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Speaker 1: It's Marcus.

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Speaker 2: We're bringing back second data update for those of you

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Speaker 2: that are just joining the show. This is all about

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Speaker 2: getting people together after a first date. Let's say you

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Speaker 2: went on the date and you whoever you went on

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Speaker 2: the date with ghosted.

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Speaker 1: We called them to try to figure it out.

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Speaker 2: The ultimate goal is to get you a second date,

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Speaker 2: hoping it's a misunderstanding. But at the very least I

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Speaker 2: want to get answers. So let's bring on Nate. Nate,

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Speaker 2: are you.

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Speaker 3: There, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, dude, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: Let's let's let's talk about Emily. I want to hear

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Speaker 2: about your date and then like what you guys decided

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Speaker 2: to do. So let's start there, because I understand she's ghosted.

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Speaker 3: He definitely ghosted me in a way that's never been

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Speaker 3: done before. Really, it was basically technically over before it started. Okay,

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Speaker 3: And I say that because all right, So the date

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Speaker 3: is we agree to meet for lunch at tanfram Okay, Yes,

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Speaker 3: meeting in them all for a first date to be

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Speaker 3: considered strange, and I get that, but she loves Zakaria

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Speaker 3: there and meeting in them all kind of nostalgic for both.

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Speaker 1: Of us, Like the nineties when we would all just

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Speaker 1: hanging do it. We just hang out and wait for

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Speaker 1: our friends.

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Speaker 3: It's a vibe for sure.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Okay, we both took bart.

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Speaker 3: We realized, you know, we both love public transportation and

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Speaker 3: you know, trying to do the right thing for the planet.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: I saw her coming down the stairs. I was there, waving, smiling,

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Speaker 3: doing my thing, and she looked right at me, jook

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Speaker 3: her head and said nope, and then she walked away

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Speaker 3: and I just stood there, stocked and in disbelief. I

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Speaker 3: had some flowers to give her. I was really going

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Speaker 3: for it, but she completely ignored me out of nowhere,

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Speaker 3: and I don't know what happened, Like she didn't even

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Speaker 3: talk to me. She saw me, turned around and left.

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Speaker 1: Oh so we're not getting a second date because there

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Speaker 1: never was a first date.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, probably, but we need some I don't even know

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Speaker 2: what they call it closure, some answers.

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Speaker 1: Oh this hurts a little bit.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, I'll tell you what if you if

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Speaker 2: you're down for it, if you really want to hear

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Speaker 2: the truth, I'll call her for you.

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Speaker 3: No I do, I do? I want some closure. I

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Speaker 3: want to know did I think olviiush I didn't say anything,

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Speaker 3: but because she met me there, but like, was it

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Speaker 3: something I was wearing that time off? Or did she

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Speaker 3: get an emergency call?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well let's figure it out. So we're going to

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Speaker 2: call her to try to figure out what in the

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Speaker 2: world that was about. It might be a little savage,

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Speaker 2: so you can handle it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I'm ready for it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you know, let's call her. Hello, Hi, I speak

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Speaker 1: to Emily. Please.

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Speaker 4: This is Emily.

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Speaker 2: Hi, Emily, this is Marcus. I'm calling from Star one

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Speaker 2: on one three. It's a radio station, and I do

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Speaker 2: a morning Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hi, I know your show fantastic. Thank you in advance

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Speaker 1: for listening.

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Speaker 2: So we're doing Second Date Update right now, and I

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Speaker 2: want to ask you about a date you almost went on.

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Speaker 1: Are you familiar with second Date Update? Uh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I am perfect.

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Speaker 1: So Nate is holding you know the drill? Nate are

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Speaker 1: you there? Yeah, I'm here my family, So right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I understand that you guys didn't quite go on

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Speaker 2: a first date. He said that you left rather abruptly

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Speaker 2: when you saw him and my guy, and I just

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Speaker 2: want to know, like, what was there something wrong with

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Speaker 2: the way he looked.

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Speaker 4: Or yeah, I guess I don't want to sound harsh,

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Speaker 4: but I.

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Speaker 3: Feel like.

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Speaker 4: I know what I want. And Nate was like, I

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Speaker 4: just feel like he lied up to me in multiple

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Speaker 4: ways on his profile. Okay, I feel like on his profile,

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Speaker 4: like I looked back and like every single one of

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Speaker 4: his photos he had a hat on. And then he

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Speaker 4: showed up to the date having no hair, like totally bald.

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Speaker 4: Just like felt led as stray by that. And then

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Speaker 4: on top of it, I was like, Okay, on his

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Speaker 4: profile he said he was like five eleven. I believe

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Speaker 4: his man was not an inch over five seven, And

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Speaker 4: I'm just like, they have to stop lying on their profiles.

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Speaker 4: And then maybe that's harsh to me, but it's better

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Speaker 4: for me and for him if I just I thought

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Speaker 4: I needed to be honest, and that's going to be

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Speaker 4: more efficient for both of us.

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Speaker 1: Right, So this has happened before.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this has happened to me before. Okay, this happens

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Speaker 4: a lot, and I'm kind of over it. I'm a

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Speaker 4: truth teller, he's a liar. It's better for both of

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Speaker 4: us this way.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So Nate, can I ask, when you say I'm

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Speaker 3: a liar, how am I lying? I'm lying because you

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Speaker 3: didn't see my head. You didn't ask I have I

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Speaker 3: had a hat on the photos. You didn't.

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Speaker 4: That's not my fault, right, I guess just in retrospect,

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Speaker 4: it feels very intentional that you put a hat on

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Speaker 4: and all your photos and then you are fully balding,

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Speaker 4: like had basically no hair. That's something that you need

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Speaker 4: to show. I also feel like you lied about your height.

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Speaker 4: I just was like, Okay, this whole thing is feeling

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Speaker 4: sketchy because like this profile is also I feel like

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Speaker 4: your photos were from like undergrad or something. You are

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Speaker 4: much older than.

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Speaker 3: Those photos, maybe a couple of years. They're not that old.

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Speaker 3: And that's sort of mean too. What do you mean, like, oh,

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Speaker 3: like that's kind of cruel though I had a few

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Speaker 3: rough years, sure have we.

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Speaker 4: I think it's kind of cruel to like like the

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Speaker 4: false advertising that was involved in that. And I'm not

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Speaker 4: trying to be harsh, but again, I'm just like saving

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Speaker 4: us both time and energy, Like you could give those

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Speaker 4: flowers to someone else, go out dinner with someone else,

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Speaker 4: like I wasn't interested.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hang on, hang on, Wow she was over it.

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Speaker 1: Second date update