1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: Nine three f l Z. Is there anyone in your 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:07,400 Speaker 1: life that you know, one you can go to and 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:11,120 Speaker 1: they're not going to say anything. You go to them 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: with your secrets and no one will find out. Yes 5 00:00:14,720 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: or no? Yes, you go yeah, yes, you got them too. 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: Yeah you I think Terry would keep her mouth shut. 7 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: I know Jed does too. Are there people in your 8 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: life who act like they do, but you know they're 9 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: gonna talk no matter what. Who is those? 10 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 2: My mom? 11 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:34,840 Speaker 1: Really? Yes? 12 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 3: I call my mom so back at home, it was 13 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 3: a wg in news. That's what the we used to watch. 14 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 3: So I used to call her Channel nine News because 15 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know what, I know for a fact 16 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:44,879 Speaker 3: as soon as I tell you this, everyone in the 17 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 3: family's gonna know. Like I know for a fact the 18 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,640 Speaker 3: information that I give my mother, my sister's gonna know, 19 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:53,599 Speaker 3: my grandma's gonna know. So even go as far as 20 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 3: reaching out to my real dad be like, hey you 21 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 3: hear about Ashley, I'm like, wait, really, yes, I'm like, dude, 22 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 3: I call a Channel nine. 23 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: News all right, eight hundred and four own named ninety 24 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: three ninety three. I want to know who that is 25 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 1: in your life. I want to know who the person 26 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:12,200 Speaker 1: is that always will end up giving out the information. 27 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 1: I fear that I have become that to my brothers, 28 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: and I don't know why because I don't say anything 29 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 1: to anyone. But I have found out recently that my 30 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: brothers are sharing information within themselves, and now I'm finding 31 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 1: out through my mom, which I want to know why. 32 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: My mom knows something tells me that my brothers are 33 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: the rats. Now they should tell me. I'm the oldest 34 00:01:35,319 --> 00:01:40,479 Speaker 1: You're the old sibling. Oh wow, you are the untrusted sibling. 35 00:01:40,520 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: Because I tay quiet. 36 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 3: It's okay because I am too. Bagan cussed me out 37 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 3: yesterday because she wouldn't got my niece hair done. I 38 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 3: think I told Terry how much it wasn't It was 39 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 3: really expensive, So I'll call my mom. I was like, Hey, 40 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 3: did you hear Madeline got her hair done? 41 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: It was this much? 42 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: And she was like, oh really. Megan called me literally 43 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 3: after the appointment. She goes, really, you have to tell 44 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 3: her how much I spend on Madeline. I was like, 45 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: I didn't know you did a dollar unless she spent. 46 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: And twelve dollars. 47 00:02:04,560 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 3: It was the first time she actually got her hair 48 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 3: professionally done, so she needed her ends clean, she needed 49 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 3: a treatment, she needed the works, I know, so we 50 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 3: all kind of pished it her money. 51 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: Being a woman is tough. Yes, it's like a guy. 52 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 2: First. 53 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: That was the first time she went to selon two 54 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: hundwelve dollars. When Harrison needs a haircut, it's the same, 55 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 1: does it. It's give me twenty five bucks? Oh really? 56 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 2: All right? 57 00:02:25,240 --> 00:02:27,440 Speaker 1: Yeah that's perfect. You don't have to worry about anything 58 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: at all. 59 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, So she was pretty upset. I guess I am 60 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 3: that sibling, Helen Keller. 61 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: Who is it? Yeah? Are you Helen Keller? Maybe noise? 62 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 1: If you are, don't say anything. If you are, actually Helen, 63 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: are you that person where if the information is given 64 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: to you, you start gossiping. 65 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 4: Oh no, it's my mother, my mother one hundred percent. 66 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 4: But then she tells everybody. Nobody tells me anything. 67 00:02:59,520 --> 00:02:59,960 Speaker 2: I don't. 68 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 4: I don't never know. I'm the last to find out. No, 69 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,519 Speaker 4: because as soon as you know, you're across the street 70 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 4: to the fifty five and older, which everybody's about in 71 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 4: their eighties and nineties, telling everybody over there. 72 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 1: So my mother on I wonder what it is with parents. 73 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, they just feel like dang, maybe I don't feel 74 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 3: like they have a lot of people to talk to, 75 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 3: so then when they do talk to someone, they got to. 76 00:03:21,840 --> 00:03:24,680 Speaker 1: Tell everybody everything. I also feel like there's a part 77 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 1: of it though, where it's like, well we brought them 78 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: into so. 79 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 3: Your information to my information, Yeah, I own you. 80 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: It's kind of like the mail, like does your mom 81 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: open up the mails? I'm like, yo, mo, that's illegal, Helen. 82 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: Does your mom open up the mail? Like if she 83 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: had an opportunity to open up your mail, do you 84 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: think she would? 85 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 4: I think she did. One time She's like, oh, I 86 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 4: accidentally my dad had passed up. She lives with us, 87 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: but we'll be driving or something in my phone ring 88 00:03:47,040 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 4: and then after she goes who is that? And I'll go, well, 89 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 4: let's see. They ask for Helen, didn't ask for Louise. 90 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: God's like, hey, mom, I love it, Helen, thank you 91 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:03,200 Speaker 1: so much for calling in? Yeah, yeah, hi Hi. Who's 92 00:04:03,240 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: always given out the information? 93 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 2: Well, just like everybody else, my mom. I don't know 94 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 2: what it is about moms, but they just want to 95 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 2: be spilling everybody's secret like it gets to And I'm 96 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: also the last person to find everything out in my 97 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: family too, so my Mom will be the first person 98 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 2: to tell everybody everything. My brother's literally in prison. I'll 99 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 2: be like, oh, I heard through the grape vine and 100 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:24,599 Speaker 2: I'm like, you mean, Mom, no. 101 00:04:24,440 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 1: Way, your brother is in prison. 102 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 2: Before you literally or my brother will tell me stuff 103 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 2: that I don't even know yet, and I'm like, what 104 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 2: do you mean, what do you mean this is happening? 105 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:36,880 Speaker 2: And he's like, oh, yeah, Mom told me, And I'm like, 106 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 2: of course, of course, Mom told you. 107 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: How long is your brother in jail for? 108 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 2: For a long time. Unfortunately, he did some pretty mess 109 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:46,599 Speaker 2: up stuff. We're going to be in there for like 110 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 2: seven more years. 111 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: Wow. 112 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 2: Oh it's really bad, just you know, just being you know, 113 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 2: a deviant. But you know he's in he's there to. 114 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 1: Rehabilitate, which is we play hot and hold. 115 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, let's do hot and cold? No cold? 116 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: No? Did he right? Did he? Yeah? 117 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 2: Kind of in that kind of in that area, yeah, 118 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 2: kind of that is unfortunately unfortunately, But like I said, 119 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 2: he's focusing on rehabilitation and he's doing all the right 120 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 2: things while he's in there. 121 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: So yeah, and by the way, you've now officially become 122 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: that sibiling of where you're putting out the information. 123 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 2: I've become the villain. 124 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: We love you. Yeah, yeah, we'll talk to you later. Sarah, 125 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: you are the gossip. You will gossip to your mom immediately. 126 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 2: No, yes, everybody said their mom. I mean maybe I 127 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: got it from her. 128 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 4: I don't know, but she is my best friend in 129 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 4: the whole world. 130 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 2: She is my twin. And the second that I find 131 00:05:56,279 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: anything else, I'm like, mom My, guess what I just 132 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: found out. And we just have a te fish several 133 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 2: times a day, Like I do that. 134 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: With my mom too. But I've come to this point. 135 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: My parents had a lot of marriage problems, and they've 136 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,720 Speaker 1: been like really good over the past recent years. I 137 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:17,960 Speaker 1: think ever since my dad like almost died, and I 138 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: know if I tell my mom anything, my dad will 139 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: find out. Like I'll be like, don't tell dad, and 140 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, I won't. But in my head, I 141 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: know my dad's gonna be calling me in an hour 142 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 1: being like what the hell? But I still I still 143 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: tell my dad or my mom everything. Who do you 144 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: tell first? 145 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 2: Mom and dad? 146 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: Oh? My mom? Okay, yeah, mom is first. Always. 147 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 3: I feel like everybody tells her mom everything first, oh yeah, 148 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 3: and then the dad finds out through the mom. 149 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 1: Which We've learned that Mom talks to everyone, So I 150 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: think what we really through all of this is none 151 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:53,040 Speaker 1: of our information is safe whatsoever. But hey, what are you? 152 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: This is not a bad thing. Literally, you know what 153 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:57,560 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do about it. We'll call my mom and 154 00:06:57,600 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 1: talk to her about this. 155 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 3: This is literally gonna be call her out like you 156 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 3: guys still call me about telling all his business like