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Speaker 1: So we know it goes if you are a parent

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Speaker 1: Do you want to let your kids on social media?

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Speaker 1: But the problem isn't what I was just talking about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so my son joined Instagram. I think, like last year,

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Speaker 2: he's done the ice pocket challenge. What do you think

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Speaker 3: It's for a good cause, So I don't want to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But my daughter was five when we did it,

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Speaker 1: so now it's like coming back and now she's like,

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Speaker 3: And I will well, Yeah, been there, done that. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Was quizzing my son, like do you even know what

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Speaker 2: it means? What? No?

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Speaker 3: No, I mean I didn't care that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just like, you're gonna do it.

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Speaker 3: are though, I love it's very funny. Hi. My name

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Yes, of course he did the Ice Pocket Challenge. Boy,

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Speaker 2: but now obviously says he's on Instagram. He follows me. No,

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, I follow him. You can't get me a phone.

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Speaker 2: For lots of bike footage and garage footage. He's really

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Speaker 2: But anyway, that's not any of the problems that we're

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Speaker 4: Honestly, that picture probably could have been anything, and his

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Speaker 3: What if Sky's daughter says she does wanted to talk.

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Speaker 3: You can't talk about me on the show anymore. What

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Speaker 4: We'll talk about and we've already had that discussion.

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Speaker 3: So embarrass them, But if they're part of the story, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Can clearly I can say her name and she's my daughter,

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Speaker 3: Family, You're not going to.

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Speaker 2: Do aligns my house.

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Speaker 1: So I think men and women both do this. If

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Speaker 1: I think Thor really dig Sky's style.

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Speaker 3: That's not what's like that Georgia Aquarium hoodie and her there?

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Speaker 4: I thought, this morning we're to st You got two

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Speaker 3: It's not that, and then the air conditioning on driving

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Speaker 4: Sky, I did, and my two sweatshirts plus long sleeve

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Speaker 3: I don't what's going on? I think it was last

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Speaker 4: And I just wanted to bring attention to the charity

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Speaker 3: They're amazing.

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Speaker 2: They're like.

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry individuals. Uh so wait

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we're a long way from the days of

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Speaker 3: It is a rare occurrence.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, it was last Friday. Okay, yeah, we saw

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Speaker 3: Yeah, can we see that picture? And I didn't think

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Speaker 3: She's like pushing her breasts out, her hands on her hip,

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Speaker 4: So honestly, when you mentioned how I used to go

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Speaker 3: me the Instagram post whatever. I may have said something

442
00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:53,439
Speaker 3: to Sky too, yeah you did, like so okay, I mean, okay,

443
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:59,439
Speaker 3: well that's not something that okay, that's that's that's really weird.

444
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:06,280
Speaker 1: So I put it back in your pants, dude, coworker.

445
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,640
Speaker 3: So my wife, So, my wife tells me a couple

446
00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 3: of days ago, she got flippantly out of the She goes, oh,

447
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 3: I could say, I see a charge on our capital

448
00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 3: want for some random stop with these credit card alert

449
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,480
Speaker 3: every day, you need to buy something from Amazon every day?

450
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:25,680
Speaker 3: You I don't. I don't. I don't take it a

451
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:27,840
Speaker 3: game room. I mean, it's the one thing I have

452
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:32,800
Speaker 3: in the one thing. So I asked what the charge

453
00:21:32,840 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 3: was and she goes, oh, I bought that dress that

454
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:35,479
Speaker 3: Sky was wearing.

455
00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,440
Speaker 1: Whoa single white female?

456
00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,480
Speaker 3: And I said what And she goes, yeah, I want

457
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:45,320
Speaker 3: to wear that out Saturday night. And I go, I go,

458
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 3: I go, that's great, but you can't wear that. I go,

459
00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 3: that's too, I go, that's too weird. I go. I've

460
00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 3: known Sky for fourteen years. She's like a sister to me.

461
00:21:55,280 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 3: We kind of look alike. Definitely knows twins. Yeah yeah,

462
00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 3: And I said, I can't, We can't, you can't wear that.

463
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:05,879
Speaker 3: She goes, why not? It's a nice dress. And I go,

464
00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 3: I go, but I will think of Sky and it

465
00:22:08,119 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 3: will make it weak. And she said, and she said,

466
00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 3: and I go. When we go to Saturday night, Mama

467
00:22:13,680 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 3: has a couple of cocktails. We come back to what

468
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:17,359
Speaker 3: we come back? Here we go and she comes on

469
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:19,360
Speaker 3: to me. All I'm gonna be thinking, is Sky going?

470
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:23,480
Speaker 3: You want to have sex? Bro? We do what we're

471
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 3: doing this? Bro? Come on son, here we here we

472
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:26,959
Speaker 3: here we go.

473
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 4: Yo.

474
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 3: I don't need to think about it. Here we go, Yo,

475
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,360
Speaker 3: my wife.

476
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 1: I think you would love. First of all, you tell

477
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:39,440
Speaker 1: her leave the dress on, and then you're gonna figure

478
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 1: out are you gonna get a little oink oink or

479
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: go full hooga hooga in the dress?

480
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 3: I would be, but now you're full who?

481
00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 4: Who?

482
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:53,800
Speaker 3: You're not ready for all this who? I'm not ready

483
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 3: for all the huga hooga. I don't want the hooga hooga.

484
00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 1: Would it be sexier if your wife Haley wore that

485
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 1: Georgia aquarium hoodie nothing else?

486
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:06,399
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, it would. I don't need to think. I

487
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,000
Speaker 3: don't need to think right when sex is over. Hearing

488
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 3: this in my mind, you've done Son, You've done so

489
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 3: right when it's over. I don't want to hear any

490
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 3: of that. Okay, I no, I don't got your feelings

491
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 3: on Haley trying to look like you during sex.

492
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 4: I feel this hole, you miss this question mark.

493
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,200
Speaker 3: I don't need to think about that.

494
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 4: I feel this whole discussion is a weird backhanded compliment.

495
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,399
Speaker 4: Where I started on a high with all the sweet things,

496
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,600
Speaker 4: and then and then, and then it got kind of

497
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 4: weird feeling when Thorp starts talking about how sassy he

498
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 4: thought my.

499
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 3: Pose was the photo he definitely turned he did that

500
00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 3: was that was super weird.

501
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,359
Speaker 4: And then again compliment did when Haley went to the

502
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,480
Speaker 4: lengths of finding a dupe of the stress, which is

503
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:08,040
Speaker 4: awesome and a great compliment because I think Hailey has

504
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:11,720
Speaker 4: amazing style. But then we got to Thor's commentary about

505
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:17,560
Speaker 4: how basically disgusted it would make you think of me

506
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 4: in any sort of I really lack confidence when it

507
00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 4: comes to handle and meat.

508
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: So it's not about talking about it's.

509
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 3: Not about it's not about Sky being disgusting. It's about

510
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 3: we're too close. I don't look at her like that

511
00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 3: evers I have when I was an intern, and I know,

512
00:24:47,960 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 3: I know all I know all Sky's like sayings and

513
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 3: you're rhyming things. And I don't want to be thinking

514
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 3: about that when I'm having sex with my wife, because

515
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 3: she's gonna be I'm gonna be. I'm gonna see the

516
00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 3: dress and think of Scott and that how my wife

517
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: found the dress. That's what I've got. I can't do it.

518
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 3: I can't think of you've done Son when I'm having

519
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 3: sex with my wife. You don't want the rhymes. I

520
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 3: don't want the rhymes. I don't want to be called bro.

521
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 5: You want some direction protection brown.

522
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 3: My wife's got to go to tinkle Town.

523
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't want any of that.

524
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 3: I don't want any of that. It's nothing personal that

525
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 3: sounds personally. It's not I'm making a return the dress.

526
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: Okay, Well really, you're not even going to give it

527
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: a shot.

528
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,920
Speaker 3: I can't. That's just weird. Don't you think she'll look nice?

529
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: I'm sure she would. I'm sure she looked great, but

530
00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 3: it's I have I'll have Sky on my brain.

531
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:45,439
Speaker 1: I do think it's weird that they she got something

532
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:48,879
Speaker 1: almost exactly the same. Like I wouldn't want to do

533
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 1: that either, like like be your own person.

534
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:53,760
Speaker 2: But she already knows what it looks like on somebody

535
00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:56,440
Speaker 2: I would talk. Yeah, but still, I mean.

536
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 1: Now you get a different style, like I don't know,

537
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,719
Speaker 1: no different colors in that thing, don't know.

538
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 4: Well, when you hear your man going on and on

539
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 4: how good something, got a real sensitive gag reflect guys.

540
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:14,240
Speaker 3: Like I don't want to think about that. He said

541
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 3: stuff like that. You know what I'm saying. So she's

542
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 3: returned the dress, so we'll get her dress. We'll get

543
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 3: her in your dress. The dress looks great for on Sky,

544
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 3: but I don't want to see the girl. If you

545
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 3: see Sky in that dress, it's on. No, it's not on.

546
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: I'm a married lady. Lady by the way.

547
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:40,520
Speaker 1: So Emily after the show is headed the Catalina, going

548
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 1: to the wine mixer. That's huge, Papa, that's fantastic. I

549
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,080
Speaker 1: know you're going with the whole family, right, it's the

550
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 1: Catalina wine mixer. Catalina wine mixer.

551
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:00,640
Speaker 2: How can you tell people you going to Catalina? You can't.

552
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 3: What's the point of going?

553
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:06,439
Speaker 2: Exactly? Okay, yes, my sweet mom, we are going to

554
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 2: celebrate her birthday and my stepdad Ken's birthday.

555
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 3: Oh you guys are treating Yeah, that's great, because that's

556
00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 3: no great kids are because like my dad's turned seventy. Yeah,

557
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,400
Speaker 3: and we're all flying out there for his birthday. We're all, well, well,

558
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 3: you know, we're paying for everything, making sure.

559
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 2: You guys are paying for them.

560
00:27:22,200 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, everyone's splitting it.

561
00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,199
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not paying for themselves.

562
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 3: No we are. Oh yeah, wow.

563
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 2: No, but my mom was going to do a big

564
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 2: birthday party and she decided not to. She said she

565
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 2: wanted to use the money for the birthday party to

566
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,120
Speaker 2: treat the family and get Yeah.

567
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,840
Speaker 1: But that's insane though, because it's her birthday. So did

568
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 1: you get you keep the money? Did you get the money?

569
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,640
Speaker 3: Yeah? Did you get them like really nic like over

570
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 3: the top gifts.

571
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 2: Oh, my sister and I pitched in on this really

572
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 2: pretty gold necklace.

573
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, but that no you go, no, Mom,

574
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,359
Speaker 1: we're treating you because it's your birthday.

575
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 2: Well no, Eddie, I'm not going to spend four thousand

576
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: dollars a night on the house she got. So I

577
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 2: don't have money to treat that.

578
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 1: If you guys all I don't if everybody, that's.

579
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:09,679
Speaker 2: Just my sister and I.

580
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 3: So, I mean, will you wear the thousand dollars dress

581
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 3: for your birthday dress? At all?

582
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,880
Speaker 2: It was one hundred dollars from Nordstrom, which isn't that much.

583
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 3: So for everybody, she's annoyed by the gold sha you notice.

584
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 2: Is a drug. It's like a simple dress for nortrum.

585
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 2: What did you ask me?

586
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 3: Everybody? Everybody's coming. Just pay for everybody.

587
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 2: Uh, she's just paying for the house. Yeah, for everybody.

588
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 2: And then I had to buy my own way for

589
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: the Catalina Fairy, which was like over three hundred and

590
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 2: fifty dollars for the new fairy, myself, Robert and Reid

591
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,320
Speaker 2: for three people. But I did see on an email

592
00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 2: my sister sent forwarded to me that my mom paid

593
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 2: for my sister and.

594
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 3: Her kids, oh, for their fairy.

595
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 2: It would have been nice.

596
00:28:54,040 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 4: Mom.

597
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: Okay, if you're listening.

598
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 3: What's that's a fair?

599
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 2: So? Yes, going with the fam. Yeah, it's Catalina Island

600
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 2: this weekend.

601
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 3: I understand.

602
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 2: It probably won't be he's like a high fifty six.

603
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 3: Here's the thing.

604
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: It's super awesome that your mom would do that, you know,

605
00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: like super cool saying you don't have to pay for that.

606
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: But if I'm Robert, now this is me because Robert

607
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: loves being with your family, you and loves all these things.

608
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: If it was me, I'd be like, oh, that's great

609
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: that mom's paying for this, but I'd rather just be us.

610
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know the house No, I definitely don't,

611
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: you know with my mother in law. Oh, father in law. No,

612
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:42,959
Speaker 1: I'm good now, I wouldn't be that wouldn't be my

613
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,120
Speaker 1: favorite thing. Every once in a blue moon, sure, I

614
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: wouldn't mind taking a big family trip. We'll get a house.

615
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 1: But you guys do this often often, so that's where

616
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: I go, Great, you're paying for it, but you're coming

617
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: to I don't know how much. I don't know how

618
00:29:58,880 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: much I want to do this. You're different, though, you

619
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: enjoy these outings and things like that. I prefer alone

620
00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 1: time with my wife or just my family, my kids, whatever.

621
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: I don't need everybody else involved. I see that every

622
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 1: once in a while. I'm great, I get that, But

623
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: like every vacation, granted, they're paying for it, so that's

624
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:23,600
Speaker 1: what comes with it. And this goes back for years, right,

625
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: I mean, we're talking cruises, every mortgage, buy your house.

626
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 2: She didn't. Well, the down payment was a chunk of property. Hello, hello,

627
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 2: my inheritance. Very very lucky and blessed.

628
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 3: That you had that wedding fund.

629
00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 2: Well, that's kind of going out things.

630
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: All these things are amazing that your mom's able to.

631
00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:59,560
Speaker 1: But again, if I was in Robbert, my husband, yeah,

632
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: I would be like, ah, this is making me uncomfortable.

633
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: I don't know much, you know, like too much. Let's

634
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 1: say I got to do my own.

635
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she bought us the trip.

636
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:10,400
Speaker 3: She bought the trip.

637
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 1: That's nice, and you know, every once in a while,

638
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: this is fine. But I mean, you know, we can

639
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: go on a trip together, just you and I.

640
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 2: My mom's paying for this one, Okay, Well.

641
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:19,479
Speaker 4: I don't know.

642
00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would have some issues with this, and I

643
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,719
Speaker 1: think there are some probably guys that would be like,

644
00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: you know, it's great. Everyone, like would you want to

645
00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 1: go on trips with your in laws every vacation?

646
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,160
Speaker 3: But they're paid for it. If they were paying for it,

647
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,080
Speaker 3: it depends on where we were going. Someplace I wanted

648
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,800
Speaker 3: to go. No, I wouldn't want to go to cattle.

649
00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 3: That would sounds miserable. Sorry, a trip to Catalina for

650
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 3: a day day trip. Day trip great, but on the weekend, Uh,

651
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 3: I'd rather jump off the ferry and swim back to

652
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 3: the coast. Oh Jesus, that's got girls trip written over.

653
00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 3: Definitely Okay.

654
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: What about Palm Springs, No, trying to think about the

655
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: places Springs is awful.

656
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 3: Sorry, I don't golf. I don't golf. How about Joshua

657
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,200
Speaker 3: treat I did josh Tree. We did camping, but with

658
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 3: the famine, with the whole fam, I would be bad.

659
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 3: I mean, there's really not much to pay for it though.

660
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 2: Big Bear, we did stay in that.

661
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 3: No, I'm not a skier or snow but it wasn't

662
00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:29,000
Speaker 3: even snow.

663
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:31,040
Speaker 1: Now, if it was a big trip, if they were like,

664
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: we're paying for a trip for the whole family, Hawaii done,

665
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: you suck it up?

666
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 3: Fine, because if you don't have to sorry, you don't

667
00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:40,960
Speaker 3: have to. Uh, you don't have to hang out with

668
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 3: them the whole time, you know what I mean. If

669
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to place like Catalina or mat or a

670
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,600
Speaker 3: big Bear, it's like you're kind of stuck. Yeah, you know.

671
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, when my in laws treated us to a

672
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 4: trip in Hawaii, find.

673
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 3: These in lass, I'm paying for Gramma Nancy non stop.

674
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: I don't know where these are. Can I have some money?

675
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 3: Parents won't even pay for us. I got in laws.

676
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 3: No parents came for anything.

677
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a good year for them, and so

678
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 4: they offered to take everybody to Hawaii, which I thought amazing, like,

679
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 4: it doesn't get any better. But there were so many

680
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 4: of us that they booked two houses. And what I

681
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 4: didn't think through is they then picked who was in

682
00:33:23,280 --> 00:33:27,720
Speaker 4: which house, and they also designated who's in which room,

683
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 4: who's sharing a bathroom with? Who wasn't thrilled on shares

684
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 4: sharing with Nana?

685
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you don't matter with Nana. See that. I

686
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 3: know though too, Like I know my I mean, I

687
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 3: don't this would never happen. But my in laws ever

688
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 3: did buy a trip, or my parents ever bought a trip.

689
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:48,280
Speaker 3: I would I have no problem saying to them, hey, hey,

690
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 3: I appreciate you guys buying this trip, but I don't

691
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 3: want the room situation that I'm not a fan of it.

692
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 3: And if they were like, well, then you don't have

693
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 3: to come up like all right, like I have no

694
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 3: problem doing you. Obviously, I wouldn't say anything.

695
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 4: I said nothing and was just thankful for the trip.

696
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 4: But in my mind, I'm like, oh, this is what

697
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 4: comes along when someone else pays you don't.

698
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 2: You don't get lots of stuff in my life. I

699
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 2: just have to go with it because my mom's paying

700
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 2: for it.

701
00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: And the well, one guy is asking about a situation

702
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,319
Speaker 1: with his in laws and something that they bought.

703
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, this isn't a vacation.

704
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 4: This is a little bigger because his in law's very

705
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 4: very generous, sound like very well off. And also we're

706
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,720
Speaker 4: very scared at the thought of their baby girl leaving

707
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:35,400
Speaker 4: the city that they live in.

708
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 3: So for a wedding present.

709
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 4: They offered to buy this couple.

710
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: A house just like Emily, except for the wedding part.

711
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,440
Speaker 3: Excuse me, in their neighborhood.

712
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 4: So the house is like two like blocks away, like

713
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 4: it's in their neighbor.

714
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 3: I would if I like my in laws, I like

715
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 3: I like d I like Denise, I wouldn't have a

716
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 3: problem with this if they wanted to buy my house

717
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 3: and it's in their neighborhood next door. Well, so this

718
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 3: isn't the problem, buying the house. Buying the house isn't

719
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 3: the problem.

720
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:16,359
Speaker 4: Okay, Well, the husband became quickly aware of what this

721
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 4: comes with, with the caveat, with the catch, because once

722
00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:23,040
Speaker 4: they moved in, all of a sudden, just showing up

723
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 4: to help unpack. Okay, maybe it's nice we're unpacking, but

724
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 4: the party unpacked.

725
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 3: We've already set up boundaries.

726
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 4: And then they keep showing up unannounced, and now they're

727
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 4: just like, but now they're just walking in.

728
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: So they own it, well they I guess they purchased

729
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:44,280
Speaker 1: it for them. But they purchased it.

730
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 4: It's not like you're making payments, like they bought it

731
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 4: and gave it to you.

732
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,319
Speaker 3: But who's how whose house in my name? I don't

733
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 3: know because if I'd be like starting to lace lay

734
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 3: the groundwork to sell it, take the money and move

735
00:35:57,520 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 3: somewhere again, Oh.

736
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: My god, I don't know. I don't know that your

737
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: wife would.

738
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 3: Go way you got it. At this point, you just

739
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:04,840
Speaker 3: got to say, you gotta tell your wife or you

740
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 3: gotta hey, we gotta leave up on the poppins. I

741
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 3: mean we this is our house is our primarily you

742
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 3: got to say that.

743
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 1: And your mom lives in a downtown Hi hi rays

744
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:19,680
Speaker 1: hiray rise. She decides, you know what, we're gonna buy

745
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: you this one right next to us, and it's amazing,

746
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: perfect and she does that. But now she pops in

747
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: all the time, all the time. I'm sure that's fine

748
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 1: for you because you love seeing your mom. But if

749
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: Robert's like, hey, man, mom's coming over all the time,

750
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: like this is what comes with.

751
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 2: It, Hey, suck it up or get out out, get out,

752
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,280
Speaker 2: So this mom over here ain't paying anymore.

753
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 3: So very it was Robert's parents doing that, and they

754
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: came over all the time and he told you to

755
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 3: suck it up or get out, you'd be okay, she's gone.

756
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't.

757
00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 3: I don't know, we know what.

758
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, fust