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Speaker 1: Kat w B.

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Speaker 2: Hey, good morning, It's election day. It is kt w B.

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Speaker 2: It is a nice fall Tuesday, some may a little

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Speaker 2: like sunny. It's supposed to snow on Saturday. You guys,

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Speaker 2: you hear about this, Yes, like a fifty chance of

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Speaker 2: snow Saturday. Yeah, totally. You know that time of the

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Speaker 2: year is going to be November what seventh by Saturday?

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Speaker 2: I have to ten. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I still have beats in my garden that I haven't

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Speaker 3: harvested yet.

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Speaker 2: Don't roll your eyes at me. I'm not. I did not.

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Speaker 2: I thought I thought you were like God Billy's going

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Speaker 2: on about our garden again, falsely accused. No, November eighth

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Speaker 2: is this Saturday, But that's way behind the curve for

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Speaker 2: like a first snow. I believe last year it's snowed

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Speaker 2: October thirtieth, like the day before Boo Bash. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: I totally believe it. Well, then the old timers talk

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Speaker 2: about a Halloween blizzard in nineteen ninety one. You know,

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Speaker 2: we were up to our next school and snow and

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Speaker 2: we had to go treating, and a lot of my

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Speaker 2: friends never came back. They never came he came back.

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Speaker 2: They started going up here the snow well. They found

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Speaker 2: him in the springtime. They were frozen with a touchy

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Speaker 2: roll in your hand. I knew the first time, like

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Speaker 2: Adam Sandler right now? Can I tell you the worst

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Speaker 2: god awful movie? Hugh be Halloween? But he's seen that movie.

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Speaker 4: I almost watched it on Friday because it popped up

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Speaker 4: on Netflix and I was like, what is this app Sailor?

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Speaker 4: And then I got through the minute of the trailer

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Speaker 4: and I was like, no.

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Speaker 2: It was actually so stupid. It was funny. We watched

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Speaker 2: probably forty five minutes of it. It's called hub Halloween.

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Speaker 2: Never heard of it, but it was Halloween. So after

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Speaker 2: the kids all stopped trick or treating, we're like, uh,

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Speaker 2: see what's gone? Like yeah, show anyway? Yeah yeah. My

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Speaker 2: name is Jadiam Chander, and I'm playing a exraduated character

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Speaker 2: of the character that I played my entire night talking

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Speaker 2: to really trick a treat. I don't know why you

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Speaker 2: wasted your time. I just don't. It wasn't terrible. I

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Speaker 2: just don't think he's funny. You really don't think Adam

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Speaker 2: Sander's funny? Did you not watch Happy Gilmore Too?

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Speaker 5: The only Adam Saylor movies I've seen were grown ups,

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Speaker 5: and then the one he did with Jennifer anis then

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Speaker 5: I think murder mystery is what it's called, but.

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Speaker 2: A good one. I like that one to me. You

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Speaker 2: haven't seen the wedding singer. Maybe I don't know for

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Speaker 2: fifty first dates. I remember he's twenty four years old,

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Speaker 2: so that was his mom's movies app movies.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think he's I don't really like Adam

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Speaker 3: Sandler either, but if he asked to kiss me, I would,

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Speaker 3: but his act.

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Speaker 2: Right exactly.

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Speaker 1: Let's take a trip or chance to win a trip

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Speaker 1: to Los Angeles to see Sabrina Carpenter at one of

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Speaker 1: her sold out shows. Happens now on KADWB talk back.

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Speaker 1: The keyword Sabrina. That's Sabrina on our iHeartRadio app. Okay,

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Speaker 1: make sure you do that because that is a chance

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Speaker 1: to go to Los Angeles. And this is really cool.

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Speaker 1: We'll do it every thirty minutes every time you hear it.

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Speaker 1: You got to use that keyword on the talkback feature

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Speaker 1: on the iHeart app and you can.

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Speaker 2: I was it was the iHeart App. It's super cool

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Speaker 2: because I was listening to a song yesterday on the

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Speaker 2: iHeart app and then I wanted to listen to Fallon

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Speaker 2: and Colt in the afternoon. You know what I did.

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Speaker 2: I touched that preset button tap vaunted came up, boom there.

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Speaker 2: It was like a miracle. It is Katie WB. We're

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Speaker 2: gonna get an update on Justin and his reuniting with

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Speaker 2: his ex Danielle. If you don't remember it from More

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Speaker 2: of the Roses, it was a week ago and basically

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Speaker 2: they'd split up. Long story short, we got them back together.

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Speaker 2: But I want to hear how things are going. So

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Speaker 2: Justin's on about another ten minutes or so. Right now,

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Speaker 2: we're playing lyric shuffle. Let's get started.

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Speaker 4: Jenny first today, but can go first, Okay, Von, here

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Speaker 4: you go.

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Speaker 2: Roommate, I got one roommate. You have one? Hey, hey

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Speaker 2: you you I don't like your roommate, No way, no way,

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Speaker 2: think you need a new one? Hey, no, no, So.

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Speaker 6: You honestly were gonna come in with.

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Speaker 2: The song of them you so not a prayer, not

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Speaker 6: You used to sing like that part of the song

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Speaker 6: all the time. Your roommate back and bolder.

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Speaker 2: Then you know that, all right, No.

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Speaker 6: Points for either of you on that one. It is

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Speaker 6: Dave's turn.

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Speaker 2: Step step by step oo baby, good job?

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Speaker 6: All right one for day round two. This is Bon's word.

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Speaker 5: Went God with Crazy Windy paineed you the Steady swims.

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Speaker 2: Wow, it's such a beautiful song.

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Speaker 4: So good Okay, good job Kates had to one to

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Speaker 4: one Dave's word.

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Speaker 2: Should Should I stay or should I go?

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Speaker 7: Now?

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Speaker 8: You?

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Speaker 2: Should I stay or should I go?

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Speaker 8: Now?

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Speaker 2: Let's play that one for a boss check. Write it down, Jenny.

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Speaker 4: That song a song that every high school band learns

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Speaker 4: to play as like a cover.

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Speaker 2: That an Island in the Sun or what whatever called.

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Speaker 4: Okay, now Dave has Tubon has one, and we're onto

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Speaker 4: round three.

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Speaker 7: Hugo Van, Damn, damn loving us, damn almost give me

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Speaker 7: a rough of my money.

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Speaker 2: That's kench glamour. Yes, I know what it is. Good

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Speaker 2: job I was gonna do Damn. I wish I was

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Speaker 2: your lover. No anybody, No. Sophie B. Hawkins Ah, Yes,

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Speaker 2: she came to Star party one time. She smelled really bad.

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Speaker 2: She's kind of a hippie like bo and and something

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Speaker 2: else Right now I love that performance.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, this word is for David.

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Speaker 6: Independent.

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Speaker 2: What happened to miss Independent? Good job? Day you one

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Speaker 2: of my favorite Kelly Clarkson songs.

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Speaker 6: That is a good one.

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Speaker 4: Okay, vont round four, final round right now you have two,

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Speaker 4: Dave has three. You gotta get some points, okanks, Okay,

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Speaker 4: here you go, clear.

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Speaker 2: Clean. I'm not gonna making stuff up like over here,

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Speaker 2: mister roommate. David, I got nothing, seriously nothing no.

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Speaker 6: Oh wow wow, all right, no coins, no coins.

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Speaker 4: If it's a hard one, Dave does not get this

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Speaker 4: one that can get the steal and we'll go to

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Speaker 4: a tie breaker.

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right.

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Speaker 2: So I was already worried from the get.

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Speaker 6: This is Dave's word.

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Speaker 2: Real real, real, Yeah, I'm read Jennifer Lopez, thank you.

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Speaker 2: How it goes Bailey Real? I mean it sure does.

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Speaker 3: Yeah really, I mean it is a song, but I

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Speaker 3: mean he's saying it like crap.

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Speaker 2: I just would have liked a little more. Yeah of it.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna just see if I can find it. Isn't it?

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Speaker 9: Is it?

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Speaker 6: The one with Jah rule?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, me. I'm struckting with gat To Burial. Gatta Burial.

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Speaker 2: That was way better, not even that, got to be real,

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Speaker 2: got to that, Sheryl Lynn, that's a good like seventy

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Speaker 6: Know if what part I'm gonna get here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, just give them the point to stop. Yeah, give it.

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Speaker 2: I would have given it. Well, of course you're gonna

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Speaker 2: give it to me because I got I'm gonna give it.

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Speaker 6: Really was was. I'm reel, I needed it. I'm gotta

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Speaker 2: Little bit more.

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Speaker 4: It's okay, more usually up a little bit, Okay, whatever

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Speaker 4: you want. Congratulations David. You got four points a day,

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Speaker 4: but you got to not really a tight race. But

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Speaker 4: that's all right because sometimes.

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Speaker 6: It isn't all right.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Jenny. Coming up in a second, we're gonna

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Speaker 2: talk to Justin, who was on the show last week.

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Speaker 2: He reunited with his ax on War of the Roses,

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Speaker 2: and it was an interesting War of the Roses if

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Speaker 2: you don't remember it. They had split up and we

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Speaker 2: got them back together. But how are things going a

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Speaker 2: week later? Is it still magical? Is it wonderful? Is

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Speaker 2: it mystical? Magical? Or is it men? Maybe we should

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Speaker 2: have stayed apart. We'll talk to Justin coming up next

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Speaker 2: on katiewb Oh, you guys are so funny, you know

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Speaker 2: the conversations we have here. By the way, the war

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Speaker 2: the Roses update is coming up and more sabrine. The

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Speaker 2: carpenter keywords to win that trip to La But I

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Speaker 2: have a doctor's appointment tomorrow because I've had belly pain

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Speaker 2: for like ten twelve years, and I've had every test,

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Speaker 2: done everything that you can imagine. I swallowed a camera

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Speaker 2: oh no, So I'm going into the doctor tomorrow. And

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Speaker 2: Jenny out of the Blue, out of the blue, says.

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Speaker 4: I said, what if you go into your doctor and

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Speaker 4: he's like, man, you just got one big gas bubble

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Speaker 3: You just just give me the medicine.

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Speaker 2: Give you apart medicine. A fart, like a one half hour,

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Speaker 2: solid long fart. They squeeze you and then they start

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Speaker 3: You come back and you're like thirty pounds later, We're like, hush,

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Speaker 3: you're so skinny. Yeah, are so full of gas gas.

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Speaker 2: It was crazy. Okay, Now, this is not what people

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Speaker 2: come here for. People come here for quality, dignified entertainment.

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Speaker 2: Broadway reviews to the speculation on the Nobel Peace Prize.

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Speaker 2: That's what they're here for. And then you get the

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Speaker 2: fart bubble squeeze joke where it comes from. We have

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Speaker 2: a couple of things coming up. First of all, Serena

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Speaker 2: Carpenter keyword coming up. This is the last week or that,

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Speaker 2: but right now we've got a little follow up, and

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Speaker 2: this is a war. It's War of the Roses, which

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Speaker 2: we do every Wednesday or Tuesday at this time, brand

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Speaker 2: new episode. So it is a War of the Roses,

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Speaker 2: but it's not Catti a cheater, one fake bouquet of

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Speaker 2: now on KTWB. I love a good love story, so

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Speaker 2: I have a good love story. A lot of the

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Speaker 2: time on War of the Roses. It doesn't turn out

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Speaker 2: to be a love story. It turns out to be

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Speaker 2: bitter and resentful and spiteful and ugly. But you might

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Speaker 2: remember a couple of weeks or a week ago, we

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Speaker 2: Roses completely different. He said, I want to have Jenny

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Speaker 2: call my ex to see whether she will accept flowers

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Speaker 2: from me. We've been broken up for a year. I

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Speaker 2: can't stop thinking about her. I've tried to get over her.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to send her flowers because that way

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Speaker 2: I won't know whether it is she rose him in

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Speaker 2: I want to have Jenny call and say, hey, I'm

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Speaker 2: from the flower company trying to send you flowers. I

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Speaker 2: got the what you say, the wrong address, yeah.

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Speaker 4: I said, I'm sorry, this address doesn't exist on Google.

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Speaker 2: So here's a clip of what happened when Jenny called.

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Speaker 6: But you are happy to get flowers from him?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I really am.

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Speaker 2: Before, but.

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Speaker 9: I'm serious.

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Speaker 2: Now. How do you feel right now, Adam, after a

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Speaker 11: Hey, yeah, nice to talk to you guys again. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Would you say you're back together?

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Speaker 2: I think that's great. I think sometimes you know that

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Speaker 2: But don't you. Sometimes you break up and there's always

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Speaker 5: You know I have.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I've had that feeling before, but not really like this.

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Speaker 11: And this is just like that ache that never went away.

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Speaker 11: And I'm just I'm really grateful to you guys for

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Speaker 2: I think that's great. Just so you like talk to

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Speaker 2: I'm happy to hear that. Yeah, well, thanks for letting

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Speaker 2: You know. Sometimes what is it You got to break

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Speaker 2: good thing. Oh justin thanks for talking to us, and

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Speaker 11: Oh will, Thanks guys.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that we've ever had a war of

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Speaker 4: Isn't it exciting to help a couple like get together

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was nice.

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Speaker 4: It was It was a nightstand.

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Speaker 2: That's what we want, right exactly? All right, it's KATWB.

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Speaker 2: They're not speaking to each other right now. I'm in

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Speaker 5: What's happened? So Alyssa, my girlfriend, God bless her soul,

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Speaker 2: To going to church, right and notither of.

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Speaker 5: Us are like overly religious people, but we believe what

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Speaker 5: Did that constantly up until this Sunday. So Sunday morning

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Speaker 5: And she got upset because she was like, well, this

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Speaker 5: I still think if I said I'm not going, she

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Speaker 2: You led her on, though I think you led her on.

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Speaker 5: You did because she was upset, and I told her

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Speaker 4: I don't understand why it's hard to say no just

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Speaker 5: But she wouldn't have been happy with that either. She

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Speaker 2: I say, concrete, when you got the church, did you

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Speaker 3: My ex would He did not like to go do anything,

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Speaker 3: anything with me, and then he'd be like, you're never here.

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Speaker 2: I'm fine with.

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Speaker 5: Everything that I was wrong in like, and I guess

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Speaker 5: leading her on. I just want her to also understand

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Speaker 5: that the same way that I said, sure, I'm down,

442
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Speaker 5: but don't pressure me, she kept pressuring me. So the

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Speaker 5: same way you want me to be straight up and

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Speaker 5: say yes or no, also listen to what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I think she was just reminding you. She was saying, Hey,

446
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Speaker 3: you've got a plan for Sunday morning. Don't forget your

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Speaker 3: plan for Sunday morning. I have to do that with

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Speaker 3: my sister, shout out Madison. I'll be like, hey, you've

449
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Speaker 3: got this thing on your calendar. Please don't forget it. Hello,

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Speaker 3: don't forget this thing that you have. Hello me again,

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Speaker 3: don't forget this thing. So, I don't know if she

452
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Speaker 3: was pressuring you, she was just reminding you that you

453
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Speaker 3: said you would go.

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Speaker 2: Well, let me read this text message. Somebody says, uh oh.

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Speaker 5: If she was going to be mad either way, then

456
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Speaker 5: you could have at least heard on the air on

457
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Speaker 5: the side of being honest earlier on and not stringing

458
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Speaker 5: her along and hopefulness all week out of respect. Imagine

459
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Speaker 5: her thoughts and her anxiety. Is he gonna come? Is

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Speaker 5: he gonna come?

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Speaker 2: Look at that? I think he's great. You're going to church.

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Speaker 2: Number one. I love that for a young couple to

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Speaker 2: go to church. I think that's awesome. Number two, Are

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Speaker 2: you gonna go on Sunday this Sunday? Yeah, we'll see.

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Speaker 2: I can imagine you walking in and your pastor like

466
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Speaker 2: looking like young people. Oh, churches love young people. You know,

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Speaker 2: my god good piece of communion brand.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, text messages On the other side, Why does it

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Speaker 5: need to be a concrete yes or no. Why can't

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Speaker 5: you just say yes, I'll go and go on your

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Speaker 5: own terms. And that's kind of how I looked at it.

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Speaker 5: Maybe I should have been more direct, but I said yes,

473
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Speaker 5: just don't pressure me, meaning like, I will go, but

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Speaker 5: that doesn't have to be every Sunday.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. But now I'm in the doghouse for it,

476
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Speaker 2: so can't go during Viking season because the Vikings are on.

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Speaker 5: I was so happy that they won. The other day

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Speaker 5: I was looking for my dad and he was watching

479
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Speaker 5: it and he was like. I was like, they're losing, right,

480
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Speaker 5: He was like no. I was like, you're kidding, right,

481
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Speaker 5: He was like no, you yeah.

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Speaker 2: I remember we would go to church every Sunday and

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Speaker 2: then one year we were on way to the church

484
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Speaker 2: and I remember I had bets on the Vikings game,

485
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Speaker 2: or I hadn't placed bets on the Vikings game, so

486
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Speaker 2: I had to turn around to come home, and then

487
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Speaker 2: we decided not to go. And that is Vont's church stories.

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Speaker 2: Sorry Dave, Ryan show one on one point three kd WB.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's get on with the dirt before we

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Speaker 2: do group therapy. We've got a group therapy coming up

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Speaker 2: in a second that is like really like dicey and scandalous,

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Speaker 2: and it's I'm honestly amazed that she would go be

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Speaker 2: on the radio because it is one of those things

494
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Speaker 2: where it's like, I don't know if that was my

495
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Speaker 2: story that I would want it on the radio. So

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Speaker 2: let's get on with Dave's dirt on kd WB. Sexiest

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Speaker 2: Man Alive was announced last night on the Jimmy Fallon Show.

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Speaker 2: Here's the announcement, Sexiest not a lot Jonathan in twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty five.

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Speaker 3: You just think I'm sort of thrilled that People magazine

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Speaker 3: have invited someone in the study this honor on someone who.

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Speaker 2: Can Yeah, yeah, yeah. So he was in Bridgerton, he

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Speaker 2: was in Wicked for Good, and he was in some

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Speaker 2: of the things right, Jurassic Park. He's in a lot

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Speaker 2: of stuff and he is really hot.

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Speaker 3: And if you don't know who Jonathan Bailey is, then

507
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Speaker 3: you're doing a disservice to yourself.

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Speaker 2: So look him up. And he's great, and I'm so

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Speaker 2: glad that he won.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, yeah, if Carli ray Jebsen is pregnant.

511
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Speaker 2: She got married like a week ago and now she's pregnant.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just had a secret wedding. She married music producer

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Speaker 4: Cole mgn and they exchange vows one month ago in

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Speaker 4: New York City. And then yesterday the couple of posts

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Speaker 4: for their pregnancy announcement, and Carly is doing well.

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Speaker 6: She's showing.

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Speaker 4: She was obviously showing at their wedding. I guess is

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Speaker 4: what they said. Yep, yeah, yeah she So she posted

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Speaker 4: this phohoto and just said, oh hi baby.

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Speaker 2: Apparently was the announcement. That's cute.

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Speaker 3: Kelly Clarkson is feeling well enough to reschedule her Las

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Speaker 3: Vegas residency. She had canceled a bunch of her summer

523
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Speaker 3: shows after her ex husband died, and so now tickets

524
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Speaker 3: are going on sale for the new dates, which are

525
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Speaker 3: in August of next year. So August something eighth at

526
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Speaker 3: fourteenth and fifteenth at Caesar's Palace for her studio sessions

527
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Speaker 3: that she had canceled before. So I'm glad that she

528
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Speaker 3: feels better to at least reschedule those.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Dick Cheney died. He was the Vice president. I

530
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Speaker 2: believe under Bush. I'm sorry that I've kind of forgotten,

531
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Speaker 2: but he was eighty four years old and he died.

532
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Speaker 2: Just in the last twenty four hours or so. We

533
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Speaker 2: just heard about that. One federal judge granted the request

534
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Speaker 2: of Diddy for a fast track appeal, so he could

535
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Speaker 2: be back in court as early as April to see

536
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Speaker 2: whether he can get out on an appeal.

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Speaker 4: So, Dakota Johnson and Chris Martin from Coldplay have been

538
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Speaker 4: dating for quite a while, and apparently they're saying that

539
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Speaker 4: Dakota Johnson is feeling a little bit jealous after reports

540
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Speaker 4: of Chris Martin rebounded with Sophie Turner and I do

541
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Speaker 4: want to correct myself.

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Speaker 6: They were engaged, by.

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Speaker 4: The way, So Dakota said that she or a rep

544
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Speaker 4: for her so that she seems lighter and more at

545
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Speaker 4: peace now. And Dakota has been slowly dating again and

546
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Speaker 4: she's happy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's take a trip.

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Speaker 1: Chance to win a trip to Los Angeles to see

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Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter at one of our sold out shows. Happens

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Speaker 2: That trip to see Sabrina Carpenter in Los Angeles. So

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Speaker 2: I know you've heard us do it before. Don't lose

554
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Speaker 2: sight of the fact that, yes, you've done a dozen times,

555
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Speaker 2: but do it again because it is a cool trip,

556
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Speaker 2: probably your best trip of the year unless you went

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Speaker 2: to Rome. If you went to Rome, then maybe it's

558
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Speaker 2: a different story. Paris a little bit, which one would

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Speaker 2: be the mas right, But this is a really cool

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Speaker 2: trip to go to La see Sabrina Carpenter in concert

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Speaker 2: from KTWB. Keyword is busy.

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Speaker 10: Show.

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Speaker 2: We had an email just yesterday and we actually pushed

564
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Speaker 2: this one to the front of the stack because we

565
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Speaker 2: thought you might want to have some answers sooner rather

566
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Speaker 2: than later. And so we call Bethany not her real name,

567
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Speaker 2: and said, will you be on the show? And I'll

568
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Speaker 2: be honest with you, I was surprised that she would

569
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Speaker 2: be on the show. And it's not that you've done

570
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Speaker 2: anything wrong. It's just a kind of an awkward email. Bethany,

571
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Speaker 2: not your real name. The email is long ish, so

572
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Speaker 2: if I can ask you to kind of shorten her

573
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Speaker 2: up a little bit so we can help you out.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for being on Bethany. What's going on?

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Speaker 10: Hi, guys, good morning. Can you hear me? Okay, I

576
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Speaker 10: hear you?

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Speaker 2: Fine, beautiful, Okay, great.

578
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Speaker 10: So long story shorts. I have two sisters. I'm the middle,

579
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Speaker 10: and recently my older sister contacted me to tell me

580
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Speaker 10: that she suspected that our father was not her biological father.

581
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Speaker 2: What suspicion? What brought that on?

582
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Speaker 10: So she did an online Dunite test. I won't say

583
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Speaker 10: the company name, but just out of curiosity. I think

584
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Speaker 10: she'd gotten it as a gift. And so online you

585
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Speaker 10: can build a family tree and you can find relatives

586
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Speaker 10: and things like that.

587
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Speaker 2: So cutting to the chase, and I'm not trying to

588
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Speaker 2: rush you along, but to keep it simple. You then

589
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Speaker 2: took a test and found out she is not your

590
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Speaker 2: full sister, which you've grown up and you're forty something

591
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Speaker 2: years old or so. She is half sister, oh, meaning

592
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Speaker 2: your dad is not her dad, which she'd spent forty

593
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Speaker 2: years of her life thinking you have the all three

594
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Speaker 2: you had the same dad.

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Speaker 6: That's right, that's right shocking.

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Speaker 10: So yeah, I mean it's it's been a couple of

597
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Speaker 10: weeks now and we're still reeling from it. She of

598
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Speaker 10: course is devastated. There's no question myself and my younger

599
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Speaker 10: sister are my father's daughters. We look so much like him. Yeah,

600
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Speaker 10: so we're just kind of just you know, the three

601
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Speaker 10: of us know nobody else really does. And she's just

602
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Speaker 10: going through it.

603
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Speaker 8: You know.

604
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Speaker 10: I'm checking on every day and you know, trying to

605
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Speaker 10: be encouraging and supportive.

606
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Speaker 2: And I'm not going to be devastating to think that

607
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Speaker 2: this guy who took you on camp outs and taught

608
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Speaker 2: you how to put a worm on a fish hook

609
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Speaker 2: and ride a bike and was there for you on

610
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Speaker 2: chrisp whatever, that this guy as it was a great dad,

611
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Speaker 2: but he's not your body. That's just got to be

612
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Speaker 2: a weird thing. Yeah, and she probably feels does she's

613
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Speaker 2: a mess? Does she feel deceived after forty two years

614
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Speaker 2: of deception?

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Speaker 10: I think so. I mean I certainly do. But we

616
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Speaker 10: also wonder if they don't know.

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Speaker 3: Right, That's what I was thinking, doesn't know if her

618
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Speaker 3: parents don't my parents, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well mom would have to have an inkling, wouldn't Mom

620
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Speaker 2: has to have an inkling. She might think like, well

621
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Speaker 2: it could be this guy, this guy, Sure it could, right,

622
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Speaker 2: but she would have an inkling.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, so running running through the scenarios. I mean, my

624
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Speaker 10: parents were they dated in high school and they got

625
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Speaker 10: pregnant around seventeen, and then got married at eighteen and

626
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Speaker 10: had my sister shortly after. So now knowing that, you know,

627
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Speaker 10: we've known this all of our lives. My mom got

628
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Speaker 10: out of high school, my dad, you know, dropped out

629
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Speaker 10: of college in order to start a family and raise

630
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Speaker 10: my older sister. So, and this was in the early eighties.

631
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Speaker 10: It's what you did. And I know that their parents

632
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Speaker 10: were like, no, you're getting married.

633
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Speaker 2: Yeah. That was kind of a thing back then. If

634
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Speaker 2: you got somebody pregnant a lot of the time, it's like, oh,

635
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Speaker 2: get married.

636
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Speaker 10: Yeah yeah yeah. So so, you know, and I reminded her,

637
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Speaker 10: you know that all of us, my younger sister and

638
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Speaker 10: I and all of ours, we have beautiful families, and

639
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Speaker 10: we're all very healthy and happy, and we have wonderful lives.

640
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Speaker 10: All of us exist, and all of this is here

641
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Speaker 10: now because of her, I mean, regardless of who her

642
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Speaker 10: biological father is. They decided to get married and raise

643
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Speaker 10: this family and build a family, and we had a

644
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Speaker 10: really great childhood and we're all, you know, we're close.

645
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Speaker 10: I mean everybody. Every family has their things, but so

646
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Speaker 10: we have a great family dynamic. And her first thought was,

647
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Speaker 10: I don't know if I want to bring this to

648
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Speaker 10: them because what if they don't.

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Speaker 2: Know what that's the thing. What if dad? There's so

650
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Speaker 2: many possibilities. You mentioned this in your email. Basically you

651
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Speaker 2: just turn your radio one. We're talking to somebody who

652
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Speaker 2: is in her forty She's got three sisters. She's the

653
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Speaker 2: middle sister. DNA test kind of just for fun, turned

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Speaker 2: out that the oldest sister, not the caller, but the

655
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 2: oldest sister's dad is not the dad of the other

656
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 2: two girls. Nobody's known this. They're all about forty years

657
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 2: old or so, and it's just kind of devastating, shocking, hurtful.

658
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 4: Your question is he's not the dad just to clarify

659
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 4: of the oldest scesster not the two girls.

660
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably said it wrong. So so your question

661
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 2: is do what is your question? Do you approach mom?

662
00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 2: What do you want to ask?

663
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 10: So so you know, my younger sister and my older sister,

664
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 10: you know, they're like, how do we how do I

665
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 10: how do I go to Mom with this? And my

666
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 10: first thought was, I don't know that we should my parents,

667
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 10: You know, they had a rough go of it the

668
00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 10: first few you know, first dozen years of marriage. You know,

669
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 10: they were children themselves, raising a young family, and my

670
00:32:03,320 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 10: dad worked three jobs, and you know, it was just

671
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 10: it was tough. And you know, so now they're retired,

672
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 10: they have these grandkids that they love so much. They're

673
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 10: you know, living life. They're traveling and they're very happy. Yeah,

674
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 10: and I worry that if you know, to mom cheated

675
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,000
Speaker 10: on my dad at seventeen, or went to a party

676
00:32:24,040 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 10: and got dronger, something happened and she got pregnant by

677
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 10: somebody else, and my dad doesn't.

678
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 2: Know or well, And that's kind of what I'm thinking,

679
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 2: is like your dad, there's so many scenarios. Your dad

680
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 2: might know. He might know and decided, you know what,

681
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 2: I love her. It might be mine. I don't know

682
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 2: that they had DNA testing back then, so maybe he's like,

683
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: I know, it could be this other guys, but it

684
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 2: might be mine, and I love her. She could have

685
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 2: been deceitful, she could have been made a big mistake.

686
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 2: There's so many different things. The question is, I think,

687
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 2: if I'm getting this right, is should you ask them

688
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 2: or tell them that you know, right, Yeah.

689
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 10: Yeah, And so you know, and it's not my This

690
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 10: isn't my dilemma. I'm trying to be as supportive to

691
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 10: my sister as possible. What does she want to be

692
00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:13,880
Speaker 10: my mind? Well, she she's it's eating her up. And

693
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 10: that's the part where I feel this heartbroken for her,

694
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 10: you know, like you said, Dave, she's having this existential

695
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 10: moment of like, well, everything that I thought, you know

696
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 10: isn't isn't right?

697
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 2: Right? And side note, didn't you say her biological dad?

698
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 2: You looked him up and he died years ago, a

699
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 2: few years ago.

700
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 10: Yeah, the man who we suspect is a biological father.

701
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 10: Through this, you know, she had contacted some people in

702
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 10: this family tree that she built online who she was

703
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 10: a first cousin left. So this guy that they suspect

704
00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:45,440
Speaker 10: is the guy. He died a few years ago.

705
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,920
Speaker 2: So there's no going back to this guy and kind

706
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: of rekindling or whatever. So there's so much more we

707
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 2: could talk about. But I think that my opinion is,

708
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 2: because I'll be honest with you, I've talked about this before,

709
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: there's always been a little bit of doubt because I

710
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 2: did a deest it turned out that I'm twenty percent Asian,

711
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 2: and I'd look nothing like my sisters and brother nothing.

712
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 2: I look like my mama. But I know mom and

713
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 2: dad had some troubles back around the time that I

714
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: was around, and so there's always in speculation. Susan is

715
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:21,320
Speaker 2: certain that I am not my dad's son, very different

716
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 2: than they have a look that is like no other look,

717
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 2: and it is a very strong look through my entire

718
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 2: like extended family. I don't have it. So Susan's like, yeah,

719
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 2: but I my dad was such a good dad, and

720
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:40,800
Speaker 2: if he knew, he never treated like anything, I'm almost

721
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 2: gonna cry. He never treated me like anything less than

722
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 2: his son. So I know it's not your decision, but

723
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 2: I would say, just for your sister to kind of

724
00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 2: leave it alone. I don't care to know the guy

725
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,160
Speaker 2: who was Asian that got my mom pregnant. And I'm

726
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 2: exaggerating a little. I don't care. I don't want to

727
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 2: know anything about him. He wasn't my dad. Yeah, dad

728
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,440
Speaker 2: was my dad, right, the guy who raised you as

729
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:02,839
Speaker 2: your dad.

730
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 10: And I'm so proud of her that she's come to

731
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 10: those revelations. She's you know, she'll call me, you know,

732
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 10: because I keep saying if you need me, I'll come down,

733
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 10: because she's she's about an hour's south of me, and

734
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 10: you know, I'm like, you know, I'll talk this out

735
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 10: with you, and she's like, no, I just want to

736
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 10: be alone and process this, which I completely understand. But

737
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 10: and I'm not trying to persuade her anyway. I just

738
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 10: want to be supportive. But I do worry that. I mean,

739
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 10: my parents, they're sixty five and they're they both are

740
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 10: in heart beds. Let's be honest. I worry that what

741
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:30,520
Speaker 10: if she told them and they both dropped dead right there,

742
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 10: you know?

743
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 2: Or well what if what if they didn't have a

744
00:35:33,400 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 2: lot of life left and they spent the last few

745
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,480
Speaker 2: years of their life kind of agonizing over that? So, okay,

746
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 2: we and you and I could talk and talk, but

747
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,439
Speaker 2: I want to find out what people think. So let's

748
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 2: read some text messages and get some phone calls. Let's

749
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 2: start off with the phone calls. If you got a minute, Danielle, Danielle, Hello,

750
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:52,319
Speaker 2: I didn't just lose her. Are you still there?

751
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 6: That's Bethany.

752
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 10: Bethany.

753
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,840
Speaker 2: Oh, Bethany. Okay, who's Danielle? Oh? That was the reunited Okay,

754
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:00,919
Speaker 2: I got it. I got it. Okay, Bethany, sit tight,

755
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,920
Speaker 2: here we go. We got some phone calls. Bethany, here

756
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: we go. Let's go to Gabby. Gabby, we've been really

757
00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 2: windy today and it's mostly my fault. So if you

758
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 2: can keep it kind of short, what would you tell

759
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 2: Bethany that she should do.

760
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 8: I did reach out to my father I found out

761
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 8: at twenty six years old, and I before I did

762
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 8: the DNA test, I reached out to the man that

763
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 8: raised me and told him about it. He did have speculation,

764
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 8: so they both know now. And then I reached out

765
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,839
Speaker 8: to my biological father and wasn't unable to meet him,

766
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 8: but sibling wise and father wise, it it all. The

767
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 8: connection still stayed the same. My father is still my

768
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 8: father who raised me. He's a genuine man, and all

769
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 8: my siblings still have a very strong connection, so it

770
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 8: didn't change that way. But deep down, I did really

771
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 8: want to know who mylogical family is. And I have

772
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:54,560
Speaker 8: half siblings that live in the same town as me.

773
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 8: I don't know just yet of even about me, and

774
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 8: so I'm working on that and working on writing letters

775
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 8: to them to just let them know I'm here and

776
00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 8: if they want any kind of relationship either way, I'm fine,

777
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 8: but it definitely was a whirlwind and it put a

778
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 8: lot of therapy that.

779
00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 2: See, I wouldn't want to know any of my half

780
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 2: sibling step siblings whatever, I don't. They don't exist to me,

781
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? If they are, you're right,

782
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 2: but that's just me for sure, Jordan, you what would

783
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 2: you suggest to Bethany.

784
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 12: So this happened to me and my brothers and how

785
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 12: it all went down as my dad basically got upset

786
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 12: with my mom and filled the beans they've been divorced

787
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 12: for years and years. And what my brothers and I

788
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 12: did is we actually went and spoke to my mom

789
00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:45,200
Speaker 12: about it and just brought the situation up and at

790
00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 12: the end of everything, emotions were high, things were crazy.

791
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 12: The biggest part throughout the whole experience was to make

792
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 12: sure that the person who was affected in this case,

793
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 12: my little brother, knew that no matter what happened, it

794
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:00,200
Speaker 12: didn't change the way anybody thought of them. And look

795
00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 12: at the weird silver lining in the whole thing that

796
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 12: although my dad wasn't his biological dad, he still did

797
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 12: every single thing he did for my older brother and I,

798
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 12: for my little brother, making him feel that sense of inclusion.

799
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 2: So that was my experience too, because I got probably

800
00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 2: treated a little bit better than because I was the baby,

801
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 2: I probably got treated better than some of the siblings.

802
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 2: So yeah, that was my experience too, Thank you, Jordan.

803
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 2: So what do we want to wrap up with? What

804
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 2: should she do? Should she encourage be supportive of whatever

805
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 2: your sister wants to do.

806
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a lot of the text messages that

807
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,760
Speaker 3: we're getting is to say, if you want to mention

808
00:38:32,840 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 3: it to anybody, you have to mention it to mom first.

809
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, because if it's the plan, Yeah, if.

810
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 3: It's eating up your sister, it might be eating up

811
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 3: your parents or at least the mom. So like talk

812
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 3: to mom alone before anyone else. And some people do

813
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 3: make some really good points about like medical reasons that

814
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 3: you would want to know who your dad is in

815
00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:53,880
Speaker 3: case there is some kind of condition that runs in

816
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 3: his side of the family.

817
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's true.

818
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 10: Yeah, that's My sister actually made that comment as well,

819
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,800
Speaker 10: because she's got an immune disease that she's been dealing with.

820
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 10: So yeah, it's just yeah, my my biggest concern was,

821
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 10: you know, if we just if she does go forward

822
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 10: with it, that she meets with mom alone and you

823
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:16,200
Speaker 10: know they both have a mental breakdown. But you know,

824
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 10: because my dad, while my mom you know, can give answers,

825
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 10: my dad might not be able to right.

826
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 2: And that's that's the thing is nobody knows for sure.

827
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 10: You know what, maybe you want to protect my dad

828
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 10: here because he did do the right thing. I mean,

829
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 10: he's a wonderful dad and he treated us all the

830
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 10: same with love, and he's a wonderful man. So I

831
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,760
Speaker 10: would hate for this to, you know, destroy our family.

832
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,280
Speaker 2: I'm glad what I don't think it would. I'm glad

833
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:44,280
Speaker 2: you called in. I think that there's so many different

834
00:39:44,320 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 2: options and none of them is perfect and none of

835
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 2: them is wrong. So you know what, I'd say, be

836
00:39:51,120 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 2: supportive of her sister because it is something you're like, you're,

837
00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 2: you know, secondary dealing with it, but she's the one

838
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 2: who's really dealing with it. Hey, I hope we helped you, Bethany.

839
00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 2: Thanks for calling in or thanks for letting us put

840
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 2: you on the radio. Yeah, she wrote in, And like

841
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 2: I said, I wasn't sure she'd want to be on

842
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: the radio, but she did. I've got a group therapy.

843
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 2: We'd love to help you out. Somebody listening has been

844
00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:13,280
Speaker 2: through the exact same thing. Send that into a Ryan

845
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:17,760
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846
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,920
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847
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848
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,279
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849
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 2: up with another fifteen minutes. I'm katiewb It is your

850
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 2: friend BoNT with stirring the pot. But are we doing

851
00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: our twist today? Yeah, Vannie is stirring nothing. I tap

852
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,239
Speaker 2: passed the baton or the ladle or the whisk over

853
00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:39,400
Speaker 2: to you.

854
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 3: David.

855
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 2: You're gonna stir the pot today. I get to stir

856
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 2: the pot today every day this week, you guys are

857
00:40:44,280 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 2: gonna take the start. The teachers should be able to

858
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:50,919
Speaker 2: spank kids, all right, I said it. This is old

859
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 2: kids say need I let me tell you something. The

860
00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 2: teachers should be able to spank kids because a lot

861
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 2: of the time the kids are the little a holes

862
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 2: at school and the teachers are like, so what does

863
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 2: a teacher do? She calls little Jimmy's mom and says, yeah,

864
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 2: old Jimmy brought firecrackers into school and he was throwing

865
00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 2: them at me during class. Be my little Jimmy would

866
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 2: never do that, he's a little angel. So the parents

867
00:41:15,400 --> 00:41:17,959
Speaker 2: then they get mad because now the teacher is like, oh,

868
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,080
Speaker 2: being accused of harassing little Jimmy. This happened in my family.

869
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 2: There's one person in my family who is he can

870
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 2: be a little brat at school. He claims that the

871
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: teacher will just look at him and send him to

872
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: the office for no reason whatsoever the case, and I'm like,

873
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 2: that is never the case. But I think sometimes the

874
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 2: mom believes, yeah, that teacher's got a thing out for him,

875
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,280
Speaker 2: so she'll look at him and say, for no reason whatsoever,

876
00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 2: go to the office. I say teachers should be able

877
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 2: to like say, okay, I got a paddle up here.

878
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 2: You see this paddle, it's like a pickleball paddle. They

879
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,720
Speaker 2: should be able to spank kids and get them kids

880
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 2: in line, so they're paying attention, not worried about whether

881
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 2: they're like, oh, I don't know this, or that he'd

882
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,760
Speaker 2: turn them over your knee and give him a good paddling. Okay,

883
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 2: they'll listen because they're fearful. That is exactly right. Yes,

884
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: what a wonderful way. You don't have to paddle every

885
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 2: kid if the kid is you know. You used one kid,

886
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 2: Jimmy as an example. You paddle Jimmy and say anybody

887
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 2: else want this, They'll be like, no, Miss Johnson, you

888
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 2: said an example as a kid.

889
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 10: Yeah.

890
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be honest. I just don't think spanking really

891
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:23,759
Speaker 4: works these days anymore. Mine.

892
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 6: If you gets spankings all the time, he's numb to it.

893
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 4: Another one, my sister doesn't even try to spank like whatever.

894
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 5: See, but I think that's different. It's your parents, so

895
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 5: you expect your parents to discipline you. Your teacher, you're

896
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 5: not expecting that. So if miss mss Rogers gives you

897
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,880
Speaker 5: a little you'll probably start acting right.

898
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:44,839
Speaker 2: Teach you how to count one, No, three, four, five? What?

899
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 4: We didn't even have spankings when I was growing up,

900
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:49,120
Speaker 4: did you being No.

901
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: I did not. Of course you did. There was a

902
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,440
Speaker 2: refrigerator box in our classroom in first grade. Because my

903
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: job was to be a little a hole, so I

904
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 2: figured out if I climbed up on top of a

905
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 2: chair and then somebody's on their shoulders or something, I

906
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,879
Speaker 2: could get into the top of the refrigerator box. Now,

907
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 2: the teacher wasn't looking when I did it, but when

908
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 2: I fell down ten feet into the refrigerator box, she

909
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 2: heard the big thump ten feet. Oh however, tall refrigerator.

910
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,720
Speaker 3: Oh dunk school you're going to there's a refrigerator box

911
00:43:16,760 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 3: in the classroom.

912
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:21,880
Speaker 2: Good, we were hay seed. So anyway, she hears a

913
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:26,120
Speaker 2: big her thump. Miss Plumba comes over. She's pissed. I

914
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,719
Speaker 2: knew better than to get and she poured me out

915
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 2: of the box like a kid being poured out of

916
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 2: a box of cereal. And she spanked me, and I

917
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:35,919
Speaker 2: deserved it.

918
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,959
Speaker 5: I love how many people are texting agreeing that teachers, damn,

919
00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 5: teacher should number one, they should wear body cams.

920
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,160
Speaker 2: Number two, they should be able to spank kids earlier

921
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:44,520
Speaker 2: they were.

922
00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 5: People were pressed texting in that teacher should dress more appropriately,

923
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 5: but we should just spank kids.

924
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 2: Where's the way it makes sense?

925
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

926
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 2: Spanked in brats. Spanked in brats, your.

927
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:02,960
Speaker 6: Political violin solves.

928
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 2: It's not violence. It's called discipline.

929
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think it's I don't think they should

930
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 5: spank all the time, but I do think you said

931
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 5: one good example.

932
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 2: I bet you that kid won't act up.

933
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 4: I don't have fond memories in my gram but because

934
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:17,440
Speaker 4: all he ever did was threatened to spank us, I

935
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 4: honestly like, do you.

936
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 2: I just don't think the way there's a difference between

937
00:44:22,160 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 2: having the eternal threat of like, you know, unnecessary. But

938
00:44:25,719 --> 00:44:27,879
Speaker 2: if the kid knows you got a wooden spoon hanging

939
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,279
Speaker 2: on the wall behind you, next to the globe, and

940
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 2: you're gonna like paddle ass if they act up, that

941
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 2: kid's gonna be a good kid.

942
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 10: That kids Johnson.

943
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 3: I think that's a weird expectation to put on teachers though,

944
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 3: because like if I was a teacher and my principal

945
00:44:42,560 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 3: was like, Okay, when tim decides to act up, you're

946
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 3: gonna spank them, I'll be like, that's weird because even

947
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 3: touching a kid now, But.

948
00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,399
Speaker 5: It's only weird because because it's not normal right now.

949
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,720
Speaker 5: If we made it normal, teachers would definitely take advantage.

950
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,479
Speaker 4: But like just touching kids in general, like as a tear,

951
00:44:57,840 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 4: is not allowed anymore.

952
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 2: So then can you imagine the problem of the problem.

953
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 5: I've always said it takes one good ace whooping to

954
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 5: set somebody straight that don't even that, not even just

955
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 5: teachers get the bus.

956
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 4: It's still a little s And he gets lots of

957
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:12,839
Speaker 4: ace whooping.

958
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,360
Speaker 2: But does he get them from? Like what does he

959
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 2: get in fights at school?

960
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,640
Speaker 4: No, he's an angel at school, but at home he

961
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 4: does whatever he wants.

962
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 2: To go ahead.

963
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:24,359
Speaker 5: I even think that at school, like you can tell

964
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 5: which kids get in fights and which kids get ace

965
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 5: whoopings at home too, because there's some of them are spoiled.

966
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 9: Bro.

967
00:45:29,280 --> 00:45:31,239
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, the mouth off the teacher. A lot

968
00:45:31,239 --> 00:45:33,839
Speaker 2: of teachers listen to the show. Here's a Texas says,

969
00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 2: as a teacher, I love the idea as someone who

970
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:38,839
Speaker 2: is very again spanking absolutely not. But another one juan

971
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 2: Nita says, give them kids an ass whooping. Yeah, And

972
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 2: I'm like you, each teacher should get one spanking they

973
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:47,400
Speaker 2: can give out per year, just like everybody at work

974
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,959
Speaker 2: should get one punch that they can give somebody per year.

975
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 4: And I work in HR Okay, I don't disagree with that.

976
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:56,080
Speaker 4: I actually think I'm all for that. Give give me

977
00:45:56,120 --> 00:45:58,440
Speaker 4: your face punch. Oh we all know who I punched.

978
00:45:58,680 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 4: Give me your face, Oh.

979
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 2: Dave, you wind it up.

980
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 6: No, it's definitely Dave, because let me tell you something.

981
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 13: What did I not predict, yes, when we were show

982
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 13: planning yesterday, that I would get a text from Dave

983
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 13: asking him to remind him who he was in charge

984
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:17,800
Speaker 13: of for a political ad bit we're doing later, I said,

985
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,400
Speaker 13: and I ask God forbid. I cover my bases, actually

986
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 13: said to you, I said, Dave, were you listening? Yeah, okay,

987
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 13: who are you doing your political ad with?

988
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 2: I wanted to make sure.

989
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 4: And then at six thirty pm, Jenny, who am I

990
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 4: doing my political ad with?

991
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 2: That's exactly what happened. So, yeah, I want to punch it.

992
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 2: You look at my face, this very punchable face.

993
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 9: It is.

994
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 2: I got one of those faces that just says, you

995
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:42,360
Speaker 2: know why I need good punching.

996
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, your face would like accept my knuckles.

997
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 2: Wind it up anyway. So there it is. You want

998
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 2: to stir the pot? There it is? The pot is stirred. Bailey?

999
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 2: How Bailey and I have to next? Yes?

1000
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 5: So every day this week, Galler reponsible for starting the pot. Okay, Bailey,

1001
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 5: you go next tomorrow.

1002
00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 2: Okay, we can go next. Okay, save her for Thursday.

1003
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 2: Sounds good, alright, day Thursday, pot. I love it