1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: It's Marcus in the morning, back with second date of it. 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: As always, let's bring our guy MATEO on. 3 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 2: Good morning MATEO, Hey, good morning guys. 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: Hey dude, let's see if we can figure this out. 5 00:00:09,360 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: So obviously we're gonna want to hear about your date. 6 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: We're gonna try to figure out why she's ghosted, but 7 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 1: let's tell everybody about Leilani. 8 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 2: Thank you for the d M by the way, and 9 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: I appreciate you listening every morning. I'm see if I 10 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 2: can help. 11 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 3: You out, so I appreciate it. 12 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, how did day go? What'd you guys do? 13 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 3: I sound like it was starting off good. We met 14 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 3: up at this Italian restaurant, the one on Pimont Avenue, 15 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 3: you know has the white. 16 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: Favorite fancy pants okay, little bar, Yeah yeah, yeah. 17 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: It was a cool thing, you know, and we were 18 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 3: right by the patio, you know, where the sun's going down, 19 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 3: so the atmosphere is beautiful. 20 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 4: You know. 21 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 3: She's ordering some oysters right by the bar. She's squeezing 22 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 3: lemon all over them, and she's like like she did, 23 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 3: like she's doing this a thousand times. She's a pro 24 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 3: edit And I'm kind of make a little mention of that, 25 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,279 Speaker 3: and uh, you know, and we start talking about weekend hikes, 26 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 3: favorite taco trucks. Everything's feeling good. At the end of 27 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 3: the dinner, you know, we're walking a few blocks towards 28 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 3: our cars. She says, thanks to the dinner. She gave 29 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: me a quick hug, and that's it, and then disappeared, 30 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 3: doesn't respond to any of my messages, and that's it. 31 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 2: What'd you do wrong? I'm just kidding. 32 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:18,320 Speaker 3: That's a big question over here, trying to fiure. 33 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 2: Again. I guess if we knew that answer, we wouldn't 34 00:01:22,680 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 2: be talking to each other. Huh yeah, fair point. 35 00:01:25,240 --> 00:01:26,960 Speaker 1: All right, I'll tell you what. I'm gonna call her 36 00:01:26,959 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: and just straight up ask her how she thought the 37 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: date went. I would love to get you a second date, 38 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: but let's at least let's get some answers. Let's figure 39 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:36,680 Speaker 1: some things out, all right, cool, go aheading up, mute 40 00:01:36,680 --> 00:01:38,160 Speaker 1: your phone, and we're going to give her a call. 41 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:48,560 Speaker 5: Okay, all right, Hello, Hi, I'm looking for Leilani. 42 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 1: Please is she was calling Elani? It's Marcus calling from 43 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: Star one on one three. 44 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 2: How are you? 45 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 6: I'm good? How are you? 46 00:01:56,720 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 3: Hey? 47 00:01:58,360 --> 00:01:58,520 Speaker 5: Hey? 48 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,080 Speaker 2: I don't suppose you listened in the morning. 49 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 6: Do you I do actually sound like a little like 50 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 6: you start struck in a weird way, like I'm like, 51 00:02:06,600 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 6: what you and me both girl? 52 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: So anyway, it's second date update time. I don't know 53 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 1: if you know what that is. 54 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 7: How did I know? 55 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 6: I swear I must be a witch. I swear the 56 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:17,480 Speaker 6: minute I heard your My god, I hope it's not 57 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 6: about that day. 58 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 4: I knew it. I knew it. 59 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 2: Do you know what you're talking about? 60 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 4: Knew it? 61 00:02:22,320 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, it's right. Yeah, Mattel, you can you 62 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 6: can on mute your phone? 63 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: Dude, I know you're there, all right, right, hey Latie, 64 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: how you do it? 65 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah? 66 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: So sorry, Okay did you uh did you ghost on 67 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: our guy here? And if so, what happened? 68 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 6: Okay? Honestly, Mottell, you're super sweet dude, Like you're really nice. 69 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 6: He planned a really nice day. 70 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 7: He's polite. 71 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 4: The food is. 72 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 6: Great, everything was really fun. 73 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,239 Speaker 4: But like just halfway through the dinner, like something really 74 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 4: just weird starts happening. 75 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 2: Okay, Matteo. 76 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 6: You start like he starts clearing his throat like constantly, 77 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 6: like like not once, not twice, but like like every 78 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 6: couple of minutes. There was just like a loud, deliberate 79 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 6: throat clear before he would like speak okay, and like 80 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 6: at first, I'm like, okay, maybe he like swallowed something 81 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 6: like maybe he didn't realize his allergic story isn't this 82 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 6: is about to go into anathylectic shocks. I didn't even know. 83 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 6: But like it just keeps happening, And every time he 84 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 6: would start in new thought, there's like this deep throat 85 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 6: clearing sound first, and it was just driving me bunkers. 86 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 2: Okay, matteo, is this like is this subconscious or what? 87 00:03:40,600 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 6: Well? 88 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 3: Okay, So I don't know if I did it that 89 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 3: many times, but I'm okay. So this when I was 90 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 3: in college, for when I just do these like speech classes, 91 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 3: there was just you know, just to make sure my 92 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 3: throat was clear every day, but it could hear me 93 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 3: at the back of the room. I go, I swear, 94 00:03:56,560 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 3: I maybe I did it like three times. Dude, you didn't. 95 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 6: No, No, I'm so sorry. Like when we were exchanging stories, 96 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 6: you did it like before every sentence or every thought, 97 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 6: like like I'm not in an auditorium, I'm right in 98 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,000 Speaker 6: front of you, bro, Like it was just it was 99 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 6: too much. 100 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: It's like when my wife tells me to stop talking 101 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 1: to myself or stop making so many noises. Although we've 102 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: been together for fifteen years, so Mittel not the best 103 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 1: look on a first date. 104 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess I didn't realize I did it that 105 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 3: many puns, But I didn't think that was so aggressive. 106 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 1: With it, all, right, self awareness. We're getting somewhere, We're 107 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 1: getting somewhere. 108 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, But honestly, like that wasn't one he ghost like 109 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,240 Speaker 4: nice enough that I would like kind of go on 110 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 4: another date with. 111 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 6: Him, But I'm like, there was just kind of a 112 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 6: story that like towards the end he told me that 113 00:04:42,360 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 6: really sticks out to me. We were just like exchanging 114 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 6: travel stories and like strange things that people had one 115 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 6: on vacation, and like we were just chatting and my 116 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 6: tie just casually mentioned that. 117 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 4: You know, a few years ago he was at like 118 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 4: you know, one of those destination wedding locations and he 119 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 4: like just snuck into to a wedding for a resort 120 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 4: that he was staying out in Mexico, and like went 121 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 4: to the reception like it was happening by the pool, 122 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:10,240 Speaker 4: and he just stopped in, grab a drink, stay the 123 00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 4: dress of the night, chatting. 124 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 6: Eating, drinking, dancing, and. 125 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 4: Like I was like, hey, did you know a couple 126 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 4: of and he's like, no, but you know everyone just 127 00:05:17,880 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 4: a student. I was someone's friend and I was like, okay, 128 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 4: asked someone who just planned her sister's entire wedding and 129 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 4: like realized how much money and time goes into that. 130 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 6: I was, so, did you feel bad about it? 131 00:05:29,040 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 4: He was like no, it's weddings are big, so no 132 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 4: one's notice. And I don't know. 133 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:34,599 Speaker 3: I just thought it was. 134 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 2: Kind of rude the tail back to you. 135 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 3: I mean, listen, honestly, I thought that was a funny story. 136 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 3: I thought you were laughing with I was laughing, I 137 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 3: was talking about it. It was like a casual, spontaneous thing. 138 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 3: I saw somebody they said they were at a wedding. 139 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,839 Speaker 3: He was wearing the same but end up shirt that 140 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 3: I was wearing. I was like, oh, this would be funny. 141 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 3: They won't even notice, and I just went in. I 142 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 3: didn't like, I didn't feel anything from them. I had 143 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 3: a couple of snacks, I had a couple of drinks, 144 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 3: spoke to a couple of people like, there's movies about this, 145 00:06:02,680 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 3: That's what I said, Like the wedding crash. 146 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: Look for people he's basically Vince Vaughan. Leilani. 147 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm sorry, I can't do it. 148 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 7: Like it was just so it was I just felt 149 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 7: like it was kind of like out of pocket crashing 150 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 7: a stranger's wedding for free food and drinks is like 151 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 7: it's really how harmless, Like my sister's wedding was five 152 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 7: thousand dollars and to. 153 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,359 Speaker 6: Know that some dudes came in and like drank and 154 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:28,600 Speaker 6: ate like on her dime, and like, you know what 155 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 6: I mean, I don't know. 156 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 2: I motel, I think we need to take the l 157 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:34,360 Speaker 2: I don't know. 158 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: Uh, is there any shot at a second date? 159 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 6: He likes, I'm sorry, I just don't think we see 160 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 6: boundaries the same and not like it's kind of a 161 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 6: deal breaker for me. 162 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 2: All right, hang on a sec man, We are not hot, 163 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 2: all right. Second date Update