1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: I consistently set the standard of excellence on everything. I 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:09,399 Speaker 1: supported a colleague's growth by sharing feedback and mentoring them, 3 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 1: informally contributing to our value of continuous learning and developmental 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: You are a hero. 5 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: All right. So Joe Coy is. 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,240 Speaker 3: Here, Yes, me and Joe Coy. You can check him 7 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,919 Speaker 3: out on social media. His motto is to have a 8 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,360 Speaker 3: good time all the time. Of course, it's like always 9 00:00:29,440 --> 00:00:32,639 Speaker 3: out doing stuff. His son is always with him. 10 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 2: Yeah. 11 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 4: Was your. 12 00:00:35,680 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 5: Son's mother with the most gorgeous, insane hair I've ever 13 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 5: seen on the planet. 14 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,520 Speaker 4: There always like down down to the floor. 15 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, the floor relationship. 16 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 5: Yeah, never seen anything like that in my life. 17 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 3: Talking about family stuff, one of the things that Joe 18 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 3: and I bonded over, like immediately after we met was 19 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 3: like it was like just this fatherhood, this parent stuff, right, 20 00:00:58,080 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 3: Joe's son and you know, my on my kids and 21 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: all that kind of I have a question for you, Joe. 22 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:05,280 Speaker 3: I want to bring up something because Gina came in 23 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 3: and I don't want to say you were complaining, but 24 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 3: you were you. 25 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 4: Were kind of catching Okay about what. 26 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 6: About the game that you were playing? 27 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 3: Okay, before I say what, I'm going to say, yeah, 28 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:19,039 Speaker 3: I want to see what Joe says. 29 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 4: Okay, you're probably going to say it weird, but okay. 30 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:22,480 Speaker 6: No you say it. 31 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,639 Speaker 7: Oh, okay, okay, I want to see Joe's reaction. 32 00:01:24,760 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 4: Okay. 33 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 5: So he when he was asking me if I watched 34 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 5: this video that I was going to watch, and I 35 00:01:28,600 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 5: said no because I got distracted because I was scrolling 36 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:34,640 Speaker 5: on my phone and I was just sitting there doing nothing. 37 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 5: And my kid asked me, well, can you stop scrolling 38 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 5: on your phone and play play a game with me? 39 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 5: Play candy Land. I was like, okay, So we ended 40 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 5: up playing nineteen games of candy Land nineteen Yeah. And 41 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 5: then what he said, you don't know how to say no? 42 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,480 Speaker 5: And I said, it's not that. It's that when you're 43 00:01:51,560 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 5: caught scrolling on your phone by a kid who's just 44 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,600 Speaker 5: staring at you, you gotta go do something else. 45 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 6: Nineteen. 46 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 8: Well, the issue was the verbidge You said I had 47 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 8: to play. 48 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 4: I had to play? 49 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, as if the kid is in charge. 50 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 4: Because we were locked in at that point. 51 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 2: You know what, I will agree with, Gina, Thank you? 52 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 2: Really I would play in ninety five games? 53 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 6: Would you really? 54 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 4: Especially like can you? 55 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: I'll tell you this right, can you play with I'm 56 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 2: going to tell you guys one quick story. This is 57 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: why I stopped. Can I say, yeah, okay, this is 58 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 2: why I stopped. This is why I stopped doing it. Right, 59 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:37,840 Speaker 2: stop doing the funny cigarette, right I I I you know, right, 60 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 2: I I smoked. At one time, I got a massage, right, 61 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 2: nice messuse came massage my shoulder, and literally I was 62 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 2: so high that I started I started going way back 63 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 2: to when my son was like five, right, and it 64 00:02:56,560 --> 00:03:01,080 Speaker 2: was a birthday that I wasn't act and I was 65 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: on the road, and and and it just this little 66 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 2: voice that's in your head when you're when you're that, 67 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 2: it just goes, wow, man, you missed his fifth birth 68 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 2: You missed his birthday. Like that's never coming back. And 69 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 2: then I started getting emotional and I started crying on 70 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:18,800 Speaker 2: the massage table, and I literally cried for eight hours 71 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 2: because it's a moment that I'll never get back. I'll 72 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: never get that fifth birthday back. 73 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 3: So it's kind of the ninety five times you would 74 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 3: play can be rooted in some kind of guilt or trauma. 75 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 2: Because I think we're so we're so like the old 76 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 2: school parents, like the whatever they whatever, they call them 77 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 2: the boomers, whatever they were, they were just so trained 78 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 2: to be like, grow up already, bye bah bah, you 79 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,839 Speaker 2: know you ain't got time for that. And it's like, no, man, 80 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 2: we do got time for that. We only get one 81 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,840 Speaker 2: fifth birthday and we only get we only get today today. 82 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 2: This is it. I want, I guarantee tomorrow, but you 83 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 2: you got today. You woke up, So enjoy today. If 84 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: it's ninety five games, play ninety five games. If he 85 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 2: wants the Nuggets, get the Nuggets. I'm just saying, man, 86 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 2: like that whole mentality, I just I don't agree with it. 87 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 2: And all I can think about is taking my son 88 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 2: out and seeing the world. 89 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 4: You every day. 90 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's say, let's say you hadn't missed that fifth birthday. Yeah, 91 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 3: still playing ninety five rounds of candy. 92 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 2: Way you know why because I didn't have I didn't 93 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 2: have any of that structure at the house. 94 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 6: Yeah. 95 00:04:22,240 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 2: That was just me reaching And I think that's why 96 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 2: it fell so hard for comedy. Like I knew I 97 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 2: was funny, but I think my babysitter was stand up 98 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 2: Like I can. I can tell you how many comedians 99 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 2: I would watch, And this is before cable, so I 100 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 2: was renting you know, George Carlin and of course Eddie 101 00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 2: Murphy and Richard pryor you know albums like like that. 102 00:04:42,839 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: That was my my, my babysitter. 103 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 4: Yeah. 104 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,359 Speaker 2: I couldn't wait to wake up a press play, you 105 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 2: know what I mean, or go home and watch uh, 106 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 2: you know bootleg videos that I would download from you know, 107 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 2: not download. It wasn't even download, it was pressing record 108 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 2: on your VCR. 109 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 6: You guys are both better to me then the. 110 00:05:02,240 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 5: Mirror that's held up to you when a kid's like 111 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 5: are you working or are you just scrolling on your phone? 112 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 4: Okay. 113 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 2: We had this conversation though before, Wouldie and I've said 114 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 2: this to you before a long time ago about this 115 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 2: the same yeah, conversation, We've had this before, and you 116 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: keep falling back onto this one. Yeah. And then we 117 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 2: get off the air and he's like, you know what, 118 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:22,159 Speaker 2: I'm gonna try and. 119 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 8: Stuff. 120 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 3: I'll do stuff, but it's not nineteen rounds of candy 121 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 3: Land like it was a speeder, Like I really believe, 122 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 3: I don't know, and maybe this is from my childhood, 123 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 3: and I really feel like it's important to have develop 124 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 3: a sense of independence, right like where you're not completely 125 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 3: dependent on well for sure, to entertain yourself all the time. 126 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 3: Like it's not on the parent to constantly have things 127 00:05:52,040 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 3: set up for you and people for you to play right. So, yes, interacting, 128 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 3: I have lots of conversations. Just had a really deep 129 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 3: conversation with my son. 130 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 2: Yet thought he enjoyed that and. 131 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 6: Everything else. 132 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 5: I was, well, And that's two of my favorite words 133 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 5: to say to the kid is be bored, like I'm good. 134 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 4: Be bored like there's plenty of summary. 135 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 3: Have you ever said that she's stressed up in costumes? 136 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: There? 137 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 7: Yes, candy Land. 138 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 4: This isn't every day. I know. 139 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 2: This kid goes to this. 140 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 6: Kid goes to his friends, goes guys watch this or 141 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 6: do anything. 142 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 4: I do say that a lot. I do say go 143 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 4: be bored. But anyone he's. 144 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 5: Like, oh, are you just I guess are You're just 145 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 5: on their phone? Get the candy Land, just go get it. 146 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 147 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 9: I think you guys are talking to extremes. You're talking 148 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 9: there's there can be a balance. It can't just like, 149 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 9: of course constant brutality. 150 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 4: I think I'm in the center. Joe was like, I'll 151 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 4: never miss a birthday again as long as they. 152 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 3: Live and that's exactly what I'm saying, menace. There's there's 153 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,039 Speaker 3: the yes, you play the candy land. I don't know 154 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 3: if you played nineteen rounds. 155 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 4: Well, I think they were. 156 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 2: I think what it is is I make you. I 157 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 2: came from like a really dysfunctional family. So it's like 158 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,679 Speaker 2: there was divorce early. You know, I was like nine 159 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 2: or whatever when that happened, and and I felt it 160 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,560 Speaker 2: like I felt not having the dad there because he 161 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 2: moved to another state. You know, I felt my mom, 162 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 2: she she worked a lot, so I didn't see her 163 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 2: a lot, you know what I mean. And I've had 164 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 2: missed birthdays by my dad, you know where it was 165 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,800 Speaker 2: a phone call the day after, you know. You know 166 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:29,440 Speaker 2: I've had those. And I remember when Angie and I 167 00:07:29,480 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 2: got the divorce. I was like, I never want that 168 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 2: my son to feel that like we're divorced. But he's 169 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 2: not going to feel that. He's going to feel like 170 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 2: he's got the strongest parents. 171 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 4: Well, you've gone over and above in that situation. 172 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: Her house is right next to my house. 173 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. 174 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 2: She's in my living room right now. I'm not even 175 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:51,360 Speaker 2: making this up. She's in my living room because she's 176 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 2: having you know her her her bathroom was being redone, 177 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 2: so she's in my living room. She was there when 178 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 2: I woke up. I woke up and she's lying on 179 00:07:57,720 --> 00:07:59,600 Speaker 2: the couch the keys. 180 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 3: Does that Does that make like having your own personal 181 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 3: relationships difficult because of that relationship, because some people get 182 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 3: really crazy because you can't even have somebody on Facebook. 183 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 6: Now, I'll break up. 184 00:08:12,480 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: With you, I'll stop talking to you if there's a 185 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 2: problem with her. Like literally, I was just like, wait, 186 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 2: what I've done that so many times? Oh my god, 187 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 2: she's around. 188 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:23,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't know if you know, she created a 189 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 10: human you can't even get me catch. 190 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 4: Up because family, she's not romantically. 191 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 2: And I don't understand that whole thing. I think that's 192 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 2: another thing that was programmed in the human beings, like, oh, 193 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,439 Speaker 2: you got a divorce, you gotta hate her for life. 194 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 6: You're gonna make her life miserable. 195 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: It's like the only person that suffers is the kids. 196 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 2: What are you doing? One that wins is the lawyers? 197 00:08:42,720 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 2: What are you doing? Grow up? Bro? Well up? 198 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 6: I agree, like I don't, I don't. I don't hate 199 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 6: my first wife. 200 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 8: Yeah exactly. At one point, you got married to that. 201 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something there. 202 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 6: Can work out. 203 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 3: And you know, when there's separate ways, I don't know 204 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 3: if I want her live in my house, you know 205 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 3: what I mean? There we go, menis there is the 206 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 3: happy medium, like I can I can refer to I 207 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 3: still need to live in next door. 208 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,840 Speaker 9: Yeah, but like you know, continued anger that people hold 209 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 9: on to for like. 210 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah right. 211 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: I consistently set the standard of excellence on everything. I 212 00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: supported a colleague's growth by sharing feedback and mentoring them 213 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:26,080 Speaker 1: informally contributing to our value. 214 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 2: Of continuous learning and development. 215 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 6: You are a hero, all right. 216 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 3: Joe Coy is here, Me and Joe Coy. You can 217 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,920 Speaker 3: check him out on social media. His motto is to 218 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 3: have a good time all the time. Of course, it's 219 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:46,839 Speaker 3: like always out doing stuff. His son is always with him. 220 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, was your uh son's mother with the most gorgeous, 221 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 5: insane hair you've ever seen on the planet. 222 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,440 Speaker 4: There always like down down. 223 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,640 Speaker 2: To the floor to the floor relationship. 224 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,720 Speaker 4: Ye never seen anything like that in my life. 225 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 3: Talking about family stuff, one of the things that Joe 226 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 3: and I bonded over, like immediately after we met was 227 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 3: like it was like just this fatherhood, this parent stuff, right, 228 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,199 Speaker 3: Joe's son and you know, my son, my kids and 229 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 3: all that kind of I have a question for you, Joe. 230 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: I want to bring up something because Gina came in 231 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:21,440 Speaker 3: and I don't want to say you were complaining, but 232 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:21,679 Speaker 3: you were. 233 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 4: You were kind of catching okay about what. 234 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 6: About the game that you were playing? 235 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 10: Oh? 236 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 6: Okay. 237 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 3: Before I say what I'm going to say, I want 238 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 3: to see what Joe says. 239 00:10:33,280 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 4: Okay, you're probably going to say it weird, but okay, no, 240 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 4: you say it. 241 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 7: Oh okay, Okay, I want to see Joe's reaction. 242 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 4: Okay. 243 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 5: So he when he was asking me if I watched 244 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 5: this video that I was going to watch, and I 245 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 5: said no because I got distracted because I was scrolling 246 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,839 Speaker 5: on my phone and I was just sitting there doing nothing. 247 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 5: And my kid asked me, well, can you stop scrolling 248 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 5: on your phone and play play a game with me? 249 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 5: Play candy Land. I was like, okay, So we ended 250 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 5: up playing nineteen games of candy Land. 251 00:10:59,559 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 8: Nine. 252 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:00,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 253 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 5: And then what he said, you don't know how to 254 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 5: say no, And I said, it's not that. It's that 255 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 5: when you're caught scrolling on your phone by a kid 256 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,840 Speaker 5: who's just staring at you, you gotta go do something else. 257 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 8: Well, I think the issue was the verbidge. You said 258 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:16,560 Speaker 8: I had to play. 259 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: I did. 260 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:20,720 Speaker 5: I had to play as if the kid is in 261 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 5: charge because we were locked in at that point. 262 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 2: You know what, I will agree with, Gina, Thank you? 263 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,559 Speaker 2: Really I would play in ninety five games, would you really? 264 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:31,640 Speaker 4: Especially like, can you I'll tell you this, right, are 265 00:11:31,679 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 4: you working or can you play with I'm going to. 266 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 2: Tell you guys one quick story. This is why I stopped. 267 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: Can I say, yeah, okay, this is why I stopped. 268 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,559 Speaker 2: This is why I stopped doing it? Right? Stop doing 269 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 2: the funny cigarette? Right? I I you know right? I 270 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:57,200 Speaker 2: smoked at one time, got a massage, right, nice messuse 271 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 2: came massage my shoulder, and literally I was so high 272 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: that I started I started going way back to when 273 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 2: my son was like five, right, and it was a 274 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 2: birthday that I wasn't act and I was on the road, 275 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 2: and and and just this little voice that's in your 276 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 2: head when you're when you're that, it just goes, wow, man, 277 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 2: you missed his fifth birth You missed his birthday, Like 278 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 2: that's never coming back. And then I started getting emotional 279 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 2: and I started crying on the massage table, and I 280 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 2: literally cried for eight hours because it's a moment that 281 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 2: I'll never get back. I'll never get that fifth birthday back. 282 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,360 Speaker 3: Times you would play can be rooted in some kind 283 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 3: of guilt or you know, trauma. 284 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 2: Because I think we're so we're so like the old 285 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 2: school parents, like the whatever they whatever, they call them, 286 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 2: the boomers, whatever they were, they were just so trained 287 00:12:53,960 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 2: to be like grow up already, bye bye bye. You 288 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 2: know you ain't got time for that. And it's like, no, man, 289 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 2: we do got time for that. We only get one 290 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:06,079 Speaker 2: fifth birthday, and we only get we only get today today. 291 00:13:06,240 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 2: This is it. I guarantee tomorrow. But you you got today. 292 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 2: You woke up, So enjoy today. If it's ninety five games, 293 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 2: play ninety five games. If he wants the Nuggets, get 294 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 2: the Nuggets. I'm just saying, man, like that whole mentality, 295 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 2: I just I don't agree with it. And all all 296 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 2: I can think about is taking my son out and 297 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 2: seeing the world. 298 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:25,040 Speaker 6: You every day. 299 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's say let's say you hadn't missed that fifth birthday, Yeah, 300 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,080 Speaker 3: still playing ninety five rounds of candy way? 301 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? You know why? Because I didn't have I didn't 302 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 2: have any of that structure at the house. Yeah, that 303 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:38,599 Speaker 2: was just me reaching, And I think that's why I 304 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 2: fell so hard for comedy. Like I knew I was funny, 305 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:45,200 Speaker 2: but I think my babysitter would stand up like I can. 306 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 2: I can tell you how many comedians I would watch. 307 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 2: And this is before cable, so I was renting you know, 308 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 2: George Carlin and of course Eddie Murphy and Richard pryor 309 00:13:54,840 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: you know albums like like that. That was my my, 310 00:13:58,040 --> 00:14:00,679 Speaker 2: my babysitter. Yeah, I couldn't win to wake up and 311 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 2: press play, you know what I mean, or go home 312 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 2: and watch uh, you know bootleg videos that I would 313 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,320 Speaker 2: download from you know, not download. It wasn't even download, 314 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 2: it was pressing record on your VCR down. 315 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 6: You guys are both better people than me. 316 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,760 Speaker 5: Then the mirror that's held up to you when a 317 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 5: kid's like, are you working or are you just scrolling 318 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 5: on your phone? 319 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 9: Okay, we had this conversation though before, Wouldie and I've 320 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 9: said this to you before a long time ago, about 321 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:31,600 Speaker 9: this the same yeah, conversation, We've had this before, and 322 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 9: you keep falling back onto this one. Yeah, And then 323 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 9: we get off the air and he's like, you know what, 324 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:39,000 Speaker 9: I'm gonna try and. 325 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 2: Do stuff. 326 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 3: I'll do stuff, but it's not nineteen rounds of candy Land, 327 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 3: like it was a sweet Like I really believe, I 328 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 3: don't know, and maybe this is from my childhood, and 329 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 3: I really feel like it's important to have develop a 330 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 3: sense of independence, right, like where you're not completely dependent 331 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:02,280 Speaker 3: on well, for sure, on to entertain yourself all the 332 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,239 Speaker 3: time like that, it's not on the parent to constantly 333 00:15:05,320 --> 00:15:07,680 Speaker 3: have things set up for you and people for you 334 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 3: to right. So, yes, interacting, I have lots of conversations. 335 00:15:13,400 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 3: Just had a really deep conversation with my son. 336 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 6: Yet though he enjoyed that and. 337 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 5: Everything else well, and that's two of my favorite words 338 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:26,360 Speaker 5: to say to the kid is be bored, like good, 339 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 5: be bored like there's plenty of summary. 340 00:15:28,800 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 3: Have you ever said that she's stressed up in costumes? 341 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 2: There? 342 00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 6: Yes, candy Land. 343 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:35,800 Speaker 4: This isn't every day I know. 344 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 2: This kid goes to this. 345 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 6: Kid goes to his friends and goes, guys, watch this 346 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 6: do anything. 347 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 4: I do say that a lot. I do say go 348 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 4: be bored. But anyone he's like, oh, are you just 349 00:15:46,640 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 4: I guess you're just on their phone. Get the candy Land. 350 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 6: Just go get it. 351 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 2: But I don't know. 352 00:15:50,720 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 9: I think you guys are talking to extremes. You're talking 353 00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:56,320 Speaker 9: there's there can be a balance. It can't just like 354 00:15:56,440 --> 00:15:58,680 Speaker 9: of course constant brutality. 355 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 4: I think I'm in the center. 356 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:03,680 Speaker 5: Joe's like, I'll never miss a birthday again as long 357 00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:04,120 Speaker 5: as they live. 358 00:16:04,200 --> 00:16:07,000 Speaker 3: And that's exactly what I'm saying in Menace. There's there's yes, 359 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 3: you play the candy Land. I don't know if you 360 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:09,480 Speaker 3: played nineteen rounds. 361 00:16:09,520 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 4: Well they were. 362 00:16:11,680 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 2: I think what it is is I make you. I 363 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 2: came from like a really dysfunctional family. So it's like 364 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 2: there was divorce early. You know, I was like nine 365 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 2: or whatever when that happened, and uh and I felt 366 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 2: it like I felt not having the dad there because 367 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: he moved to another state. You know. I felt my mom. 368 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 2: She she worked a lot, so I didn't see her 369 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 2: a lot, you know what I mean. And I've had 370 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 2: missed birthdays by my dad, you know where it was 371 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 2: a phone call the day after, you know, you know, 372 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:43,640 Speaker 2: I've had those. And I remember when Angie and I 373 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:47,000 Speaker 2: got the divorce. I was like, I never want that 374 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 2: my son to feel that, Like we're divorced, but he's 375 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,440 Speaker 2: not going to feel that. He's going to feel like 376 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 2: he's got the strongest parents. 377 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,520 Speaker 4: Well, you've gone over and above in that situation. 378 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:58,960 Speaker 2: Her house is right next to my house. 379 00:16:59,080 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. 380 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 2: She's in my living room right now. I'm not even 381 00:17:03,680 --> 00:17:05,600 Speaker 2: making this up. She's in my living room because she's 382 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 2: having you know her her her bathroom is being redone, 383 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 2: so she's in my living room. She was there when 384 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,919 Speaker 2: I woke up. I woke up and she's lying on 385 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 2: the couch. 386 00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 3: The keys ask you, does that does that make like 387 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 3: having your own personal relationships difficult? 388 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 6: No, because of that relationship. 389 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 3: At all, because some people get really crazy because you 390 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 3: can't even have somebody on Facebook. 391 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 9: Now, I'll break up with you, I'll stop talking to 392 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 9: you if there's a problem with her. 393 00:17:30,160 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 2: Like literally, I was just like, wait, what I've done 394 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 2: that so many times? Oh my god, she's around. 395 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 10: Yeah, I don't know if you know, she created a human. 396 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,920 Speaker 10: You can't even get me catch up. 397 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 4: Because family, she's not romantically. 398 00:17:44,119 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 2: And I don't understand that whole thing. I think that's 399 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 2: another thing that was programmed in the human beings, like oh, 400 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:50,639 Speaker 2: you got a divorce. You gotta hate her for life. 401 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 2: You're gonna make her life miserable. It's like the only 402 00:17:52,720 --> 00:17:54,880 Speaker 2: person that suffers is the kids. What are you doing? 403 00:17:55,480 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 2: One that wins is the lawyers? What are you doing? 404 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:58,520 Speaker 2: Grow up? 405 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,680 Speaker 6: Brow up? I agree, like I don't, I don't. I 406 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:01,920 Speaker 6: don't hate my first wife. 407 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, exactly at one point you got married to that. 408 00:18:04,800 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something there you can. 409 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,080 Speaker 3: Work out, and you know when there's separate ways, I 410 00:18:09,359 --> 00:18:10,920 Speaker 3: don't know if I want to live in my house, 411 00:18:11,359 --> 00:18:12,639 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like I think there we 412 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 3: go ministers the happy Medium, like I can, I can 413 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 3: refer to you. I still need to live in next door. 414 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 9: Yeah, but like you know, they continued anger that people 415 00:18:22,800 --> 00:18:29,400 Speaker 9: hold on to for like yeah, that makes it yeah right, Hey. 416 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,840 Speaker 4: What do you call a big jack lantern? What a plumpkin? 417 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 6: Be way? 418 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:38,479 Speaker 4: A millennial? In instagrams? 419 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,200 Speaker 6: Couldn't the lizard get a girlfriend? 420 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 8: Atile Dysfunction. 421 00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:50,160 Speaker 3: Show? You might wonder how did we get those clips 422 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,399 Speaker 3: from the Joe Coy and Gabriel Glacier to show that. 423 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 6: We just heard some of the jokes he heard on stage. 424 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:57,800 Speaker 8: People wanted to hear it. 425 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:00,600 Speaker 6: Really good stuff, that's really good. Yeah, there we go. 426 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 6: Can you hear it? There we go? 427 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 8: There we go? 428 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,480 Speaker 6: Uh, Joe Coy is here? Everybody? 429 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:09,520 Speaker 3: Question for Joe Coy, what were you feeling when you 430 00:19:09,600 --> 00:19:13,080 Speaker 3: walked out onto that stage, sold out the crowd at 431 00:19:13,119 --> 00:19:15,680 Speaker 3: so far knowing you and Gabe did that? 432 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 2: What the crazy part through the little eye holes of 433 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 2: the masks. 434 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, like once once the mask came off and you're 435 00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:24,680 Speaker 3: for the first time standing, people realize that you you're 436 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 3: standing there. Ie, I'm always interested the inner dialogue. I 437 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 3: have this thought every time there's like a like a 438 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 3: like a presidential election, right, and somebody for the first time, 439 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 3: not a reelection because they've already been the president, but 440 00:19:38,400 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 3: on a person who's not been present before that night 441 00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 3: where they've been declared the winner, and after all the 442 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 3: balloons and the parties and the but and you're laying 443 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:50,680 Speaker 3: there in bed and you have that ringing in your 444 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 3: ears because of all the stuff and everything going on, 445 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 3: and you're in the dark, and you have that thought 446 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 3: to yourself. Nobody else is around, and it's just, dude, 447 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 3: I'm the president of the United States. Like that's got 448 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 3: to be such a crazy realization or a feeling like 449 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,479 Speaker 3: I just won the presidential election. 450 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 7: So for what you do. This is the largest comedy show. 451 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 6: Ever, right, ever? 452 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 7: Seventy thousand people. 453 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's the bigest one ever in LA. It's the 454 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 2: first time ever so far. 455 00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:25,159 Speaker 7: But you're like, so when you are standing there and 456 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 7: you're looking out at the crowd, like, what's the inner 457 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 7: dialogue are you? 458 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 6: Is it calm? Is it just giddy? Is it like? 459 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 2: Uh? I took a moment. 460 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 6: I canic, like what is it? 461 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,120 Speaker 2: I kind of kneeled down and took a moment after 462 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 2: it because it was after that and I literally was 463 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 2: just like, oh man, this is not because you don't 464 00:20:46,359 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 2: understand my pov. My pov is crazy, Like it was 465 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 2: a sea of people. Yeah, And I'm mean like I 466 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 2: remember looking up to where the logo is way at 467 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,159 Speaker 2: the top of the roof. It's like five levels up 468 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 2: or six levels up where it says so far, and 469 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,960 Speaker 2: there were lights like little hands moving light and I 470 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 2: was just it literally looked like the stars, and I 471 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 2: really was like, oh my gosh, this is this is 472 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 2: this is actually happening. That's why I didn't let anybody 473 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,359 Speaker 2: in my green room, even my family. No one was 474 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 2: allowed backstage. He was just me and my son and 475 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 2: uh and and I had to explain to my family 476 00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:25,400 Speaker 2: and go, this is like, this is one of those 477 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 2: moments where I can't have you back there. I go, 478 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 2: I go, I go. When you watch the Super Bowl 479 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 2: and you go into the locker room before the game, 480 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 2: you don't see every player with their family next to 481 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 2: them by their lockers. After it's just the team and 482 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 2: this is their Super Bowl, and then you congratulate them 483 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 2: at the end of the game. So I go, congratulate 484 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 2: me at the end of the game because this is 485 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:45,840 Speaker 2: my super Bowl. 486 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:47,119 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it makes sense. 487 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 2: And yeah, so that that's what it was like. But 488 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 2: when I came up that elevator, when I came up 489 00:21:52,400 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 2: that elevator, because I still haven't haven't seen the crowd yet. 490 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 2: So I was coming up the elevator and I had 491 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 2: that mask on, the Jablwaukee's mask on, so I'm I 492 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:03,719 Speaker 2: only got these two little eye holes. And then all 493 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 2: of a sudden it was revealed to me, and I 494 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,200 Speaker 2: just saw this big sea of people and I'm looking 495 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 2: through the eye holes and I'm just like, oh my god, 496 00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 2: I gotta be up here for this lone. And oh 497 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 2: that's another thing. There's three stage clocks because if we 498 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 2: go over, we go into penalty, you know what I mean. 499 00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 2: It's like like and I'll make up the number, but 500 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 2: it's like something like fifteen thousand a minute or something 501 00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:28,719 Speaker 2: like that. It's some ridiculous amount. So it's like a curfew, right, 502 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, curfew's and I and I need to respect that, 503 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: like for the whole the whole crew and the whole staff, 504 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 2: Like I need to be on point. So I remember 505 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 2: coming up and I also saw my clocks, you know, 506 00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 2: to be set and ready, and I'm like, man, I 507 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 2: got to be in front of them for this long. 508 00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:47,679 Speaker 8: Like two seconds. 509 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,960 Speaker 2: I felt like one second, Like I remember looking down 510 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 2: at my clock and I go, oh my god, I 511 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,280 Speaker 2: only have fifteen minutes left, and I got to start 512 00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,239 Speaker 2: this portion of my show. And that's it was just 513 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:00,800 Speaker 2: like it just went. 514 00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,400 Speaker 3: That's how all those big moments are, man, whether it's 515 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 3: a wedding or something like, that's just something really big 516 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 3: that you planned. You spend so much time when thinking 517 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 3: about it and planning it and getting all things together, 518 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,959 Speaker 3: and then the day is there and it's just boom. 519 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 3: It almost Christmas lead up to Christmas like almost. 520 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 11: More surreal before the show, like you're it's that morning 521 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 11: of the show, you have your morning coffee, you're in 522 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,080 Speaker 11: the bathroom, and then you look at your watch and 523 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 11: you're like, oh my god, in seven hours I got 524 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 11: in front, but now I'm just people in the bathroom. 525 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 11: I think that would be more serial. 526 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 9: I think though, once you got in that mode and 527 00:23:33,600 --> 00:23:36,720 Speaker 9: then just you being you on stage, you made that 528 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 9: place feel like it was a tiny club. 529 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 2: It was great. It was insane. 530 00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 3: I think it was Jamie Fox. I saw a video. 531 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,520 Speaker 3: He said that you made it feel so intimate. 532 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,960 Speaker 9: Yeah, like everybody was so locked in. I was afraid 533 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 9: because when you guys said how long the show is 534 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 9: gonna be, I'm like, oh, man, like people are gonna 535 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,399 Speaker 9: be like four and a half hours in super drunk? 536 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 9: Are they is such a big place? 537 00:23:58,200 --> 00:23:58,640 Speaker 2: Are they? 538 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 9: Are they going to be able to pay attention? But 539 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 9: you made it feel like like a rock show or 540 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,520 Speaker 9: like a huge pop concert that people just didn't want 541 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 9: to take their eyes off the stage. 542 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 2: It was nuts. Yeah, it was good, and people were 543 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 2: like like it was a cultural moment. I think like 544 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 2: I felt like everyone was there because they were proud 545 00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 2: to be there, and like they all respected the event. 546 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:21,399 Speaker 2: It was. I can't explain it. It was just like 547 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,480 Speaker 2: it was an out of body experience. I even said 548 00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 2: that to my son. I was like, I go, I 549 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:28,479 Speaker 2: I've never felt anything like this before in my career, 550 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 2: and I felt like that was that that one moment 551 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 2: that I've been waiting for for the longest time. 552 00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,080 Speaker 3: So what now, Like, what's the we just booked the 553 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:38,440 Speaker 3: we just booked the mood. 554 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 9: Yeah yeah, yeah it's expensive, man, but they get a 555 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:41,880 Speaker 9: static up there. 556 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be tickets are gonna be crazy. Yeah, 557 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 2: the bootleggers already ready. 558 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 8: The Moon's penalty is like, yeah fifty. 559 00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 6: You think La tax is that moon tax? 560 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:56,840 Speaker 3: Not even professionally, but like whether it's professional or personal 561 00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 3: at this point, like all these big things that you've 562 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 3: done or what like what's what's a bucket this thing 563 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 3: at this point, not even like professionally, but I saying 564 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 3: just in general, like you like you gotta feel I 565 00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:07,320 Speaker 3: think if you do something like that, it gives you 566 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 3: a certain sense of like you feel somewhat invincible. 567 00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's crazy, you know. 568 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 3: Like a like because you feel almost like more empowered 569 00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 3: to be able to do something else. Crazy that whether 570 00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 3: it's professional or personal. Is there any kind of like 571 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 3: what's another bucket list thing for you? 572 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:27,000 Speaker 2: At this point, I will tell you this, this was 573 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:31,080 Speaker 2: extremely stressful, you know, so I I kind of want 574 00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 2: to let my brain like not think about anything right now. 575 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:40,400 Speaker 2: So we're gonna do something big again. But I'm telling 576 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,200 Speaker 2: like I think that's what I'm trying to say. Yeah, 577 00:25:42,400 --> 00:25:44,880 Speaker 2: like this was so stressful. I don't think people really 578 00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:48,679 Speaker 2: understand like the job that Gabe and I have, Like 579 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 2: like we're not We're not like a band, like bands 580 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 2: are different, Like that's more like a business. That's uh, 581 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,800 Speaker 2: I don't know how to say it. Man, when you're 582 00:25:57,840 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 2: a comic. Man. We take we that that that Sofi 583 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,879 Speaker 2: Stadium was empty, and and that's we We owe whatever 584 00:26:04,920 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 2: it is the fee that we owe even if we 585 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:09,480 Speaker 2: sell one ticket. And that's so much stress it is 586 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 2: on us. Well, we don't have a record, we don't 587 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 2: have a record or a signature song that everyone's guaranteed. 588 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 2: We have to go up there and nothing that we've 589 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,919 Speaker 2: said on our specials before. It has to be a 590 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: completely new set. There's none. This is all brand new 591 00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,920 Speaker 2: for all of us. And it's like if you could 592 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 2: just imagine how much stress that is. On top of that, 593 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 2: we have to also worry about selling tickets and then 594 00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:36,560 Speaker 2: paying everybody that like we had the same do we 595 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:41,200 Speaker 2: have the Rolling Stones guy doing our sound? Like literally 596 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 2: like the guy flew in from London, like he was 597 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 2: like yeah, I just finished with Yeah. And that was 598 00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 2: in my first meeting, my first meeting with Gabe. As 599 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:52,639 Speaker 2: I go, gay, man, I want section five hundred to 600 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,479 Speaker 2: hear that have the same sound that that you know 601 00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 2: Row one has, Like I don't want any complaints, Like 602 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 2: like we got to give him, Like we're gonna go 603 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 2: over and above and beyond for for everybody, you know 604 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 2: what I mean. So we we did. We we bought 605 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 2: the halo, the halo, uh you know that's above the 606 00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 2: used everything that we could to make sure that everybody 607 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 2: could hear and see everything. And yeah, we went in 608 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 2: on him. So it was so stressful. 609 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 6: Now it's time to decompress. 610 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:30,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, decompressed, and I'm more Joe Cooy coming up next. 611 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:32,600 Speaker 6: Hang on, yeah, get out. 612 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,159 Speaker 4: Get the hell out of my house. 613 00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 6: In Jesus name, I pray you get in the name 614 00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 6: of the Lord