WEBVTT - Second Date Update: His Crazy Ex  

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<v Speaker 1>It's the second date update on Mojo in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So this second date update is koree z

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<v Speaker 2>all right, so crazy second date update here on the

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<v Speaker 2>Mojo in the Morning show. Going to be interesting to

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<v Speaker 2>find out why they're being ghosted. Actually, I already kind

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<v Speaker 2>of know. Can I just actually pull her up she's

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<v Speaker 2>the one that's doing the ghosting and do something different

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<v Speaker 2>on the second day up date? All right, Sarah's on

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<v Speaker 2>with us right now. Sarah, how you doing? First off,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you for agreeing to go on the air with us. Hi, Sarah, Hi?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Yeah, no problem.

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<v Speaker 2>So Sarah is ghosting the guy that you're gonna hear

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<v Speaker 2>her in a second here. His name is David, and

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<v Speaker 2>she's ghosting him after a date that you guys went

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<v Speaker 2>on with each other. First off, what was the date?

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<v Speaker 2>Explain what you guys did on your date?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, we met on Hinge and decided to go to a.

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<v Speaker 4>Bar and I don't know, I mean, he was funny

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<v Speaker 4>and charming and we have some stuff in common.

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<v Speaker 3>So I decide to go, you know, back to his

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<v Speaker 3>place after and we you know, we had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>It was good.

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<v Speaker 2>So you went back to his place, did you anything

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<v Speaker 2>happen between you guys.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh we hung out, you know, we were up all night,

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<v Speaker 3>all right.

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<v Speaker 2>So you had your date and then something happened after

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<v Speaker 2>the date. And I'm gonna bring David on right now.

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<v Speaker 1>David. Hi, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey David, say hi to Sarah.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, hey Sarah. Hey, how's it going.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, so David.

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<v Speaker 2>So Sarah, when you contacted us and submitted, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>you can get on second date update. You can text

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<v Speaker 2>date to nine five five zero zero and then Lydia

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<v Speaker 2>and Bianca will get a hold of you and we'll

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<v Speaker 2>get you on. Sarah told us off the air why

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<v Speaker 2>she has not been calling you back, and it's it's

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<v Speaker 2>because of somebody else.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you guess at all? Who?

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<v Speaker 2>Who else would have played a part in this date

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<v Speaker 2>of yours? That isn't making Sarah uncomfortable?

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<v Speaker 5>H No one comes to mind?

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<v Speaker 1>Really, what is it, Sarah? You want to tell him?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I guess.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh.

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<v Speaker 4>Some girl named Bella DMed me and told me to

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<v Speaker 4>stay away from her.

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<v Speaker 2>Man.

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<v Speaker 5>So Bella D.

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<v Speaker 6>Who is.

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<v Speaker 4>She?

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<v Speaker 5>She's my ex? But I'm not getting myself into you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean mess, I'm staying out of it. I'm staying

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<v Speaker 5>out of her mess.

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<v Speaker 1>What did what did she d m you? Sarah? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>She she said stay away from her man, she said,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean she said his.

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<v Speaker 3>Name and everything, like.

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<v Speaker 4>She knew a bunch about She knew where we went.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't know, like does she have your location

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<v Speaker 3>or something?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, but she like she knew where we

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<v Speaker 4>went on the date.

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<v Speaker 7>How did she know that you were the one that

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<v Speaker 7>went and went out on a date with your location?

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<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't give that up?

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<v Speaker 4>I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how she found me, but she, I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>she knew his name, she knew about where we went.

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<v Speaker 1>So did you post from the date?

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you post anything?

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<v Speaker 7>David?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I didn't post anything.

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<v Speaker 2>How would you your ex girlfriend know exactly where you were?

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<v Speaker 6>We might tell the.

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<v Speaker 5>Locations, but right now, but look at that.

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<v Speaker 2>She's got more than your locations. She's got your passwords

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<v Speaker 2>and she's got your loggin. Because if she knows that

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<v Speaker 2>you were out with Sarah and then knows how to

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<v Speaker 2>get a hold of Sarah, there's something more that's going

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<v Speaker 2>on here.

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<v Speaker 1>David.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you had problems with this X in the past?

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<v Speaker 8>Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Wow, So.

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<v Speaker 5>Look I don't want to bad mouth her in front

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<v Speaker 5>of a bunch of people, but I just want to say, like,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe she's not doing well, and she's not you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I've moved on. She's not my girlfriend and I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want anything to do with her, and she's just jealous,

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<v Speaker 5>toxic expissle Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>How freaked out were you when you got this dam

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<v Speaker 1>and we're reading it?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yeah, I was pretty freaked out, mostly.

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<v Speaker 3>Though I just don't, like, I don't want to get

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<v Speaker 3>involved in stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't have space for that in my life. And

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<v Speaker 4>I had fun on the date, but one fun date

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<v Speaker 4>is not worth all.

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<v Speaker 1>Of that to me, And that's so sad. That's unfortunate.

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<v Speaker 2>Has anybody had this happen to them and maybe can

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<v Speaker 2>tell us their personal story on this one. Have they

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<v Speaker 2>ever gone out with somebody only to get contacted by

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<v Speaker 2>somebody that knew them or said to them stay away

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<v Speaker 2>from them? Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four

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<v Speaker 2>six six five sixty five four eight is the telephone

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<v Speaker 2>number also, David, And I'm not doubting you, but I

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<v Speaker 2>do have to say this because there's some Texters there saying,

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<v Speaker 2>how do we know it's actually your ex.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think that people are wondering if there

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<v Speaker 2>is still something that is between you and her.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I promise there's nothing going on.

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<v Speaker 1>He's sounds scared. Yeah, he does scared that she's really.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 5>I just don't want to get involved.

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<v Speaker 6>I feel you.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't get yourself in trouble. I would feel more scared

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<v Speaker 2>if I was Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know well, because now the girl knows.

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<v Speaker 2>And Sarah, would this keep you from ever going on

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<v Speaker 2>another date with David?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I mean I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't think that he's in a place to really.

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<v Speaker 4>Date right now with this going on. If he could

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<v Speaker 4>like promise or figure out a way, you know, to

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<v Speaker 4>take care of.

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<v Speaker 2>It, maybe, But Felicia is on the phone with this

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<v Speaker 2>right now, has a question for David.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your question? Felicia?

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<v Speaker 6>My question is how long ago did you and your

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<v Speaker 6>ex breakup? Because why is she reacting like this? It's over,

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<v Speaker 6>it's done, you broke up and you know it's nothing

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<v Speaker 6>to do with So how long ago was that breakup?

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<v Speaker 5>It was like several months ago, several months to.

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<v Speaker 6>Deal with her, though, he said over half a year. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 6>you still deal with her? I said, do you still

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<v Speaker 6>deal with her? Do you still go back and spend

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<v Speaker 6>the box a couple of times and then like, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>we're broken up?

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<v Speaker 5>Though no, I don't.

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<v Speaker 8>Maybe I shall.

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<v Speaker 5>Reach out and I to be nice. I will message

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<v Speaker 5>her back, like a few words, just so she won't

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<v Speaker 5>like do something weird, but nothing like.

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<v Speaker 6>So, while are you continuing to have conversations with someone

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<v Speaker 6>that you're claiming it is crazy? You block them and

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<v Speaker 6>stop talking to them, You stop communicating with them. You

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<v Speaker 6>don't keep entering into their lives and then saying, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>well they're stalking me, they're crazy, leave.

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<v Speaker 5>Them alone, because I kind of want to contain the mess,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, and be nice about it. I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to like there's very few people she had close to her,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was one of them. But then I also

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<v Speaker 5>can't be you know, everything, But I also don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to like burn that, you know. I don't want anything

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<v Speaker 5>to do with her. I don't want a relationship with her.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want her physically, but I also don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to be like, uh, even she does something else.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy, Melissa wants to content Melissa, what did you want

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<v Speaker 2>to say.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a liar. You can hear it in his voice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's I don't think.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know that hard.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you hear, Melissa, Because I hear a guy that's,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a little afraid and trying to do things

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<v Speaker 2>the right way.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you hearing? M h, he's stuttering. No, he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to trying to get out of it. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it sounds to me he's stuttering also because he

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to say the wrong thing that gives something

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<v Speaker 2>away to her.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad for both of these guys. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>bad for Sarah because she's got put in the middle

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<v Speaker 2>of this mess, and David for being in the mess.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Jay, you want to say something that?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I had. I don't know if I totally believe

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<v Speaker 7>him with this. I had a similar situation, not well,

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<v Speaker 7>sort of situation. I went on to David this guy

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<v Speaker 7>like three times, and he said he was like this

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<v Speaker 7>widow and his wife had passed away until I got

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<v Speaker 7>a text message from the deceased wife.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh say from a doubt from me?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, badly resurrected.

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<v Speaker 7>So yeah, it was I don't remember exactly what I

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<v Speaker 7>said at this point. But then my friends when I

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<v Speaker 7>got to digging, and these were both lestures in their community,

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<v Speaker 7>and it was very messy, and I just.

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<v Speaker 1>See me out of that hold on Emily, what's up? Hi?

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<v Speaker 8>I was just calling to say I had an ex

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<v Speaker 8>like this. So normally I would be the first person

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<v Speaker 8>at his defense. But for his response to be I'm

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<v Speaker 8>not getting involved, it seems like a major red flag

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<v Speaker 8>considering he is involved. He's the whole situation and reason

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<v Speaker 8>for it. So if anything, I would expect her to

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<v Speaker 8>say she's not wanting to get involved in the situation. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 8>this is all caused by him, So it seems like

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<v Speaker 8>he's not one to take accountability.

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<v Speaker 2>He's I would say, caused by him. I would say

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<v Speaker 2>that he's in the middle of it. But I would

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<v Speaker 2>say this, Yeah, David's got to work through some stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe when he does.

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<v Speaker 2>Sarah can be part of what is going to be

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<v Speaker 2>his you know, new relationship life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think, David, you got to deal with it, buddy.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the problem is you're going to be faced

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<v Speaker 2>with this and I would change passwords.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, change the passwords definitely, and then you know, stand

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<v Speaker 8>up to her. And because I've been there. It's not

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<v Speaker 8>fair for it to be held against you, But you

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<v Speaker 8>also can't just let this person go around saying and

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<v Speaker 8>acting like that and holding back your life either, so

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<v Speaker 8>you've got to do something about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely I do agree with that second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>As a whole, with a journey of a thirty row

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<v Speaker 2>back fro Dad, second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>And more of the roses. This is Mojule in the Morning.