1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: Hello there. Yesterday, apparently on the Minnesota Goodbye, Bailey's microphone 2 00:00:04,760 --> 00:00:08,639 Speaker 1: was not turned up. No, we did not hear anything 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 1: from Bailey. It would be like, you know, like you'd 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 1: hear like a one way conversation, like you're at the 5 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: airport here in a one way conversation with the other phone. 6 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:16,439 Speaker 2: I listened back. It kind of sounded like I was 7 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:18,760 Speaker 2: down a long hallway. Okay, I could kind of hear 8 00:00:18,800 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: myself on your guys's microphone, but not really. 9 00:00:22,400 --> 00:00:24,320 Speaker 1: Well, all right, well we're all here and it all 10 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: seems to work. So let's get started with the emails. First, 11 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 1: I wrote to Emily. Now, Emily was the one one 12 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: of the people who provided us with a one hundred 13 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,520 Speaker 1: dollars gift card for Benny Hanna. Yeah, so I wrote 14 00:00:35,520 --> 00:00:37,919 Speaker 1: to her and I said we went, we made it, 15 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: Thank you, And she wrote back she said that's great. Also, 16 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 1: I'm a couple of days behind on the podcast and 17 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: just learn congratulations are in order. Congrats on your win. 18 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: What a well deserved honor war regards from Emily. She's 19 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 1: talking about the Minnesota Broadcasting Hall of Fame. 20 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: Yay, Dave got inducted this year. 21 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 3: Yeah again, we say you're inducted yet or is it 22 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 3: not official until the ceremony. 23 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: The induction ceremony is a ceremony. 24 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 2: But I mean you're technically in. 25 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. If I didn't go, for example, if I lost 26 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: a foot in a horrible tractor accident and I couldn't 27 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: make it that night, I'd still be in there. 28 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 2: So did you say that's the plan? 29 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: Oh? 30 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 2: No, I didn't say that's the plan. 31 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:18,960 Speaker 1: Where are you going to get a tractor? 32 00:01:19,280 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 2: Why does I say where are you going to be 33 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 2: by a tractor? I know people? 34 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: Okay, next one Ay says, oh this is you know, 35 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,040 Speaker 1: kind of a technical thing, right, and to let you 36 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: know your murder eader know. But today's podcast of the 37 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: eighteenth kept sounded like it was cutting in and out. 38 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: I turned the volume up. I could almost hear Bailey, 39 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: So it heads up that something was off with their mind. 40 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 1: Wasn't it wasn't on. 41 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 2: But it's a new new studio, brand new studio yesterday. 42 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 1: It's it's interesting because there are instead of two options, 43 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: there are seventeen options. And I know that sounds weird, 44 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: like an exaggeration, but it's kind of like anything modern, 45 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: like your old flip phone used to have you could 46 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: call or you could answer the end. That's it, And 47 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: now your new phone has got hundreds of options. I've 48 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: got buttons on my new iPhone. I don't even know 49 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: what it does. I really don't. 50 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 2: I don't know what any of my apps do, A 51 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:16,119 Speaker 2: lot of them. 52 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: There's a button on the S side. 53 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 3: You must have great storage, because I delete everything on 54 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 3: my phone, any app. I don't use any extra anything 55 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 3: because I just don't have the storage for it. 56 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 2: Otherwise. I mean, I do too, But some of them 57 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 2: are like they're they're installed with your phone, like they're 58 00:02:30,600 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 2: connected to your. 59 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 3: But even those ones I like, I get rid of those, Oh, 60 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: the ones that Apple provides. 61 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: Nate, tell me, I've got an iPhone and I know 62 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: in which model it is, but it's it's not the 63 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,919 Speaker 1: most modern, but it's close to it. On the lower 64 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: right side, there's a button that is flush with the 65 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: surface of the phone, and if I hit it, it 66 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: seems to open the camera. Why is is that what 67 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 1: I programmed. 68 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,680 Speaker 2: It to do? No, that's because mine does that too, Really, 69 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 2: I think so. 70 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: All right, so, Nate, who is our Apple guy, let 71 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,720 Speaker 1: me know what that button on the lower left hand 72 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: side of your iPhone sixteen does next one. Gabby says, 73 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,640 Speaker 1: I am listening to the Saint Patrick's Day episode of 74 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:15,679 Speaker 1: the Minnesota Goodbye reminded me of my most memorable March seventeenth. 75 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: A few years ago. I was twenty. I found a 76 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 1: suspicious mole. My mom insisted it was just anxiety, and 77 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 1: she eventually set up appointment to get a checked. Flash 78 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: forward to Saint Patti's Day. My parents and I are 79 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 1: having lunch and I checked a voicemail with my biopsy results. 80 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 1: I had extremely abnormal cells and needed surgery with a specialist. 81 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: Hearing that, I turned paler than anybody thought possible, my 82 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: mom noticed and listened to the message herself. My dad's 83 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 1: immediate response was, well, at least I bought five plots. 84 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: Geez okay, think yab trying to be funny. My younger 85 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:56,960 Speaker 1: sister had passed away just a few months prior. Oh 86 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 1: my god, that's horribly sad, and if lukes could kill, 87 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 1: my dad would have been dead. At the Downtowner overall 88 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 1: we all look back and laugh at it now. Moral 89 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: of the story is where your sun's screen, go to 90 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 1: the dermatologist and always buy enough plots. Jes love you 91 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,720 Speaker 1: all from Gabrielle. That was not the email. 92 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 3: I was expecting Dad's humor would cause me to go 93 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 3: to therapy. 94 00:04:21,040 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 2: I think that's nope. 95 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: Thank god I bought enough plots. Yes, got one for 96 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 1: you and me. 97 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 3: And have I ever told you guys a story, because 98 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 3: my dad deals with getting melanoma removed pretty often, and 99 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 3: the first time he ever told us he had skin cancer. Literally, 100 00:04:37,480 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 3: he calls, like my older sister and I downstairs. He goes, hey, 101 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 3: he goes look at this, and he like points out 102 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: a spot on his nose and we're like, yeah, okay. 103 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:51,600 Speaker 3: He goes, that's skin cancer, and we were like, okay. 104 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,280 Speaker 3: I was a child that was probably ten years old. 105 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:55,479 Speaker 3: Cancer meant death to me. 106 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 2: Yeah for sure. 107 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 3: So I was like okay, And he didn't really explain 108 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 3: much of it, and I walked away, and then I 109 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 3: came back probably an hour later, bawling my eyes out, 110 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 3: being like, Dad, are you gonna die? 111 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, because there was no explanation. 112 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:09,159 Speaker 3: How do you go to your kids and say, look 113 00:05:09,200 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 3: at this, it's skin cancer. Now, Luckily, with his he 114 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:15,320 Speaker 3: just has to consistently go in and get it removed. 115 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 3: A lot of the melanoma removed, but let me tell 116 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 3: you that shit scarred me for quite a bit. 117 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: Yeah yeahah. 118 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 2: My mom had skin cancer on her nose as well, 119 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 2: and it was like right at the tip of her 120 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:29,440 Speaker 2: nose and she had to get it removed. So if 121 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,040 Speaker 2: you look at my mom from the side, she kind 122 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 2: of has like a tin man nose because it's like 123 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 2: flat in the front. 124 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:37,200 Speaker 1: Never noticed that, Yeah, now you might. It's interesting that 125 00:05:37,279 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: some parents choose to share their problems in drama with 126 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: their children and some do not. I mean, my mom 127 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: and dad never shared their problems in drama with me 128 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:49,200 Speaker 1: or the siblings, and we certainly don't with Alison her 129 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: cars in her Beth or Chase. But it could be like, 130 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:57,400 Speaker 1: you know, blah blah blah blah blah, and we just don't. 131 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 1: Don't you let your kids have their own life and 132 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:02,280 Speaker 1: not worry about your lis Oh. 133 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 2: I would prefer to know things that are going on 134 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 2: in my family's life. The only person I know, like 135 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,160 Speaker 2: consistently what's going on with them is my mom because 136 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 2: I specifically reach out to my mom on the daily. 137 00:06:13,680 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: But like if I didn't need to talk to my 138 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 2: dad for anything, I don't know if I would ever 139 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,200 Speaker 2: talk to my dad because he never reaches out to me, 140 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 2: and my sister is really bad at communication as well. 141 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 2: So I'll learn like important family details just kind of 142 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 2: like through the grapevine, or it'll be like, oh yeah, well, 143 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 2: I'm yeah, headed to the doctor to get this tumor removed. 144 00:06:35,440 --> 00:06:37,719 Speaker 2: What tumor? What are you talk to about? I didn't 145 00:06:37,760 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: What are you talking about? 146 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 1: We should write that down. We've done that bit before. 147 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:42,799 Speaker 1: It's been a while. What did you find out on Facebook? 148 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: Oh? 149 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, on Instagram? So write that down for tomorrow, Jenny, Yeah, 150 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: because there. And I remember my daughter Beth was really 151 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: mad at me a few years ago because I think 152 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: it was when Allison was having her first baby, and 153 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: she was pregnant with her first baby, could have been 154 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 1: the second one, I don't remember. But we did not 155 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: share it. We did not tell anybody because it wasn't 156 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 1: our news to share. So Beth found out on Facebook 157 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 1: by somebody who slipped oops and shared it when they 158 00:07:15,120 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: probably shouldn't have. Beth was furious at me and furious 159 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 1: at Alison that nobody had told her. And I told 160 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: Beth that's my other daughter, Allison's half sister. I said, 161 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 1: that wasn't our news to share because it wasn't right. 162 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: But I guess I could have shared it with Beth. 163 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: I don't know, but anyway, so let's write down what'd 164 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:36,920 Speaker 1: you find out on Facebook. 165 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: I know that my sister was engaged on Facebook. Really Oh, 166 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 2: I was mad because she was like, well, I tried 167 00:07:41,560 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 2: calling you and you didn't answer. I was like, yeah, 168 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 2: I was at work, so you just decided, well, she's 169 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 2: not answering, so I'm just going to post it on Facebook. 170 00:07:48,200 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 2: Could you just like wait two hours for me to 171 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 2: get off of work. 172 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: Well, it's funny because some of my friends saw my 173 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: post the other day about doing our last show on 174 00:07:55,640 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: Tuesday in the old studio, and I said, this is 175 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 1: my last show in this studio, meaning literally it's my 176 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:06,320 Speaker 1: last show in that particular studio. So a lot of 177 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: people saw on Facebook that I posted that, and my 178 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: friends are like, oh, congratulations, what's your first day of retirement? 179 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 1: Like I'm like, I guess I didn't do that right. Yeah, 180 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: And even Susan said, you didn't phrase that right. Next one, 181 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: says Shannon. A few days ago, you all touched on 182 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 1: how long it takes to grieve a broken relationship. That 183 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 1: resonated with me quite a bit because I had a 184 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 1: falling out with a friend a couple of months ago, 185 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 1: and it's been weighing on my heart the last couple 186 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 1: of days. I love that you all got a little vulnerable, 187 00:08:36,360 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: especially Jenny. I remember that you Dave had a friend Brentley, 188 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: that you had a falling out with a couple of 189 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: years ago when he was one of your best buds. 190 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: He was by far my best bud. This is similar. 191 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:49,199 Speaker 1: I know this is probably the right direction for her friendship, 192 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: but I almost think the loss of a friendship can 193 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: be worse. I heard that Bailey had a longtime friend 194 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: that hurt her too. Was just wondering if you guys 195 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: felt okay, touching on that a little more. It's depressing, 196 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:03,720 Speaker 1: I know, but in today's world, with all the divide, 197 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: it's actually a really important topic. Love you, guys, like 198 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 1: I truly love you. I listen every morning while I run, 199 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: and I carry you into the start of my workday. 200 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: You play a role in my You all play a 201 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: role in your team. Oh, I get it, because we 202 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: all have a role on our team. Yeah. I appreciate 203 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: you more than you know. Your biggest fan, Shannon, Thank 204 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: you Shannon, it's very sweet. Yeah. We talked about a 205 00:09:27,720 --> 00:09:31,359 Speaker 1: law Linikey's law that said take the length of a relationship, 206 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:34,360 Speaker 1: cut that in half, and that half is how long 207 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: it'll take to get over the relationship. So if you 208 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: date a guy for three years, it'll take eighteen months 209 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 1: to get over him. And then we kind of were honest. 210 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 1: I said, some relationships you never really get over. I 211 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: mean some you just kind of realize they're done. They're 212 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 1: never coming back, but you always ache in your heart 213 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: a little bit for that person, and you probably will 214 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: your entire life, even though you can still be happily 215 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: married to somebody else. 216 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, And well what she said like she thinks 217 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 2: sometimes friendships are worse. I mean I haven't had like 218 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 2: a ton of very serious relationships in my life. I 219 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 2: mean dated guys for handfuls of years, but I think 220 00:10:11,400 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 2: it's easier to get over them. But like my friendship, 221 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 2: I had a friend for twenty years. I think about 222 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 2: her every single day. I don't think I will ever 223 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 2: ever get over it. So if it'll take me ten years, cool, 224 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,559 Speaker 2: But I think ten years from now, if I haven't 225 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 2: reconnected with her, I will still think about her every 226 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 2: single day. 227 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: I think one of the reasons is you wonder why yeah? 228 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,439 Speaker 1: You know, don't you wonder why yeah all the time, 229 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: And she never gave you a real legitimate reason reason no. 230 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 2: No. But I still have hope that one day she 231 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 2: will realize the fault in her ways and come back 232 00:10:43,679 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 2: to me. 233 00:10:44,120 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: We'll see anything to add Jenny Well. 234 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 3: I think my first heartbreak was from a friendship. I 235 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 3: loved this girl, Kayla. Her and I worked at Pigli 236 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 3: Wiggly together, and we became inseparable, like everything. My dad 237 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,320 Speaker 3: went and bought an air mattress for her to sleep 238 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:01,920 Speaker 3: on because I hated sharing beds with her and she 239 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 3: slept over that often, so he bought an air mattress 240 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 3: for her to be able to sleep on the ground on. 241 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,199 Speaker 3: And you know, went away to college and she was 242 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 3: still She would drive up and come visit at least 243 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 3: once a month, like do the long drive from my hometown. 244 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 3: And we were so close. We back when you did 245 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 3: what was before? 246 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 2: Like zoom? What would you do? Oh? Skype? Skype? Ye? 247 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 3: Skype would skype? We would We would call each other 248 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 3: multiple times a day. We would skype almost every day 249 00:11:27,280 --> 00:11:29,680 Speaker 3: so we could see each other's faces. And then she 250 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 3: got a boyfriend, and that guy changed our friendship completely 251 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 3: And I don't blame him. It was like her decision 252 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:41,360 Speaker 3: to like not seemingly care much about me anymore. But 253 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 3: she really changed as a person, and that's fine, Like 254 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,000 Speaker 3: you you do change when you get a partner, I 255 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 3: think a lot of times. But we basically like we're 256 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 3: no longer friends after that, and it tore me apart. 257 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 3: I was so sad for a long time. I'll be honest, 258 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 3: I don't think about her much anymore. And she has 259 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 3: tried to reach out sense, like with really random things, 260 00:12:02,240 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 3: like she'll snapchat me or something. Yeah, but it just 261 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 3: will never be the same because she's not the same 262 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 3: person that I was friends with. 263 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,080 Speaker 1: Honestly, that makes sense. It's like, yeah, you can't go 264 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 1: back because that person might not be the same person 265 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 1: that you remember, And same goes for you. 266 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 3: I was gonna say, I think you have to like 267 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 3: remember that about the people you dated, too, Like you 268 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,400 Speaker 3: might still long for someone or think about someone, but 269 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,600 Speaker 3: you're a different person than what you were, and that 270 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 3: person's probably a different person. So like in the end, 271 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: if you think, like maybe we would get back together, 272 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 3: would it honestly work. 273 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 274 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, next one from Rachel, she says, what's up, 275 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 1: my peep? So I had a question for Dave. To 276 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,400 Speaker 1: your knowledge, did any of your kids ever a hard 277 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 1: time being the child of a local celebrity? To my knowledge, no, 278 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: I think it annoyed them a little bit, But I 279 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: don't think they had a problem with it. I mean, 280 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: I'm not that big of a local celebrity. 281 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 3: I thought they thought it was are But you're I'm 282 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 3: gonna say that you are only to not make you 283 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 3: have to say it because like you don't want to 284 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 3: sound like you are an you have an ego because 285 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 3: you don't I feel like you are. 286 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 2: When it comes to the Twin Cities, people know Dave. 287 00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 1: Ryle okay, well fair enough. I think that Allison did 288 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:16,800 Speaker 1: the Hollister song and a lot of people knew her 289 00:13:16,800 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 1: for that, and a lot of the she was on 290 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: the radio a lot. I know that when Carson was 291 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: in high school, they devoted a whole page of his 292 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:28,680 Speaker 1: freshman yearbook to him and how he was my son. Oh, 293 00:13:28,720 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: and they put pictures of him with Selena Gomez and 294 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 1: Miley Cyrus, and they put a picture of him I 295 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: don't think they put a picture of me in his yearbook, 296 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:40,079 Speaker 1: and I don't think that Carson disliked it. I think 297 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: maybe he was proud of it, but I also think 298 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: it embarrassed him a little bit sure, because it was like, Man, 299 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,360 Speaker 1: I don't want to be known for being Dave's kid, 300 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:52,480 Speaker 1: my dad's kid. I'm Carson. But he never He's such 301 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: a mild mannered son that he never would have said 302 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:59,320 Speaker 1: this is bullshit, Dad, I hate this right. He just 303 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: would have accept yeah, well, anyway she goes. My personal 304 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: experience is much smaller scale, but I grew up as 305 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: the daughter of my city's traveling girls basketball commissioner. Whenever 306 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: I worked hard, tried out, or made a traveling eighteen, 307 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 1: people would say, oh, well, you only made it because 308 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: of your dad. Well that's some bullshit. I remember hearing 309 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: girls talking crap about my dad in the girl's locker 310 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 1: room in middle school and would snicker when they saw 311 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: that I was within earshot. It also didn't help that 312 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: my dad used to be that nightmare coach whose face 313 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 1: would get as red as a tomato when he was 314 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: angry and yell at the top of vision lungs at 315 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: the referees, which is also very ironic because we are 316 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 1: both sports officials now twenty five years later. Was just 317 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: curious about your kid's experience and how you've handled it, 318 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: your girl, Rachel. 319 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 2: I have a friend, Sarah Coley, and when we were 320 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:58,200 Speaker 2: in college, her parents were both professors and they ran 321 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 2: the entire region of like the country for college speech, 322 00:15:05,280 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 2: and so when she was on the speech team, I 323 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 2: know I talked about it a lot, but that's I mean, 324 00:15:09,440 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 2: pillar of my personality. But when we were on the 325 00:15:11,840 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 2: speech team together, everybody would be like, oh, well, you're 326 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 2: a Collie, so you should either be really good or 327 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:19,080 Speaker 2: the only reason you are good is because you're a Collie, 328 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 2: or the only reason you got to whatever state is 329 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 2: because you're a college. Because her parents were like upper 330 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 2: management of speech college forensics league. Yeah, she was a 331 00:15:29,440 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 2: neppo baby team and baby for speech, which is so stupid. 332 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 3: But honestly, the varsity coach of our soccer team for 333 00:15:36,600 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 3: girls in high school, his daughter was not good. She 334 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 3: did not deserve to be on varsity, and she made 335 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 3: varsity as a freshman, and it pissed a lot. 336 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 2: Of people off, Like our girls. 337 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 3: Team was really good. I never even made varsity. I 338 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 3: was not good enough. Well, I think I quit after 339 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 3: my sophomore year. I just did freshman and then JV 340 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 3: my sophomore year. But yeah, she made varsity like right away, 341 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 3: and like eventually the coach had to start sitting her 342 00:16:01,680 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 3: and not letting her play like at all, because everyone 343 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 3: was like, dude, she's not good, like she's just your daughter, 344 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 3: Like she's not good enough to be playing. 345 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: There's other players who are better that she'd be playing. 346 00:16:11,360 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: I think that it's almost unavoidable. I know people in 347 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: radio who have gotten their kid into the business. Mojo 348 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 1: is our buddy in Detroit, and his son is Joe, 349 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,920 Speaker 1: and Joe is actually a good talent and works in 350 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 1: Tampa and has a big show in Tampa. But I've 351 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 1: also know other people who got their kid into radio 352 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: and they really they don't belong there. They just don't there. 353 00:16:35,880 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 1: And it's kind of like probably it's a joke. It's 354 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: like almost like a comedic movie joke where the boss's 355 00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: son has like Tommy Boy, wasn't Tommy Boy about he 356 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 1: took over dad's company and he had no idea what 357 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: he was doing. 358 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 2: I've seen that. Okay, well, if i've seen it either. 359 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: Is that with Chris Farley? Yeah, yeah, I haven't seen 360 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 2: that one. 361 00:16:56,160 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. Somebody accused Carson of like, well, the only reason 362 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 1: Carson got in the music business because his dad. It's like, 363 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,080 Speaker 1: let me tell you, I have nothing to do with 364 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: Carson getting into the music business. He's in the touring business, 365 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:14,160 Speaker 1: which I don't have anything to do with the touring business. 366 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: If I could have helped him, I probably would have, 367 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:22,119 Speaker 1: because there's nothing wrong with helping. But when they don't 368 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:24,640 Speaker 1: deserve it, well, if. 369 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 2: You're their parent, though, you're gonna always assume your kid 370 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:28,120 Speaker 2: deserves whatever it is that they get. 371 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: Would you, though, would you probably? 372 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,120 Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah, oh not if they were a lazy piece 373 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:36,439 Speaker 3: of shit, I wouldn't. I'd be like, no, work harder, Yeah, okay. 374 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 2: I feel like if somebody was like, oh, my kid 375 00:17:39,119 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 2: wants to do this, you'd be like, yeah, you do. 376 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 2: You should do that because you're my kid and I 377 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 2: love you, won't you? 378 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: I mean? Maybe? All right? Last one ranger Jessica here 379 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,520 Speaker 1: to answer why do we have less bodily fluids as 380 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:55,480 Speaker 1: we age? Well, it's not really my area of expertise, 381 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:59,080 Speaker 1: but I will venture a hypothesis. I would assume women 382 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:03,280 Speaker 1: secrete less fluids as the age due to their declining fertility. 383 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 1: Preparing the body for pregnancy requires a huge amount of energy, 384 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 1: so as fertility declines, evolution would make sense that the 385 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 1: body wouldn't want to invest energy into this process as 386 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:18,960 Speaker 1: the likelihood of reproduction goes down. As male fertility doesn't 387 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 1: cline in the same way, I would venture this is 388 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:24,960 Speaker 1: why men don't experience the same fluid decline. What do 389 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: I know? I'm just as simple ranger. Go ask your doctor. 390 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 1: I like her more and more all the time. Here's 391 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 1: a better ranger. Fun fact that we talked about. Rabbit 392 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:38,159 Speaker 1: and hold on, my eyes are blurring up here. Rabbit 393 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: and capa beara poop last week. 394 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, well. 395 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,840 Speaker 3: You were gone for this one. But basically Bailey asked 396 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 3: the question about the rodents. Yeah, and then Jessica email 397 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 3: then explaining that they poop like two hundred to three 398 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 3: hundred times a day and capybara bearras they have likee 399 00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 3: like and. 400 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:01,760 Speaker 2: They're doing times a day. Anyways, what does Jessica keep 401 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 2: saying about it? 402 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 1: He says wombats are the only animal to produce cube 403 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: shaped poop. 404 00:19:06,320 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 2: I'm looking it up. 405 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: Apparently they use poop to mark their territory, and cube 406 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 1: to poop is less likely to roll off logs or 407 00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 1: down a hill. Wow, isn't nature beautiful? 408 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,639 Speaker 2: Wombats are so cute. I want a wombat. 409 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:22,639 Speaker 1: I'll describe one. 410 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 2: They well, they kind of look like little sort of 411 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,880 Speaker 2: like a bear mixed with a groundhog. But they're they're 412 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,959 Speaker 2: Oh there they are big. Are they big? I don't know. 413 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 2: Let me find out wombats size. Oh, they're big. They 414 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 2: are big. 415 00:19:37,880 --> 00:19:39,919 Speaker 3: It looks like a cub, like the size of a 416 00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 3: cub bear almost. 417 00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:45,120 Speaker 2: Oh, they're so cute though. They got long fingies, long fingernails. 418 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,200 Speaker 2: That's so cute. Oh, I want to I want to 419 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:49,639 Speaker 2: know if they're soft. See that's the thing with some 420 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,680 Speaker 2: of these rodents. They look soft, but I'm sure they're 421 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,679 Speaker 2: they're fur cose. 422 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:55,560 Speaker 1: Not like. 423 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 2: If you've never pet a chinchilla, find yourself with chinchilla 424 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:02,440 Speaker 2: to pet. They are the softest animal I've ever touched 425 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 2: in my life. 426 00:20:03,400 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 1: Well, that's why the fur was so prized. 427 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 2: I'm looking for that high again. I just want to 428 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 2: touch a chin. So they have them at Wild Rumpus bookstore. 429 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 2: You can go there. What can I touch on? I 430 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 2: don't know they we're kind of. 431 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:17,399 Speaker 1: In the back by a chinchilla coat for your birthday. 432 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 1: I'm raising chin chill is in my backyard. Don't tell 433 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,720 Speaker 1: the county, but I will skin some for you, so 434 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 1: together make a nice chin chili coat. 435 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 2: I don't want a coat, well, fine face chili coat, No, 436 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 2: I don't want one. 437 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 3: I'm also curious if anyone's ever actually, like legally come 438 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 3: at you for your jokes before, like not legally, that's 439 00:20:38,200 --> 00:20:40,359 Speaker 3: but that is illegal what you're saying right now, and 440 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 3: they don't understand. 441 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 2: It's a joke. If you get caught, well you just 442 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 2: admitted to it. Though. 443 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 1: Got a chinchilla farm in my backyard exactly. 444 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:52,680 Speaker 3: Now, somebody's gonna now, somebody's gonna look up, try to 445 00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 3: find your address. They're gonna start hunting around and make 446 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 3: sure you don't have a chinchilla farm in your backyard. 447 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:58,639 Speaker 2: You better watch. 448 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:02,960 Speaker 1: Out, yeah your back Okay, I got so, Juanita, I 449 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 1: love you, Juanita. She remember, I don't know how to 450 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: get audio from the computer into the Minnesota Goodbye yet. 451 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: It will happen, but we don't know how to yet. 452 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: So Juanita wrote out her entire rant. It is one 453 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: of her best ones, and I she said, read it 454 00:21:19,400 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 1: for me. No, it's got to be done in Junita's voice, 455 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,919 Speaker 1: because part of what makes Juanita's rant so funny is 456 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 1: her inflections and her style. So Juanita, we love you. 457 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: I am not going to spoil your rant by reading 458 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,959 Speaker 1: it myself, but it's a good one. Send your emails 459 00:21:36,000 --> 00:21:40,720 Speaker 1: in to Ryan's show at KDIWB dot com.