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Speaker 1: Justin Worsham is with us.

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Speaker 2: He is host of a dad podcast and joins us

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Speaker 2: to talk things parenting. And we've got an article here

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Speaker 2: about a retired teacher who is spilling all the tea,

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Speaker 2: as they say, five years ago about parenting mistakes that

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Speaker 2: she saw go down throughout her career.

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Speaker 1: Now, is she an a hole or what?

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Speaker 3: Just get out of the gates. Do we judge her

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Speaker 3: or do we like her?

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Speaker 2: Do go enjoy your retirement? Why are you throwing all

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Speaker 2: these parents under the bus?

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Speaker 3: Well, in her defense, her daughter, I believe, is some

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Speaker 3: producer for the Today Show, and her daughter asked her

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Speaker 3: on TikTok and she's saying that over her years and

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Speaker 3: years of teaching that she probably taught about twelve hundred

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Speaker 3: students and interacted with two thousand parents. So therefore she's

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Speaker 3: a credible source. I've seen scientific studies that have less

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Speaker 3: of a sample size than what they're talking here. And

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Speaker 3: what she says is that parents the biggest mistake that

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Speaker 3: parents make is they try to make their kids something

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Speaker 3: that they're not, and they're not accepting enough about just

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Speaker 3: who their kid is. She has this very kumbay a

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Speaker 3: message of just enjoy your kid and the person that

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Speaker 3: they are. And I mean I get it to a

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Speaker 3: certain extent. I think what she's really getting at is like,

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Speaker 3: like she uses the example, if your kid's not athletic,

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Speaker 3: don't try to make them athletics so they can get

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Speaker 3: a scholarship. Like, my sons are not academic. They're not

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Speaker 3: they like to have conversations. They aren't what you would

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Speaker 3: call smart people. Yeah, yeah, I mean, honestly, now here's

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Speaker 3: the thing I would definitely see that. I would say

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Speaker 3: that again. Their kids. So they're you know, you can't

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Speaker 3: go toe to toe with someone in their forties, but

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Speaker 3: they are street smart. But they are not book smart

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Speaker 3: because that's not what appeals to them. They are not

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Speaker 3: like so I've always kind of seen that in them.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you're probably gonna have to own your own

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Speaker 3: business because somebody else telling you what to do is

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Speaker 3: going to probably annoy you on some level, and you're

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Speaker 3: probably going to be wrong to be annoyed by that.

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Speaker 4: If I'm being honest with my kid as well.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, there's a lot of smart kids

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Speaker 2: that are just not into school exactly just the way

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Speaker 2: it is. It's the way it's always then there.

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Speaker 4: Is a problem with kids.

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Speaker 5: The kids that I know, and not all of them

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Speaker 5: are built this way, but there are a lot of

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Speaker 5: kids that don't want to try new things. Some kids

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Speaker 5: just generally don't want to try new things, and they

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Speaker 5: put themselves in a corner without knowing what's out there. Right,

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Speaker 5: I mean, as adults, we know what they're missing out on.

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Speaker 5: If they don't try sports, if they don't try music,

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Speaker 5: if they don't try whatever they're you know, whatever, you

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Speaker 5: would want them to at least dip their toe into

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Speaker 5: because they might they might find that thing that is

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Speaker 5: good for them. My daughter wasn't a huge, not super athletic,

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Speaker 5: and didn't really think that she could play volleyball because

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Speaker 5: skinny kid that she thought you had to be to

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Speaker 5: play volleyball. And played all through high school and loved

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Speaker 5: it and had a great time. But wouldn't have done

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Speaker 5: that had we not. You know, hey, stick with it,

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Speaker 5: play another year, try something else, do it again. Put

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Speaker 5: yourself out there, you know, in a situation that you

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Speaker 5: might not be you might not necessarily feel comfortable in,

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Speaker 5: but that we know that there is a potential reward

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Speaker 5: at the end of that.

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Speaker 3: You're talking to me like you have a camera in

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Speaker 3: my house right now? This is very helpful to me,

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Speaker 3: so I appreciate you. My younger son has decided I have.

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Speaker 5: Been looking through your windows, well not really on camera.

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Speaker 3: Don't see that as creepy, but invested, and I appreciate.

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Speaker 4: It, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: I wish I had more friends that would pay that

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Speaker 3: level of attention to what's going on, you know what

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Speaker 3: I mean. Don't judge people so much for being invasive.

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Speaker 3: If there's passion there, you know, be appreciati about it, right,

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Speaker 3: And that's what I am for you, Gary, because.

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Speaker 1: My son you keep your clothes on when you're out

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Speaker 1: there though.

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Speaker 3: Right irrelevant to me. I've never seen him, so it's

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Speaker 3: not like it's hurting me or my family.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 5: Neighbors had questions, but I mean, not a fan, not

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Speaker 5: a fan, not the best people.

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Speaker 1: So what's going on in the home.

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Speaker 3: So my son, younger son has decided, And I for

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Speaker 3: anybody who knows my younger son, please like keep.

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Speaker 1: This between.

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Speaker 3: How do I even be allowed to get outside?

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Speaker 4: I am so stupid? No wonder my kids aren't academics.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, he wants to play football, and I think it's

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Speaker 3: because his girlfriend's dad like played ucl for UCLA and

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Speaker 3: loves football, and her older brothers like love football.

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Speaker 2: And what a season, what a turn of events for

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Speaker 2: UCLA football.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, that's what I mean.

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Speaker 1: They fired their.

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Speaker 2: Coach and now they're winning against real big programs here right.

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Speaker 3: Good for them. I love that for them. So but

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Speaker 3: it's this thing of like I tried to make watch it.

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Speaker 3: There was when they were little they would watch the

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Speaker 3: So then there was this period of time where I

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Speaker 3: as a family. And now this guy has a cute

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Speaker 3: daughter with dimples, and it's like, well, now I want

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Speaker 3: to play. I got to get in. I love football,

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Speaker 3: I watch football. Well, I do homework now and I'm wrong.

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Speaker 4: I'm now.

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Speaker 3: You have taught me that I am wrong because in

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Speaker 3: realcity he wants to try something different. And I didn't

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Speaker 3: tell him, no, I just was trying to prepare him,

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Speaker 3: and I said things like, you haven't made it through

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Speaker 2: It's also an interesting pivot from show choir to football.

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Speaker 2: How big is this kid?

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Speaker 4: Not big? Okay, he is skin and bone like his

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Speaker 2: Well he is fifteen, fourteen fourteen, Okay, well of course

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Speaker 2: he's yeah, he's he just grew probably and now he's

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Speaker 2: got I mean, now's the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be the time to get in there.

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Speaker 3: Like lots of the parent It's funny when you own

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Speaker 3: all your parents are in show choir and they hear

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Speaker 4: They're like four kids in the entire two hundred and.

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Speaker 3: Fifty three kids that are chow choir that play football

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Speaker 4: Blah blah blah. But so my point is is that

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Speaker 3: And they were like, oh, aren't you worried about the

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Speaker 3: that's not what I'm worried about. I'm worried about that

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Speaker 3: he has this perception of what it's going to be,

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Speaker 3: three weeks and I'm going to have to be like, well,

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Speaker 1: There's that the routine, you know. I still disagree.

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Speaker 2: You get him in a show choir to hook up

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Speaker 2: with the hot girl, and then you pivot to football

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Speaker 2: to impress the father.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, love that kid.

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Speaker 3: And I think, if I'm being really, really really honest,

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Speaker 3: I think the real reason I'm having a problem with

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Speaker 4: My son is more than enough.

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Speaker 3: I really believe the kid likes him out.

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Speaker 2: Now, this is your problem with it. You try to

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Speaker 2: get him into football. He didn't listen to you, but

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: But also, my son is more than enough, and the

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Speaker 3: the record of her boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: So far of dad like signing off faster than.

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Speaker 2: Anybody can provide skills that every young person needs any team, and.

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Speaker 5: If nothing else, this is the golf rule. It's a

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Speaker 5: different sport, but it's the golf rule. You gotta know

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Speaker 5: to do it. Well, yeah, you have to know how

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Speaker 1: He's a smart kid that way.

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Speaker 5: And if you play if you play football, if you

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Speaker 4: Once you know, you know, you go far.

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Speaker 5: You know, when you you can appreciate what you're watching

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Speaker 5: on television, you can have the conversations with people when

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Speaker 5: you're watching at a bar, so you know how to

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Speaker 5: avoid the hits.

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Speaker 1: I see him as a dB. I see Jack as

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Speaker 3: I hope.

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Speaker 4: So that's what I played. Yeah, see this could be great.

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Speaker 5: Everybody has won that got away, like Amazon or Microsoft

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Speaker 5: or vertical shorts.

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Speaker 1: Don't forget bitcoin or bitcoin.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we had bitcoin. Mine was the Clorox Comedy Challenge.

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Speaker 3: That was my one that got away. I participated in

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Speaker 3: an online comedy contest like fifteen years ago or more

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Speaker 3: and it was a ten thousand dollars prize and Natalie

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Speaker 3: I need this, like at a time in your life

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Speaker 3: where ten thousand dollars is everything. And and I was like, okay,

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Speaker 3: And I guess that took me out of my performance

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Speaker 3: enough that like she won wholeheartedly. There were people who

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Speaker 3: let a dad win a cleaning chat like a challenge,

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Speaker 3: like I don't, But I don't like that. I think

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Speaker 3: I screwed it up to be I choked. I put

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Speaker 3: too much pressure on myself and messed up. Didn't just

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Speaker 3: go out and do my show and have fun.

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Speaker 4: So now you just do other online stuff for money.

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Speaker 3: Just trying to do Redemption now, thank God for only

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Speaker 3: fans to get those to grow. So many other people

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Speaker 3: are so successful on that platform, and I can't.

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Speaker 4: Get a hook, like, I can't get nothing.

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Speaker 3: I've tried discounts, I've tried everything, and nobody's buying what

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Speaker 3: I'm selling.

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Speaker 4: Foot stuff. Have you done foot stuff? Oh? So much

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Speaker 4: foot stuff? That's right?

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Speaker 3: I think I've done foot stuff that is illegal in

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Speaker 3: most countries.

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Speaker 1: It looks like I remember, they're very hairy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've waxed them nothing. Yeah for my only fans. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: oh you do you do befores and after. So that's

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Speaker 5: We talk a lot about the keeping up with the Jones'

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so they it's this, this lot of this is

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Speaker 4: I guess it's when.

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Speaker 5: I was gonna say it's a product of overpopulation period,

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Speaker 4: Of making up a struggle to have a struggle. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: It's also interesting that they said that twenty percent of

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Speaker 4: I was shocked.

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Speaker 3: In La County in California, it's fourteen percent. In the

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Speaker 4: Yes, just based on the Yeah, yeah, are we.

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Speaker 3: Really are like forgetting our elderly, Like we're just not

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait wait, I stayed at

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Speaker 1: What the hell are you telling me now they say

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Speaker 1: your part.

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Speaker 3: Nobody's say you didn't do your parting.

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Speaker 2: Grocery shopping trips I did not make to save those people.

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Speaker 3: So again, they're just I just I think it's interesting

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Speaker 3: a way of saving the population, to make it easier

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Speaker 3: this is like weird. This could be a vertical short.

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Speaker 1: Just now realize, okay, listen, I know you want to

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Speaker 3: I went back in. But then to think about it

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Speaker 3: like post apocalyptic you know what I mean? This is

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Speaker 3: like what's that justin Timberlake movie, like in time right

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Speaker 3: where they live in a world where.

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Speaker 4: They're getting time on it.

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Speaker 2: But we're not engaging another hypothetical vertical.

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Speaker 1: Shorts right now?

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, you're taking Now who's going to be sorry? Yeah? Now,

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Speaker 4: who's going to be sorry? Don't close the door on love.

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Speaker 4: I'm taking this.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, I'm taking this to conye, taking this to the

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Speaker 3: Conway Show.

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Speaker 5: He knows talent, he knows humor, playing routine.

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Speaker 3: I said that was a failure of mine. Why would

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Speaker 3: I and why would you kick me? Unless you knew

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Speaker 3: I had a good idea and now you're jealous of it.

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Speaker 3: You missed your opportunity. Welcome to the industry.

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Speaker 4: Let's cot throat, all right.

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Speaker 3: Show business isn't for everyone?

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll talk tending