1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: I love that song. It's KATWB on the day of 2 00:00:02,800 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: Ryan Show. It's warming up. It's going to be like 3 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 1: what thirty degrees. 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 2: Today, thirty second sadly higher than that, but mccloudy sun 5 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: doesn't want to come and say hello. 6 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: The good news is there's no like crazy lows for 7 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: the next ten or twelve days. It's going to be 8 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:23,919 Speaker 1: in the thirties and forties, mostly thirties. But we'll take 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: that for this time in February. Yeah, not too burn. 10 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 3: Keep it going to melt. 11 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: I'm so excited that, like all the caked on ice 12 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: and snow off the streets is going to melt a 13 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 2: little bit, keeping the nature. 14 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 15 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: I heard yesterday that it is like if something winter 16 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: is done now, it's like there's a term for it. 17 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: It's not. It's not it's not as psychological as it's 18 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 1: a scientific term. No, it's like as it goes from 19 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 1: like you know, like middle of November until now. And 20 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: some meteorologists locally said something on Instagram yesterday like the 21 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: worst days of winter as far as light deprivation are 22 00:01:02,040 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 1: over now. 23 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 3: All the darkest days are over. 24 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: So I think what that means is maybe we're getting 25 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: like maybe twelve hours of light a day rather than 26 00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:09,759 Speaker 1: three hours of light to day. 27 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 3: Not exactly sure. 28 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 4: There's there's a run club that I've gone to one time, 29 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 4: so I do say I'm a part of it, but 30 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 4: I've only been once. But they recently posted yesterday how 31 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 4: they think by March twelfth they'll be back back in action. 32 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:27,560 Speaker 4: Because I think dusk is until six thirty starting March twelfth, 33 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 4: so that means it does. 34 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 3: Know that sounds right down, So we always. 35 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 4: Would run at like six thirty or actually no, sorry, 36 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:37,319 Speaker 4: the dusk is at like seven, we'd start the run 37 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 4: at six thirty. 38 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: Anyway, days are getting longer. That's good. Also, you're getting richer. 39 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:45,520 Speaker 1: You're getting richer because you're about to play this game 40 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 1: to win one thousand dollars. 41 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 3: Now your chance at one thousand. 42 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,920 Speaker 1: Dollars just to enter this nationwide keyword on our website. 43 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: Friend, that's friend. 44 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: KDWB dot com. Hey, go play the game for one 45 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 1: thous dollars. Going to spend it on a friend of 46 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: Mine's in Mexico right now, and so maybe a trip 47 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 1: to Mexico for spring break. Spring break is coming up. 48 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: I don't know how much a trip to Mexico is 49 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: maybe a trip just down to Key West. I don't 50 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 1: know how much that is either, but one thousand dollars 51 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: will go a long way to your spring break trip. 52 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: So you can sit there and go, wow, that'd be nice, 53 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: or you can be smart about it and actually play 54 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:25,239 Speaker 1: the game. Go to KDWB dot com. A little box 55 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 1: is going to pop up. You type in the keyword friend, 56 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: and you're good to go. Make sure you answer your 57 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: phone within an hour or so from an unknown number, 58 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: because that's probably us calling to say you won the 59 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. Are we going to talk about the thing 60 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:40,240 Speaker 1: with with with Katie Camp? 61 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 3: We most certainly can. 62 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: Now this is so interesting. We brought this up yesterday 63 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: and I found it so interesting that I said, we 64 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: got to talk about this again for people who don't 65 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: listen early that listen to the nine o'clock hour, because 66 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: Bailey is dating this guy and you're like, you don't know, 67 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: like the deep things like do you want to have kids? 68 00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 1: How many kids do you want to have? What religion 69 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: are you? And so your friend Katie Cap is seeing 70 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,360 Speaker 1: a guy. Yep, she's dated him a few times, maybe 71 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: a few months. Yeah, and they've had all the conversations. 72 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they made it a point so like that, 73 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 2: once they decided to be exclusive, she was like, okay, 74 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:22,640 Speaker 2: we're going through this list and she found, you know, 75 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 2: somebody who was totally on the same page as her 76 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 2: with like also answering these questions. And yesterday when we 77 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: brought them up, we got a lot of response. Some 78 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 2: people were like, no, no, you need to learn that 79 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 2: stuff organically, and other people were like, no, ask those 80 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: questions right away. Don't waste your time learning them organically 81 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: because that might take forever if ever. So the list 82 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: of questions are as follows. It is a long list, 83 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 2: but I'll get through them point. 84 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 3: But it's also it's on your Instagram, I believe. 85 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's on my It should still be on my 86 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: Instagram stories, and we posted it on the Dave Ryan 87 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 2: Show Instagram stories as well. Do you have a mental 88 00:03:57,800 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 2: timeline of when you want to be married by Am 89 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: I someone you genuinely want to be with or am 90 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: I just fitting into that timeline? Do you want kids? 91 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: How many kids? What if those kids can't biologically be yours? 92 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 2: What if you could never have children that are biologically yours? 93 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 2: What if those children were never of infant age. How 94 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 2: much money do you make? 95 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 3: Do you Now? 96 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: That's an interesting one, Yeah, because that seems so it's 97 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,840 Speaker 1: none of your business how much money you make? Like, yeah, 98 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: I mean I guess it's like, okay, I think you 99 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: can get an idea of how much money somebody makes 100 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 1: by the way they what they do, the way they 101 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: present themselves honestly, the way they carry themselves, maybe the 102 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: way they dress, maybe the car they drive. Yeah, I 103 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 1: mean sometimes that can be misleading. I know some freak 104 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 1: ass people who drive a really nice. 105 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 2: Car, and I think the reasoning is so like, you 106 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,919 Speaker 2: don't have to use context clues to find out the 107 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 2: answer to any of these. You just ask, So, how 108 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,119 Speaker 2: much money do you make? Do you receive an annual raise? 109 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: If yes, what was that raise last year? How much 110 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 2: do you have in savings? Do you have separate accoun 111 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,239 Speaker 2: set up for retirement? If yes, what is your annual contraby? 112 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: I would find that so intrusive if somebody said, how 113 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 2: much do you have in savings? I got two hundred 114 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 2: thousand dollars. But that's none of your business. See, But 115 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 2: if you're looking for for like a future with this person, 116 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 2: I think it is something that you. 117 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 1: Would want to know you no question, you'd want to 118 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: know it, right, but would you ask it? 119 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 2: And I that's that's where I think, like this is 120 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: you know, wow, what a what a concept that Katie 121 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 2: Cav's asking these questions because I think we've been raised 122 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: to the point where we're like, well, you can't answer 123 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 2: those questions. Those are intrusive questions, But like why why 124 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: are those If I'm looking to have a future with you, 125 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 2: shouldn't I know the answer to these questions? 126 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 3: And maybe we can suit you know soon though that's 127 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 3: the question. 128 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: Let's say you're on date number two and you like 129 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: this guy and it's like, Okay, he's fun whatever, Yeah, 130 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 1: is it any of your business? Of course you want 131 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,800 Speaker 1: to know how much he makes right, But on date number. 132 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 3: Two, Yeah, date two seems early to me. 133 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: And some people were texting and saying like, hey, I 134 00:06:01,480 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 2: asked all of these message or questions on date one. 135 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: But like I'm looking at it right now where I've 136 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 2: been dating regular guy for three months and I don't 137 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:10,919 Speaker 2: know the answered a lot of these questions, and I 138 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:12,839 Speaker 2: feel like I could know the answer to a lot of. 139 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 3: I can ask your question, sure, how much do you 140 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 3: think he makes Oh, I know that one. Actually you do? 141 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 3: How much do you think he's got in savings? I 142 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 3: don't know. 143 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 2: See, that's why I don't like. 144 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 3: I don't want to guess. 145 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 2: I don't want to assume or you try to use 146 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 2: context clues. 147 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:27,919 Speaker 3: I just want him to tell me. 148 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 2: Okay, granted, some of these if even if I had 149 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 2: to answer these, I would have to look up some 150 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 2: of this stuff I don't know off the top of 151 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 2: my head. 152 00:06:33,880 --> 00:06:34,839 Speaker 3: Well, it's gonna say vice versa. 153 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 5: Would you be comfortable answering those back at this point 154 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 5: like today if he asked you both those questions how 155 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 5: much you make and how much you haven't savings? 156 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 2: Because what if I'm more downtrodden than he wants? So, 157 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: I mean I should have to know that. The rest 158 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 2: of these questions are do you have any debt? If so, 159 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: how much and from what? What is your plan for 160 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 2: paying that down? What is interest on that debt? Have 161 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 2: you ever lived alone? Have you ever lived with a girlfriend? 162 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: When was your last relationship? And then Jenny added this one, 163 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 2: when did you or how did your last relationship end? 164 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 3: How long was that last relationship? And long term? 165 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 2: Do you see yourself still living in the city or 166 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 2: moving somewhere else, potentially the suburbs. 167 00:07:14,840 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 3: What religion are you? Is it important that your children 168 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 3: be the same religion as you? What are your three 169 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 3: biggest fears in life? And what does a meaningful life 170 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 3: look like to you. I really get both sides of this. 171 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:29,119 Speaker 1: I get like, yes, you want to know all of these, 172 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: but I also get it's none ya. It's none ya 173 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: business early in the relationship, of course, but then it 174 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: feels like a job interview, like do they check all 175 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: the boxes? And I think love isn't about checking boxes 176 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: because you could meet a guy who's got thirty two 177 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: dollars in his savings account, right No. Four to oh 178 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:52,000 Speaker 1: one k, but you could still love him because he's 179 00:07:52,080 --> 00:07:57,240 Speaker 1: just such a wonderful person. I've dated enough broke people 180 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: to know that to me, unless they're just stupid broke, 181 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: like still spending money, Yeah, when they But if you're 182 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: broken you're going down to donate plasma because you need 183 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: the extra money, that's not so broke. It's if you're 184 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: broke and now you took out another credit card under 185 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: your sister's name because you can't get another one, and 186 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: you just bought five thousand dollars worth of jet skis. 187 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: That's that's dumb broke, exactly, dumb broke. 188 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 2: So I feel I understand like wanting to know the 189 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 2: answer to these questions and asking them, like there's probably 190 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 2: even more questions that you could ask that Like we've 191 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,600 Speaker 2: been told don't ask questions like that because that's personal information. 192 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 2: But if you're in a personal relationship with this person, 193 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 2: that stuff should matter. 194 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 1: It's true. But I think that most people who are 195 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: in a long term relationship would agree there was no 196 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: real surprises after a certain amount of time. Oh yeah, okay, 197 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: because so go. 198 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 5: Ahead, I was gonna say, I don't know how soon 199 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:00,040 Speaker 5: it was after me and Alyssa got together, like we 200 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 5: were talking, that we had those discussions, But yeah, there 201 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 5: were no surprises. I think just because we were around 202 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 5: each other, so you could do the context clues. 203 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 3: I know, you don't want to do that. 204 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: It's true, and you knew Alyssa was not a you know, 205 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: a gambling problem, a violence problem, not a thief, not embezzling. 206 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 3: You know, well that one, right, you don't know. 207 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: But I think that most people don't ask false questions, 208 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: and they do just fine. But it sure would be 209 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: nice to know those questions. Yeah, yeah, I gotta give 210 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,240 Speaker 1: you a birthday shout out. Lauren has been listening since 211 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:39,959 Speaker 1: she was thirteen. She is now thirty three today. Happy Lauren, 212 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 1: appreciate that one. And let us know, what would you 213 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: do if you were on a date? Third date was 214 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 1: some new person and they said, Hey, you know what 215 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: we got to talk about? Do you want to talk 216 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: about some of the serious issues? 217 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? Like what what. 218 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,679 Speaker 1: Religion are you? How important is that to you? How 219 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: many kids do you want to have? How much money 220 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: do you make? What would your reaction be. I'm going 221 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 1: to guess before you answered any of them, you would 222 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: agree to have. 223 00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 2: That conversation and you might not even ask them or 224 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 2: answer them all. At the same time, maybe you have, 225 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 2: you know, one conversation where all you're going to do 226 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:14,640 Speaker 2: is talk about the money once and then you'll have 227 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 2: a different conversation on another day. 228 00:10:16,240 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 3: Where all you talk about is the kids one. 229 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 2: And I think too like talking it out because like 230 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 2: some of these, like the kid questions that I talked about, 231 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 2: I feel like I have an answer to those, but 232 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 2: maybe talking it out with someone else would help clarify 233 00:10:30,320 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 2: those answers for me, and then you kind of, you know, 234 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 2: go back and forth and you can learn about your partner, 235 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 2: but then also learn about yourself as well. 236 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. 237 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 6: I don't see a problem with any of them. In 238 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 6: my humble, I see a big problem with the whole process. 239 00:10:43,760 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 6: And that's just me because I think dating is about 240 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 6: discovering them, not it's like you're dating a bot, you 241 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 6: know what I mean. It's like or an AI person. Oh, 242 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 6: I want you to be all of these things. And 243 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 6: what if they lie to you? What if you ask 244 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:59,400 Speaker 6: this guy, well, how much you have in your four 245 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 6: O one K? I got one hundred fifty thousand dollars? 246 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 6: Well that's pretty good. What if he is b R 247 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 6: O O K E broke? Yeah, so and they's lying 248 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 6: to you about it. 249 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 3: He would be broke even if you didn't. 250 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 2: Ask the question, though, but you would know it. Yeah, 251 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 2: and you're okay with that. I mean someone texted in. 252 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 2: Is your friend that asked these questions still with that person? Yes, 253 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 2: she is, and they're like committed for now. 254 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:26,160 Speaker 3: I mean no, it's very interesting. I don't know. 255 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 1: It's one of those things we all want to know. 256 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: It's like you want to ask the boss are you 257 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 1: ever going to give me a raise? You want to 258 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: know the answer, yes, but you're probably not going to 259 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: get the answer right. 260 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 2: But like why see what I mean though, like we've 261 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 2: been told not to ask the questions that we really 262 00:11:43,760 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 2: want the answers. 263 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 5: To right and not morally. I mean, it's morally wrong, 264 00:11:47,559 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 5: but it's not wrong. It's a legitimate question, Like why 265 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:52,200 Speaker 5: can't I know the answer to this question? Because like 266 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:54,600 Speaker 5: I will just live my life being like, well, I 267 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 5: hope you know. 268 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 3: I'm gonna say. 269 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 4: I think if you're uncomfortable asking these questions is because 270 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 4: you're uncomfortable. 271 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 3: What the answer is. 272 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would be so fine being asked any single 273 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 4: one of those questions because I'm very comfortable with where 274 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:07,319 Speaker 4: my life is at this point. Yeah. 275 00:12:07,360 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 5: I disagree with that though, only like with the Rays example, 276 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 5: Like the only reason I'm not afraid to find out 277 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 5: the answer, it's just people have been you know. The 278 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 5: notion is that you're not supposed to ask a boss 279 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 5: about a raise or certain things like. 280 00:12:18,440 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 2: That, Or you're not supposed to ask your partner about 281 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 2: how much they have in their four oh one K 282 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 2: if they have a four oh one K, you're not 283 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:27,079 Speaker 2: supposed to do that, Well. 284 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 3: Why not, because it's personal information. 285 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: I don't It's like, if you're going to be my friend, now, 286 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: that's not a good example because I'm not relying on 287 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: you for anything. 288 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 3: You're just my friend. I don't care how much you 289 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 3: have in your four oh one. 290 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 2: K, but you are relying on your partner to be true, 291 00:12:41,040 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 2: you know, there for you. 292 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:44,319 Speaker 1: And I think you gather those things and that's part 293 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: of the process of falling in love because if on 294 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 1: date number two they don't check the boxes, you're eliminating 295 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: them from a potential wonderful romance. 296 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I don't want to have to teach them 297 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 4: how to contribute to a four oh one K at 298 00:12:57,559 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 4: this point in my life. That means that that is 299 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 4: my answer, Like, I'm not going to fall in love 300 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 4: with that person because they are not doing the things 301 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 4: that I think are important at this point in life. 302 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 3: Even if they're a great person and check every other wild. 303 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:10,720 Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, I'm never going to be with someone who 304 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 4: would ever need to rely on me for any kind 305 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 4: of financial help. That's just like how I am. And 306 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 4: other people might disagree with that, but that's how I am. 307 00:13:18,960 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 3: With that said, I would love an assistant to do 308 00:13:21,040 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 3: all of those things for me. That'd be great. What 309 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 3: to do? 310 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 6: What? 311 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 2: Just like be in charge of my finances and make 312 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 2: sure they're all in the right place. You should hire one. 313 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: I should, but you can't afford, nope, to handle finances 314 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: that you no longer have because you hired an assistant. 315 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 316 00:13:36,320 --> 00:13:48,679 Speaker 1: Really, wrap it up the Dave Ryan Show with some dirt. 317 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: And when we say dirt, we mean like showbiz things 318 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,280 Speaker 1: and this is like not a fun showbiz story. Savannah 319 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 1: Guthrie's mother still missing. No suspects, no leads, no information 320 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 1: that at least they're revealing. She was on TV last 321 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: night basically pleading with the people who took her to 322 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:07,800 Speaker 1: please contact us. What a horrific moment in your life 323 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: where you're saying please to the people who took your 324 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: mother to please contact us. 325 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 3: Horrible, couldn't even imagine. 326 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 4: I'm excited for tomorrow morning because Taylor Swift releases Opa 327 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 4: Light as the second single from her The Life of 328 00:14:20,880 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 4: a Showgirl album, and the music video will drop at 329 00:14:23,800 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 4: eight AM, which I am stoked about because I love 330 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 4: her music videos and the last one everyone did the 331 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 4: trendy and dance to the favor of Ophelia, so I 332 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 4: feel like there's going to be another one from this one. 333 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 4: But Opa Light was my favorite song when I first 334 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 4: listened to that album. 335 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 5: So, and it's only dropping on Spotify and Apple Music 336 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:44,480 Speaker 5: and I read YouTube it drops on Sunday, but I 337 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 5: read somewhares because they're not counting YouTube streams on the 338 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 5: charts anymore. 339 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:51,720 Speaker 3: So that's why she's like, oh, these interesting. That is interesting. 340 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 3: I don't know if that's the reason, but it's a 341 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 3: good theory. 342 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 2: The Winter Olympics are here and there are new measures 343 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 2: in place the Winter Olympics. After a crotch and larging 344 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 2: scandal rock the ski jumping world at the twenty twenty 345 00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:08,920 Speaker 2: five World Championship, the Norwegian team got caught adding extra 346 00:15:08,920 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 2: fabric to the suits worn by their top two male athletes, 347 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 2: which created more surface area so the athletes could catch 348 00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 2: more air, glide longer and farther, and add several more 349 00:15:19,200 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 2: feet to each jump. So the Olympics says, like, no, dog, 350 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 2: you're not going to do that, So they made tamper 351 00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 2: proof microchips in each suit and three D scanning technology 352 00:15:30,440 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 2: to be used to measure the space between their legs 353 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 2: so that they won't do that. 354 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: They're also not allowed to flap anymore. So they were 355 00:15:37,800 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: you know, they jump and they yeah, they would flat. Yeah, 356 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 1: they're not allowed to do that anymore. 357 00:15:42,880 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. 358 00:15:43,520 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 5: A bomber slew of new Super Bowl commercials that have 359 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 5: come out. George Clooney did one for grub Hub, just 360 00:15:49,160 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 5: Jason Kelce and David Blaine did one for YouTube TV. 361 00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 5: It's just so crazy that we're talking about this Before 362 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 5: the super Bowl. Part of the hype was to sit 363 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 5: there and watch them during halftime. 364 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. I refuse to read what all of them are about. 365 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:01,000 Speaker 3: I don't want to either. 366 00:16:01,200 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, some of them like will pop up on my 367 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 2: feet and I'll be like, well, I guess I'm watching 368 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 2: this one now. But I want to see them when 369 00:16:07,080 --> 00:16:09,880 Speaker 2: they air. That's when I want to see him, because, honestly, 370 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 2: that's what I watched the Super Bowl for halftime show 371 00:16:12,120 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 2: with the commercials. 372 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:17,000 Speaker 1: And the best commercials usually air in the first quarter 373 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 1: of the Super Bowl, and by the time you get 374 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,400 Speaker 1: to the third quarter and one team is usually blowing 375 00:16:21,440 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 1: out the other team, people aren't watching like they were, 376 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: so that's when you get the one for like, you know, 377 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: like some lame insurance company or something like that. 378 00:16:28,680 --> 00:16:29,880 Speaker 3: Hope it's not a blowout though. 379 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:32,240 Speaker 2: I hope it's at least like they get a little bit, 380 00:16:32,280 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 2: then they get a little bit. 381 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 3: Well, that would be a good idea. Yeah, a good game. 382 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 1: I think the Seahawks are favored. One of the players 383 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,440 Speaker 1: and the Seahawks went to school here in town. Really yeah, 384 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: somebody texted me a little while ago. Metropolitan Center. No, no, 385 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: they went to east Ridge and Woodbury east Ridge. 386 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 3: His name is ty Ocata. They've got a great speech 387 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 3: team at east Ridge. That's great ball. 388 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:57,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and he graduated I don't know, probably five is. 389 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 3: Years ago, twenty seventeen. And yeah, so, uh, Kyle, no time. 390 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:07,159 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Ty Okata plays for the Seahawks. That's cool. 391 00:17:08,359 --> 00:17:11,439 Speaker 1: All right, that's it. We're done. We are so done. 392 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 1: You in done. Have a great day. We'll see you 393 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 1: tomorrow on kd w B.