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Speaker 1: So earlier in the week we heard about Sky's wild

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Speaker 1: plan to possibly go to her Oregon house solo. Now

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Speaker 1: we heard about this that you know, you're coming off

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Speaker 1: a trip from this past weekend. You really enjoyed it,

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Speaker 1: spring break and things like that, and unfortunately the vacation

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll have some days off of work when she's

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Speaker 2: at school, So you're right, like just sitting around.

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Speaker 1: And so you thought, you know, why not go to

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Speaker 1: like a relaxing, meditative getaway.

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Speaker 3: If you will.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And you guys were really shocked that. I came

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Speaker 2: to some realization that I don't really live much of

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Speaker 2: my life for myself. I live my life to facilitate

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Speaker 2: move it and other pieces around. So I was like, Wow,

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Speaker 2: a couple of days all alone by myself in a

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I'm paying the mortgage whether

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Speaker 2: how amazing would that be. I could be all weird

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, A big supporter loves getting away from a family.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, I love my family, but I also

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Speaker 3: I mean, like I gotta have that me time to

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Speaker 5: Would you go all the way to Oregon though, or

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Speaker 5: like I don't know, another state, or would you just

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Speaker 5: want to do you Paradise Point for a weekend.

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Speaker 3: For a weekends?

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Speaker 6: If I had a house, I was paying for it,

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Speaker 6: and you're going like on the beach like that, like

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Speaker 6: in a little bit free. It doesn't matter, Like I

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Speaker 6: would one hundred percent do that, Like cook cook yummy meal.

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Speaker 6: That would be my then probably right, they can't be yummy,

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Speaker 3: So I would absolutely do that.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, I mean I think it's so important, Like

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Speaker 6: I think alone time is good.

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Speaker 3: It's it's really good.

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Speaker 1: I do feel a little bit of a double standard

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Speaker 1: me time and I'm leaving and I'm going away from

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Speaker 1: what Yeah, but I feel like I would be met

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Speaker 3: I do feel I think.

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Speaker 6: It depends on the household for me and my household, honestly,

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Speaker 6: And I could have my man Robert sitting right here

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Speaker 6: and he would agree with you, like I facilitate almost

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Speaker 6: I facilitate in eighty five percent.

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Speaker 5: Of the act have a me time weekend, a week somewhere.

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Speaker 6: Here's what my point is is that he gets a

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Speaker 3: I feel like, because we ever, but he works eight

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Speaker 5: He does so, but I mean that that's my point,

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Speaker 5: Like that's what you were. It's always going to be

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Speaker 5: working eight hours a day matters. You can't throw that aside.

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Speaker 5: So like because my wife does that with my job

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Speaker 3: I'm like, wait a minute, I do work.

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Speaker 5: I get up early, So like now you can't be

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Speaker 5: the opposite where it's like, well I do the stuff,

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Speaker 5: but I don't. He doesn't working eight hours a day

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Speaker 6: I wasn't saying that doesn't count. I never said that

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Speaker 6: is I'm always needed, Like I'm always needed as a mom.

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Speaker 6: I'm not saying every mom's like this. I'm saying in

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Speaker 1: Right, But the two of you, this is what you've created,

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Speaker 1: I would love to Doe go on like a golf

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Speaker 3: Then as soon as he left the studio, what's up

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Speaker 1: Yes, trouble Paradise And I feel like all of that

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Speaker 6: For some reason, a golf trip hits me differently than

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Speaker 6: if you said you were going to go on a

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Speaker 3: I could do that or is that no? I think

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 3: Like, wait a minute, what's going to happen? Is I

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Speaker 6: Sure him going to Scottsdale to do it, and you

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Speaker 6: know what, Scott's maybe sitting at bars by himself.

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Speaker 3: Then there's where it gets a little.

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Speaker 5: In the same vein, though I could picture a girl

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Speaker 1: Your going to Oregon, like getting up a bars.

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Speaker 5: Obviously Sky is the actually opposite.

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Speaker 1: It's a funny double standard. But anyway, bottom line is

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Speaker 2: Like just you bringing up what you brought up like

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Speaker 2: it's weird, right, like especially as like a parent and

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Speaker 4: The solo vacation.

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Speaker 2: But I but I've come around on it, like it's needed,

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Speaker 5: I think you could do a solo vacation because you

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Speaker 1: Well, there was also somebody at home that can handle

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Speaker 4: But I'm very lucky.

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Speaker 1: So when you brought it up originally to the BOO,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it surprised me.

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Speaker 2: It surprised you guys when I told you that that

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Speaker 3: Doesn't leave your side, I mean take shows with you.

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Speaker 2: That is an accurate thing, just saves a lot of time.

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Speaker 2: I was. It was six years ago, created it, and

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Speaker 5: He like, actually, verbal isn't about your husband, but like,

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Speaker 3: It was six years ago.

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Speaker 2: So uh anyway, Yeah, so I was expecting when I

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Speaker 2: And he's actually into the Oregon house a couple times

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Speaker 2: There alone, so clearly you're not working twenty four seven.

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Speaker 2: He's excited and like, now sees what I'm saying about

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Speaker 2: So I'm like stoked on it. So I'm kind of

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Speaker 2: What are the flight prices looking like? Because going to

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Speaker 3: Really, who cares?

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Speaker 4: It was a whole plan.

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Speaker 2: So but in my mind, I go, well, this solo

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Speaker 1: Saying, you know, this is something that you can get

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Speaker 2: Yes, like exactly, moments like this is what I could

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Speaker 4: Is facilitating.

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Speaker 1: Why couldn't he to the DMV. What's the big deal?

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Speaker 4: Right, Well, it's just again.

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Speaker 3: Because you always do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, like he always tells me the number one

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Speaker 2: question and conversation he has with our daughter is where

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Speaker 4: And that's all he hears.

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Speaker 2: Where's Like she'll call him from across the house for

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Speaker 2: So like, to your point, this is exactly what I'm

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Speaker 6: And not like her actual driver's license test. No, like

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Speaker 6: you take the photo and you hold the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'd probably like yeah, if it was the actual

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Speaker 2: driver's test, you know, me, I celebrated everything, so we'd be.

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Speaker 4: We'd go to dinner after, we'd celebrate.

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Speaker 3: And all that.

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Speaker 2: But you again, exactly, it's the written permit test. So

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Speaker 2: I see that on the calendar and I go, oh, crap,

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Speaker 2: I know When I bring this up to my husband,

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Speaker 6: You don't ask him to do anything, even though it's

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Speaker 4: Her there, standing by and then taking her home.

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Speaker 1: Remember living our life for you a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, I know. So so I go, okay, well,

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Speaker 2: but he's happy for me. So I'm gonna so I'm

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Speaker 2: well I'm gonna suck it up and I'm gonna no problem.

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Speaker 4: I got this, I got you, I got this. That's

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Speaker 2: And so I let him know, oh crap, you know

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Speaker 3: I know that's a.

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Speaker 2: I'd rather jab my eyeballs out then you abandon us

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Speaker 4: What's the tone I got just.

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Speaker 3: Has to drive to the d m V. I don't, yeah,

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Speaker 6: The and that he got tagged in yesterday last minute

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Speaker 6: to go deal with pick up?

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Speaker 3: And I mean that's just whatever I said.

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Speaker 5: Great, this is gonna be awesome.

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Speaker 1: I mean there's two parents. Yeah, I mean I have

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Speaker 1: to do stuff too. Yeah all the time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, and then you know, he tries to start spinning

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Speaker 2: it into well he it's because he knows she's gonna

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Speaker 2: not be happy with that situation. And that's what I'm like, Well, no,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to talk to her like I'm gonna and who.

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Speaker 4: Cares if she's unhappy about what?

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Speaker 3: Just because mom's not driving me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just because mom's not there, and and it's dad

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and from you, they're too addicted to you.

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Speaker 4: I kind of agree sometimes.

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Speaker 2: And so that's when I kind of point blank said,

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Speaker 2: I thought you were excited for me to do this

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Speaker 2: and happy for me. I said, I think I missed

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Speaker 2: read that. And when you were telling me the stories

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Speaker 2: about you being alone in Oregon, you were just happy

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Speaker 2: reminiscing for yourself. You actually weren't happy at the thought

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Speaker 4: And he didn't disagree. He was just kind of like,

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Speaker 7: What you what?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 2: Like then starts questioning like, well, what are you actually

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Speaker 4: Do you really want to be there? Why don't you do?

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Speaker 2: It's staycation here? And that's what I'm telling him. It

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Speaker 2: would be so much more expensive. And what am I

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Speaker 3: Hotel bar like that.

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Speaker 2: I want to look at the ocean. I want to

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Speaker 2: go in the backyard. I want to plant some flowers, pull.

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Speaker 7: Something, caref the freaking wall. You work every day? He

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Speaker 7: does it, and his projects that he does are his hobby.

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Speaker 6: Anyway, It's like, I don't know, I would have to

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Speaker 6: make dinner because it's something I enjoyed doing.

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Speaker 2: But that's what I said to the family, That's what

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Speaker 2: I said to him to You're not you enjoyed that?

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Speaker 3: Like this? I can't. I can't.

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Speaker 4: I was having that feeling too.

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Speaker 3: I want to make sure Emily can't. I can't. Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, what flowers are you planning?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I not be there time, but but in my mind,

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Speaker 2: I would like want I want to be outdoors doing

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Speaker 2: I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like, the dream isn't to sit in a hotel?

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Speaker 1: So what is the feeling after that? Comments? Where we are?

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Speaker 1: We still going?

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 1: I'm going to do this and you guys aren't stopping me?

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Speaker 1: Or are you now quite second guessing?

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Speaker 2: Well, number one, I'm feeling poopy. I'm just going to

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Speaker 4: The whole entire thing.

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Speaker 3: He said, great, that's awesome.

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Speaker 4: And where am I at right now? I honestly don't know.

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to think of.

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Speaker 3: Second means that she's not gonna go. I own no chance.

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Speaker 2: I've been trying to think of secondary options here, but

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Speaker 2: So I'm about fifty We're fifty fift.

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Speaker 6: Don't you see everything that the reaction all this stuff

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Speaker 6: get away again. This is actually more so solidifying you

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Speaker 2: It's important for me to for me and for them

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Speaker 1: I don't want to say it, but I'm gonna say it.

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Speaker 1: I've got to teach them a lesson. Yes, you gotta

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Speaker 1: teach them a lesson. Yes, of like, I can't do everything.

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Speaker 3: No, it's not. That's not.

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Speaker 1: My job is to make your lives easier.

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Speaker 3: It's not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know you do, which is very nice of you.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, you can handle two days without mom.

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Speaker 1: You'll survive. Yeah, you'll survive. You can drive her to

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Speaker 1: the to the DMV.

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Speaker 3: It's okay. These are things, these are normal things that

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Speaker 5: One hundred and fifty seven bucks round trip. Hey, now

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Speaker 5: right now you're going you're going.

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Speaker 4: Saying bro.

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Speaker 5: Three times that amount of asking me.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well this guy, I don't. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: know you so well that I already know that little

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Speaker 1: bit is probably gonna end the thought of this.

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Speaker 3: Damn what's up? Well, then don't, then don't.

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Speaker 4: Well we'll see see.

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Speaker 3: Well, well said you want to only yelling at you

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Speaker 3: like that? It turns so rad Stane happy