1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Do you ever just out of nowhere? I don't want 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: to say out of nowhere, that makes it sound like 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: it's just like an impulse, but like whether you get 4 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: mad or frustrated or whatever? 5 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 2: Do you Why are you making a face at thing? 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 3: I was angry earlier, but I don't continue. 7 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 2: No, No, do you ever? Do you ever scream? 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 4: You know the answers to that, but not. 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 2: I don't mean scream like like you saw a ghost. 10 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: It could be like into a pillow. 11 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, like an express an expression of frustration. I remember 12 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,560 Speaker 5: what we're doing in our cars during COVID. 13 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,120 Speaker 1: Diane told us that she did what you would scream 14 00:00:45,159 --> 00:00:47,040 Speaker 1: in the car during COVID, like. 15 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 4: Just scream, yeah, just as a stress release. 16 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 2: Are you serious? I have no memory of it. You 17 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 2: remember her telling you that. 18 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 4: We then we were able to scream in the studio. 19 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 4: That was a bit no, but it was born out 20 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 4: of Diane admitting that she sometimes will just scream. 21 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: Was I in private? I don't think I did. I 22 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 2: screamed you. 23 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 4: I don't think you did either. 24 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: I don't think no, because I don't I don't scream. 25 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 4: This was Diane. 26 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 2: That's right. 27 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: You don't forget that about No, I now that you say, 28 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: now that you play it, I remember. 29 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 4: It took a second. Granted we're in and it's still yes, 30 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 4: we were broadcasting, but it was still just amongst us. 31 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 4: I don't think you're not just doing this on the sidewalk. No, 32 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 4: I would never do that in public. 33 00:01:36,360 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: Why just out of curiosity? 34 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,280 Speaker 4: Why because I would be embarrassed. 35 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 2: You'd be embarrassed to scream in public. 36 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 4: Unless I'm screaming for help. 37 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I need someone, but I just don't 38 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: want to be No. No, I'm not talking about yes, 39 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: like obviously, if if somebody got hurt, or if somebody 40 00:01:57,960 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: needed help, you would scream. 41 00:01:59,120 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: I understand that. 42 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: But like you're angry, you're frustrated, like whatever the emotion is. 43 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: Where you would be somewhere and in the car. I 44 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,079 Speaker 2: don't know why. During COVID you were screaming in the car. 45 00:02:10,160 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: I don't remember the but you were screaming, and either 46 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: you were frustrated or mad or it was just you. 47 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: You you had it up to here and you screamed. 48 00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: But you would never do that in public. No, do 49 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: you ever scream? 50 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 6: No. 51 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 3: When we were kids, if we were no, no, no, 52 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 3: oh no, if we felt we needed to scream. My 53 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 3: parents would say, go to your room and scream into 54 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 3: a pillow. So we would scream, but like, wait to 55 00:02:41,800 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 3: get your frustration out whatever you were angry about. 56 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,720 Speaker 2: Okay, but do you do you when did you stop 57 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 2: doing that? 58 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 7: I don't know, probably like junior high or something. 59 00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: So as an adult, you've never been so frustrated that 60 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: you scream? 61 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 2: I did? 62 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 7: I remember one time, but I did it in the car. 63 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 2: I was right. And why did you scream? 64 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 7: I don't want to get into it. 65 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 1: The no no popular spot though, the no no, but 66 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: I guess he is solitary. 67 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 4: Okay, this is This worked well with Dougie from the 68 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 4: Temper Trap. So try to free try to refreeze. The 69 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 4: question for Kristen. 70 00:03:15,200 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 2: No, no, no, I was were you upset? Were you angry? 71 00:03:19,200 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: Like I don't I don't need to know what the 72 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: I don't need to know what the what the what 73 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: the details are? But were you screaming and frustration? Were 74 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: you screaming in anger? Were you screaming in sadness? Were 75 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: you screaming in stress? Or was it all of the 76 00:03:33,240 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: above and you'd had it up to hear. 77 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 7: It was all of the the above. 78 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:37,960 Speaker 2: It was a boiling point. It was a boiling point. 79 00:03:38,040 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 4: Okay, I guess Kristen when we recorded our screams, Kristen 80 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:43,280 Speaker 4: was not with us yet. Now, no, she wasn't here 81 00:03:43,360 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 4: during COVID because I well not tail. Yeah whatever, because 82 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 4: I have three screams in the machine heredainly as the one. 83 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: But were was this you screaming or these just three 84 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: instances when you screamed? 85 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 4: One or two would have been from the day we 86 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 4: were were actually trying to capture a scream sound that 87 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 4: was that was me being scared. This one that was 88 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 4: me I think, trying to scream for the recording one 89 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 4: more time and then did I get it right the 90 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 4: third time? Third times? The time? Right? No, that's me 91 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 4: scared again. So two were scared screams? 92 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 2: One when was you trying to scream? You know what's 93 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: funny When you're trying to scream, it's low when you're 94 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 2: just caught off garden, you're scared. 95 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 4: It's an actual reaction. Yes, yeah, well I think that's 96 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: natural to shriek. 97 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 2: No, it's not actually to shriek. 98 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: And by the way, keep mine those two times it 99 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 1: was natural to shriek. 100 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 4: You were in here, I know. Yeah, I just weren't 101 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 4: from home videos. 102 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: I've never shrieked in here. 103 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 4: Well, you've never been startled. 104 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 3: Didn't that happen when the dog came in like tickled 105 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 3: your arm when we were up onto six? 106 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 2: Shrieked though I didn't. 107 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 4: I thought you like you didn't make annoyse. 108 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:08,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, it caught me off guard, Diane. 109 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 4: But you've tried to like set my face on fire. 110 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:19,160 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I shrieked for then. 111 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: That when you didn't. 112 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 1: That you never lit a lighter that I kept trying 113 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: to light it over by you. 114 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:27,159 Speaker 3: You streaked when I lit my taser in my boot 115 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 3: far away from ye. 116 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 2: In a different room. Well, yes, that is a different room. 117 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 4: But if her studio catches on fire, it's not a 118 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 4: good day. 119 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 2: Well, no kidding. 120 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 1: A lot of the you can say, if the building falls, 121 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: it's not a good day. There's a lot of things 122 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: you wish that plenty of times. 123 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 4: So I don't have Christen on uh, I. 124 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 2: Don't think so I couldn't do it. 125 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 4: See that was my problem. Diane was great, I can 126 00:05:57,320 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 4: go back to Diane's. Diane's was like, yeah. 127 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 7: Like I can yell, but I don't. I can't. 128 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,600 Speaker 1: No, no, No, that's different. That's different because like I definitely. 129 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: Have been mad or or angry. Some would say those 130 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 2: are very similar. 131 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: And I'll like, I've definitely been by myself or like 132 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: been at home and yell and yelled like as or 133 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: ass or something like that. But I've never but I 134 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: but I've I've yelled something. I've never just screamed that 135 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: I can think of. 136 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 2: Try it, dude, you want me to scream? Yeah, well 137 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 2: you got to back up. 138 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:38,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know how far back to. 139 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 2: Go, close to the close to the wall. Not being seriously, Kristen, 140 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 2: you're getting ready to scream. Why would you like way 141 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 2: to warm it up? That that's a good warm up. 142 00:06:57,360 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 4: That's really filled with emotion. 143 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 7: What if it hurts your ears? 144 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 4: It's not to think of a signal you give her 145 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 4: if you need her to back up more while she's screaming, 146 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,560 Speaker 4: because we don't know how long she's going to scream for. 147 00:07:15,640 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 2: H okay, is warming up? 148 00:07:19,800 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 4: Put some thoughts like feeling into it. She can't hear 149 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 4: yours because she doesn't have the headphones. 150 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was you may not be able to hear 151 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 2: them on Diane's You want my headphones. 152 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 4: You don't actually mind, just put one up to your here, 153 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 4: here we go. That was scary. 154 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 2: Oh she's screaming. 155 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:43,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, but it sounds like she's really scared. 156 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, good actor. 157 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 4: I wasn't scared. 158 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 2: I was pissed. I should have seen her during COVID 159 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: screaming at that windshield. 160 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 7: Okay, let me do a couple of tries. 161 00:07:56,600 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: No, that's horrible. 162 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 4: That's what they would ask you to do if you 163 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 4: were in a school play and you came across and 164 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 4: you're falling downstairs. 165 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 2: Yea, and what's what they had? Like? 166 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 4: You weren't letting something out and listen. I'm no person 167 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 4: to teach you. I struggled with this as well. But 168 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:23,840 Speaker 4: as your coach. If I were to be your coach, 169 00:08:24,000 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 4: I would say, like, get something out, don't just make 170 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 4: the sound. Express yourself. 171 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 7: You don't express myself. 172 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 2: But I really didn't. I didn't believe that. 173 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 7: I know I didn't either. 174 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 2: Oh God, you. 175 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 4: Gotta believe in yourself. I'm your life coach. 176 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 2: Come on, all right, try again, try again. 177 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 4: That's better. 178 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 2: No, it's not. 179 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 4: She's register now. 180 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 2: I'm trying because it's so high. Sounds like tyler. 181 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: No, it does it sounds like when you're shrieking. That's 182 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: how it sounds like you're pushing one out. 183 00:09:01,720 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 7: I thought it was going to squeak, went out there. 184 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 4: I don't know how to just scream. Her tone is 185 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 4: to clean. 186 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 1: You need to. 187 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 7: Scare me or something. Take me, oh, don't take me 188 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 7: to that Scary Mommy movie. 189 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 2: Okay, I can't scream. Yeah, no, that's good. 190 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 4: It's called other Scary Mommy is the website. 191 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 2: That's website. 192 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 4: But when Diane had so much like gravel in hers 193 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:31,760 Speaker 4: because she was she was letting some now feeling it 194 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 4: from her head to her toes. Okay, so let me 195 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 4: yours is only in your in your head? 196 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 2: What was yours? What was yours? 197 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 4: I mean, we don't play mine again? Was Halloween? 198 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 2: All right? Come on, let me think of something. 199 00:09:50,960 --> 00:09:53,120 Speaker 4: Because the three of us are here. What if you 200 00:09:54,559 --> 00:09:56,079 Speaker 4: close your eyes scream? 201 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:58,480 Speaker 2: Am I gonna do what? I couldn't do it? 202 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: I couldn't do it because I just I don't scream. 203 00:10:02,280 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 7: I don't either, I yell. 204 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: I do too, But that's completely different. But are there? 205 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:11,199 Speaker 2: Here's why I asked mentally, go somewhere. 206 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 4: Go to the you just said earlier. 207 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:17,319 Speaker 2: Today you were angry there, go back there to your room. 208 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 4: Not as angry to that moment. 209 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 7: Then then I would have. 210 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:27,840 Speaker 3: Yelled, there was an incident not long ago that made 211 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 3: me really angry there here. 212 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 2: Okay, Christian, I don't know what just because youre into. 213 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 7: The booth and yelled at you. 214 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,599 Speaker 2: I don't, I don't anyway. 215 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 7: Okay, let me try. 216 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 2: Don't look at me. 217 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: Better much better, much better, much better. That it's still 218 00:10:57,960 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 1: a little shriek. 219 00:10:58,840 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 7: I know. 220 00:10:59,720 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 2: But that's fine, that's fine. No, you don't need to 221 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: go higher. No, but that's good. That's good. You know, 222 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 2: there are people who like they do it on the regular. 223 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:15,559 Speaker 4: In their cars, just as. 224 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 2: Not just in their. 225 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 1: Cars, like there are people who will yes in their cars, 226 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 1: but there are people who will you know what you know, 227 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,400 Speaker 1: where it's a big one. People will be like when 228 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,520 Speaker 1: I say a bridge, I don't mean like the Woodrow 229 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: Wilson Bridge, but. 230 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:33,359 Speaker 2: Like what's the what Like what's the the Taft bridge. 231 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,920 Speaker 1: Which just goes over Rock Creek Park right, or like 232 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: just a small just like a small bridge. And again 233 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: it could be over like a small little piece of 234 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: water or over land whatever it is a lot of people. 235 00:11:48,080 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 2: So I was reading about you know, there's screen. 236 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 4: Clubs, oh where people do it together. Yeah, and screens 237 00:11:58,000 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 4: all averts faces. 238 00:11:59,520 --> 00:11:59,679 Speaker 2: Right. 239 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:04,760 Speaker 1: But it starts though with people who feel like a 240 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: sense of relief or like they're kind of centered again 241 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 1: by screaming. So a lot of people will scream. A 242 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: lot of people will scream towards water, like we don't 243 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:20,560 Speaker 1: live on the water. 244 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,199 Speaker 4: There's water close to all. 245 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: No, no, I'm saying, like, we don't live at the 246 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: beach where people will go, Like some people will go 247 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 1: to the beach when they're upset and they'll scream into. 248 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,360 Speaker 4: The ocean because it then waves muffle it a little bit. 249 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 2: I don't even think it's because of that. 250 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:41,040 Speaker 1: It's because you're screaming into like this vastness that's out there, 251 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: which is why like the kind of the bridge thing 252 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:46,440 Speaker 1: makes sense to me. I couldn't do it, but like 253 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 1: you're screaming into like the open vastness below the bridge, 254 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:56,720 Speaker 1: if that makes any sense. So that's what a lot 255 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: of people do. But then not everybody lives by the water, 256 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: not everybody lives by a bridge. 257 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:04,360 Speaker 2: But there are people who just go scream to feel better. 258 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, and they say it works, And so there's there's 259 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:12,480 Speaker 1: a couple out of Chicago who started a scream club. 260 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 2: And they invited people to join them. 261 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: I think they were on the like what is the 262 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: Lake Michigan That they were right on the banks of 263 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 1: Lake Lake Michigan. This isn't how it started, but they 264 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: invited people to come out to Lake Michigan and scream 265 00:13:27,160 --> 00:13:30,680 Speaker 1: with them, and like twenty people showed up and then. 266 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 4: Time, Yeah that's pretty good. It is a big city, 267 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 4: but that's a massive turnout. 268 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 8: Yeah. 269 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,959 Speaker 2: The second time was three hundred people. 270 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:40,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then the next and it kept growing and 271 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: growing and growing. 272 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:43,360 Speaker 2: They said at one point they did it. 273 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,959 Speaker 1: The whole beach of beach, the whole the whole waterfront 274 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 1: of Lake Michigan was lined with people who were just 275 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 1: there to scream, right and not. It's not like, hey, everybody, 276 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: we're gonna play. Everybody, bring your instrument, we're all gonna 277 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:59,839 Speaker 1: have this big group. We're all gonna play food fighters. 278 00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: So they just came to scream and that was it. 279 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:07,319 Speaker 1: So they've now all these scream clubs have popped up. 280 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: There's actually a meeting a scream meet up in DC 281 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: tonight tonight. Yeah, so there's a scream club in DC. Now, 282 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: I don't know how often they do it, but people 283 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: are doing it all the time. Now you don't need 284 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: to be in a club to do it. I just 285 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:29,160 Speaker 1: don't know anybody who screams. Maybe scream is a bad word. 286 00:14:29,360 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 2: Yell. 287 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 4: What do you call so you need to say scream? 288 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: Scream? Okay? 289 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: But it is people who are like, I have to 290 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:48,120 Speaker 1: get this and this could be anything from anger, sadness, annoyance, frustration. 291 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 1: I have to get this out of me, and I 292 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: feel better if I scream, Like I would love the 293 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: idea of being able to go in the backyard. Like, listen, 294 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: we all get frustrated, we all get angry, like we 295 00:15:03,640 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: all live with people, kids and whatever. Where you go outside, 296 00:15:07,920 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: you at times you hate them, so you go outside 297 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 1: you just want to scream and let it go. I 298 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: would love to be able to do that. Instead I 299 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: just go right at them and you're yelling yeah no, 300 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: which isn't If you could just scream and be done 301 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:22,880 Speaker 1: with it, you'd feel a thousand According to these people, 302 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: you'd feel a thousand times. 303 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:27,160 Speaker 4: Better tonight at five pm? 304 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:28,080 Speaker 2: Where am I going? 305 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:33,640 Speaker 4: Kingmen and Heritage Islands Park, Scream Club dot DC? 306 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 2: Where's that park. 307 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 4: I thought maybe you would be familiar with it. 308 00:15:39,880 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 3: Do they have to like alert law enforcement if there's 309 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 3: something a lot of screaming? 310 00:15:45,560 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 4: You don't think that would be alarming? 311 00:15:47,840 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 5: Or I mean, what about just people who maybe passers by, 312 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:53,760 Speaker 5: who would hear a bunch of people screaming at. 313 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 2: Not alerting anybody. It's right near arf k oh okay 314 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 2: there you go, Oh well, you know what we're used 315 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 2: to it. 316 00:16:04,960 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 1: There. 317 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:08,520 Speaker 4: So attendees will check in with the club leader and 318 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 4: confirm their waiver is completed. 319 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 2: What waiver? What do I have to sign? I'm screaming? 320 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 7: Maybe ear damage or something? 321 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 2: Oh my god, Karen. 322 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: By the way, I love their saying breathe, release connect. 323 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 4: It's a warm, welcoming space. We're setting in an attention 324 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:28,440 Speaker 4: to get to. 325 00:16:28,400 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: Find me somebody who screams like I guarantee you there's 326 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: somebody who's like, oh, I scream up not all the time, 327 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: but when. 328 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 2: I get angry. 329 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 1: So perhaps on this eight six six to Elliott eight 330 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:41,560 Speaker 1: six six two three five five four six eight. 331 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 4: On this event, right, they have the information on the waiver, 332 00:16:45,600 --> 00:16:48,680 Speaker 4: but I don't have the details on the Chicago club. 333 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 2: And look at how many people are there. 334 00:16:50,320 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 4: But there's a DM. I moved to Illinois in November, 335 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:56,200 Speaker 4: and I hate my life here, so quite often I 336 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 4: scream into a towel when I'm getting out of the 337 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 4: shower to help me feel better. Can we send her 338 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 4: the info on the Chicago Scream Club? 339 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, or she can look it up. Looks 340 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 1: like she got a smartphone. 341 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 2: Why does she She's being very vulnerable, but I want 342 00:17:16,040 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 2: to know why. Why does she hate her life so much? 343 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:20,800 Speaker 4: Maybe it's not what she expected. 344 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 2: It takes a little bit of time. 345 00:17:23,000 --> 00:17:27,920 Speaker 4: Maybe when I read Illinois and think Chicago, it's not Chicago. 346 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 1: So she could be out in the middle of nowhere. 347 00:17:28,800 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 1: Let yeah, that could be Do a lot of people 348 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: do a lot? Did I not give the number? 349 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 2: Sorry? 350 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:36,920 Speaker 1: Kristin eight six six to Elliott eight six six two 351 00:17:36,920 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 1: three five five four six eight. I keep talking about it, 352 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: like going outside and screaming, or going in the backyard 353 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: or going into a room. 354 00:17:44,040 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 2: Do a lot of people screaming too? 355 00:17:45,480 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 4: Towels and pillows, Yes, that's what Kristen was told to do. Yeah, 356 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:50,159 Speaker 4: grow her parents? 357 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 1: No, okay, as a child, no, she said there junior high, 358 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 1: you're still a child as an adult. People are screaming 359 00:17:57,920 --> 00:17:58,640 Speaker 1: into pillows? 360 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:02,240 Speaker 2: Really buy that and believe it in towels? 361 00:18:02,440 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 4: Yes, because you don't want you know, I understand the 362 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 4: scream really loud in my house. You're gonna hear it 363 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:09,360 Speaker 4: outside the walls. Aren't that thick? 364 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 2: Right? 365 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 4: It's like when you can hear your neighbors fighting in 366 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 4: their house, right, Like you you hear everything, so I 367 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:15,760 Speaker 4: can understand where. 368 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:16,840 Speaker 2: You you want to muffle it. 369 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, you want to get something out. 370 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:20,000 Speaker 2: But does it still get it out? Does it still 371 00:18:20,040 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 2: get it out? 372 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 1: Like? Is half of the getting it out like hearing 373 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: it like I'm hearing myself let it out. 374 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 2: Maybe maybe the answer is muffled is fine. 375 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:32,960 Speaker 4: Or you have to go to one of these clubs 376 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 4: where I did find the waiver. 377 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:36,400 Speaker 2: Oh what does it say? 378 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:43,920 Speaker 4: Assumption of risk, including but not limited to emotional distress, 379 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 4: vocal strain, or accidental injury. That I understand that participation 380 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 4: in the club is voluntary. Oh okay, this is good 381 00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 4: for them to say, I do think because you'd hate 382 00:18:56,640 --> 00:19:01,360 Speaker 4: for someone who's litigious to go just to sue them. 383 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 2: Oh, I thought it was required. That's why I came. 384 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 4: Okay, you know how the courts is. 385 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:08,920 Speaker 2: I know I know where. 386 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 4: I affirm that I am physically able to scream. It's 387 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 4: like you're reading over my shoulder. I take full responsibility 388 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 4: for seeking medical or therapeutic support if needed. I will 389 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 4: not hold Scream Club responsible for medical conditions. So is 390 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:27,200 Speaker 4: this because they have a registered trademark next to their name? 391 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 4: Is this an offshoot of the Chicago Club? 392 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 1: I think so? Oh, I think it is. I think 393 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 1: it is. I know that they're in a couple of cities. 394 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 4: Do I have that. 395 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 2: Chicago's Scream Club meets there? Oh? By the way, they 396 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,919 Speaker 2: meet every week during the summer. 397 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, this is once a month. 398 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:54,720 Speaker 1: The DC one, started last year by Emanuel Hernandez and 399 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: Elena Sibolova, has become a popular resource. 400 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 2: For anyone to release stress, or at least in one case. 401 00:20:02,680 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 9: Yeah. 402 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:05,399 Speaker 1: I mean, it's anger at stress, it's anything some people, 403 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 1: some people screaming happiness, they said. I think a lot 404 00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 1: of people think screaming is silly by themselves, so then 405 00:20:14,240 --> 00:20:18,040 Speaker 1: when they have permission from other people screaming with them, 406 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 1: it gives them confidence. 407 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 2: To be able to do it. Do you buy that. 408 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: I feel like I would be less likely to scream 409 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: with other people around club. 410 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,920 Speaker 4: Leader will lead in a brief breathing exercise and then 411 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 4: count to thoroughly, will help you inhale, exhale for everyone 412 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:37,360 Speaker 4: to scream one, two, three, Uh. I like this. They 413 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:39,359 Speaker 4: do say no filming others. 414 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,160 Speaker 2: That's good. No, you shouldn't. 415 00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:43,960 Speaker 1: No, you shouldn't because that would define because people already 416 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 1: feel silly, people feel vulnerable, self conscious. 417 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:48,600 Speaker 2: Self conscious. 418 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, the reason is free zone, they say, yeah. 419 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,600 Speaker 2: And you're you're there to let it all out. Listen. 420 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 2: Is this for me? 421 00:20:54,600 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 4: No, we did violate though the rule right under judgment 422 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 4: free zone. Never any making fun of anyone's scream. Okay, whatever, Sorry, Kristin. 423 00:21:05,119 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 2: That's okay. 424 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:08,159 Speaker 1: I'm also not a I'm not an organizer of scream club. 425 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,199 Speaker 1: Line seven my scream. I don't do scream. I do 426 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 1: Scream group, and then we make fun. Hi Ellie at 427 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 1: the morning. 428 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 8: Hey Elliott, it's Jane. 429 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 2: Hi Jane, how are you? 430 00:21:20,720 --> 00:21:24,639 Speaker 8: I'm good. I think I don't know. Maybe I'm crazy 431 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:28,680 Speaker 8: like these folks, but I e I screamed this week 432 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:30,560 Speaker 8: and I thought I would tell you about it. 433 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 2: What do you mean you screamed this week in my car? 434 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,680 Speaker 8: So I had something happen. I'm also not going to 435 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 8: get into it, but uh just had something happened that 436 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:46,720 Speaker 8: was really really painful, and uh actually listening to one 437 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,000 Speaker 8: on one one or two one down here in Merchmond 438 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 8: and the MGMT song was on, where like three quarters 439 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 8: of the way through, all the kids scream you know. 440 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, sure I'm talking about Yeah, I know exactly what 441 00:21:58,640 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: you're talking about. 442 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,200 Speaker 8: Okay, So that part of the song just for whatever reason, 443 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 8: like I just decided that I was gonna I wasn't 444 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 8: singing along, and I just like felted the loudest, most 445 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:17,280 Speaker 8: guttural scream that I've ever scrumped. Did you you said? 446 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 2: I was just gonna ask you did you feel? Did 447 00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 2: you feel better afterwards? 448 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 8: Yeah? I mean it's not like it changed my situation. No, 449 00:22:26,040 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 8: it really like my physical experience of feeling anger and 450 00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 8: grief and whatever, like, it really did help physically for 451 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 8: the rest of that. 452 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,720 Speaker 1: Day, you know what I noticed though, And by the way, 453 00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 1: I'm glad, like if it's something that makes you feel better, 454 00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 1: by all means not yourself out. 455 00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,679 Speaker 8: But you know what, the first time I've ever done it, 456 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:46,120 Speaker 8: I've never done that before. 457 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 2: Isn't that weird? Isn't that weird. 458 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 1: But you know what's funny, even in your even in 459 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,639 Speaker 1: your telling me about it, when you got to the 460 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 1: point where you admitted that you screamed, it's almost like 461 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,440 Speaker 1: you got a little bit embarrassed. 462 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 8: Yeah. Uh yeah, I kind of surprised myself with it, 463 00:23:03,760 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 8: but honestly, I think I will probably do it again. 464 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,640 Speaker 2: Good good, Well, I mean, I say good. 465 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: I don't want you to be wait, I don't want 466 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 1: you to be upset or miserable enough that you scream. 467 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,640 Speaker 2: But if you are, what a great release? 468 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:21,679 Speaker 8: Yeah for sure. So I see you, Diane. 469 00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, very good, very good. I appreciate it. 470 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: Thank you, ma'am. Thank you. Maybe the car really is 471 00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 1: a commonplace. 472 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:33,159 Speaker 4: From Instagram, we've got a couple scream clubs in Cleveland, 473 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 4: including an event on Sunday. 474 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,160 Speaker 2: I get it. You're in Cleveland. 475 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 1: Hey, come on, wait, so they have Wait was that 476 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:46,800 Speaker 1: somebody telling us that, oh they're in Cleveland and they 477 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 1: have screen clubs there? 478 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:48,880 Speaker 2: Oh wow? 479 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 4: And so we did get a follow up from the. 480 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,960 Speaker 1: Illinois Oh yeah, who hates her life listener or his life? 481 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,200 Speaker 2: I don't remember if it was a guy or a girl. 482 00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. 483 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:03,800 Speaker 4: I'm a private person and wouldn't go to the Chicago 484 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 4: screaming thing. I think that's a hurdle. These groups work 485 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 4: with you to get over. 486 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:14,399 Speaker 2: Will you read the first part again. 487 00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 4: I moved to Illinois November, and I hate my life here. 488 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,080 Speaker 4: So quite often I silently, silently scream into my towel 489 00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:22,560 Speaker 4: when I get out of the shower. It helps me, 490 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,800 Speaker 4: I hope it helps me feel better. 491 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 2: But a private person doesn't want to go to a 492 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 2: screen club. 493 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 1: Can you? 494 00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 2: Why? 495 00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:29,399 Speaker 4: What? 496 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,160 Speaker 2: What are you so? What are you so miserable about? 497 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:31,840 Speaker 3: Hell? 498 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, but I mean like, like. 499 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 4: This is a reminder to you. You are the world's 500 00:24:36,680 --> 00:24:41,639 Speaker 4: worst therapist. Oh not why are you depressed the Yeah? No, 501 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 4: but because I want to know maybe I can help. 502 00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 4: That's Noel, Oh you are the worst. 503 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,160 Speaker 2: No. 504 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 4: I thought she was coming into scream. 505 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: No, that's you trying to show off that you know 506 00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,520 Speaker 1: somebody I know everybod. Yeah. No, it's only because she 507 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 1: was with us last week at the. 508 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 4: UH that's where I met her. 509 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, did you talk to her? Where'd you go 510 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 2: to college? 511 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 9: Well? 512 00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 4: I also waved to her this week and see you 513 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:09,880 Speaker 4: waved back. 514 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 2: Wow for me, that's a big stats that's a thing 515 00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:15,320 Speaker 2: like that. 516 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 4: That's my hurdle. 517 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 2: A wave. Where am I going Kristen Lyne to hi? 518 00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 2: Yellot the morning? 519 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: Hey? 520 00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, Hi? 521 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 2: Who's this? It's Richmond? 522 00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 4: Yes? 523 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 2: What can I What can I do for you? Sir? 524 00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 2: Are you a screamer? 525 00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 10: Yeah? 526 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 2: I'm more of a yeller. I'm working, Josh didn't earlier. 527 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 11: Yeah, I'll just yell on sight. 528 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:43,680 Speaker 1: But when you yell on site, like are you yelling 529 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 1: at someone or are you just yelling to get to myself? 530 00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 9: To myself? 531 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:52,880 Speaker 2: Wow? And are there other people around when you yell? 532 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 11: Maybe sometimes, but I'm sure they don't hear or they're 533 00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:57,720 Speaker 11: not paying attention. 534 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 2: Or is that just because the equipment is so goddamn loud. 535 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 9: That's a little bit of both. 536 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 2: Right. Do you feel better afterwards? Absolutely? Was it hard 537 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:13,560 Speaker 2: to start that practice? Like how did it start? 538 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 11: Sometimes you know, just stuff not going right, and you 539 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,680 Speaker 11: know it just it just comes out. 540 00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,959 Speaker 2: And you find it therapeutic. 541 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 8: Huh, I would say therapeutic, Defin I feel better once 542 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:27,640 Speaker 8: you get it out. 543 00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, like you know what, you know what it 544 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 1: reminds me of and I don't remember how long ago. 545 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 2: Hey, thank you sir. 546 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,719 Speaker 1: Keep on yelling the you know what it reminds me of, 547 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 1: Like I don't remember when this was, but like the 548 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,360 Speaker 1: number of people who will go into the bathroom at 549 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:49,280 Speaker 1: work and like some of them will fully cry or 550 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,760 Speaker 1: just like some of them will tear up, or some 551 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 1: of them will just like like just they have to 552 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,840 Speaker 1: get away, so they go to the bathroom. 553 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 2: These are those people to me where if you could. 554 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 4: Just let it out, the problem is. 555 00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,320 Speaker 1: I mean, I get that you can't scream at work 556 00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: unless you're in a soundproof room. 557 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,920 Speaker 4: Which they're not, so somebody would hear you and probably yeah, 558 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,760 Speaker 4: that's what I mean, check on you. And then it's 559 00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:20,040 Speaker 4: embarrassing because you wanted to do. 560 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: If I was in the bathroom and heard somebody in 561 00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:26,280 Speaker 1: there scream, I would I would look into that stall 562 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 1: so quickly to see, like, oh my god, what's going on. 563 00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 4: I described one of Kristen's as sounding like she was 564 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:40,200 Speaker 4: in the bathroom. But I feel like for the crying 565 00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:46,280 Speaker 4: at work, because I do both. It's not it's screaming 566 00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 4: and crying are different reactions. I see where you said 567 00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,959 Speaker 4: it reminded you of it, right, it's adjacent, But they're 568 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 4: just they're they're not they achieve for me at least personally, 569 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:03,360 Speaker 4: and I only speak for myself. The endgame is different. 570 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:06,639 Speaker 1: Really, Yes, I feel like you'd feel better if you 571 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: just scream. Yes, I mean, I mean I don't do 572 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: either one, but I'd rather scream than cry. 573 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 4: The release may be more uh instant, if you're screaming, 574 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 4: because then the scream is. 575 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:21,679 Speaker 2: Done, it's done. 576 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 4: And then when you're crying, sometimes your face is all 577 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 4: and then you feel the emotion and it makes you 578 00:28:27,920 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 4: cry more. Oh, I don't know if if when you scream, do. 579 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,679 Speaker 2: You want to scream more? I don't know. As Diane, 580 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:36,560 Speaker 2: she's screaming in the car, I don't think so. Have 581 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 2: you screamed in the car since COVID? 582 00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:40,560 Speaker 4: I'm sure. 583 00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 2: Do you scream a lot in the car? 584 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 4: I would say, no, not recently? 585 00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:54,040 Speaker 2: All right, where am I going ing to? Hi? Elliot 586 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:57,400 Speaker 2: in the morning? Yeah? 587 00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 9: Hi? 588 00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 2: What can I do for you? 589 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 6: Yeah? 590 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 10: It's basically just a post scream clarity, is it not. 591 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 10: You get to scream, you clear your mind and then 592 00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 10: you can have some good thoughts and then you. 593 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 4: Just move on. 594 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,640 Speaker 1: By the way, I mean that, it does sound like 595 00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 1: that's the goal of it, right, You let it out 596 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: and then you're good. 597 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 2: Well, I don't want to say good. 598 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:19,640 Speaker 10: It's not a permanent solution. 599 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:21,960 Speaker 1: Yeah no, But like that woman said, like the one 600 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,120 Speaker 1: who was like, I've never done it, but I screamed 601 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 1: a couple of weeks ago, where like, it doesn't change 602 00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,560 Speaker 1: if it's something physical or mental or whatever it is. 603 00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:33,560 Speaker 1: It doesn't change any of that. But it may change 604 00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: how you are feeling about that. It may it may 605 00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 1: stamp it down a little bit. 606 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,360 Speaker 10: It's a I think it's a good reset for the brain. 607 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:47,840 Speaker 10: It's something intense enough to where we're distracted. We get 608 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 10: it out and we're like, oh great, this thing's bothering me. 609 00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 10: Maybe I should solve that. 610 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 2: When was the last time? When is the last time 611 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:54,440 Speaker 2: you screamed at something? 612 00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 4: All? 613 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 10: Uh bi weekly, I go to my garage. It's a 614 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 10: junkyard in there, so I can just go in there 615 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,880 Speaker 10: and scream and let it out. And I'm like, oh cool, okay, 616 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:06,760 Speaker 10: so that's the problem, and they move on with our day. 617 00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:08,720 Speaker 2: Good for you, Good for you. 618 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 1: I'm glad you called. And I think this goes back 619 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: to what we said at the beginning. A lot of 620 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:15,080 Speaker 1: people would never thank you, sir. A lot of people 621 00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:25,480 Speaker 1: would never admit to it, right, Hi yelliot in the morning. Hello, 622 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: I'm getting ready to scream at you to turn your 623 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 1: goddamn radio down. 624 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 4: There is that? 625 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:40,000 Speaker 1: All right? Hold on line seven now when they hear you, 626 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: somebody should yell at Kevin Casey from earlier. 627 00:30:42,600 --> 00:30:44,880 Speaker 4: When they hear you, be mean to them back right? 628 00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 4: Who was I mean to It wasn't very nice the one. 629 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:48,719 Speaker 5: Uh. 630 00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:50,479 Speaker 1: By the way, that person doesn't know I was mean 631 00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: to him. They weren't even paying attention. 632 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 4: But they're going to hear. 633 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,960 Speaker 1: They may scream, okay, scream good and then next time 634 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:57,560 Speaker 1: pay attention. 635 00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:01,040 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Where am I going line to? 636 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 1: By the way, the number of people who are who 637 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: scream is crazy. 638 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 2: Not I don't mean that bad. I'm shocked at the 639 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 2: number of people who scream, Hi, yell in the morning, Elliott. 640 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 9: What about like at a concert or a sporting event 641 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,160 Speaker 9: or something like that, screaming at of excitement? 642 00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: No, see to me, that's different. That's different to me 643 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,960 Speaker 1: the and I know, but I can appreciate that. I've 644 00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 1: definitely I've definitely been at games or or like Caps 645 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: games or whatever where they score. 646 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 2: And you let loose with a like yeah, like like 647 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:38,520 Speaker 2: that kind of yell, but that's not a scream to me. No, Tyler, don't. 648 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 9: You get like a like a stress relief out of it? 649 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 9: Like it feels good once you get it out. You're like, yeah, 650 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 9: you know. 651 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I under. 652 00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 4: Forgot. 653 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 9: I'm wearing headphones myself. 654 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 8: That hurts. 655 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 4: Yeah. 656 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:58,800 Speaker 1: No, no, no, the I understand. I understand what you're saying. 657 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: And yes, it does feel good to be to let 658 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:07,200 Speaker 1: it out and go like, I understand that. However, but 659 00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,920 Speaker 1: to me, this is different, like that's at a moment 660 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: of just sheer excitement, and maybe that is maybe that 661 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: is why somebody screams yeah, I mean it could be. 662 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,719 Speaker 9: It could be maybe somebody who's embarrassed to do it 663 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 9: should go to a concert or something like that and 664 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 9: then just let it fly. 665 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 2: Everyone else is yelling Yeah no, I mean listen, If 666 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,600 Speaker 2: that's what it takes, then God blessed. Thank you, sir, 667 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 2: thank you. 668 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,080 Speaker 4: That's sort of what you read that it doesn't have 669 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 4: to just be sadness or frustration or anger. 670 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,160 Speaker 2: Right, but it seems like that's where most of it 671 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 2: would be. 672 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 1: I know, no, no, I mean that serious though, I'm 673 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 1: agreeing with you, Yes, like when Diane, when you were 674 00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:44,400 Speaker 1: screaming in your car during COVID. Was it because you 675 00:32:44,440 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: were so excited you had to get it out? 676 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:46,960 Speaker 4: No? 677 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 2: No, of course not. Where am I going? Line seven? 678 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:53,200 Speaker 2: Hi Elle in the morning, Hey, good morning? 679 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 1: Hey? 680 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:54,040 Speaker 2: Who's this? 681 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 1: Hey? This is my name is Josh. 682 00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 8: I'm a chef. 683 00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 6: So you're talking about screaming? 684 00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, go ahead to the walk. 685 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:04,440 Speaker 1: That's where you let it out. 686 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,480 Speaker 2: Oh you know what? That makes sense? That makes sense? 687 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 1: Do you do you tell whether it's your line, cooks 688 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,640 Speaker 1: or whatever, if you need to let it out, go 689 00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 1: in the walk in, let it go and then come 690 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: on back. Can nobody hear me? I'm not gonna yell 691 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 1: at another one? 692 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:23,720 Speaker 2: There you are? 693 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:24,400 Speaker 6: All right? 694 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 2: Very good? Thank you, sir. 695 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 4: I see phoenix on here. Would your sister or mother 696 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 4: ever attend an event like this? Was your mom a 697 00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:33,640 Speaker 4: big screamer? 698 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 699 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:41,840 Speaker 1: In in every way that everyone's thinking about it? 700 00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:46,360 Speaker 6: Hi, Ellie in the morning, Hey, elliot, how you doing? 701 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:47,520 Speaker 2: I'm doing great? Who's this? 702 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 9: Hey? 703 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 10: This is. 704 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:51,960 Speaker 6: Promotion? 705 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 2: Which one were you? I? 706 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 6: The one was like, hey, I'm said okay, I remember 707 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 6: now we dashed up and I you sat at my 708 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,919 Speaker 6: table and we hate like like when you hate your food. 709 00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,799 Speaker 1: Oh okay, yes, now I remember, of course, Yes, what 710 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 1: can I do for you? 711 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I wanted to chime in on the stream thing. 712 00:34:19,120 --> 00:34:23,080 Speaker 6: So I'm a bus driver and a few weeks ago, 713 00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 6: I was just so like angry with like road rage 714 00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 6: and just how people cut us off and stuff, and 715 00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 6: it's kind of scared in myself. And I don't even 716 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 6: know if it was a scream or yell, but I 717 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:39,440 Speaker 6: just basically like feed up the steering wheel and yelled. 718 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 6: I was alone on the bus right, But afterwards, and 719 00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 6: it's it's not I've never done that before, but my 720 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,920 Speaker 6: friends always tell me I have a pretty loud voice anyway, 721 00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 6: so I'm sure it was like it it's like my 722 00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 6: management when looked at the camera, it was probably crazy looking. 723 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:58,520 Speaker 2: But no, but that's okay. But did you feel better 724 00:34:58,560 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 2: as soon as you got it out? 725 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 6: I was, yeah, I was gonna say afterwards, it was 726 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:05,759 Speaker 6: like like you release, like an adrenaline dump. And like 727 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 6: my friend that was with me, she's in law enforcement. 728 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,360 Speaker 6: She was saying like whenever there's like an officer situation, 729 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,799 Speaker 6: like a fight or shooting, a lot of times they'll 730 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,520 Speaker 6: cry or whatever. But like it releases like you can't 731 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:19,680 Speaker 6: help because of the adrenaline. Right, So it's like it 732 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:22,920 Speaker 6: like does like a chemical, Like I don't know, Oh. 733 00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're probably that's probably one hundred percent right, Like 734 00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: that makes total sense to me. 735 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,000 Speaker 2: Like again, like a card, nothing I think about it. 736 00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:30,960 Speaker 2: Like when you talked about. 737 00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 1: The steering wheel, I've definitely punched a steering wheel before. 738 00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:35,759 Speaker 2: Like that definitely, Like you. 739 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,360 Speaker 6: Could cut off or whatever and you're like late for 740 00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:41,360 Speaker 6: something and you just you know, you're screaming for sanities 741 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:44,320 Speaker 6: or just yelling or whatever. It definitely helps. 742 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 2: However, what do we all know? 743 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:49,320 Speaker 1: Everybody who's punched the steering wheel, and that's everybody who's 744 00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: breathing the although I would bet you've never punched the 745 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:57,359 Speaker 1: steering wheel. No, the never punched the windshield? No, break 746 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 1: your hand right, No, some I have a friend who 747 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 1: put his hand right through the windshield. He did break 748 00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:04,440 Speaker 1: a knuckle, but he did punch right through the windshield. 749 00:36:06,000 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 1: He was angry, so that was more than just a 750 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 1: single isolated event. 751 00:36:12,360 --> 00:36:13,800 Speaker 2: What do you mean, No, he was angry. 752 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 1: He got in the car and instead of yelling, he 753 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 1: punched the windshield. 754 00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 4: Oh I think I mean he was just angry in general. 755 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, he just he was mad, and 756 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 1: he punched the windshield. 757 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 2: Have you punched the steering wheel? 758 00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 10: No? 759 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 4: Have you? 760 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 2: How am I the only one that's punched the steering wheel? 761 00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:33,680 Speaker 2: I'm sorry? Go ahead, I do? Have you? Oh the poem? 762 00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:33,920 Speaker 2: Is this? 763 00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:39,040 Speaker 4: The Illinois so eloquently asked, why are you so miserable? 764 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 1: Hold on one second, Hold on one second. Let me 765 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: grab line four so I don't lose him. Hi, yelliet 766 00:36:42,480 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 1: in the morning. 767 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,160 Speaker 2: Hey, Hey, yeah, hi, who's this? 768 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:47,600 Speaker 1: Hey? 769 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,800 Speaker 11: It's Alissa. How are you guys doing today? 770 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 2: Now with that any bitty little voice, you're not yelling? 771 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,839 Speaker 11: No, you know, yes, yes, oh my friend, I've not 772 00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,760 Speaker 11: punched the stewheel, but I'm definitely smacked the steering wheel. 773 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 2: Okay, I'll take that. What are you a big? Are 774 00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,000 Speaker 2: you a screaming person? 775 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:05,239 Speaker 4: Though? 776 00:37:06,239 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 11: I mean no, you know I have trouble. I'm non confrontational, 777 00:37:09,800 --> 00:37:12,359 Speaker 11: so I wouldn't like scream in somebody's face. I've been 778 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,120 Speaker 11: known to like flick something at somebody, like buy them, 779 00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 11: trying to get their attention. 780 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:17,719 Speaker 9: So that's I. 781 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,880 Speaker 11: Don't do that anymore. And that was not very good behavior. 782 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 11: But anyway, So I'm back to work. I'm back part time. 783 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 11: I had to have this big surgery, right, so I'm 784 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 11: in this crazy like compression sleeve saying, trying to just 785 00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,520 Speaker 11: get any kind of hours, and I can. The only 786 00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,239 Speaker 11: thing I can do right now is callback. I'm a veterinarian, 787 00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 11: so I'm working on some blood work right because of 788 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 11: this darn this brief. 789 00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 2: On my arm. 790 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,400 Speaker 11: So when I'm typing, like one out of two times, 791 00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,879 Speaker 11: like just some random stuff comes up. I have no 792 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 11: idea what I've pressed because it's just so big. So 793 00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:52,160 Speaker 11: yesterday it was like my second day back. You know, 794 00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:53,799 Speaker 11: I'm trying to hang in there. I'm in a lot 795 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,960 Speaker 11: of pain and discomfort, and damn it if this I 796 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 11: just keep pressing this random stuff popping up. 797 00:38:00,360 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 2: Ma'am. 798 00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:02,360 Speaker 11: You can't like that. 799 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 2: You can't you can't cut, you can't cuss. 800 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,160 Speaker 5: Yeah that's okay, Yeah, that's okay. 801 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, that's okay. I got it. I'm not counting, Josh, 802 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 2: but I got it. 803 00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 11: I was trying so hard, man, but my frustration was 804 00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 11: reborn again. But anyway, yeah, so so there I am 805 00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,040 Speaker 11: like second babe crane that I can keep my job, 806 00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:25,880 Speaker 11: and I'm like streaming the F bomb in the So 807 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 11: you started yelling at work, Yes, in my inn office 808 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 11: by myself, but people can definitely overhear. 809 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:35,600 Speaker 2: It was the right time. 810 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 11: It was so frustrating, you guys, you don't even know, 811 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,160 Speaker 11: like and something pain and I can't use my arm. 812 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,239 Speaker 2: Listen, I get it. You've had it up to You've 813 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:45,879 Speaker 2: had it up to here I did. 814 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:49,160 Speaker 11: I felt a little better, I have to say, but 815 00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 11: when I walked out of the room, I got a 816 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:52,280 Speaker 11: couple of glares. 817 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, scream though, who are they? Who were they? 818 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:58,640 Speaker 1: All the screaming as a judgment freezer? All right, very good, 819 00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,160 Speaker 1: thank you, ma'am, thank you. All right, let's get to 820 00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,840 Speaker 1: my person in Illinois. I thought I was am I 821 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:06,160 Speaker 1: going to be disappointed in this? 822 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,480 Speaker 2: You know, my pie said I was a private person. 823 00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:09,319 Speaker 2: I'd rather not say. 824 00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:11,879 Speaker 4: Jesus may I just read. 825 00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:12,440 Speaker 2: Yeah. 826 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:15,000 Speaker 4: I thought I was okay with relocating. As soon as 827 00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,840 Speaker 4: we made the decision and sign contracts for work to 828 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 4: leave Maryland, I started regretting it. Before the actual physical move. 829 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 4: I don't know if I had a mental breakdown, but 830 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,640 Speaker 4: it was probably the closest I could be without having won. 831 00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 4: I have moved states a couple of times in my life, 832 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:34,160 Speaker 4: and nothing has affected me like this move. Throughout this 833 00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:37,080 Speaker 4: whole process. I logically know it is not that big 834 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:40,880 Speaker 4: a deal to have moved, but it feels like literally 835 00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:44,280 Speaker 4: the end of the world. Don't tell Elliott. 836 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:47,239 Speaker 2: No, go please, no, no, because I already have an 837 00:39:47,239 --> 00:39:47,879 Speaker 2: answer for this. 838 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:55,280 Speaker 4: Let's just don't tell Elliott. Tell Diane, don't tell Elliott. 839 00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,680 Speaker 4: But there are times when I think about not listening 840 00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 4: because it makes me sad and missed the area. 841 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:04,799 Speaker 1: Whoa, oh that's right. 842 00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:07,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, punish me for it. Punish me for it. Yeah, 843 00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 2: for what they I moved. I'm sad I can't listen. Yeah, 844 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,320 Speaker 2: don't punish me. That's on you. 845 00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,080 Speaker 4: You were supposed to unplag your headphones. 846 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,479 Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead, go ahead. No, that's the Oh, that's 847 00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,439 Speaker 2: the end of it. No of what they said, Yes, 848 00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:26,719 Speaker 2: undo it? 849 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 4: Undo what the move? 850 00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:31,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I'm being serious. 851 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:32,439 Speaker 4: Probably easier said than done. 852 00:40:32,600 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 1: No, No, yep, it may be, but undo it, like 853 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,280 Speaker 1: it's not worth being that miserable. 854 00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:42,200 Speaker 2: I'm being completely serious, And you know. 855 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:45,040 Speaker 4: What, it might take a while, yes, but if you. 856 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 1: Start the and you know who, I'll give full credit 857 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: to my because I was I was on the wrong side. 858 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,080 Speaker 1: I was on the wrong side of history here. No, 859 00:40:52,320 --> 00:40:55,640 Speaker 1: my my older kid when he went to Arizona State 860 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:57,239 Speaker 1: the day we moved him in, he was like, I 861 00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:57,880 Speaker 1: made a mistake. 862 00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:58,719 Speaker 2: I shouldn't be here. 863 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 1: And I at first I was like, why don't you 864 00:41:01,280 --> 00:41:04,239 Speaker 1: give it five minutes. Let's you know, buckle up, Buttercup 865 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:05,600 Speaker 1: and let's go for a run. 866 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,239 Speaker 2: And then him and it did. 867 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,520 Speaker 1: It took the semester, and when he was able to 868 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: get out, he transfers to Tennessee and has the greatest 869 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 1: three and a half year experience of his life. 870 00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,880 Speaker 2: Right, so undo it now again. 871 00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,280 Speaker 1: You can't You may not be able to walk in tomorrow, 872 00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:23,799 Speaker 1: but you got to get to a place where you 873 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 1: can listen to the show. There's the vested interest, the 874 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:28,439 Speaker 1: no no, but you know what I mean, Like, it's 875 00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:33,480 Speaker 1: just it's not worth being that miserable. There may be 876 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,160 Speaker 1: temporary misery that comes with it because you can't go 877 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:37,160 Speaker 1: in and quit tomorrow. 878 00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:41,319 Speaker 5: Maybe you can, but then I got to go back 879 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,680 Speaker 5: to home and find a job. You know, there's a 880 00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:44,759 Speaker 5: lot of variables there. 881 00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:46,960 Speaker 1: I understand that, But wouldn't you rather do that than 882 00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:50,399 Speaker 1: get up every day and be so angry that you're 883 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 1: screaming into a towel and can't listen. And I'm just 884 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,959 Speaker 1: using us as I can't listen, but you can't listen 885 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:59,600 Speaker 1: because it reminds you of a place that you liked better. 886 00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 4: It sounds like a bad situation, but in a healthy situation. 887 00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 2: But it's a fixable one. 888 00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 4: Moving halfway. It's a very big deal. 889 00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:17,479 Speaker 2: I could not agree more. So it's not I could 890 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 2: not agree more. 891 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:19,640 Speaker 4: Snap your fingers and it's. 892 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:24,440 Speaker 1: Fixed, absolutely absolutely, But but it is fixable. 893 00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:27,719 Speaker 4: Maybe if we stay he even. 894 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 1: Suck it up, Buttercup and figure it out or get 895 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:31,640 Speaker 1: to work on undoing it. 896 00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:34,240 Speaker 2: And it may it may take a while. I understand that. 897 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:40,640 Speaker 4: Perhaps if we stay on forever today we'll never leave 898 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:44,960 Speaker 4: her ear. This has been a forty four minute talk break. 899 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 4: Remember somebody's trying to get to the beach. 900 00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 2: By the way. 901 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,120 Speaker 1: And I thought, and when I first started this, I 902 00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:54,799 Speaker 1: can go to everybody's on everybody's on hold. I didn't 903 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,120 Speaker 1: even know if I was going to find somebody who 904 00:42:56,120 --> 00:43:00,880 Speaker 1: would screen. And now I'm solving life problems out of Illinois. 905 00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:04,760 Speaker 2: I want to stick her. 906 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:07,759 Speaker 4: As soon as we can. We will move beautiful we're 907 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,800 Speaker 4: locked down here for at least two years. 908 00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:15,080 Speaker 2: Two years. God, that's gonna feel like a lifetime. Yeah. 909 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 4: Ope, And we're all out of time for your appointment today, 910 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 4: see you next week. That'll be four hundred dollars. 911 00:43:23,640 --> 00:43:25,319 Speaker 2: But there's but you got to look at that as 912 00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,560 Speaker 2: light at the end of the tunnel. No you really do? 913 00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 2: You really ask her she wants a sugar? Yeah? No, 914 00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:34,839 Speaker 2: but you do. 915 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, make the U make the best of it for 916 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:38,839 Speaker 4: two years? 917 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:43,560 Speaker 2: Maybe the answer. Yeah. I can tell you this. The 918 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:44,879 Speaker 2: job market ain't good right now. 919 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 4: For those local I have posted the link to tonight's 920 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,360 Speaker 4: event in the comments on Facebook. 921 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:53,839 Speaker 2: Excellent, excellent. I'll be there.