Speaker 1: It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 2: All right, So this second date update is koree z
Speaker 2: all right, so crazy second date update here on the
Speaker 2: Mojo in the Morning show. Going to be interesting to
Speaker 2: find out why they're being ghosted. Actually, I already kind
Speaker 2: of know. Can I just actually pull her up she's
Speaker 2: the one that's doing the ghosting and do something different
Speaker 2: on the second day up date? All right, Sarah's on
Speaker 2: with us right now. Sarah, how you doing? First off,
Speaker 2: thank you for agreeing to go on the air with us. Hi, Sarah, Hi?
Speaker 3: Hi, Yeah, no problem.
Speaker 2: So Sarah is ghosting the guy that you're gonna hear
Speaker 2: her in a second here. His name is David, and
Speaker 2: she's ghosting him after a date that you guys went
Speaker 2: on with each other. First off, what was the date?
Speaker 2: Explain what you guys did on your date?
Speaker 1: Uh?
Speaker 3: Well, we met on Hinge and decided to go to a.
Speaker 4: Bar and I don't know, I mean, he was funny
Speaker 4: and charming and we have some stuff in common.
Speaker 3: So I decide to go, you know, back to his
Speaker 3: place after and we you know, we had a good time.
Speaker 1: It was good.
Speaker 2: So you went back to his place, did you anything
Speaker 2: happen between you guys.
Speaker 3: Oh we hung out, you know, we were up all night,
Speaker 3: all right.
Speaker 2: So you had your date and then something happened after
Speaker 2: the date. And I'm gonna bring David on right now.
Speaker 1: David. Hi, how you doing?
Speaker 3: Hey?
Speaker 2: Hey David, say hi to Sarah.
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 5: Okay, hey Sarah. Hey, how's it going.
Speaker 1: I'm fine, so David.
Speaker 2: So Sarah, when you contacted us and submitted, by the way,
Speaker 2: you can get on second date update. You can text
Speaker 2: date to nine five five zero zero and then Lydia
Speaker 2: and Bianca will get a hold of you and we'll
Speaker 2: get you on. Sarah told us off the air why
Speaker 2: she has not been calling you back, and it's it's
Speaker 2: because of somebody else.
Speaker 1: Can you guess at all? Who?
Speaker 2: Who else would have played a part in this date
Speaker 2: of yours? That isn't making Sarah uncomfortable?
Speaker 5: H No one comes to mind?
Speaker 1: Really, what is it, Sarah? You want to tell him?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I guess.
Speaker 6: Uh.
Speaker 4: Some girl named Bella DMed me and told me to
Speaker 4: stay away from her.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 5: So Bella D.
Speaker 6: Who is.
Speaker 4: She?
Speaker 5: She's my ex? But I'm not getting myself into you know,
Speaker 5: I mean mess, I'm staying out of it. I'm staying
Speaker 5: out of her mess.
Speaker 1: What did what did she d m you? Sarah? Yeah?
Speaker 4: She she said stay away from her man, she said,
Speaker 4: I mean she said his.
Speaker 3: Name and everything, like.
Speaker 4: She knew a bunch about She knew where we went.
Speaker 3: So I don't know, like does she have your location
Speaker 3: or something?
Speaker 4: I don't know, but she like she knew where we
Speaker 4: went on the date.
Speaker 7: How did she know that you were the one that
Speaker 7: went and went out on a date with your location?
Speaker 1: Wouldn't give that up?
Speaker 4: I have no idea.
Speaker 3: I don't know how she found me, but she, I mean,
Speaker 3: she knew his name, she knew about where we went.
Speaker 1: So did you post from the date?
Speaker 4: I didn't.
Speaker 1: Did you post anything?
Speaker 7: David?
Speaker 5: No, I didn't post anything.
Speaker 2: How would you your ex girlfriend know exactly where you were?
Speaker 6: We might tell the.
Speaker 5: Locations, but right now, but look at that.
Speaker 2: She's got more than your locations. She's got your passwords
Speaker 2: and she's got your loggin. Because if she knows that
Speaker 2: you were out with Sarah and then knows how to
Speaker 2: get a hold of Sarah, there's something more that's going
Speaker 2: on here.
Speaker 1: David.
Speaker 4: Have you had problems with this X in the past?
Speaker 8: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yes, Wow, So.
Speaker 5: Look I don't want to bad mouth her in front
Speaker 5: of a bunch of people, but I just want to say, like,
Speaker 5: maybe she's not doing well, and she's not you know,
Speaker 5: I've moved on. She's not my girlfriend and I don't
Speaker 5: want anything to do with her, and she's just jealous,
Speaker 5: toxic expissle Sarah.
Speaker 1: How freaked out were you when you got this dam
Speaker 1: and we're reading it?
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I was pretty freaked out, mostly.
Speaker 3: Though I just don't, like, I don't want to get
Speaker 3: involved in stuff like that.
Speaker 4: I don't have space for that in my life. And
Speaker 4: I had fun on the date, but one fun date
Speaker 4: is not worth all.
Speaker 1: Of that to me, And that's so sad. That's unfortunate.
Speaker 2: Has anybody had this happen to them and maybe can
Speaker 2: tell us their personal story on this one. Have they
Speaker 2: ever gone out with somebody only to get contacted by
Speaker 2: somebody that knew them or said to them stay away
Speaker 2: from them? Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four
Speaker 2: six six five sixty five four eight is the telephone
Speaker 2: number also, David, And I'm not doubting you, but I
Speaker 2: do have to say this because there's some Texters there saying,
Speaker 2: how do we know it's actually your ex.
Speaker 5: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: I think I think that people are wondering if there
Speaker 2: is still something that is between you and her.
Speaker 5: No, I promise there's nothing going on.
Speaker 1: He's sounds scared. Yeah, he does scared that she's really.
Speaker 1: I mean, I.
Speaker 5: I just don't want to get involved.
Speaker 6: I feel you.
Speaker 2: Don't get yourself in trouble. I would feel more scared
Speaker 2: if I was Sarah.
Speaker 1: And you know well, because now the girl knows.
Speaker 2: And Sarah, would this keep you from ever going on
Speaker 2: another date with David?
Speaker 5: Honestly?
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just don't think that he's in a place to really.
Speaker 4: Date right now with this going on. If he could
Speaker 4: like promise or figure out a way, you know, to
Speaker 4: take care of.
Speaker 2: It, maybe, But Felicia is on the phone with this
Speaker 2: right now, has a question for David.
Speaker 1: What's your question? Felicia?
Speaker 6: My question is how long ago did you and your
Speaker 6: ex breakup? Because why is she reacting like this? It's over,
Speaker 6: it's done, you broke up and you know it's nothing
Speaker 6: to do with So how long ago was that breakup?
Speaker 5: It was like several months ago, several months to.
Speaker 6: Deal with her, though, he said over half a year. Sorry,
Speaker 6: you still deal with her? I said, do you still
Speaker 6: deal with her? Do you still go back and spend
Speaker 6: the box a couple of times and then like, oh,
Speaker 6: we're broken up?
Speaker 5: Though no, I don't.
Speaker 8: Maybe I shall.
Speaker 5: Reach out and I to be nice. I will message
Speaker 5: her back, like a few words, just so she won't
Speaker 5: like do something weird, but nothing like.
Speaker 6: So, while are you continuing to have conversations with someone
Speaker 6: that you're claiming it is crazy? You block them and
Speaker 6: stop talking to them, You stop communicating with them. You
Speaker 6: don't keep entering into their lives and then saying, oh,
Speaker 6: well they're stalking me, they're crazy, leave.
Speaker 5: Them alone, because I kind of want to contain the mess,
Speaker 5: you know, and be nice about it. I don't want
Speaker 5: to like there's very few people she had close to her,
Speaker 5: and I was one of them. But then I also
Speaker 5: can't be you know, everything, But I also don't want
Speaker 5: to like burn that, you know. I don't want anything
Speaker 5: to do with her. I don't want a relationship with her.
Speaker 5: I don't want her physically, but I also don't want
Speaker 5: to be like, uh, even she does something else.
Speaker 2: Crazy, Melissa wants to content Melissa, what did you want
Speaker 2: to say.
Speaker 1: He's a liar. You can hear it in his voice.
Speaker 1: That's I don't think.
Speaker 7: I don't know that hard.
Speaker 2: What do you hear, Melissa, Because I hear a guy that's,
Speaker 2: you know, a little afraid and trying to do things
Speaker 2: the right way.
Speaker 1: What are you hearing? M h, he's stuttering. No, he's
Speaker 1: trying to trying to get out of it. And that's
Speaker 1: his girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Well, it sounds to me he's stuttering also because he
Speaker 2: doesn't want to say the wrong thing that gives something
Speaker 2: away to her.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: I feel bad for both of these guys. I feel
Speaker 2: bad for Sarah because she's got put in the middle
Speaker 2: of this mess, and David for being in the mess.
Speaker 1: What's up, Jay, you want to say something that?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I had. I don't know if I totally believe
Speaker 7: him with this. I had a similar situation, not well,
Speaker 7: sort of situation. I went on to David this guy
Speaker 7: like three times, and he said he was like this
Speaker 7: widow and his wife had passed away until I got
Speaker 7: a text message from the deceased wife.
Speaker 1: Oh say from a doubt from me?
Speaker 5: Yeah, badly resurrected.
Speaker 7: So yeah, it was I don't remember exactly what I
Speaker 7: said at this point. But then my friends when I
Speaker 7: got to digging, and these were both lestures in their community,
Speaker 7: and it was very messy, and I just.
Speaker 1: See me out of that hold on Emily, what's up? Hi?
Speaker 8: I was just calling to say I had an ex
Speaker 8: like this. So normally I would be the first person
Speaker 8: at his defense. But for his response to be I'm
Speaker 8: not getting involved, it seems like a major red flag
Speaker 8: considering he is involved. He's the whole situation and reason
Speaker 8: for it. So if anything, I would expect her to
Speaker 8: say she's not wanting to get involved in the situation. Yeah,
Speaker 8: this is all caused by him, So it seems like
Speaker 8: he's not one to take accountability.
Speaker 2: He's I would say, caused by him. I would say
Speaker 2: that he's in the middle of it. But I would
Speaker 2: say this, Yeah, David's got to work through some stuff.
Speaker 1: Maybe when he does.
Speaker 2: Sarah can be part of what is going to be
Speaker 2: his you know, new relationship life.
Speaker 1: And I think, David, you got to deal with it, buddy.
Speaker 2: I think the problem is you're going to be faced
Speaker 2: with this and I would change passwords.
Speaker 8: Yeah, change the passwords definitely, and then you know, stand
Speaker 8: up to her. And because I've been there. It's not
Speaker 8: fair for it to be held against you, But you
Speaker 8: also can't just let this person go around saying and
Speaker 8: acting like that and holding back your life either, so
Speaker 8: you've got to do something about it.
Speaker 1: I absolutely I do agree with that second date update.
Speaker 2: As a whole, with a journey of a thirty row
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Speaker 1: And more of the roses. This is Mojule in the Morning.