1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Wake you ass up, John Jay and Rich what's crack alike? 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: And this is the big Boss dove snoopy deegle, double. 3 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,440 Speaker 1: Gisse bank boom, what you don't do, John Jay, we're. 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 3: Not talking about rid ten team, We're not talking. 5 00:00:14,240 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 4: About last year. 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 5: It's the one and only Dome y'all the glasses last, 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 5: the big swoop deegle double jib. 8 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 2: In your face to be and in the place to be. 9 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:23,920 Speaker 1: And you listening to John Jay and Rich wake you as. 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 6: One to four seven kiss FM, jh J and Rich 11 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 6: always getting the first date Stories of a crazy, worst date, 12 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 6: best date. 13 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 2: What do you got Isabella? 14 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 7: Hey, so it's kind of scary mine. I went on 15 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 7: a date with my fiance we've been together to like 16 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 7: eleven years, and we were gonna go see a movie, 17 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 7: get dinner, and I was twenty eight weeks pregnant and 18 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 7: I actually ended up with an emergency C section. My 19 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 7: little guy ended up rolling just wrong and cut off 20 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 7: the blos to try and next thing I know, we 21 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 7: ended our date with with a little one in the hospital. 22 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 2: Wow. 23 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was pretty crazy. We were in there for 24 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 7: like two hundred dates, wow, waiting for him to come out. 25 00:01:09,720 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 8: So yeah, hollo goo. 26 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 5: Was that Actually? 27 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,480 Speaker 7: Uh, he actually got released in November, so it was 28 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 7: April April twenty. They were having our dates and he 29 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 7: came out. He was only a pound. It was a 30 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 7: pretty big struggle. He's still on oxygen and everything. But 31 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 7: I mean, you know, the longest date ever worked, one 32 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:31,639 Speaker 7: hundred dates waiting for that to happen. 33 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,320 Speaker 2: But well, it wasn't a first date you were. It 34 00:01:34,360 --> 00:01:35,280 Speaker 2: was you were dating. 35 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, we just go on our you know, we try 36 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 7: to do a date together, like at least once we 37 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:42,080 Speaker 7: before we tried. 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 5: Now now that's. 39 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 7: Kind of been on hold this whole time. But yeah, 40 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 7: we would go on dinner in a movie once a 41 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 7: week just to kind of connect and hang out and 42 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 7: fond together. And we just started feeling bunky. Everything went weird. 43 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: Well, we'll glad he's okay. 44 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 6: Now, thank you for sharing us to Isabella. 45 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 7: Thanks so much for having me. 46 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,040 Speaker 2: Hi, Emily, you're on the air. Good morning. 47 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:10,679 Speaker 5: Hey, I just wanted to call in and tell my story. 48 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 2: What's your story? 49 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 5: So I was troubling with my mom the other day 50 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 5: and we were, you know, walking up to the mall. 51 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 5: We were going through the parks a lot, and this 52 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 5: car comes up to us and kind of like slows 53 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 5: down and like honks, and I'm like, you know, looking 54 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 5: at the guy in the car, like I give him 55 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 5: a phrase like and he's like, no, not you. Your mom. 56 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 5: He points to my mom, who's like, like your mom, like, 57 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 5: oh my. 58 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 2: Goodness, how'd your mom feel? 59 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:42,560 Speaker 5: She was flattered, but we kept walking because she's still 60 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 5: married to my dad. 61 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 4: I feel really good though, like I still got it. 62 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 9: And over the weekend, when I was at the Bird's Nest, 63 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 9: I took Kadem's mom, my fiance's mom with me to 64 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 9: the Nelly Jaw ruined Ludacris concert. I kid you not 65 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 9: every man. We walked back said something to our looked 66 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 9: up and dad was I, hey girl, you look good. 67 00:03:04,520 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 10: I was like. 68 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:07,119 Speaker 9: I went back home and I was rubbing in Kadeen's face. 69 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 9: I was like, dude, your mom was the hottest bitch there. 70 00:03:13,960 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: He asked me. He was like, and who talked to you? 71 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 1: I was like, actually, no one. 72 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: That's a great story, Emily, that's a great story. Thanks 73 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:25,919 Speaker 2: for sharing it with us. Thank you have a great day. Hello, 74 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 2: good morning, john Ja and Rich can help you. 75 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: Hi John Jay. 76 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 11: My name is Taylor. I was just called because I 77 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 11: have a terrible first date story and kiss you. 78 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 6: Oh my Taylor, Yes, we'd love to hear it. Taylor, 79 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 6: a terrible first date? Go ahead, what do you got? Okay? 80 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 11: I was living in Chicago and I was a flight attendant, 81 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,839 Speaker 11: so I was, you know, like a Cereal deer right 82 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 11: on the app. 83 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 12: Anyways, I met this. 84 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 11: Guy right down the street from my apartment and we 85 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 11: The first thing that he says to me is, oh 86 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 11: my god, I love your lipstick. Let me guess is 87 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 11: that in the shade? And I can't remember the shade, 88 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 11: but it was the lipstick okay? 89 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 5: And I was like what? 90 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 11: It was just so weird that he knew exactly. 91 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 13: The shade of lipstick that I wanted that I had on. 92 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 11: And then he's like, can I have some? And he 93 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 11: grabbed my face and kissed me. I'm talking like literally 94 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 11: the first two minutes I had met this band that's aggressive. 95 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 2: Wow. 96 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 11: And then I dipped out. I dipped out so fast 97 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 11: I didn't even go through the front door. I like 98 00:04:27,920 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 11: jumped a little We were on the patio. I jumped 99 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 11: a little fence on the patio and done it. 100 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 9: So bizarre was he like, it is that like the 101 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 9: mac counter, or like did he see you wearing that 102 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 9: lipstick before? And he like purposely dated you and wanted 103 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,479 Speaker 9: to go out with you because you were wearing it, 104 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:46,479 Speaker 9: Like that's so weird. 105 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:50,719 Speaker 11: I don't know, I don't I have no idea. You know, 106 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 11: I was very close to Boystown in Chicago, so he 107 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:59,160 Speaker 11: might have, you know, swung both ways, so maybe he just. 108 00:04:59,200 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 6: Like where but to see you, to have you like 109 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 6: scale the fence of the of the restaurant could get 110 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 6: out of there pretty dead, buddy. 111 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: I like that. So many times people stay for the date. 112 00:05:09,520 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: You know, we're like, why didn't you get out of there? 113 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: Here's one that actually got out of there? 114 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 2: Well, terrors. Thanks for calling. 115 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 11: I think I yeah, I think I said, oh my gosh, 116 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 11: my cat, my roommates and my cat got out. I 117 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 11: did not have a cat. 118 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 2: I have a great day. Thanks for listening. 119 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 14: You've got questions, and we have four unqualified people to 120 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 14: give you answers. 121 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 2: It's John Jay and Rich. John Jay and Rich, Good morning, Christian. 122 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 2: Thanks for holding what's going on? Yeah? 123 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:42,039 Speaker 13: So all right, dude, I'm literally sweating right now because 124 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,640 Speaker 13: I've kind of backed myself into like a probably the 125 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,799 Speaker 13: most awkward corner of all time. So, like, my cousin's 126 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 13: wedding is in three weeks, and when the rs VP 127 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 13: was due a few months ago, my girlfriend and I 128 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 13: were in just like a really bad place. So I 129 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 13: was I was counting down the days until we brought 130 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 13: up at that point, so I was convinced like we were done. 131 00:06:04,480 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 13: I didn't even put her as. 132 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 2: My plus one. 133 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 13: I just checked the single box because I didn't want 134 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 13: to deal with the ex drama, you know, and family 135 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,279 Speaker 13: photos all that stuff, you know how it is. And 136 00:06:14,960 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 13: then things got a lot better. We actually stayed together. 137 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 13: We're doing fantastic now, and she's been talking about this 138 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:30,119 Speaker 13: wedding for months. She even thought a dress, she's booked 139 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 13: her hair appointment, and she just keeps reminding me about 140 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 13: the date. I'm talking like twenty times at least, and 141 00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:39,120 Speaker 13: I'm just nodding and smiling like an idiot because I 142 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 13: just I didn't know how to tell her. But finally, 143 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 13: you know, I just I had to come clean. And 144 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 13: last night I told her and Torri she's on the list, 145 00:06:49,200 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 13: and she's she's just losing it. She's just absolutely nuts 146 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 13: about it, and she thinks I'm just forgetful or that 147 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 13: I don't care. But the real reason is and I 148 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 13: just I didn't think she'd be in my wife by now. 149 00:07:01,960 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 13: So do I tell her the truth and risk you know, 150 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 13: and neither digger of some massive fight, or do I 151 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 13: just like beg my cousin to let me pay for 152 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:12,080 Speaker 13: an extra plate or something that one? 153 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, tell her, I tell you true. 154 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 6: I was I was hoping you didn't tell her and 155 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:19,840 Speaker 6: we were gonna be able to call her and tell 156 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 6: her ourselves, I know. But the fact that she already 157 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 6: knows that she's not so she just thinks she overlooked it. 158 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 2: I would tell her I thought we were going in 159 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 2: a bad place. 160 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,600 Speaker 9: Does she feel like you guys were in a bad 161 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 9: place at that time? 162 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: It would be something she would understand if. 163 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 9: You said that. 164 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 13: I mean it wasn't good. I mean we are like 165 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 13: I don't think like there's any way that she would 166 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 13: not have known. Like we were just we were fighting 167 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 13: all the time. 168 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: It was still no because. 169 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 4: They you're double in the wrong. You didn't believe in 170 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 4: us to make it. 171 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 2: And you remember remember a. 172 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:57,080 Speaker 6: Couple at each other, Remember we hated each other and 173 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 6: we were we thought maybe we're gonna break up, I 174 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 6: responded one. 175 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: Because from her point of view, all you had to 176 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: do is go, yes, plus one, I'm gonna take my 177 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: girlfriend and we'll figure it all out. But the fact 178 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: that you hated it so much that you didn't even 179 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: want her to come to the wedding, that's not going 180 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: to land. Well. So you called that cousin and you're like, 181 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: I don't care what it costs for a plate. I 182 00:08:16,120 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: am there for you. Let me well begin it's your cousin. 183 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: Thegin news is your cousin. 184 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 6: So you could probably be like, you know, and your 185 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:25,400 Speaker 6: cousin probably go, no problem, just add plus one, no problem. 186 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 2: It's like a friend. 187 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:27,800 Speaker 6: That's what I hope. 188 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 13: But I'm going to pay for it, like I just 189 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 13: I don't want to ruin we have. I mean, we 190 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 13: got the place and now we're here, and. 191 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 1: That's such a good investment. 192 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 6: So what you do is also when you call your 193 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 6: cousin and you asked, you said, here's the deal. You 194 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 6: don't need to tell U your girlfriend's name. But I'm 195 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 6: bringing I didn't bring Francine. Now we're back together, so 196 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 6: don't stress. You could say I'm going to bring food. 197 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 6: I'm going to bring a bottle vodka in a backpack, 198 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,240 Speaker 6: so she's fine, she can eat on another table. And 199 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 6: then you're and your cousin will be like, bro, bro, 200 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 6: it's cool, don't worry. I'll put a plus You got 201 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,120 Speaker 6: a plus one, no problem. 202 00:08:58,880 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 203 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 13: I mean I got him a very nice gift already, 204 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,719 Speaker 13: so you know, like he'll be very happy with that. 205 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 13: He'll be like, oh, you know, if he lets me 206 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 13: do this, he'll think that, oh, he up the gift. 207 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 13: But you know I already did that. 208 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 2: Plus Or you don't go, you say, or I can't go. 209 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 1: If you're the cousins, you kind of are hoping that 210 00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: the people that come are taken care of. Like she 211 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 1: doesn't want you to be there single and board. He 212 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: wants you to be there with your girl and you know, 213 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: have a complete package there for the invite. 214 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 13: Yeah, I just I know that, like it's it's it's 215 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,960 Speaker 13: at least two hundred bucks. 216 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,680 Speaker 1: More invest in your future. 217 00:09:34,440 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 13: I'm not saying for me, I just mean for him. 218 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 13: So you know, like I know, it's like a big deal. 219 00:09:38,120 --> 00:09:40,120 Speaker 13: They've they've got a lot of people and but you're right, 220 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:41,080 Speaker 13: You're right, I could just invest. 221 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:41,800 Speaker 2: I could just do it. 222 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 13: That's that's what I was thinking. 223 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 4: You probably should have worked all this out and never 224 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 4: have told her. 225 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 15: Yeah, I'm just thinking, like, she's gonna hold this over 226 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 15: your head. 227 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,640 Speaker 4: Remember when you didn't invite me to your cousin's Ready 228 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 4: for life. 229 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 1: We're gonna break up for the wedding. 230 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:03,719 Speaker 13: No, that's that's a good point. I'll just, you know, 231 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 13: let her think I was forgetful. I'll bake my cousin. 232 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 6: You could also send her on a girls trip somewhere 233 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 6: during the wedding. Oh, it's the same here, I got 234 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 6: to this trip to go wherever. 235 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 13: She said. 236 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 2: Oh, but honey, is when the wedding is you know 237 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,559 Speaker 2: one who cares go on the trip? 238 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 13: Telling you she will not stop talking about this wedding 239 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 13: hair appointment. She has addressed. She spent a lot of 240 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 13: money on a dress already, Like this is all right? 241 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 2: Do it so much? All right? Brother? Okay, thanks for 242 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: calling in, man, Thank you, you got it. 243 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 13: Appreciate you. 244 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 2: Tough dilemma. It's John Jay Rich. 245 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 14: The next segment we're going to do is called second 246 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 14: Date Update, because that's what we're going to try and 247 00:10:38,160 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 14: get and that's what the bit is called Second date 248 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 14: update starts right now on John Jay and Ridge. 249 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,319 Speaker 2: Four to seven Fam John Jay Rich have for second 250 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 2: d update. Doug. Someone's blown off, Doug, Doug, what's your story? Welcome? 251 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:56,640 Speaker 8: Hey guys, good morning. Okay, so I'm calling because I'm 252 00:10:56,640 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 8: honestly just really confused. To be honest, all right, probably 253 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 8: went on this date with this girl, and I swear 254 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 8: it went great. 255 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 16: It really did. 256 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 8: When we were texting before the date, she told me 257 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:11,480 Speaker 8: she's super adventurous and likes doing fun stuff like planned, 258 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:16,200 Speaker 8: you know, booked one of those those escaped room type 259 00:11:16,200 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 8: things where people go and just kind of have fun. 260 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,880 Speaker 8: It's like a big game type stuff. And it was 261 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 8: seriously so fun, you know what I mean. Like we 262 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 8: worked really well together. We would joking the whole time. 263 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 8: She's super outgoing, she's clever, she's witty. There wasn't any 264 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 8: awkward silence, no weird energy, nothing, you know. After we 265 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 8: talked for a bit, we even hugged and we kissed. 266 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 8: It was really cool and we just goodbye and everything 267 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 8: seemed normal. And now I'm like, what the heck, nothing happened. 268 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 2: Nothing. 269 00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 8: I texted her the next day than I had a 270 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 8: great time and haven't heard back at all. I'm just bummed, honestly, 271 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 8: That's what I'm calling you, guys, because I don't feel 272 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:54,959 Speaker 8: like I did anything wrong, and I don't know how 273 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 8: to go from such a good time to total complete silence. 274 00:12:00,360 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, that seems weird, unless well, I mean you can 275 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 4: feel the vibe, because like some people are escape room 276 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 4: people and game people, and some people are not really into. 277 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 2: Like that type of activity. 278 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 6: Date. 279 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 4: But if you said you were feeling such great vibes, 280 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:16,319 Speaker 4: I don't necessarily know, unless like she had an ex 281 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 4: boyfriend come back in her life, right, she decided, or 282 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 4: she's dating multiple people and she just decided she had 283 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 4: a stronger connection with someone else. 284 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:28,000 Speaker 9: Because I automatically thought with the escape room, maybe I 285 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,360 Speaker 9: was like, okay, maybe you were a little too intense, 286 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 9: you know, because sometimes people are game people and sometimes 287 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 9: they aren't. But it's like you guys, kissed and hugged after. 288 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 9: That's what's confusing. 289 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 1: That's the problem. 290 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 10: The proble. 291 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:47,959 Speaker 2: You always think breath or something you or. 292 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 8: Her poop in the escape room yet scared, No, no, 293 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 8: none of that, nothing like that. 294 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:54,599 Speaker 2: No, I just saw this meaning about that. Do you 295 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:58,479 Speaker 2: guys see the memes of my stories about an escape room. 296 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:00,080 Speaker 6: When I was a kid, I got so scared I 297 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 6: pooped the escaper. And my brother will never let me down. 298 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:04,600 Speaker 6: He always brings it up. My brother had to have 299 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 6: brain surgery the other day and there was a good 300 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 6: chance to never forget his memory. And he goes, I 301 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 6: just got this text, and the text says I'm out 302 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:18,719 Speaker 6: of surgery and I still remember. You crapped your past, buddy. Oh, 303 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 6: it's hilarious. All right, Doug, let's call her. We'll find 304 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 6: out why she's blowing you off. 305 00:13:21,640 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 2: What's her name? 306 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 6: All right, We're gonna get Janelle on the phone and 307 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 6: find out why she's blowing you off. 308 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 2: Second date update You can us next with John Jane 309 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 2: rich Jane. 310 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:32,600 Speaker 6: Rich John Jane Richard The Middle. Second date Update Doug 311 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:33,360 Speaker 6: and Janelle. 312 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: Well, Doug and Janelle had a first date that ended 313 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 1: up with a long kiss in a hug. Doug took 314 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,080 Speaker 1: his date to an escape room. But the only thing 315 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: Janelle is escaping is an entire future relationship with Doug altogether, 316 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: because she's ghosting up. 317 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,360 Speaker 6: Let's find out why. Yeah, because Doug, you said, the 318 00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 6: day is going great. Everything went great? 319 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,680 Speaker 13: Right, everything went great. 320 00:13:54,760 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 8: It was the energy was there, the vibes were right, 321 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 8: and I just don't know what happened. 322 00:13:58,559 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 2: All right, let's get it. 323 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:21,600 Speaker 3: Let's get her right now, let's get Hello, Janelle. 324 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 2: You're on the radio, John J. Rich. Can we talk 325 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 2: to you on the air? 326 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 15: Uh yeah, sure, Okay. 327 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 2: So here's the deal. We got a call from a 328 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:30,960 Speaker 2: guy that went on a date with you. 329 00:14:31,600 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 6: He said that it was fantastic, like that there was chemistry, 330 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:36,320 Speaker 6: you were laughing, joking, had a great time. 331 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 2: But he feels that you're blowing him off. 332 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 6: And from what we gather, if everything he says is true, 333 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 6: we can't figure out why you're blowing him off. We 334 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 6: have some assumptions, but we thought we'd just call you 335 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 6: and just hear it from you. 336 00:14:48,960 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 2: We're talking about Doug. Shut up, Doug and Doug dig Doug? 337 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 2: What's that from? 338 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 4: And Doug as commercial as those insurance commercials. 339 00:14:58,760 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, Doug. 340 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 6: Doug have a mustache, word glasses and carry lema with him. 341 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 17: So Doug called you. I'm dead, Yeah, yeah, I'm literally Dug. Yeah, 342 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 17: So I mean, I'll tell you what happened. This is 343 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 17: so stupid, like for just the preface, it's dumb, and 344 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 17: I totally know that he was great. The date was 345 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 17: so fun. We actually had a really good time. He 346 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 17: took me to an escape room and it was so fun. 347 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 17: But I literally I had this one intrusive thought that 348 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 17: I could not shake, like the whole time. It just 349 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 17: was killing me. So like, yeah, his name is Doug, 350 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:45,920 Speaker 17: and I'm sorry, but like that's a dog's name, Like 351 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:48,760 Speaker 17: it's Doug is a dog's name. And we're in the 352 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 17: escape room and I'm like, Doug, come here, Come here, Doug. 353 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 17: And then my kind I'm like, oh my god, like 354 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 17: I'm calling to a Golden Retriever and it's like it's 355 00:15:56,400 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 17: funny because like he totally has that Golden Retriever energy. 356 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 17: I tried so hard to get over it, but every 357 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 17: time I said his name it just was aching me out. 358 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 17: I know, it's like not rational, but I just could 359 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 17: not un hear it. 360 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 5: And like. 361 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,560 Speaker 1: From up his named Doug, right, Hello, my name. 362 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 17: Is dog like the little like Doug days guys. 363 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: Said yeah. 364 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 17: So after that, I was like, oh my god, like 365 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:29,760 Speaker 17: I can't and then I didn't know what to say, 366 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 17: and so then I ghosted and. 367 00:16:31,480 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's stupid. 368 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 17: I know, I'm horrible. 369 00:16:36,240 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 2: So that's it. 370 00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 6: Like you legitimately cannot see a life of a guy 371 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 6: named Doug because his name is Doug. 372 00:16:41,960 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. 373 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:44,440 Speaker 17: It just aicked me out. Once you get the ick, 374 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 17: it's like, yeah, no, I get it, I get it. 375 00:16:47,200 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: You're out. 376 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 12: I don't know. 377 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 2: Well, I wonder how Doug feels about that. 378 00:16:51,320 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 1: Doug. You know, Doug, you should be my dog. 379 00:16:58,320 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 12: I didn't know. 380 00:16:58,720 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 17: I know you were on the phone. 381 00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, here I am. 382 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, dog, are you sitting? 383 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: You're a good boy. 384 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:13,040 Speaker 8: Like I'm actually kind of laughing now here in the story. 385 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,439 Speaker 8: It's silly, but like the second you said it, I 386 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 8: got it. 387 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: Like I hear what you're saying. Maybe you gotta maybe 388 00:17:18,200 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: you need like a cool te t bone name or 389 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: something like that, like a nickname that she can call 390 00:17:22,359 --> 00:17:23,320 Speaker 1: you instead of Doug. 391 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,439 Speaker 2: Do do you have a middle name? 392 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 12: You liked him? 393 00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:28,760 Speaker 17: I just like I could not get out of my 394 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 17: head every time I thought of you after that. 395 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 2: He's your middle name? Scruffy? No, do you have a 396 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 2: middle name? 397 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 12: No? 398 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:38,479 Speaker 8: No, I mean no, it's it's no. 399 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 1: She's got a good point. 400 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 8: Dog is a very family dog that lives to be 401 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 8: fourteen names exactly all right. 402 00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:47,000 Speaker 1: They're cute together. 403 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 2: You guys are kid. Do you want to go out again? 404 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:48,680 Speaker 12: Or no? 405 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 2: You just can't do it because of the Doug name? 406 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 2: Can come doogie. 407 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 4: Called d d man's middle name? If it's not. 408 00:17:56,160 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 2: What's your middle name? Don't write that. 409 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 13: I actually have an idea. 410 00:17:58,840 --> 00:17:59,520 Speaker 8: Hear me, hear me out? 411 00:17:59,560 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 13: You know what about if. 412 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 8: We go on another date but you call me Douglas, 413 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 8: you actually call me my my legit name. 414 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,120 Speaker 2: A town in southern Arizona. 415 00:18:09,480 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 17: Okay, wait, but that's actually kind of hot. 416 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, by switch all right. 417 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 8: I don't know. 418 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 17: I feel like I don't know how to explain it. 419 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:21,919 Speaker 17: But that's actually kind of working on me. 420 00:18:23,080 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 8: They are for special Cag's. 421 00:18:25,680 --> 00:18:29,119 Speaker 2: Good, Like, wasn't even offended. He's just like, all right, 422 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 2: let's roll with it. 423 00:18:29,960 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 17: It's like giving golden retriever. 424 00:18:32,280 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, good, all right, good, they're a successful second date update. 425 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 2: You guys go out again with Douglas, Janelle and Douglas. 426 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 8: Do you want to handle this week? 427 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:41,560 Speaker 1: Maybe perfect? 428 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 2: Do it? 429 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:42,840 Speaker 8: Yeah? 430 00:18:43,119 --> 00:18:45,479 Speaker 17: No, I think I'm in and I will not go 431 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 17: see this time. I swear. 432 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 2: Doug. 433 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,640 Speaker 6: Does anybody here know why the limu is called? It's 434 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:54,399 Speaker 6: limu emu? 435 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 2: Do you know why because it rhymes. No, it took 436 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:00,840 Speaker 2: me a long time. I figured it out. Liberty mute l. 437 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 1: I and li moule MoU that. 438 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 2: I like that. I like that. I like that a 439 00:19:08,000 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 2: lot too. And yeah, all right done. Thank you guys 440 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 2: for going on there with us. 441 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 11: Thank you. 442 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:16,239 Speaker 2: All right. 443 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:20,320 Speaker 6: That's second update with John rich on one four seven. 444 00:19:20,400 --> 00:19:23,119 Speaker 6: Kiss John JAYE Rich. We've been giving away tickets to 445 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:25,320 Speaker 6: Disneyland for the last couple of weeks. We do it 446 00:19:25,359 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 6: several times a year. It's an incredible, incredible prize. Everybody 447 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 6: loves Disneyland. It's the happiest place on Earth. And now 448 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 6: it's time for us to call the grand prize winner. Right, 449 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:35,960 Speaker 6: this is a big grand prize. We're gonna upgrade them. 450 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 2: So let us call nine one. 451 00:19:50,480 --> 00:20:10,760 Speaker 10: Okay, Hello, Hi is Diana. 452 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 2: There was this? This is John jay and Rich. 453 00:20:14,720 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: Oh hello, hi. 454 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:16,399 Speaker 2: Are you a teacher? 455 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 15: I'm a student teacher, So I'm in a classroom right now. 456 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,160 Speaker 2: Oh that is. 457 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 6: Everybody, and I can hear them all in there. Do 458 00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 6: you wanna you wanna? I have something really cool to 459 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 6: tell you? 460 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, no way, yeah, I want the class 461 00:20:30,960 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 2: to hear. Can you put it on the speakerphone. Will 462 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 2: can you interrupt the class? 463 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 15: Well, I can't right now because they're in the middle 464 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:38,640 Speaker 15: of like centers right now. 465 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:40,400 Speaker 5: I'm so sorry centers. 466 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,479 Speaker 2: It's centers centers where they're all doing a different thing 467 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:42,719 Speaker 2: at all. 468 00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 6: Oh okay, well, maybe you want to tell them that 469 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 6: you just won the Grand Prize at Disneyland. 470 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 7: Oh my god, no way. 471 00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's so exciting right now. 472 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 15: Thank you guys so much. 473 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:58,840 Speaker 2: So we are upgrading your tickets to the Grand Prize. 474 00:20:58,920 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 2: All right. 475 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 6: So it's at one of the hotels at Disneyland. You 476 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 6: get four three day, one park per day tickets and 477 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 6: two nights in the market parking two. 478 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 2: Look at that. Wow, Parking two. 479 00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:11,920 Speaker 11: That's amazing. 480 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 6: So congratulations Diana. And I'm glad you answered your phone 481 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:15,679 Speaker 6: in class. 482 00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:18,720 Speaker 2: But you can. You Canada up centers. You can answer 483 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:19,160 Speaker 2: your phone. 484 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 9: And also, like Diana doesn't want. 485 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: To like let them down because they didn't. 486 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 10: Oh, thank you guys so much. 487 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,359 Speaker 2: You got it. Congratulations. Hold on, we'll get some more 488 00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 2: information from you. Okay, okay, you're going to Disneyland. I 489 00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 2: don't know how you found us. 490 00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 3: I'm so thankful that. 491 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: It's John Jay and Rich. 492 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 2: So Valentine's Day. 493 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 6: What a beautiful, beautiful day, what a wonderful time, Angelina, 494 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 6: we want to get into Valentine's Day horror stories. 495 00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,480 Speaker 2: I believe you have one. 496 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 15: Oh yeah, I have a nightmare one. Then okay, uh 497 00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 15: So we go to dinner and I I've been him 498 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 15: with this guy for a little over two years, and 499 00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,800 Speaker 15: he proposes and it's beautiful. It's like a really you know, 500 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,800 Speaker 15: gorgeous setting. We get champagne, everybody's like cheering. It's a 501 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 15: very sweet Hallmark movie level moment. Obviously, I said yes, 502 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 15: and I start looking at my ring as he goes 503 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 15: to put it on my finger, and I'm like, oh, 504 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,800 Speaker 15: this doesn't only look familiar because we had looked at 505 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 15: rings together, right, like he knew what shape, I liked, 506 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 15: what color band, all of that, And I kind of 507 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 15: wait for the waiter to leave and making sure that 508 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 15: it's just where he and I can hear this conversation 509 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 15: because I'm not trying to hurt his feelings, but I'm like, 510 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 15: you know, hey, maybe like this ring doesn't really look familiar. 511 00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,199 Speaker 15: Where did you get it? Because it doesn't look like 512 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 15: any of the places or the rings that we try on, 513 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:52,919 Speaker 15: and That's where things hed to go downhill quickly. The 514 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,080 Speaker 15: ring was what he picked out for his ex that 515 00:22:56,119 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 15: he never proposed how yeah, And I genuinely was like, wow, 516 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 15: how do I get out of this restaurant before I 517 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:10,359 Speaker 15: have a meltdown? 518 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 17: Uh? 519 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,480 Speaker 15: So we had a conversation about it afterwards, and unfortunately 520 00:23:16,480 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 15: broke up because he did not see. 521 00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 16: What was wrong. 522 00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,600 Speaker 2: Wow, broke up. 523 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 15: I understand why he didn't understand why I was upset 524 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 15: that he reused a ring from another woman. 525 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: I mean, we know what your side is, what's his side? 526 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: Just that I'm saving money, uh, kind. 527 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 15: Of saving money, but also like in his mind he 528 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 15: had picked out the ring already for the person who 529 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 15: was going to be his future wife, And I'm like, yeah, 530 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:43,160 Speaker 15: but you picked that out when you were with another woman. 531 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 15: He was like, well, but I never actually proposed to her. 532 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:51,639 Speaker 17: And I'm like, what, I wouldn't be okay with that? 533 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:52,520 Speaker 2: I don't know. 534 00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 6: I think I feel like you have to give guys 535 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 6: a little bit of like dumb credit, like they're dumb, 536 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,120 Speaker 6: Like he's probably not looking at it through that point, 537 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 6: like if you truly truly love him and he truly 538 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:08,480 Speaker 6: truly loves you, this is a bump you can get over. 539 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:09,520 Speaker 2: Because guys are. 540 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 9: Sing it and he still doesn't get it. It's like, okay, 541 00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 9: a bag of rocks over here. 542 00:24:15,119 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 6: But if you truly truly love him, and you love 543 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 6: him and he's the guy for you and she's the 544 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 6: girl for you, this is a simple bump to get over. 545 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,879 Speaker 2: I'm so stupid. I bought this ring a long the 546 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,119 Speaker 2: top of guy. You know. I'm sorry. It was a 547 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,800 Speaker 2: perfect there's just just a guy for me. 548 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 9: Wouldn't give me a ring he bought for another woman. 549 00:24:33,520 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 4: At the very least, go get the stone reset, you know. 550 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:42,480 Speaker 4: And and I get not wanting to buy a whole 551 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:46,920 Speaker 4: new rink because they're expensive, right, But somehow he could 552 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,199 Speaker 4: try to put in some effort to make it just 553 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 4: for her, and. 554 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:51,680 Speaker 1: None of that was offered. 555 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 2: So I'm saying there's stuff that's obvious, but guys are stupid. Yeah, 556 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 2: that's what I'm saying. 557 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:56,879 Speaker 6: That I feel bad for you, But like if you 558 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,440 Speaker 6: guys haven't spoken since then and it's been over, then 559 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,640 Speaker 6: you clearly meant for each other. Like if this, if 560 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 6: you guys were truly meant for each other, both of 561 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 6: you would fight to get over this time. There's a 562 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,320 Speaker 6: lot bigger issues in marriage than this. So to me, 563 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 6: I think you guys would buy you know, maybe we 564 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 6: could debate over it. Eight seven seven ninety three seven 565 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 6: one oh four seven What do you guys? I'm sure 566 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 6: all the women are gonna be like on your side, 567 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:19,159 Speaker 6: and I'm trying to do this. 568 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 4: The reaction that I can get what like, what was 569 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:22,679 Speaker 4: his reaction? 570 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 1: It just was not responsive? Oh just get it. 571 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 15: Did not even understand why I was upset. And we'd 572 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 15: already looked at other rings together, like whole other rings. 573 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,880 Speaker 1: That's weird too, because so here's what you think would 574 00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: happen is to be like, you know, you don't need 575 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: to look at rings, I'm gonna, I'm gonna. I've already 576 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: got one picked out. 577 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,960 Speaker 2: So if you that's how dummy is said that. 578 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:45,639 Speaker 1: So did you break up with him? Or did he 579 00:25:45,680 --> 00:25:47,360 Speaker 1: say I'm not buying a new ring. This is it? 580 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:48,840 Speaker 1: Take it or leave it? Who broke up with you? 581 00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 15: I mean, honestly, the conversation went on for like two 582 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 15: and a half days, and it was usual at that 583 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 15: point we were like, okay, clearly, if you're not understanding 584 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 15: why I'm upset about this, what happened when something else, 585 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 15: you know, bigger, happens down the road. Are you gonna 586 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 15: say that I'm ridiculous for being upset about whatever that 587 00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 15: is too? 588 00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 12: You know, I'm with you. 589 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:11,159 Speaker 2: I agree, all right? 590 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:15,159 Speaker 6: Well, thank you Angelina. That is a horror story on 591 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,120 Speaker 6: Valentine's Day for sure that he didn't expect. 592 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 2: Well, thank you for calling in Ken. 593 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,479 Speaker 6: Thanks guys eight seven, seven, nine three seven, one oh 594 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 6: four seven, just you know, what would you do? What 595 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,080 Speaker 6: are your thoughts on this whole SNAr? 596 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:30,560 Speaker 16: It's all Brian, Hey, guys, have it going good? 597 00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 2: What happened to you? Man? 598 00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 8: So I was. 599 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 16: Seeing this girl for like a month or two, and 600 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,239 Speaker 16: you know, Valentine's Day rolls around and I wake up 601 00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 16: that morning to a really sweet Valentine's Day text from her. 602 00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:46,359 Speaker 16: You know, it's like a paragraph. It's really sweet, and I, 603 00:26:46,600 --> 00:26:48,760 Speaker 16: you know, open up the text to respond to it, 604 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,160 Speaker 16: and I noticed that it's actually a group chat with 605 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 16: two other numbers in it, and you know, people start. 606 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 16: A couple of other numbers are responding like what's this, 607 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,960 Speaker 16: what's going on? And it's two other guys that she 608 00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:07,199 Speaker 16: was also seeing at the same time, and she sent 609 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:13,400 Speaker 16: us all the same text. So yeah, I'm. 610 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: Like, how do you do that? 611 00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 2: Well? 612 00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,119 Speaker 9: Did she purposely do it? Was she like, hey, guys, 613 00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 9: Happy Valentine's Day or like my life? Yeah, you know 614 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 9: what I mean? 615 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean I just like can't believe she like 616 00:27:26,119 --> 00:27:27,719 Speaker 16: sent us all the same text. 617 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 4: Maybe she was trying to introduce a quadruple, you know, 618 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:33,120 Speaker 4: throwing it out there. 619 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 9: You guys all means so much to me individually. 620 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: But you guys thought you thought you were exclusive, or 621 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:43,239 Speaker 1: because you said it was pretty early on. 622 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 16: I mean, we haven't had the conversation, but like putting 623 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 16: me in a group chext with like her other two guys. 624 00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:53,120 Speaker 6: Nah, was she like, Okay, Brian, I'll see you from 625 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 6: six to eight and then Dave, I'll see you from 626 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,679 Speaker 6: age thirty to nine thirty in carl tonight's the big night. 627 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 2: I'm spending the night with you. Happy Valentine's Day, all 628 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:04,320 Speaker 2: three of you. That's bad. 629 00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 16: You know, looking back, it probably was like that. 630 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:08,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, brother, thanks for calling it, man, have 631 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,360 Speaker 6: a great day, Thanks for listening. Thanks guys, more from you. 632 00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 2: Next, John Jay Rich Rich Jah Jay Rich. 633 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 6: So Angelia gets proposed to, which is a great moment, 634 00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:23,639 Speaker 6: but the ring belonged to his ex Sabrina, Good morning. 635 00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:25,360 Speaker 6: What are your thoughts of this ring situation? 636 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 18: Okay, good morning, good morning. So yeah, so my thoughts 637 00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,680 Speaker 18: on this is I just think it's bad juju all 638 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 18: the way. I don't think it was very considerate of 639 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:42,080 Speaker 18: him at all. I think what he should have done 640 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,840 Speaker 18: was so his ex wife or his ex fiance wore 641 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 18: that ring and picked it out together with him at 642 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 18: a jewelry store. Right, right, there's probably something that she 643 00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 18: really wanted and that she loved, and now she has 644 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:56,240 Speaker 18: and now he has a new fiance, and he expects 645 00:28:56,280 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 18: her to wear the same exact ring even though she 646 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 18: didn't pick it out. It's the concept of it, Like 647 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 18: he didn't even listen to what she wanted in the 648 00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 18: first place, and he just decided that he was going 649 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 18: to give her an old ring that he had purchased 650 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:08,320 Speaker 18: for a different woman. 651 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:08,680 Speaker 2: Right. 652 00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,680 Speaker 6: But I'm saying, guys make Guys are stupid, they make mistakes. 653 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 6: They're like, it's the meaning behind the ring that who 654 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 6: was for. 655 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:17,760 Speaker 4: I'm not excusing it, but the meaning behind the ring 656 00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 4: was for someone else. 657 00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 2: But guys are stupid. They don't know. 658 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 4: Exactly shouldn't be that he put up the brick wall. 659 00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 1: At the very least when she said this is not 660 00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 1: what I want. He could consider taking it back to 661 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 1: the jewelry store, getting your you're going to get most 662 00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,960 Speaker 1: of your money back for the diamond, then you go 663 00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,840 Speaker 1: pick out something else together. But they broke out. 664 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 18: Exactly, he could have went to a jewelry store, gotten 665 00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,480 Speaker 18: the value of the ring, and traded in the ring 666 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 18: and got her something that really meant something to her. 667 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 18: He didn't listen to what his new fiance wanted at all. 668 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,280 Speaker 18: In fact, I bet she showed him pictures and was 669 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 18: excited about something that she really liked, and then she 670 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 18: ends up finding out that he gave it to another 671 00:29:58,360 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 18: woman previously. 672 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 13: I don't know. 673 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 18: I thought it was very suspicious, very it was just 674 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 18: it's not good. I think that what he should have done. 675 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 18: I don't know he should First of all, how did 676 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 18: she find out that he was engaged with another woman 677 00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,520 Speaker 18: with that same ring. 678 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,360 Speaker 1: He admitted to it because he didn't think there was 679 00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: exactly That's what I'm saying. 680 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 2: Didn't getting was wrong there. He was stupid, all right, Sabrina. 681 00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 2: I appreciate your comments. Thank you for listening. 682 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 18: Yeah, no problem has a good date. 683 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,520 Speaker 2: By Sophie, your thoughts on this ring thing? 684 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:35,000 Speaker 12: So, you know, I think that she should really sit 685 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 12: down and talk with him and tell him how she feels. 686 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 12: Even though yes, the ring is just the ring is 687 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 12: the thought behind it. So she tells him, like a 688 00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 12: when we look at this ring together, he thinks of 689 00:30:49,200 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 12: his ex. He thinks of his ex. You know they should. 690 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 12: He should really take her feelings into account and sell 691 00:30:58,560 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 12: that one and go buy a new one. 692 00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 1: I don't even know why did they go ring shopping together? 693 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: If he was playing on the waste of time. 694 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:06,520 Speaker 9: That's the thing. 695 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 1: It's confusing. 696 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 4: That's where it's like, it's not that he was stupid, 697 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 4: it was he was lazy, right, he was lazy. It's like, yeah, 698 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 4: we did, I took her shopping, but I still have 699 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 4: this ring, so I don't need to go. 700 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 2: I don't need to do anything. 701 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 6: We have. 702 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:18,280 Speaker 2: Guys are stupid. 703 00:31:18,560 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 12: That's what I needs. But she also really shouldn't make 704 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 12: a big fuss over it, because it does sound like 705 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,120 Speaker 12: he's almost trying to just blow it off, like he 706 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 12: doesn't want to take responsibility for Yeah, I had this 707 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 12: ring in the drawer. I'm just going to give it 708 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 12: to you because I want to marry you. So it's 709 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:41,520 Speaker 12: the thought behind it. He should really understand it, you know. 710 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 2: Here here's the Texas says. It says, get over it. 711 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,480 Speaker 6: After you guys break up, you both will pick other 712 00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 6: people who do it again to do it again. 713 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:53,000 Speaker 2: So who cares go with him? 714 00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 6: Traded and go with him. You do it and pick 715 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 6: pick the ring you want. Most jewelers will take this. 716 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 6: We'll do that. 717 00:31:58,640 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 12: Yep, that's what they should do. 718 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 6: Let him know that it means maybe nothing to him, 719 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 6: but to you it does. Then together, sell the ring, 720 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 6: use that money towards one you both pick. These are 721 00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 6: all good options. 722 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: They're good. But he has to be open to that too, 723 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: and he just wasn't. He was like that guy was like, no, no, 724 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,440 Speaker 1: I already got a ring. I paid for it. What's 725 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 1: the difference? And then he shut it down new ringance? Yeah, 726 00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 1: all right, all right, I have a great day. Thanks 727 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 1: for calling in, Sophie. 728 00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 12: Thank you. 729 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 6: Here's what Hanna says. My husband had an engagement ring 730 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,920 Speaker 6: from his ex. He traded it in and bought the 731 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 6: perfect ring for when he proposed to me. Your fiance 732 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 6: definitely should not have given you the same ring. It's 733 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 6: not about the actual ring. It's the effort put forth. 734 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,239 Speaker 6: The love of my life proposed to me with a 735 00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 6: wet sock. If the love of my life we proposed 736 00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 6: to be with wet sock, I'd be happy. The ring 737 00:32:46,720 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 6: is not that important. So many different points of view 738 00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:49,120 Speaker 6: on this thing. 739 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 9: I bet you if she was proposed to with a 740 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 9: wet sock, I bet you she would. 741 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 11: Have loved that. 742 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:54,800 Speaker 3: But it's the fact that. 743 00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:55,800 Speaker 2: It's the exes ring. 744 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 4: What if this was the ex is wet sock. 745 00:32:58,080 --> 00:33:01,280 Speaker 9: Then that would not be Okay? 746 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 2: Can you put a bow on this? There you go? 747 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:06,800 Speaker 2: All right, happy Valentine today, John Dane Rich, Oh cool, 748 00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 2: your scanner stopped. 749 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 1: It's John, Jay and Rich. 750 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:10,040 Speaker 2: All right. 751 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:11,680 Speaker 6: We are looking for Contesta to play a minute to 752 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,280 Speaker 6: win it? Hey, Nancy, how are you? 753 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 5: I'm doing good? 754 00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 13: How are you all right? 755 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 2: So you think you can handle this minute to win 756 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,320 Speaker 2: it game? Huh? 757 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:21,000 Speaker 17: I hope? 758 00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:24,239 Speaker 6: So, okay, we're giving you a minute to what one 759 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:26,040 Speaker 6: thousand dollars of Paddickey's money. 760 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:28,080 Speaker 13: Okay, sounds good. 761 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 2: All right, here we go. 762 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,440 Speaker 1: Good luck to you. Sixty seconds starts right now. In 763 00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,320 Speaker 1: what city would you find the Eiffel Tower? 764 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 18: Carris. 765 00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:43,720 Speaker 1: What color is a ruby red? Louis Hamilton? Lewis Hamilton 766 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,400 Speaker 1: is a race car driver said to be dating whom 767 00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:47,120 Speaker 1: right now? 768 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,680 Speaker 13: Louie Hamilton is dating some one. 769 00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 1: Lewis Hamilton, race car driver? 770 00:33:58,400 --> 00:33:58,600 Speaker 4: Oh? 771 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 8: Uh uh? 772 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 12: Kim Kardashi? 773 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 1: In computing? What does USB stand for? 774 00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 18: Universal? 775 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,320 Speaker 5: Of universal? 776 00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:19,880 Speaker 6: Uh? 777 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 17: Cereal bus? 778 00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: What element has the atomic number nineteen? 779 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 4: Thanky? 780 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:28,880 Speaker 13: Thank you that? 781 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 17: Oh my gosh, I totally know that. 782 00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:37,400 Speaker 15: Uh it is potassium? 783 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,280 Speaker 1: What did he say? Potassium? It is not his gold 784 00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 1: it is. 785 00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 9: I don't think the third grader would be able to 786 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:46,960 Speaker 9: get the USB. 787 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:47,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, they might not. 788 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 2: Be, but these aren't third are This isn't all you 789 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:51,840 Speaker 2: smarter than that? 790 00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:54,160 Speaker 9: You have said that that seventh grade? 791 00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:55,319 Speaker 2: Oh, seventh grade. 792 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:56,879 Speaker 9: I don't think a seventh grader would get that either. 793 00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,880 Speaker 15: But do you see atomic number nineteen? 794 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,279 Speaker 1: Yeah? 795 00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 13: Are you sure it's not potassia? 796 00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:05,240 Speaker 2: Well, it doesn't matter out of time? 797 00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:09,920 Speaker 13: Oh darn it, that's fine. How many dear are you 798 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 13: supposed to get? 799 00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're supposed to get ten. How many did you get? 800 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:15,319 Speaker 16: Bye? 801 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 2: Three? 802 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,359 Speaker 4: She technically got five because when I google atomic number 803 00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:20,799 Speaker 4: nineteen it does say potassium. 804 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 2: Oh it does. 805 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,719 Speaker 1: And she was mine is seventy nine. Sorry I read 806 00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 1: it wrong. Jesus my god. Well yeah, but you would 807 00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: have run out of time anyway. 808 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:31,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess. 809 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,280 Speaker 15: Well, thank you so much for letting me try. 810 00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 2: You gotta dancy, you have a great day. Thanks for listening. 811 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:36,399 Speaker 12: Thank you. 812 00:35:36,760 --> 00:35:39,799 Speaker 6: Bye. I like when the contestants are making it seem 813 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 6: like they're thinking, but they're really googling. You would I 814 00:35:45,440 --> 00:35:47,200 Speaker 6: didn't know you as b a USB stood for. I 815 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:51,160 Speaker 6: would have been out right, awhile, well done. Yeah, all right, 816 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:51,719 Speaker 6: we'll try to. 817 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 2: Get tomorrow and rich. So you know it's still Do 818 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,000 Speaker 2: you still say a new year to people? Happy New Year? 819 00:35:57,080 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 6: No, right, no you don't, but it's still a new year. 820 00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 6: Like I actually wrote the wrong datedown the other day. 821 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,400 Speaker 6: A couple of days ago. I was like, by not 822 00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 6: twenty three, it's. 823 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:08,840 Speaker 1: Jarring twenty three. That's twenty sixteen in a odd people's worlds, 824 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 1: But I think it's I think it's jarring when you 825 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:12,760 Speaker 1: hear a happy new year. Now you're like, whoa, yeah. 826 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 4: Whoa, it's definitely not a new year anymore. 827 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,320 Speaker 1: Somebody asked me about our holiday vacation, like that was 828 00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 1: a long time ago. 829 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,120 Speaker 2: Oh my god, somebody asked me about how was your Christmas? 830 00:36:20,840 --> 00:36:24,400 Speaker 1: WHOA, Yeah, whoa, I can't remember Christmas. 831 00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 6: Well, if you're trying to stress less in twenty twenty six, 832 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 6: this is a cheat sheet that people saying. It's I 833 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 6: guess there's a lot of stress going on in the world, 834 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 6: so this is a cheat sheet to stress less responding 835 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,720 Speaker 6: to text as soon as possible. Stop caring about this stuff. 836 00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 6: These are things to stop caring about. One person said 837 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 6: they intentionally wait now because they don't want to establish 838 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:46,319 Speaker 6: an expectation. 839 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:48,799 Speaker 2: You say, like, there's some people. 840 00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,680 Speaker 6: That I don't return text to right away, and then 841 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 6: I'll be like, I'll get to it later, and then 842 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,879 Speaker 6: I do the old Oh I just saw this. 843 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 4: It does set an expectation, though, because like usually when 844 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,319 Speaker 4: I text my niece, she texts back right away, and 845 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,839 Speaker 4: if she didn't, I'd be like, what's going on? 846 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,479 Speaker 2: She usually texts back right away, right, You gotta stop 847 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 2: caring about that. 848 00:37:05,160 --> 00:37:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's certain people that you have to text 849 00:37:07,080 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 1: back right away or they will hold it over your 850 00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:09,439 Speaker 1: head forever. 851 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 3: John Jay, Yeah, that is so true. 852 00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 2: These are things to stop caring about in twenty twenty six. 853 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 6: So keeping up with people you grew up with a 854 00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,799 Speaker 6: grou apart from it's okay to cut and run if 855 00:37:18,800 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 6: it seemed like work now or if you don't have 856 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:21,680 Speaker 6: much in common. 857 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:24,000 Speaker 2: I get that sports. 858 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,360 Speaker 6: Keep watching, just don't be so invested on what do 859 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,080 Speaker 6: they win or lose. That's a hard one, I think. 860 00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,760 Speaker 1: I know, especially like for most. 861 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:31,160 Speaker 2: People, not for me. 862 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 9: It's fun to be like engaged with something. 863 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:37,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's also fun to watch something and whoever wins 864 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: it's fine. Yo, that's good too. Yeah. Just less stress. 865 00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,719 Speaker 6: Yeah, these are things to help you be less stressful 866 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 6: this year. Trendy clothes. As long as my clothes are clean, 867 00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 6: I don't care. Don't worry about trendy clothes. 868 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I feel like you might be more stressed 869 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:54,799 Speaker 4: if you don't feel good in what you're wearing. 870 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 6: Other people's opinions of you. Peyton, stop worrying about that. 871 00:37:58,880 --> 00:37:59,440 Speaker 9: It's hard. 872 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 6: I actually feel like I am getting better with that, 873 00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 6: making good time on the road. 874 00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 2: This is a tough one for me. 875 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 1: No, I mean you should you should care about that. 876 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, getting peer pressured into going out screw fomo, stay 877 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,919 Speaker 6: in and watch Netflix. What it says buying a house? 878 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:18,319 Speaker 6: God so hard? A lot of people would rather stop 879 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:20,120 Speaker 6: stressing and just be happy where they are. Yeah, that's 880 00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 6: good too. And things you can't control, there's no use 881 00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,279 Speaker 6: stressing over stuff you can't do anything about. But it's 882 00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:26,000 Speaker 6: a tough one. Everyone does it. Those are things you 883 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 6: can't control. Those are things to kind of let go 884 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,759 Speaker 6: this year in twenty twenty six. All right, So if 885 00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:33,319 Speaker 6: you got any more, choose a text eight seven seven 886 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,480 Speaker 6: nine three seven one to four seven or JJR text 887 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 6: JJR would you want to say to ninety six eight nine. 888 00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:44,440 Speaker 14: You're broadcasting live across the world right now. This is 889 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,920 Speaker 14: the John Jay and Rich radio program.