WEBVTT - 8am Hour - Preheat The Oven 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.600 Yeah, it's gold. It's the monster rash on Katie. All right, 0:00:04.680 --> 0:00:05.960 we had a lot of stuff coming up on the show. 0:00:06.000 --> 0:00:07.680 We have more boo bashed tickets, worry coming up, so 0:00:07.760 --> 0:00:10.920 bring a carpenter keyword coming up in a few minutes. 0:00:12.000 --> 0:00:14.720 Somebody just said that the Target layoff emails went out 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:17.520 at seven am. But then they also said that the 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.000 layoffs don't start until nine. So I guess if you 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:21.919 get laid off at seven, you got to work until nine. 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:23.920 Oh geez, I'm just trying to bring a little smile 0:00:24.000 --> 0:00:24.799 in your face here. 0:00:24.720 --> 0:00:25.560 And confuses it. 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:28.360 Get the email that says, hey, you'll know at nine, 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.720 that's what's confusing to me, is like, isn't the seven 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:31.480 am email? 0:00:32.000 --> 0:00:33.159 I I just hate to hear that. 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:35.320 There's so many people who listen that work at Target, 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:38.239 and that's such a life jolting sort of a thing. 0:00:38.400 --> 0:00:42.240 So but everything will be okay, It always is, yeah, 0:00:42.280 --> 0:00:44.880 am I right? Yeah, we worry, worry, worry, but everything 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:45.520 will be okay. 0:00:45.640 --> 0:00:47.120 Yeah, No, it'll be fine. 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:52.800 What is your town famous for? Where are you from? 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:56.160 What's your town famous for? We do have one from 0:00:56.240 --> 0:01:00.200 and over home of Bailey j Has that's me, so 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:03.080 use the top back feature, and let us know what 0:01:03.080 --> 0:01:04.720 your hometown is famous for. We got some phone calls 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:06.520 to We're gonna get to these first. Here my phone 0:01:06.520 --> 0:01:08.720 screener is not working, so tell me what is your name? 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:10.840 Hi? 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:12.920 Yeah? You yeah? 0:01:12.400 --> 0:01:14.200 Oh yeah, Tiana, Tiana? 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.360 What is your what's your hometown? What's your famous for? 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:20.000 Ohatana and we're famous for Owl City. 0:01:20.080 --> 0:01:26.360 Adam Young Yeah, yes, the Firefly saw. Yeah. Do you 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:28.440 ever run into him down to the quick trip anything 0:01:28.480 --> 0:01:28.720 like that? 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:29.959 Uh? 0:01:30.040 --> 0:01:31.880 I've ran into him out of Applebee's before. 0:01:32.360 --> 0:01:34.200 He's pretty well known. I think he got his dad 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:36.039 a nice fancy car, so everyone. 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:37.319 Knows his dad's car when he's driving. 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:42.160 Thank you, KDWB High. What's your name? 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:44.200 He's still in the same line. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:46.560 Let's try this one. 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:46.800 Hi. 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:47.720 What's your name? 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:50.040 Max? 0:01:50.400 --> 0:01:53.160 Max? Where are you from? What is your hometown famous for? 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:55.000 From Minneapolis? 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:56.640 And we're famous We invented the chair. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:59.760 The chair We did not you're making this out. The 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:02.520 chair was invented a long time ago in like Greece 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:05.240 or somewhere where. Did you hear this, Max? Well, it's 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:08.560 true because no one sat down before we invented the 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:14.920 chair here. No one sat down, you know, Jenny. Jenny 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:17.720 is gullible. Jenny is gullible, and Jenny's looking at me 0:02:17.800 --> 0:02:18.160 like wow. 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:19.919 I didn't know that I was going to say a 0:02:19.960 --> 0:02:23.040 specific kind of chair. I obviously understand that a chair 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:25.440 was developed back in the I don't. 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:26.760 Know, so you're telling me Max. 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:30.639 Then nobody sat down until the chair was invented in Minneapolis. 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:35.720 What year was that? Eighteen thirty six? Nobody sat down 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:37.639 and then somebody said, hey, look, have a seat. What 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:44.160 to get off by? Fuck Max? Because the ped was 0:02:44.240 --> 0:02:45.519 created a few years before. 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:49.040 But they learned that if you're sitting in the upward position, 0:02:49.120 --> 0:02:51.639 you can actually sleep better, so later they switched back 0:02:51.680 --> 0:02:54.840 to the bad Okay, goodbye, Okay, goodbye Max. 0:02:58.000 --> 0:02:59.840 KTWB. Hi, what's your name? 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:02.400 Courtney? 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.959 Courtney? Where are you from? What is it famous for? 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:09.560 I am Fremius. I'm not famous from Casper, Wyoming, and 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:12.480 we're famous for the Platte River and the Oregon Trail. 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:15.799 They started fly fishing. It's start and go get their 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:20.400 food and fish, and there's a bunch of historic history there. 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:23.880 I have been out there. You ever heard of Independence 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:24.720 Rock before? 0:03:25.320 --> 0:03:25.519 Oh? 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:27.640 Yeah, you hear that. It's hollow. 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:30.880 Now it's not hollow. You're making this up. Why are 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:31.840 you saying it's hollow? 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:36.160 So well, they came, they did the three D printer 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:39.640 scanner thing, and they found stuff inside of there, they say, 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:41.280 at least the. 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:46.720 First chair there. From Minneapolis, Casper, Wyoming. Thank you appreciate that. 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.000 A bunch of talkbacks to a bunch of talkbacks. Let's 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:50.920 do this. Where are you're from? What is your town 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:53.840 famous for? I'm from chan Happening home of Prince and 0:03:53.920 --> 0:03:56.600 Paisley Park. Yeah, boom boom, okay, a bunch of talkbacks. 0:03:56.640 --> 0:03:57.119 You got them. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:58.400 Jennifer from Saint Paul. 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:02.040 We're famous for the Minute the Wild and Mickey's Diner. 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:04.760 Oh I heard Mickey's Diner is so good. Still haven't been. 0:04:04.840 --> 0:04:06.000 It's cool, He's cool. 0:04:06.440 --> 0:04:07.360 Here's another one. 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:11.080 This is Kimmy from Moundsville. We're famous for the Mermaid. 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:14.440 Fun fact, the mermaid was removed a few years ago 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:17.760 and then put back at the building, all restored and 0:04:17.839 --> 0:04:20.080 looking so fancy. 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:24.360 Another talk back. 0:04:25.880 --> 0:04:29.400 My name is Shauna from Asco, Minnesota, and we are 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:31.720 known for our Rudebega Festival. 0:04:33.080 --> 0:04:35.200 I would go Have you ever had a Rudebaka day? 0:04:35.960 --> 0:04:36.120 Oh? 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:37.240 They're delicious. 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:38.839 Vegetable. Right, yes it is. 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:39.920 It's a roote egetable. 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:42.800 Gotcha? What's your what is your name? And what is 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:43.840 your town famous for? 0:04:47.040 --> 0:04:47.360 Hello? 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:50.400 Hello, all right, let's get that one. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:51.360 Let's get that one. 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:53.920 Hi. 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:54.839 My name is Rachel. 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:59.000 I'm from Blaine, Minnesota, famously known for having thousands of 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:02.359 the exact same house, so a very much created place 0:05:02.440 --> 0:05:06.920 to live. Also, Cornapis does get some crap. However, the 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:10.160 kru Naples Dam is pretty dang great, so give it 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:10.760 some credit. 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:14.680 It is okay for sure? Where are you from? What 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:15.640 you're town famous for? 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:20.440 My name is Amanda and I am from Rollsville, Minnesota, 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:24.640 which is home to the first Barnes and Noble outside 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:28.720 of New York City, the first Target store in the country, 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.320 and the first dairy queen in Minnesota. 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.440 Oh wow, who knew? 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:35.200 Well that's fascinating. 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:37.080 The first Target store in the country. 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:38.880 I guess. So wow, that makes sense. 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:39.640 I like this one. 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:44.760 It's random. I'm from Crazy, Minnesota, home of the world's lardest. 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:47.840 Turkey and the only bridge over bridge over water, so. 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:50.800 A plane, a train, a car in a boat can 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:52.120 all pass the same time. 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:55.040 A bridge, a bridge over. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:57.000 A bridge over a bridge over water. 0:05:57.240 --> 0:05:59.880 Wow, yeah, that sounds kind of fine. 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:01.360 Crazy. 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:06.400 With basically every hometown is famous for something. 0:06:06.680 --> 0:06:08.760 Googled Saint Louis Parcas. That's where I currently live, and 0:06:08.800 --> 0:06:11.760 I had no idea. It's the birthplace of the Cohen Brothers. Yeah, 0:06:11.760 --> 0:06:15.000 which is the Yeah, yeah, I know that some talk message. 0:06:15.200 --> 0:06:17.719 This person says, I'm from Savage, Minnesota, which is known 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:21.120 for being a location after Pearl Harbor for language school, 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:24.440 specifically for the Japanese language during World War. 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:26.880 Kidding, that's so neat, Okay, cool. 0:06:27.080 --> 0:06:30.560 Wow, here's one from Longville, Minnesota, the turtle race capital 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:32.200 of the world. They raise turtles in the middle of 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:37.680 Main Race turtles every Wednesday all summer long. Okay, I 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:40.159 like this one. I'm Amanda from luck Wisconsin. We're famous 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:43.719 for the creation of the Duncan Yo Yo, which is 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:45.200 like the premiere brand. 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:47.360 And Toyo Yo Yo. That's crazy. All right, we got 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:47.760 to wrap up. 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:50.040 We got other things wait to take care of, including 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.400 your Sabrina Carpenter keyword, which I'm gonna give you in 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:56.880 just a couple of seconds. Boo Bash is coming up 0:06:56.920 --> 0:07:00.400 on Thursday night. If you're going to Boo Bash, I 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:03.880 just won't let you know. We're gonna start the costume contest. 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.120 The first one is at seven thirty. That'll probably be 0:07:06.160 --> 0:07:08.200 should we save sexiest for the last one or what 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:11.000 do you think? I don't know, best overall should be last, 0:07:11.000 --> 0:07:14.040 best overall last? Okay, So we'll probably do duo or 0:07:14.080 --> 0:07:16.200 group for the first one at seven thirty, so be there. 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.480 Then we'll probably do it at eight o'clock we'll do sexiest, 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:20.400 and then about eight thirty will do the final one 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:23.720 for most creative overall one thousand dollars. It's gonna be 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:26.360 at Mystic Lake, at the Hop House at Mystic Lake. 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:30.240 So we get there round six, and the funny thing 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.120 is we get there round six and everybody shows up 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:32.760 a little bit late. 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:34.560 So we walk in and we go, hello. 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:36.120 Hello, Hello, anyone here? 0:07:36.160 --> 0:07:39.160 Hello, Oh, there's Bailey, And we're the only ones there 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:40.880 for the first half hour, and then you go, nobody's 0:07:40.880 --> 0:07:42.880 gonna show up for our party. But then pretty soon 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:45.360 it's packed. We got a DJ psychic Gary Spivey is 0:07:45.360 --> 0:07:48.640 going to be there. Tammy the Tarot card Reader. She 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:51.120 is online at if you want to find her online, 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.560 she has a website. It is a hold on second 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:58.160 amad medium correct dot com. 0:07:58.600 --> 0:07:59.600 We'll give away those tickets. 0:07:59.600 --> 0:08:03.840 Coming up a little bit on KDWB right now, though, 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:07.160 here is your Sabrina Carpenter keyword. Let's take a strip 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:10.040 before to win a trip to Los Angeles to see 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:12.800 Sabrina Carpenter at one of her sold out shows. That's 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:17.720 tears on our iHeartRadio app. Okay, the keyword is tears. 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:19.880 Just open up the iHeart app and say that into 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.680 the red talkback microphone and you are registered for that 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.600 trip to see her in concert in Los Angeles. We 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:27.640 got grats for her show, grace seats for her show 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:30.120 in Los Angeles, and you'll get out of the snow 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:33.320 and cold. Go to Los Angeles. See the site, spend 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:36.400 some money, have some food that's different than Applebee's. Go 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:39.559 somewhere where'll all the stars go out there? Anyway the stars? 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:41.439 Where do the stars go in La to eat? You're 0:08:41.440 --> 0:08:42.920 probably gonna run into Taylor. 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:47.640 No one in La. But Maldo's not far. I only 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:49.560 know that from the hills. That's where they went on. 0:08:49.600 --> 0:08:51.400 I've heard that too, so they must go there. 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:51.719 Yea. 0:08:51.720 --> 0:08:54.360 Okay, if you want to go, then use that keyword 0:08:54.559 --> 0:09:03.280 tears on the iHeartRadio talk back app work. I will 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:06.160 warn you if you got little Tiffany in the car 0:09:06.280 --> 0:09:09.000 or little Johnny Junior in the car, this might not 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:11.640 be the best thing for them to hear. It's just 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:13.800 the little heads up. But it's not going to get 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:18.079 vulgar or anything, but it is adult. Stephanie is on 0:09:18.120 --> 0:09:22.240 the phone. Hi, Steph, Hi, talk to me, Stephanie. What 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.600 are you on the radio for today? 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:26.320 Yeah? 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:29.839 So, I just I was curious, you know what your 0:09:30.040 --> 0:09:30.800 take is on this. 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:32.640 But I've been dating this new guy. 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:37.920 We it's about six months now, and honestly, he's he's 0:09:37.960 --> 0:09:42.000 everything that I could ask for, you know, in a 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:46.040 guy and personality. I absolutely adore him. 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:49.200 You know, he's kind, he's funny. 0:09:49.760 --> 0:09:52.599 He is great in what he does and work and 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:54.640 super accomplished. 0:09:54.679 --> 0:10:00.360 But the one thing is is that, I mean, this sex, 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:01.720 it's just it's not good. 0:10:02.080 --> 0:10:06.000 I mean it's it's it's honest, it's it's awful. It's 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:08.720 it's probably honestly the. 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:10.400 Worst sex I've ever had. 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.920 And that kills me because he is everything else. 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:19.000 But I mean, it is bad where. 0:10:18.920 --> 0:10:20.760 I don't know if I can. 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.719 Is this something you can get over or either that's a. 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.960 Good question, but I want to dive into specific here. 0:10:29.600 --> 0:10:30.280 Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:32.839 Now we can't get vulgar on the radio. We can 0:10:32.920 --> 0:10:35.280 on the Minnesota Goodbye. That's the after the show podcast. 0:10:35.559 --> 0:10:39.000 But without getting too nasty, what are the things that 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:40.760 you see that he could work on and they could 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:41.240 do better? 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:45.760 I mean, he could get some rhythm, you know, so 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:48.120 you don't match up, so it's like push push push push, 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:49.480 pump pump pump push. 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:51.480 Push, push, pump, pump pump. 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:54.200 Is it just like the rhythm, like that. 0:10:59.640 --> 0:11:02.480 A problem, Jenny, Yeah, some guys think some guys think 0:11:02.480 --> 0:11:07.080 that that's better. Yeah, okay, it's a race. Okay, guys, 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:10.520 that's not always true. Okay, no rhythm. What else? 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:15.080 No rhythm? I mean the way that he grabs my boobs, 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:15.880 it's like. 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:19.960 It's like they're stressful to him. 0:11:20.040 --> 0:11:22.119 I mean it's like you have never. 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:27.800 Known how to, you know, intimantly be with it is. 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:31.199 It's like he doesn't know how to use his instrument. 0:11:32.400 --> 0:11:39.840 You could say, I am just okay. He also just 0:11:40.800 --> 0:11:42.559 he wraps things up really. 0:11:42.320 --> 0:11:43.680 Fast, if you will. 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:47.360 Okay, So he's on and then he's like grab a 0:11:47.440 --> 0:11:51.079 grab and then he's like then he's done, he's. 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:53.720 Done, and then you're left there like okay, and what 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:54.240 about me? 0:11:54.640 --> 0:12:00.600 All right? Yes exactly, I'm sorry. Sorry. 0:12:00.840 --> 0:12:04.320 I wonder why it is that so many wonderful guys 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:07.920 just don't know. And I think it is because nobody 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:10.200 has ever told them, because who's going to ever say, 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:14.080 you know what, Troy, you need to slow down and 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:15.680 a little bit take your time. 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:18.360 I think that's a sign of a good communication, though, 0:12:18.400 --> 0:12:21.040 if you can have that conversation like here's what I 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:23.760 like or here's what I would like you to do instead. 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:26.600 Ideally, yeah, ideally. 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:28.600 And had a girl once tell me that, like God, 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:31.040 is that how you kiss or something like that, and 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:34.600 I'm like, oh, man, because that's a real blot because 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:35.760 you think you're doing a good job. 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:38.160 Yeah. 0:12:38.200 --> 0:12:40.920 Well, the question is it's not how to make him better. 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:44.960 Hopefully with a little instruction and guidance over time, things 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:45.559 will get better. 0:12:45.640 --> 0:12:49.839 It's like, no, try this or no, not there there. 0:12:50.160 --> 0:12:52.600 But what if it doesn't, that's the question. 0:12:52.840 --> 0:12:57.079 What if it doesn't, can the relationship still work out? 0:12:57.520 --> 0:13:00.480 I don't know, man, Let's be real to me. Is 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:02.680 such a big part of a relationship. I'm not saying 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:05.600 completely dump them. But if you're trying to be like 0:13:05.679 --> 0:13:09.920 effectively communicating and it doesn't seem like he's trying to affect, 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:14.360 make you effectively change then. 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:17.240 And so that he can get better at sex. So 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:19.120 this should not be a deal breaker. Go see a 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:22.599 sex therapist. Let me tell you, six months into a relationship, 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:25.400 you're not going to tell the person you're seeing, hey, 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:26.720 maybe you should go see. 0:13:26.480 --> 0:13:27.520 A sex therapist. 0:13:28.000 --> 0:13:32.120 Like, that's just yeah, it's that's an uncomfortable conversation and 0:13:32.160 --> 0:13:34.479 a blow to that person's ego. 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:35.679 Right, I do totally. 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:37.400 A lot of people are saying, you know, hey, you 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:39.800 can teach an old dog new tricks. Just be upfront 0:13:39.800 --> 0:13:41.120 and open with what you want. And a lot of 0:13:41.120 --> 0:13:42.959 people are saying, hey, you just got to talk to him, 0:13:43.000 --> 0:13:43.920 just got to talk to him. 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:47.720 But I think a great question is how how do 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:48.240 you do that? 0:13:48.320 --> 0:13:51.000 Because that would be such an awkward like, hey, babe, 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:52.120 can you sit down for a second. 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:53.480 I really got to talk to you about something? 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:55.000 Can I Can I tell you one thing that there 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:56.959 was this girl that I dated and she kissed like 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:58.520 a bass. If you think of a bass that you 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:00.840 pull out a little fist and the bass is like 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:05.079 struggling for air and their their jaws are gulping and gaping, 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:08.520 and that is how she kissed. And I remember just saying, hey, 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:13.440 you know what, just slow down, relax, And once she 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:18.800 learned from the master how to kiss your mom mom, 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:23.240 then she really enjoyed it. So I think sometimes you 0:14:23.280 --> 0:14:26.040 don't want to fix everything at once. I'm gonna guess, Stephanie, 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:28.520 you can't be like, okay number one, slow down, number two, 0:14:28.880 --> 0:14:31.480 take your time number two. Don't grab me like I'm 0:14:31.480 --> 0:14:33.520 as stressful. I think if you just handle one thing, 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:36.320 like I don't know how to say it without sounding 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:39.560 really stupid, okay, but like you know, ouch ouch oh 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:40.520 those are sensitive. 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:41.600 For example, what. 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:43.520 If you say it once though, and it doesn't clock 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:46.160 for them? How many times? I'm just trying to think, like, 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:50.080 is there a way to get through if it's. 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:51.200 Not like received? 0:14:51.320 --> 0:14:54.200 You know, like yeah, hey that hurt, Oh that hurts. 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:55.360 Don't do it like that. 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:57.440 And then the next time it comes back around and 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.560 it's the same exact thing and you're like, hey, didn't 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:01.680 I just talk about this and you didn't like retain 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:02.280 it at all. 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.520 So without having the sit down conversation when you're actually 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:07.920 in the act, you're saying like you're reacting in the 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:10.280 way that you would normally react, not pretending. 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:12.640 Yeah, and then they still do it that way. 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:14.920 Well, the problem is she's been you've been kind of 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:17.400 pretending that you liked it this whole time. 0:15:17.360 --> 0:15:23.920 Right, Well, I mean, I definitely I am reacting a 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:27.480 little bit in the moment, but it does seem. 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:29.160 Like it just kind of goes over his head. 0:15:30.840 --> 0:15:34.080 So yeah, I'm confused as to whether or not I 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:38.080 should say something, you know, in the bedroom or yeah, 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:39.400 well let me grab a phone call. 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:40.600 Real quick because we got to take a break. We 0:15:40.600 --> 0:15:42.280 can continue on the other side of the break here. 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:44.440 So basically, we're not trying to be sillacious or do 0:15:44.480 --> 0:15:48.120 you know whatever. But she's it's it's so important, and 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:51.200 it's not dirty or vulgar. It's that's the love and 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:54.360 the relationship is not good while everything else is pretty good. 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:56.360 I don't have your name. My phone screen is not working. 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:58.160 But you're on the phone and you want to comment 0:15:58.160 --> 0:15:58.680 to Stephanie. 0:15:58.720 --> 0:16:02.800 What's your name, Ebie? Okay, what you want to say 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:03.200 about it? 0:16:03.880 --> 0:16:05.560 Well, just listening to the conversation. 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:08.280 If it's worth the relationship to you to stick around. 0:16:08.360 --> 0:16:10.160 Just like Dave said, you got to have the conversation. 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:12.640 I've been married for twelve years, got married very young, 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:16.000 and in the beginning of my relationship, I did take 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:17.640 it because I thought that's what I had to do, 0:16:17.680 --> 0:16:20.120 and I thought that's what girls have to kind of 0:16:20.160 --> 0:16:23.320 don if it's not the best, just act like it's 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:26.280 all right. No, absolutely not. Just let them know, like, hey, 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:28.040 it feels a lot better when you do it this way, 0:16:28.160 --> 0:16:28.720 or it might. 0:16:28.560 --> 0:16:30.240 Feel better if you do it this way, or let's 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:31.120 try it this way. 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:34.800 I think conversation piece is definitely needed in this. You 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:36.080 did not have to suffer through. 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:39.680 That, girl, because the longer it goes on, the lot 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:41.359 harder it's going to be to fix. 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:41.680 The whole thing. 0:16:41.720 --> 0:16:43.400 Oh yeah, hold on, we'll come back into second more 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:44.560 on the other side of this one. If you've got 0:16:44.600 --> 0:16:46.920 any comments. There's a lot of people texting that that 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:51.560 sounds like their relationship. Guys, pay attention and we'll be 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:53.080 right back on Katie. 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:55.520 R. 0:16:58.920 --> 0:16:59.160 Again. 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:01.720 We're not trying to be weird or salacious or dirty 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:03.160 or whatever, but it's a little bit more of an 0:17:03.160 --> 0:17:05.560 adult group therapy. And I always give you a little 0:17:05.560 --> 0:17:07.480 warning that if you got little Timmy in the car 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:10.520 or a little uh Jeanine in the car, then first 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:13.040 of all, sure, she's she shouldn't be named Janine. That's 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:15.520 an old lady name. But if you have a little 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.320 kid in the car, this is probably not the best 0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:19.239 thing to listen to. But it's also it's not you know, 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:22.240 it's just it's more for adults, not dirty, but for adults. 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:23.320 Stephanie's on the phone. 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:25.720 Give me your sum up your problem with your boyfriend 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:28.040 in one sentence, Stephanie. 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:33.280 Okay, I I've been dating him for about six weeks. 0:17:33.320 --> 0:17:36.520 I love everything about him, but a sex is awful. 0:17:36.240 --> 0:17:39.840 Awful, awful, And we were talking about, you know, not 0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:42.879 just how do you fix it, but can it work 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:45.520 even if the love and is not so good because 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.280 you can talk to him and you can be like, 0:17:47.359 --> 0:17:49.199 oh that's a little bit, you know, slow down a 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:49.560 little bit. 0:17:49.640 --> 0:17:49.840 Yeah. 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:51.840