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Speaker 1: It's a star one on one three, it's Marcus back

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Speaker 1: with second date update.

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Speaker 2: So for a win this morning, let's bring our guy on. Kyle,

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Speaker 2: are you there? Hey, Yeah, I'm here, Hey man, good morning.

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Speaker 2: So just a quick explainer on second date update.

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Speaker 1: Kyle and I are going to call his date Natalie

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Speaker 1: because she has ghosted since their first date, and we're

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Speaker 1: going to try to figure out if we can get

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Speaker 1: him a second date or if something went sideways.

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Speaker 3: Figure this out.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna figure this out together. We'll have you on

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Speaker 1: the line, we'll mute you out, but let's set the scene.

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Speaker 1: So tell me about Natalie. I understand you guys met online.

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Speaker 1: How did the dinner go?

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Speaker 3: You know, I think the dinner went great. And she

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Speaker 3: was stunning, Like right off the batch. She was sharp.

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Speaker 3: She had an awesome dry sense.

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Speaker 2: Of humor that I love, Okay, and we just we.

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Speaker 3: Got along great. We talked about like different travel mishaps

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Speaker 3: and our favorite dive bars, and we really, honestly we

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Speaker 3: bonded a lot over having siblings, Okay, and we called

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Speaker 3: them chaos goblins, and I legitimately thought we had an

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Speaker 3: awesome night. But now here we are calling you guys

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Speaker 3: because yeah, the whole ghost thing. I don't I don't

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Speaker 3: get it.

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Speaker 2: What's it like not being the problem children and meeting

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Speaker 2: the other non problem child.

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Speaker 3: Oh it's amazing. I love it.

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Speaker 2: But it was a good night.

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Speaker 3: Huh yeah, all around good night. I had no complaints,

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Speaker 3: no red flags, no nothing.

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Speaker 2: So okay, well, let's call her.

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus and we're in the middle of second date update,

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Speaker 1: chatting with our guy Kyle. He and Natalie went to

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Speaker 1: dinner in Hayes Valley in San Francisco, which is a

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Speaker 1: fantastic few blocks of restaurants if you think it about

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Speaker 1: a date night or whatever. Now, Kyle, you were telling

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Speaker 1: him about the food off there, and that was pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Conversation was good. But she has ghosted. So are you

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Speaker 1: ready to meet this phone call?

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Speaker 3: I'm ready?

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Speaker 4: All right, do it?

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Speaker 2: Deep breath, Here we go. Go ahead and meet your phone.

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Speaker 2: Here we go. I'm going to try to figure out

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Speaker 2: how the date went from her perspective. Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Hi, I was looking for Natalie. Please, Hi, Natalie,

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Speaker 1: It's Marcus from Star one on one three. How are you.

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Speaker 5: H good? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Good morning. Do you listen to us in the morning?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sometimes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you familiar with second date update at all?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I am great. Do you want to be on? It?

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Speaker 5: Looks like I don't have a choice, do I?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Kina, I mean, unless you're not cool. All

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Speaker 2: the cool kids are doing it. I'm just not.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that's fine.

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Speaker 1: Oh great, Ky, It is Kyle on the phone. Hey, Kyle,

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Speaker 1: are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Nick.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's do this you guys. So, Natalie Kyle

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Speaker 2: had fun on your date? Would like to go out again?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Did you ghost? That's my first question?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I may have. I may have ghosted.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did something happen? Did he do something? Just not

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Speaker 2: feeling it?

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Speaker 5: You know, within the first few minutes of the date,

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Speaker 5: uh huh, it just got really medical, you know, like

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Speaker 5: he started talking about his sleep apnea, this like earwax

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Speaker 5: situation that he has a mold he's keeping an eye on.

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Speaker 5: And you know, I came for pasta, not a health update.

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Speaker 2: I see.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Kyle, did you overshare your medical issues?

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Speaker 3: I mean I talked about some things. I don't think

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Speaker 3: I over shared. It was just a conversation going back

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Speaker 3: and forth.

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Speaker 5: No, I feel like it was a definite overshare. I

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Speaker 5: don't know how many people talk about earwax on the

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Speaker 5: first date, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Sure?

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Speaker 5: And then halfway through, yeah, he asked if I wanted,

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Speaker 5: like if I was interested in partnering with him for

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Speaker 5: a couple's cleanse. He wants to try.

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Speaker 2: What does that even mean? Like a dual enema?

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Speaker 3: Is that?

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Speaker 2: What is that?

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Speaker 5: I don't I don't know what that means.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't sound like hot stone massage. That sounds invasive

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Speaker 2: when I already know about that.

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Speaker 5: You're wax and the mole. So I don't know.

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Speaker 3: No, that's like you. You you keep each other accountable

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Speaker 3: for doing just like a cleanse like I've had friends

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Speaker 3: do it with their boyfriends and girlfriends tod like like.

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Speaker 2: A juice cleanse.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh I went elsewhere with that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, No, like honestly, like like likely they told me,

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Speaker 4: like it builds trust, Like you learn a lot about

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Speaker 4: someone when you're when your systems are in sync and

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Speaker 4: you're doing the thing like dietary things.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you're talking about just like an accountability partner,

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Speaker 1: not a full on and I'm a buddy.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I mean you never know you Kyle I

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Speaker 2: don't know. All of a sudden, I'm learning more about Kyle.

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Speaker 3: Uh yeah, just a lot. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: There are certain things you don't talk about when you

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Speaker 5: meet somebody right off the bat, and you know, politics, religion.

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Speaker 5: I think medical records need to be added to that list.

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Speaker 1: Sure, so, uh let me ask the question. I feel

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Speaker 1: like he likes you a lot, Natalie. Could we try

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Speaker 1: a second date now that we've got some self awareness?

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I don't think I want to sink anything up with

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Speaker 5: him