Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning. We are doing second date
Speaker 1: update quickly.
Speaker 2: If you go on a date and then you get ghosted,
Speaker 2: or you feel like you're getting ghosted, you call me
Speaker 2: and then we will call your date and just see
Speaker 2: what's really going on, try to get some info, try
Speaker 2: to get a second date.
Speaker 1: That's literally why we call it that. Let's say ahead
Speaker 1: of Chris, Good morning, Chris.
Speaker 3: Good morning.
Speaker 2: So I understand that you guys went on a date
Speaker 2: in Piedmont, Is that right?
Speaker 3: That's correct, right near where we live.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and her name is Danielle.
Speaker 3: Her name is Danielle.
Speaker 1: Yes, tell me about the date because I understand she's ghosted. Yes.
Speaker 3: We went out for drinks and the date was actually
Speaker 3: really just relaxed from the start, like really chill vibe,
Speaker 3: so we could bounce between joking around and talking about
Speaker 3: real stuff, and then by the end of the night
Speaker 3: it just felt like we genuinely clicked. But then she disappeared.
Speaker 1: How real did it get? Did you make it weird?
Speaker 1: Are you you know?
Speaker 3: I don't feel like I made it weird? I mean,
Speaker 3: are you sure? Wed? Yeah? Yeah, it didn't feel weird
Speaker 3: to me. Everything felt super easy going and just okay,
Speaker 3: just natural.
Speaker 1: I've been doing this a long time. Chris. All right,
Speaker 1: well I'll tell you what I'm gonna ask her.
Speaker 2: So you've tried to call her a couple times, contact her,
Speaker 2: text her anything?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I tried to text a few times and haven't
Speaker 3: heard anything of that.
Speaker 1: Chris. We're about to call your date Danielle and try
Speaker 1: to figure out why she ghosted. Are you ready?
Speaker 2: I am very ready, emotionally prepared. Go ahead and take
Speaker 2: a deep breath and mute your phone, and here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello is this Danielle? Yes, it is hi Danielle. It's
Speaker 1: Marcus calling from Star one one three. How are you?
Speaker 1: Good morning?
Speaker 4: Oh, good morning? Know what I just listened to you
Speaker 4: every morning?
Speaker 1: Okay, you know what time it is?
Speaker 4: Oh my god?
Speaker 1: Second date update? And guess who the featured star is.
Speaker 1: You don't happen to be Dayton right now?
Speaker 4: Are you?
Speaker 1: Are you in the pool? Are you on the apps?
Speaker 1: I am?
Speaker 4: I am? Indeed.
Speaker 1: Have you ghosted on anybody recently?
Speaker 4: Yes? I have, Okay I have.
Speaker 2: I'm just going to say it. Chris is holding he's
Speaker 2: he's lurking listening. Okay, Chris, are you there here?
Speaker 1: I mean we might as well, just put this all
Speaker 1: out in the open.
Speaker 2: If she listens every more, why not here we are, well, well,
Speaker 2: well did you okay, Danielle?
Speaker 1: What did my guy do wrong?
Speaker 3: Well?
Speaker 4: I first need to just say, Chris, you are so
Speaker 4: much fun, so funny, social, easy to be around.
Speaker 1: Why was it always start?
Speaker 3: Okay?
Speaker 1: And then it just just face plants every single time?
Speaker 1: Go ahead?
Speaker 4: One thing, Okay, there was one thing that happens, and
Speaker 4: it was it was that he just kept checking his
Speaker 4: phone during the day.
Speaker 1: Okay, it wasn't.
Speaker 4: Enough to completely kill the vibe, but it was definitely
Speaker 4: enough that I noticed, and at first I was ignoring it.
Speaker 4: And then at one point his phone was on the
Speaker 4: table and it lit up and I saw my own name,
Speaker 4: and I realized that he was actively texting a group
Speaker 4: chat I guess about the day we were on.
Speaker 2: While it was happening in real time, Yes, with you
Speaker 2: sitting right there.
Speaker 4: Yes. And it was not just basic updates. There was
Speaker 4: one that I saw that said good energy, but she
Speaker 4: definitely has opinions lol or something like that. And I'm
Speaker 4: not entirely sure, but I think I saw solid eight
Speaker 4: point five. I'm still gathering data. I definitely saw the phrase,
Speaker 4: I'm still gathering data, and as soon as I saw that,
Speaker 4: I lost it.
Speaker 1: Okay, Chris to explain, Chris, go, what is this the Olympics?
Speaker 1: What are we doing?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 3: Just silly. My friends are always interested in in my
Speaker 3: dates and like how they're going, and they just want
Speaker 3: to kind of know the play by play and I
Speaker 3: just kind of shoot them to play by play. It's
Speaker 3: just just friends being silly. That's That's genuinely all it was.
Speaker 1: But in real time that's insane.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it was take us afterwards like a normal person.
Speaker 4: Why would you I was being reviewed by a live
Speaker 4: panel of your friends.
Speaker 3: I honestly didn't even think you'd see it. Like I
Speaker 3: didn't think you'd see it.
Speaker 4: I didn't think, right, well, I know that, and that
Speaker 4: makes it worse.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, that doesn't make it, okay, Chris.
Speaker 3: Okay, I think this is being way blown out of proportion,
Speaker 3: Like it really isn't like they're just a few friends
Speaker 3: that are that are close and it's just guy talk.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: Don't you just launch a Twitch account and just put
Speaker 1: the camera on the table. I mean, why not? And
Speaker 1: then just like questions, I r L what is happening.
Speaker 3: It wasn't that serious. It wasn't that serious at all.
Speaker 4: All right, man, it was kind of serious to me,
Speaker 4: So I don't know it really changed how authentic the
Speaker 4: day it felt, and I was just like, am I
Speaker 4: connecting with you? Or am I performing for this group chat?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 4: That?
Speaker 3: I really didn't mean to make you feel that way.
Speaker 3: I'm really sorry that it wasn't intended to be in
Speaker 3: any way anything serious. It was just funny banter with
Speaker 3: my friends.
Speaker 2: Oh let me let me stop you guys for a sec,
Speaker 2: just because in this moment, my guy knows he was
Speaker 2: being an idiot.
Speaker 1: I'll just say it.
Speaker 2: So, Danielle, with this information, would you consider a second date?
Speaker 3: Chris?
Speaker 4: You seem like such a nice guy. But I'm not
Speaker 4: really trying to date someone who crowdsources his first impressions
Speaker 4: in real time. I think I'm looking for something a
Speaker 4: little deeper.
Speaker 2: So no, I'm good, All right, fair enough, Hang on,
Speaker 2: you guys, hang on, what is happening?
Speaker 1: Do people really do that? Like anyway? Second date update