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Speaker 1: Today. So, Cindy, what would you say along?

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I so, Cindy, this is Genny's mama, and Cindy had

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Speaker 1: not had a date in a in a long time,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes single moms are want to do. Uh. So

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Speaker 1: you had a date on Friday night, right Saturday, Saturday night?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's hear about nervous. Tell me about your day

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Speaker 1: leading up to it. You're nervous. Did you try on

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Speaker 1: different clothing? What did you do?

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Speaker 3: Oh? No, the outfit was picked out. I had mastered

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Speaker 3: the talk, you know, into the jeans with the top.

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Speaker 3: It was five degrees out and my hair kept falling,

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Speaker 3: so I kept getting product from my daughter to hold

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Speaker 3: it up.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, she was great.

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Speaker 4: I saw a video of her and mommy looked very beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so the young man picks you up? Did he

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Speaker 1: pick you up? Young man? Did he hold the door

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Speaker 1: for you on this? On the car?

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Speaker 3: He he opened the door for me. He had a

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Speaker 3: jeep wrangler?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay?

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Speaker 3: And then I had to come and find out. My

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Speaker 3: neighbors were peering out their front window.

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Speaker 1: Everybody wants to know, Cindy, We all want to know

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Speaker 1: you were the hot neighborhood gossip sow which vf W

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Speaker 1: did you go to?

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Speaker 3: It was a nice steakhouse, the whole first thing sat down,

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Speaker 3: I said, so, hi, my name is Cindy Lutenberger. And

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Speaker 3: I'm shaking his hand. I go, so, what is your

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Speaker 3: last name? And then he told me so I got

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Speaker 3: his last name.

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Speaker 5: That's a good Now you canock him on the internet.

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Speaker 1: So you're sitting down, you're at a boothrey, you're at

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Speaker 1: a table, and and so what do you two kids

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Speaker 1: talk about during dinner?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: We will.

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Speaker 3: We talked a ton before at the bar and then

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Speaker 3: just you know, eating was awkward. Talking about serving. I

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Speaker 3: done it, and I'm totally with Yvonne. I always ask

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Speaker 3: what's the best food. Our young man server brings out

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Speaker 3: the steak and the lulla and he goes, he sets

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Speaker 3: it down and goes, just to let you know, it

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Speaker 3: was a little bit hairyback in the kitchen, so this

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Speaker 3: might all be overdone, and and so and so my

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Speaker 3: Dave date looks up and says, why would he say that.

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Speaker 2: I think he was.

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Speaker 3: More upset because he wanted this great meal to come in.

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Speaker 3: And I immediately flaked my walley and it was fine,

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Speaker 3: and he cut into the steak and it was a medium,

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Speaker 3: just like the order.

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Speaker 1: So here's here's the way. Yes, continue talk.

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Speaker 2: About okay, everything everything. I asked him questions about him.

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Speaker 2: Then when he goes, well, you tell me about you,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, nobody's.

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Speaker 3: Asked me those questions. And you know, I you know,

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Speaker 3: I like to know book. I know I don't dwell

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Speaker 3: on myself very well. So anyway, it was a conversation

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Speaker 3: went really long before dinner, then during dinner, and then.

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Speaker 2: After drink, goes, well, what do you want to do?

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Speaker 3: I said, what do you want to do? So we

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Speaker 3: just headed back to town, went to this great place

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Speaker 3: I've never been to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, okay, so you left the restaurant, you go,

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Speaker 1: where did you go?

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Speaker 3: It's an an alehouse.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's a little bar with an outdoor sitting area.

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Speaker 2: Where they had had a summer.

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Speaker 3: So we sat down on this like park bench. It

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Speaker 3: was really comfy and just listened to the reggae band

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Speaker 3: for I don't know hour and a half, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I think it was eleven thirty when they closed down.

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Speaker 3: And then he goes, what do you want to do now?

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Speaker 3: Let's check out the new brewery in town. Go up

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Speaker 3: to the front door. Private party, can't go there. So

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Speaker 3: we went to nice a nice bar, and I, you know,

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Speaker 3: and since I'm old and I can't hear well, I

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Speaker 2: Sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, by the way, if you just if you're just listening.

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Speaker 1: This is Jenny's mother, Cindy, who has not had a date,

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Speaker 1: you know, in a while. It's been a little while,

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Speaker 1: and she had a long time okay, tried and then

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Speaker 1: so for Saturday night she had a date. So she's

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Speaker 1: given us the rundown. So Third Bar is a restaurant bar,

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Speaker 1: Third Bar, and it's getting late now.

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Speaker 3: Five drinks, then go out to pull a show my phone,

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Speaker 3: so show them a picture of my phone. My phone's

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Speaker 3: not in my purse, Holy crap, My business is on

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Speaker 3: my phone. So we walked back to the place where

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Speaker 3: the reggae band was and it wasn't there. And then

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Speaker 3: we went in his cheap and it was in the

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Speaker 3: cheap Thank.

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Speaker 6: Goodness, Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Cut to the end of the date. Did you come

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Speaker 1: home that night?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my daughter didn't think I was going to but

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 3: Took him up on the pool and the moon was shining.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, backup. So you took him up on

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Speaker 1: the pool.

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Speaker 6: Well, there's a big deck around the pool.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't know. You have a you

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Speaker 1: have a pool in the backyard. So you and this

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Speaker 1: gentleman get up on the back deck. You probably each

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Speaker 1: got a cocktail in your hand too.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, he just said, I'll walk you to

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Speaker 3: the door. And then I proceeded to tell him about

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Speaker 3: how the switch is broken on the pool. And he's handy.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's handy.

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Speaker 1: He can do anything.

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Speaker 3: And and so then he said, well.

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Speaker 2: I could fix that for I didn't say that for

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Speaker 2: to have you fix.

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Speaker 3: That for me, you know. So, and guess what else?

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Speaker 3: Guess what else?

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Speaker 1: What else?

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Speaker 2: He's two years younger than I thought he was.

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Speaker 3: That's me not hearing.

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Speaker 2: He's two freaking years younger than I thought he was.

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Speaker 1: That's okay, that's.

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Speaker 6: Eight years younger than you.

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Speaker 3: Total nine total nine.

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Speaker 2: Decade though, born in the same decade.

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Speaker 3: So that's fine. And he said it's just the number.

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Speaker 3: And oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: She loves to be outside.

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Speaker 3: He loves to he doesn't like to sit still.

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Speaker 2: He han't right, Jenny, she doesn't sit still. Oh, so I.

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Speaker 3: Said, we can all be horizontal when we're dead, right, right?

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it was really nice, you know, and I

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Speaker 3: Okay, go ahead ask me.

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Speaker 1: Did you kiss him?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: I gave him a really, I gave him a hug

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Speaker 2: when he picked me up, and I gave him a hug.

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Speaker 5: When you spent that much time with him and you

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Speaker 5: didn't kiss him.

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Speaker 6: You spent hours with this man.

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Speaker 1: He should have made and he you didn't, got you walleye.

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Speaker 1: He should have said, if you want your phone back,

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Speaker 1: kiss me.

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Speaker 5: I mean, oh, I can't believe you spent like six

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Speaker 5: hours with this man and you didn't eight eight out.

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Speaker 5: That's a day, said, that's a work day, it's a

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Speaker 5: whole day, and you didn't kiss him.

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Speaker 2: No, Bailly, did you kiss your date?

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Speaker 6: I spent two hours with him.

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Speaker 1: That's honestly eight hours. For bay, it's worth power.

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Speaker 6: Hop around the whole town.

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Speaker 1: Indeed, when is the next quickie? Quickie?

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Speaker 3: Okay, yesterday morning, I'm exhausted, no sleep, I asked my

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Speaker 3: I had a nice time?

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Speaker 2: He goes, I'd wait till Monday, but I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't did I'm married. So he text me and said,

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Speaker 2: I had a great time and it was so sweet. So, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're going.

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Speaker 3: To do something next weekend.

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Speaker 6: Do you know Friday or Saturday?

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Speaker 2: Like when?

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Speaker 6: Because I got to write it in my planner.

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Speaker 2: Well.

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Speaker 5: Probably.

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Speaker 3: Also, I'm moving my daughter out of the house, so

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Speaker 3: that's another big life change.

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Speaker 6: He can do that.

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Speaker 3: No, she can't.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So since so you have another date probably coming

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Speaker 1: up this weekend.

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Speaker 3: Most likely.

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Speaker 1: Okay, very good.

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Speaker 6: You're gonna have to get up.

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you a question. Are you going to

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Speaker 1: shave your legs before this date?

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Speaker 3: Like I said, every day?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she has been every day, just in case she

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Speaker 4: runs into them because they run in the same circles.

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Speaker 6: Okay, their circles, their jobs.

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Speaker 1: Wow wow, Okay, well, Cindy, listen. Listen to how happy

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Speaker 1: and smitten she is with this young fella, and it

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Speaker 1: sounds like there's a little chemistry, a little spark. Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you, you do not go on an eight

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Speaker 1: hour date unless you're having a great time. You'll say

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Speaker 1: something like, oh, she's getting late. It's nearly nine. I

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Speaker 1: better get home and let my dog out. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: better better buy out of here. Bye, Cindy.

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Speaker 3: I was tired, but I said no, let's just keep going.

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Speaker 1: Good for you.

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Speaker 4: Wow, you I didn't know any of these details. I've

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Speaker 4: been waiting patiently all morning to hear she didn't you

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Speaker 4: tell us. We're in a group chat with my sisters

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Speaker 4: and I and I, and she was like, tune into

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Speaker 4: the day, ride jo to hear.

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Speaker 1: Geez, your mom's date as an official a r P member,

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Speaker 1: her date was more exciting than your two dates put together.

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Speaker 2: Is very true.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she had much more fun.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, love you, Cindy. Have a great week. We'll talk

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Speaker 1: to you this weekend, okay, or more on Friday or

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Speaker 1: when we're going to catch up.

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Speaker 2: What.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Wow, your mom sounds hot, by the way.

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Speaker 1: She's a lot of fun.

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Speaker 4: She was, Yeah, she has a lot of fun. She's

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Speaker 4: very chatty, as you can tell. That's where I get

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Speaker 4: it from. And she's yeah, she had a great time.

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Speaker 6: I'm so happy for her.