WEBVTT - 9am Hour - A Blow Out

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<v Speaker 1>I love that song. It's KATWB on the day of

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan Show. It's warming up. It's going to be like

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<v Speaker 1>what thirty degrees.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, thirty second sadly higher than that, but mccloudy sun

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to come and say hello.

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<v Speaker 1>The good news is there's no like crazy lows for

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<v Speaker 1>the next ten or twelve days. It's going to be

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<v Speaker 1>in the thirties and forties, mostly thirties. But we'll take

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<v Speaker 1>that for this time in February. Yeah, not too burn.

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<v Speaker 3>Keep it going to melt.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited that, like all the caked on ice

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<v Speaker 2>and snow off the streets is going to melt a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit, keeping the nature.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard yesterday that it is like if something winter

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<v Speaker 1>is done now, it's like there's a term for it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not. It's not it's not as psychological as it's

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<v Speaker 1>a scientific term. No, it's like as it goes from

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, like middle of November until now. And

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<v Speaker 1>some meteorologists locally said something on Instagram yesterday like the

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<v Speaker 1>worst days of winter as far as light deprivation are

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<v Speaker 1>over now.

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<v Speaker 3>All the darkest days are over.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think what that means is maybe we're getting

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe twelve hours of light a day rather than

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<v Speaker 1>three hours of light to day.

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<v Speaker 3>Not exactly sure.

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<v Speaker 4>There's there's a run club that I've gone to one time,

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<v Speaker 4>so I do say I'm a part of it, but

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<v Speaker 4>I've only been once. But they recently posted yesterday how

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<v Speaker 4>they think by March twelfth they'll be back back in action.

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<v Speaker 4>Because I think dusk is until six thirty starting March twelfth,

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<v Speaker 4>so that means it does.

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<v Speaker 3>Know that sounds right down, So we always.

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<v Speaker 4>Would run at like six thirty or actually no, sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>the dusk is at like seven, we'd start the run

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<v Speaker 4>at six thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, days are getting longer. That's good. Also, you're getting richer.

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<v Speaker 1>You're getting richer because you're about to play this game

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<v Speaker 1>to win one thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 3>Now your chance at one thousand.

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<v Speaker 1>Dollars just to enter this nationwide keyword on our website.

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<v Speaker 3>Friend, that's friend.

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<v Speaker 1>KDWB dot com. Hey, go play the game for one

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<v Speaker 1>thous dollars. Going to spend it on a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>Mine's in Mexico right now, and so maybe a trip

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<v Speaker 1>to Mexico for spring break. Spring break is coming up.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how much a trip to Mexico is

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<v Speaker 1>maybe a trip just down to Key West. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how much that is either, but one thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>will go a long way to your spring break trip.

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<v Speaker 1>So you can sit there and go, wow, that'd be nice,

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<v Speaker 1>or you can be smart about it and actually play

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<v Speaker 1>the game. Go to KDWB dot com. A little box

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<v Speaker 1>is going to pop up. You type in the keyword friend,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're good to go. Make sure you answer your

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<v Speaker 1>phone within an hour or so from an unknown number,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's probably us calling to say you won the

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<v Speaker 1>thousand dollars. Are we going to talk about the thing

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<v Speaker 1>with with with Katie Camp?

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<v Speaker 3>We most certainly can.

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<v Speaker 1>Now this is so interesting. We brought this up yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>and I found it so interesting that I said, we

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<v Speaker 1>got to talk about this again for people who don't

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<v Speaker 1>listen early that listen to the nine o'clock hour, because

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<v Speaker 1>Bailey is dating this guy and you're like, you don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like the deep things like do you want to have kids?

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<v Speaker 1>How many kids do you want to have? What religion

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<v Speaker 1>are you? And so your friend Katie Cap is seeing

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. Yep, she's dated him a few times, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>a few months. Yeah, and they've had all the conversations.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and they made it a point so like that,

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<v Speaker 2>once they decided to be exclusive, she was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going through this list and she found, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>somebody who was totally on the same page as her

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<v Speaker 2>with like also answering these questions. And yesterday when we

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<v Speaker 2>brought them up, we got a lot of response. Some

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<v Speaker 2>people were like, no, no, you need to learn that

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<v Speaker 2>stuff organically, and other people were like, no, ask those

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<v Speaker 2>questions right away. Don't waste your time learning them organically

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<v Speaker 2>because that might take forever if ever. So the list

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<v Speaker 2>of questions are as follows. It is a long list,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'll get through them point.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's also it's on your Instagram, I believe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's on my It should still be on my

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<v Speaker 2>Instagram stories, and we posted it on the Dave Ryan

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<v Speaker 2>Show Instagram stories as well. Do you have a mental

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<v Speaker 2>timeline of when you want to be married by Am

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<v Speaker 2>I someone you genuinely want to be with or am

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<v Speaker 2>I just fitting into that timeline? Do you want kids?

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<v Speaker 2>How many kids? What if those kids can't biologically be yours?

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<v Speaker 2>What if you could never have children that are biologically yours?

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<v Speaker 2>What if those children were never of infant age. How

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<v Speaker 2>much money do you make?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you Now?

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<v Speaker 1>That's an interesting one, Yeah, because that seems so it's

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<v Speaker 1>none of your business how much money you make? Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess it's like, okay, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>can get an idea of how much money somebody makes

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<v Speaker 1>by the way they what they do, the way they

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<v Speaker 1>present themselves honestly, the way they carry themselves, maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>way they dress, maybe the car they drive. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean sometimes that can be misleading. I know some freak

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<v Speaker 1>ass people who drive a really nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Car, and I think the reasoning is so like, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to use context clues to find out the

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<v Speaker 2>answer to any of these. You just ask, So, how

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<v Speaker 2>much money do you make? Do you receive an annual raise?

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<v Speaker 2>If yes, what was that raise last year? How much

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<v Speaker 2>do you have in savings? Do you have separate accoun

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<v Speaker 2>set up for retirement? If yes, what is your annual contraby?

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<v Speaker 2>I would find that so intrusive if somebody said, how

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<v Speaker 2>much do you have in savings? I got two hundred

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars. But that's none of your business. See, But

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<v Speaker 2>if you're looking for for like a future with this person,

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<v Speaker 2>I think it is something that you.

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<v Speaker 1>Would want to know you no question, you'd want to

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<v Speaker 1>know it, right, but would you ask it?

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<v Speaker 2>And I that's that's where I think, like this is

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<v Speaker 2>you know, wow, what a what a concept that Katie

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<v Speaker 2>Cav's asking these questions because I think we've been raised

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<v Speaker 2>to the point where we're like, well, you can't answer

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<v Speaker 2>those questions. Those are intrusive questions, But like why why

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<v Speaker 2>are those If I'm looking to have a future with you,

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<v Speaker 2>shouldn't I know the answer to these questions?

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<v Speaker 3>And maybe we can suit you know soon though that's

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<v Speaker 3>the question.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say you're on date number two and you like

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<v Speaker 1>this guy and it's like, Okay, he's fun whatever, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>is it any of your business? Of course you want

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<v Speaker 1>to know how much he makes right, But on date number.

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<v Speaker 3>Two, Yeah, date two seems early to me.

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<v Speaker 2>And some people were texting and saying like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 2>asked all of these message or questions on date one.

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<v Speaker 2>But like I'm looking at it right now where I've

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<v Speaker 2>been dating regular guy for three months and I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know the answered a lot of these questions, and I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like I could know the answer to a lot of.

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<v Speaker 3>I can ask your question, sure, how much do you

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<v Speaker 3>think he makes Oh, I know that one. Actually you do?

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<v Speaker 3>How much do you think he's got in savings? I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>See, that's why I don't like.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to guess.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to assume or you try to use

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<v Speaker 2>context clues.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want him to tell me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, granted, some of these if even if I had

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<v Speaker 2>to answer these, I would have to look up some

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<v Speaker 2>of this stuff I don't know off the top of

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<v Speaker 2>my head.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it's gonna say vice versa.

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<v Speaker 5>Would you be comfortable answering those back at this point

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<v Speaker 5>like today if he asked you both those questions how

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<v Speaker 5>much you make and how much you haven't savings?

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<v Speaker 2>Because what if I'm more downtrodden than he wants? So,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I should have to know that. The rest

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<v Speaker 2>of these questions are do you have any debt? If so,

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<v Speaker 2>how much and from what? What is your plan for

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<v Speaker 2>paying that down? What is interest on that debt? Have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever lived alone? Have you ever lived with a girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 2>When was your last relationship? And then Jenny added this one,

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<v Speaker 2>when did you or how did your last relationship end?

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<v Speaker 3>How long was that last relationship? And long term?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you see yourself still living in the city or

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<v Speaker 2>moving somewhere else, potentially the suburbs.

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<v Speaker 3>What religion are you? Is it important that your children

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<v Speaker 3>be the same religion as you? What are your three

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<v Speaker 3>biggest fears in life? And what does a meaningful life

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<v Speaker 3>look like to you. I really get both sides of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I get like, yes, you want to know all of these,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also get it's none ya. It's none ya

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<v Speaker 1>business early in the relationship, of course, but then it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like a job interview, like do they check all

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<v Speaker 1>the boxes? And I think love isn't about checking boxes

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<v Speaker 1>because you could meet a guy who's got thirty two

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<v Speaker 1>dollars in his savings account, right No. Four to oh

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<v Speaker 1>one k, but you could still love him because he's

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<v Speaker 1>just such a wonderful person. I've dated enough broke people

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<v Speaker 1>to know that to me, unless they're just stupid broke,

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<v Speaker 1>like still spending money, Yeah, when they But if you're

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<v Speaker 1>broken you're going down to donate plasma because you need

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<v Speaker 1>the extra money, that's not so broke. It's if you're

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<v Speaker 1>broke and now you took out another credit card under

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<v Speaker 1>your sister's name because you can't get another one, and

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<v Speaker 1>you just bought five thousand dollars worth of jet skis.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's dumb broke, exactly, dumb broke.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel I understand like wanting to know the

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<v Speaker 2>answer to these questions and asking them, like there's probably

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<v Speaker 2>even more questions that you could ask that Like we've

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<v Speaker 2>been told don't ask questions like that because that's personal information.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you're in a personal relationship with this person,

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff should matter.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true. But I think that most people who are

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<v Speaker 1>in a long term relationship would agree there was no

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<v Speaker 1>real surprises after a certain amount of time. Oh yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because so go.

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<v Speaker 5>Ahead, I was gonna say, I don't know how soon

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<v Speaker 5>it was after me and Alyssa got together, like we

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<v Speaker 5>were talking, that we had those discussions, But yeah, there

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<v Speaker 5>were no surprises. I think just because we were around

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<v Speaker 5>each other, so you could do the context clues.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, you don't want to do that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true, and you knew Alyssa was not a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a gambling problem, a violence problem, not a thief, not embezzling.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, well that one, right, you don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that most people don't ask false questions,

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<v Speaker 1>and they do just fine. But it sure would be

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<v Speaker 1>nice to know those questions. Yeah, yeah, I gotta give

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<v Speaker 1>you a birthday shout out. Lauren has been listening since

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<v Speaker 1>she was thirteen. She is now thirty three today. Happy Lauren,

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate that one. And let us know, what would you

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<v Speaker 1>do if you were on a date? Third date was

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<v Speaker 1>some new person and they said, Hey, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>we got to talk about? Do you want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about some of the serious issues?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Like what what.

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<v Speaker 1>Religion are you? How important is that to you? How

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<v Speaker 1>many kids do you want to have? How much money

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<v Speaker 1>do you make? What would your reaction be. I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to guess before you answered any of them, you would

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<v Speaker 1>agree to have.

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<v Speaker 2>That conversation and you might not even ask them or

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<v Speaker 2>answer them all. At the same time, maybe you have,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, one conversation where all you're going to do

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<v Speaker 2>is talk about the money once and then you'll have

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<v Speaker 2>a different conversation on another day.

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<v Speaker 3>Where all you talk about is the kids one.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think too like talking it out because like

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<v Speaker 2>some of these, like the kid questions that I talked about,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I have an answer to those, but

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<v Speaker 2>maybe talking it out with someone else would help clarify

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<v Speaker 2>those answers for me, and then you kind of, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>go back and forth and you can learn about your partner,

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<v Speaker 2>but then also learn about yourself as well.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't see a problem with any of them. In

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<v Speaker 6>my humble, I see a big problem with the whole process.

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<v Speaker 6>And that's just me because I think dating is about

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<v Speaker 6>discovering them, not it's like you're dating a bot, you

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<v Speaker 6>know what I mean. It's like or an AI person. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>I want you to be all of these things. And

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<v Speaker 6>what if they lie to you? What if you ask

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<v Speaker 6>this guy, well, how much you have in your four

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<v Speaker 6>O one K? I got one hundred fifty thousand dollars?

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<v Speaker 6>Well that's pretty good. What if he is b R

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<v Speaker 6>O O K E broke? Yeah, so and they's lying

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<v Speaker 6>to you about it.

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<v Speaker 3>He would be broke even if you didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Ask the question, though, but you would know it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're okay with that. I mean someone texted in.

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<v Speaker 2>Is your friend that asked these questions still with that person? Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>she is, and they're like committed for now.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean no, it's very interesting. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's one of those things we all want to know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like you want to ask the boss are you

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<v Speaker 1>ever going to give me a raise? You want to

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<v Speaker 1>know the answer, yes, but you're probably not going to

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<v Speaker 1>get the answer right.

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<v Speaker 2>But like why see what I mean though, like we've

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<v Speaker 2>been told not to ask the questions that we really

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<v Speaker 2>want the answers.

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<v Speaker 5>To right and not morally. I mean, it's morally wrong,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's not wrong. It's a legitimate question, Like why

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<v Speaker 5>can't I know the answer to this question? Because like

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<v Speaker 5>I will just live my life being like, well, I

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<v Speaker 5>hope you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna say.

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<v Speaker 4>I think if you're uncomfortable asking these questions is because

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<v Speaker 4>you're uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>What the answer is.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I would be so fine being asked any single

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<v Speaker 4>one of those questions because I'm very comfortable with where

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<v Speaker 4>my life is at this point. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I disagree with that though, only like with the Rays example,

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<v Speaker 5>Like the only reason I'm not afraid to find out

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<v Speaker 5>the answer, it's just people have been you know. The

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<v Speaker 5>notion is that you're not supposed to ask a boss

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<v Speaker 5>about a raise or certain things like.

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<v Speaker 2>That, Or you're not supposed to ask your partner about

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<v Speaker 2>how much they have in their four oh one K

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<v Speaker 2>if they have a four oh one K, you're not

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to do that, Well.

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<v Speaker 3>Why not, because it's personal information.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't It's like, if you're going to be my friend, now,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a good example because I'm not relying on

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<v Speaker 1>you for anything.

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<v Speaker 3>You're just my friend. I don't care how much you

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<v Speaker 3>have in your four oh one.

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<v Speaker 2>K, but you are relying on your partner to be true,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, there for you.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think you gather those things and that's part

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<v Speaker 1>of the process of falling in love because if on

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<v Speaker 1>date number two they don't check the boxes, you're eliminating

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<v Speaker 1>them from a potential wonderful romance.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I don't want to have to teach them

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<v Speaker 4>how to contribute to a four oh one K at

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<v Speaker 4>this point in my life. That means that that is

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<v Speaker 4>my answer, Like, I'm not going to fall in love

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<v Speaker 4>with that person because they are not doing the things

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<v Speaker 4>that I think are important at this point in life.

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<v Speaker 3>Even if they're a great person and check every other wild.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, absolutely, I'm never going to be with someone who

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<v Speaker 4>would ever need to rely on me for any kind

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<v Speaker 4>of financial help. That's just like how I am. And

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<v Speaker 4>other people might disagree with that, but that's how I am.

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<v Speaker 3>With that said, I would love an assistant to do

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<v Speaker 3>all of those things for me. That'd be great. What

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<v Speaker 3>to do?

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<v Speaker 6>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Just like be in charge of my finances and make

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<v Speaker 2>sure they're all in the right place. You should hire one.

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<v Speaker 1>I should, but you can't afford, nope, to handle finances

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<v Speaker 1>that you no longer have because you hired an assistant.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, wrap it up the Dave Ryan Show with some dirt.

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<v Speaker 1>And when we say dirt, we mean like showbiz things

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<v Speaker 1>and this is like not a fun showbiz story. Savannah

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<v Speaker 1>Guthrie's mother still missing. No suspects, no leads, no information

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<v Speaker 1>that at least they're revealing. She was on TV last

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<v Speaker 1>night basically pleading with the people who took her to

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<v Speaker 1>please contact us. What a horrific moment in your life

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<v Speaker 1>where you're saying please to the people who took your

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<v Speaker 1>mother to please contact us.

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<v Speaker 3>Horrible, couldn't even imagine.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm excited for tomorrow morning because Taylor Swift releases Opa

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<v Speaker 4>Light as the second single from her The Life of

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<v Speaker 4>a Showgirl album, and the music video will drop at

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<v Speaker 4>eight AM, which I am stoked about because I love

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<v Speaker 4>her music videos and the last one everyone did the

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<v Speaker 4>trendy and dance to the favor of Ophelia, so I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like there's going to be another one from this one.

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<v Speaker 4>But Opa Light was my favorite song when I first

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<v Speaker 4>listened to that album.

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<v Speaker 5>So, and it's only dropping on Spotify and Apple Music

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<v Speaker 5>and I read YouTube it drops on Sunday, but I

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<v Speaker 5>read somewhares because they're not counting YouTube streams on the

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<v Speaker 5>charts anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's why she's like, oh, these interesting. That is interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if that's the reason, but it's a

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<v Speaker 3>good theory.

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<v Speaker 2>The Winter Olympics are here and there are new measures

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<v Speaker 2>in place the Winter Olympics. After a crotch and larging

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<v Speaker 2>scandal rock the ski jumping world at the twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 2>five World Championship, the Norwegian team got caught adding extra

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<v Speaker 2>fabric to the suits worn by their top two male athletes,

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<v Speaker 2>which created more surface area so the athletes could catch

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<v Speaker 2>more air, glide longer and farther, and add several more

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<v Speaker 2>feet to each jump. So the Olympics says, like, no, dog,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not going to do that, So they made tamper

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<v Speaker 2>proof microchips in each suit and three D scanning technology

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<v Speaker 2>to be used to measure the space between their legs

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<v Speaker 2>so that they won't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>They're also not allowed to flap anymore. So they were

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they jump and they yeah, they would flat. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not allowed to do that anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>A bomber slew of new Super Bowl commercials that have

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<v Speaker 5>come out. George Clooney did one for grub Hub, just

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<v Speaker 5>Jason Kelce and David Blaine did one for YouTube TV.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just so crazy that we're talking about this Before

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<v Speaker 5>the super Bowl. Part of the hype was to sit

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<v Speaker 5>there and watch them during halftime.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I refuse to read what all of them are about.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to either.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, some of them like will pop up on my

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<v Speaker 2>feet and I'll be like, well, I guess I'm watching

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<v Speaker 2>this one now. But I want to see them when

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<v Speaker 2>they air. That's when I want to see him, because, honestly,

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<v Speaker 2>that's what I watched the Super Bowl for halftime show

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<v Speaker 2>with the commercials.

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<v Speaker 1>And the best commercials usually air in the first quarter

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<v Speaker 1>of the Super Bowl, and by the time you get

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<v Speaker 1>to the third quarter and one team is usually blowing

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<v Speaker 1>out the other team, people aren't watching like they were,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's when you get the one for like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like some lame insurance company or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Hope it's not a blowout though.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope it's at least like they get a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>then they get a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, that would be a good idea. Yeah, a good game.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the Seahawks are favored. One of the players

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<v Speaker 1>and the Seahawks went to school here in town. Really yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>somebody texted me a little while ago. Metropolitan Center. No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>they went to east Ridge and Woodbury east Ridge.

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<v Speaker 3>His name is ty Ocata. They've got a great speech

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<v Speaker 3>team at east Ridge. That's great ball.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, and he graduated I don't know, probably five is.

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<v Speaker 3>Years ago, twenty seventeen. And yeah, so, uh, Kyle, no time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry. Ty Okata plays for the Seahawks. That's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, that's it. We're done. We are so done.

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<v Speaker 1>You in done. Have a great day. We'll see you

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<v Speaker 1>tomorrow on kd w B.