WEBVTT - A Great Date for Chris with No Text Back from Danielle

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<v Speaker 1>It's Marcus in the morning. We are doing second date

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<v Speaker 1>update quickly.

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<v Speaker 2>If you go on a date and then you get ghosted,

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<v Speaker 2>or you feel like you're getting ghosted, you call me

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<v Speaker 2>and then we will call your date and just see

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<v Speaker 2>what's really going on, try to get some info, try

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<v Speaker 2>to get a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's literally why we call it that. Let's say ahead

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<v Speaker 1>of Chris, Good morning, Chris.

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<v Speaker 3>Good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>So I understand that you guys went on a date

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<v Speaker 2>in Piedmont, Is that right?

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<v Speaker 3>That's correct, right near where we live.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and her name is Danielle.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is Danielle.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, tell me about the date because I understand she's ghosted. Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>We went out for drinks and the date was actually

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<v Speaker 3>really just relaxed from the start, like really chill vibe,

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<v Speaker 3>so we could bounce between joking around and talking about

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<v Speaker 3>real stuff, and then by the end of the night

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<v Speaker 3>it just felt like we genuinely clicked. But then she disappeared.

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<v Speaker 1>How real did it get? Did you make it weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you you know?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't feel like I made it weird? I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>are you sure? Wed? Yeah? Yeah, it didn't feel weird

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<v Speaker 3>to me. Everything felt super easy going and just okay,

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<v Speaker 3>just natural.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing this a long time. Chris. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well I'll tell you what I'm gonna ask her.

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<v Speaker 2>So you've tried to call her a couple times, contact her,

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<v Speaker 2>text her anything?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I tried to text a few times and haven't

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<v Speaker 3>heard anything of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris. We're about to call your date Danielle and try

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out why she ghosted. Are you ready?

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<v Speaker 2>I am very ready, emotionally prepared. Go ahead and take

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<v Speaker 2>a deep breath and mute your phone, and here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello is this Danielle? Yes, it is hi Danielle. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Marcus calling from Star one one three. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, good morning? Know what I just listened to you

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<v Speaker 4>every morning?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know what time it is?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update? And guess who the featured star is.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't happen to be Dayton right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you in the pool? Are you on the apps?

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<v Speaker 1>I am?

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<v Speaker 4>I am? Indeed.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ghosted on anybody recently?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes? I have, Okay I have.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to say it. Chris is holding he's

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<v Speaker 2>he's lurking listening. Okay, Chris, are you there here?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we might as well, just put this all

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<v Speaker 1>out in the open.

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<v Speaker 2>If she listens every more, why not here we are, well, well,

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<v Speaker 2>well did you okay, Danielle?

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<v Speaker 1>What did my guy do wrong?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>I first need to just say, Chris, you are so

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<v Speaker 4>much fun, so funny, social, easy to be around.

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<v Speaker 1>Why was it always start?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And then it just just face plants every single time?

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead?

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<v Speaker 4>One thing, Okay, there was one thing that happens, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was it was that he just kept checking his

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<v Speaker 4>phone during the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Enough to completely kill the vibe, but it was definitely

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<v Speaker 4>enough that I noticed, and at first I was ignoring it.

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<v Speaker 4>And then at one point his phone was on the

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<v Speaker 4>table and it lit up and I saw my own name,

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<v Speaker 4>and I realized that he was actively texting a group

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<v Speaker 4>chat I guess about the day we were on.

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<v Speaker 2>While it was happening in real time, Yes, with you

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<v Speaker 2>sitting right there.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes. And it was not just basic updates. There was

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<v Speaker 4>one that I saw that said good energy, but she

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<v Speaker 4>definitely has opinions lol or something like that. And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not entirely sure, but I think I saw solid eight

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<v Speaker 4>point five. I'm still gathering data. I definitely saw the phrase,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm still gathering data, and as soon as I saw that,

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<v Speaker 4>I lost it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Chris to explain, Chris, go, what is this the Olympics?

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<v Speaker 1>What are we doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Just silly. My friends are always interested in in my

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<v Speaker 3>dates and like how they're going, and they just want

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<v Speaker 3>to kind of know the play by play and I

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<v Speaker 3>just kind of shoot them to play by play. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just just friends being silly. That's That's genuinely all it was.

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<v Speaker 1>But in real time that's insane.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, it was take us afterwards like a normal person.

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<v Speaker 4>Why would you I was being reviewed by a live

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<v Speaker 4>panel of your friends.

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<v Speaker 3>I honestly didn't even think you'd see it. Like I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't think you'd see it.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't think, right, well, I know that, and that

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<v Speaker 4>makes it worse.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, that doesn't make it, okay, Chris.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I think this is being way blown out of proportion,

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<v Speaker 3>Like it really isn't like they're just a few friends

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<v Speaker 3>that are that are close and it's just guy talk.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you just launch a Twitch account and just put

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<v Speaker 1>the camera on the table. I mean, why not? And

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<v Speaker 1>then just like questions, I r L what is happening.

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<v Speaker 3>It wasn't that serious. It wasn't that serious at all.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, man, it was kind of serious to me,

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<v Speaker 4>So I don't know it really changed how authentic the

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<v Speaker 4>day it felt, and I was just like, am I

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<v Speaker 4>connecting with you? Or am I performing for this group chat?

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<v Speaker 1>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>That?

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<v Speaker 3>I really didn't mean to make you feel that way.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really sorry that it wasn't intended to be in

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<v Speaker 3>any way anything serious. It was just funny banter with

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<v Speaker 3>my friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh let me let me stop you guys for a sec,

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<v Speaker 2>just because in this moment, my guy knows he was

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<v Speaker 2>being an idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just say it.

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<v Speaker 2>So, Danielle, with this information, would you consider a second date?

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<v Speaker 3>Chris?

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<v Speaker 4>You seem like such a nice guy. But I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>really trying to date someone who crowdsources his first impressions

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<v Speaker 4>in real time. I think I'm looking for something a

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<v Speaker 4>little deeper.

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<v Speaker 2>So no, I'm good, All right, fair enough, Hang on,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, hang on, what is happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Do people really do that? Like anyway? Second date update