1 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 1: Wake your ass up, John Jay and Rich what's crag 2 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: a leg? 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 2: And this is the big Boss does snoopy deagle double 4 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 2: gigsel bab boom? What you don't do? 5 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: John Jay? We're not talking about Rin ten team, We're 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:16,160 Speaker 1: not talking about last year. 7 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 2: It's the one and only does y'all? 8 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 1: Nick lasts lasty, big smooth eagle, double gissel in your 9 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: face to me and in the place to be. 10 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 2: And you're listening to John Jay and Rich wake. 11 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 3: You as so it's John Jay and Rich our phone 12 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 3: number eight seven seven nine three seven one O four seven. 13 00:00:32,360 --> 00:00:34,959 Speaker 3: The text line text jj R and whatever you want 14 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 3: to say to the number nine six eight nine three 15 00:00:38,040 --> 00:00:38,840 Speaker 3: Hi Carly. 16 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: Hi, how are you good? 17 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 3: So there's a moment you have that if you tell us, 18 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 3: we won't believe you. 19 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: Yes, what happened? 20 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: So okay? So this was when my children were probably 21 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 1: about a year and a half and six months old, 22 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 1: and I got a phone call on a Sunday night 23 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 1: from a good friend who had put her name into 24 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 1: a lottery to quote win tickets to Michael Jackson's memorial 25 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 1: service in California. And at first I said I did 26 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: not want to go because much like you, John Jay. 27 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: I am not a crowds person. But my husband was like, 28 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 1: you're crazy. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity. 29 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:14,919 Speaker 1: I will take care of the kids. 30 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 3: You go. 31 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,000 Speaker 1: So the two of us got on a flight to California. 32 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:21,600 Speaker 1: We got a rental car. We drove all the way 33 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: to Dodger Stadium to get our wristbands and everything. And 34 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: I had just gotten on Facebook. It was like two 35 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: thousand and nine, so it's kind of blogging everything, and 36 00:01:31,840 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 1: so I took a picture of our wristbands and a 37 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,199 Speaker 1: friend of mine called and she goes, you know, that's 38 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 1: the memorial service is supposed to be at Staples Center, 39 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 1: and your wristbands say no, Kia Center. And so we're like, 40 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, we got tickets to watch it on 41 00:01:47,319 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: a big screen remotely. So we went to our hotel 42 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: and we were sitting in the bar and we're kind 43 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: of lamenting the fact that we flew all the way 44 00:01:54,840 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 1: to California to watch this ceremony on TV. And I'm like, 45 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: we left our babies at home, Like what kind of 46 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: mothers are we? So as we're talking, this guy turns 47 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: around and he goes, don't worry, I got youa, and 48 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you talking about. He opens his 49 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 1: briefcase and he pulls out two VIP wristbands to the 50 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: Staples Center. He was like a big wig for Staples. 51 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 1: So we're like, oh my gosh, we're going to be 52 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: sitting in the Staples suite to watch this. So the 53 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,239 Speaker 1: next morning we get ready, we walk over and it's 54 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: like millions of people. It's so crowded, and we walk 55 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: in and our suite was literally right above like the 56 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,280 Speaker 1: front row where the family is sitting. So we basically 57 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 1: got front row seats to a concert because everybody was performing. 58 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: And then as we were leaving the center, we walk 59 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: out and some girl approaches me, and I honestly thought 60 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: she was like a college reporter, and she asked if 61 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: she could interview me. So I was like sure, So 62 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 1: I did the interview, and then I said, you know, 63 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 1: can I find my interview somewhere and she goes, well, 64 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: I'm actually with the Associated Press, so your interview is 65 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 1: going to be all over the internet, and I was like, 66 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: oh my gosh. So then we continue walking and this 67 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 1: other lady approaches me and asks if she can interview me, 68 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 1: and I do the interview, and then I look and 69 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: she has a microphone that says CNN, and I said, 70 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, am I going to be on the news, 71 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 1: And she goes, you were just live on CNN. So 72 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: then my phone starts blowing up. All my friends and 73 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: family are calling me, Oh my gosh, we saw you 74 00:03:28,760 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: on the news. So it just was just this unbelievable 75 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: experience that I mean, I wasn't going to go in 76 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 1: the first place. I ended up getting interviewed twice within 77 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: a couple of minutes. And so now if you google 78 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 1: my name plus Michael Jackson. 79 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: I got it. I found it. I just did it. 80 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 2: I found it. I just typed in Carly. 81 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 3: I typed in Carly Michael Jackson memorial and the headline 82 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: he says, two moms from Arizona just stay a mom 83 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 3: to Arizona, left their kids with their husbands and caught 84 00:03:57,880 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 3: a last minute flight to attend the memorial. Him this 85 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 3: is the experience of a lifetime. 86 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: That's so we're yeah, we're memorialized of two moms who 87 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: leave their kids at home. 88 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 3: That's the the story. 89 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 2: The mom guilt is real. 90 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 1: Oh, mom guilt is super real. But my husband had 91 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: been watching it on TV and he was like, I'm 92 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 1: just going to record it, and so he caught it 93 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:26,680 Speaker 1: and so now it's recorded. I have a video of 94 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,320 Speaker 1: it and everything. But he makes fun of me because 95 00:04:29,360 --> 00:04:31,160 Speaker 1: I was nervous and I talked about it being a 96 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: circus media instead of a media circus. So he was like, 97 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: you know, making fun of me. But yeah, I mean 98 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: it's crazy, but like all these one and a million 99 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 1: things keep happening to me, and so like if you 100 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: google my name with a bunch of other things too, 101 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:49,119 Speaker 1: like my name comes up because mostly it's bad things. 102 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: I won't lie. But my son is like, Mom, we 103 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 1: have such bad luck, and I'm like, no, actually, we 104 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: have great luck because we've survived one hundred percent of 105 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,039 Speaker 1: these bad things that keep having happening. 106 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 2: That's by a bear. Oh my god. 107 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 1: It's been like, yeah, yeah, I'll if you google my 108 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:12,720 Speaker 1: name with bear attack that The thing I'm the thing 109 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:15,159 Speaker 1: I'm most famous for is that I'm the Carly that 110 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 1: talked to you last week about Mike and the toast. 111 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 2: Oh. 112 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 1: I met somebody for the first time off of a 113 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:26,599 Speaker 1: dating app and he told me he's a pretty picky eater. 114 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:30,400 Speaker 1: Every day at work for lunch. He eats toast for lunch. 115 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 1: His job is very stressful and the toast is comforting 116 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,800 Speaker 1: to him, and that for the last five or six 117 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 1: years he's been eating toast. He'd been putting salad dressing 118 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: on his toast, so I asked him, you know, why 119 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: are you using salad dressing and he said, well, one 120 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: day I ran out of butter, and I decided I 121 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 1: liked it. Sometimes he uses creamy Italian and sometimes it's 122 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 1: creamy Caesar. So it just was really weird. And I mean, 123 00:05:58,760 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: he talked about it for so long. I actually ended 124 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 1: up recording it on my voice app and it was 125 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: just like, oh, you know, and then he just said, 126 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: I get so stressed out and Mike needs toast, and 127 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: he referred to himself in the third person. So yeah, 128 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 1: So how many times Dave hats the toast? I'll be long, Yeah, 129 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,839 Speaker 1: the highest best job, Okay, but I kind. 130 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 3: Of like it. 131 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 1: Okay, So when I get my stressed. 132 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:36,559 Speaker 2: Mike eats toast. That is so funny. That's another quote 133 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 2: for a T shirt. S your it, John, Jay and 134 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,480 Speaker 2: Rich anytime. We only hope you called the show as 135 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 2: much as Mike eats toast. It's John Jay and Rich 136 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 2: that's awesome. 137 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:56,799 Speaker 1: So yeah, it's it's been crazy, but that is something 138 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: that will stick with me forever. And I'm so great 139 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: welled a my he's now my ex husband, but I'm 140 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: glad that he encouraged me to go because they ended 141 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 1: up being such a great memory. 142 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh your campsite, Is that what the story is? 143 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, yep. It was in passion and it was during 144 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: like the drought, and we had driven in and they 145 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: were handing out all this literature bear attacks and they 146 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: had a ranger come by and speak to us about 147 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 1: what to do, and they're like, but you're fine, You're fine. 148 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: There or four of us, I think four or five 149 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: of us camping, and we heard some screaming and I 150 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: looked through the back of my tent and I saw 151 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 1: like a bear walking behind us. And then when we 152 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: came out, the friend next to me her tent had 153 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 1: been ripped open, and so they had stood up and 154 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: were like screaming, And then all of a sudden we 155 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 1: heard screaming from the campsite next door, and the guy 156 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: in that campsite had actually gotten mauled. He thought the 157 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 1: bear had dragged him out of the tent and so 158 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: that was another thing. We had been, you know, on 159 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: Facebook talking about it, and then a friend of mine 160 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: whose husband worked for the Walter kronk Heit School of Journalism, 161 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 1: contacted me. So we got interviewed on like Today's show 162 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: like everything. 163 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh yeah, Hold, I want to play I 164 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 2: want to play a game. 165 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,440 Speaker 3: Guess what the world wide article this quote is from 166 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 3: from Carly. It's either bear attack or Michael Jackson. It 167 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: was the experience of a lifetime attack or Michael Jackson. 168 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 2: Michael Jackson. 169 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,520 Speaker 3: That is from Michael Jackson. What about this bear attack 170 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 3: or Michael Jackson? What what was Carly's quote? My initial 171 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:36,319 Speaker 3: reaction was disbelief. Also, Michael Jackson the bear bear. 172 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 2: It didn't seem real to me. Michael Jackson or bear. 173 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 3: Attack, Mike bar At Jackson bear attack. 174 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, you are so funny you were. I mean, 175 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: I know you're quick witting, but I mean to put 176 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 1: that on the spot like that. You're my hero. 177 00:08:53,800 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 3: Thanks, Carly, you are awesome. Thanks for listening. Carly, have 178 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 3: a great day. Thanks for calling it you too. 179 00:08:59,440 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 1: Love you guys. 180 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:00,559 Speaker 2: Let me do you but