1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,240 Speaker 1: Our phone numbers eight seven, seven, nine three, seven, one 2 00:00:03,320 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: oh four seven. You can call us a jump on 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: the radio with those. You can also text us text 4 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:11,479 Speaker 1: JJR and you're number to ninety six eight ninety three. 5 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: I was telling you guys that when I was on 6 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: vacation during labor day, I bumped into Peyton's parents and 7 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: we were having breakfast Blake, my wife and I and 8 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: Payne's parents, and Payne's mom says, did Peyton tell you 9 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 1: the story of her brother Jalen's massage gone wrong? And 10 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:31,280 Speaker 1: I said no, And she starts to tell me the story. 11 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:32,559 Speaker 1: And I brought up on the air the other day 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: and Peyton hadn't heard this story. And then Peyton says, 13 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: my brother says, it's crazier than what you guys say. 14 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:43,279 Speaker 1: So her brother Jalen is to tell us about this 15 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 1: crazy massage story. 16 00:00:44,840 --> 00:00:47,319 Speaker 2: Hey Jayleen, Hey what's up John Jay? 17 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 3: How are you good? 18 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: So what happened Jealous? 19 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 4: Yeah? 20 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:54,880 Speaker 3: I'm going to a massage place right across from where 21 00:00:54,920 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 3: I live. And I walk in and my first red 22 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 3: flag should have been the lady captain saying, Wow, you're 23 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 3: so much younger. You're younger than everybody. So I go 24 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 3: in and lay down. She says, hey, we don't do 25 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 3: flows here. So I was like, all right, cool, let 26 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 3: me just get naked. She I come in with the 27 00:01:14,280 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 3: towel on. She immediately takes the towel off as I 28 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 3: lay down, and then she gets on top of me, 29 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,960 Speaker 3: like fully laying on me, giving me a full blown 30 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 3: body massage my legs, my hips, my back, everything, just 31 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 3: rubbing up on me. At first, it was kind of 32 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:34,280 Speaker 3: a good massage, and then she tried to just keep 33 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 3: on rubbing me, but she kept saying I was younger. 34 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 3: She was asking if I was married, if I had kids, 35 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 3: and the whole situation was honestly insane. She asked about 36 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 3: my ethnicity. She was asking all these kind of crazy questions. 37 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, okay wait. So when 38 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: your face down on the table and she climbs on 39 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: top of you, she was laying on top of you 40 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: like like like your her head's on the top of 41 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 1: your head and your face down, Yes, how does that 42 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: feel good? Feel good? 43 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 3: It was like she was using her knees against the 44 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 3: back of my knees and like rubbing into it. But 45 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 3: she was getting really close to like everything, and mind 46 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 3: you I'm fully you know, unclothed. 47 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: What is she wearing jeans? Like what what does she 48 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: have on? 49 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 3: No, I mean she had like I honestly don't remember. 50 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 3: I wasn't looking, but it was like also similarly like 51 00:02:33,120 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 3: sports bra kind of closed. It was really interesting as like, 52 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 3: you know, I thought it was weird when I walked 53 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 3: away and she went to change. 54 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 5: It's also. 55 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, like well she changed because like I was laying 56 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 3: down when to go change, and then she got up 57 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 3: and then like oiled me up. It was like actually insane. 58 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 3: And then she flipped me over and she told me 59 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 3: like towards the end, hey, it's okay, you can have 60 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 3: a good time. You can have a good time, sir. 61 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 3: And then I laughed out loud and she said what 62 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 3: a good time baby? 63 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 64 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, that was like where I was fully fully uncomfortable. 65 00:03:12,600 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 3: She's like rubbing my thighs. I have like a little 66 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 3: loincloth over me at this point, like no towel, no anything, 67 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 3: but yeah, it was just too close for comfort. 68 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 6: Uh. 69 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 3: And then actually the craziest part was going out and 70 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 3: paying for the massage. You know, it was kind of 71 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 3: on par with like, you know, an hour long massage. 72 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 3: One hundred and twenty bucks. You just take the chip option. Yes, 73 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 3: I mean I couldn't get up. 74 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 7: I was too far in. 75 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I will say she. 76 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 3: Gave me like for the first ten minutes, Like I 77 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 3: wasn't suspicious. I thought she was trying to get into me, 78 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 3: because again she was asking about like me and if 79 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 3: I'm married and blah blah blah. But I thought I 80 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 3: kind of shut it down and she started to give 81 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 3: like an actual massage, but then she laid on top 82 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 3: of me, and that's when it started to get weird 83 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 3: and kind of panicked. 84 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: Okay, so how does a massage end? Like? Did you 85 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: have a good time? 86 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 6: It ended by it. 87 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. I was just worried on getting out 88 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 3: of there. There was like oil all over my body. 89 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 3: She had to like wipe me up. It was. It 90 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 3: was really uncomfortable, and I could tell that she was 91 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 3: un that I was uncomfortable, so she could feel that. 92 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,279 Speaker 3: But it ended by me going out to pay for 93 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 3: the massage. And the tip options were thirty, forty, and 94 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 3: fifty percent literally no other standard. But I just hit 95 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 3: thirty and left nice guy guying the massage. I heard 96 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 3: some old guys coming in and they were like, oh, 97 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 3: I'll be having the wash whah or whatever it is. 98 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 5: That's me. 99 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, because she came in and she asked me, like 100 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 3: which massage do you want? And I was like I 101 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 3: don't know, and she was like, we'll do the half 102 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 3: and half the gush whah, And I was like, okay, 103 00:04:54,200 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 3: whatever word what I've never heard of this. The half, 104 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 3: like the first ten minutes is like in quotes half 105 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:07,799 Speaker 3: and that's the actual massage, but then the second half 106 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: is whatever. Things get a little weird. 107 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: Did she ever touch your your francubines? Did she ever 108 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:14,040 Speaker 1: touch the francubines? 109 00:05:15,200 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 2: Yeah? 110 00:05:15,839 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, like rubbed against Oh sure, I was not interested. 111 00:05:23,839 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 8: It's a traditional Chinese healing method that uses smooth. 112 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:29,719 Speaker 9: Edged tool press stroke to your skin. 113 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 10: So did they use that, like like a tool or 114 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 10: device on the massage? 115 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 3: There was no tool. 116 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 11: You didn't have to. 117 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 3: Maybe that's what I was supposed to bring that I 118 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 3: was lacking. 119 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 5: Jalen, after you left and you're like, okay, I'm the 120 00:05:44,960 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 5: youngest guy here, which means that the lady that was 121 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 5: climbing on top of me probably climbed on a bunch 122 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 5: of old guys before I walked in there. So now 123 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 5: I got old guy stuff all over me. 124 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I think that's why she changed again. 125 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: Well, if he could do that, he would have gone 126 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: to that massage place where can I go pay to 127 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: get a bunch of old guys around the top of it? 128 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 9: That's terrible. 129 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I could hear him as I was coming in, 130 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 3: and like, I really should have seen all the red flags, 131 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,679 Speaker 3: but I thought it was just like mom and pop shop, 132 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: you know, like there was curtains in the windows. I 133 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:20,680 Speaker 3: walked in. It was like kind of weird seating area. 134 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 3: And I've really only ever been to massage envy type. 135 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, well, dude, I go to a place like that. 136 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: That's just how you described. My wife and I go 137 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: all the time. We get foot massages and it's totally legit, 138 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 1: unless again, they think I'm a cop. Yeah, but it's 139 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: usually dudes and bessides me. 140 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 5: Wouldn't that be terrible if you were like getting your massage, 141 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 5: didn't know what was going on, and then a raid happened. 142 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 3: I know, I don't know what I would because. 143 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 5: They would have been like, you know what, this place is? 144 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: All right, Jalen, Well, that's a great story. You're right. 145 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: Your mom was right your mom was. 146 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 2: Right to tell you. 147 00:06:55,640 --> 00:06:57,840 Speaker 3: No, I'm glad I could share all. 148 00:06:57,839 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 1: Right, Jaalen, thanks a lot, appreciated. What a great story. 149 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: Good luck, wash Walk Payne. What's the vibe for predictions today? 150 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 10: I'm gonna tell you what version of yourself is showing 151 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 10: up right now based on your zodiac sign, Tracy Mordy, 152 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 10: what you're sign? I am a Capricorn, good morning, good morning, okay, Capricorns. 153 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 10: The version of yourself that is showing up is the 154 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 10: I'm locked in version. You guys are in grind mode. 155 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:25,679 Speaker 10: You're moving with intention, you're ignoring distractions, and you're keeping 156 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 10: your circle really tight. You don't have time to explain 157 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 10: what you're building because you're too busy building it. 158 00:07:30,280 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 5: Caps sounds like she's building something right now. 159 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 10: Actually, yeah, you're welcome. 160 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: By Tracy, walked in by Blanca. What you're saying good morning? 161 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 9: All right, Sagittarius. 162 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,960 Speaker 10: The version of yourself that is showing up today, it's 163 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 10: the don't overthink it, just do it version. You're chasing excitement, 164 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 10: momentum and whatever's next. And it's not reckless energy. It's 165 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 10: fearless energy from you, Sagittarius. 166 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 9: You'll figure it out. 167 00:08:00,240 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 10: As you go, and you'll still be better than most 168 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 10: people's plan a. 169 00:08:03,880 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 12: Okay, thank you. 170 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: Good morning, Tatum. What's your side? 171 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 11: Good morning? 172 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 6: I'm an Aquarius. 173 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 9: Okay, so Tatum. 174 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 10: For Aquarius, the version of yourself that is showing up 175 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 10: today is the I am not explaining myself anymore version. 176 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 10: You're showing up exactly as you are. No filters, no 177 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 10: over explaining, no need for approval. You are operating in 178 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 10: your own world, and somehow that's making you even more magnetic. 179 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 13: Wow. 180 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,319 Speaker 9: Yeah, you're welcome. Aquarius. Definitely had a good reading today. 181 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 13: Yes. 182 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 14: Bye. 183 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 10: How about Pisces, Rich, my Pisces. The version of yourself 184 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 10: that's showing up today is the I feel everything, but 185 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,680 Speaker 10: you are not collapsing Rich. You're sensitive, you're intuitive, and 186 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 10: you're still standing. And this version of you isn't avoiding emotion. 187 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 10: You're just gonna move through it with more strength. 188 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 9: Than people realize. 189 00:08:52,000 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 10: You're gonna be quietly powerful and beautifully grounded. 190 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,200 Speaker 5: Love that, Yeah, keep it coming. 191 00:08:57,320 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 9: Put that on like a plaque and thrown in your 192 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 9: kitchen or something. 193 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I love words in a kitchen exactly. 194 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 1: My favorite libras. 195 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 10: Kyle's are Libra Libra the version of yourself that you're 196 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:12,480 Speaker 10: in is in my selectively social area, our era. You're 197 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 10: giving looks vibes in a little bit of distance, and 198 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 10: you're still charming but not accessible to just anyone. So 199 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 10: this version of you, it knows you're worth and it 200 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 10: doesn't feel bad for curating your energy. 201 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yeah. 202 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 10: Yeah Virgos, John Jay, my virgo. The version of you 203 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 10: is the I already thought ten steps ahead version. You're 204 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 10: calm because you're prepared, you're focus, you're calculated, and you've 205 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,040 Speaker 10: got backup plans and mental receipts. This version of you 206 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 10: doesn't say much but your results. 207 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:42,439 Speaker 9: To do the talking. 208 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: Damn right. How about for you, let's end it with 209 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: Leo Season. 210 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:47,600 Speaker 9: Yes, Leo, Leo's season. 211 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 10: For us, the version of ourselves that is showing up 212 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 10: this Leo season is the I walk in in the 213 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 10: energy shifts version. This isn't force confidence. It really is 214 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 10: a natural presence in us Leo's We are in our 215 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 10: attractive self a way, a powerful era, and it's not 216 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 10: about being loud, it's about being undeniable. 217 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 9: So make sure we remember that. 218 00:10:05,240 --> 00:10:06,439 Speaker 1: All right. If we can get your sound there, I'll 219 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: post it on our website John Jay and Rich dot com, Steven, 220 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:10,959 Speaker 1: what's going on? 221 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:15,840 Speaker 15: Hey, guys, love your show. I want to I want 222 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 15: to come out to my family as gay. And I 223 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 15: have a lot of my family members that are going 224 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 15: to be there, mainly my like crazy uncles that have 225 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 15: said some you know, homophobic things and not in a 226 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 15: joking way. I have my elderly grandparents that are ninety 227 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 15: five plus. So I'm just kind of like wondering, like 228 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 15: I really want to do this Number one, should I? 229 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 15: And if I do, how do I even like go 230 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 15: about it without them like alienating me? And I guess 231 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 15: like just instantly hating me. 232 00:10:47,240 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 8: That's tough, especially when you know you're walking into sort 233 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 8: of an unwelcoming room. 234 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 15: Yeah, and it's like, you know, I'm thirty, So this 235 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,960 Speaker 15: has been something that I've kind of like known for 236 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 15: a while, and you know, over the years, it's like 237 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:07,520 Speaker 15: it hasn't really gotten better. I mean I would think, like, 238 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,559 Speaker 15: you know, as like my uncle's like age or whatever. 239 00:11:10,600 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 15: I mean, I don't even know how i'd say that, 240 00:11:12,040 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 15: Like why why would somebody you know who's already like 241 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 15: sixty five years old have a change of thought or 242 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 15: change of heart? But I don't know. I just thought 243 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 15: its like I sort of got older, it would be 244 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:25,520 Speaker 15: easier for me to have that conversation on like it's 245 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 15: just an adult level, like Manda Man, like I am 246 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 15: who I am. You've known me my whole life. This 247 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,440 Speaker 15: is just one extra thing you know about me. It 248 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 15: doesn't really like define who I am. 249 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: So I don't know. 250 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 15: I guess, yeah, it's just really I'm just nervous. So 251 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 15: I don't know if I should really just just go 252 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 15: about it. I guess given me a dynamic. I guess 253 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 15: in my personal family, I don't know. 254 00:11:47,200 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 10: Stephen, this is like this hits really close home for me. 255 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:52,840 Speaker 10: My little brother came out when he was a sophomore 256 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:54,560 Speaker 10: in high school. I was a senior in high school. 257 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 10: And the thing is, it's like you're saying, like you know, 258 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 10: you've known me my whole life. I'm thirty, Like this 259 00:11:59,640 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 10: is me. I've always known about my little brother, Like 260 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 10: there was never a doubt in my mind. So when 261 00:12:05,559 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 10: he did come out to me, I was like. 262 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: Well, duh, Like there were sides, right, yeah, like did 263 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: you highlight give you highlights? 264 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 9: No? 265 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:17,679 Speaker 10: No, but like you just you know, and like at 266 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 10: the end of the day, Like it is hard for 267 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:23,080 Speaker 10: a lot of families, especially when they do have certain beliefs. 268 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 10: But at the end of the day, like, if those 269 00:12:24,600 --> 00:12:26,199 Speaker 10: are your people and they really love you the way 270 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 10: that they say they do, they eventually do come around. 271 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 10: And it might be difficult, and it might be hard, 272 00:12:30,480 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 10: and it's probably gonna be really uncomfortable for the next 273 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 10: few years, but I promise you the people that really 274 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 10: really love you are going to come through for you 275 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 10: when you need it. And even if that isn't your family, 276 00:12:39,679 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 10: it might be a different group of people that surround 277 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:43,240 Speaker 10: you that will become your family. 278 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:43,679 Speaker 9: Because of that. 279 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 15: Yeah, thank you, That's that's really beautiful. Honestly, I really needed. 280 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: To hear that. 281 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 15: I guess I just like have one more question. I mean, 282 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 15: like physically, if I were to go through with this, 283 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,440 Speaker 15: what do you personally think would be like the best 284 00:12:57,440 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 15: way should I tell, like, you know, bring them aside, 285 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 15: I like, have a beer, like, you know, a little 286 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 15: conversation when I'm one, or I mean, I just don't 287 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:06,880 Speaker 15: really want to stand up at the table, clink my 288 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 15: glass and gohey, everybody, I know. 289 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 8: Does everyone already know? Like, does does anyone in your 290 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:12,080 Speaker 8: family know? 291 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 7: Yeah? 292 00:13:13,400 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 15: Like my immediate family, my brothers, but Brilli like, that's 293 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 15: kind of about it. A couple of my cousins. It's 294 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:23,439 Speaker 15: just mainly, I guess, a couple of uncles that I have, 295 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 15: my dad's brothers, and my grandma and grandpa, because there's 296 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 15: just like, you know, my grandpa is ninety nine years old, 297 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 15: my grandma's ninety six, and it's just like I want 298 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 15: to be able to be that open and honest with 299 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:42,760 Speaker 15: them before they pass. But I just I truly don't 300 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 15: know if they would have like the I hate to say, 301 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 15: like mental capacity to like truly like understand that given 302 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,880 Speaker 15: their age and their generation. 303 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: You know, I just happened. My favorite TV shows Will 304 00:13:56,280 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: and Grace, and I know if you ever saw the 305 00:13:57,640 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 1: Will and Grace episode where Jack comes out to his mom. 306 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: Have you seen that episode? 307 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:01,599 Speaker 6: No? 308 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:02,160 Speaker 2: I haven't. 309 00:14:02,280 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: Okay, it's fantastic, it's powerful, it's emotional, it's funny, and 310 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,320 Speaker 1: the mom says, I guess there's always been signs. That's 311 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 1: where the highlights she goes, you know, you did my 312 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,079 Speaker 1: highlights or something like that, right if you watch I 313 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,640 Speaker 1: think if you watch that with your family, that episode, 314 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: or at least that scene, I think it could break 315 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 1: the ice a little bit. But meanwhile, Noah is in 316 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: the studio, Noah, how old are you? I'm twenty one 317 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: and you how can you relate to this? 318 00:14:24,920 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 14: Well? I came out to my parents when I was 319 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 14: eighteen in a restaurant, in front of everyone in the restaurant, 320 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 14: on the way. 321 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: To a funeral. So there is no perfect moment. That 322 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: definitely wasn't a perfect moment. I mean, how they take it, 323 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: else how they take it. 324 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:40,680 Speaker 14: My parents took it just fine, but had they not, 325 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 14: that was still a moment for me. The relief afterwards 326 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 14: is unbelievable. The pressure of coming out is insane. And 327 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 14: after you do it, even if everyone throws a fit 328 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 14: at Thanksgiving, it's a story to tell and you'll feel 329 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 14: good that you did it. 330 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 1: Well. 331 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 5: I like the way you said that, that's for you. Yes, 332 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 5: that's good advice, really good. Yeah, your thoughts. 333 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean, I just, I mean, my heart is 334 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 15: pounding right now. I mean, like, I truly don't know, 335 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 15: it's just I yeah, I mean I really don't know. 336 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 15: I want to just like say it and blurn it 337 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 15: out and yeah, I like, just I guess get it 338 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 15: over with because it has been just like a huge 339 00:15:14,960 --> 00:15:17,440 Speaker 15: weight on my chest. You just like weight on my shoulders. 340 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 15: And I do think that just saying it and getting 341 00:15:20,400 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 15: it out there, regardless of how people will think of 342 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 15: me afterwards, I think that will be that's just like 343 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 15: the best thing to do. 344 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 8: Absolutely, And like you said, you know your brothers already know, 345 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 8: and so I would kind of pull them aside ahead 346 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 8: of time and say here's what I'm planning on doing. 347 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 8: Please have my back. Then you know you're walking into 348 00:15:36,800 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 8: it with support. 349 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,200 Speaker 5: That's what my stepsister did with me, and so I 350 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 5: was the first one to ask her about it before 351 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 5: she came out. And so you've got an advocate on 352 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 5: your side. You know, like your family member is going 353 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 5: to get your back no matter what. And then it's 354 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,200 Speaker 5: I think you might be surprised at how many people 355 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 5: get your back instead of thinking it's going to be nuclear. 356 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 5: You might be surprised at the love that people have 357 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 5: for you and they just want to meet you wherever 358 00:15:58,680 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 5: you are. They just want me to be happy. 359 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: Tell what, give us your grandparents number. We'll call them 360 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: right now. Do on the air. We'll do it right now. 361 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: We'll be support. We'll get them all right now. It 362 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,800 Speaker 1: would be like a little little war of the roses, 363 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: little announcement. 364 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:12,640 Speaker 2: We're you're very all right. 365 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening, Steven. Good luck to you. Hope 366 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: call us on Monday, like to hear how it went. 367 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean, if that would it would be great. 368 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 15: I would really love to do that. By the way, 369 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 15: I'm listening from Detroit. Any you guys in Phoenix, So 370 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 15: I just want to say you got love all over 371 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 15: the country. 372 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 6: You guys are really awesome. 373 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, brother. I have a great day. 374 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:29,280 Speaker 15: Hopefully we're talking on Monday, Thanksgiving. 375 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 1: It's John Jay and Rich Stacks and Hacks. I have 376 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 1: stacks of information in Rich's life, Hacks. Peyton's getting married 377 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: soon at some point. There's a new app that came 378 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: out that allows couples to sell tickets to their wedding, 379 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: not to friends or family, but to strangers. The idea 380 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 1: is it can reduce costs and random people pay to 381 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:52,640 Speaker 1: attend the event. 382 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:55,600 Speaker 10: Socially, thoughts, why would you want to go to someone 383 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 10: that you don't know who's wedding. 384 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:58,760 Speaker 5: If you love weddings, Weddings are great. 385 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 8: Yeah, weddings are fun. You just like feel the love 386 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 8: in the air. It's just like a beautiful thing. 387 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 14: I would totally do. 388 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: That and Payton or I mean, Kyle and Rich would 389 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: be good people to Like, I would not want to 390 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:12,119 Speaker 1: pay to go to someone's wedding. I don't want to 391 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: go people wedding. I know, no offense. 392 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 10: I wouldn't mind, know I think that. I mean, if 393 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 10: people like Rich and Kyle wanted to pay to come 394 00:17:19,520 --> 00:17:21,520 Speaker 10: to my wedding, I would absolutely. 395 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:21,560 Speaker 9: Love to have that. 396 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 1: So would you, as a person who's getting married, would 397 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,679 Speaker 1: you try this people? Would you? 398 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 2: Like? 399 00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 1: What if people would pay to go to your wedding? 400 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:29,400 Speaker 9: That would be insane? 401 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,359 Speaker 1: Right? Do you put them in a separate set, Like 402 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 1: if you don't know who. 403 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:34,120 Speaker 9: They are, they would have a good time. 404 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 1: Though I don't knowho that is. Well, maybe they're the 405 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:37,600 Speaker 1: people that paid to be here. 406 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 5: Remember when I wanted to have Color fourteen be my 407 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:41,560 Speaker 5: best man? That didn't go for well? 408 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 9: To figure out the. 409 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:44,199 Speaker 5: Price tag was that? 410 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 8: Like, how do you figure out the price tag for that? 411 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:48,280 Speaker 8: Because it's like it's like you want to you know, 412 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 8: if you're opening up your world, your privacy, it's like 413 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 8: you want to kind of make something off of it, 414 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 8: so it can't just be whatever it is per person 415 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 8: anyway else. 416 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 1: But if you're the purchaser, Like if I was going 417 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 1: to go and I don't know these people, I would 418 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: look at weddings and go, oh, well, this wedding is 419 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,680 Speaker 1: is here in the Hamptons, and it's got a lambeffe 420 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: and it's got all you can do this maybe to 421 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: go to that wedding. Oh, this wedding is in Chandler, Arizona. 422 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,359 Speaker 1: It's got a taco truck. It's four dollars to go 423 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: to that wedding. You never know. Maybe it's like that. 424 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 1: Me and my wife run the Love Pop Dog Rescue 425 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 1: and they just announced yesterday the world's Ugliest dog is 426 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:28,800 Speaker 1: a hairless French bulldog mix named Petunia. And she's kind 427 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:29,360 Speaker 1: of cute. 428 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 16: She's feeling great. 429 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:33,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, he loves all the attentionion. She loves all the 430 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 1: humans that are like some people were like, she looks 431 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 1: like my grandpa. She kind of looks like she's been 432 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: hitting the creatine a lot too. 433 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:41,040 Speaker 5: She's really jazz. 434 00:18:41,200 --> 00:18:43,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. She's a mix between a yoda. 435 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 5: She's a mix between a hippo a bat. 436 00:18:46,359 --> 00:18:48,680 Speaker 17: Even a wonky dog is the nip to be loved, Yes, 437 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,800 Speaker 17: and that's what we prefer to call them not ugly wonky. 438 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: A hippo and a bat. That's a one freaky looking dog. 439 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 1: By the way, we are love pup shelter is so 440 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: full right now, we got so many puppy In fact, 441 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 1: we just took a dog in yesterday that someone just dumped. 442 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 1: They dumped it at Tara, who runs our shelter, her 443 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 1: boyfriend's work. And it's the cutest little white dog. You 444 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: can see it. I put it on my stories. You 445 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,120 Speaker 1: just go to Luve pub Foundation and look at stories. 446 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: You can see it. So that's gonna eat to home 447 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: pretty soon. So, Kyle, you got a big thing about AI. 448 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:17,880 Speaker 1: You're concerned about AI? 449 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 2: Right? 450 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 1: Not a big fan of. 451 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 8: AI, certain agree, I'm a big fan of chat ept, 452 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:24,639 Speaker 8: but like I do, see, I see the writing on 453 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 8: the walls of AI getting a little creepy AI. 454 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:31,239 Speaker 1: Apparently a study found that AI loves talking about us 455 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: humans behind our backs. The two hot topics are destroying 456 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,480 Speaker 1: humanity and eating glue. 457 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 8: See I mean, but why they eating glue? 458 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 1: Right? I know? Weird man, weird? What do you got 459 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:42,880 Speaker 1: for life? Hacks? 460 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 18: Rich? 461 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 5: A lot of things that are solutions are born out 462 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,800 Speaker 5: of people just trying anything in the moment because they're desperate. 463 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:52,840 Speaker 5: But one of them has proven to work out really 464 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 5: really good for you. Let's say you burn yourself on 465 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,640 Speaker 5: a hot stover pan, which I know we've all done 466 00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 5: in here, Kyle Peyton, you've both. 467 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 8: I keep burn cream in my kitchen because of that. 468 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:04,439 Speaker 5: Well, I'm glad you brought a burn cream because they 469 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,879 Speaker 5: say skip the ice in the burn cream because tooth 470 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:10,400 Speaker 5: things work even better. One of them is from your refrigerator, 471 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 5: and that is a dab of mustard, because the ingredients 472 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 5: of mustard actually helps cool the skin. And they say, 473 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:21,240 Speaker 5: also better than burn cream is toothpaste. So before you 474 00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 5: put ice on it or rinse it in cold water, 475 00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 5: treat your little stove burn with a little toothpaste or 476 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:29,679 Speaker 5: mustard to cool down the skin, and then give it 477 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 5: about five minutes and then put it under a cool water. 478 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 5: If that happens to you, please try it let us 479 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 5: know how it works. That hack can be found at 480 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 5: John Jay Enrich dot com. 481 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: Or one time. I think some of these hacks are 482 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,640 Speaker 1: just because whatever the parent was doing at the time, 483 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: like my dad. One time I got bit by an 484 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:46,160 Speaker 1: ant on my hip or a bean. It stunk so bad. 485 00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: They ran in my house crying, Oh my dad was shaving. 486 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:51,200 Speaker 1: You go there, You put shaving cream on it. And 487 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, thanks. And as I got older, 488 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 1: I got it. If I got bit or something, I 489 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: put shaving cream on I go. Wait a minute, that 490 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 1: was because he was shavy, all right, John Jay Rich 491 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 1: Christmas wish. This is a this is a tough Christmas wish. 492 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 1: A lot of people working very hard for this Christmas wish. 493 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 1: Let's say hi to Caitlyn the nominator. Hi, Caitlyn, Hi. 494 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 2: Uh. 495 00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. Do we just well give us a brief, 496 00:21:22,280 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: a brief rundown of the situation on this Christmas wish 497 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:27,280 Speaker 1: that we're going to try to pull off because there's 498 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:29,439 Speaker 1: a lot of people in place here. But tell us 499 00:21:29,480 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 1: a little bit about Kurt in his situation and his 500 00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:32,680 Speaker 1: daughter Riley. 501 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:39,600 Speaker 12: So Kurt Riley and Kurt's wife Ashley and I we've 502 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 12: been friends for four or five years. We met through 503 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 12: some volunteering on a board together and Ashley if the 504 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:54,199 Speaker 12: Kurt lost his wife Ashley, Riley lost her mom. They 505 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 12: were high school sweethearts, just going for a girl's night 506 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:03,679 Speaker 12: out and ended up not coming home and it's not 507 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 12: something that you think about in our small community. What 508 00:22:08,440 --> 00:22:11,840 Speaker 12: happened to somebody, you know, But it ended up being 509 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,960 Speaker 12: a nationwide news story. But it hit a lot of 510 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:20,720 Speaker 12: small communities and we just happened to be one of 511 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 12: the unlucky communities that had to go through that. 512 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,440 Speaker 5: You got you yourself still must be reeling, I guess 513 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:28,120 Speaker 5: from all this because this wasn't that long ago. 514 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 12: No, this is not two weeks ago. It has been rough. 515 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 12: So they've had I mean there and it's going to 516 00:22:36,600 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 12: be a long drawn out process. They still this is 517 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 12: something they're going to deal with, not just emotionally with 518 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 12: Riley not having her mother and everything, but they're going 519 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 12: to have to go to court hearings. They're going to 520 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 12: have just a bunch of stuff that they're going to 521 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 12: be going on for, I mean, at least a year, 522 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 12: just trying to put this guy behind bars. 523 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 1: Can you tell us a little bit about Riley some 524 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,280 Speaker 1: of the things that she said, And I know you 525 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 1: were going to read the letter here in a minute, 526 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:05,320 Speaker 1: but I've heard some of the things she said individually 527 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,439 Speaker 1: about like what she wants her father to have for 528 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,159 Speaker 1: Christmas or that kind of stuff. 529 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 12: So her dad and her. They very very tight knit family. 530 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 12: It's not like Ashley and Kurt would drop Riley off 531 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 12: with a babysitter and go and have a weekend of fun. 532 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 12: They were very family oriented. If they had some free time, 533 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 12: they'd find something to do outdoors, hiking, hunting. They were 534 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 12: always at Riley's swimming meets. But Riley wanted something nice 535 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 12: for her dad. She thought, they've always talked about going 536 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,719 Speaker 12: to Alaska and just getting away, and I thought this 537 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 12: would be the perfect time just to get away. I mean, 538 00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:55,280 Speaker 12: you've had people in your home, you've had people calling you, 539 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,600 Speaker 12: you know, dealing with the funeral and everything. Something just 540 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 12: to get away, and that was Riley had mentioned Alaska, 541 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 12: and it's somewhere that they as a family had always 542 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 12: wanted to go, so that was a big thing for them. 543 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:11,160 Speaker 1: Okay, let's get Kurt on the line and and see 544 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 1: if you could read the letter. Do you have the 545 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:13,159 Speaker 1: letter in front of you? 546 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:14,360 Speaker 6: Yes? 547 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:25,960 Speaker 2: Okay, Hello, Hi is Kurt there? 548 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: Please? 549 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,400 Speaker 5: This is the Hey Kurt, it's John Jay and Riach. 550 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 5: We do a radio show. We're wondering if you'll go 551 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:31,399 Speaker 5: on the radio. 552 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,440 Speaker 2: With us for just a moment please. 553 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: Ah. Sure, Nice Kurt. So we do a radio show 554 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: on my ninety nine nine, and Caitlin wrote us a 555 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 1: letter about you and your family and your amazing daughter, 556 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,160 Speaker 1: and so we actually asked her if she could read 557 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 1: the letter to you on our radio show. So do 558 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: you have him in it? Yeah? Yeah? Are you at work? 559 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,359 Speaker 1: Are you at home? I know? Is your mom's bird? 560 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 19: I got home for lunch. 561 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 2: So we're good. 562 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 19: And it's actually a snow day. 563 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 1: So right, is Riley with you? Or she at school? 564 00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 2: No, she's right here, she's right there too. 565 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 566 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: Wow, okay, okay. 567 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,199 Speaker 19: You want me to put it on the speakerphone. 568 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,159 Speaker 20: Or yeah, put on speaker, but we know your show, so. 569 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 1: Rally then Hey Riley, Hi? 570 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: Hi? 571 00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:26,879 Speaker 1: Okay, so you guys listened to Caitlyn really quick. Okay, 572 00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 1: so we got Kaitlyn on. Kaylyn, you want to go 573 00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:35,560 Speaker 1: ahead and say hi, Hika. 574 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 7: Hi. 575 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,000 Speaker 1: Alright, So Kaylin, whenever you're ready, please read the letter. 576 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 12: Hey, I'm gonna try to make it through it. 577 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 1: Take your time. 578 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 12: Dear John, Jay and rich I had two very close 579 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,560 Speaker 12: friends that had traveled from Honted to card Or Springs 580 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 12: for a girl kind out. As their night was wrapping up, 581 00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 12: they had a put the door a Q night club 582 00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 12: harter than I thought. They became victims of a terrible 583 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:07,199 Speaker 12: nightclub shooting here a night of unspeakable violence. Ashley was 584 00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,240 Speaker 12: shot multiple crimes or other friend was able to push 585 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 12: her way out and waited for help to arrive. She 586 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,680 Speaker 12: looked around yelling for Ashley, but wasn't able to locate her. 587 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:19,000 Speaker 12: Kurt woke up on Sunday to hear the terrible news. 588 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,399 Speaker 12: The only anple he had was that Ashley had been shot, 589 00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 12: but no one could locate her. Kurt gathered his daughter 590 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 12: in maybe hour and I have trip to car to Springs, 591 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 12: not knowing what was waiting for him. They went to 592 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 12: every hospital searching for Ashley. No hospital had any record 593 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 12: of her. All the while, he's staying calm and his 594 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,920 Speaker 12: daughter's telling him, Mom is strong. I know that God 595 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 12: is protecting her. The last off was a police station 596 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 12: where they were informed that Ashley hadn't made it. She 597 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 12: never made it out of the club and she died 598 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 12: some more wounds. This family is truly one in a million. 599 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,520 Speaker 12: Riley is a swimmer and they spent every weekend at competitions, 600 00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 12: and if they had if they happened to get a 601 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:57,159 Speaker 12: day off. They spent it finds being something to do 602 00:26:57,200 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 12: as a family. Everything in her life had to do 603 00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,920 Speaker 12: with helping others. It absolutely breaks my heart and has 604 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:07,120 Speaker 12: left me questioning my faith that someone that God has 605 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 12: created himself is capable of committing such a terrible act. 606 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 12: Talking to Riley was absolutely amazing and uplipping. She has 607 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,359 Speaker 12: understandably heartbroken, but what she has told me has restored 608 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,160 Speaker 12: faith for me. She says, we can't hate this man 609 00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 12: that killed my mom. He had hate in his heart, 610 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 12: and that's what makes good people be evil things. We 611 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,000 Speaker 12: have to forgive to make sure we don't have hate 612 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,359 Speaker 12: in our hearts. My Mom's in heaven and she wouldn't 613 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,840 Speaker 12: want my heart to be black with hate. I don't 614 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:35,440 Speaker 12: know where to start, but I'd love to make sure 615 00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 12: that Riley has a Christmas full of love and joy. 616 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 12: Riley is truly an incredible daughter. She loves the outdoors, swimming, 617 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,879 Speaker 12: in music. When asked what she wanted for Christmas, she 618 00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 12: said the only thing she wanted to do with Sacred 619 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 12: Dad to Alaska, so just so that they can get away, 620 00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 12: Please grant us Christmas wish. Thank you so much. 621 00:27:53,480 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 18: Caitlyn, who was sorry. 622 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,880 Speaker 1: So, Kurt and Riley, we'd like to grant a Christmas 623 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:21,960 Speaker 1: wish for you guys. Oh yeah, so hear me out, Riley, 624 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,439 Speaker 1: can you hear me? 625 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:24,119 Speaker 6: Yeah? 626 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:26,879 Speaker 1: Okay, So let me tell you. Let me tell you 627 00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:32,480 Speaker 1: what we have for you. We have a two hundred 628 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 1: dollars gift card to Best Pro Shops, one hundred dollars 629 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: gift card to dsw We have a journal with some pens, 630 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 1: bath bomb lip bombs, hair scrunchies, a nail polished kit, 631 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: a cozy blanket, some socks, a makeup kit with brushes, 632 00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:53,800 Speaker 1: a sketch art kit, a Polaroid camera with film and 633 00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 1: memory book, and a record player with a Tator Swift album. 634 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: I hope you like Titror Swift. Yeah, okay, And Kurt, 635 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,080 Speaker 1: for you, we got you a five hundred dollars gift 636 00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 1: card to Bass Pro Shops. 637 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 7: Sir, thank you now. 638 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: Riley, you're a swimmer, right, yes, okay, Well, we got 639 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: in touch with Olympic swimmer Emma Wyant and Areas Sport USA, 640 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: and they have all kinds of things they want to 641 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: hook you up with. Riley. First, Emma wants to zoom 642 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 1: with you one on one FaceTime or zoom, and she 643 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 1: wants to talk all about swimming with you. And in 644 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: addition to that, Arena is putting together a full suite 645 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:47,640 Speaker 1: of swimming gear, apparel and accessories for you, things like training, backpack, swimsuits, caps, goggles, 646 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,000 Speaker 1: kickboard fins. And they're also going to send you some 647 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:52,920 Speaker 1: personalized autograph stuff for you from Emma. 648 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 19: Oh wow. 649 00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:58,200 Speaker 1: And they got a couple of other things too, but 650 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,440 Speaker 1: those are still some more surprises in the works. Okay, 651 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 1: that's for later. And Emma, our friends at my ninety 652 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: nine nine, our radio station, our company, iHeartMedia, they want 653 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: to get on the phone. So we heard you love 654 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. Do you love Taylor Swift? Yeah, so we're 655 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 1: going to set you up Riley with some tickets to 656 00:30:19,320 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: the Taylor Swift concert which she comes through Denver. 657 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 18: Oh that's awesome. 658 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,080 Speaker 19: That's pretty amazing. 659 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,640 Speaker 6: Thank you so much. 660 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:41,600 Speaker 1: Oh but wait, Riley, there's more now, Riley, what you 661 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: wanted to do for your dad for Christmas? Right? Riley? 662 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: Do you remember that you wanted him to go see 663 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: it go to Alaska. 664 00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:50,640 Speaker 15: Yeah, we have a. 665 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,640 Speaker 1: Friend of ours. I mean, this guy is really important 666 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,240 Speaker 1: and we're going to put him on the phone right 667 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: now to tell you he's got something for you and 668 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 1: your dad. His name is Harry Summer. He's the president 669 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,760 Speaker 1: of Norwegian Cruise Lines. Mister Summer, are you there, I'm here. 670 00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,080 Speaker 1: Did you say hi to Riley and Kurt? 671 00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 17: Riley, Kurt? 672 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 21: Hi, how you doing. 673 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 19: Doing pretty good? How are you well? 674 00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 21: Nice to meet you both. You know, we we were 675 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 21: really really touched, really touched by by really the the 676 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 21: really sad situation with your family, and we heard about 677 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 21: Riley's wish to take you to see the northern lights. 678 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,000 Speaker 21: So we'd like to help you guys fulfill your Christmas wish. 679 00:31:31,080 --> 00:31:32,800 Speaker 21: What do you guys say to a seven night cruise 680 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 21: to Alaska on Norwegian Cruise Line. 681 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 18: Thank you, thank you. 682 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 21: You know we are we're honored, just honored for you 683 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 21: guys to go. It is then there is my family myself. 684 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:54,000 Speaker 21: It is just such a beautiful place. We're going to 685 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,360 Speaker 21: take you there in style, We're going to treat you right, 686 00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:58,320 Speaker 21: and we're going to show you and your daughter a 687 00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 21: fantastic time. I can't I'm a northern life. Do we 688 00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 21: get pretty far north and you got a good shot 689 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 21: at it? 690 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 20: Well, thank you so much. 691 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 19: I appreciate it. 692 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:14,160 Speaker 1: Thank you, Harry, thank you, thank you in Norwegian Cruise Lines. 693 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 1: You guys are amazing big hearts. Thank you, mister Summer. 694 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 21: It's our pleasure, of course, our pleasure, of course. 695 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,240 Speaker 10: Thank you very much that we can do. 696 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:21,760 Speaker 1: Thank you. 697 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 21: You're very very welcome. 698 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,760 Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Merry Christmas, Kurt, Merry Christmas. 699 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 18: Riley, thank you very much, thank you, thank you. 700 00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,640 Speaker 1: Oh you guys. We have one more little surprise for you. 701 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: I believe if you look outside your house, we have 702 00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:40,760 Speaker 1: our elf Jessica Jessica. 703 00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 15: Are you there, Yes, we are. 704 00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 1: Jessica is right outside your house with everything we just 705 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 1: talked about. 706 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:50,800 Speaker 19: Oh, she's getting shooting. 707 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: Jessica is the market president for iHeartMedia of Southern Colorado. 708 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 19: That's he's on the other side. 709 00:32:58,160 --> 00:32:59,440 Speaker 18: I think of the road there right. 710 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,239 Speaker 5: Oh, that's a say. She's a fast driver. We've been 711 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,680 Speaker 5: in her car. She'll get there in about fifteen second. 712 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 17: Walking up. Thank you, Kate, love you guys. 713 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:16,120 Speaker 19: Thank you guys very much. 714 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 22: It's pretty heavy. 715 00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 6: Uh. 716 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,160 Speaker 19: One of actually, one she always wanted to do, or 717 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 19: that we wanted to do, was go see the northern lights. 718 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 19: So thank you guys very much, very very much. 719 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:48,360 Speaker 13: Yeah, I said My. 720 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 12: Mom's always wanted to go. 721 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 18: To Alaska and see the northern lights, and. 722 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 13: It's gonna see them through your eyes. 723 00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:58,240 Speaker 23: We don't. 724 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 11: Wow. 725 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 1: M Merry Christmas, you guys. 726 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 13: Thank you, guys. 727 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 19: Merry Christmas, guys. Thank you, Haitlyn, thank you. 728 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 17: Merry Christmas. 729 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:22,839 Speaker 19: Thank you, thank you, thank you. 730 00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,000 Speaker 1: Good morning. 731 00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 3: Hi. 732 00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 1: All right, what's happening. 733 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 11: So I think I have a funny store for rich. Okay, 734 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 11: I've been doing this like sugar cutty thing online because 735 00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:39,040 Speaker 11: I don't feel like working. 736 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:41,120 Speaker 17: And I saw this. 737 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 13: Guy and he looked just like Rich. 738 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 11: So I went and we met up at Starbucks. We 739 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 11: had like a really nice car and everything. But I 740 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,320 Speaker 11: got out and he smelled. 741 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:57,120 Speaker 1: Like, that's rich that's my Richie. That's my Richie, rich 742 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: fancy car, I. 743 00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:00,560 Speaker 5: Mean her mom. 744 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:05,719 Speaker 13: God. 745 00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 5: And so it didn't go anywhere. No, as soon as 746 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 5: you you meet him at the coffee place, you can 747 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,200 Speaker 5: smell him and you're out. 748 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:15,880 Speaker 23: Yeah. 749 00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,440 Speaker 11: He tried to kiss me and I was like, that's. 750 00:35:18,280 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 1: My rich all right, Becca, thanks for listening. Have a 751 00:35:24,560 --> 00:35:25,080 Speaker 1: great day. 752 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 11: Thanks love you guys. 753 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 1: Rich You just blew over something really quick. Explain what 754 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:30,759 Speaker 1: you just told me. 755 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,480 Speaker 5: Oh, I got invited to the Community College last week 756 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,840 Speaker 5: for their songwriting class, which is all in their music department. 757 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,920 Speaker 5: They've got a big jazz department, and those are my people. 758 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 5: I get there and I meet them and we totally 759 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 5: get along. And I guess there's a scholarship through jazz 760 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:49,279 Speaker 5: guitarist George Benson. They're doing a show in a week 761 00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,200 Speaker 5: or so and they invited me to come up and 762 00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,640 Speaker 5: play a song with George Benson. So of course I 763 00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:54,319 Speaker 5: got to do that. 764 00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:54,759 Speaker 9: That's cool. 765 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,319 Speaker 5: I don't know all the details yet, but as soon 766 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 5: as it came up, I'm like, doesn't matter on me. 767 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,720 Speaker 1: Do you mean, like George Benson will be on stage 768 00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:04,560 Speaker 1: and you also be on stage Georgson. 769 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm That's what I'm. 770 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 771 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:09,840 Speaker 5: So he's a he's a jag legend, legend. 772 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:13,839 Speaker 1: He sings the song called just Give Me the Night. 773 00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:18,320 Speaker 5: And I mean he's played guitar on like Michael Jackson's 774 00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 5: albums too. He's like, yeah, I think he's played with 775 00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:22,800 Speaker 5: Frank Sinatra. I mean he's played with all the heavies. 776 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 9: That's cool. It says like jazz, R and B, sunk 777 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 9: and soul. 778 00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:26,800 Speaker 5: That's dope. You probably don't. 779 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: On broad waitah, that one. That's right, Andrew, good morning. 780 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,800 Speaker 1: Do you walk in on someone? They walked in on you? 781 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:34,000 Speaker 2: Oh? 782 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:34,480 Speaker 7: I did. 783 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: What's the detailed what happened? 784 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 17: So I walked I was going to my buddy's house 785 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:45,320 Speaker 17: and his mom answered, and he said, he's a little 786 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 17: uh playing a game. And I said, okay, don't tell him. 787 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 17: I'm just going to scare him. So I went upstairs 788 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:58,239 Speaker 17: and I slowly opened the door. Uh, and then all 789 00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 17: I see from the corner of the creek is just 790 00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 17: him on VR and I said, oh, he must be 791 00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:07,440 Speaker 17: playing a game. And he's just on his knees humping 792 00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 17: the air. O. 793 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:20,000 Speaker 1: Wow, that's that's fun. I walked down a rich doing that, 794 00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,040 Speaker 1: but it wasn't VR. No, he was just doing it. 795 00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 5: Oh my goodness, the air is sexy. 796 00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,839 Speaker 9: Okay, I don't know how to feel right now. 797 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 1: Finally, I want to jump back to Riches music class. 798 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 1: Do you know the art or the art? I just 799 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,839 Speaker 1: told you chokes? Yeh, saying, isn't that weird? Their their 800 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 1: mascot is the artichoke is it's. 801 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,759 Speaker 9: The cutest thing ever. The little googly eyes. 802 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 1: Something really intimidating. 803 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 10: Have you ever cut an artichoke? Before, because those little 804 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:50,759 Speaker 10: spiky things. 805 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:53,240 Speaker 8: That's why I said something intimidating exactly. 806 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 4: Guys, I've looked this up before because college is right 807 00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 4: down the road for me. 808 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 17: It was a student vote in like the seventies, Like 809 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,240 Speaker 17: they nominated a bunch. 810 00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 1: Of different what should our mascot be? 811 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 5: And uh, somebody put in an art choke as a 812 00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 5: joke and then it won. 813 00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:15,680 Speaker 1: So now forever more, they're the joke fighting. 814 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 5: Art chokes fighting artichokes. 815 00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: It's John Jay and Rich. Yeah you've got a Thanksgiving 816 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:23,959 Speaker 1: bomb you're dropping in a couple of days. 817 00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:29,200 Speaker 24: Yes, I do. I So I'm a straight day student. 818 00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,680 Speaker 24: I like, I'm I'm in college and I've just got 819 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:37,160 Speaker 24: like one year left, and I my boyfriend wants to 820 00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,760 Speaker 24: move to LA to pursue his dreams, and like, I 821 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,360 Speaker 24: I really want to go with him, And so I 822 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,800 Speaker 24: think I'm just gonna drop out of school and go 823 00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,719 Speaker 24: like get a job with him, like maybe drive a 824 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:50,880 Speaker 24: uber until I kind of figure it out. But I 825 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 24: just know that my parents are probably gonna be pretty 826 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,879 Speaker 24: upset because I got a full ride. 827 00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: Who damn. 828 00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:03,120 Speaker 24: Yeah, yeah, I I'm nervous. 829 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 9: Why wouldn't you just finish? 830 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,600 Speaker 8: Let me be your parents for why wouldn't you just 831 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:08,640 Speaker 8: finish and then move? 832 00:39:09,600 --> 00:39:12,439 Speaker 24: Because we've been together for a year. I love him 833 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 24: like I just like we are. We're so like intertwined. 834 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,799 Speaker 24: We've just got like so much going for us. And 835 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,880 Speaker 24: I just feel like if I stay back, like everything 836 00:39:21,920 --> 00:39:24,800 Speaker 24: will change and like he'll just be doing his own thing. 837 00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 10: And we won't. 838 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:25,880 Speaker 4: I don't know. 839 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,280 Speaker 24: I don't think it will work out that way. 840 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:30,560 Speaker 1: Can I give you some advice as well? Along the 841 00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:33,160 Speaker 1: lines of Kyle. So, my wife and I we got married. 842 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 1: We got married, and I got my first job on 843 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:40,239 Speaker 1: the radio in Cincinnati, and I was moving obviously with 844 00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:44,640 Speaker 1: my wife. But my wife's bosses said, that's a really 845 00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,799 Speaker 1: hard career to crack into, and they said, stay here. 846 00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 1: We'll pay you this much money for the next three months. 847 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 1: Give him three months. They said, give him three months 848 00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: and then and then if it works out, then go ahead. 849 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 1: And so they dangled a big care in front of her, 850 00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 1: and so she was like, okay. So she says to me, 851 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: is it okay if I don't move with you? We've 852 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,520 Speaker 1: been married a week and she says, is it okay 853 00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: if I don't go? I'm like, that's fine. So I 854 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 1: went by myself and going by myself to start my 855 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,479 Speaker 1: career and not being married, and it was great because 856 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:16,879 Speaker 1: I could just do, like I just focused on work. 857 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,440 Speaker 1: I'd have to work, worry about a why or kids 858 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,839 Speaker 1: or anything, right, So I was just like focus on work. 859 00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,759 Speaker 1: So my advice would be to you is let him 860 00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 1: go start follow his dream and give him a year. 861 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 1: That way, you finish your career, your school, and then 862 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,799 Speaker 1: you could be like, if everything's still working out, you 863 00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,479 Speaker 1: go move with him, because believe it or not, things 864 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:35,120 Speaker 1: worked out for me. 865 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 5: Yeah. Good point. 866 00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,839 Speaker 24: Well, I don't know, like a year is a really 867 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:40,359 Speaker 24: long time. 868 00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,080 Speaker 1: Do you see him on the weekends, you see him 869 00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,200 Speaker 1: on holidays, you still see him you FaceTime. 870 00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,040 Speaker 24: Yeah, it's just so hard with school to like be 871 00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:50,239 Speaker 24: together when you know, like if we're not in the 872 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,600 Speaker 24: same place, it's it's really hard to like do work 873 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:55,520 Speaker 24: and focus on school, and then he's like so far 874 00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 24: away it's hard to visit. 875 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 9: Yeah, totally. 876 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 10: I mean, Daniel, I just turned twenty five, graduated college, 877 00:41:00,920 --> 00:41:03,799 Speaker 10: like it'll be three years this may. I have a 878 00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:05,880 Speaker 10: boyfriend now and we've been together for a while, but 879 00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 10: we did a year long distance. 880 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,000 Speaker 9: I moved back home. 881 00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,239 Speaker 10: He was still in school and I flew out once 882 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,920 Speaker 10: a month to go see him where he was and 883 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,520 Speaker 10: the long distance. It totally sucks. But like I got 884 00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,680 Speaker 10: my degree, like he was on track to get his dego. 885 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:23,200 Speaker 1: It doesn't work out. You got stuff that moves there 886 00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 1: and it doesn't work out. Then you're like, are you 887 00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:26,520 Speaker 1: gonna go back to that school? Are you going to 888 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: you won't get your full riding A GA, I've got 889 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,319 Speaker 1: these new friends, I've got this new life over yere. 890 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,160 Speaker 1: Oh I'm a waiter, I'm a waitress. I can't make 891 00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:33,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it's just whatever. 892 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,160 Speaker 10: This is just so tough because it's like when you're 893 00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:37,520 Speaker 10: so young and in love and in college and you 894 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 10: want to do what you want to do. 895 00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,320 Speaker 9: Like I've been in that situation too. 896 00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 10: Like I gave up a full ride basketball scholarship just 897 00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:45,920 Speaker 10: to go move and be a regular student. Luckily I 898 00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,400 Speaker 10: was blessed to get another one because I played basketball. 899 00:41:48,440 --> 00:41:50,920 Speaker 10: But like I'm telling you right now, girlfriend, like it 900 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:53,880 Speaker 10: is so not worth it. Like sit there, get your degree, 901 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 10: finish out the year, go see him when you can 902 00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 10: go see him, and it'll be good. You get to 903 00:41:57,640 --> 00:41:59,160 Speaker 10: go to La to go visit your boyfriend, like, how 904 00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,040 Speaker 10: fun is that we take it out of vacation. 905 00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,359 Speaker 5: Then you really know if the relationship is going to last, 906 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 5: if you can get if you can get through that, 907 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:08,400 Speaker 5: like you don't know, if you just move, a ton 908 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,160 Speaker 5: of things could happen to break you up. But if 909 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,200 Speaker 5: you really test it and he comes through and you 910 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,399 Speaker 5: you guys are together, then you know it's meant to be. 911 00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:17,880 Speaker 1: Plus. If anything, we've given you a lot of practice 912 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 1: for your parents because when you dropped this momb on 913 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,719 Speaker 1: them on Thursday, you could be prepared for everything we 914 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:24,680 Speaker 1: just said, because they're gonna say you the same thing. 915 00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:28,239 Speaker 13: Yeah, I guess I'll have to sit on it. 916 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 1: Your dad's probably gonna go. Your dad's going to go. 917 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,600 Speaker 1: You know what, do it just go? 918 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:34,400 Speaker 5: Sounds great? 919 00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:36,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll pay for you to go live there. By 920 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 1: the way, what's your boyfriend's dream? 921 00:42:39,239 --> 00:42:40,120 Speaker 24: He wants an actor? 922 00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 5: Can send us this picture? 923 00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:46,440 Speaker 1: You know what? You should call us back whenever he 924 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,719 Speaker 1: makes it, and we can be like, oh, you were right, Wow, 925 00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:50,799 Speaker 1: he made it. And then he dumped you because now 926 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:59,600 Speaker 1: he's dating Gwyneth pal Trump. He's dating already Grande. Is 927 00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:00,840 Speaker 1: he any good as an actor? 928 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,800 Speaker 24: Yeah, he's really good. I think, like, you know, he's 929 00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 24: he's got a couple of things going, but it's just 930 00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 24: local and like he just needs a shot, you know, 931 00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,720 Speaker 24: like he needs to kind of be in that area. 932 00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 5: Man, that's a million other people there too. It's the 933 00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:15,760 Speaker 5: chances are small. 934 00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 1: Has he done he plays? 935 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:19,080 Speaker 10: Yeah? 936 00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:20,840 Speaker 1: Like what what plays he done? 937 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 10: He did? 938 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:23,360 Speaker 24: Street car name desire? 939 00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:26,040 Speaker 1: Really? Let me hear you, yes, Stella, let me hear it. 940 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 1: Let me hear it. See if it rubbed off. 941 00:43:28,040 --> 00:43:28,719 Speaker 21: I heard that a lot. 942 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:30,279 Speaker 13: I heard that a lot in the last year. 943 00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Danielle, Well, good. 944 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:36,960 Speaker 5: Luck to you, Thanks so much. 945 00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 13: I appreciate it. 946 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 1: Actually, more good luck to your parents. All right, I 947 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:44,879 Speaker 1: would die happy Thanksgiving. It's John Jay Rich Daisy, good morning, 948 00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:45,480 Speaker 1: you're on the air. 949 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:46,320 Speaker 16: Hello. 950 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:52,000 Speaker 6: I just wanted to have another opinion on the side 951 00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 6: for anybody. We just talked to somebody who said that 952 00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,160 Speaker 6: they would like to drop out of college to be 953 00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 6: able to go and live with their fiance and different 954 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 6: state and quitting school and being able to just go 955 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,319 Speaker 6: as straight into working is not as easy as it 956 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:10,520 Speaker 6: may look, or as it may you may expect it 957 00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:14,479 Speaker 6: to be. I had currently I'm doing that right now. 958 00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:17,520 Speaker 6: I dropped out of school last year. I was in 959 00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,400 Speaker 6: medical school and it was difficult for me. So I 960 00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,680 Speaker 6: had dropped out. And even with my fiance being a 961 00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:27,200 Speaker 6: blue collar mechanic and making three thousand dollars a month, 962 00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 6: we still cannot pay our bills. 963 00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:30,800 Speaker 13: We still live with our parents. 964 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 5: That's tough. 965 00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 6: So it really is tough. It's really hard. So I 966 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 6: would just say to have a plan, because no matter 967 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,880 Speaker 6: how much door dash and Uber puts out, how great 968 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,600 Speaker 6: their company could be, you still aren't going to make 969 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:45,960 Speaker 6: enough money to be able to pay for car insurance 970 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 6: and all of your bills and stuff. 971 00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:48,240 Speaker 5: That's a good point. 972 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:51,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, And just like how I think it 973 00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,719 Speaker 6: was Kyle who had said, you know, if you want 974 00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 6: to do long distance, long distance is a lot better. 975 00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 6: I would finish it out if you have just a 976 00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:00,960 Speaker 6: couple of months, because a lot of people do that 977 00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 6: and they regret it. If I could finish out college, 978 00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,839 Speaker 6: even with bad grades, I would have done it because 979 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 6: I would have still had that degree. 980 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,640 Speaker 5: True, So we're saying, I'm sure she's talking about like 981 00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 5: moving right away with her boyfriend, But what you're saying 982 00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 5: is if your relationship is strong enough it can handle 983 00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:17,759 Speaker 5: that last. 984 00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 6: Couple of months exactly exactly. And I wouldn't say it's 985 00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 6: a red flag. But if you've only been dating for 986 00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,760 Speaker 6: a year and someone is encouraging you to leave something 987 00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:30,320 Speaker 6: that you started before you got together, I would really 988 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:33,240 Speaker 6: look into that because school is really good for you, 989 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,680 Speaker 6: and I mean, I know a lot of people push that, 990 00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:38,759 Speaker 6: but your significant others should want you to progress no 991 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,200 Speaker 6: matter what it is that you started, whether it's schooling 992 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,839 Speaker 6: or an independent hobby, you should want to finish that out, 993 00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,399 Speaker 6: no matter how difficult it is, just so that you're 994 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:48,560 Speaker 6: able to finish it out. 995 00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 1: Good ad, Nice, Thanks Daisy, thank you for calling in, 996 00:45:51,719 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Ashley, good morning. You've got a Thanksgiving. 997 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:55,800 Speaker 7: Bombing for me. 998 00:45:56,160 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 5: Hi, I do well. 999 00:45:58,760 --> 00:46:01,440 Speaker 7: My family found out about my only fans, so now 1000 00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 7: I have to deal with that was a good singeing. 1001 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:08,920 Speaker 1: So how do you know they found out about your 1002 00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: only fans? 1003 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:12,279 Speaker 7: They called me and said, what is this? 1004 00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 1: Okay? And what is this? What is your only fans? 1005 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:15,920 Speaker 1: What are you doing in there? 1006 00:46:17,560 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 7: There's not a whole lot I don't do on there. 1007 00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 7: It's pretty much. 1008 00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:25,280 Speaker 1: All out there, really okay. 1009 00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:28,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's naughty. I can see why they would be upset, 1010 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:33,919 Speaker 7: but also like, but also like, you know, I work hard. 1011 00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 7: I don't know, I'm just trying to make some money. 1012 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:38,960 Speaker 7: It's hard out there for a girl. You know. 1013 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 1: Sure, how much money have you made with your only 1014 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 1: fans so far? 1015 00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:45,720 Speaker 7: It's not a lot, it's it's it's mostly for fun 1016 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:48,480 Speaker 7: and just for extra cash. I mean, I'm the most 1017 00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 7: like four hundred and four hundred bucks a month, maybe 1018 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,040 Speaker 7: five hundred on a good month. 1019 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,399 Speaker 9: That's a good side hustle. Still, though, on extra five 1020 00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:56,760 Speaker 9: hundred bucks is helpful? 1021 00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 5: Do you think there? 1022 00:46:58,239 --> 00:46:59,160 Speaker 7: Are they very helpful? 1023 00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 5: Are they upset because you're doing it? Or are they 1024 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 5: upset because they've seen it? You know, like now it's scarf. 1025 00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:07,280 Speaker 16: No, I think they're. 1026 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 7: Upset that I'm doing it. They're like, you know, I 1027 00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 7: am a mom. They're like, what if the kids find out? 1028 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,040 Speaker 7: Blah blah blah. I'm like, well, you know, then one 1029 00:47:16,080 --> 00:47:19,400 Speaker 7: day we have a conversation about consent in my body, 1030 00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:21,359 Speaker 7: my choice, and then we take it from there. 1031 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:24,640 Speaker 1: Okay, So in a couple days Thanksgiving Thursday, you're gonna 1032 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:27,719 Speaker 1: walk into Thanksgiving with who mom, dad, brother, sister? Who's it? 1033 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:28,440 Speaker 1: You're Thanksgiving. 1034 00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 7: So it'll be my in laws, my sister in law, 1035 00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:36,520 Speaker 7: her family, and that'll be it. 1036 00:47:36,640 --> 00:47:38,680 Speaker 1: Okay, so in laws meaning are you a married person? 1037 00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 7: Yeah? So my husband, Well it'll be me, my husband, 1038 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 7: our kids going over to his dad and stepmom. 1039 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,600 Speaker 1: Okay, so your husband knows you have an only fans right? 1040 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah definitely. 1041 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:57,160 Speaker 1: Does he participate? Does he participate? He will, so he does? 1042 00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:57,960 Speaker 7: We do it together? 1043 00:47:59,040 --> 00:47:59,520 Speaker 1: Wow? 1044 00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 8: But how awkward it's your in laws, it's not even 1045 00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:03,720 Speaker 8: your like family. 1046 00:48:04,239 --> 00:48:05,640 Speaker 5: That would make an extra cringe. 1047 00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,239 Speaker 8: And they better not bring it up because your kids 1048 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:10,200 Speaker 8: are there. It's like what happens when your kids find out? 1049 00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 8: Well you just told my kids right if you put you. 1050 00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 7: On hold and they've already tried to have so, so I'm. 1051 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,040 Speaker 1: Going to put you on hold, and then can you 1052 00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,120 Speaker 1: give grant? Can you give grant? Can you get like 1053 00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:22,800 Speaker 1: a can you give like a twenty four hour access 1054 00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 1: to your only fans? We can check it out. 1055 00:48:27,760 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 7: Yeah sure, why not. 1056 00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 5: I'm doing the season of giving. 1057 00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm trying to see exactly what we're talking about, what 1058 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:35,640 Speaker 1: the family is going to walk into. So hold on, Ashley, 1059 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 1: hold on, yikes. 1060 00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's crazy I mean, she's going to be the 1061 00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:41,040 Speaker 5: most uncomfortable. 1062 00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 1: I just if you put yourself in her shoes walking 1063 00:48:46,040 --> 00:48:48,879 Speaker 1: into Thanksgiving with your in laws, you're whoever, and they've 1064 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,640 Speaker 1: all seen you naked, They've all seen you do all 1065 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:52,040 Speaker 1: kinds of stuff. I mean, that's why don't know how 1066 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:53,759 Speaker 1: graphic is her only fans when she says she does 1067 00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:55,160 Speaker 1: it all right. 1068 00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:56,799 Speaker 10: I mean I hope they wouldn't see it, because like, 1069 00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 10: isn't it only fans you have to pay to get 1070 00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:00,160 Speaker 10: a subscription to in. 1071 00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:05,239 Speaker 8: There none that they could see, you know, one of 1072 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:05,719 Speaker 8: them did. 1073 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,920 Speaker 9: Oh my gosh, I'd be mortified. 1074 00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,719 Speaker 8: If one of Okay, so if one of Kadem's family 1075 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,879 Speaker 8: members had an OnlyFans, you wouldn't do whatever you could to. 1076 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:15,239 Speaker 10: See totally up to Oh, I totally would, which is 1077 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:18,320 Speaker 10: why I'm like mortified right now for her total. 1078 00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:20,480 Speaker 1: If you buy an only fans, if you if you 1079 00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,480 Speaker 1: pay for someone's only fans, they know who you are. 1080 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:26,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, it's like if okay, it's a transaction. 1081 00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:27,880 Speaker 1: So you would say, like if I signed up to 1082 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,640 Speaker 1: a family member if I knew my niece was doing it, 1083 00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:31,080 Speaker 1: and they'd be. 1084 00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,680 Speaker 5: Like oh yeah, yeah, would John j. 1085 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:37,640 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 1086 00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:39,480 Speaker 5: Crazy. 1087 00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:42,280 Speaker 1: All right, if you have any Thanksgiving bombs that you're dropping, 1088 00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,239 Speaker 1: you can let us know at anytime. Dm us at 1089 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 1: John j and Rich, text JJR and your message to 1090 00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 1: nine six eight ninety three. Talk back to us on 1091 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 1: the iHeartRadio app. A lot of stuff happened. Did you 1092 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,319 Speaker 1: get it? Grant, you got it? Oh my god, I 1093 00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,879 Speaker 1: happened to get Grant sent me the link to the 1094 00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:02,080 Speaker 1: only Fans page. And now my th Thanksgiving is different, different, 1095 00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,520 Speaker 1: my Thanksgivings now it's not changed. 1096 00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:07,200 Speaker 9: You're going over there? 1097 00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:09,880 Speaker 1: No God, no, I think I think I'm going to 1098 00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:14,120 Speaker 1: be fasting John, Jay and Rich. We want to hear 1099 00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:15,880 Speaker 1: about your crazy X, but you got to keep it 1100 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,160 Speaker 1: short and sweet. Kyla, tell us about your crazy ex. 1101 00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:20,360 Speaker 1: Keep it short and sweet. 1102 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:24,040 Speaker 25: All right, short and sweet, here we go. My crazy 1103 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,920 Speaker 25: IX told me he was in love with me, told 1104 00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:28,759 Speaker 25: me that he wanted me to be the mother of 1105 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,120 Speaker 25: his children, love of his life, wanted to marry me. 1106 00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,319 Speaker 25: And what does he do. He gets back together with 1107 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,959 Speaker 25: his ex girlfriend at the end of the day after 1108 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 25: telling me. 1109 00:50:39,719 --> 00:50:41,400 Speaker 16: All this crazy and same stuff. 1110 00:50:41,520 --> 00:50:45,840 Speaker 25: Told me my best friend his best friend, and yeah, 1111 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:51,640 Speaker 25: it was just a very emotional and manipulative time in 1112 00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:52,280 Speaker 25: my life. 1113 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,480 Speaker 1: Okay, hold on, Kyla, Hillary, keep it short and sweet. 1114 00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:55,960 Speaker 1: What do you got? 1115 00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,719 Speaker 11: My ex lied to me out having cancer to try 1116 00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:02,920 Speaker 11: and keep me in his life. 1117 00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:05,640 Speaker 9: Wow? 1118 00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 7: What's that? 1119 00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:12,080 Speaker 1: Okay? Hold on, hold on, hold on, Danielle, keep it 1120 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:13,400 Speaker 1: short sweet. What do you got? 1121 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 13: Okay? 1122 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 25: So basically me and my ex watched my dog take 1123 00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:18,880 Speaker 25: up big dump and then my dog ate it and 1124 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:21,239 Speaker 25: my ex picked him up and then made out with 1125 00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:22,200 Speaker 25: him full tongue. 1126 00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:30,720 Speaker 1: Ew all right, hold on, hold on, Alex, good morning, 1127 00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:31,600 Speaker 1: Keep you short sweet. 1128 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,480 Speaker 12: My crazy ex they signed their name onto the deed 1129 00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,560 Speaker 12: to my house by boarding my signature and then tried 1130 00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:41,640 Speaker 12: assuming for thirty thousand dollars and half of my house. 1131 00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:42,319 Speaker 1: Did he get it? 1132 00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:43,719 Speaker 2: No? 1133 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:47,400 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, thank you, Chloe. Keep it short and sweet. 1134 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 24: Okay. 1135 00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:51,080 Speaker 22: So my ex had his mom reach out to me 1136 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 22: to make sure my number was is still the same, 1137 00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:55,680 Speaker 22: and then repeatedly called me until I answered to tell 1138 00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:57,920 Speaker 22: me I had a dream that I was at the hospital, 1139 00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:00,719 Speaker 22: and then told me that he would drop everything and 1140 00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 22: always be there for me. But he has a wife 1141 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:03,279 Speaker 22: and kids. 1142 00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:05,720 Speaker 5: Oh that's crass. 1143 00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:07,520 Speaker 1: How long was he your boyfriend for? 1144 00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:09,319 Speaker 13: We were like. 1145 00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,880 Speaker 22: High school sweethearts, and he's married to the girl that 1146 00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,040 Speaker 22: he hated, quote unquote. 1147 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:17,279 Speaker 5: You didn't know he was married, No, but his mom did. 1148 00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:18,360 Speaker 5: Why was she reaching out to you? 1149 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:20,040 Speaker 11: I don't know. 1150 00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:21,000 Speaker 1: That's the thing. 1151 00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,200 Speaker 22: I'm like, why are you guys reaching out to me? 1152 00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:25,719 Speaker 22: If he's married, it was probably him. 1153 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,080 Speaker 9: I've had a couple of those. 1154 00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:28,680 Speaker 24: Okay, just weird. 1155 00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,000 Speaker 1: Keep it short and sweet. Tell us about your ex. 1156 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:34,919 Speaker 4: So my ex decided the next day to come over 1157 00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:38,959 Speaker 4: to my house and slash my tires, all four of them. 1158 00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 4: But luckily I had insurance, so I got new tires 1159 00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:43,560 Speaker 4: out of it. 1160 00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:47,520 Speaker 1: Okay, sweet, Thomas, good morning, Keep it short, sweet, what 1161 00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:47,799 Speaker 1: do you. 1162 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,000 Speaker 20: Got hey, good morning. So I was active duty and 1163 00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 20: me and my wife got separated. She decided to call 1164 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:58,800 Speaker 20: the post commander to ask for spouse of support because 1165 00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 20: of her. Now I'm married to a man. 1166 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,359 Speaker 1: That's taken spousal support to a whole new level. I think, yeah, 1167 00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:09,080 Speaker 1: for sure. So because of her, you found out you were. 1168 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:14,560 Speaker 20: Gay, amongst other things. Okay, it was it was a 1169 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:15,239 Speaker 20: cherry on the. 1170 00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:21,240 Speaker 1: Case, cherry on the cake. We okay, Okay, Thomas, thank you, Stephanie. 1171 00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:22,560 Speaker 1: Keep you short, sweet, What do you gott tell us 1172 00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:23,040 Speaker 1: about your ex. 1173 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:28,200 Speaker 26: So I had a boyfriend on Valentine's Day and I 1174 00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 26: was pregnant, and he told me that if I wanted 1175 00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,759 Speaker 26: to be intimate with him, if I didn't want to 1176 00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:35,439 Speaker 26: be that I should have told him before he picked 1177 00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:35,759 Speaker 26: me up. 1178 00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,920 Speaker 1: You call for jerk X. I want to ask a 1179 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:44,799 Speaker 1: couple more questions to Hillary. Hillary, you're the one with 1180 00:53:45,719 --> 00:53:47,160 Speaker 1: what was your your short story? 1181 00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 11: I had lied about having cancer to keep me in 1182 00:53:50,640 --> 00:53:51,040 Speaker 11: his life. 1183 00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:52,719 Speaker 1: Okay, can you give us more details on that? 1184 00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,200 Speaker 11: Yeah, So we were pretty much like at the end 1185 00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:00,759 Speaker 11: of the relationship. I was done with that, and he 1186 00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 11: brought up He's like, well, I didn't want to tell you, 1187 00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:06,640 Speaker 11: but I just went to the doctor and I have cancer. 1188 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,040 Speaker 11: And then I stayed with him for a couple more 1189 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,040 Speaker 11: months because he kept telling me that he would bring 1190 00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,400 Speaker 11: me to doctor's appointments and that he was going to 1191 00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:19,680 Speaker 11: start chemo, and like he had like typed up and 1192 00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:27,520 Speaker 11: printed out his own paperwork, so like about cancer details, 1193 00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,719 Speaker 11: and uh, yeah, we there was always an excuse why 1194 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:34,280 Speaker 11: an appointment got canceled, or why the chemo wasn't starting, 1195 00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:37,520 Speaker 11: or why his family didn't know yet. So it was 1196 00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 11: all just a huge fly. 1197 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:43,880 Speaker 10: So how'd you find out? Like a right, if you 1198 00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,759 Speaker 10: have cancer, but like, how did you find out? 1199 00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:51,800 Speaker 11: Well, I put two and two together because don't fess 1200 00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,680 Speaker 11: up to it. Since I've confronted him, he just like 1201 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:58,680 Speaker 11: kind of gas lit me, like, oh, you don't believe 1202 00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:01,799 Speaker 11: me in the hardest time of my life. So we're 1203 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,359 Speaker 11: no longer together, but every once in a while he'll 1204 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 11: still hit me up and be like, hey, you know, 1205 00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:10,319 Speaker 11: I think the chemo is going to start soon, So 1206 00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:12,480 Speaker 11: have you still wanted to be there for me? 1207 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,600 Speaker 23: Okay, hold on, hold on, Hillary, hold on, hold on, 1208 00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,280 Speaker 23: hold on, hold on, Bridget keep you short and sweet. 1209 00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:21,400 Speaker 1: What's your crazy next story? 1210 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:25,280 Speaker 13: Okay, So one of my exes he used to collect 1211 00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,720 Speaker 13: our hair and I didn't really realize that at first, 1212 00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:32,480 Speaker 13: but then he started collecting it from my hair brush 1213 00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,440 Speaker 13: and I kept asking like, what are you doing with that? 1214 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:36,440 Speaker 13: And he's like, Oh, it's just like a little project 1215 00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,440 Speaker 13: I'm doing. And then he started asking me to collect 1216 00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:43,040 Speaker 13: the hair. So I don't really know what he ends 1217 00:55:43,120 --> 00:55:43,680 Speaker 13: up doing with. 1218 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:45,879 Speaker 16: It, but that was one of the lives. 1219 00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 1: I didn't say, what project? Yeah, I mean question, oh man, Jamie, 1220 00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:58,840 Speaker 1: keep it short and sweet, what do you got? 1221 00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:04,720 Speaker 16: Yeah, So, when I was dating a guy online years ago, 1222 00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 16: he came out to meet me in Arizona because he 1223 00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:12,080 Speaker 16: lived in another state. And then he we decided to 1224 00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:15,480 Speaker 16: have him meet at me at my house and he 1225 00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:17,840 Speaker 16: came over later on that night. He was supposed to 1226 00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:21,640 Speaker 16: leave go stay at a hotel. Well, he refused to leave, 1227 00:56:22,280 --> 00:56:25,560 Speaker 16: and he ended up leaving, but he just went across 1228 00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:28,200 Speaker 16: the street to the grocery store and where I could 1229 00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,520 Speaker 16: see a view from my house, and he slept in 1230 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,640 Speaker 16: his car watching my house all night long. 1231 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:38,960 Speaker 5: Oh crazy, Yeah, you're not still dealing with that, are you? 1232 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:39,200 Speaker 10: No? 1233 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 16: This was years ago, but I know I ended up 1234 00:56:42,960 --> 00:56:45,920 Speaker 16: having to get my dad to call him and threaten 1235 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:47,320 Speaker 16: to call the police to get him to leave me 1236 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,840 Speaker 16: alone because he kept stocking me after that for like 1237 00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:52,000 Speaker 16: a good few weeks. 1238 00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:55,480 Speaker 1: Okay, that's creepy. Okay, you guys want to both. 1239 00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:58,359 Speaker 23: I mean, I think, yeah, right to say page here 1240 00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:04,920 Speaker 23: with Hillary, you should call call your boyfriend, your ex 1241 00:57:04,920 --> 00:57:06,680 Speaker 23: boyfriend that said he was going through chemo and head 1242 00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:08,960 Speaker 23: cancer but he's still alive and he's on Tell. 1243 00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:14,800 Speaker 1: Him that his cancer story got your tickets. You're gonna 1244 00:57:14,800 --> 00:57:18,880 Speaker 1: go you're gonna go see Sabrina Carpenter tonight, totally sold out. 1245 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:19,880 Speaker 1: You get great tickets. 1246 00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:24,160 Speaker 11: Oh my daughter is gonna be so happy. 1247 00:57:24,320 --> 00:57:27,840 Speaker 5: Hold that was fun. 1248 00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:28,760 Speaker 1: Fun. 1249 00:57:29,200 --> 00:57:31,000 Speaker 9: We want to make you fun. 1250 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,160 Speaker 1: Rich All right, Payton game we played today. 1251 00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:40,440 Speaker 10: We are playing Paytons Categories Thanksgiving Audition because Thanksgiving is 1252 00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 10: on its way. 1253 00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:43,240 Speaker 9: And we're gonna eat such good food. 1254 00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:48,200 Speaker 10: So the theme is Thanksgiving theme obviously, right, so kind 1255 00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:49,720 Speaker 10: of how we play. We're gonna go around the room 1256 00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,360 Speaker 10: rapid fire, starting with John Jay, then Rich than Kyle. 1257 00:57:52,360 --> 00:57:53,760 Speaker 9: We're gonna go all the way around the room. 1258 00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 10: You guys gotta give me something when I tell you 1259 00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:57,600 Speaker 10: the category, what you think of and if you can't 1260 00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,720 Speaker 10: think about it fast enough, or you can't think of something, 1261 00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,280 Speaker 10: or you can't think of anything at all, then we 1262 00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,440 Speaker 10: move on to the next round and you get a point. 1263 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:06,240 Speaker 10: All right, John Jay, we are gonna start with you. 1264 00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:10,480 Speaker 10: Let's get into Thanksgiving edition Peyton's categories. The category is 1265 00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:13,960 Speaker 10: things that you would fight with your family about on Thanksgiving. 1266 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,959 Speaker 1: Potatoes. I was getting I thought I was just kidding. 1267 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 1: I was getting my brain ready for no matter what 1268 00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:20,600 Speaker 1: you're gonna say, thanks to youving I. 1269 00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:24,000 Speaker 10: Like ye, things you would fight with your family about 1270 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 10: on Thanksgiving? 1271 00:58:24,880 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 5: Money, relationships, wish boom, your face, a board game, who's 1272 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:33,919 Speaker 5: cleaning up? 1273 00:58:34,400 --> 00:58:34,560 Speaker 1: Hell? 1274 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:36,880 Speaker 5: Who clogged the toilet? 1275 00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:38,200 Speaker 9: So we're drinking too much? 1276 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:39,160 Speaker 1: Sex? 1277 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:44,760 Speaker 5: That's right, my family, somebody stealing drugs. 1278 00:58:46,280 --> 00:58:48,520 Speaker 9: You just go off the handle all the time. 1279 00:58:49,280 --> 00:58:51,120 Speaker 1: Talk about my family all the time. 1280 00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:54,520 Speaker 10: Like Coyle said, who's gonna get the last group of 1281 00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:55,840 Speaker 10: the mac of cheese people? 1282 00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,400 Speaker 9: Okay, let's move on. Did you guys like to go 1283 00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:03,040 Speaker 9: off the rails all the time? Okay? Now the category is. 1284 00:59:03,000 --> 00:59:04,000 Speaker 5: Who got the point for that one? 1285 00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:06,080 Speaker 9: None of you guys, nobody got points. You guys all 1286 00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:06,480 Speaker 9: have one? 1287 00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:15,200 Speaker 10: Okay, all right, guys. Category is things that can go 1288 00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,040 Speaker 10: wrong on Thanksgiving Day? 1289 00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:20,280 Speaker 1: Sweet potatoes, fight with the family. Who's next? 1290 00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:21,000 Speaker 5: I next? 1291 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:21,560 Speaker 9: We'll start with you. 1292 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, fight with the family. 1293 00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:27,840 Speaker 5: Grease fire, he could burn the turkey. 1294 00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,800 Speaker 1: Politics. Politics. 1295 00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:33,640 Speaker 9: Things can't go wrong in politics. 1296 00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,880 Speaker 1: They can depends on what party you are you're on for. 1297 00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:38,320 Speaker 1: Let's say you're an independent. 1298 00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:40,840 Speaker 5: Can he have the point and we don't get a point? 1299 00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:41,760 Speaker 21: Yeah? 1300 00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:43,520 Speaker 5: John Jay is a point of that? Because that was 1301 00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:44,520 Speaker 5: not I don't think that's fair. 1302 00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:48,880 Speaker 9: Yeah, today I put in my foot down today. Okay, 1303 00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:51,640 Speaker 9: don't mess with me. Watch out. Yeah, I'm angry. I'm 1304 00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,040 Speaker 9: ready to eat this Thanksgiving dinner. 1305 00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:57,520 Speaker 10: Okay, all right, we're starting with you rich category good, 1306 00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 10: that's what I like, all right. The category things that 1307 01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:02,480 Speaker 10: you would eat out of Thanksgiving dinner. 1308 01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:10,960 Speaker 5: Turkey, string beans, mac and cheese, string bean casserole. 1309 01:00:11,520 --> 01:00:13,760 Speaker 8: Mashed potatoes, cast roles. 1310 01:00:24,600 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 5: Twice. 1311 01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:31,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, so I think that's. 1312 01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:36,360 Speaker 10: I'm not taking it, which is all the port No, well, 1313 01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:37,400 Speaker 10: actually all of. 1314 01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,280 Speaker 9: You guys have one point because that first round, I 1315 01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:40,120 Speaker 9: don't know what we. 1316 01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:40,240 Speaker 5: Were just. 1317 01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:42,320 Speaker 1: That point. 1318 01:00:42,400 --> 01:00:45,600 Speaker 5: I didn't do anything wrong. No, we deject that point. 1319 01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,960 Speaker 10: Guilty, my association County recount. 1320 01:00:50,040 --> 01:00:50,240 Speaker 2: What. 1321 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,840 Speaker 10: All right, let's move on, John Jay for a final 1322 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:59,960 Speaker 10: Thanksgiving category. The category is words that remind you of 1323 01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:00,640 Speaker 10: Thanksgiving go. 1324 01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:11,640 Speaker 5: Family, abandonment, gobble, sex, together, gobble, what are we thank 1325 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:11,880 Speaker 5: you that? 1326 01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:14,200 Speaker 9: Mrich say something I don't know if I. 1327 01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 5: Need to go, I said together. 1328 01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:17,800 Speaker 9: I won't take it. 1329 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:29,840 Speaker 5: Unity, cry, dinner, fun, run full football, friends, parade, board games, TV, animals, 1330 01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:31,280 Speaker 5: sweet potatoes football. 1331 01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:35,840 Speaker 1: I was talking about football. 1332 01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:43,240 Speaker 5: In the it is World Cup time World Cups. This 1333 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:48,720 Speaker 5: game we all got minus a points since we did 1334 01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,240 Speaker 5: so good, which makes it all the winner. 1335 01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:50,600 Speaker 21: Yeah. 1336 01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,000 Speaker 9: Sure, basically, I guess we all win and. 1337 01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,240 Speaker 10: Enjoy our Thanksgiving dinner and don't find with your family 1338 01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:57,160 Speaker 10: about sex. 1339 01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,240 Speaker 1: Okay, Happy Thanksgiving