1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,679 Speaker 1: Hey, good morning, Joe Show. We're live on ninety three 2 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:10,240 Speaker 1: three f l Z Ashley. Let's talk about this early, 3 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: since you know you and I I don't want your 4 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: friend to hear this, but your friend got quite the 5 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:19,959 Speaker 1: big birthday. 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 2: Gift from an ex. 7 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: Yeah. She doesn't really know what to do with the 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: cat because she's a Carol A ton of cat it is. 9 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:30,639 Speaker 1: How much is a cat? 10 00:00:30,680 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: Two thousand dollars? 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 1: That's pretty nice? 12 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 2: So nice. This girl isn't a she is an electric engineer. 13 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,360 Speaker 2: The X she does really well verse all but listen, 14 00:00:40,440 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 2: money don't matter. 15 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: So eight hundred and four NA ninety three ninety three, 16 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: your X sends you two grand. 17 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 2: You're in a relationship, you're engaged. 18 00:00:51,400 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 1: What do you do with the money? Two grand? 19 00:00:55,520 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 2: She's not her girlfriend. She just told me. Times are 20 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 2: hard right now. Times are hard right now. 21 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: So I just what now? If you tell the significant other, they're. 22 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 2: Gonna be like, why why are you still even talking 23 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: to this person? Because that would be my immediate question, 24 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: like why do they still even. 25 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 1: You know, are they still talking? I they've got to 26 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 1: be If she got that, that's what. 27 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 2: She was telling me. That's the same thing she was 28 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: telling me that they haven't communicated in months, and I'm 29 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 2: just like, regardless if it was months, like you've been 30 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 2: engaged for over a year now, So the fact that 31 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 2: you're still talking to her, she feels comfortable sending you 32 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 2: this money on your birthday. I was like, that's the 33 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 2: red flag right there. And I said, listen, the girl 34 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 2: you're with now, she does well for herself, she takes 35 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: care of you. There's no reason why you need to 36 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 2: keep this money. I said, you might want to just 37 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 2: give it to me, and then I laughed, But then 38 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 2: I was like, just you need to give it back 39 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 2: to her, because I just think that's dirty money. 40 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: If I received two grand from an ax. 41 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,200 Speaker 2: I the next day clearly still has feelings. 42 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: For you, I would take it. I'd keep it. I'd 43 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,960 Speaker 1: put it towards my wedding. This girl's getting engaged engaged 44 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 1: well no, no, no, hear me out. That's what I would do. 45 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my god, this is great. I 46 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: just got this money. Bang another two grand towards the 47 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: wedding fund. All right, That's what I would do. Okay, boom. 48 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: But if a list of received my fiance received two 49 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: grand from an ex and I found out. I would 50 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: be so mad. Really, you should be for everything that 51 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: you've said. Yeah, hell yeah, what the hell's going on? 52 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:38,480 Speaker 1: You're like, I take care of you. 53 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: You don't need this money from this dirty person. 54 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: Why are you getting that? 55 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? 56 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: How long? 57 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 2: Why do they feel comfortable sending you this money? That's 58 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: why I said that. 59 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 1: Hey, Anna, good morning, Good morning Anna, Anna. What would 60 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: you do? Ashley's friend is engaged. She gets two thousand 61 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: dollars from her ex randomly since you're too grand by 62 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 1: the way, must be nice. But what do you do 63 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 1: with like the the blood money, the blood money, I mean, 64 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: that's what it feels like. What do you do? Oh? 65 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 3: Honestly, Joe, life is hard, like Ashley said, And a 66 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 3: lot of Americans have less than ten thousand saved in 67 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 3: their banks, you know, like nobody can save money, so 68 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 3: I will trying to catch up or save it for 69 00:03:30,520 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 3: you know, if you want to jail, you don't have 70 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 3: bail money. You're kind of sitting. 71 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 2: Would you tell your significant other? 72 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? 73 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 3: But if I was a significant other, and I thank 74 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 3: you two thousand. If you spend it on a cat, 75 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 3: I love animals, But if you spend it on a cat, 76 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be like, listen, you you got to rearrange 77 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 3: your your mentality, because you could have done anything with it, 78 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 3: you know, put it towards a degree, put it towards anything. 79 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: I mean you could. 80 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 2: I don't even think you're spending the money right now. 81 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 2: I think he's just like, what do I what do 82 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: I even do it this money? 83 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: Do I keep it? 84 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: Do I give it? Do I tell my fiance that 85 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 2: I was I receive this money? 86 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:08,360 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 87 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 2: I just think that you you tell her, yeah, you 88 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 2: got to be. 89 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: I would put it towards the wedding. I would, but 90 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 1: I just think it's be very ignorant to think that. 91 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: Alyssa wouldn't be like, how the hell did you? 92 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, and she'd be like, why is your ex 93 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 2: contributing to our wedding? 94 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: Exactly? And thank you Anna? Like what you know. I 95 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,679 Speaker 1: But at the same time, too though it's too grand, 96 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 1: like Anna said, like and I listen, I get it. 97 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,360 Speaker 1: Times are hard for all of us. Man. I think 98 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 1: about our government workers right now, military heroes, everyone like that, 99 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: Like they're not even getting a paycheck right now, So like, 100 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:48,400 Speaker 1: could you imagine being gifted too grand? Like who Okay, fine, 101 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: too grand. Let me ask you this question, who are 102 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: the people that you don't want to take too grand from? 103 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: Think about that? Yeah, So like the ex is like 104 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 1: I got to you know, I don't know. I'm hesitant 105 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: with it. I don't know what to do. But like, 106 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: who else falls under the category of I don't necessarily 107 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: want them? It's two grand, two thousand dollars, I'd freak 108 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: out two thousand dollars. That'd be unbelievable. Two grand. So 109 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 1: think who would you not want the money from? We're 110 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: second guessing an X. But I'm second guessing in that 111 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 1: because I don't want it. But I don't want to 112 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 1: be disrespectful towards my That's. 113 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,279 Speaker 2: The thing is more of so towards the feelings you 114 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:29,679 Speaker 2: have for your your fiance. 115 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: You will Let's run through a list of people and 116 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:34,920 Speaker 1: see what you think. It's a gift from me, Oh, 117 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm taking it, of course, it's a gift from our boss. 118 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: Yeah hell yeah, Okay. Obviously then to get from work 119 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: that'd be considered a raise, which totally big, or a 120 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: bonus or whatever. Think of what else? Though? All right, 121 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: here we go, here we go, here we go, here 122 00:05:52,760 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: we go, ok, what if see I can't think of 123 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: I can't think it's from Hitler. Yeah, Hitler money. 124 00:06:05,240 --> 00:06:08,160 Speaker 2: I can't take the money. That's really dirty money. It's 125 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 2: really dirty money. 126 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 1: Well, and it was a trick question because he didn't 127 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 1: have us. 128 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 2: Do you take money from Diddy? 129 00:06:14,200 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: From Diddy? T G Dude? If I got two g's 130 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: from Diddy, I go, this is it? You got more? 131 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 2: But it has lube on it. It's a little sticky. 132 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: It is it's like what the dollar in reality, it's 133 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 1: like you got like. 134 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 2: A You're like, oh god, it's a little slimy. All right. 135 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't want it from Diddy, but. 136 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 2: Just because now they got to take it from Diddy, you. 137 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: Got gloves before I grab onto that. Maybe you want 138 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 1: a wire transfer it? What do you want to do 139 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: zalat something like that. Yeah, I think she takes the money. No, 140 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: I don't think she does. 141 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 2: It's tough. 142 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. Yeah, my brain hurts. 143 00:06:57,440 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 2: I'm sitting in of this podcast though already I am. 144 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 1: Hello, lady, if you keep it, send me twenty five bucks.