WEBVTT - She's Jealous of Grandma 

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<v Speaker 1>In the morning. Didn't you do a topic last week

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<v Speaker 1>that pissed off your mom? Yeah? You want to do

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<v Speaker 1>another topic here right now that's gonna piss her off

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<v Speaker 1>even more. This isn't gonna be worse though, because she

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<v Speaker 1>told me don't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to say I thought she said please don't.

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<v Speaker 3>We talked about it was in a driveway. My grandma

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<v Speaker 3>was there, and I'll tell the mom, like I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 3>do this time. But she's like, Kevin, please don't. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't care.

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<v Speaker 1>Can we can we call her and get herund there.

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<v Speaker 1>She does not want to be caught. She does not

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<v Speaker 1>want to be She likes me though, doesn't she like me? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but she don't. She doesn't like this conversation.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Well, and that's another thing, like people in our

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<v Speaker 3>life got to realize, y'all can't only be glazed, so

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<v Speaker 3>to speak, Like people always want to be put on

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<v Speaker 3>pedestals for the trophy moments, but never for the moments

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<v Speaker 3>that they feel as though they don't aren't viewed in

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<v Speaker 3>the best.

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<v Speaker 1>She only wants to be talking about when it's in

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<v Speaker 1>a very positive situation, and it ain't that.

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<v Speaker 3>And hopefully there are other people out there who will

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<v Speaker 3>call in and admit if they have dealt with similar situations,

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<v Speaker 3>or I would even like to hear from a mother

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<v Speaker 3>or a grandmother that maybe sees themselves on what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>So I had a conversation with my mom, and first off,

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<v Speaker 3>let me say this, I absolutely love my mom, and

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<v Speaker 3>my mom doesn't feel as though that I articulate that

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<v Speaker 3>to the masses as much as I do other people.

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<v Speaker 3>But I am not who I am if it wasn't

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<v Speaker 3>for my mom. When my dad was locked up. My

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<v Speaker 3>mom did above and beyond to make sure that we

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<v Speaker 3>still had a connection with my dad, his entire side

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<v Speaker 3>of the family. She took us on trips, took us

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<v Speaker 3>to visit him. She's always worked her off, worked her

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<v Speaker 3>butt up, has always allowed me to do the things

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<v Speaker 3>that I wanted to do in life, acting, taking me

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<v Speaker 3>to auditions, all the things, like I am who I am,

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<v Speaker 3>and largely because of my mom. But I love my grandma, Grandmama,

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<v Speaker 3>which is her mom, Okay, And I love my It's

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<v Speaker 3>Josiah and my Grandma. Those are my two favorite people

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<v Speaker 3>in the world. And my mom is right there. She's

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<v Speaker 3>like it's like the father's son, Holy Trinity. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>want to put, you know, one before the other, but

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<v Speaker 3>you know there is an order, if I.

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<v Speaker 1>Gotta say so.

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<v Speaker 3>So maybe that wasn't the best analogy, but I love

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<v Speaker 3>my grandmother so much, and I do believe my mom

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<v Speaker 3>is jealous of the relationship that I have with my grandmother,

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<v Speaker 3>and it shows my boy oh Mari Sankofi, I think

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<v Speaker 3>he worked for the Free Press, but O Mario had

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<v Speaker 3>did an article on me when the Pistons were in

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<v Speaker 3>the playoffs. And in the article, since it's a sports article,

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<v Speaker 3>I talk about my love for sports where it came from,

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<v Speaker 3>and largely it is because of my grandmother, who set

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<v Speaker 3>me down. We watched all of the sports, all the things.

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<v Speaker 3>I read my mom the entire article. The first thing

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<v Speaker 3>she says is, I guess she ain't say nothing about me,

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<v Speaker 3>just say something about your grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was the straw that bro. Did you even

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<v Speaker 1>say anything about your mom? I did it. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>for this article isn't about her. She doesn't. She's not through.

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<v Speaker 3>She's my love for sports. The reason why I was

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<v Speaker 3>bringing up my grandma is because it was the right

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<v Speaker 3>place in time for that, and the first thing, my

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<v Speaker 3>mom is like, Okay, here your grandma and she always

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<v Speaker 3>got so maybe don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Make her voice sound like that she's jealous because she

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<v Speaker 1>won to have that close of a relationship with you,

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<v Speaker 1>or she wants to have that close of a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with her mother.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think it's either of it. They have an

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<v Speaker 3>amazing relationship. My mom and I have an amazing relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's just that I don't know, if.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, some people like if they don't get love,

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<v Speaker 3>then they got a problem with it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like it's a little bit of it.

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<v Speaker 2>You always want to be your kid's favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say that I always want to be a

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<v Speaker 1>majority of relationships. So grandma's are different though. Grandparents well,

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<v Speaker 1>because mom says no, grandma says yes, and so there's

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<v Speaker 1>a level of grandma doesn't have to yeah, discipline you.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I say.

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<v Speaker 2>Is I do think like in this situation, I'm trying

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<v Speaker 2>to put myself in this situation, and if like Lucy

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<v Speaker 2>did a school paper on my mom, I don't think, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't be as hurt as if she did the

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<v Speaker 2>paper on her dad.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's my mom. Yeah, I don't. I remember when

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<v Speaker 1>Joey was born. I remember that Chelsea's mom, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>was Joey's everything, and I could tell you that I

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<v Speaker 1>think it did affect Chelse at first because he would cry,

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<v Speaker 1>and he would cry for his grandma. He wouldn't cry

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<v Speaker 1>for his mom, And so there was a level of

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<v Speaker 1>that this isn't old, you know, a case of grandma's

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<v Speaker 1>older you know here, and you know keV does. By

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<v Speaker 1>the way, his grandmother is the matriarch of that family absolute.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that your mom sees that the hierarchy

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<v Speaker 1>is Queen Elizabeth or Queen Grandmama. And then she's still

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<v Speaker 1>a princess and she's you know, we.

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<v Speaker 3>Love Princess Diana Doll like my mom is amazing. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just I love my grandma a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe you should not. By the way, does your

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<v Speaker 1>grandma liked that you'd say this? You know? So she

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<v Speaker 1>actually thinks.

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<v Speaker 3>We were in the driveway, bro, She's like, my mom like, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 3>My Grandma's like, but it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is his truth, is his truth, Oh my God? And love.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's not that I don't love my mom, and

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<v Speaker 3>I think I don't know what it is. Just sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>by saying you love somebody else doesn't mean you don't

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<v Speaker 3>love the other person.

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<v Speaker 1>How would your mom feel if, because I know, for

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<v Speaker 1>a while you and your dad did not have the

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<v Speaker 1>greatest of relationships with each other, How would your mom

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<v Speaker 1>feel if she came in third to you to betray Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because she for so long? How long would your dad? Probably?

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<v Speaker 1>Like five years? Wow, that's amazing. Think about that, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think about that all the time. Think about think

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<v Speaker 1>about if your spot, your spouse is gone for five years. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you're the breadwinner of the whole family, taking care of it.

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<v Speaker 1>She's making sure that your life doesn't seem any different,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, other than Dad is not there, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>keeping you guys together. I think you should put her

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<v Speaker 1>up on a higher pedestal than you. You love my

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<v Speaker 1>mom so much. That's my girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh just grandma's a little pedestals a little higher.

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<v Speaker 1>Steven. How you doing, Hey, I hear going. We're doing okay, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin is just pouring salt in the wound on his

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<v Speaker 1>mom today. What's going on? Well? Hey, I don't believe him. Man, Hey, Ken,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you something, bro.

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<v Speaker 4>I was raised about my grandmother too, bro, So my

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<v Speaker 4>grandmother literally took care of me. My mom tried to,

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<v Speaker 4>but she couldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>So just making you emotional to talk about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Huh do.

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<v Speaker 2>You sound like you're emotional talking about it?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>A little bit, you know. I mean my grandmother. Uh,

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<v Speaker 4>without her, I don't know where i'd be today.

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<v Speaker 1>So, and Grandma is still alive. Everything's okay, Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's still kicking. She's eighty nine years old. Grandma what

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<v Speaker 1>what's her name? Cardinal Carneal? Yep? Okay, shout out Grandma

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<v Speaker 1>car I knew that's hey, appreciate it. It's wonderful to

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<v Speaker 1>know that there is love for you know, the the generations.

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<v Speaker 1>But to go on the radio and say that you

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<v Speaker 1>love somebody more than another person, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>it is? My truth?

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<v Speaker 3>Bro?

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<v Speaker 1>What if what if Josiah? What if Josiah said that

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<v Speaker 1>he loves his mom more than he loves you? That's

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<v Speaker 1>that would be his truth. I can't be mad at

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<v Speaker 1>it if that's the case. That's secretly, wouldn't you be

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<v Speaker 1>like hate?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, do your thing? Bro? Who do you think

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<v Speaker 1>he loves more? Probably me?

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know he loves his mom. I think

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<v Speaker 3>the love is different he has like a I don't know,

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<v Speaker 3>it's almost like it's he naturally loves her more, but

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<v Speaker 3>like in real life, like he loves me.

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<v Speaker 1>YadA, what's up? YadA?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Joe, Hey, Kevin, everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>What's happening?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So my mom I have two boys and a girl.

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<v Speaker 3>My mom loved the boys and she always be calling

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<v Speaker 3>my songs her soon.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, that was not your son. And my sons.

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<v Speaker 3>And they loved their grandmother too, and they be my

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<v Speaker 3>mother And I'm like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your mother.

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<v Speaker 3>Like feeling some type.

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<v Speaker 1>Of way about that.

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<v Speaker 3>It's something about them grandma's and them boys. Man, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>telling you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, maybe that's where from.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I do be feeling some type of way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Have you ever been pissed off at your mom

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<v Speaker 1>and kept them away from your kids?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I would never do that. I couldn't do that.

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<v Speaker 3>They wouldn't let me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, that that would be horrible if you if

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<v Speaker 1>you did that. Amber, what's up? Amber? Hey? What's going on? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to say that I absolutely agree with Keppen.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it is, but my grandma just

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<v Speaker 3>gets that extra little you know, the actual little people

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<v Speaker 3>love more than my mom does.

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<v Speaker 4>And it doesn't mean that you love your mom even less.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I'm not just I'm telling you you

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<v Speaker 1>know what it is. Grandma's are fun. They're the fun parents,

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<v Speaker 1>so to speak. You know, they do all the fun.

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<v Speaker 1>They could be that like mom is.

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<v Speaker 3>She has a lot more on her plate to figure out,

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<v Speaker 3>like the responsibility of being there for you. And then

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<v Speaker 3>Grandma not that she just comes around and it's Christmas

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<v Speaker 3>all the time, but maybe it's a different.

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<v Speaker 1>I think about with the boys when they're around their grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>Their grandma has got energy and she's having fun and

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<v Speaker 1>she's excited to see them. Moms work their asses off.

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<v Speaker 1>They gotta clean, they gotta work for a living, They.

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<v Speaker 3>Got to do all their My grandma don't beat my

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<v Speaker 3>eyes too like a grand.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway I can. Does she still beat your ass? I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to see her. She's strong, But I'm gonna I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call her and ask her to discipline you for

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<v Speaker 1>the things that you say. Initial K wants to be

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<v Speaker 1>voice disguised. Why is that okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, just because other people are listeners as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Grandma's and moms.

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<v Speaker 5>I think like my mother, my mother and daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I just think this generation needs to be more consent.

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<v Speaker 1>They need to be what I'm sorry, said, cognizant of what.

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<v Speaker 5>Of other people's feelings, like their mother's feelings Kevin for.

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<v Speaker 3>Example, So tell me about your situation, because this is

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<v Speaker 3>a reason why you voice the Scott So what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>The reason why is because, like for example, for me,

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<v Speaker 5>my mother and daughter were very close, and I think grandma's,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, are spoiling people. You know, like as a kid,

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<v Speaker 5>your your mom, You're.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what grandma's are.

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<v Speaker 5>Meant from this as an adult, my mother helped my

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<v Speaker 5>daughter plan her wedding. Wasn't it wasn't me as much

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<v Speaker 5>as my mother and my daughter.

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<v Speaker 1>So grandma and daughter, Kevin? Yeah, let me so, let

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<v Speaker 1>me ask you a question. When your daughter got engaged,

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<v Speaker 1>who did she call first? You or grandma?

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<v Speaker 5>I think me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm now, you don't even know, ken, Who would be

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<v Speaker 1>your first phone call? If I got any age you got,

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<v Speaker 1>if you got some big news that you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>tell somebody, who would you call? My mom? Probably for sure? Okay, good,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good. Oh yeah, just go with it. We'll stay

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<v Speaker 1>with that, stay with that answer. I think that when

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<v Speaker 1>it comes to the priorities, we have to understand, a healthy,

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<v Speaker 1>loving relationship that you have with your grandmother is a

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<v Speaker 1>great thing for your mom to enjoy because that's her mom.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, Like it's healthy and even that,

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<v Speaker 1>though my.

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<v Speaker 3>Mom would try to take credit for that, I promise

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<v Speaker 3>you we ended the same conversation to draw is. She

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<v Speaker 3>was like, and you know why that relationship is there

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<v Speaker 3>because I took you, I took you over there. I'd

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<v Speaker 3>be like, dog like I gave her analogy. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's like an assist. Like the only way the assist

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<v Speaker 3>counse is if I score the goal, Like, yes, you

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<v Speaker 3>took me over there, but we developed our own relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, you know that, then you know what

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<v Speaker 1>you do. You go, you're right, mom, And then to

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<v Speaker 1>give her mom, I love it, I said she was right.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, you're absolutely right.

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<v Speaker 3>You provided the opportunity in the place, but I still

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<v Speaker 3>had we still have to develop a relationship on just

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<v Speaker 3>show you that why you got to have that.

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<v Speaker 1>Though. Listen, I will say this about Kevin. I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you have to have it though, because it

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<v Speaker 1>feeds her. Some people get fed by that. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>start yeah, can I can I say something to you?

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<v Speaker 1>The one thing for the listeners to understand about Kevin.

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin is an amazing son and an amazing grandson. Like

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff that he does for his mom and his

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<v Speaker 1>grandmother working, you know, all the jobs that he does

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff like that. He makes sure he takes care

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<v Speaker 1>of both of those ladies. I love him, but but

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<v Speaker 1>don't pit them against each other. I would never do that.

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<v Speaker 1>You just did on the radio.

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<v Speaker 4>No I did.

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<v Speaker 1>You said your grandmother you love more I do. This

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<v Speaker 1>is a new news. Everybody know that. Everybody know that that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want your mom to know that I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>mother lover and I love you more so gither way