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Speaker 2: And this is the big bulls dove snoopy decle, double

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Speaker 4: And in the place to be and you're listening to

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Speaker 5: Yours, John Jay and Rich our phone number eight seven

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Speaker 2: There's a text here.

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Speaker 5: When you guys were talking about Amazon scaring you showing

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Speaker 5: up at four am. I laughed so much because I

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Speaker 2: I started at four am and listen to you guys

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Speaker 3: That's funny.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what happened. I was.

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Speaker 5: It was four o'clock in the morning and two different

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Speaker 5: to hell of me. Man does speak it of I

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Speaker 5: got to you know, we've done the stupid reason to

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Speaker 2: I think I'm irritable.

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Speaker 5: But I've already I've already told this story in my

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Speaker 4: This is what I d have diagnosed you from the

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Speaker 4: very beginning of your perceived confrontation.

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Speaker 1: Let's see if it actually happens the way you played

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Speaker 1: it out in your and I'm gonna.

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Speaker 5: Let me right, I'm gonna write down my response. Okay,

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Speaker 1: All right, because you know what we're gonna say to you. Okay,

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Speaker 3: Which is usually how it goes.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I've written down my response to the back of

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Speaker 2: You the story. Huh.

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Speaker 5: I read it, okay, because I know I don't have

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Speaker 2: With you guys, I yelled this out loud to you guys.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So here's the deal, little backstory. In my garage,

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Speaker 5: I have a recycled bin, the normal trash can, and

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Speaker 5: He thought it was funny, and he put a giant

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Speaker 5: I've taken soda cans out of the normal trash can

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Speaker 5: Well, we come home and I see her taking a

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Speaker 5: No, I could do it. I'm like, come on, man, right,

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Speaker 5: And her and I now are not talking. We're pasting

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Speaker 5: And I've heard this phrase before, but I had to

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Speaker 4: And your wife is like, yes, he said he could

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Speaker 2: So is that it. That's the end of that. That's

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Speaker 2: Then we're eating dinner and then she's like, you're so

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Speaker 1: So I feel like you said you were under the

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Speaker 2: That's why I didn't really know the name. Yeah, like

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 1: She was trying to help.

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Speaker 2: She was doing it like she's frustrating. It's frustrated.

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Speaker 5: It's been five days and no one's taking off the trash.

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Speaker 2: We've talked about. And he listens and he's gonna send

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Speaker 5: And I was like, well, you're a guest at her house, Bake,

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Speaker 2: That's why I feel like Sam does not own the house.

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, yeah, that's kind of annoying.

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Speaker 5: of town right now, she's gone, where's she trying to?

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Speaker 5: Jake should have taken out the trash? He's right, right, right, Okay,

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Speaker 5: here's what I wrote down to the piece of paper.

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Speaker 5: Why can't you guys ever be on my side?

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Speaker 3: Why on my side?

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Speaker 5: You would have done is there's two different there's two

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Speaker 5: the handyman collecting trash cans in my garage's and those

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Speaker 5: two different things. Like I don't like, I don't think

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Speaker 5: anybody else would say, sure, collect somebode else's trash in

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Speaker 5: I cannot process because he collects them I don't know,

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Speaker 5: and and Blake's like, just let him. And it's like

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Speaker 5: to me, I think, no, that's that's taking. That's trash.

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Speaker 5: It's a big big thing of trash in my gage.

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Speaker 4: Turn aluminum up.

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Speaker 3: Does a can you tournament for money?

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Speaker 3: cross country.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, that's my story. That's it. We're out of time,

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Speaker 5: that's it. Anyway, the trash can's gone.

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Speaker 3: The team make Jake take out of the.

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Speaker 5: Trash we have just like Jake's probably Team Peyton. Do

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Speaker 5: what your grandma says, and guess.

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Speaker 3: What I do every time my grandma asked me, I

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Speaker 3: do it immediately.

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Speaker 2: Good. All right, it's geid Ja and Rich