1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: And I got your email, but I wanted to get 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:04,600 Speaker 1: you on the radio, Aubrey, so you could talk about 3 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: this one. And you're gonna give us just like a little, 4 00:00:06,960 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: a little PSA, a little bit of advice to not 5 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: do something. Hi, Aubrey, quick the phone. Oh yeah, well, 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 1: I gotta push her button there. Thank you, thank you. 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Aubrey. You're on the radio right now. 8 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: Tell us what you wanted to advise us against doing. 9 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 2: Right? 10 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 3: So, I heard you do War of the Roses last 11 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 3: week where the woman went through her man's jacket pocket 12 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 3: and found the receipt. 13 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah that, And I remember we asked her, 14 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 1: We said, why do you go through his pocket? She's like, 15 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 1: because that's what I do. 16 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what you did. 17 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 1: That's that's what she does. So you heard that and 18 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,440 Speaker 1: then you thought of us because something happened to you 19 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: this weekend. What happened? 20 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, So I am here for my PSA to 21 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:55,720 Speaker 3: tell everyone, don't snoop. 22 00:00:56,360 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 2: I found out the hard way. 23 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: What'd you find out? 24 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, my boyfriend was out of town until last night. 25 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:08,679 Speaker 2: He came in from MSP and rushed into the bathroom 26 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 2: because you know, I really had to go, and I was. 27 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 3: Just going through his carry on just to help him out, 28 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: and I found an engagement ring. 29 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:25,119 Speaker 5: Oh no, wow, you can't feel bad. 30 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: Now here's the important question. 31 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 3: It was for you? 32 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 1: Well yeah, clearly not somebody. Okay, So an engagement resource 33 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: in the box and it's all ready to go, a new, shiny, 34 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 1: beautiful engagement ring. What I mean, we know what that means? 35 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: Tell me the story? 36 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, like of like of how we met? 37 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: Well no, but I mean now, so what do you 38 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: do then? Do you put it back and pretend you 39 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: don't know because now you know he's gonna he's gonna 40 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: propose to you? 41 00:01:57,920 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 4: Or did you say something? 42 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 3: Or no, I'm I am not saying anything. I am 43 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:08,959 Speaker 3: pretending that it didn't happen at all. But you know, 44 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,519 Speaker 3: now now that I know I have to I'm like overthinking. 45 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my gosh, okay, now I have to 46 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 3: act surprised. What do I look like when I'm surprised? 47 00:02:17,320 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 3: And all of the thoughts are going on in my head? 48 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 6: Oh man, especially if you're not used to like acting, 49 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 6: You're like, oh my god, do you know where it's 50 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 6: going to take place? 51 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,720 Speaker 1: Do you think you do? You have a plan. Does 52 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: he have a plan? 53 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 2: Well, I have a feeling that it's this coming weekend 54 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:39,959 Speaker 2: because we're going to Split Rock Lighthouse and that's where 55 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 2: we went on our first weekend vacation. 56 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: So they're in the shadow of Split Rock Lighthouse. You're 57 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: gonna be He's gonna be all nervous, and you can 58 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 1: be fumbling around in his pocket, pat in his pocket 59 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: to make sure it's there. And then he's going to 60 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: turn to you and go, hey, Aubrey. And then he's 61 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: gonna get down on one knee and you're gonna have 62 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,440 Speaker 1: to have your You know what you need to do practice? 63 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: That's an ammunicate to practice. You need to get in 64 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 1: front of the bathroom mirror. And when he does that, 65 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,120 Speaker 1: first thing that you have to do is you have 66 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: to put both hands up to your mouth and go. 67 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:17,679 Speaker 6: Like that. 68 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: Okay, can you go ahead? Practice with one hand. I 69 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: know you're holding the other phone. Go ahead and give 70 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 1: me a practice shot there, will you? 71 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 3: Okay? 72 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 2: Let me practice? 73 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 4: Okay, looks great. 74 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 1: Okay, now leave the How long do you leave that? 75 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: And you gotta flitter your fingers while your mouth you 76 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 1: bring them up. 77 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 4: And you have to deny it. 78 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 7: You have to be like, no, stop, that's a kid, 79 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 7: you're kidding, that's call okay, and then he'll be like 80 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 7: he'll probably say something because I think a lot of 81 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 7: the time it's like I loved you and I knew 82 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 7: you were the one from the first time I met you. 83 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 1: I don't care where I go when I'm with you, 84 00:03:59,240 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 1: we always have a great time. And then you're gonna 85 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: sit there and you go but you nod or not 86 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: and starlitter okay, nod and start to cry. Okay, good, Okay, 87 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: maybe you'll have to. 88 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:10,680 Speaker 4: And then once he actually holds your hand, you have 89 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 4: to jump at least once what like a hop like 90 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 4: a okay. 91 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 1: Maybe a little bit too much. 92 00:04:16,279 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 4: No, you're over selling it. 93 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 1: Tell me more. 94 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 5: I just don't think just hop or whatever. I think 95 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 5: the crying the hands of the face is all cool, man. 96 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 5: I would just be pissed if I was this guy. 97 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 5: I want my girlfriend to listen. 98 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 4: To know nothing, well, of course nothing, but he doesn't. 99 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 4: Whatever he doesn't know is not gonna hurt him. But 100 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 4: what if he does know? What if he knows her 101 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 4: so well? Then whenever she does this, what like the 102 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 4: fluttering of the hands, He's just like really. 103 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 1: I think I think you gotta not over sell it. 104 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 1: But listen, here's the thing. He's gonna be so nervous. 105 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: He has no idea that you know. He's just gonna 106 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: be so excited. You're gonna be so because when it 107 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,160 Speaker 1: comes down to it, you might know it's gonna happen, 108 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,720 Speaker 1: but you're still gonna be so excited. If you just 109 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 1: missed us that she was going through her boyfriend's carry. 110 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 4: On last night? Was it last night? 111 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, found an engagement ring in a box. I'm 112 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 1: gonna guess it was from wedding day diamonds, but you 113 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,240 Speaker 1: don't have to say so. Now she's like, you're going 114 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 1: to split rock this weekend. You already know that he's 115 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,480 Speaker 1: gonna propose this weekend. We're just trying to figure out 116 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: how to make her look authentic when she gets the proposal. 117 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, just don't overdo it. 118 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 5: Are you gonna tell him? Maybe after the not not 119 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 5: like right after it happens, but in a couple of months, 120 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 5: like I knew. 121 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: Take, is there anybody listening who thinks she should tell him? 122 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:34,159 Speaker 1: Is there anybody listening who thinks that she should tell him? Eventually? 123 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 1: I think that maybe a year down the road on 124 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: your first anniversary. 125 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 4: I don't know, No, I would never. 126 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. You're right now that I think about it, 127 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say anything. 128 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 4: Sived somebody did say. 129 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 6: At least now she can make sure that she looks 130 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 6: cute for the pictures. 131 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 4: So just like, get up a little bit earlier. You're 132 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:51,839 Speaker 4: sure you look amazing. 133 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: You don't look like Kenny on South Park with your 134 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: face all up in a in a in a hoodie. 135 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:57,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, so exactly. 136 00:05:57,680 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 1: All right, Well, good luck, thanks for sharing. And the 137 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 1: lesson is especially you guys this time of the year. 138 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: Don't snoop. You can't snoop this time of the year. 139 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:07,600 Speaker 4: What's this time of year? 140 00:06:07,920 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: Christmas? 141 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 4: For Christmas presents? Okay, that's when people get engaged just 142 00:06:11,760 --> 00:06:13,440 Speaker 4: for holiday. It was the best time the snoop. 143 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:14,960 Speaker 5: When you were a kid, you would try to go 144 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 5: onto the Christmas tree and unwrap your present slowly. 145 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 1: Oh no no, but then you mess up the tape 146 00:06:19,880 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 1: and so your mom would find out. Let me call 147 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: my Hey, Aubrey, thanks for calling. I appreciate you, and 148 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:29,560 Speaker 1: good luck and congratulations, Thank you. Bye. Let me call 149 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: my daughter Beth really quick because she has a story 150 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 1: about snooping. 151 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 4: Let me see if I get a hold of Christmas present. 152 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,279 Speaker 1: Let me I want to have her tell the stories. 153 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: She's at work, so she might not be able to answer, like, 154 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:47,039 Speaker 1: oh god, what that's her? Hello? What your daddy? Hey, 155 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: good morning. We're on the radio right now, and I 156 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,320 Speaker 1: want you to tell the story about how you learned 157 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:54,040 Speaker 1: when you were a little girl with your siblings not 158 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 1: to snoop for Christmas presents. 159 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 8: Oh my gosh, my sister and I would be the 160 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 8: last ones in the house and we would walk down 161 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 8: to the bus stop. 162 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 1: When it was time. 163 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:09,680 Speaker 8: And as you know, as we got older, we figured 164 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 8: that we could open up one little corner of the 165 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 8: present and just kind of peek in there a little 166 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 8: bit and then see what it was, and then take 167 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 8: it back up and then leave and go to school. 168 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 8: And we figured Christmas morning we would, you know, still 169 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 8: have all these amazing presents that show up after, you know, 170 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 8: because Santa Claus comes sure, and yeah, so when we 171 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 8: had Christmas Morning and we opened up all of our presents, 172 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 8: we were super bummed because we already knew what we 173 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 8: were getting and we were like, we are never doing 174 00:07:39,960 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 8: this again. 175 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: And it ruined the whole thing. So you were like 176 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: ten years old and then you found out that was 177 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,440 Speaker 1: really cool to find out. Oh I'm getting you this, 178 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: I'm getting to that. But on Christmas morning there was 179 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 1: no joy of the surprise. 180 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 4: Yep, exactly right. It was all ruined. 181 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 1: So remember that, Bailey, I will remember that. 182 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:59,239 Speaker 4: I swear no peak. 183 00:07:59,400 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: How are you bad? 184 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 3: I'm good? 185 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: How about you let me ask you a question. We 186 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: did this on the radio last week. Okay, so I'm 187 00:08:04,880 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: gonna put you on the spot. We're gonna give you 188 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: a would you rather? Would you rather for one year? 189 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:15,040 Speaker 1: For one year, you have to either every social thing 190 00:08:15,120 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: you do is with me your dad. That's one option. 191 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: Or you can go out with anybody you want for 192 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: a year, anytime you want. But every time you poop 193 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: it hurts so bad you scream. So now you have 194 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: to choose. Would you rather have it hurt so bad 195 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: when you poop that you scream, or the only social 196 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,079 Speaker 1: engagement would be with me for one year. 197 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,439 Speaker 8: I mean, I totally hang out with you for a 198 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 8: whole year, but I think you get sick, sick of 199 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 8: hanging out with me for the year. 200 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:44,360 Speaker 1: Oh never, never, all right, Love you best, I might 201 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:47,880 Speaker 1: change your mind though, Yeah, all right, love you to bye. 202 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 4: Dave chooses to scream while he poops. I just can 203 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 4: I switch it. I did get some text messages. 204 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:57,199 Speaker 1: Tell me about the engagement ring. 205 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,679 Speaker 6: Yeah. People are saying, hey, there's a silver lining. Now 206 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 6: she can get a cute manicure. Some are saying tell 207 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 6: him later on happened to me and I told him 208 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:05,600 Speaker 6: like a month later. 209 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 4: See that's what's worrying me. There's a bunch of text messages. 210 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 5: One of them says, uh, I found my ring before 211 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 5: he propose, I'll take it to my grave. Another I 212 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 5: tried to call her, but she didn't want to be 213 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 5: on the radio. She said that she told him after 214 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:20,319 Speaker 5: the fact. I'd pray whenever that day comes for me 215 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 5: to propose to or leading up to it, whenever I 216 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 5: get a ring that she has no clue, I'm gonna 217 00:09:24,880 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 5: be so devastated if I I wouldn't find out. 218 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 4: But if she knows, or she's seen the ring somewhere, and. 219 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 6: A lot of people are saying, my husband still thinks 220 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 6: I don't know, but I did, and I really never 221 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 6: told him. 222 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 4: He won't know. You know, they are too nervous to 223 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 4: pay attention. 224 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 1: I think you're absolutely right. He's going to be so 225 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: focused on doing it right and remembering what he wants 226 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: to say and not dropping the ring, he's never gonna notice. 227 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: So take you say, take it to the grave, Take 228 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: it to the I would take it to the grave, 229 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: but also fell, let's find a better hiding spot. 230 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, your carry on, it's on top and it's in 231 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,599 Speaker 6: a bout. 232 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: I wonder if he went somewhere, maybe bought it from 233 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 1: like a friend who was a jeweler in another town 234 00:09:59,440 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: or something like that. 235 00:10:00,480 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 6: I mean, she was trying to be helpful and help 236 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,439 Speaker 6: him unpacked, so I don't think it's her fault and 237 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 6: she shouldn't feel bad for it. 238 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: In my humble opinion, Okay, what would you do