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Speaker 1: Ashland taking the time out of her morning to talk

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Ashland, Hey, yeah, good morning, good morning, Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, so, uh, I mean, listen, just fill usten what

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Speaker 1: what happened?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 3: I live with my dad, which is you know, hard

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Speaker 3: to say out loud on the radio, but it is

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Speaker 3: what it is, you know, living in Tampa bayse As.

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Speaker 3: You guys probably all know you don't have to explain

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Speaker 3: it to anyone.

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Speaker 2: We plenty of people that do that. So what happened?

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Speaker 3: Judgment? I could feel the judgment. But you know, I

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Speaker 3: work a full time job. I you know, I just

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Speaker 3: can't afford living my own. I lived in my own

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Speaker 3: in college and and now I just you know, it's

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Speaker 3: just hard. So anyways, but I do pay for my

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Speaker 3: rent bills, you know, I contribute by groceries you know,

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Speaker 3: I do all the things, but my dad is very

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Speaker 3: controlling in certain ways when it comes to my love life.

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Speaker 3: M if you know what I.

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Speaker 1: Mean, he just did what he doesn't like. If he

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Speaker 1: doesn't like you dating someone, he'll be like, no, sorry.

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Speaker 3: Well I have a long term boyfriend or actually engaged. Cool,

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Speaker 3: but yeah, but he like doesn't like him to come over,

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Speaker 3: and he'll constantly be making me feel like uncomfortable, like

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Speaker 3: why does he need does he really need to come

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Speaker 3: over four times a week? Or does he need to

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Speaker 3: sleep over all the time? You know, just constantly making

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Speaker 3: jabs like I'm a kid that I can't have my

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Speaker 3: boyfriend or you know, my family.

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Speaker 1: Twenty four You just got engaged, yeah recently, congratulations thanks Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, trying to save up so we can you know,

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Speaker 3: build a life together.

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Speaker 1: You're telling me. It's uh yeah, I'm in that point too.

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Speaker 1: It's a lot so your dad, your dad, Your dad

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Speaker 1: just doesn't like him. Your dad doesn't want him over

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Speaker 1: all the time, that's it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, he doesn't want him to sleep over all

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Speaker 1: Makes you know.

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Speaker 3: I'm on the other side of the house, you know,

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Speaker 3: I have my own little area, so it's not even

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Speaker 3: like we're in his space or bothering him, but he

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Speaker 3: doesn't like that. He sleeps over like he thinks I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, virgin Mary or something.

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Speaker 1: Like what's your fiance situation? Does he live alone?

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Speaker 6: Uh?

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Speaker 3: He lives with friends, you know, roommates and things.

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Speaker 7: Still, does he know your dad isn't fond of him

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Speaker 7: being over?

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Speaker 1: He does?

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, my dad kind of makes comments sometimes

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Speaker 3: in front of him, like Okay, we'll see tomorrow, you know,

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Speaker 3: trying to like make him feel like he needs to leave.

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Speaker 3: Kind of.

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Speaker 2: We know, you guys are going to move in with

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Speaker 3: What are you waiting for money enough to We want

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Speaker 3: to buy a house. I don't want to rent, you know,

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Speaker 3: it's crazy. So we're trying to both save to buy

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Speaker 2: Why not move in with him at his roommates?

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Speaker 3: Oh no, all those dudes, no way, they're disgusting.

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Speaker 7: Don't you got to talk to your dad and you've

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Speaker 3: No, I mean in college we pretty much we dated

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Speaker 3: for a long time, so we pretty much lived together

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Speaker 3: in college, like we were together every night and things

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Speaker 3: like that, but no, not officially.

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Speaker 2: Heyne iye bye?

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Speaker 5: All right? So let me step out of my vehicle

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Speaker 5: for this one.

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Speaker 2: I can hear it.

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Speaker 5: The way how I feel is, look, at the end

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Speaker 5: of the day, you know, if you guys want privacy,

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Speaker 5: and if you want it bad enough, you will make

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Speaker 5: pan all that. That's fabulous. I get it, I know.

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Speaker 5: But you have to have your own place, you in him,

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Speaker 5: you know, so that nobody can tell you what to do.

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Speaker 5: That's it, you know, because if you're living in their home,

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Speaker 5: they're gonna be like, well, you know what, you're here,

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Speaker 5: and this is how I feel. So this is how

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Speaker 3: You know, I have my own whole area. And he

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Speaker 3: knew when I when we signed up for this, what

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Speaker 5: And now all of a sudden, he think, did he

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Speaker 5: did he make an agreement like, hey, okay, you can

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Speaker 5: do like you can have people over.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean he said, you know, treat this like

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Speaker 3: your home. You know, you're not.

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Speaker 5: And doing. Saying and doing are two completely different things.

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Speaker 5: They're gonna be like, you know, so what today I

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Speaker 5: decided to change my mind because I've seen other things

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Speaker 5: and maybe you know, I feel differently now or whatever,

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Speaker 5: but that's because he's going to be always who he is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right here, Leannell, and thank you so much. I

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Speaker 1: want to talk to Emily because Emily, you're in the

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Speaker 1: same situation.

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Speaker 4: Uh kind of but almost like the opposite. So me

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Speaker 4: and my fiance live with my dad because he wanted

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Speaker 4: us to save money before we got married. But also

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Speaker 4: it was like, you need to live together to know

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Speaker 4: that works out, you know.

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Speaker 1: So he said, I'm gonna put you guys in the

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Speaker 1: worst living situation possible, which is one door away from me.

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Speaker 4: Well he not necessarily. We were coming down and we

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Speaker 4: were going to rent, and he's like moving to the house.

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Speaker 4: He also works down here and up north like half

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Speaker 4: the time, so he's barely here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but was just like, stay.

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Speaker 4: In the house, save money so that you can buy

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Speaker 4: instead of rent. But you often it's out in the

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Speaker 4: living situation. It was just kind of a nice, you know,

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Speaker 7: Nothing ill tell you off. But I would not even

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Speaker 7: want to be with dating someone or in I guess

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Speaker 7: my fiance. I wouldn't want to live with my parents.

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Speaker 7: I don't know any of my privacy, would you?

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Speaker 1: Joe? No?

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Speaker 2: And I do think too, Ashley.

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Speaker 1: I think you got at some point you got to

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Speaker 1: live with him before you guys take that next step,

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Speaker 1: because who knows?

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Speaker 2: What if he like what if what if.

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Speaker 7: He's all the time hire body and leaves it in

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Speaker 7: the scene.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what if the's he'll grow?

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Speaker 1: Snyder don't know here it smells because actually referenced it.

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Speaker 1: And then we're going to move on because we got

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Speaker 1: to move on.

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Speaker 6: Uh you know, Amira, Yes, good morning, Well, thank you

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Speaker 6: for calling in, and Ashley already read your tax message.

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Speaker 2: It was Ashley's favorite time to go ahead.

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Speaker 8: I have a thirty year old who lives at home.

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Speaker 8: She does say rank, she does help out with a

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Speaker 8: lot of stuff. However, it is still our home and

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Speaker 8: she is not allowed to bring anybody that she wants

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Speaker 8: over whenever she wants. It's I feel uncomfortable, and if

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Speaker 8: she feels the need that she needs to do that,

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Speaker 8: then I feel like she needs to just move out

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Speaker 8: with her boyfriend.

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Speaker 1: How often do you have those conversations with her?

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Speaker 8: She knows it all the time.

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Speaker 7: If you're out of town. If you're out of town,

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Speaker 7: can she bring people over?

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Speaker 2: Sneak one past the goalie?

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, if.

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Speaker 7: You're out of town, can she have someone over?

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Speaker 8: No, she will ask, she will ask. She does paying.

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Speaker 8: She's only paying for her room. She pays for everything,

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Speaker 8: you know, whatever she needs to pay for.

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Speaker 2: Do you came home like I'm not her roommates.

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Speaker 8: I'm her parent. Yeah, so she's not my roommate.

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Speaker 2: Do you have cameras?

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Speaker 8: Roommates are different?

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Speaker 7: Do you have cameras?

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Speaker 6: Joe was asking, No, I just have a ring on

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Speaker 6: the front.

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Speaker 1: I got an invitation to a party at your home

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Speaker 1: the last time you were out of town.

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Speaker 2: You got cameras. Ohmyra, call him more often. Thank you

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Speaker 2: so much for calling it.

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Speaker 7: Next message people, kids, friends.

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Speaker 1: Love you, Omira. We'll talk to you later, Ashlyn. Keep

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Speaker 1: us updated. Congratulations on getting engaged. Maybe move in with

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Speaker 1: them a little bit before you guys get married. But

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Speaker 1: obviously that's all up to you, and best of luck

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Speaker 1: saving I'm in the same boat as you right now,

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Speaker 1: and it's tough. It is very, very very tough. Give

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Speaker 1: your dad a big hug, though. Okay, okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: we'll talk to you. We'll talk to you later.

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Speaker 7: J got great parents.

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Speaker 2: I do have great parents. My parents did not care

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Speaker 2: if I brought back girls through the back door.

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Speaker 1: I should say that my mom would get a little angry. Please,

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Speaker 1: let's please, can it please just be something's got to stick.

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