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Speaker 1: Listen. Not every proposal ends with a yes. We're live

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Speaker 1: on ninety three three fls. It is a Joe show.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? A moment where you get

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Speaker 1: to call in and just ask that question. Hey, listen,

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Speaker 1: I made a decision. I did something and kind of

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Speaker 1: second guess. You know, I'm not sure if maybe I

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Speaker 1: made the wrong decision. And Riley, I was at Disney

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Speaker 1: World this weekend and you were there two weekends ago.

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Speaker 1: I wish I was there two weekends ago, because I mean,

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Speaker 1: I would love to see this. But quite the interesting

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Speaker 1: situation you found yourself in, right, Yeah, you could say

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Speaker 1: that for sure. So you and your boyfriend listen, at

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Speaker 1: least before this moment, everything was good. Everything was great

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Speaker 1: enough to where obviously you wanted to pop the question

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Speaker 1: to you. He does it at Disney, he does it

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Speaker 1: in front of the castle, right, correct? Yeah, yeah, Magic Kingdom?

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Speaker 1: What happened? Yeah? I like, yeah, we were at Disney.

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Speaker 2: We went to Magic Kingdom, and we do that a lot,

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Speaker 2: Like we're sacing pass holders and so we go there

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Speaker 2: a lot. And when we were like talking about getting engaged,

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Speaker 2: like we've been together for three years, so like you know,

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Speaker 2: that's a conversation you have like what are your expectations?

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Speaker 1: Like what are you thinking?

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Speaker 2: What you know? And literally the only rule I had

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Speaker 2: was like, do not do it at Disney. Do not

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Speaker 2: do it to Disney. Were all there all the time,

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Speaker 2: like it's something we do. I understand, like why that

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Speaker 2: could seem like a good idea, but like I just

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Speaker 2: wanted it to be something different, something you know, unique

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Speaker 2: to us, instead of just like something that we do

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Speaker 2: all the time. Sure, and like yeah, that was literally

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Speaker 2: I was like it can be anything else, anywhere else,

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Speaker 2: any any where else.

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Speaker 1: Did you ever think that you were going to uh

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Speaker 1: be in the position where you got to say no

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Speaker 1: to him, like you.

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Speaker 2: Know no, I mean like we I figured because we

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Speaker 2: had this conversation and that was literally my only request. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like that wouldn't they would listen to my like to

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Speaker 2: in respect my wishes, and like they're like, oh, okay,

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Speaker 2: well that makes you know, that makes the day. I

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Speaker 2: won't do it there. I'll think of something different, literally

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Speaker 2: anything else. And so yeah, we were there a couple

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Speaker 2: weeks ago and like we were with friends and family

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Speaker 2: and now they're all and I didn't say like no,

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Speaker 2: and like now we're not together anymore. It's like, no,

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Speaker 2: I told you this isn't like come up with my

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Speaker 2: yeah now fiance.

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Speaker 1: That was her one rule, which is why when Terry

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Speaker 1: brought this up to me and she's like, hey, we

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Speaker 1: got tomail and oh well here's the thing. As a

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Speaker 1: guy or as if if you're a woman that needs

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Speaker 1: to pop the question, there's a lot of stress that

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Speaker 1: goes behind that. Now is an annual pass holder like you.

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Speaker 1: I kept thinking like, well, this would be a great idea,

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Speaker 1: but that was a list is like one thing like

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Speaker 1: you cannot do it here. I will say no if

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Speaker 1: you do it, so I I didn't eight hundred four

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Speaker 1: nine ninety three ninety three. Is there anyone listening right

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Speaker 1: now who either said no or got turned down? Eight

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Speaker 1: hundred four on nine ninety three ninety three. And then

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Speaker 1: of course is Riley the a hole for for you know,

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Speaker 1: saying no? But maybe her boyfriend, which everything's gonna work out, right.

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Speaker 2: I hope, yeah, yeah, but yeah, maybe I want to

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Speaker 2: be with him.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he's the a hole for not listening to you.

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Speaker 1: A oh my man, heyo, my man, A.

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Speaker 3: Man, I got I got, I gotta say you're an

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Speaker 3: a hole for that like there's women out that even

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Speaker 3: that just with a man would even think about proposing.

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Speaker 3: I know you say, you're not Disney, but you know

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Speaker 3: why he did it. And he was like telling you,

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Speaker 3: I love you so much, I want to spend the

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Speaker 3: rest of my life with you. And then you just

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Speaker 3: gonna shut him down. I don't even think he's gonna

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Speaker 3: pop that question ever again.

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Speaker 1: Even though he didn't respect her wishes.

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Speaker 2: The jewels, Yeah, please don't do it there, and I

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Speaker 2: will say no. And like I prepared him.

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Speaker 1: It's not like I, you know, didn't catch you to myself,

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Speaker 1: what at least he did it.

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Speaker 4: At least at least you did it.

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Speaker 3: How many women you say that goes to the rest

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Speaker 3: of your life without being married, like the rest of

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Speaker 3: your life, Like you know that's crazy that you know,

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Speaker 3: that's that's why and that's why you know I've been

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Speaker 3: with the same woman six years. I won't never pop

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Speaker 3: the bus because but woman tells me, no, I'm not

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Speaker 3: doing what.

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Speaker 1: That crazy work? Okay, I love you, man, don't do that.

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Speaker 4: I hope you don't ask you again.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if Jules, have you been turned down before?

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Speaker 1: As Naomi said, uh.

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Speaker 4: No, my name is Jules. Hey, yo, my man, don't

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Speaker 4: nobody say no to me A man. I did took

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Speaker 4: the question and we did get engaged. But you know

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Speaker 4: he wasn't gonna say no.

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Speaker 1: He would never ask.

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Speaker 4: I didn't. I did it, I get married.

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Speaker 2: Will never do, you know?

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Speaker 4: And then you're like, I did ask, like.

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Speaker 3: Which one is it?

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Speaker 4: But no, I just remember because I did it like

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Speaker 4: four years ago. I remember that. Yeah, it's so special.

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Speaker 4: It really interest to me. It really isn't what it

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Speaker 4: really isn't special to me, Like I'm with a person

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Speaker 4: for six years. You know, it's we're in love. We're

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Speaker 4: in love. We live with each other, you know, and

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Speaker 4: we have kids together, we have fun. But to me,

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Speaker 4: it's like it's just we're known be together. Why I

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Speaker 4: go to a courthouse and sign a piece of paper

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Speaker 4: saying I love you, you of me? And then when you

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Speaker 4: get divorced, you take everything I make eet no.

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Speaker 1: Marry, We're gonna prenant. This is very uh. I love this.

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Speaker 1: This is a lot to unpack with us right now?

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Speaker 1: Does jewels get put in the corner, He's the one

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Speaker 1: that's put in the corner, all right, all right? Jewels,

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Speaker 1: Jewels I'll text you you are the greatest. You are

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Speaker 1: the greatest. Tanya is Riley the a hole. She turned

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Speaker 1: down her her boyfriend at Disney. She said, listen, I

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Speaker 1: want to marry you. Please. The only place I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be proposed to is at Disney. And he

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Speaker 1: did it.

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Speaker 5: So she said, no, Honestly, it shouldn't matter where the

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Speaker 5: guy proposes. He wants to spend the rest of his

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Speaker 5: life with her. And now she said, no, Now, he's

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Speaker 5: probably never gonna want to put that question again. But

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Speaker 5: how many guys are gonna, you know, do that after

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Speaker 5: they've been.

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Speaker 2: You know, do Okay, But if he doesn't listen to

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Speaker 2: this one require, then I spend my whole life with

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Speaker 2: him every time I say hey, don't do this, Hey

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Speaker 2: please do this, and he doesn't listen, Like, why would

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Speaker 2: I allow myself to live that kind of life.

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Speaker 5: Anywhere there's compromise in every relationship.

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Speaker 2: If you like him anywhere else in the dirt.

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Speaker 1: People, Yeah, no, Riley, you can go ahead.

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Speaker 2: This is this is I'm just like it could have

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Speaker 2: it could have been in our backyard. It could have

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Speaker 2: been it could have been on a hike in the dirt,

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Speaker 2: like when we're sweaty and gross, like it didn't have

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Speaker 2: to be something elaborate, wasn't asking for like the stars

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Speaker 2: and the sun and the moon. I was literally just saying, please,

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Speaker 2: don't do it here.

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Speaker 4: That was it.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's a big deal.

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Speaker 1: No, I don't. And by the way, I don't think

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Speaker 1: it's a big deal at all. But you know, evidently

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Speaker 1: some people do uh here because Brett's on your side. Brett,

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Speaker 1: you are on side. You don't think it's that big

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Speaker 1: of a and not that big of a deal. But

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Speaker 1: you think that her saying no is completely justified.

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Speaker 4: I believe so. If she didn't want to done it,

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Speaker 4: I think the proposal at Disney's overplayed anyway, people do

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Speaker 4: it all the time. She prepared him, she told him

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Speaker 4: she was going to say no, So I don't think.

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Speaker 1: She's me whole. Look at that. Thank you, Brett, you

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Speaker 1: look at that. Look at that? All right, Riley, you

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Speaker 1: know what. I'm gonna move on. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for calling in. Best of luck,