WEBVTT - What's Considered a Date?

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<v Speaker 1>Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>So my wife was texting with another man last night

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<v Speaker 2>again and I was like, what is going on? Who

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<v Speaker 2>are you texting? She says, I'm texting with Kevin and

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<v Speaker 2>I said, oh really. I said why is that? And

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<v Speaker 2>she said, because Kevin is on a date. So I

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<v Speaker 2>asked Kevin just a second ago when we were off

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<v Speaker 2>the air, I go, Kevin, how is your date? He goes,

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<v Speaker 2>it won't a date, and I go, what do you

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<v Speaker 2>mean it wasn't a date? Why would you not classify

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<v Speaker 2>it as a date?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there are certain.

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<v Speaker 4>Times you go out with a person and you just

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<v Speaker 4>go out with them. You may not have any intention

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<v Speaker 4>on really seeing this person in that way. It's just

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<v Speaker 4>a fun thing. It's just something to do. It's not

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<v Speaker 4>really like you know what I see you identify you

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<v Speaker 4>with somebody I'm trying to court. I want this to

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<v Speaker 4>be something more. This wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a hangout.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. Like a couple of weeks ago, I'll posted on

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<v Speaker 4>my Instagram story I wanted to get a massage. I

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<v Speaker 4>think some people lurk and they file certain things. So

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<v Speaker 4>if you say some think publicly, they'll say noted, they'll

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<v Speaker 4>put that in their back pocket. Weeks later, she posted

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<v Speaker 4>on her a little and you know, like Instagram stories,

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<v Speaker 4>you could put like a capsule or something. Now, so

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<v Speaker 4>she put on there, I want to get a massage.

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<v Speaker 1>So I hit her.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, let's go get massages and then we

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<v Speaker 4>go back and for Launcher and shot them like, you

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<v Speaker 4>pay for the massage, you pay for the massage. She

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't trying to do that, but she ended up doing it.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, you pay for the massage, I'll pay

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<v Speaker 4>for the food afterwards. So that's what we did yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>Massage. By the way, this story is way more complicated.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you the only one who thought it wasn't a date?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she also know that? How do you know if

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<v Speaker 1>somebody else knows it's a date? I think most you

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<v Speaker 1>invited her to do something out. Does that mean date?

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<v Speaker 2>Most women think that if they're going out with a

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<v Speaker 2>man one on one and date and getting a massage

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<v Speaker 2>depends on what your relationship is.

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<v Speaker 4>Though we don't have a relationship at all, Like this night,

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<v Speaker 4>would watch date you if you now? I can tell

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<v Speaker 4>from last night she had a wonderful time. We wouldn't

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<v Speaker 4>like we wouldn't We wouldn't leave each other, like we

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<v Speaker 4>got into the music bag, like you know what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 4>play me your deepest song, playing my deepest song.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's talk about it like I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I established meaningful connections with people, so I

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<v Speaker 4>can see why it.

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<v Speaker 1>Made it feel like you master manipulator. I wasn't. I

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<v Speaker 1>just like enjoying somebody else's company, you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I really really do know what you mean.

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<v Speaker 2>But now that you know that she has feelings for you,

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<v Speaker 2>you have to make it very clear that it's not

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<v Speaker 2>like that, or she is going to get all wrapped

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<v Speaker 2>up and kind of knows.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's okay, though, were you with her? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't do anything. I kissed her at the end,

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<v Speaker 1>we just date. Then it's still giving her little crumbs

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<v Speaker 1>of hope. That's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>But you don't want to be in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't we just hang out? Does everything have to be?

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<v Speaker 1>Why not? Because caussing is like that's a form of intimacy.

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<v Speaker 4>But if the vibe is there, if it leads to that,

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<v Speaker 4>you don't go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>Where does Chelsea figure into this story? Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>So I actually on Chelsea because I was out near like,

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<v Speaker 4>I guess where Chelsea hangs out. So I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going out with somebody. It's not like that, but

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<v Speaker 4>give me somewhere good to eat. And she sent me

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<v Speaker 4>some recommendations.

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<v Speaker 1>Where did she go? So what's what's it called?

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<v Speaker 2>Road?

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<v Speaker 4>Roadside all the time. So they walk and see and

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<v Speaker 4>they sit us down. Brownie points. These ladies starts staring

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<v Speaker 4>at me. I'm like, you know it happens. I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>gonna not gonna acknowledge.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'll take her on a non date sometime. And

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<v Speaker 1>the lady was like, and then the ladies, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>like ojo, what do you think of this spot? Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Give me date vibes?

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<v Speaker 2>The restaurant, well, I have gone there with Chelsea alone.

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<v Speaker 2>I've gone there with Chelsea and the and the boys,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean. So it can be both. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a very nice restaurant. It's it's not I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>call it romantic, but it can be. Did you guys

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<v Speaker 2>sit on the same side at the table or how

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<v Speaker 2>would you do that?

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<v Speaker 1>That's awkward that time? Really, so I can hear him

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<v Speaker 1>if you feelly, I feel like.

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<v Speaker 2>You can do that all right eight four four six

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<v Speaker 2>six five six five four eight?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Kylie? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>But how are you?

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<v Speaker 4>Guys?

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<v Speaker 1>We're good, Kylie? What's going on? Good?

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<v Speaker 3>Ken?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 4>You have two we are single. You have two single

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<v Speaker 4>people who needed a massage and we went.

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<v Speaker 1>Together and yeah, the communication is keyd What am I communicating?

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<v Speaker 1>That's the problem.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like, why am I communicating something before? I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like it needs to be communicated, Like we don't

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<v Speaker 4>even know anything yet. Why am I already sitting boundaries?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you need to set boundaries if you don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Gonna date or we don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know yet, you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>that's not my intention. It couldn't be offering. If you

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<v Speaker 4>enter a situation you just want to hang out with

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<v Speaker 4>someone and he's automatically like, hey, before this goes anywhere,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to date anybody, Like, bro, we not

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<v Speaker 4>even I'm not even trying to date you.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, let's just.

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<v Speaker 2>Relax, Okay, Okay, I get it, Kylie. Man, this guy

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<v Speaker 2>has so many different definitions and explanations, definitions and accusations.

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<v Speaker 1>We need we need a dictionary. Yes, false false. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for the call Kylie. You have a great morning. What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Amy?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Good morning?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you good? What's happening?

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<v Speaker 3>keV?

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<v Speaker 4>I love you, but I am cussing you out so

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<v Speaker 4>bad in my car right now. Don't play with that

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<v Speaker 4>girl's emotions, dude, don't don't kiss her if you don't

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<v Speaker 4>want that.

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<v Speaker 3>You got my blood pressure up this morning at six

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<v Speaker 3>twenty two am.

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<v Speaker 1>It was It was a mere lah on the lips.

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<v Speaker 1>It was on the cheek. It started on the cheek.

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<v Speaker 1>And no, sir, no, And I've never gone and get

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<v Speaker 1>a massage with anybody besides.

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<v Speaker 3>My fiance when we were dating.

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<v Speaker 4>This was probably I want to say it was maybe

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<v Speaker 4>my second massage of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to say my first massage. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was a couple's massage or you went separately.

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<v Speaker 4>In individual rooms.

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<v Speaker 1>We were in individual rooms. Did they call it a.

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<v Speaker 3>Couple little less? Yeah, but you should have kitchen nobody.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that you buy two individual massages or

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<v Speaker 2>did you get the double massage?

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<v Speaker 1>I called it a couple of massage? Okay, he called

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<v Speaker 1>it a couple.

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<v Speaker 4>Of massages when I when I went in, and that's

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<v Speaker 4>how I said, may have you ready for our couple's massage.

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<v Speaker 2>And you, babe, you gotta have fun with life.

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<v Speaker 1>You are, that's what the vibe called for. He's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I got naked naked for your massage? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I lady. I was like, can I take my draws off?

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, you can do whatever you want like that? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Justin? How you doing Smojo on the

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<v Speaker 1>morning show? Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>What what's going on? Mojoh?

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<v Speaker 1>Buddy?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey yeah, man, I can't mind gonna lie. They say,

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<v Speaker 3>maybe I'm a dog. Bro?

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<v Speaker 2>You are?

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<v Speaker 3>You know when you when you when you when you

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<v Speaker 3>said you want to go on the massage, You ain't

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<v Speaker 3>going on the Stagg show. Best friend, my man, you

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<v Speaker 3>know you know what's going on. And the fact you're

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<v Speaker 3>trying to play it crazy to give your why, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 3>You got to do better, man, You.

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<v Speaker 1>Got you got better.

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<v Speaker 3>Because I'll be rudined for you every morning. I'll be happy.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't know what to be talking about. But today

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<v Speaker 3>could I ain't gonna lie to you? My brother.

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<v Speaker 1>You was on the day, bro, this is where you line.

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<v Speaker 3>You was on the day. Bro, you kissed the good

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<v Speaker 3>night and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you listen. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't touch anything though, does that count my hands?

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<v Speaker 4>And above the way you.

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<v Speaker 3>Touch each other? So that means it's all like each.

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<v Speaker 1>Other, aren't there? Aren't there levels to kissing?

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<v Speaker 3>Though?

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't serious, you know what I'm saying, Arn't there?

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like if your hands stay above the waist

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<v Speaker 4>or they don't touch anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Date, this is our first date, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm not even gonna say it was our

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<v Speaker 1>first date. It was our first time.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what we need? Can I be honest with you?

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<v Speaker 2>We need to get her definition.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you know you and livestrenching and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what probably was.

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<v Speaker 3>It was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was literally justin thanks, buddy, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Turn your radio down?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my bad, my bad? Hey keV. Don't let nobody

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<v Speaker 3>hon you this man, because look I did the same

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<v Speaker 3>thing a few weeks ago that they.

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<v Speaker 1>Were slipped out on me, and I mean a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of massages.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just all get get to.

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<v Speaker 1>Nowhere, man, thank you?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 1>And how did the things go? Are you guys? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys still.

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<v Speaker 3>Talking that little kids?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a welcoming kids.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you still talking to that girl?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? Are you? Are you not hearing me? Or

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<v Speaker 1>you just don't want to answer that question. I heard you, Mojo.

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<v Speaker 3>Look I communicate, you know, I communicate with.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's the same girl, it's poor girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been I've been playing in the snow since day one, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Unbelievable.

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<v Speaker 4>This is why girls say that guys are listen. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 4>don't think they ain't all you're doing the same thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, stop playing this, go both ways, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>It's Mojo in the Morning Show.