1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:00,840 Speaker 1: John Jay and Rich. 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 2: So let me tell you about the prize or giving 3 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 2: away every day this week tickets to see Mary J. 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 2: Blige live in Las Vegas. The queen of hip hop soul, 5 00:00:15,160 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 2: is setting up residency. 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: In Las Vegas. Tickets going so on. 7 00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:21,640 Speaker 2: Friday at ten am ticketmaster dot Com. But we are 8 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 2: getting you in for free every single day. We're gonna 9 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,439 Speaker 2: do it tomorrow at seven twenty, every single day at 10 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 2: seven twenty. Today this morning gets seven twenty. We're telling 11 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 2: you about what we're doing, and we're gonna give it 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 2: away in the next thirty minutes. So you'll get two 13 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: tickets to the show, you get two nights the hotel 14 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: in Las Vegas, and we'll give you a guest card 15 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 2: to get there. The way we're gonna give it away today, 16 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: it's seven twenty right now. Just know that in the 17 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,199 Speaker 2: next thirty minutes, when either one of somebody on the 18 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 2: show says the words Mary. 19 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: J, you be collar fourteen, you'd be. 20 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 2: Excited as hell, and we'll set you up with the trip, 21 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 2: all right, seven nine seven one four seven call her 22 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 2: fourteen when we say Mary J. 23 00:01:06,319 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: Okay. Nicole sent me a DM first. She called in earlier. 24 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: I picked up the phone because I said your DM. 25 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 2: And when I read the DM, I almost though it 26 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: can we take this call live on the air? And 27 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 2: then I thought, whenever I think that, I always think 28 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 2: we should. 29 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: Take it light on the air. 30 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 2: Uh yeah, Hi, Nichole, She's something happened to her this weekend. 31 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: Right, Hi? 32 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 3: Yeah? 33 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:29,680 Speaker 4: Can you hear me? Okay? 34 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: Yeah? Why are you on speakerphone? 35 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 3: No? 36 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 4: I'm just in my bathroom getting ready and I've got 37 00:01:34,240 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 4: dogs here. 38 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:35,279 Speaker 1: Okay. 39 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 4: So I once a year I go on vacation with 40 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 4: just me and my son, and we have a bunch 41 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 4: of dogs, so my husband always stays home. 42 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: He's not big. 43 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:45,560 Speaker 4: He's not big on traveling anyway. 44 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 2: So we go to Mexico. 45 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 4: And it's like a quick two day cruise. So I 46 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 4: look at trip of either and I book a horseback 47 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 4: writing thing with my friends and we get down there 48 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 4: for the tour guide to come pick us up, and 49 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:03,639 Speaker 4: the tour guy owner sees me and like immediately falls 50 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 4: in love with me. He we were with a different 51 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,080 Speaker 4: tour guide. He called the tour guide and made him 52 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 4: pull over so that he could switch and be our 53 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 4: personal tour guide. 54 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 3: For the day. 55 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 4: This guy was showing me all of his cars and 56 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 4: his houses, and we went to this like glowball area 57 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 4: and he said, I want you and your son to 58 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 4: act like my wife and kids. We got everything for free. 59 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 4: Who I went to this peanut stand and ask the person, 60 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,560 Speaker 4: you know, how much for the roast is nuts and 61 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:34,280 Speaker 4: he said fifteen dollars. I went to go pay cartailed Dad. 62 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 4: He said something to the person and we ended up. 63 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 4: He's like, I'm so sorry and started giving us all 64 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:44,360 Speaker 4: this free stuff. So I'm like feeling good about myself. 65 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 4: I get home and my husband's acting real weird. He's 66 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 4: like holding his head and I'm like, you have a headache, Like, 67 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 4: what's what's going on? And I wait a couple days 68 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 4: and I'm like, you know what, I can't shake this 69 00:02:57,160 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 4: feeling to go look in his phone. Didn't you know it? Well, 70 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 4: I was gone. My husband decided that he was gonna 71 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 4: go look up like trans and gay bars. So apparently 72 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 4: he's he's been into many this whole time. It was 73 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 4: crazy into the vacation. But now I've got cartel Daddy 74 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 4: that keeps sending me messages about selling cars, selling counterfit. 75 00:03:24,080 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 3: Wow, there's a little fun weekend that's a lot complicated. 76 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:30,520 Speaker 1: There's a lot of unpack just a twist. 77 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 2: Your husband, he was just looking stuff upward. Do you 78 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 2: have proof that he met up with anybody? 79 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 4: Well, he was looking at that stuff, and then one 80 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:41,000 Speaker 4: of this was in Google Maps, and then there was 81 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 4: another address that was like fifteen minutes from one of 82 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:48,080 Speaker 4: the gay bars. So I'm just putting two and two together. 83 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: Have you to him? Oh yeah, yeah, what did he say? 84 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 4: He denied cheating or meeting up with anybody, but he 85 00:03:57,320 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 4: had missed looking that up because he says he was 86 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 4: dumb and canfused. But yeah, no, I mean that's all 87 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 4: I needed to see. 88 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you? What about you and Cartel Daddy? 89 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 3: Is there a is there a sparkan? 90 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 4: I'm gonna gos Car ghost and Cartel Daddy? 91 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 1: I know, like f that in your husband's well because 92 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: she probably felt like a little bit more upset. 93 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 3: She probably felt a little guilty about taking all the 94 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:26,600 Speaker 3: free stuff from the guy who she clearly with him 95 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: until she came home and saw that her husband was 96 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 3: like getting his freak on and all she was doing 97 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 3: is accepting free peanuts. 98 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 4: I hope it was just for sure he was like, oh, 99 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 4: please move here, I'd love you to have this house. 100 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 1: Like love. 101 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 4: My son even was like I think he really liked 102 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 4: you all long. 103 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 2: So the conversation with your husband, are you ending your 104 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:54,799 Speaker 2: marriage or are you. 105 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, oh yeah you are yeah, oh yeah. 106 00:04:58,600 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 1: He moved out this with this just happened this weekend. 107 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 2: Uh huh yeah, Nicole, hold on, where did you get 108 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 2: home from Mexico? 109 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 4: So we got home on Wednesday and then I found 110 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 4: this on Friday. So he spent the weekend moving out. 111 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 2: So you said, you're you're looking at men. You have 112 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 2: no proof that he hooked up with men. 113 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 4: Other than the Google Google addresses and the Google maps. 114 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 4: It was just coincidentally that there was in his recent 115 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 4: There was only you know, a few addresses, and one 116 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 4: of them was to one of the gay trans bars 117 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 4: and the other one was an address to a house 118 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 4: that was near there. 119 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,799 Speaker 1: Where is this bar? I need to check this out. 120 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 4: Myself, cruising on seven? 121 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 3: Do you know it? 122 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 2: No? 123 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 4: I looked up the address and I was like, what 124 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 4: is this? And that's what it was? 125 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 1: Okay. So then you said, you said, get out, like 126 00:05:58,279 --> 00:05:58,680 Speaker 1: that's it. 127 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 2: You don't go you know this, go see a counselor 128 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 2: This marriage was like, you know, I feel like you're 129 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 2: kicking him out. 130 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 1: It's so sudden, so right, No. 131 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,960 Speaker 4: I feel like if he would have been upfront and 132 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 4: honest and like I there's in my mind you can't 133 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 4: talk past you know that those addresses were in your 134 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 4: Google maps, and it was like a half confession from him, 135 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 4: you know. And it's like if someone can stand there 136 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 4: and look you in the eyes and lie to you, 137 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 4: there's nothing there. You don't even know that person. 138 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 1: How long you guys were married? 139 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 4: Nine years? 140 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: Wow? All right, Nicole? 141 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't believe how like, just roll with it, 142 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 3: you are, well, you know what it's like. 143 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 4: I I owned the house in my own name, and 144 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 4: I owned businesses, and he was living with me for 145 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 4: like paying maybe five hundred dollars a month in this economy? 146 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:45,599 Speaker 2: What a what a dork? 147 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: All right? 148 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 2: What a story? So cartel guy has does? He could 149 00:06:56,560 --> 00:06:57,359 Speaker 2: probably confine you? 150 00:06:57,400 --> 00:06:57,839 Speaker 1: Then? Right? 151 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 4: She probably probably? But you know what I get to buy. 152 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 4: He's married too, so he's probably got a Wifey's scared of? 153 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: What a story? So you kicking out your husband? 154 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 2: You're okay, You're it's not like you're sad depressed, You're 155 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 2: just moving all your life. 156 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:16,600 Speaker 4: You know, it's waves. I go through waves, but like overall, 157 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 4: it's like I just know myself worth and I know 158 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 4: that I deserve better and I will buy better. 159 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: Did you watch it last night? 160 00:07:24,000 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 4: I did it? 161 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 3: No? 162 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: What did you do last night? 163 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 4: I stress cleaned my house? 164 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 1: Okay, at she had to get rid of the final piece. Yeah, 165 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: i's got to control that. 166 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 4: Space back. 167 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 1: Your husband was gay? Will your house be clean already? Interesting? 168 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,480 Speaker 4: You know, I don't think he's that kind of gay. 169 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,120 Speaker 1: No, what kind of cars you drive? 170 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 4: Yeah? So the definitely a plot twist. 171 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: All right, thanks the coal I take it. Have a 172 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 1: great data Cole, Thank you so much for calling in 173 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:00,320 Speaker 1: you too, well. I don't even know how to. That's 174 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:03,960 Speaker 1: like so much to handle for just over the weekend. 175 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: She's got a great outlook on life though, like she 176 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 1: does seem very grounded.