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Speaker 1: Welcome to another episode of I.

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Speaker 2: Tell You.

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Speaker 3: So.

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Speaker 4: Cody and his girlfriend Erica, they've been together for six years.

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Speaker 4: When they moved in together, they made an agreement that

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Speaker 4: he would cover the rent since he makes more, and

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Speaker 4: since his girlfriend, Erica wants to go back to school

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Speaker 4: to get a certification, he's been covering her tuition out

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Speaker 4: of pocket every month.

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Speaker 1: It's not alone.

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Speaker 4: So he said, since I'm doing those two things, can

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Speaker 4: you at least handle cooking dinner most nights of the week,

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Speaker 4: which she said, absolutely, I could do that.

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Speaker 1: For the first few months she did.

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Speaker 5: It seems like a fair trade.

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Speaker 4: Then she so, for the first few months she did.

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Speaker 4: Then she stopped, and he's brought it up the agreement twice,

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Speaker 4: and now she says that she has too much on

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Speaker 4: her plate and mentioned that cooking every night on top

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Speaker 4: of school was too much.

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Speaker 6: Well, okay, if it's too much for her to cook

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Speaker 6: for him, I'm sorry. If he's paying for your tuition

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Speaker 6: and he's making a big financial commitment doing that, then

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Speaker 6: maybe it's too much for him to do that for you,

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Speaker 6: and that's fine.

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Speaker 4: Right, right, yeah, which is exactly my question. Since she

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Speaker 4: stopped cooking, should he stop paying her tuition for school,

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Speaker 4: and I completely agree.

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Speaker 1: I think he should stop all together.

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Speaker 6: I think it's cool that they were able to come

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Speaker 6: to some kind of agreement that was supposedly going to

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Speaker 6: work for both of them, and I think that I to.

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Speaker 6: I mean, maybe some people would disagree, but I think

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Speaker 6: that if I'm they're dating dubs, yeah right, So if

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Speaker 6: I'm dating somebody and they say that they're willing to

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Speaker 6: pay for my tuition as long as I cook meals

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Speaker 6: for the two of us, I'm like, I'd have to

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Speaker 6: cook anyway if I was single to keep myself alive. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: I mean, you're going to pay for my tuition, and

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Speaker 6: all I gotta do is cook a little extra food.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I think that it's a fair trade.

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Speaker 6: If she's not holding her up her end of the

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Speaker 6: deal up, then it's totally fair for him to not

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Speaker 6: be paying for.

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Speaker 3: The walk back on the iHeartRadio app hit Up talk Back,

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Speaker 3: I want love your thoughts on it, but if I

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Speaker 3: could just jump in it to be aside for a minute.

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Speaker 3: You come from a family that's very sick right now,

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Speaker 3: You're home taking care of them yesterday. Every time you

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Speaker 3: say people pay and cook, you spit on me. I

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Speaker 3: am not you're spinning.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a spin.

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Speaker 3: And it's just it's you know, I don't like and

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Speaker 3: I just I've got Easter coming up. I got stuff.

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Speaker 3: I don't want whatever's going through your house. That's the

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Speaker 3: last thing I want. And I care about this couple

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Speaker 3: and I want to help them, and you care about your.

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Speaker 5: Well, I'm not sick. I might be the one that

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Speaker 5: got them sick.

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Speaker 3: I don't know whatever, whatever it is, I'm sure you're

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Speaker 3: you're a carrier and you're kind of holding You're holding

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Speaker 3: me down like a circus.

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Speaker 1: Animal over here. I mean literally, I need too pertols. Well,

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Speaker 1: you get all fired up and then you start dropping

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Speaker 1: those P words and you start spitting all over them.

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Speaker 5: You make you sound so gross. I am not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying that you're growing. I'm just saying that

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Speaker 1: you I don't talk.

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Speaker 3: Back on the iHeartRadio app. If you guys would be

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Speaker 3: so okay, let's help this couple. I say, she kind

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Speaker 3: of committed to doing the deal, Like, all right, you're

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Speaker 3: taking care of my college and I and I make

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Speaker 3: your meals right.

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Speaker 1: Sounds sexist?

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Speaker 3: Is all ghetto, to be honest with you, A little bit,

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Speaker 3: even though, even though there's something in it for both

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Speaker 3: of them. But I still think you get it. You

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Speaker 3: got to fulfill your deal. This guy's not eating, He's

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Speaker 3: gonna wither away and die.

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Speaker 5: I don't okay, that's the ultraumatic.

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Speaker 6: I'm sure, yeah, man, I'm sure you can find sustenance

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Speaker 6: to keep himself alive.

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Speaker 3: Sousan, careful of the sustenance. You just put it all

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Speaker 3: over me. Just sustenance all over me. You keep spraying

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Speaker 3: I need a windshield in here.

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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, nobody's gonna want to ever talk to me.

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Speaker 1: Help this couple out. Talk back on the iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 3: App, did did Sam san Severe just say she's not

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Speaker 3: a spinner?

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Speaker 1: Hocked on? You're a good man, You're a lucky man.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy what you have, my guy. Let's keep it on track.

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Speaker 1: Everybody the derailed. I don't get.

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Speaker 3: It, okay, I'll tell you the talk back in the

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Speaker 3: iHeart Radio what definitely not.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 1: I want a demonstration, Google it, sell it. No, I

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Speaker 1: got websites for that. My god, don't you just spit

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Speaker 1: on me again?

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Speaker 8: You did?

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Speaker 1: She just laughed, Sam was a petri dish.

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Speaker 3: She's just spreading it all over the studio right now,

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Speaker 3: all right, so drop it on talkback. What do you

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Speaker 3: do if you're this couple? Does she have to own

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Speaker 3: up to her part of the agreement and keep cooking meals?

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Speaker 1: Right there?

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Speaker 3: Somebody's just tuning in. This does sound just chauvinistic. She

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Speaker 3: need to keep cooking for the man.

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Speaker 5: I don't agree.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm saying if they just tuned in, that's

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Speaker 1: all they hear.

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Speaker 3: But the other side is he's paying for her tuition

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Speaker 3: and she's supposed to at least.

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Speaker 1: It's like labor.

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Speaker 5: A great deal. This is a great deal. Whip up

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Speaker 5: some ramen and call it good.

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Speaker 1: We can can go talk back in the iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 1: I love your thoughts on that.

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Speaker 2: As far as that girl not wanting to make meals,

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Speaker 2: she needs to learn how to compromise and work together

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Speaker 2: with people or get out. I have a boyfriend of

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Speaker 2: three years and we both work together to he makes meals.

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Speaker 2: I pay rent. He'll sometimes help me out here and

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Speaker 2: there with groceries. It's compromise. She's got to do it.

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Speaker 1: It makes a very good point. Yeah, very very good point.

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Speaker 7: This girl is so lucky. She doesn't know how good

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Speaker 7: she has it. She needs to own her end of

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Speaker 7: the deal up, or he needs to be done helping her.

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Speaker 7: It's not hard to cook a good meal. She's lucky

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Speaker 7: she doesn't have to pay for school. Come on, girl,

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Speaker 7: get your crap together.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he's just asking for He's asking for little help.

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Speaker 5: It doesn't even have to be a good meal. Just

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Speaker 5: feed the man.

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Speaker 4: Something, kibbles and bits.

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Speaker 1: I love to cool around. I can ethos every night.

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Speaker 7: Well, geez, if some guy was paying my tuition and

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Speaker 7: my housing fees, I think I'd be doing a little

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Speaker 7: bit more than cooking for him.

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean exactly.

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Speaker 6: I don't want to change my country exactly.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what she means.

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Speaker 5: Throws in every.

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Speaker 3: Regard is sam like that character from Benchwarmer, Sammy Sprinkler.

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Speaker 1: I think the name was where he just spits when

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Speaker 1: he talks.

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Speaker 5: No, I don't even spad when I talk.

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Speaker 6: Good morning, homegirl.

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Speaker 1: Better pull out that crock pot. Get like the dumping

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Speaker 1: goat meal like meals.

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Speaker 6: Take can put it.

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Speaker 3: And on.

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Speaker 1: Crackpots are so awesome.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you can even buy pre made ready things like meals.

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Speaker 5: You just dump in the crock pot. It's so simple, girl,

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Speaker 5: What are you doing.

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Speaker 3: We are the laziest society in all societies. Yeah, but

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Speaker 3: it's good though, it's so cool. Way, where was this

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Speaker 3: when I was a bachelor? I actually had a heat

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Speaker 3: stuff up?

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Speaker 5: Well, Christ, these things still cost money, and I don't

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Speaker 5: know if.

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Speaker 1: Ye at the time you know me just star I'd

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Speaker 1: be emaciated.

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Speaker 5: Chris, Yeah, you would just bounce around.

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Speaker 1: Let's take one more talk back here?

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Speaker 8: Why is every guy these days just the biggest little whissy.

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Speaker 8: If you can wear ten hours, you can wear twenty

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Speaker 8: more minutes and get your you and your lady some food,

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Speaker 8: some grub, you know what, and then you can probably

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Speaker 8: take her to poundtown. Because a relationship is in fifty

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Speaker 8: to fifty. Sometimes you're given seventy five and she's given twenty.

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Speaker 8: Other times it's fifty to fifty.

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Speaker 1: So are we leaving five on the table? Yeah? Worre's

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Speaker 1: the five five?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well, thanks for listening to this episode of I Tell

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