WEBVTT - He Still Hasn't Noticed

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it is Mojo in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Phone number is eight four to four Mojo Live eight

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<v Speaker 2>four four six six five six five four eight. The

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<v Speaker 2>text is nine five five zero zero. All right, here's

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<v Speaker 2>a question for you. I have a friend of mine

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<v Speaker 2>who is kind of an idiot. My friend, my friend's wife,

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<v Speaker 2>beautiful lady, went from being blonde to a redhead, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>And it took him two days to notice that she

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<v Speaker 2>did this thing. And I want to know, by the way,

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<v Speaker 2>he totally affed up by this one, too, like to

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<v Speaker 2>not do that, Like that's the dumbest thing ever that

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<v Speaker 2>you don't notice it right away. I wanted to ask

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<v Speaker 2>the question, how long until your significant other notice something

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<v Speaker 2>totally changed on you, like you did you did something

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<v Speaker 2>that totally changed, because two days to notice that you're gone,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, from blonde to you know, being blonde to

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<v Speaker 2>a redhead is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Was she strawberry blonde?

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<v Speaker 2>It was?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh, it was yeah, it's no matter, no matter.

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<v Speaker 2>And the funny thing was the first time that I

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<v Speaker 2>saw her, and I just saw her recently. First time

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<v Speaker 2>I saw her, I said, oh my god, I love

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<v Speaker 2>your hair, and she looked at him right away, and

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<v Speaker 2>I feel bad because of I've had moments where I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't notice that Chelsea got her hair cut, but I

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<v Speaker 2>usually have noticed when she is done and I and

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<v Speaker 2>I will say this, this is something for you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>If you got a girl and you're not the most

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<v Speaker 2>I guess in tune to her type thing, ask her

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<v Speaker 2>what she's doing all week. Sometimes I'll ask, hey, what

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<v Speaker 2>is that going on this week? And Chelsea will tell

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<v Speaker 2>me like something like I'm getting my hair done on Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>You know I'm going to get lashes or you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like like I'll ask that. So what I do then

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<v Speaker 2>is mentally I kind of go so smart Tuesday, I

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<v Speaker 2>gotta go, hey, those are great lashes.

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<v Speaker 1>So smart I don't realize that. You know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you got have to do that. That's genius. Well it's

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<v Speaker 1>because I've been so dumb.

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<v Speaker 3>That's literally I hope somebody take a notes right now

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<v Speaker 3>because that is genus.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you agree? I fully agree? Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>This is by the way, this is less than one

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<v Speaker 2>on one and not to be an a whole husband,

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<v Speaker 2>that is the smartest thing you've ever said that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I'm amazed. I'll take it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how long, what's the what's the longest that a

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<v Speaker 2>guy can take before he says, oh, your hair looks

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<v Speaker 2>great or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>After you change your hair, do you got immediate like

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<v Speaker 1>I feel with you? Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Kevin's like the most in tune, like when Lydia walked

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<v Speaker 2>in was it last week and he goes keV goes, man,

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<v Speaker 2>your hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Looks good or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I've also messed up with Lydia before, and this is

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<v Speaker 3>back when we were in Farmington and I hit her

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<v Speaker 3>with it, did you change her hair?

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, yeah, week ago. It looks good to have

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<v Speaker 1>notice his nails too right away? I do.

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<v Speaker 2>You are very noticeable when it comes to I do. Yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Eight four four Mojo Live. What's up, Dana? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 4>I am driving back from doing to Walmart's part.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh are you really? What's that? What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You're doing a Walmart for Walmart?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, and what so and so you're delivering somebody's

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<v Speaker 2>groceries or somebody's shopping at Walmart right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Correct.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm a college student, so it's the only thing that

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<v Speaker 4>works with my schedule and my children's schedule, so it works.

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<v Speaker 1>Out very cool. Love.

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<v Speaker 2>How long should it take for your guy to notice

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<v Speaker 2>that you changed your hair.

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<v Speaker 4>My husband is colorblind, and he notices anything that I

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<v Speaker 4>do right away, so I don't think that it should

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<v Speaker 4>take falling at all.

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<v Speaker 1>How does he notice if he's blind color blind?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't know. It's just a different color.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know how he sees color because he doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>be red or green. So he got like a double

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<v Speaker 4>whammy with it. But I don't know somehow, you know, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Just got my friend in even more trouble because she's

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<v Speaker 2>listening right now and she's going, man, Mojo brought this

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<v Speaker 2>up on the air, and a lady who's got a

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<v Speaker 2>color blinds notice that. I do know that's kind of crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>I think mine was. I had sisters too, so with

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<v Speaker 2>having three sisters you kind of notice certain things. But

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<v Speaker 2>I will also say on this show, there are so

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<v Speaker 2>many women that have different kinds of.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you know, looks okay.

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<v Speaker 2>And there are sometimes where you guys will do you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you kind of change things up a little bit, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>So Channing's just words a hat all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>So I kind of forever I feel like you just

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<v Speaker 3>got your hair done, like last week, or something chant

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<v Speaker 3>and I asked you, I hear not.

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<v Speaker 6>But I said, I think I'm gonna chop it. So

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<v Speaker 6>I'm preparing. I'm for hearing how I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I always get the itch to do like

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<v Speaker 1>a chin. Why is that? Why are you thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>doing it? What do you got going? Nothing?

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<v Speaker 6>Is just like it's just like I like my hair

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<v Speaker 6>shorter better than I do when it's a little longer.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what are you waiting for?

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<v Speaker 4>Man?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, Lucy tells me I'm going to look ugly my daughter.

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<v Speaker 6>So it's like just trying to get the bottom.

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<v Speaker 5>I know I'm going to get my hair cut today.

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<v Speaker 5>You are, so you all better say something.

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<v Speaker 1>How short is it going to be? I don't know yet.

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<v Speaker 5>I just kind of go in there and say, like,

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<v Speaker 5>do what you think would look best.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're just getting to know you, so I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I have no clue. I've not deep dived on your

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<v Speaker 2>your hair color and stuff. Is that your natural color?

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<v Speaker 1>It is not.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a natural blonde.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop it and you're serious?

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<v Speaker 5>I am to show you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>So you do the opposite, Then tell me what what

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<v Speaker 2>was the reasoning? What was when it happened?

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<v Speaker 5>I used to get told I looked like my sister

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<v Speaker 5>a lot. So I swear in eighth grade, I died

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<v Speaker 5>it black and black, and like, once you go black,

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<v Speaker 5>it's very hard.

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<v Speaker 1>To get back to blonde. Yeah, it the other way.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew you want to be to say that, what's

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<v Speaker 1>going on? Ami?

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>A great? What's happening?

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<v Speaker 7>I just thought that your perfect husband.

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<v Speaker 4>Indvice, there is proof that you're a better husband to

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<v Speaker 4>Chelsea than Kevin is.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know what, I'm married. Yeah, well I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>sign a piece, so you know that is true?

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<v Speaker 2>Though, No, no, although Kevin gets better marks with Chelsea

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<v Speaker 2>because he listens more when they're sitting there at lunches,

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<v Speaker 2>and he doesn't get on his phone. So if you

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<v Speaker 2>were to ask her, she would tell tell me the

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<v Speaker 2>exact opposite.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you're prepared, though you're prepared, Mojo.

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<v Speaker 1>I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you has your guy ever not noticed when you've

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<v Speaker 2>done a change to your hair?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's got he's got some uh, some special circumstances.

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<v Speaker 7>Though he's neurotypical, so neuro divergent. So so we got.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I am too. What is neurodiversion? What does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean? On the spectrum.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh listen, I am definitely neurodivergent. I'm gonna tell Chilly.

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<v Speaker 4>Now everybody is in somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sorry. Please don't say that to me. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>neuro divergent. What's up, Celia High.

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<v Speaker 7>Hi, good morning. I cut five inches off my hair

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<v Speaker 7>And after I did that, I went to him and

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<v Speaker 7>I was talking to him and I'm flipping it around

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<v Speaker 7>and he didn't notice for a week.

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<v Speaker 1>Wownd did you?

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<v Speaker 6>Then you start keeping track, You're like, this is going

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<v Speaker 6>to be a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Game I'm going to play. I did.

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<v Speaker 7>I did, And yeah, it was a week.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that bother you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? Does that make you think that he's not like

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<v Speaker 2>there for you? Because I always worry that that's the case.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think we're just so busy with our daily

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<v Speaker 2>routines we don't notice stuff like we're comfortable. Is comfortable

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<v Speaker 2>bad in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 1>I think? I think so?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is absolutely like I think I want comfortability

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<v Speaker 2>when the world's full of chaos, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>But I mean five inches that was a drastic change.

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<v Speaker 2>How about this? Did you tell him that his is

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<v Speaker 2>five inches shorter?

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<v Speaker 7>Because I wouldn't know it's been That's another story. He

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<v Speaker 7>needs to give me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's nero divergent hold on. Jazz says that she

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<v Speaker 1>wants to date cav Why is.

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<v Speaker 8>That I'm a Scorpio woman and he pays attention to

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<v Speaker 8>very small details and that's really all we care about.

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<v Speaker 1>A team player. Chelsea says this about Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea should be Kevin's dating app, you know, like she

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<v Speaker 2>should be on there.

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<v Speaker 7>Men.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Chelsea says that he is so good at hearing certain things,

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<v Speaker 2>little small things that that he picks up on it

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<v Speaker 2>already you say that, say it again. I couldn't understand

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<v Speaker 2>what you said.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm in the car.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, yes, Like the.

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<v Speaker 3>First thing we're doing, Jazz, is we're gonna get your

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<v Speaker 3>new phone, so the wireless I got you.

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<v Speaker 2>She's she's got one of those uh those pay as

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<v Speaker 2>you don my phone.

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<v Speaker 8>So we're actually on my tablet today, Jazz. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 8>gonna make it work.

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe I'm gonna make it work.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Jazz, we love you. We'll talk to you later, Okay, alright, bye,