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Speaker 2: We Are the Joe Show.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately caught another cheater with war the Roses Now started

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Speaker 1: with an electric toothbrush. Things got weird and you can

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Speaker 1: listen to everything up on our free iHeartRadio app. This

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Speaker 1: was a man who didn't have to have a job.

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Speaker 1: His wife completely took care of him. We'll see what happens,

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Speaker 1: you know, in the coming weeks, months, and year. The

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Speaker 1: guy didn't have a kid's nothing going on. He just

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Speaker 1: got to stay home, didn't have to do anything, all right,

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Speaker 1: And in no way do I want this to come

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Speaker 1: across like we are bashing anyone who doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: have a job, because once again, and I genuinely mean this,

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Speaker 1: I'm not trying to panderr I come from a household

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Speaker 1: where my mom was blessed enough to not have to

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Speaker 1: three boys who were getting suspended and doing a lot

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Speaker 1: of bad things and having to like, she never missed

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Speaker 1: any of our games. She was always there for us,

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Speaker 1: always there. Yeah, this guy's kind of the opposite. The

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Speaker 1: guy ain't got to do nothing, but he's cheating and

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Speaker 1: that to me, it just doesn't I can't comprehend that, Brittany.

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Speaker 1: For five years, you were with a man who you

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Speaker 1: supported financially. Yes, for five years you were with a

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Speaker 1: man who had you do everything you could to take

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Speaker 1: care of two people, and for five years he was

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Speaker 2: Yes, how did you catch him?

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Speaker 3: Well, we shared a phone because I wish I could

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Speaker 3: have supported us enough to have everything like that, and

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Speaker 3: so I would get his Facebook messages sent to my phone.

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Speaker 4: And I went on.

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Speaker 3: A vacation.

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Speaker 4: A family member passed away, so I went out of state,

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Speaker 4: and he just started, you know, using our computer, and

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Speaker 4: I happened to get one of the messages and seeing

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Speaker 4: it that he had been talking to this girl for

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Speaker 4: you know, years, years and planning leading me after he

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Speaker 4: saved up so much of the money that I worked

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Speaker 4: to earn, and I came back from my vacation, i'll

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Speaker 4: call it, and confronted him about it.

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Speaker 1: It was, by the way, if someone just turned on

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Speaker 1: the radio about twenty seconds ago, you said that it was,

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Speaker 1: you know, putting it as a vacation and the case

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Speaker 1: you were at a funeral for a family member. He's disabled.

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Speaker 1: That's what he kept telling you that's why he couldn't work.

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Speaker 1: So you're struggling to take care of yourself. Now you

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Speaker 1: got to take care of him. You're paying for everything.

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Speaker 1: You can't even afford two phones, heating, he.

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Speaker 4: Cheated, and I even moved his mother fell into hard times.

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Speaker 4: I moved his mother and his two siblings in with

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Speaker 4: me across the country.

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Speaker 2: Girl and yes, his parents, his.

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Speaker 4: Mom and two siblings were living with me at the

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Speaker 4: time that we found this out.

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Speaker 2: Everybody gotta go, well, check this out. So brittany one

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Speaker 2: last thing.

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Speaker 1: Now you say, you take this guy in, you're dating him,

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Speaker 1: he doesn't have a job. He tells you he's disabled.

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Speaker 1: You have to take care of him. You have to

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Speaker 1: He then moves his family in. You're taking care of

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Speaker 1: all of them. He cheats on you. The relationship's done,

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Speaker 1: You leave him. You find out later that he has

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Speaker 4: Well, he got two jobs right after we split up,

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Speaker 4: so the whole time he could have worked and he

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Speaker 2: How good is life now though, that you don't have

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Speaker 2: to be with someone like that.

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Speaker 4: Oh it's great. My husband is the breadwinner and I've

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Speaker 4: got we got six kids.

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Speaker 1: Now, damn, I like, I love it, Brittany, who's your

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Speaker 1: least favorite because I know you have.

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Speaker 4: One, my lazy one.

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Speaker 1: All right, Brittany, thank you for sharing your story. Yes,

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Speaker 1: genuine believer that every time someone does this, it does

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Speaker 1: help out anyone who's going through what you are going through.

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Speaker 1: So Brittany, we we love you, we appreciate you, and

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Speaker 1: I am very sorry that you had to go through

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Speaker 2: Nicole.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you were paining your baby daddy's rent. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: had to stop pain. You couldn't even afford diapers at

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I had to tell him that, like, we couldn't because

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Speaker 6: every time him and I would hang out and we

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Speaker 6: told him, I'm like, we cannot hang out like until

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Speaker 6: get my daughter from diapers. And he called me a

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Speaker 6: gold digger and I was like, no, I.

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Speaker 4: Broke up with him.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, Nicole, so sorry that So wait, did he cheat?

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Speaker 6: No, that was the thing. He didn't cheat, or at

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Speaker 1: But okay, all right, yeah, wow, I'm sorry that he

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Speaker 1: said that. Listen Nicole, ippreciate you calling in well, last one.

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Speaker 2: I should have gotten to her first. Rachel.

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Speaker 1: Okay, because so, Rachel, you are here to say that

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Speaker 1: you were the cheater. Yes, and you were. You are

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Speaker 1: a state home mom. You were a stay at home mom,

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Speaker 1: and I was.

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Speaker 5: Back then, Okay, And it was his idea for me

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Speaker 5: to be a stay at home mom. But every chance

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Speaker 5: he got, it like got he was thrown in my face.

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Speaker 5: But I didn't work, and I didn't help, and I cooked,

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Speaker 5: in order to save that money from daycare and so

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Speaker 5: someone else. But he would any chance he got, he

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Speaker 5: get none, he'd throw it in my face. He made

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Speaker 5: me feel so unappreciated that I did. I cheated one

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Speaker 5: time because I just wanted to feel like I was appreciated,

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Speaker 5: and I just wanted to feel something because I was

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Speaker 2: Were you caught?

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Speaker 5: No, you are now ever bold We're not even together anymore.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So this is a good situation.

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Speaker 5: No, no one knows. My best friend, doesn'tyone else?

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Speaker 7: Well, no, Tampa Bays.

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Speaker 2: Wow, what does that feel like? How long ago did

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Speaker 5: Like ten years ago?

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Speaker 1: Ten years ago you cheated on your husband, and ten

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Speaker 1: years later you just admitted it to the Joe Show

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Speaker 1: and all of Tampa Bay that that happened. You said

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Speaker 5: You just yeah, I feel a little better because I

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Speaker 5: always felt guilty and I don't know why, because.

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Speaker 2: Well, you cheated. I think that's probably why. It's why.

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Speaker 2: Well it's not okay, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but with everything that he was doing. I mean, obviously,

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Speaker 1: and we're not here to say it's okay to cheat,

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Speaker 1: it's definitely not.

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Speaker 2: But the things that led you to do that, I.

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Speaker 5: Mean I couldn't even go and do anything without having

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Speaker 5: the AF permission like he was going.

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Speaker 7: I don't stand for teating, but if I got to

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Speaker 7: ask you permission to do this and do that, oh baby,

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Speaker 7: And you're not making me feel wanted or you just

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Speaker 7: don't appreciate me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm my step.

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Speaker 5: Out And I worked full time the whole time I

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Speaker 5: was pregnant up until I had her, like worked full time.

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Speaker 5: Everything else it was his like him pushing me, no,

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Speaker 5: let's not pay for daycare, you stay home, Like I

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Speaker 5: didn't even want to stay home.

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Speaker 3: Like, I like the work.

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Speaker 5: I enjoyed it because I got to spend quality time

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Speaker 7: But are you with the guy that you cheated on

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Speaker 5: Okay, that was literally like some rands like it was.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't anything meaningful. Does that make sense.

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Speaker 7: When I say, yeah, okay, I had no idea it

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Speaker 2: Who is It was.

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Speaker 5: Just like on one of those like it wasn't tender

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Speaker 3: Whatever.

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Speaker 5: It was like plenty of fish or something. I hadn't

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Speaker 4: I was done.

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Speaker 5: I just deleted the app. I was like, okay, I

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Speaker 5: got my I just I got what I needed.

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Speaker 2: Problem, where did you go?

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Speaker 4: Oh god?

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Speaker 5: I mean it wasn't nothing fancy. I met him at

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Speaker 5: a bar and we went back to his house, and

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Speaker 5: then I had to go home because I had a baby.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, unreal.

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Speaker 1: And when you walk through your your front door and

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Speaker 1: what's going through your head?

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: No, you're good? Hey, I mean listen, that's how you,

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Speaker 1: uh you felt?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: Uh wow, Rachel. I appreciate you being so honest and

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Speaker 1: sharing your story.

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Speaker 7: You know, I love talking to teeters, catching them get

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Speaker 7: in their head.

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Speaker 5: Sure, it's my only time I've ever done that, because

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Speaker 5: that's not my that's not my style, that's not my

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Speaker 3: Appreciate it.

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Speaker 7: You ain't got no reason to cheat.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And I didn't even throw it in his face,

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Speaker 5: like I caught him like a couple of years later

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Speaker 5: cheating on me, and I was just like, okay, we're done. Like,

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Speaker 5: but I never I could have thrown it in his face.

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Speaker 4: I could have.

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Speaker 5: That's just not me.

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Speaker 4: That's not my.

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Speaker 2: Back. Rachel.

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Speaker 7: Thank you for calling him, Yes, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Falling more often? I want to hear more. I thought

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Speaker 2: some good stories. Yeah, no kidding, Like I want to

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Speaker 2: know where the bar was? Yeah, what you're doing? Type

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Speaker 2: of car he drove?

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Speaker 7: What made you want to do it with him? And

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Speaker 7: that guy has no clue either.

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Speaker 2: It was his brother. That was funny. It was really

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Speaker 2: fun you're saying, I'm funny. That was funny. Thank you

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Speaker 2: that one time.

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Speaker 1: got a special announcement, and then we'll get in to

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Speaker 1: find the floor tom in. There's a lot on the way.

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Speaker 1: We're still rolling non stop. What's up with the news?

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Speaker 7: Ash, you know it's not funny all that rang yesterday,

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Speaker 7: and we're gonna talk about why the people of South

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Speaker 7: Tampa are kind of freaking out. Also will dig deep

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Speaker 7: into the ongoing legal battle between it Blake Lively and

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Speaker 7: the director of the movie. It ends with us justin

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Speaker 1: Just in case there is a little bit more of

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Speaker 1: that with the whole dump button. Give me three seconds