Speaker 1: I love that song. It's KATWB on the day of
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Speaker 1: what thirty degrees.
Speaker 2: Today, thirty second sadly higher than that, but mccloudy sun
Speaker 2: doesn't want to come and say hello.
Speaker 1: The good news is there's no like crazy lows for
Speaker 1: the next ten or twelve days. It's going to be
Speaker 1: in the thirties and forties, mostly thirties. But we'll take
Speaker 1: that for this time in February. Yeah, not too burn.
Speaker 3: Keep it going to melt.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited that, like all the caked on ice
Speaker 2: and snow off the streets is going to melt a
Speaker 2: little bit, keeping the nature.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I heard yesterday that it is like if something winter
Speaker 1: is done now, it's like there's a term for it.
Speaker 1: It's not. It's not it's not as psychological as it's
Speaker 1: a scientific term. No, it's like as it goes from
Speaker 1: like you know, like middle of November until now. And
Speaker 1: some meteorologists locally said something on Instagram yesterday like the
Speaker 1: worst days of winter as far as light deprivation are
Speaker 1: over now.
Speaker 3: All the darkest days are over.
Speaker 1: So I think what that means is maybe we're getting
Speaker 1: like maybe twelve hours of light a day rather than
Speaker 1: three hours of light to day.
Speaker 3: Not exactly sure.
Speaker 4: There's there's a run club that I've gone to one time,
Speaker 4: so I do say I'm a part of it, but
Speaker 4: I've only been once. But they recently posted yesterday how
Speaker 4: they think by March twelfth they'll be back back in action.
Speaker 4: Because I think dusk is until six thirty starting March twelfth,
Speaker 4: so that means it does.
Speaker 3: Know that sounds right down, So we always.
Speaker 4: Would run at like six thirty or actually no, sorry,
Speaker 4: the dusk is at like seven, we'd start the run
Speaker 4: at six thirty.
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Speaker 1: with with with Katie Camp?
Speaker 3: We most certainly can.
Speaker 1: Now this is so interesting. We brought this up yesterday
Speaker 1: and I found it so interesting that I said, we
Speaker 1: got to talk about this again for people who don't
Speaker 1: listen early that listen to the nine o'clock hour, because
Speaker 1: Bailey is dating this guy and you're like, you don't know,
Speaker 1: like the deep things like do you want to have kids?
Speaker 1: How many kids do you want to have? What religion
Speaker 1: are you? And so your friend Katie Cap is seeing
Speaker 1: a guy. Yep, she's dated him a few times, maybe
Speaker 1: a few months. Yeah, and they've had all the conversations.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and they made it a point so like that,
Speaker 2: once they decided to be exclusive, she was like, okay,
Speaker 2: we're going through this list and she found, you know,
Speaker 2: somebody who was totally on the same page as her
Speaker 2: with like also answering these questions. And yesterday when we
Speaker 2: brought them up, we got a lot of response. Some
Speaker 2: people were like, no, no, you need to learn that
Speaker 2: stuff organically, and other people were like, no, ask those
Speaker 2: questions right away. Don't waste your time learning them organically
Speaker 2: because that might take forever if ever. So the list
Speaker 2: of questions are as follows. It is a long list,
Speaker 2: but I'll get through them point.
Speaker 3: But it's also it's on your Instagram, I believe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's on my It should still be on my
Speaker 2: Instagram stories, and we posted it on the Dave Ryan
Speaker 2: Show Instagram stories as well. Do you have a mental
Speaker 2: timeline of when you want to be married by Am
Speaker 2: I someone you genuinely want to be with or am
Speaker 2: I just fitting into that timeline? Do you want kids?
Speaker 2: How many kids? What if those kids can't biologically be yours?
Speaker 2: What if you could never have children that are biologically yours?
Speaker 2: What if those children were never of infant age. How
Speaker 2: much money do you make?
Speaker 3: Do you Now?
Speaker 1: That's an interesting one, Yeah, because that seems so it's
Speaker 1: none of your business how much money you make? Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I guess it's like, okay, I think you
Speaker 1: can get an idea of how much money somebody makes
Speaker 1: by the way they what they do, the way they
Speaker 1: present themselves honestly, the way they carry themselves, maybe the
Speaker 1: way they dress, maybe the car they drive. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean sometimes that can be misleading. I know some freak
Speaker 1: ass people who drive a really nice.
Speaker 2: Car, and I think the reasoning is so like, you
Speaker 2: don't have to use context clues to find out the
Speaker 2: answer to any of these. You just ask, So, how
Speaker 2: much money do you make? Do you receive an annual raise?
Speaker 2: If yes, what was that raise last year? How much
Speaker 2: do you have in savings? Do you have separate accoun
Speaker 2: set up for retirement? If yes, what is your annual contraby?
Speaker 2: I would find that so intrusive if somebody said, how
Speaker 2: much do you have in savings? I got two hundred
Speaker 2: thousand dollars. But that's none of your business. See, But
Speaker 2: if you're looking for for like a future with this person,
Speaker 2: I think it is something that you.
Speaker 1: Would want to know you no question, you'd want to
Speaker 1: know it, right, but would you ask it?
Speaker 2: And I that's that's where I think, like this is
Speaker 2: you know, wow, what a what a concept that Katie
Speaker 2: Cav's asking these questions because I think we've been raised
Speaker 2: to the point where we're like, well, you can't answer
Speaker 2: those questions. Those are intrusive questions, But like why why
Speaker 2: are those If I'm looking to have a future with you,
Speaker 2: shouldn't I know the answer to these questions?
Speaker 3: And maybe we can suit you know soon though that's
Speaker 3: the question.
Speaker 1: Let's say you're on date number two and you like
Speaker 1: this guy and it's like, Okay, he's fun whatever, Yeah,
Speaker 1: is it any of your business? Of course you want
Speaker 1: to know how much he makes right, But on date number.
Speaker 3: Two, Yeah, date two seems early to me.
Speaker 2: And some people were texting and saying like, hey, I
Speaker 2: asked all of these message or questions on date one.
Speaker 2: But like I'm looking at it right now where I've
Speaker 2: been dating regular guy for three months and I don't
Speaker 2: know the answered a lot of these questions, and I
Speaker 2: feel like I could know the answer to a lot of.
Speaker 3: I can ask your question, sure, how much do you
Speaker 3: think he makes Oh, I know that one. Actually you do?
Speaker 3: How much do you think he's got in savings? I
Speaker 3: don't know.
Speaker 2: See, that's why I don't like.
Speaker 3: I don't want to guess.
Speaker 2: I don't want to assume or you try to use
Speaker 2: context clues.
Speaker 3: I just want him to tell me.
Speaker 2: Okay, granted, some of these if even if I had
Speaker 2: to answer these, I would have to look up some
Speaker 2: of this stuff I don't know off the top of
Speaker 2: my head.
Speaker 3: Well, it's gonna say vice versa.
Speaker 5: Would you be comfortable answering those back at this point
Speaker 5: like today if he asked you both those questions how
Speaker 5: much you make and how much you haven't savings?
Speaker 2: Because what if I'm more downtrodden than he wants? So,
Speaker 2: I mean I should have to know that. The rest
Speaker 2: of these questions are do you have any debt? If so,
Speaker 2: how much and from what? What is your plan for
Speaker 2: paying that down? What is interest on that debt? Have
Speaker 2: you ever lived alone? Have you ever lived with a girlfriend?
Speaker 2: When was your last relationship? And then Jenny added this one,
Speaker 2: when did you or how did your last relationship end?
Speaker 3: How long was that last relationship? And long term?
Speaker 2: Do you see yourself still living in the city or
Speaker 2: moving somewhere else, potentially the suburbs.
Speaker 3: What religion are you? Is it important that your children
Speaker 3: be the same religion as you? What are your three
Speaker 3: biggest fears in life? And what does a meaningful life
Speaker 3: look like to you. I really get both sides of this.
Speaker 1: I get like, yes, you want to know all of these,
Speaker 1: but I also get it's none ya. It's none ya
Speaker 1: business early in the relationship, of course, but then it
Speaker 1: feels like a job interview, like do they check all
Speaker 1: the boxes? And I think love isn't about checking boxes
Speaker 1: because you could meet a guy who's got thirty two
Speaker 1: dollars in his savings account, right No. Four to oh
Speaker 1: one k, but you could still love him because he's
Speaker 1: just such a wonderful person. I've dated enough broke people
Speaker 1: to know that to me, unless they're just stupid broke,
Speaker 1: like still spending money, Yeah, when they But if you're
Speaker 1: broken you're going down to donate plasma because you need
Speaker 1: the extra money, that's not so broke. It's if you're
Speaker 1: broke and now you took out another credit card under
Speaker 1: your sister's name because you can't get another one, and
Speaker 1: you just bought five thousand dollars worth of jet skis.
Speaker 1: That's that's dumb broke, exactly, dumb broke.
Speaker 2: So I feel I understand like wanting to know the
Speaker 2: answer to these questions and asking them, like there's probably
Speaker 2: even more questions that you could ask that Like we've
Speaker 2: been told don't ask questions like that because that's personal information.
Speaker 2: But if you're in a personal relationship with this person,
Speaker 2: that stuff should matter.
Speaker 1: It's true. But I think that most people who are
Speaker 1: in a long term relationship would agree there was no
Speaker 1: real surprises after a certain amount of time. Oh yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: because so go.
Speaker 5: Ahead, I was gonna say, I don't know how soon
Speaker 5: it was after me and Alyssa got together, like we
Speaker 5: were talking, that we had those discussions, But yeah, there
Speaker 5: were no surprises. I think just because we were around
Speaker 5: each other, so you could do the context clues.
Speaker 3: I know, you don't want to do that.
Speaker 1: It's true, and you knew Alyssa was not a you know,
Speaker 1: a gambling problem, a violence problem, not a thief, not embezzling.
Speaker 3: You know, well that one, right, you don't know.
Speaker 1: But I think that most people don't ask false questions,
Speaker 1: and they do just fine. But it sure would be
Speaker 1: nice to know those questions. Yeah, yeah, I gotta give
Speaker 1: you a birthday shout out. Lauren has been listening since
Speaker 1: she was thirteen. She is now thirty three today. Happy Lauren,
Speaker 1: appreciate that one. And let us know, what would you
Speaker 1: do if you were on a date? Third date was
Speaker 1: some new person and they said, Hey, you know what
Speaker 1: we got to talk about? Do you want to talk
Speaker 1: about some of the serious issues?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Like what what.
Speaker 1: Religion are you? How important is that to you? How
Speaker 1: many kids do you want to have? How much money
Speaker 1: do you make? What would your reaction be. I'm going
Speaker 1: to guess before you answered any of them, you would
Speaker 1: agree to have.
Speaker 2: That conversation and you might not even ask them or
Speaker 2: answer them all. At the same time, maybe you have,
Speaker 2: you know, one conversation where all you're going to do
Speaker 2: is talk about the money once and then you'll have
Speaker 2: a different conversation on another day.
Speaker 3: Where all you talk about is the kids one.
Speaker 2: And I think too like talking it out because like
Speaker 2: some of these, like the kid questions that I talked about,
Speaker 2: I feel like I have an answer to those, but
Speaker 2: maybe talking it out with someone else would help clarify
Speaker 2: those answers for me, and then you kind of, you know,
Speaker 2: go back and forth and you can learn about your partner,
Speaker 2: but then also learn about yourself as well.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 6: I don't see a problem with any of them. In
Speaker 6: my humble, I see a big problem with the whole process.
Speaker 6: And that's just me because I think dating is about
Speaker 6: discovering them, not it's like you're dating a bot, you
Speaker 6: know what I mean. It's like or an AI person. Oh,
Speaker 6: I want you to be all of these things. And
Speaker 6: what if they lie to you? What if you ask
Speaker 6: this guy, well, how much you have in your four
Speaker 6: O one K? I got one hundred fifty thousand dollars?
Speaker 6: Well that's pretty good. What if he is b R
Speaker 6: O O K E broke? Yeah, so and they's lying
Speaker 6: to you about it.
Speaker 3: He would be broke even if you didn't.
Speaker 2: Ask the question, though, but you would know it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: and you're okay with that. I mean someone texted in.
Speaker 2: Is your friend that asked these questions still with that person? Yes,
Speaker 2: she is, and they're like committed for now.
Speaker 3: I mean no, it's very interesting. I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's one of those things we all want to know.
Speaker 1: It's like you want to ask the boss are you
Speaker 1: ever going to give me a raise? You want to
Speaker 1: know the answer, yes, but you're probably not going to
Speaker 1: get the answer right.
Speaker 2: But like why see what I mean though, like we've
Speaker 2: been told not to ask the questions that we really
Speaker 2: want the answers.
Speaker 5: To right and not morally. I mean, it's morally wrong,
Speaker 5: but it's not wrong. It's a legitimate question, Like why
Speaker 5: can't I know the answer to this question? Because like
Speaker 5: I will just live my life being like, well, I
Speaker 5: hope you know.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say.
Speaker 4: I think if you're uncomfortable asking these questions is because
Speaker 4: you're uncomfortable.
Speaker 3: What the answer is.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I would be so fine being asked any single
Speaker 4: one of those questions because I'm very comfortable with where
Speaker 4: my life is at this point. Yeah.
Speaker 5: I disagree with that though, only like with the Rays example,
Speaker 5: Like the only reason I'm not afraid to find out
Speaker 5: the answer, it's just people have been you know. The
Speaker 5: notion is that you're not supposed to ask a boss
Speaker 5: about a raise or certain things like.
Speaker 2: That, Or you're not supposed to ask your partner about
Speaker 2: how much they have in their four oh one K
Speaker 2: if they have a four oh one K, you're not
Speaker 2: supposed to do that, Well.
Speaker 3: Why not, because it's personal information.
Speaker 1: I don't It's like, if you're going to be my friend, now,
Speaker 1: that's not a good example because I'm not relying on
Speaker 1: you for anything.
Speaker 3: You're just my friend. I don't care how much you
Speaker 3: have in your four oh one.
Speaker 2: K, but you are relying on your partner to be true,
Speaker 2: you know, there for you.
Speaker 1: And I think you gather those things and that's part
Speaker 1: of the process of falling in love because if on
Speaker 1: date number two they don't check the boxes, you're eliminating
Speaker 1: them from a potential wonderful romance.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I don't want to have to teach them
Speaker 4: how to contribute to a four oh one K at
Speaker 4: this point in my life. That means that that is
Speaker 4: my answer, Like, I'm not going to fall in love
Speaker 4: with that person because they are not doing the things
Speaker 4: that I think are important at this point in life.
Speaker 3: Even if they're a great person and check every other wild.
Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, I'm never going to be with someone who
Speaker 4: would ever need to rely on me for any kind
Speaker 4: of financial help. That's just like how I am. And
Speaker 4: other people might disagree with that, but that's how I am.
Speaker 3: With that said, I would love an assistant to do
Speaker 3: all of those things for me. That'd be great. What
Speaker 3: to do?
Speaker 6: What?
Speaker 2: Just like be in charge of my finances and make
Speaker 2: sure they're all in the right place. You should hire one.
Speaker 1: I should, but you can't afford, nope, to handle finances
Speaker 1: that you no longer have because you hired an assistant.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Really, wrap it up the Dave Ryan Show with some dirt.
Speaker 1: And when we say dirt, we mean like showbiz things
Speaker 1: and this is like not a fun showbiz story. Savannah
Speaker 1: Guthrie's mother still missing. No suspects, no leads, no information
Speaker 1: that at least they're revealing. She was on TV last
Speaker 1: night basically pleading with the people who took her to
Speaker 1: please contact us. What a horrific moment in your life
Speaker 1: where you're saying please to the people who took your
Speaker 1: mother to please contact us.
Speaker 3: Horrible, couldn't even imagine.
Speaker 4: I'm excited for tomorrow morning because Taylor Swift releases Opa
Speaker 4: Light as the second single from her The Life of
Speaker 4: a Showgirl album, and the music video will drop at
Speaker 4: eight AM, which I am stoked about because I love
Speaker 4: her music videos and the last one everyone did the
Speaker 4: trendy and dance to the favor of Ophelia, so I
Speaker 4: feel like there's going to be another one from this one.
Speaker 4: But Opa Light was my favorite song when I first
Speaker 4: listened to that album.
Speaker 5: So, and it's only dropping on Spotify and Apple Music
Speaker 5: and I read YouTube it drops on Sunday, but I
Speaker 5: read somewhares because they're not counting YouTube streams on the
Speaker 5: charts anymore.
Speaker 3: So that's why she's like, oh, these interesting. That is interesting.
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's the reason, but it's a
Speaker 3: good theory.
Speaker 2: The Winter Olympics are here and there are new measures
Speaker 2: in place the Winter Olympics. After a crotch and larging
Speaker 2: scandal rock the ski jumping world at the twenty twenty
Speaker 2: five World Championship, the Norwegian team got caught adding extra
Speaker 2: fabric to the suits worn by their top two male athletes,
Speaker 2: which created more surface area so the athletes could catch
Speaker 2: more air, glide longer and farther, and add several more
Speaker 2: feet to each jump. So the Olympics says, like, no, dog,
Speaker 2: you're not going to do that, So they made tamper
Speaker 2: proof microchips in each suit and three D scanning technology
Speaker 2: to be used to measure the space between their legs
Speaker 2: so that they won't do that.
Speaker 1: They're also not allowed to flap anymore. So they were
Speaker 1: you know, they jump and they yeah, they would flat. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're not allowed to do that anymore.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 5: A bomber slew of new Super Bowl commercials that have
Speaker 5: come out. George Clooney did one for grub Hub, just
Speaker 5: Jason Kelce and David Blaine did one for YouTube TV.
Speaker 5: It's just so crazy that we're talking about this Before
Speaker 5: the super Bowl. Part of the hype was to sit
Speaker 5: there and watch them during halftime.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I refuse to read what all of them are about.
Speaker 3: I don't want to either.
Speaker 2: Yeah, some of them like will pop up on my
Speaker 2: feet and I'll be like, well, I guess I'm watching
Speaker 2: this one now. But I want to see them when
Speaker 2: they air. That's when I want to see him, because, honestly,
Speaker 2: that's what I watched the Super Bowl for halftime show
Speaker 2: with the commercials.
Speaker 1: And the best commercials usually air in the first quarter
Speaker 1: of the Super Bowl, and by the time you get
Speaker 1: to the third quarter and one team is usually blowing
Speaker 1: out the other team, people aren't watching like they were,
Speaker 1: so that's when you get the one for like, you know,
Speaker 1: like some lame insurance company or something like that.
Speaker 3: Hope it's not a blowout though.
Speaker 2: I hope it's at least like they get a little bit,
Speaker 2: then they get a little bit.
Speaker 3: Well, that would be a good idea. Yeah, a good game.
Speaker 1: I think the Seahawks are favored. One of the players
Speaker 1: and the Seahawks went to school here in town. Really yeah,
Speaker 1: somebody texted me a little while ago. Metropolitan Center. No, no,
Speaker 1: they went to east Ridge and Woodbury east Ridge.
Speaker 3: His name is ty Ocata. They've got a great speech
Speaker 3: team at east Ridge. That's great ball.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and he graduated I don't know, probably five is.
Speaker 3: Years ago, twenty seventeen. And yeah, so, uh, Kyle, no time.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Ty Okata plays for the Seahawks. That's cool.
Speaker 1: All right, that's it. We're done. We are so done.
Speaker 1: You in done. Have a great day. We'll see you
Speaker 1: tomorrow on kd w B.