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Speaker 1: Jed is Baby, Dad is baby Hey. Eight hundred and

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Speaker 1: four oh nine ninety three ninety three. That is eight

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Speaker 1: hundred four oh nine ninety three ninety three. I need

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Speaker 1: a little bit of help, Okay, So I have discussed

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Speaker 1: the wedding before and invitations and all that I'm getting

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Speaker 1: married this year, and I need some help and some

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Speaker 1: advice on, uh what do I do when I have

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Speaker 1: people talking to me about the wedding and they make

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Speaker 1: comments like, hey, you know we are going to be

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Speaker 1: doing this at the wedding, and hey, you need to

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Speaker 1: be doing uh this so that I have this or

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Speaker 1: like like the the implication. The implication, by the way,

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Speaker 1: is not rude at all, but unfortunately they're wrong because

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Speaker 1: they're they're not They're not invited. And this has happened

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Speaker 1: a lot lately, not with the same person but with

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Speaker 1: different people. At the end of the day, we're having

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Speaker 1: a really small wedding. It's expensive to get married. We

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Speaker 1: want to have this small because we want to have

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Speaker 1: kids right away.

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Speaker 3: We want to get a house. We live in a

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Speaker 3: little apartment.

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Speaker 4: You want to be able to afford all that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so it's very small.

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Speaker 1: You know. The other thing too, is most people who

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Speaker 1: are invited aren't getting plus ones. There are no kids coming. Uh,

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Speaker 1: Like I said, even people who are married. If Alyssa

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Speaker 1: and I both haven't met you, you're not going to

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Speaker 1: get an invite.

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately.

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Speaker 1: What do I say to the people though that are

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Speaker 1: because it's it's people that, like, you know, I might

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Speaker 1: even know pretty well, but they just if Alyssa was

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Speaker 1: in a crowd, I don't think they'd be able to

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Speaker 1: pick her out right, you.

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Speaker 4: Should do that. Hey, if you could pick um off.

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Speaker 1: Do like a lineup, so you need they're gonna say my.

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Speaker 5: Name, he will probably choose an ex from like ten

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Speaker 5: years ago. And you're like, see this is why you're

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Speaker 5: not coming. Yeah, but what do I do?

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Speaker 1: I just go along with it because like it happened

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Speaker 1: to me a couple of days ago, and I just

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Speaker 1: kept going, yeah, oh.

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Speaker 4: My god, that's tough, because I mean, what do I do?

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Speaker 3: I mean, you guys are real quiet. You ain't got

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Speaker 3: no advice, you.

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Speaker 4: Know, like confrontation. But I would just politely say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough.

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Speaker 6: What if you say, like you gotta put it. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: we've had to like pair down the list. It's getting

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Speaker 6: more expensive than I thought. And people would understand that.

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Speaker 5: And I'm not in control of the guest Listen, it's

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Speaker 5: on my fiance. No, no, that you never see her

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Speaker 5: talk to her.

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Speaker 7: But actually that's that's her rule. If both people don't

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Speaker 7: know them personally, they're not invited. You just say, hey,

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Speaker 7: my fiance has put a policy in place and we

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Speaker 7: both agree that it's for the best that Hey, when

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Speaker 7: we send out these wedding wedding invitations, here are the stipulations,

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Speaker 7: and you don't you don't follow under that, sorry, Mitch?

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Speaker 4: Is that or X? What her last name is? If

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Speaker 4: you don't know her last name, she can't go.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, that's another.

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Speaker 5: I think you should start asking what her last name?

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Speaker 5: What's her last name? If you don't know her last name,

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Speaker 5: you can't go, and.

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Speaker 7: You can't look at it.

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Speaker 3: What is a lista's last I don't remember.

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Speaker 4: If they really wanted to go.

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Speaker 1: She got something over the weekend food and it's at

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Speaker 1: a list of Carbella and they got excited. Hey Michael Waiter, sure,

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Speaker 1: Hey Michael, Hey, I had.

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Speaker 2: A couple of years ago and it was only about

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Speaker 2: fifty people, and a lot of people wanted to be

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Speaker 2: in it. And all I can say is, if they

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Speaker 2: love you and they know you and they don't get invited,

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Speaker 2: there shouldn't be any feelings hurt.

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Speaker 3: Exactly.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: What about what about when we do the topic in

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Speaker 1: two months where I invited every famous person I could

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Speaker 3: Yes, my name's on the list, right, of course.

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Speaker 4: Every list. Of course, of course, Wendy, she's on the list.

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Speaker 3: Easy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But.

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Speaker 2: If it's a small wedding, there's only so much you

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Speaker 2: can do, all right, thank you, Michael.

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Speaker 5: People really get met when they're not invited to weddings.

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Speaker 1: I think, I don't know, I get excited that I

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Speaker 1: wasn't invited. We had a coworker I'll never forget. They

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Speaker 1: got married, and I feel for them now because I

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Speaker 1: didn't understand it at first. But they walked up to

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Speaker 1: me and they were like, hey, you know, uh, I

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Speaker 1: just want you to know you're not invited to the wedding.

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Speaker 1: In the back of my head, I'm like, hell yeah.

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Speaker 1: But also in the back of my head, I'm like,

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Speaker 1: do I act like disappointed? So I'm not rude.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, do you want me to be disappointed?

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Speaker 6: I just think it's crazy that people assume I would

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Speaker 6: be so embarrassed if I assumed that I was invited

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Speaker 6: without actually.

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Speaker 4: Getting and you look crazy talking to them about their wedding.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Lauren, Hi, what's up.

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Speaker 8: I'm a little sad because I met you, but I

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Speaker 8: haven't Metalista.

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Speaker 4: Yet a little.

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Speaker 5: We're gonna have wors Waldo, and it's worse Alyssa, you

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Speaker 5: find her, you get an invite exactly.

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Speaker 8: Yes, I'm down for that game.

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Speaker 3: We'll do that.

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Speaker 8: No, I don't think. I don't think you need to

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Speaker 8: tell anybody. I think they'll find out when you just

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Speaker 8: don't send them an invitation. I don't think like if

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Speaker 8: you had a party, if like Katie was throwing a party,

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Speaker 8: she wouldn't go out of her way to tell people

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Speaker 8: that they're not invited them. So if you ain't getting text, yeah,

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Speaker 8: I think you're fine. Don't make it a thing. Don't

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Speaker 8: make it a thing.

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Speaker 1: We haven't even thought about saying anything. I have anxiety

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Speaker 1: whenever Alyssa asks for the list, I'm like, I don't

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Speaker 1: know who should have come.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if you don't know her last name. If you

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Speaker 5: don't know, yeah, just a last name.

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Speaker 3: How many If you can tell me how many fingers

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Speaker 3: Alyssa has.

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Speaker 1: Then.

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Speaker 4: You can about her sibling. If you can tell us

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Speaker 4: how many siblings she has, you gotta know a fun.

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Speaker 1: Fact about her, that's true. Come on, yes, Like what's

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Speaker 1: your favorite color?

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Speaker 8: You can tell me that nobody knows, like birthdays? When's

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Speaker 8: her birthday? Nobody knows that that nobody would be invited.

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Speaker 3: What character does she use in Mario? That's it, that's

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Speaker 3: what we'll do. She's a girl.

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Speaker 1: We love you, Laurenhh, here's one, here's one. This is one.

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Speaker 1: This is a good one because this this guy is

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Speaker 1: a fringe invite fringe. Oh he does not have an

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Speaker 1: invitation yet, Okay, but leading up to the wedding he

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Speaker 1: may get one. Everyone welcoming, Jules.

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Speaker 4: It's a possibility.

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Speaker 9: All right. You've got a situation on your hand. You've

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Speaker 9: seen that white comedian that had got hired a black

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Speaker 9: guy to drop the end bomb from him, right, you

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Speaker 9: know that you you ever see that? So he basically

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Speaker 9: so he basically he was a comedian that had got

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Speaker 9: somebody to say the N word for him and like

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Speaker 9: finish his sentences. You need us like find a Puerto

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Speaker 9: Rican friend that way, but you do have one. Wait

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Speaker 9: a second, you do have one.

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Speaker 10: That is just like the moment they start talking like

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Speaker 10: like that, well, when I get to what I'm a dance,

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Speaker 10: I'd be like, hey, my man, you ain't even inviting bro,

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Speaker 10: I'm putting yourself in scenarios.

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Speaker 3: Everyone needs a Puerto Rican and I got one.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I'll tell him, I tell him right away.

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Speaker 9: He yo, my man, you ain't even going the moment,

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Speaker 9: they'd be like, you know what we gonna do.

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Speaker 1: We we made a list A in a list B,

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Speaker 1: and Jewels is the first one unlisted B right now

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Speaker 1: because you know he just recently met Alyssa in like

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Speaker 1: a longer form way they've known of each other. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but Jules in Naomi are enlist beat. So they're not

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Speaker 1: on the list, but they're right there like coaches coaches

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Speaker 1: thinking about getting them in the game. Now, Jewels, what

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Speaker 1: if I told you, what if I told you you

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Speaker 1: had to take the invitation from someone, I.

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Speaker 9: Could say, my man, you're dead on the invitation. That's

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Speaker 9: mine almost thought the s bom, that's.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's right, all right, my man, you're dead on that.

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Speaker 9: That's mine now, you know I said it. I said

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Speaker 9: it off rip. I just wanted to be the Wedther singer,

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Speaker 9: you know, and you know.

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Speaker 3: You could be No, you could be may Bay, Mayi

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Speaker 3: Bay Jewels, my man.

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