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Speaker 1: This portion of the Joe Show podcast is powered by

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Speaker 1: Fair and Farah, Tampa Accident Attorneys. Hi everyone, I yeah,

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Speaker 1: we're live on ninety three three FLZ Ashley Katie Jad.

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Speaker 2: Sorry for your loss a couple of years ago.

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Speaker 1: Oh I know, so eight hundred and four nine ninety three,

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Speaker 1: ninety three. If anyone else gets something like this, because

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Speaker 1: that is kind of it's kind of a bummer that

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Speaker 1: this keeps happening.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I was having a good morning until

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Speaker 3: I got this email, and I was just like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I feel so email.

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Speaker 2: Now, what happened a couple of years ago?

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Speaker 3: So I moved down to Florida by myself, and I

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Speaker 3: had my two chihuahuas, like they were my support puppy Dado,

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Speaker 3: and they had very long, good lives, but they have

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Speaker 3: since passed. You know, they lived to be like sixteen

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Speaker 3: and seventeen. But I still get emails from the VET

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Speaker 3: on their birthday. So I just got an email Happy birthday, Ernie,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, well, Ernie brown Dog crossed the Rainbow

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Speaker 3: Bridge like three years ago. But thanks for the reminders.

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Speaker 2: Why not just unsubscribe? I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, let's be Reagon subscribes for so many things

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Speaker 3: and it still hits you.

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Speaker 2: With an email.

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Speaker 1: You're absolutely right, Ashally, But now that we talk about it,

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Speaker 1: I wonder are you not unsubscribing because you don't want

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Speaker 1: to let go of Ernie?

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Speaker 2: Am I the problem?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I think so. I think as much as you

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Speaker 1: are sad right now, you can't let go of that.

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Speaker 2: Let's leave the room. This is therapist jae session.

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Speaker 3: With I think that is maybe it's gotta be, because

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Speaker 3: then you have good memories and do.

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Speaker 2: You get anything? Do you get anything else? Sorry? Cut

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Speaker 2: you off? No, that's okay.

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Speaker 3: Well with Chewy, they send birthday cards for Napoleon, who

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Speaker 3: also has since passed, and then I.

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Speaker 4: Don't throw them away.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Joe, maybe you're onto something.

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Speaker 2: You keep the ones even like this past year.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I have in my house where they were cremated,

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Speaker 3: so there, and you'll notice the next time they're over

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Speaker 3: because there's like a little picture and they're a little

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Speaker 3: like boxes. And then like when people when they when

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Speaker 3: they died or whatever, people had sent really nice cards

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Speaker 3: or like my friends sent flowers. So I have like

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Speaker 3: a little box and their collars are in there. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 3: a drawer, and then I put the cards in there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't let them go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm unpacking so much like that.

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Speaker 1: That's definitely what it is. Whose birthday is next? Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess Napoleon. Well, Ernie would be today.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Ernie's today, and then Chewie will send me a

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Speaker 3: birthday card in March.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, correct, Chewie will send me a birthday card in March. Oh,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, there's anything wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: That's sounds silly, though, is it. No?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think I do the same thing.

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Speaker 1: I kind of had a not an emotional because I

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Speaker 1: didn't cry. I was very frustrated with my family to

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Speaker 1: find out I had a dog named Lily, and I

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Speaker 1: didn't have like the most comfortable like middle school. In

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Speaker 1: high school, I ended up having to change schools, Like

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Speaker 1: it just wasn't that great. So like my freshman year,

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Speaker 1: I tasked myself with not saying a word during school.

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Speaker 2: I completed that tab.

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Speaker 1: I'll never forget a girl that I had crush on

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Speaker 1: in middle school and we were friends with and then

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Speaker 1: we didn't talk ever again. She walked up to me

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Speaker 1: on one of the last days of school and she's like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, I didn't even know that you went

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Speaker 1: to school here like that.

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Speaker 2: And I ended up transferring after that.

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Speaker 1: But every single day I'd go home and Lily would

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Speaker 1: lay on my stomach, and I like every picture I

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Speaker 1: have when I was in school, like it was Lily

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Speaker 1: laying in my stomach.

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Speaker 2: She ended up dying when I was.

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Speaker 1: In college, your stomach and I ate her, so she's

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Speaker 1: in my stomach. I didn't. I found out that my

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Speaker 1: brothers who Luke knew Lily for a cup of coffee.

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Speaker 1: Luke is like ten years younger than me. I don't

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Speaker 1: think you've met Luke yet that you will. He's an

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Speaker 1: a shad. Luke got something, Jacob got something, My dad

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Speaker 1: has something, my mom has something. My mom on her

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Speaker 1: key chain has Lily's collar like the key tag.

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Speaker 2: Dam Yeah, I don't get anything. The memories. I like

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Speaker 2: to hold onto things like that. It's in your heart, yeah,

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Speaker 2: well no.

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Speaker 1: In my pocket, that's not Yeah, they got paused.

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Speaker 2: They got a whole alyssa when.

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Speaker 3: Maybe they thought you were too close and it would

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Speaker 3: have been like they were like, yeah, he doesn't want anything.

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Speaker 1: But that's not fair. But hold on that's totally not fair.

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Speaker 1: Whfe's not fair? Joe, You're not fair. Do you keep

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Speaker 1: anything from chief?

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Speaker 4: I do? I had?

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Speaker 2: It's not fair. He's not fair because I don't have anything.

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Speaker 4: Well, Joe, why weren't you more proactive in the process

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Speaker 4: and tell your mom.

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Speaker 2: In Chicago?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Well no, That's the thing is if your dog really

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Speaker 4: meant that much to you, Ashley, right, wouldn't you be like,

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Speaker 4: you know what, Mom? Is there anything I could do?

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Speaker 4: Can we do something to commemorate?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? He's usually like that, but it was different.

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Speaker 1: I went to school in Chicago, Illinois, when Lily had

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Speaker 1: passed away. It was a very traumatic moment for me.

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Speaker 1: April twenty first. It happened April twenty first, and the

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Speaker 1: Cubs were playing a day game against the Cincinnati Reds.

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Speaker 1: I was so sad that my dad saild listen, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna make you happy. I'm gonna get you take I

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Speaker 1: went to a lot of Cubs games, so I went

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Speaker 1: and I sat in the bleachers. When I would go

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Speaker 1: to Cubs games, I wouldn't go with anyone.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: I really am alone, and I would put headphones on

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Speaker 1: and I would listen to other baseball games, Vin Scully

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Speaker 1: on the call for the Dodgers. Vin Scully said, I

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Speaker 1: hope you're having a beautiful day, and if not, I

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Speaker 1: hope baseball can be that escape that you need. If

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Speaker 1: I remember that, I obviously was going through with Jed,

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Speaker 1: but you might have.

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Speaker 4: He didn't ask for anything. You should have been like, Mom,

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Speaker 4: go to the vet. Get like because for Chief, my

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Speaker 4: dog who passed away couple of years ago, you got

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Speaker 4: his paw. I got his paw. Why the hell didn't

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Speaker 4: she tell your mom? Listen, Mom, this is what I want.

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Speaker 2: Paw print like. It's like a rabbit sweat. Clarify.

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Speaker 4: Keep it on top of my bedroom dresser, look at

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Speaker 4: it every morning.

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Speaker 1: Well, Katie, don't get rid of any of those Happy

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Speaker 1: birthday nid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Happy birthday Ernie. A twenty one growl salute for

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Speaker 2: Ernie starting to sell. They don't twenty one salute. You

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Speaker 2: can't help that. Oh wait.

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