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Speaker 1: Why are you not getting a call back? This is

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Speaker 1: the Joe Show's left unrd A ninety three three fl Z. Shelby, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I already talked to Dax, so yeah, I'm just gonna

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Speaker 1: I'll pick that's up right now.

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Speaker 2: Hey Dax, Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Hey? So I told Shelby that we did talk Shelby,

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Speaker 1: we talked last night so we could save like the

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Speaker 1: awkward hellos and everything. I just think, Dax, you're you

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Speaker 1: be honest about this, and I genuinely I feel like

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Speaker 1: this is just a misunderstanding. But yeah, why didn't she

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Speaker 1: call her back?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Well, honestly, to be honest, he's she's completely vain

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Speaker 2: and self absorbed and really really full of herself. So

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Speaker 2: that's probably the biggest reason. Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, Shelby,

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Speaker 2: you're a very Oh I'm not I'm not kidding you. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: The whole time we were on our date, you would

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Speaker 2: not stop looking at yourself any reflective surface, including your

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Speaker 2: cell phone case that has a mirror. Yeah, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: That's great. And I'm just confident and you and you're

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Speaker 3: not used to having a confident woman. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: think you could be happy you're being, You're being.

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Speaker 1: What exactly? So wait, it shall be you know what

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Speaker 1: what exactly? I want to know through your lens, like

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Speaker 1: what what are you doing? Like why are you continuously

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Speaker 1: you know, because Dax says you were looking at yourself

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Speaker 1: a lot and stuff like that, like what.

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Speaker 4: What are you doing my makeup?

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Speaker 3: I'm making sure my Misscarre is not running. I'm making

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Speaker 3: sure my lipstick is not wearing off. Do I need

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Speaker 3: to put more lipstick on? I think he should be

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Speaker 3: happy because I'm beautiful and I'm confident and I have

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Speaker 3: no problem keeping up on how I look. And I

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Speaker 3: mean we're having a conversation. If I catch myself in

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Speaker 3: my mirror, I'm gonna, you know, make sure everything looks great.

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Speaker 1: And sorry not to cut you off, because I just

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Speaker 1: want to figure this out quick. How often do you

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Speaker 1: think and do you feel like you were looking at yourself.

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Speaker 3: During the course of that dinner? Sure, I would say

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Speaker 3: maybe four times.

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Speaker 1: Okay. How long was dinner?

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Speaker 2: An hour?

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Speaker 1: Dax? How often was she looking at herself?

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Speaker 2: Okay? You could take whatever number she gave and multiplied

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Speaker 2: it by ten to fifteen. At minimum, it was oh

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Speaker 2: my god. Yes. And also we weren't doing anything on

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Speaker 2: the date that will require your mask, scarer and lipstick

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Speaker 2: to be checked.

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Speaker 1: Often.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't rainy worrying.

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Speaker 3: We weren't kissing, we're drinking, we're eating.

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Speaker 1: She was in a little bit. I just want to,

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Speaker 1: you know, freshen up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we hadn't even got we hadn't even got drinks

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Speaker 2: and advertisers before she started checking at least the first

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Speaker 2: three to five times and just throughout the work. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was okay, unbelievable. I was like, I get it,

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Speaker 2: you're you're yes, you are pretty.

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Speaker 1: Do you feel like she wasn't just giving you all

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Speaker 1: the attention?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know. I was like, if

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Speaker 2: does she have a tick? Does she have like a

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Speaker 2: neurological disorder? Does weren't quiet her to check this many times?

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Speaker 1: Here?

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Speaker 3: You just mad, just mad that you didn't get me.

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Speaker 1: Eight hundred and four on the ninety three ninety three,

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Speaker 1: And maybe that that could be.

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Speaker 5: It.

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Speaker 1: Maybe because I don't know the whole like looking at yourself,

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Speaker 1: it just doesn't I don't know, Like Dex when you

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Speaker 1: told me yesterday, I'm like that there's gotta be Is

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Speaker 1: there anything else that she did or was it really

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Speaker 1: that much of an issue that she looked at her, so.

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Speaker 2: We we really couldn't even. We would get in bits

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Speaker 2: and pieces of conversation, and then even during the conversation,

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Speaker 2: she's like checking, like, look she did it with the spoon.

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Speaker 2: At one point, I was like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Like, are you sure?

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Speaker 3: I thought I thought it was funny the way my

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Speaker 3: chin looked in the spoon.

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 3: I was even I even grown up, like, look at that.

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Speaker 3: Look you should do it yourself. Why, I mean beautiful?

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Speaker 1: I don't think anyone is telling you or not Shelby,

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Speaker 1: but Brian, go ahead.

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Speaker 2: I just I just want to say.

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Speaker 6: She keeps on saying that she's so confident, but her

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Speaker 6: words on matching her actions. Because why if you're so confident,

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Speaker 6: why you got to keep on looking at yourself? If

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Speaker 6: you say you're pretty, then you know you're pretty. You

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Speaker 6: don't have to keep on looking at yourself in the mirror.

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Speaker 1: You do.

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Speaker 3: If something smearing on your face? You've got something on

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Speaker 3: your face.

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Speaker 6: What kind of what kind of makeup for you're using?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 6: Your makeup smears across your face?

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Speaker 1: I think one hundred and ten degree weather? Yeah, yeah, here,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, I'm listen. I walk outside and

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Speaker 1: I'm wet and I'm sweating in places that I could

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Speaker 1: never imagine. Oh yeah, same. The grease is unreal right now,

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Speaker 1: The Cuban grease is just living on the forehead.

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Speaker 2: Who is this?

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Speaker 7: Hi, my name's Autumn, And I'm sorry, but this girl

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Speaker 7: needs to check herself. If you're that confident and think

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Speaker 7: you're that beautiful, you shouldn't be checking yourself all the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but listen, isn't there something to the fact that

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Speaker 1: in now, granted I don't know, you know what day

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Speaker 1: you guys are. Yesterday wasn't all that bad, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: this week has been atrocious, so the weather goes autumn,

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Speaker 1: don't you think like they're it's kind of tough to

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Speaker 1: like look good right now?

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Speaker 3: Or no, it doesn't matter though.

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Speaker 7: Your people should like each other for what's inside.

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Speaker 8: It shouldn't matter exactly what they look like.

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Speaker 1: But it's the first date. On a first date, I know.

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Speaker 7: But if she walked out of the door and she

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Speaker 7: was looking good when the guy picked her up and

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Speaker 7: they went to dinner, she doesn't need to be looking

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Speaker 7: at herself every five minutes.

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Speaker 2: That's that's disturbing.

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Speaker 7: To me, it's maybe I don't even have a mirror

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Speaker 7: in my in my apartment.

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Speaker 5: But Autumn, you got to understand it's a first date.

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Speaker 5: She really clearly likes this guy. She wouldn't be calling

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Speaker 5: us and trying to figure out why she's being ghosted

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Speaker 5: if she didn't really like him. So maybe it was

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Speaker 5: just like one of those things where she just she lost.

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Speaker 5: You know, there's there's times why I do the same

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Speaker 5: exact thing where you just have that nervous ticket.

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Speaker 2: You go.

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Speaker 4: Every five minutes, jet.

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Speaker 1: Every five minutes, watches the video of him jump rope in. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's true. I'm myself.

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Speaker 5: I relate.

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Speaker 3: But if she's okay, bye bye.

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Speaker 1: No, no, I'm just saying thank you for making me laugh.

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Speaker 1: I liked your comments.

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Speaker 7: Oh oh oh, I thought you were like, okay, thank

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Speaker 7: you boss.

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Speaker 1: No, I thought you were good. But I'm guessing what

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Speaker 1: now I want to say, thank you.

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Speaker 4: Goodbye, bye love you, adam Yeah, mes bye.

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Speaker 8: Amanda, guess Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: I hope I didn't make Autumn then make your think

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Speaker 1: I'm hanging up or anything. I just wanted to pick

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Speaker 1: up Amanda. Now, Amanda, go ahead.

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Speaker 8: So I was wondering if there wasn't more of like

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Speaker 8: a subconscious like nervousness to this. So I don't know

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Speaker 8: if anybody else does this, But if I'm in a

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Speaker 8: social situation where I'm nervous, i don't know anybody, or

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Speaker 8: maybe I'm around people for the first time, I find

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Speaker 8: myself like checking my cell phone even though I don't

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Speaker 8: have anything to look at, because it's like a distraction.

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Speaker 8: It makes me look like I'm busy and I'm not.

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Speaker 8: I was wondering if maybe her thing is like looking

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Speaker 8: in the mirror trying to check her up, and more

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Speaker 8: of it is of a like self conscious like nervousness

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Speaker 8: than something she was like doing because she's vain or

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Speaker 8: you know, has some kind of issue with looking at

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Speaker 8: her makeup.

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Speaker 1: By the way, I agree with you, Amanda on that,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want anyone to think that Shelby is vain.

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Speaker 1: I don't really catch that vibe on that, and maybe

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Speaker 1: it is kind of like a tick, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean. Shelby, where did you find yourself? I mean,

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Speaker 1: were you nervous on the date? He's not nervous on

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Speaker 1: first date.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm just reading this guy. I want to

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Speaker 4: make sure that everything's working in my favor, and like

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Speaker 4: you know, he likes the way I look, and I yeah.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, Amanda, thank you for calling in, and

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Speaker 1: Shelby and Dax. Well, I'll let you guys handle this

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Speaker 1: kind of off the air if you know you you

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Speaker 1: choose to reach out to her, but you know, thank

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Speaker 1: you guys for coming on, and uh.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you and I.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, Liza, that sounds like the day

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Speaker 1: one fine, but it sounds like it went fine to me.

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Speaker 1: You get oh, it didn't, all right,