1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Kimmy, thanks for holding my. God, Kimmy, nine minutes you're 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: holding I am so sorry. 3 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 2: Honestly, I just doom scrolled. 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 1: Oh wow, Well, thank you for doom scrolling and holding. 5 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: What can we do for you, Kimmy. 6 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 2: I need some help. I I'm having a little bit 7 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 2: of an issue with my boyfriend. He's being really suspicious 8 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:23,159 Speaker 2: of me because I don't want to go to his 9 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: place and I'm not cheating. I probably am not cheating. 10 00:00:26,280 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: It's I hate his dog, and I feel horrible saying that, 11 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,239 Speaker 2: but it's the truth, and I don't know how to 12 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 2: tell him. He's always like asking why I'm not like 13 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 2: coming over and I avoided place, and he says that 14 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 2: it's a red flat, but she just has this dog, 15 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:50,160 Speaker 2: and it's so crusty, it's so nasty. His whole place 16 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: smells like wet dog do. He talks to it like 17 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 2: it's a human child, and I get it, it's his baby, 18 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 2: but honestly, the whole thing just really cks me out. 19 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: So I like pretend that I'm allergic, and I just 20 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 2: feel like it's becoming this barrier between us. But I 21 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 2: don't want to get in bed with a damp dog. 22 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 3: Could you maybe like gift a grooming like a mobile 23 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 3: groomer to come and maybe that could and then like 24 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 3: get his house. 25 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 4: Like some air fresheners or something. 26 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 3: I feel like it's probably a really sweet dog. And 27 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 3: I actually think it's a green flag that he loves 28 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 3: his dog so much. 29 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: Why I'm with you at green flag, I think you're 30 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: a red flag. I'm gonna say it there it is. 31 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: I think people that don't like dogs are red flags. 32 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: I do as if a man, if I was dating 33 00:01:45,200 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: a man in his house smelt like wet dog. 34 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 4: Have you guys ever smelt wet dog? My house smells 35 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 4: like that twenty four seven? 36 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: I can't. 37 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 4: I know, I would probably break up with them if 38 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 4: they're hot. Probably red flag. 39 00:01:56,600 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 2: You know. 40 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 3: It's so funny is Paint came over to my house 41 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 3: the other day and my dog Daisy, she's not like 42 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 3: she's not overly friendly with many people, but she took 43 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 3: a liking to Peyton and she came up on like 44 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 3: we were sitting on the couch and she came up 45 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 3: next to Pay and just kind of sat next to her. 46 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 3: It was like staring at her and like, Daisy, Pain's 47 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 3: not a doggy person. Don't be so aggressive with. 48 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: Her talking to dog like human Beings's boyfriend. 49 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 3: Was like, Okay, you're not Slobbery's like, you're not gross, 50 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 3: you don't have crusties in your eyes. 51 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 4: You're actually kind of cute. Like, I don't mind you. 52 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,919 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, I just don't want them in my face. 53 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,800 Speaker 3: People don't like the slobbery or the like dander. 54 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and the bed thing if the dog's kind of 55 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 1: wet and gross and in the bed. 56 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 4: But you know what it's like. 57 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 3: I actually read something the other day that like, dogs 58 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 3: that get to sleep with their owners live almost four 59 00:02:52,680 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 3: years longer than dogs that don't like can extend their lives. 60 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 3: He's really caring about his animal, which is what you 61 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 3: want in a partner, because you want them to like 62 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 3: like that could be a sign of what they're gonna 63 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 3: be like as a parent, Like you want him to 64 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 3: be an attentive, loving dad one day. 65 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 2: Right. Yeah, I don't have any issue in my boyfriend. 66 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 2: I love my boyfriend so much. It's just it dog 67 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 2: is so nasty, and I think. 68 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:19,960 Speaker 3: So he's not attentive to his child, because if he was, 69 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 3: the dog wouldn't. 70 00:03:20,919 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 4: Be smelling what all the time. 71 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 2: He rider. 72 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 1: What how old is the dog, Kimmy. I mean he's 73 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: probably lived to be another six years or something like that. 74 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 1: And then you guys can decide to get a dog 75 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: together after that or not get a dog. 76 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 4: But I think you're the red flag. 77 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 2: You're gonna tell your boyfriend like, dude, not gonna lie 78 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 2: like the dogs kind of grass. 79 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 4: Let me take about. 80 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: You said something about sleeping with a dog. So the 81 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 1: dogs and my I have six dogs. And when I 82 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: get up to leave in the morning and come here, 83 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: three of my dogs jump on the bed and sleep 84 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: with Blake, our dog, Charlie the Golden Retriever, our dog, 85 00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: Maggie the English bulldog, and Pablo the mixed. 86 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 4: Our three biggest dogs jump in the bed with there. 87 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 1: And I have this new mattress, the Sleep eight mattress, 88 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: and it reads your your. 89 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 4: Everything about you. 90 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: And I get a message later my message didn't come 91 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,160 Speaker 1: through this morning, and I'm like, why did you get 92 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,559 Speaker 1: I get my results, So I go to the app 93 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:19,200 Speaker 1: and look, and according to the app, I'm still sleeping 94 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: there because the dogs. The dogs are laying on the 95 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: bed where I left and yeah, and. 96 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,160 Speaker 4: I'm like, what the hell, man, I know I got 97 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 4: to come with the sleep eight. 98 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: It's got a troubleshoot that yeah, thinks I'm wearing on 99 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: the bed. 100 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,719 Speaker 2: But anyway, keep it clean. 101 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: Well, our house is a disaster. Our house gets clean. 102 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 4: Our house smells like you got you got zones that 103 00:04:43,839 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 4: are kind of uh, I got. 104 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 1: I'm embarrassing people come over my house. I kind of 105 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: like it exact way. People hopefully won't come over. The 106 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: house smells does not go over there. I think my 107 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:52,680 Speaker 1: house smells when I'm fine with. 108 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 3: It, okay, And maybe that's how your boyfriend feels. But 109 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 3: I think, like always, we always say that it's all 110 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 3: about the communication. You can't avoid it any longer if 111 00:05:04,440 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 3: you really do love him, Like love's hard to find, 112 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 3: like genuine love and connection is hard to find, you 113 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 3: don't want to give it. 114 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 4: Up over that. 115 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 2: You're right. And I also think that mobile groomer is 116 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 2: not a bad idea. 117 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 4: I'm gonna start somewhere, oh yeah, right around the corner. 118 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: I just got my sleep score as I'm talking to 119 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: you guys about it. It just got texted me and 120 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: it says I slept eight hours. I did not sleep 121 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:25,440 Speaker 1: eight hours. 122 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 2: Stop. 123 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: Nobody on this show sleeps eight hours so you guys know, 124 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:30,880 Speaker 1: the doll had a good. 125 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 4: Nice thing on Christmas Day. 126 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 1: That's about it anyway, Thanks for calling in, Kimmy, thank 127 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 1: you 128 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 4: Thanks for listening, but thank you.