1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:00,480 Speaker 1: Aren't you. 2 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:03,600 Speaker 2: Right into this, we have a woman named Lisa on 3 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:05,720 Speaker 2: the phone, and Lisa is doing something that a lot 4 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 2: of people are doing right now, book and some travel, 5 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: and she recently booked a trip and there's a little 6 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 2: bit of. 7 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:12,800 Speaker 3: An issue with it. So Lisa tell us about what's 8 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:13,159 Speaker 3: going on. 9 00:00:14,640 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 1: So, my daughter is in kindergarten and my husband and 10 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: I were looking at travel and I had booked Memorial 11 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 1: weekend to go to Florida see my parents. There's a 12 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: little bit more to the story. There's a concert I 13 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: want to go see that I'm going to see with 14 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: my dad, a whole fun adventure just to be in 15 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: Florida get away from. 16 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 3: The cold too. 17 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: As we we're looking at the schedule, my husband realizes, Hey, 18 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: it's a kindergarten ends on this date, and you're flying 19 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: out on this date. She's going to miss a lot 20 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: of dates of kindergarten. And we kind of looked at 21 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: each other and I was like, well, what a big deal, 22 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 1: And he's like, well, let's, you know, start her saying 23 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: goodbye to her friends that week. And you know, I 24 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: don't know, I don't want to take anything away from her, 25 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: but we kind of kind of we're like not in 26 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 1: agreeance with this, and you know things are booked. Obviously 27 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: things can be canceled, but I do feel bad that 28 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: he doesn't agree with me. So we're either going to 29 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: agree to disagree, cancel, or keep going with the plan. 30 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 3: Okay, so you're wondering. 31 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 2: Basically, you book this trip, and it is going to 32 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 2: take away from the last you said, the last couple 33 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 2: days of her school. 34 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 3: Year, right, literally, her last which. 35 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 2: Are always like as a kindergartener, probably the best days 36 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 2: of the school Not to make you feel bad, Lisa, 37 00:01:29,880 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 2: but it's like we're having a pizza party, there's two 38 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 2: leaders of soda everywhere. 39 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 3: It's like a summer vibes and stuff. So it is helping. 40 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 2: I know I'm not helping, Lisa. I'm just painting the 41 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 2: picture for how your daughter might be feeling. And so 42 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: you're wondering, is it okay to continue on with this trip, 43 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 2: which I'm assuming in your defense, you said Memorial weekend. 44 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 2: That probably helps with like a vacation schedule where you 45 00:01:52,720 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 2: have extra days off. I get how that goes with 46 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: the holidays. 47 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 1: One day I'm off at work with having. 48 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 2: That holiday weekend, so I really get that. So you 49 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 2: book the trip, you have it all set, and now 50 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 2: your husband's kind of on the side of like, I 51 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 2: don't think that our daughter should miss these like fun 52 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 2: days of her first year, well not first year of school, 53 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:12,359 Speaker 2: but her kindergarten year. 54 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 4: You know, sole is it? Yeah, Lisa, Lisa, don't feel bad, girl. 55 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 4: It's two days of school. She has eleven more years 56 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:23,040 Speaker 4: of school to get through. 57 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 2: She does have a lot, she does have a lot. 58 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: I just think that, like, after kindergarten, school sucks. 59 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 5: What Like I mean, obviously, if if it was me 60 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 5: in this situation, I would think like, oh, well, those 61 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 5: are the good days and blah blah blah, But like, 62 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 5: what are they really going to be doing in class 63 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 5: those two days one and two? Like Vaughn says, she's 64 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 5: got a whole lot more school and then the grand 65 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 5: scheme of her whole life. She's not going to remember 66 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 5: the last two days of kindergarten, but she might remember 67 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 5: whatever trip you go on. 68 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, probably. 69 00:02:56,639 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm assuming this has just been a conversation 70 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 2: between you and your husband. 71 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: It hasn't been brought up to your daughter. 72 00:03:04,560 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: No, No, I know that like kids at that age, 73 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 2: their opinion doesn't always matter, but sometimes like you you know, 74 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 2: like I don't know, I don't have kids, Like do 75 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,240 Speaker 2: you talk to your daughter like, hey, do you mind 76 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,639 Speaker 2: we're going to go see grandma and grandpa. You gotta 77 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: really sell it. You got to sell your side of 78 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 2: the story. So then your husband's like, Okay, she seems 79 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 2: like she's fine with it. 80 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 6: You know you have to sell it. 81 00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:27,919 Speaker 1: Well, that's easy, hello, beach pool. Exactly. 82 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 3: Skip in school. 83 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: There's no graduation. I called yesterday, and I hope they 84 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: don't just all of a sudden say hey, we're doing 85 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: a graduation, because now one really like yeah, I. 86 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 6: Still don't even think that matters. It's kindergarten graduation. It's 87 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 6: not high school or college graduation, right, And a. 88 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 5: Lot of people are texting and saying like they definitely 89 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 5: don't throw a party for kindergarten. And half the time 90 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 5: your kindergartener does not remember their teacher or the classmates 91 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 5: that they had. So odds are if she's not going 92 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 5: to our odds are she's not going to care if 93 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 5: she misses the last few days. Others say, like, go 94 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 5: on the vacation. It's kindergarten, not her senior year. Of 95 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 5: high school. They don't know what they're missing. 96 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 6: Now, I was that nerdy, not nerdy, but like in 97 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 6: high school even right, I kind of went on them. 98 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:13,200 Speaker 6: Last couple of days of school when you again tenth 99 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 6: to eleven twelve, when almost nobody goes to class. Teachers 100 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 6: have given up on lesson plans, we've done all of 101 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 6: our testing whatever. Nobody shows up to school because they're like, 102 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 6: what am I missing? I'm still that guy. I'm like, Oh, 103 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 6: I think it's kind of cool to be in the 104 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 6: school and there's not really many people around. I get 105 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 6: to take it with the teachers about things we wouldn't 106 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 6: talk about in a regular but in kindergarten you're not 107 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 6: getting any of that, you know, So I don't, I 108 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:33,920 Speaker 6: mean tell your husband lighting up man. 109 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 2: So I think the consensus, not just from our own 110 00:04:37,320 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 2: opinions but like the people texting in, is that it 111 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 2: actually really doesn't seem to be that big of a deal. 112 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: So now, Lisa, what we need you to do is 113 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 2: tell everyone in your family, including your husband, to go 114 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: listen to the Dave Ryan Show podcast on iHeartRadio. You 115 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: can listen back and you can play this audio for 116 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 2: your husband if he's not listening next to you right now, 117 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 2: which I'm assuming he probably isn't, and you can be like. 118 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 3: See, I was right, And that is one of the best. 119 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 2: Parts of being married, is when you can actually prove 120 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 2: that you were right right, and you have audio proof 121 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: of this. 122 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 5: And you know, even teachers are texting and saying, go 123 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 5: on the trip the last days. It is just they're like, 124 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 5: it's babysitting, we have them clean out their desks, just 125 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 5: go on the trip. And then this Texas kid, Yeah, 126 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 5: this text says my son is in the back seat 127 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:22,560 Speaker 5: and he just said he doesn't remember anything from kindergarten. 128 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 3: He's in third grade. 129 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 1: Perfect, So. 130 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,160 Speaker 6: You got our approval? 131 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well, lisaid, I think we really helped 132 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 2: you out, and I helped you out. I mean like 133 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 2: we helped your side of things out today, So I don't. 134 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 1: Think so I'm pumped. I'm pumped. I was a little guilty, 135 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: feeling a little guilty because I didn't agree with my husband. 136 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: You know, I want to be you know, we want 137 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: to be on the same page. But hey, I win 138 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 1: this one. 139 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 3: I win, you do, I think you win. 140 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 2: You get to take the trophy home with this one. 141 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 2: All right, Well, let us know how great that vacation 142 00:05:50,360 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 2: is when you guys take it over a Memorial weekend. 143 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: Okay, sounds good. 144 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 3: Thank you, have a great day.