 1>how are the kids mixing all this stuff? So we

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<v Speaker 1>get done with the whole thing. We're leaving the restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>and she stops me short before I go, and he

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<v Speaker 1>starts walking with the kids, and it's like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so what do you think? Asking me like a million questions,

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<v Speaker 1>And I said to her, he sucked. No, I said

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<v Speaker 1>to her, he was great. He was actually like I

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<v Speaker 1>actually could see the genuine love that this guy had

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<v Speaker 1>for her, but for her for her son who was there,

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<v Speaker 1>and then wanting to be able to meet and be with,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the other kids, because she's got you know,

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<v Speaker 1>three other kids, two daughters and another son. And it

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<v Speaker 1>was really kind of nice because it made me feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, somebody respects your opinion on that and knows

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<v Speaker 1>that you're a good enough guy that you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>tell an honest opinion. Although I like everybody, Chelsea has

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<v Speaker 1>told me that Chelsea told me to a fault, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Like, I you know, I probably

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with you know, the Iatola homony or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to make a bad people who were you

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<v Speaker 1>know kind of whatever I'd be like, yeah, he and

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<v Speaker 1>I were like we golfed on the weekends stuff, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean. Like, I'm like type of guy

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<v Speaker 1>that hangs out with everybody and finds something good and everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>But long story short, I think that there's pressure and

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird when you ask friends do you approve or

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<v Speaker 1>so to speak?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's why I think I'd be a bad I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be a bad dad for daughters because I would hate everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't think you would, no.

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<v Speaker 4>But I feel like anytime that I've met a girl

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<v Speaker 4>I was interested in friends, Like anytime I've met that

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<v Speaker 4>friend group, you immediately.

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<v Speaker 2>Know you're getting judged.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you go into it and you know that the

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<v Speaker 4>conversation where you're not around is going to solely be

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<v Speaker 4>focused on my positives and my flaws, and yes, expect it.

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<v Speaker 5>That means she has good friends that are going to

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<v Speaker 5>tell her honestly what they think.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever have you ever had it where the

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<v Speaker 1>girls judged you in a poor way though, like they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know you at all.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never been in a well, I mean, I've been grilled,

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<v Speaker 4>but I would like to believe I stayed the test

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<v Speaker 4>of time. I've never been in a situation around friends

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<v Speaker 4>where it messed up anything I had going on with

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<v Speaker 4>the girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me say, I have never seen you leave a

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<v Speaker 2>bad first impression.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm great at first impression and moms love me, but

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<v Speaker 4>I never met a mom like me.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, I think everybody does love you, but I could

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<v Speaker 1>see where you put on a little bit of your

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<v Speaker 1>keV Like a little bit, for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>A little bit, but have you read that's you?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had a girl that just didn't believe

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<v Speaker 1>that that was genuine and tell her friends, no.

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<v Speaker 2>Not for real, I think.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I've had cookies that were hard to crack.

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<v Speaker 4>What was it they didn't like about you? Just they

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<v Speaker 4>came in with the I don't like you, you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I mean? Sometimes people just come in with them

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<v Speaker 4>You're already not good enough and you got to move

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<v Speaker 4>mountains in order for you.

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<v Speaker 3>To like, can I tell you something? I think I've

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<v Speaker 3>told the story before.

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<v Speaker 5>I still regret not telling one of my girlfriends, my

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<v Speaker 5>really good friends, the truth about a guy she was dating.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank God, they're not together anymore, she's married.

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<v Speaker 2>Why didn't you tell her?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I thought that she was happy and she had

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<v Speaker 5>just gotten out of a bad relationship, and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>she's happy, Like, I don't want to ruin her happy.

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<v Speaker 3>But I saw so many red flags.

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<v Speaker 5>Really when I met this guy that she was dating,

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<v Speaker 5>he was so rude and disrespectful, not only to me,

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<v Speaker 5>but to her and her daughter. And it was the

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<v Speaker 5>first time he had met me, and I just like,

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<v Speaker 5>got a really funky feeling in my gut and I

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<v Speaker 5>should have listened to it and said something to her.

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<v Speaker 5>And after the fact, when they broke up, and I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, I wanted to say.

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<v Speaker 3>That to you, but I didn't want you seemed.

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<v Speaker 5>To me like you were happy, and I didn't I

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<v Speaker 5>want that for you, so I didn't want to ruin that.

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<v Speaker 4>Man.

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<v Speaker 3>Did I learn a lesson?

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<v Speaker 4>Were those flags are ultimately the flags that she saw

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<v Speaker 4>the time?

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<v Speaker 2>A million? And did you only meet him once?

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<v Speaker 3>I only met him one time because she lives out

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<v Speaker 3>of state.

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<v Speaker 2>Like if you never know if someone's having a bad day,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure, bad first impression. So I would have second

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<v Speaker 2>guests saying something too, like I really need to get

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<v Speaker 2>to know someone.

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<v Speaker 1>Here's the thing. You can't have a bad day on

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<v Speaker 1>a job interview. And this is like a job interview.

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<v Speaker 1>I will tell you this. If you don't treat their

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<v Speaker 1>child with respect, even if the child's not giving you

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<v Speaker 1>the respect, that to me was going to be something

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<v Speaker 1>that I was looking at the whole time. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw him, our friends, you know guy James be

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<v Speaker 1>really big on he brought them into stories like he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, so my daughters, you know, and we

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<v Speaker 1>hung out and I want the you know, kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like bringing them in. It wasn't like that

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<v Speaker 1>my family separate your family separate. Also the other thing

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<v Speaker 1>too that I got that I thought, I really really

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<v Speaker 1>liked about this guy. His wife died, he didn't he

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<v Speaker 1>has not been in a committed, like merry possible relationship

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<v Speaker 1>and it's been over ten years because his kids were

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<v Speaker 1>really young. They were like nine and ten when his

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<v Speaker 1>wife died, and he did not want to bring another person.

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<v Speaker 1>He dated but never brought anybody home. And he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm never bringing anybody home. And I thought that was

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<v Speaker 1>real respectful because I'd probably date like in six months

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<v Speaker 1>immediately my dad, my dad did I need companionship.

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<v Speaker 2>And Joe would never talk to you exactly and.

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<v Speaker 5>Look at your how how that affected your relationship with

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<v Speaker 5>your dad and you didn't have a relationship with your step.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah because of that, And that was actually actually something

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<v Speaker 1>I that I thought about. I was like, man, this

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<v Speaker 1>guy reminds me of what I wish my dad would

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<v Speaker 1>have done, you know. But then you're at a point

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<v Speaker 1>where you're like, I really want this guy to uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to to be.

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<v Speaker 2>Able to have somebody to love. What's going on? It's

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<v Speaker 2>Mojo in the morning, Hello is built up? Yeah exactly, Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>don't think no iotas why did you say? Say it again?

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<v Speaker 2>Don't be hanging out. We want you to stay alive.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 3>Why don't I know?

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<v Speaker 2>What is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? I think I threw it when I threw out there.

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<v Speaker 1>I probably I probably would have been friends with you. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I will not be friends with the iototes. Although I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I can ever be friends with the iatota.

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<v Speaker 1>He's dead, so I won't be I won't be golfing

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<v Speaker 1>with the iototes.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. What what is your name? Bob? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't take care of yourself? We appreciate you, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>A text her here says Mojo, did you do the

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<v Speaker 1>same with Beyonca's boyfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>I knew Beyonca's boyfriend. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But actually it worked out great in that sense. But

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<v Speaker 3>I remember you telling me before I had a boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 3>You said, I need to approve of your man before

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<v Speaker 3>you get a man.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right, and I and I but I knew where

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<v Speaker 1>this guy's coming from because I knew his family. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>Shannon did not bring West around me until she was

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<v Speaker 1>already in a relationship. But you did bring him around

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<v Speaker 1>others on the show. I remember, wasn't it? It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>Joey and Spike, and those guys knew West way before I.

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<v Speaker 5>Spike did not. Joey had met him before the charity thing, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and kind.

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<v Speaker 2>Of knew about it. Yeah, why didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>You bring because I because I wanted to make Shre.

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<v Speaker 2>Like him first. Okay, you thought I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>chase him away? So that was.

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<v Speaker 1>What are your intentions? With my co host? That was

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<v Speaker 1>That's what my dad, my father in law, said to

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<v Speaker 1>me when I met Chelsea, What are your intentions? I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what that means, but I'd be

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<v Speaker 1>quite honest with you.

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<v Speaker 2>Man. I but you before I met Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 3>No, you had met.

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<v Speaker 5>West before, but we weren't dating.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I didn't have any interest.

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<v Speaker 4>So so a girl had brought I don't even know

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<v Speaker 4>how long we was kicking it, but girl brought me

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<v Speaker 4>over to her Sunday dinners. She said, Sunday. Yeah, she's

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<v Speaker 4>at Sunday dinners with her family. Is her mom was there,

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<v Speaker 4>her auntie, her uncle, her little brother, her little sister. Like,

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<v Speaker 4>it was a nice group of people. So she brought

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<v Speaker 4>me over. And after we get on eating, it's a feast.

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<v Speaker 4>After we get on eating, we go like in their

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<v Speaker 4>living room, their great room or whatever. We in there,

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<v Speaker 4>and all of a sudden, her uncle says, so, what's

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<v Speaker 4>your intentions with her? And I'm like, I'm gonna tell

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<v Speaker 4>you the exact thing, same thing I told her. I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, I'm just here to be a blessed in

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<v Speaker 4>her life.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, that was Honestly, I would call bull crap

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<v Speaker 1>on that, but I think that's wonderful.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because our train.

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<v Speaker 4>But no, I wasn't because I didn't know if I

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<v Speaker 4>was like trying to be in a relay. I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know what was going on, but I knew that I

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<v Speaker 4>I'm here to be a positive influencer. That time, I

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<v Speaker 4>told her the same thing. And I'm like, that's a

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<v Speaker 4>safe answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, cool, that is a better answer than what

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<v Speaker 1>you would probably say on our radio show right here,