1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,240 Speaker 1: Maria, Good morning. 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 2: I am I am from Portland. I have been a 3 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 2: fan for a very very long time, never been to Phoenix, 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: but we are here. I'm here with my husband for 5 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 2: his work trip, and I'm also here with my father 6 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:21,200 Speaker 2: in law and my mother in law and my father 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 2: in law my husband are at work, and it's just 8 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 2: me and my mother in law during the day, and 9 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 2: she just doesn't like me, and so I'm I'm in 10 00:00:31,040 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 2: this this different state with my mother in law who 11 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 2: doesn't like me, and I have no way to get anywhere, 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 2: she has the rental car, and I am just kind 13 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 2: of a little bit floundering. So I thought I'd ask John, 14 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 2: Jay and Rich to listen to my pity party and 15 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 2: see if maybe you guys could help me making something 16 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: to do or some way to get There's. 17 00:00:57,760 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 3: Lots of I mean, get away more, get an uber. 18 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 3: There's I mean, you're not stuck where you are for sure, 19 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 3: and there's so many fun things to do around town. 20 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 4: But is your mother in law, like, did she take 21 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 4: the car and leave without you? Like she literally doesn't 22 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 4: like you? 23 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 2: You know what? No, she didn't take the car and 24 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 2: leave without me. I just have avoided her this morning. 25 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:15,039 Speaker 1: Okay, so you don't like her. 26 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 5: Listen, wait, listen what I am conflict avoidant until conflict 27 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 5: confronts me. Okay, and then and then and then I'll 28 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 5: be fine to engage. 29 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 2: But it's my husband's mom. 30 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: I don't idea for you. 31 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:34,200 Speaker 2: I don't want to engage in conflict. But it seems 32 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:36,760 Speaker 2: like there are so many things that come up that 33 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: I just bite my tongue about, Like what well, I mean, 34 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: exes and and our kids. We have a we have 35 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 2: a blended family, and they have a high favor for 36 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: his ex wife. 37 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, so she has the car. Here's what I 38 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 6: would recommend on the get go. You want to do 39 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 6: something together so you're not bored, but a part so 40 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 6: that you're not exposed to her. There are so many 41 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:08,000 Speaker 6: great day spas where you can get a massage or 42 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 6: a facial or something like that, and you don't have 43 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 6: to do it together. You just go together, turn her 44 00:02:13,360 --> 00:02:15,920 Speaker 6: loose for a few hours, your tune turned loose for 45 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 6: a few hours. You treat her so you look like 46 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 6: the good guy, but you don't really actually have to 47 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 6: spend that much time with her. 48 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that sounds lovely, but it also sounds expensive. 49 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: Okay, what part of town are you in right now? 50 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 2: We are at Scottsdale. 51 00:02:33,600 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: What hotel are you in? Oh, you're right out by 52 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: old town Scottsdale. 53 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 2: Then I'm not sure. I've never been to Arizona, so 54 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 2: I was pretty excited to come down here. And the 55 00:02:47,480 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 2: last time we did a work trip with my husband 56 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 2: and my father in law, they had another employee and 57 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 2: her husband came and he was awesome. It was great 58 00:02:56,200 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 2: having a buddy. It was like, you know, an icebreaker 59 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:01,359 Speaker 2: type of thing. But it's it's not that way. 60 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: It's like a clock from the mall. 61 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 4: Okay, let's let's let's let's get her some help. Let's 62 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 4: help her. I'd really really like Kyle's idea of a weimo. 63 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 4: A Weaimo is awesome. 64 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: Weimo freaks me out. Have you ever been in one? 65 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 4: Yeah? Everything one twice and I think it's awesome. I 66 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 4: love it. If you order yourself a WAYMO would just 67 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 4: kind of go around like the mall. If you're at 68 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 4: the I think that is like north of the mall, 69 00:03:25,160 --> 00:03:27,399 Speaker 4: but like two blocks right, yeah, you get the mall. 70 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 4: There's a great mall right there. You can walk around. 71 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 4: I'll see the weather's great, you can walk in the 72 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 4: canal bank, get out there, take a lime a lime 73 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:35,200 Speaker 4: ride like. 74 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: I just did that on Tempe Town Lake and it 75 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: was a blast. 76 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 2: It was only like for forty minutes. 77 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: I paid fifteen dollars. 78 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 4: There's the PF change. It's a scooter scooter. They have 79 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 4: those rent right there. You just put your credit card 80 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 4: on it and you can just go. Yeah, you're walking 81 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 4: distance from a lot. 82 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 5: So fun. 83 00:03:52,720 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 2: It's really fun. I would probably try the electric scooter 84 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 2: before the weimo because then I'm the only one to 85 00:03:58,880 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 2: blame if something happens. 86 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 4: You could also you could also take your mother in 87 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 4: law to Camelback, which is a nice mountain to go hike, 88 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:08,520 Speaker 4: and the weather's great, and take your mother in law 89 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 4: there and if she can't hang, you just go all 90 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 4: the way to the top, or you can just leave it. 91 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: It's not it's it's it's one of those places where 92 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 4: sometimes people get lost and helicopter's got to rescue her. 93 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe they could rescue her. It's not that hot. 94 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 2: But Sable, I don't hate her. I love her. I 95 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 2: just we don't get along. 96 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 4: Maybe she could be like that lady that went viral 97 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 4: because it's suppuned. The helicopter spun and how long are 98 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:32,839 Speaker 4: you in town. 99 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,520 Speaker 2: For until Saturday? 100 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 5: So okay, I think right there, we just gave you 101 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 5: a bunch of stuff. 102 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: I'm dead sore. You are in a really good spot. 103 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: I would. I went to a convention at that hotel, 104 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: if you know. 105 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 6: I saw aspect that widespread who Robert Kennedy junr oh interesting? 106 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 1: I was learning about health and nutrition. That's pretty cool. 107 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 2: I love that. 108 00:04:57,520 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I know exactly where the hotel is. 109 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 3: Also, what kind of think like if is there an 110 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 3: interest that you know your mother in law has, because 111 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,600 Speaker 3: then I think you could suggest, hey, let's do that together. 112 00:05:08,160 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 3: And it's almost like a kill them with kindness type thing, 113 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 3: like you just have to show her how awesome you are, 114 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. And maybe you really haven't 115 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:19,239 Speaker 3: had that opportunity because of the sort of unspoken tension. 116 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 3: Maybe this is like your chance to break through that 117 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 3: like a bonding moment between you two. You see these 118 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 3: rom coms all the time. 119 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 1: I love that. 120 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 6: It's like it's like the plot of crazy rich Asians. 121 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 6: They like the ex better. You gotta win them over. 122 00:05:33,800 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, but let me tell you on the corner of 123 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 4: where you are. There's a whole bunch of stuff you 124 00:05:37,600 --> 00:05:40,679 Speaker 4: can do. There's great shopping, there's great malls, there's outdoor stuff, 125 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 4: there's and there's a canal. 126 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: Right there. You have everything right there. You're in a 127 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:44,719 Speaker 1: really good spot. 128 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:47,479 Speaker 2: I can see the mountains from here, and it's so 129 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 2: it's just it's so beautiful. I have I did not 130 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 2: know how just big Phoenix was. 131 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: I'm looking at the mountain too. 132 00:05:57,040 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 4: Look, we're both looking at the mountain, just like fible, 133 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 4: except you're looking at cattle Back. 134 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:03,679 Speaker 1: I'm looking at cattle back right now. 135 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,080 Speaker 2: Is that what that mountain is called. 136 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's called Camelback Mountain. The when you're looking at 137 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 4: it's a beautiful mountain. 138 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:12,359 Speaker 2: It is a beautiful mountain. Oh, I'm very excited. Okay, 139 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:13,159 Speaker 2: I take your. 140 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 1: Mom to the top of the camel take your mother 141 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: all out there. I'm Maria. Thank you for listening. Good luck. 142 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:22,599 Speaker 1: Please let us know what you did. 143 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:24,080 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. 144 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 1: Have a good day guys. Byee.