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Speaker 2: Or if it's something good, like she eats Einstein sandwich

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Speaker 1: It's a little dramatic. She has strong reactions. You're very

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Speaker 1: believe you're going to get kidnapped, a little dramatic. Waiting

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Speaker 1: You never know. You don't need that in your life.

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Speaker 1: You're right, You never know, So why would that even

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Speaker 3: When you find something very upsetting and very dramatic and

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Speaker 1: kept going and there would have been some sort of yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe it would have happened, but it didn't. So you

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Speaker 1: can't tell me our house almost burnt down when there

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Speaker 1: wasn't even a hint of a like a fire.

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Speaker 3: I feel, no, something has to be on fire, maybe

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Speaker 3: even even if it's like something small.

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Speaker 1: Fires, but I mean that's that's a little bit more dramatic.

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Speaker 1: But this is what I do now. And apparently the

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Speaker 1: house is on the market now. I don't want to move.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to move, so I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, but yeah, these are this is where