Speaker 1: Already is Mojoe in the morning. Anna's got an interesting
Speaker 1: situation and she's wondering if she should say something about
Speaker 1: this one.
Speaker 2: What's going on? I need advice.
Speaker 3: So there is a woman that I wouldn't say I'm
Speaker 3: like good friends with, but it's somebody that I would
Speaker 3: like to become friends with. And at this point we're
Speaker 3: very close online, so supporting each other's social media posts,
Speaker 3: commenting back and forth on dms, all of that. She
Speaker 3: is with a man, and the man is always in
Speaker 3: my DMS.
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know if he knows.
Speaker 3: He probably doesn't know that we're building this relationship, but
Speaker 3: he's liking my stuff, He's sliding into my DMS. I'm
Speaker 3: not responding, and I typically in this situation probably would
Speaker 3: just stay out of it, not say anything. But because
Speaker 3: I want to have a relationship with this woman, I
Speaker 3: don't know if this is something I should tell her,
Speaker 3: because what if we do? You become close and then
Speaker 3: this comes out and she's like, why did you never
Speaker 3: say anything?
Speaker 2: Question about the back of these two? Are they married
Speaker 2: or are they just they're not serious dating?
Speaker 3: Serious dating and publicly publicly dated together?
Speaker 2: Yes, so what is he in your d ms doing.
Speaker 3: Mostly just liking things. I think he said something to
Speaker 3: me one time and I just didn't respond.
Speaker 1: Let me look, did he say something that was like inappropriate?
Speaker 4: And say the liking doesn't bother me as much as like,
Speaker 4: what is he saying?
Speaker 3: He he said a swear word, but he was saying
Speaker 3: something very complimentary to one of my stories, like uh
Speaker 3: am I allowed to say d A M And oh yeah, okay,
Speaker 3: by the way, okay, so like I'm so afraid to
Speaker 3: break radio room.
Speaker 2: Oh no, no, thank you for that way.
Speaker 1: It's nice that somebody it's nice that somebody over here
Speaker 1: it doesn't like to push it to us lose a license.
Speaker 2: Cat he said, damn girl looking good.
Speaker 3: And then like he's liking all of my stories when
Speaker 3: I'm posting like Sophie's or something like that, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 3: I'm not responding. I'm not doing anything. But I still
Speaker 3: feel like she would be mad if she find.
Speaker 2: Out you can't do it.
Speaker 5: I think your your question, well, how I looked at
Speaker 5: it is you want to build a relationship with this
Speaker 5: young lady and the situation sounds like it's messy already
Speaker 5: and it would be even more messy if she found
Speaker 5: out you were messing around with this guy. I'm don't
Speaker 5: know if you did, though, what's what's their relationship though,
Speaker 5: Like do you know their relationship?
Speaker 2: Are they together?
Speaker 3: Gotten that deep in it? But like I'm in her
Speaker 3: close friends. She frequently posts about him, and they have
Speaker 3: children together, and maybe.
Speaker 1: They have an open relationship and they're both trying to
Speaker 1: to come at you.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's the case.
Speaker 4: Or maybe he thinks he's just giving you a compliment
Speaker 4: and there's nothing wrong with that, which I personally disagree with.
Speaker 2: But we ain't doing that just compliments.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's maybe it's more innocent you're saying, never into
Speaker 4: the conversation.
Speaker 3: But absolutely don't insert myself into this.
Speaker 2: I think what's the benefit.
Speaker 5: It's how I look at it is the risk verse
Speaker 5: reward in the situation. It seems like you're risking the
Speaker 5: potential for a good friend, somebody that's already supportive in
Speaker 5: your life. It seems like you're risking that for a
Speaker 5: guy that I don't know.
Speaker 2: Do you like this guy? Like, do you want to
Speaker 2: see something move forward? That makes it? That makes the
Speaker 2: decision even clearer?
Speaker 3: So I should tell her.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you should tell her, but you're
Speaker 2: not yet.
Speaker 3: But this is someone that I would love to have
Speaker 3: in my circle, Like I think she's so cool, such
Speaker 3: a boss.
Speaker 5: No, I'm not saying I don't do that and don't
Speaker 5: tell her and hopes that it'll bring y'all closer, because
Speaker 5: that's just nasty work.
Speaker 2: No, I haven't told that because she'll side with.
Speaker 4: Him well a million percent. Do not ever respond, don't
Speaker 4: not even a thank you, not a like of hit
Speaker 4: I would. I would just stay as far away I
Speaker 4: could from that situation.
Speaker 2: Morning. What's going on, Susan? Good morning, guys, Good morning Susan.
Speaker 6: So Lydia, I have a question. Does this make you
Speaker 6: feel uncomfortable?
Speaker 2: Real quick?
Speaker 1: That's not Lydia, and I know it's a new voice
Speaker 1: that is so sorry. No, that's Anna Rob. Anna's the
Speaker 1: newest member of the Mojo on the Morning Show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: say hi to If you haven't seen what she looks like,
Speaker 1: go on our Instagram or you can follow her Anna.
Speaker 6: But she looks like Billie Eilish it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say, by the way, I slid in
Speaker 1: her DMS and said that exact same thing, and she
Speaker 1: won't respond.
Speaker 2: She's friends with my wife. He'll go ahead.
Speaker 3: Only I am uncomfortable because I know his relationship with this girl.
Speaker 3: Like if I didn't know about that, I would just
Speaker 3: be like, whatever, it's another guy, and I feel like.
Speaker 6: You should say something and just tell her like, so
Speaker 6: this is making me feel uncomfortable because we are I
Speaker 6: consider us friends. So and then she can take it
Speaker 6: from there and tell him like hey, like if she
Speaker 6: doesn't find it, you know, any type of eventive, then
Speaker 6: she'll just be like, hey, my friend doesn't like that,
Speaker 6: you know, stop doing that. Or if she does, then
Speaker 6: that's you know, that's.
Speaker 2: Where it leads. It's her problem.
Speaker 6: It's their problem, really, But I feel like if you
Speaker 6: feel like your friends, if you consider her an acquaintance
Speaker 6: a friend, then I feel like it is kind of
Speaker 6: your responsibility, especially if you want to build a relationship
Speaker 6: with her. I would feel uncomfortable if my friend never
Speaker 6: said anything to.
Speaker 2: Me about it. So you're saying, say something trying.
Speaker 6: To build a relationship. Yeah, but I would just like
Speaker 6: blame it on you, like, hey, I don't really like
Speaker 6: that knowing that you guys are in a relationship. You know,
Speaker 6: I don't know how you feel about it. I'm not
Speaker 6: trying to cause issues. But you know, like, you know,
Speaker 6: you're my friend. I feel like it's something I should
Speaker 6: be telling you.
Speaker 1: They're not friends though, Yeah, they're trying to become friends.
Speaker 1: That's what she's trying to do. Anne also says you
Speaker 1: should say something or but you say say something to
Speaker 1: him huh oh to.
Speaker 7: Him, Hi, good morning guy. I think you should tell him,
Speaker 7: be like hey, your wife or whatever she is to him,
Speaker 7: or just say hey, aren't you this person's husband boyfriend
Speaker 7: and kind of like mention it to him and be
Speaker 7: like if you don't, you know, kind of let me
Speaker 7: back a little bit, she will find out.
Speaker 2: I like that.
Speaker 4: I don't you don't even need the second part, aren't
Speaker 4: you so and so his boyfriend?
Speaker 2: Question? Mark done? Don't respond again?
Speaker 4: Yeah, if you say anything, that's a great thing to say.
Speaker 2: Sarah, what do you think Anna should do?
Speaker 8: My question is is why is he not blocked?
Speaker 2: Why is she not already blocked him?
Speaker 8: Yes, because if you already know that he is in
Speaker 8: a relationship with this woman that you're trying to build
Speaker 8: a friendship with, and you started seeing the lights and
Speaker 8: maybe a few dms, I would have immediately blocked him.
Speaker 2: But Anna also you have to understand it's not for yourself.
Speaker 1: She's not a normal person that's on the Instagram or
Speaker 1: on any social media platform.
Speaker 2: That's what she does for a living.
Speaker 1: She does like influencing stuff, constant creation, And can I
Speaker 1: be honest with you, like, I think if it was
Speaker 1: just the okay regular, you would just block. I think
Speaker 1: if she starts blocking him right away, I think I
Speaker 1: personally think he will go to her and go God,
Speaker 1: that friend of yours blocked me, and I was just
Speaker 1: trying to tell her, Damn she look good.
Speaker 3: He's also in the public.
Speaker 2: Eye, so he's also does this thing too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I try to I mean, not that I
Speaker 3: need to keep up with him.
Speaker 1: But I think you block him, it comes off red
Speaker 1: flaggy to her of why are you blocking him so soon?
Speaker 2: And what did he really say?
Speaker 1: Because if he just said on a picture, damn you
Speaker 1: look good, is he really saying something that is out
Speaker 1: of line?
Speaker 2: Probably?
Speaker 1: Well we know that, we know that, but he could
Speaker 1: play it off to her like no, and she'd probably
Speaker 1: believe him.
Speaker 2: Jamie, what's up, Hey, what's up? What's going on?
Speaker 9: Not much? And I listen, you.
Speaker 8: Gotta be a girl's girl.
Speaker 10: You have to say something to her and like, even
Speaker 10: if you just make it like a joke, be like, yeah,
Speaker 10: I've seen so and so come down my picture the
Speaker 10: other day. And I didn't know how to respond because
Speaker 10: the thing is this, relationships and friendships are built on trust,
Speaker 10: and going into this friendship without that, I feel like
Speaker 10: it's gonna hinder you later.
Speaker 2: If you guys are hanging out and he.
Speaker 10: Makes a pass at you in person, that's goulna be
Speaker 10: even worse.
Speaker 1: Yeah, be a girl, girls girl? Yeah you to hate that, keV,
Speaker 1: Why do you hate that?
Speaker 5: I know I'm gonna get attacked for this and I
Speaker 5: don't care, and uh, I need to have a well
Speaker 5: thought out description of why I don't like girl code.
Speaker 5: But my initial reaction is that a lot of times
Speaker 5: women only have a girl code because she's another woman,
Speaker 5: and it could be so many layers of it, but
Speaker 5: it's like, alf the time, you don't even know this
Speaker 5: person just because she's a girl. You're like, I'm on
Speaker 5: the side, there's a code. Yeah, It's like that's just
Speaker 5: weak to me.
Speaker 1: So you don't think that girls being girl having girl
Speaker 1: code is like bros before hose for the guys.
Speaker 5: I'm not doing that for no, rando, bro, just because
Speaker 5: it's got to be depending on our situation, because.
Speaker 2: It's there's some people out here who don't deserve grace.
Speaker 5: Not to say that, but it's some people out here
Speaker 5: who haven't earned the right I don't live by.
Speaker 2: Just because she's a girl doesn't mean I should like her.
Speaker 4: Honestly, so far, I think the best choice is what
Speaker 4: the caller said about just asking him.
Speaker 2: Hey, aren't you Although Sean's got a piece of advice,
Speaker 2: what do you think?
Speaker 9: Yeah? First of all, I don't think she should say
Speaker 9: anything because usually the women is going to sad with
Speaker 9: her man and he can twist the story.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 9: And also when somebody says something on somebody's story, it
Speaker 9: automatically goes into the dam right, So what if he
Speaker 9: not technically in your damn that's true? What if he's
Speaker 9: just responding to your story?
Speaker 2: Sean brings up automatically.
Speaker 1: Go to the etercality of yeah when you if you
Speaker 1: put post something and I like it or heard it,
Speaker 1: or if I write a comment like damn you look great.
Speaker 1: His damn you look great is like damn you look great,
Speaker 1: not damn you look great?
Speaker 2: And I want to what not do that?
Speaker 3: Only commenting on pictures or selfies of me, Like I
Speaker 3: post a million stories and things, and you're only sliding
Speaker 3: up or liking things where I'm dressed up or I'm
Speaker 3: doing something cute or posting a selfie.
Speaker 1: Maybe he's just not a big architecture of GUD. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but honestly, I think Shannon's right, and I
Speaker 1: think that that listener is right. I think that even
Speaker 1: just like, hey, hey, if he does it again, just go.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm friends with your girl. I hope you're
Speaker 1: very great.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Period, and honestly, just move on like that. And once
Speaker 1: he knows that's the case, then the next time that
Speaker 1: you do go and get to hang out.
Speaker 2: With her, he's going to feel very awkward. Watch all right,
Speaker 2: thanks for the advice.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we really gave you any advice.
Speaker 1: We kind of left it up in the air.
Speaker 3: But we'll see what's in that message next time he's
Speaker 3: in the too late.
Speaker 2: Now, how long ago did he put that in your DMS?
Speaker 2: Like a week ago?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't do it now, Now you look like
Speaker 1: you're acting weird stuff.
Speaker 2: You know, you gotta wait till he doesn't. The next
Speaker 2: time